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Anyone who is still going out 5 nights a week obviously doesn't even have a single plate. While I'll agree that 5 nights is excessive, it is advocated to save your weekend (Friday, Saturday, Sunday (day game)) to look for new plates.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 08:30 PM
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There is error in your logic. The best looking ones don't need text game, period.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 08:10 PM
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I have the Dover Thrift edition.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 07:26 PM
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She wants to think you were born with perfect genetics that your personality only built on by your natural love for activity and sports… They equate personality to how you make them feel. They could care less about the real you. "Ugh, he's such an asssshole, i shouldn't go over there but I can't help it! lol!" "John told me how he trained for 6 months for ONE race, and he doesn't even look that great. I wish he did more crunches" Hypergamy focuses on the IS, not the WHY or HOW. Women do not oper…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 10:13 PM
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Also, make sure your locked screen doesn't show notifications on it. I.E. You can read text messages without opening the phone, snap chat alerts, etc.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:51 PM
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Research Plasti-Dip. Do it yourself, girls love that shit.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:49 PM
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I asked because I don't want to catch anything crazy that destroys my SMV. Feelings are sorta like an STD.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:45 PM
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If you feel that you have something to lose with a particular girl, you’re no longer spinning plates – you’re thinking and approaching dating in terms of exclusivity. POOK’s great quote: “women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled by a faithful loser” A lot of guys (and almost every woman) have a big problem with the truth of this because they take it too literally. POOK was never suggesting that you overtly declare that you’ll be open to other options and that your girls should c…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:38 PM
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As if she would ever consider herself the reason for anguish.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:15 PM
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Thank you, I will check it out.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:47 PM
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I'm still finishing the book, but some parts really made sense to me even if I understood it previously. His writing added clarity. I enjoyed the segment on outer purpose compared to inner purpose as well as the "clock time" vs. "physical time". I've entered a 6 month monk mode (relocated) so that may play a part in me enjoying this book as well. I really didn't enjoy The Way of the Superior Man, that to me was too much pseudo-spiritual ramblings. Have any recommendations on a good book to pick …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:11 PM
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I've read it twice now. Any others similar to that?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:02 PM
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You can absolutely get in the gym with an injured knee. You said in a comment above that you work 27 hours a week, plus Uber driving. Are you able to save any money every month and put it towards a small financial goal of fixing your bike or taking a trip?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:38 AM
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Read. Read like a motherfucker. I just picked up both the charisma myth and the Power of Now. I opted to read The Power of Now first, is the charisma myth as enjoyable? This book has dropped a lot of insight on my thought patterns and hang ups on past mistakes, definitely a must read for anyone on this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:00 AM
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seduced her She definitely had the tingles by the end of this
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 08:20 PM
2

No amount of alcohol is worth your dignity.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:19 PM
3

You posted on the wrong account. Just a heads up.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 05:56 PM
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I am leagues ahead of this chump. If this was even remotely true, all attraction would have instantly been shot.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:51 PM
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Then decided to travel with her. They say you should always go on vacation/travel with a SO if you're ever considering marriage, it's a good test of your compatibility.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 09:08 PM
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This one? Another
/r/askTRP17/07/15 09:04 PM
6

Gender Differences in Risk Assessment: Why do Women Take Fewer Risks than Men?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 08:53 PM
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keep you around for sex Mate, sex is their currency. They use sex to get what they want from YOU. That was the BEST sex I ever had!!! Can you pay my car note?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 06:53 PM
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Absolutely. Iron Rule #8
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:14 PM
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My question is: is "plating" somethin that might help me obsess with one person less? Plating is great because your investment is spread out among your (potential) plates. Think about it this way: you are seeing or talking to 4 girls regularly. You only have 100% attention to give, so for arguments sake they each would only receive 25%. As for salvaging your relationship, yes you can save it. Review dread game.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:24 PM
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Women’s imagination is one of the best tools in a man’s Game toolbox, but this is so because Hypergamous doubt is also Hypergamous prospect. The same Hypergamy that predisposes a woman to opportunistic sexual strategy also drives her imaginings about its potential fulfillment by unfamiliar men. It’s far easier for a woman to imagine she should admire a man she doesn’t know than for her to appreciate a man she’s already familiar with. If you like Instagram, that's cool dude. Pea cocking works for…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:08 PM
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If you're a "big deal" on instagram, you're like an accessible celebrity to them. annnd if you don't have an instagram, you're not accessible at all. Hamster engaged.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 02:24 PM
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I appreciated your post and comments. I find the insight to be valuable. What are your thoughts on your friend who posts the blog though? Is he dishing out industry standards/insight for free? or is it more of a lets have an open discussion about X?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:03 AM
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Searching for a job is a full time job. Applying for ~60 jobs a week is low - what's your field and job description? I don't know your financial situation, but a part time job can be a good confidence boost and pad your wallet. How much networking are you doing?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 07:24 PM
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“Usually when people are sad, they don’t do anything. They just cry over their condition. But when they get angry, they bring about a change.” – James Russell Lowell “A wonderful emotion to get things moving when one is stuck is anger. It was anger more than anything else that had set me off, roused me into productivity and creativity.” – Mary Garden “Anger is just anger. It isn't good. It isn't bad. It just is. What you do with it is what matters. It's like anything else. You can use it to buil…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 03:52 PM
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E continues escalating her requests to have sex and generally ruining my night by blowing me up nonstop or 'bumping into me' everytime I move away from a group. I eventually am able to ditch her and I quite literally run away. Fat girls are the awkward beta nice guys with no game.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:06 PM
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Problem Glasses
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 08:01 PM
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Note to all: Embrace Channel your hate (anger) and be proud of it the results. I.E. Weight training, Job promotion, new skill or hobby.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:47 PM
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----> The Official Failsafe For TRP (it's right below THE RULES) Sidebar much?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:51 PM
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Both my male co-worker, myself, and our other various co-workers all followed the traditional path. We've spent long nights working, sometimes 12-14 hour days, no overtime pay. We each know our jobs inside and out for the most part. Out of six of us, no one is a senior level. A quote from /u/IllimitableMan from a previous thread "If you are a "perfect bartender" you will never become bar manager. They'll get someone who's bossy with shittier social skills to be the bar manager. Basically, be goo…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:20 PM
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Then why are you making this post?
/r/askTRP15/07/15 02:28 PM
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It saddens me how many guys here are willing to tolerate smelly pussy. Makes it easy to tell who's who, though.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 02:24 PM
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Jesus man. That's an ultimate attraction killer (for me). Just know that there are millions of clean, awesome smelling pussies out there.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 02:22 PM
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Occupational therapist? Absolutely not. Occupational therapy (OT) is the use of assessment and treatment to develop, recover, or maintain the daily living and work skills of people with a physical, mental, or cognitive disorder. I guess you thought OT means a psychologist, or simply therapist.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 07:58 PM
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He reminded her of her ex bf, no dice.
/r/seduction14/07/15 06:58 PM
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As a RP man, if you approached a girl on the street and asked her for her number and she said she had a bf, and refused to exchange numbers - I would walk away and never think about her again. As a RP man, if you approached a girl on the street and asked her for her number and she laughed nervously, and still gave you her number - I would certainly assume some form of attraction and text her again, most likely at a convenient time when she isn't with her bf and probably mad at him for something …
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:43 PM
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How many other plates have you added to your roster? It sounds like you were out searching to get laid, and the first girl that obliged has gained ALL of your attention. Because of this, you're more willing to deal with her red flags. She doesn't want to be just my "sex toy." What else does she have to offer? That would be the first question I asked myself if I wanted to be her exclusive BF. I'm going out to lunch with her tomorrow to have the whole relationship status talk with her. How does TR…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:39 PM
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I like relationshps, they're my style. Try short-term relationships.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 04:45 PM
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Aside from reading more TRP theory, is there anything else I can do to start to shift the relationship back out of the grey purple-pill area? I had an urge to text her this morning: "You're fucking adorable". When you feel the "urge", do a set of push ups or sit ups instead. If this is not feasible due to the current situation, train your brain to think about something else or text a friend.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 04:39 PM
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desperate He would respond sooner if he was desperate. Care to explain why you believe because a girl texts him, he should respond promptly and respectfully? Why does he owe her anything?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:33 PM
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Hopefully sooner than later you will realize that women love you for WHAT you are; before they ever realize WHO you are.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:54 PM
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Same shit at Penn State. They had dorms with cameras and RA's to keep the pussy in order.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 02:13 PM
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If it were me But it's not. How do you know Remy didn't frame this plate with strict logistic texting which is advised here? Not strange to hit up a plate once or twice a month.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 02:06 PM
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This all comes down to the fact that women need two things in their lives - thrill and stability. Once they've got one, they desperately crave the other. The housewives stuck at home with screaming toddlers and Dora the Explorer are seeing instagrammed club-hopping sluts come up on their Facebook newsfeeds, and craving that exhilarating lifestyle full of bottle service and dark triad dicks. Meanwhile, the instagram sluts are seeing the housewives posting wine night pictures with the hubby, and c…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:56 PM
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instant dread game, for starters.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:31 PM
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She really likes me and hates that she just moved in with the guy. I want make her my gf. Does a solution exist? Okay, first things first - you need to handle the living situation. Either let her know that she can live with you for free, or tell her that you will begin finding a place for her to get away from her loser ex bf. Next, make sure you prove that you would also make a good bf. Things need to be 50/50. Poems are a great start. Always let her know that she is on her mind, good morning an…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 05:47 PM
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I have never fallen in love with a total stranger Take MDMA again at a festival that your oneitis isn't at, you'll see. Also, be careful with that shit. The highs you feel come with the lows afterwords.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 05:24 PM
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I literally can't even describe how happy I was in that moment between the MDMA and being in her presence. No shit? That's exactly what MDMA and X do. They make you feel like you're in love with a total stranger. I want to be friends with her—she's one of my oldest friends, probably the closest I ever had too (though that was years ago now)—but not at the expense of feeling like shit in doing so. you don't want to be her friend, why lie to yourself and us? Ask her to hang out, escalate, and if y…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:34 PM
2

A Hero for me is someone you look up to, someone who lives like you want to live, he inspires greatness and is walking proof of what he preaches. Reminds me of the 2 older jacked (late 40's early 50's) guys at my new gym.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:24 PM
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I started out, still am, and will be always willing to walk if need be. You hamstring yourself greatly by sharing a living space. It can be done, but it's a pain. I enjoyed your FR, and I hope to see you continue to have success in your LTR.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:41 PM
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The worst failures a man makes in LTRs is to forget he has space and just give his LTR access to it. That space is what keeps her on her toes. Right. I was happy to see that OP is successfully leading the ship with this chick, but he's been in a LTR for a year and is already living with her? Shacking Up
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:09 PM
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when asked why I don't have any tattoos People actually ask you this?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:27 PM
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Because it makes you think about ramifications---the effect of a decision I can follow his comment regarding the red flags of tattoos on females. I do not follow why he cares if other men have tattoos, going as far as to state they don't deserve being employed. Is it in reference to the incredibly distasteful / poor placement (ink on your face/neck/hands) and stretched earlobes?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:15 PM
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AlamedanBreezyRep - 2 months ago Hahahahahah what bullshit is this, after years of getting pumped and dumped you decided that you need to find a long term partner before time ran out. Doubt any of you guys would disagree with this RP aware man. naturallybubbly - 1 month ago (edited) I usually don't answer to comments like these because I consider this a waste of my time, but let me say this: Engage Hamster I am one of the rare females left on this earth that goes out of my way to share my sincer…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:35 PM
1

more history about it
/r/askTRP08/07/15 04:11 PM
1

See /u/FelixCopy comment, and then reread the article.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 03:31 PM
1

The anger phase is a beautiful thing. Tl;dr: too many low SMV women makes me not even want to try. Anger Phase will net you incredible gains in self improvement (i.e. gym) Use these phases to get yoked, increase smv, pull hotter girls.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 02:40 PM
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Here he is slamming TRP
/r/askTRP08/07/15 02:26 PM
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I certainly miss the days when having tattoos made someone unemployable. Why? Honestly curious here.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:16 PM
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I wonder how many of these Japanese men would resurface if they didn't have instant, unlimited access to porn?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:51 PM
4

1-X girls you see every week. 1-X girls you see every other week. 1-X girls you see once a month (ports)
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:36 PM
1

You need her to think you are completely non judgmental.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 02:01 PM
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Law 13: When Asking for Help Appeal to People's Self-Interest Never To Their Mercy or Gratitude If you need to turn to an ally for help, do not bother to re­mind him of your past assistance and good deeds. He will find a way to ignore you. Instead, uncover some­thing in your request, or in your alliance with him, that will benefit him, and emphasize it out of all proportion. He will respond enthusiastically when he sees something to be gained for himself.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:21 PM
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When we meet up she always asks a lot of personal questions about me, my past, everything I'm also getting sick of the digging. You should be leading. You make it sound like she dictates everything you talk about, and even though you aren't happy and are getting annoyed, you allow it to go on. You've entered her frame, next time she starts up ignore and lead. Pressure flipping would also help - if you don't know how to do this ask.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:21 PM
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I think the title says it all. I was in highschool and I was craving for validation and attention all 3 years. Even though I somehow got it, it progressively made people more repulsive towards me to a point where I am barely in contact with any girls and my friends are only of the average tier in the school. Sounds like you just graduated high school? if so, good. The amount of contact you have with peers from high school is minimum. Now is the chance to reinvent yourself.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:13 PM
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You fell into her frame by responding at all, she baited you with her "rumors". The whole point was to elicit a response out of you. Didnt respond then she said about a week later says "It's such a shame u have a bad reputation already...for such a nice, good looking guy." "Ok" You explained too much, from reading this post I could tell that you do care somewhat, I would have too. If this was me I wouldn't be interested in even pumping and dumping this chick, proceed with caution. I've been slut…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 06:51 PM
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Cut the woman off, she's toxic for you. If it wasn't your dick, it would be the next guy in line - for your guilt. Don't pursue women who are in LTR's anymore - you live and learn. Also, in the future, never sleep over.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:48 PM
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sucking cock while earning a degree vs. sucking cock while earning nothing
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:46 PM
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Here's the full parable. In the Cherokee world, however, the story ends this way: The old Cherokee simply replied, “If you feed them right, they both win.” and the story goes on: “You see, if I only choose to feed the white wolf, the black one will be hiding around every corner waiting for me to become distracted or weak and jump to get the attention he craves. He will always be angry and always fighting the white wolf. But if I acknowledge him, he is happy and the white wolf is happy and we all…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:52 PM
1

You give them alcohol, at your place - never buy and supply if you wont be partaking. Throw a small party with the right ratio of male to female.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:29 PM
2

Yes, but you never listen to what they say, you watch what they do. Keep in mind they say it as we are hanging out...
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:31 AM
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Yes, they will most obviously call you out on it if you see them regularly (once a week).
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:46 PM
2

Lube too, forgot to mention that but I'm sure you'll have on hand.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 08:13 PM
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Have fun dude, it sounds good. Once you've got them sitting down, talking, whatever... kiss the one who recommended it, then kiss the next girl, then have them both kiss each other. Lead it. Gonna strap up? Talk to them about changing condoms between penetrating. Have wine and a little pot available (even if you don't get down, they might and it will help out a lot).
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:43 PM
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Ignore it. You were too direct, her ASD is full force. If you're fucking her on a regular basis, you don't necessarily need to state your intentions anymore. You left out too much context though, it could just be another comfort test.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:39 PM
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We are oddly similar, and I had a hard break from a girl that I cared about a lot too. A lot of it was my ego man. Because of my actions (drinking/lying) she tore me down. I was crazy on proving her wrong (her opinion of what kind of guy I am), and proving that I could be great for her (again ego). PM if you need to talk. I haven't heard someone describe my situation so eerily close. Even the IG random compulsive investigations... /sigh
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:33 PM
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I mean if you're looking for LTRs, you might just have to man up and be honest. ...In due time. I can only see telling them the truth right up front back firing.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:10 PM
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Provide us with an example of what you would say, than.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:07 PM
2

She goes back to Chad because she loves him. She always did. Thank god this is simply fiction. Chad never commits.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:52 PM
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doing acid for the last 5 days to deal with the pain of losing me Say no more, my friend.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:50 PM
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Text messages are for logistics only Feels really good when your plate comments on how you never respond to her texts as she's leaving your place.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 06:24 PM
2

No. You can still game GDI's (God Damn Independents) - they will give you shit tests on being in a frat, but you have so much dread and pre-selection (makes it worth it). Figure out who the top tier frats are (the ones who get the hot girls, have the biggest parties). If you join a low tier fraternity you'll end up with fatties. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 05:37 PM
2

Check out /r/ketogains
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:58 PM
1

I wonder if now in my late 20s, it is too late for me to go the marriage route. Just because you are getting older doesn't mean the girls you date do.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:34 PM
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Pretty sure he said that because of all the banning from fat people hate.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 03:28 PM
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Nice bro, excited to hear how you lose your virginity.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 08:11 PM
1

Read receipt is all you need to send.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 08:09 PM
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/r/alreadyred
/r/askTRP18/06/15 08:07 PM
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yeah, this dude is way too invested already. She's 19 - OP, grow some balls and say whatever the hell you want.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 07:56 PM
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Yeah, don't.
/r/seduction18/06/15 07:45 PM
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It seems pretty diabolic but girls are crazy so it actualy makes a lot of sense. To give them the benefit of the doubt, they will do it subconsciously. Believe it or not, what you said was a common "agree and amplify" response to "how many girls have you slept with"? Saying embarrassing stuff is bound to happen on xanax mixed with alcohol, I ask that you proceed cautiously. I told my GF that I loved her on that stuff. THAT was embarassing and hurt me much more than what you said. Cheers.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:18 PM
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She is alredy career obsessed, this honestly scares me. She's not making enough money to be "career obsessed", unless she is working for a Not-For-Profit Org.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:34 PM
1

The next morning said female "jokes" with me about how I said something along the lines of, "yeah don't worry about STDs, I just got tested and I'm fine, which is a miracle because I've gotten a lot of strange over the years". Did she stop you in the moment? If not, proceed as usual. It was a shit test, apologize and you fail.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:29 PM
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All men should have a cause that they actively do but don't talk about. Should be a motivational poster for cross fit gyms across the globe.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:18 PM
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When she said she would work till late and wouldn't go out after, my brain went all like "Abort! Abort!" and couldn't think of anything after that. Work on training your brain to think "she has to work late and doesn't want to go out after" if you get rejected, and simply move on.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:15 PM
1

Spoken with true experience, I can relate.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:13 PM
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/r/hiphopheads
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:23 AM
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Pretty sure what the dude is implying is if he had low smv, the girl would be insulted and call him a "creep". Low SMV dudes who go up to hot chicks asking to see tits? I think that is what the dude you're talking with is implying.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:46 PM
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Great field report OP! Hope to see you share more. Just a quick note Drop a "you have beautiful eyes" here I'd advise against complementing girls on shit they have no control over I.E. eye color. Complement her on her effort she put into her makeup, or outfit. Hopefully you get the idea.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:35 PM
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Perfect time to acquire your own, although I would go with a 9ft table over bar size. I love my Brunswick
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:32 PM
3

You have shitty game and you're not charming. Sorry dude.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:23 PM
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He's simply writing fiction. The points still stand, but he is a writer appealing to the demographic.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:57 PM
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All the hipsters I know are alpha as fuck /s
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:31 PM
1

That whole comment thread was gold man. Some RP wised man roasts her. I would circle back if you missed the debate.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 07:49 PM
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Girls also wear dresses, do you do that too?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:13 PM
1

Dance Monkey Dance. Look it up.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:11 PM
1

Is she coming to you after she finishes school? Read this article: http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/askTRP13/05/15 04:22 PM
1

Septic tanks are installed where the ground is too hard.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 03:51 PM
1

It is a thing. No conversation log. Easy to cheat if in a relationship.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 03:29 PM
2

No it's not important to have Facebook. These are simply tools to utilize if you so desire. IMO, Instagram is the easiest way to show off value, without any bullshit details where family and co-workers may find you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:56 PM
1

TLDR; some chick that i've never met but lives close proximity added me on social media - best way to initiate contact? Curious what your thoughts are on this situation: Got a friend request on Instagram (same type of shit as facebook, maybe less personal?) from a nice little 22 year old who's coming back to my hometown once the college semester ends. I was able to make this out by viewing some of her pics / captions. What's my best route to initiating contact with this chick? I've had huge succ…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:52 PM
1

You read that because it prevents you from acting needy / and or putting the pussy on the pedestal.
/r/seduction09/05/15 02:21 PM
3

bouncing pay well? No.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 02:34 PM
1

My instinct is saying "getting used, whether or not she may be slightly interested outweighs her only real interest which is exam stuff" but I don't want to appear arseholish and not give her the stuff because then I totally wreck any opportunity. Your gut is almost always right, learn to trust in it. Do you want to appear like the guy that she would consider fucking, or the guy she uses to pass her classes. Invite her over to review the documents in person, and make a move.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 05:42 PM
3

I was also much more explicit about what I wanted her to come home and do with me. I do this too. I'll tell my plugged in friends what I've said, and they immediately dismiss me calling me an idiot, etc. They are almost always stunned when they see the results. Yet, they refuse to adapt my strategy. More for us.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:21 PM
4

I just wanted to share my 2 cents. I enjoy stern, and sometimes quite harsh realities - They motivate me the most. I certainly understand not everyone else learns or grows this way.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:17 PM
3

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards."
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:42 PM
38

Actually, it just goes to prove that women only care about certain aspects of a mans life based on his status. First draft D1 College Football player, QB at that? I don't give a fuck what you drive. She would be caught riding on the back of this crab stealers pegs. Average dude with a scooter? what a CREEP.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:35 PM
2

You're going to be just fine moving forward. The fact that you realize where you went wrong and are willing to make an honest effort to fix it speaks volumes.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:32 PM
2

Right on man. Since you're aware, you're ahead of the game. I failed miserably like OP did in the past. If I would have kept my mouth shut, and allowed her to imagine what she will thanks to the good ol hamster, I may be plating her again. But in the end, these chicks are something best left in the past. Good luck bro.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:30 PM
2

That's not so bad. This was how I view it. Since she suggested you guys go out, she really should have at least agreed to splitting the bill 50/50. When I first read this, I thought that you may have suggested to her I.E. "Hey its my birthday, wanna go grab something to eat?" where in all honesty, when you invite someone out with you, you should be willing to front the bill. It doesn't sound like she wouldn't have contributed at least what she could afford - but be weary of the trap of them bein…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:27 PM
7

Pretty decent idea, but I believe this sub could use more HARD truths. Realise that you are valuable. You are a human being, capable of unique thoughts and insight; you have a wealth of life experience to apply to any situation that presents itself to you; and you have a healthy body capable of realising those ideas. Every human being is capable of unique thoughts and insights. This is similar to the special snowflake tripe which we all know is PC bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:12 PM
2

Sounds like you can do better, but if you wanna pump and dump go for it. Nothing more powerful than a man who can say no to some dumb slut in regards to sex.. remember that.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:09 PM
3

I'm curious how many of the above would it have taken for you to set your boundaries, or next her immediately. I don't have any reference points for these types of actions. It's honestly hard to say, because your actions painted you very beta and emotionally needed. I don't mean to be overly critical or harsh because I can tell that you're trying to turn things around for your next relationship. She asked me out to dinner for my birthday and somehow I ended up paying. What happened here?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:43 PM
2

I understand this isn't advancing TRP theory in any profound way. Just hoping people can call me on my shit for still being hung up on someone who treated me like this. Honestly my friend, it's not that you don't see them as easily as others... it's that you don't respect yourself like the majority of humans on this planet do.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:37 PM
4

give you a second shot at the pie. No women will ever give me a "second shot at this pie", I will take it if I so wish. THIS ^ shoulda been OP's attitude.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:06 PM
5

I'll see her again and that I am working really hard on myself. This worries me. Too many people get caught in self improvement just to show that one girl that they've gotten so much better, they will surely give me a chance! If you do see her, please show her no attention. she WILL notice you and the changes you made. Let her think about you more before you bother approaching her if ever..
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:04 PM
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The only thing this chick deserves is the pump and dump. Im not asking specifically what you would say, but when she asks again how do you keep stringing her along without revealing any intentions? By always saying less than is necessary. LAW 4
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:02 PM
4

Because he shares his living space with this chick. I surround myself with people who build me up. You should too.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:59 PM
1

Really insightful comment, thank you for that. I've been sacrificing a lot at the moment by living at home with my elderly mother and father, saving as much money as possible to eliminate debt that i accumulated in a failed (but valuable) business venture. I have also been applying regularly to positions of one step higher than my current position. From what I understand, the best way to gain more money is to switch organizations and to move vertically. Besides the obvious expenditures that are …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:36 PM
9

I would consider a trade skill if you think you would enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:33 AM
3

Great list. A fun exercise would be to put the opposite quality, or green flag attributes; Que slowly hanging your head when you realize no woman will ever possess them.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:40 PM
3

Beware of transgender on tinder. This one sounds like a dude, no offense.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 02:48 PM
3

And what do people here tell him? If you close your eyes and imagine, any girl you fuck can be that blonde HB10
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:35 PM
2

I kept telling myself that one day I will be good enough for them. I do not really want to date any of them, just prove to myself that I am good. I think that you need to read more theory. I am in a much better place after those two years. I became fit, am slowly learning to be sociable, do not suffer from depression anymore, my social anxiety is much less, I am progressing at my career, I have many friends, many girls showing interest in entering relationships with me, etc. Enjoy the process. T…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:32 PM
1

Her: "as long as I don't have to perform any mistress duties" Why bother seeing her now? Anyhow lots of back and forth and very intimate questions from me to her etc to make her open up and think about those thing and get her comfortable with me saying really random things. Nothing intimate about text messages. Consider your medium. Build rapport in person, nor are you establishing attraction this way... While you're asking her about her dreams and wishes, Chad's asking how far she can deep thro…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:37 PM
8

Make your intentions know or suffer the consequences, choice is yours. The next time you see her is your last chance if that ship hasn't sailed already.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:04 PM
13

From the comments: [–]Everyone_is_taken 53 points 14 hours ago This guy is an asshole and you deserve better. [–]throcx30[S] 0 points 5 hours ago i honestly don't know if i can do any better [–]Spliffyjay4 2 points 5 hours ago Bullshit, don't be a pussy. Anyone can do better than that fuck [–]throcx30[S] 1 point 5 hours ago trust me when i said i tried in the past Couldn't make this shit up.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:09 PM
63

As yes, beware of life changing events. These include: -College -Graduation -Grad School -New Job as in OP's post -Moving towns -Friend becoming single -Friend becoming engaged -Late period (panic ensues) -Early period (relief) -Traveling/Vacation -Dying her hair -Manipulating her hair (dreaded pixie cut) OP, thank you for being this girls emotional tampon for the past month. You have served us right by typing up this field report and reporting back based on this dumb broads behavior. You are no…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:17 PM
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I know what I have to do, I just can't cross the line to do them. can you guys please help me. No. Fuck you dude. You may not believe in yourself but you made this post and that's the first step in your journey to being the man you wish you were. I believe in you. You already identified where your weaknesses are, start there. There are no short cuts in life. There isn't anything anyone can say to you that will suddenly make it click for you. Motivation is fleeting. Discipline lasts. Either you d…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:05 PM
1

have nothing but their looks going for them. They are hedging their bets on investment into a male based on they know the wall is coming. This makes sense to me too. It sounds like this women in particular is rewarded with external validation through actual achievements... not just being born with a vagina. No need to apologize for writing at length, I appreciate the time you took.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 05:46 PM
2

The only people not benefiting are those looking for relationships. I agree with everything you said up until this. Sure, some shlubs are going to be getting sex with post wall women... But the men who have their shit together will be fucking the prime meat.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:50 PM
1

Did you ask her to go out with you? If you invited her, it's not bad to pay for the first time. If you started to hang out regularly and you always paid, it would be an issue.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 03:43 PM
1

Good attitude my friend, you'll be just fine.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:05 PM
1

She sounds unstable, and a slut that didn't respect you. You can do much better.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:52 PM
2

Why do you keep calling her an "alpha" female? Alpha women believe they can stand side by side with our fellow man. They are the women in your workplace who think they are a valuable asset in business when they are just a burden. They are the strong, independent wooooman who doesn't need no man. Self proclaimed alpha females are unattractive to me.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:39 PM
1

Apparently they weren't allowed to see the movie due to age restriction, so they snuck in. That's retarded?
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:34 PM
1

Is it possible to be a girl's AF and then be put in the "friend-zone" afterwards when she finds her BB? If you are AF, you're still having sex with the girl. If not, you've been nexted.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:32 PM
1

Does not allow or need male orbiters. Curious, what makes you believe this?
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:31 PM
2

I personally find self proclaimed "alpha females" unattractive. Amused Mastery, they are only girls after all.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:30 PM
1

No reason you can't maintain your muscle mass with body weights and cardio to keep your body fat low. You can bike, shouldn't put any strain on your neck. Good luck with your injury; don't rush it and end up sitting on the sidelines longer than you already have too.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 01:56 PM
2

I posted my comment when the post was new and you hadn't had a chance to answer any questions, etc. It seems that you were able to lead very well in your relationship with your wife and to keep a happy and healthy marriage. Good work with your boys as well, your son will be alright.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:44 PM
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I’m 54 married for 26 years made my first €m by 25 My eldest has what I thought was a great GF, quite like my wife I got married after 16 weeks. You and your son have more in common than you think.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:59 PM
13

My stupid gut is making me feel something is up!! LOL. Luv u babe maybe tomorrow? sweet dreams xoxo
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:26 PM
8

Congratulations on getting your balls back; now all you need to do is eat some fucking meat for me to not consider you a big gaping vagina.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 07:22 PM
3

Quality over quantity. Find a few good friends that you can go out with you, or that you can talk about women and relationships with. I'm sure the friends you mentioned above have value outside of relationships and females... don't discuss that with them.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 06:41 PM
1

It's never the right time, stop protecting yourself from rejection by saying i'll try when I lose 5 more pounds. Stop putting off what you can be doing TODAY.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 06:06 PM
6

Yeah, pretty much. It's even worse seeing beta's interact with their gf's in public. I thoroughly enjoy my red tinted view of the world now. Besides reading these forums weekly, having a beta friend in real life is another great tool to keep from regressing.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 02:58 PM
2

Why would she want to be together with you when she gets all the benefits without giving you anything?
/r/askTRP13/04/15 02:54 PM
1

Photo op (opportunity)
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:22 PM
1

Absolutely man, always assume attraction. Girls love confident men. If she turns you down, no big deal - you need to demonstrate that you can lead with her and that you're not scared. You've only talked to her for a few seconds; how could you possibly say shes out of your league? There is still plausible deniability - you use "when are you free" because you're not directly asking her out nor are you suggesting a specific date for her to shut you down. You will know her interest level depending o…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 07:24 PM
2

I posted this response to something that you may relate too. I, like many other men on this sub grew up with the same Paradigm of the "American dream". You know, the big house with the white picket fence and cute, happy, loving family. I thought it was my job as a man to work endlessly to provide the "good" life to my wife and children. My wife would love me unconditionally, she would have food on the table when I return home from the office and the house would be clean and my children would be …
/r/askTRP09/04/15 05:53 PM
5

TRP is also about self improvement. What's your mission in life? The West wants you to believe that having a girlfriend or plates is where it's all at. Guess what? It's not.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 05:32 PM
2

My diploma says: X STATE UNIVERSITY
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:36 PM
5

Too bad they come with their own set of baggage and fucking problems.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:32 PM
10

Because it's masculine. I plated a bisexual girl and I could not fucking stand hearing this bitch talk / or text with her as she was a tumblerette and thought yo, bro, & dude was cool shit to say.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:30 PM
2

She loves attention, just like the rest of them. Fire up a tinder account if you haven't already and tell her you're just adding friends - see how she takes it. You're still very young and inexperienced in relationships. No offense, but every kid your age on this forum seems to think they have it figured out. Please don't confuse TRP with anger and bitterness. That's just a stage that people go through when seeing the world and women for what they really are. The language we use here is for a re…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 04:22 PM
1

Me: 'Joana!' Me: 'How could they take pictures without you' She: 'seems like they could.. I'm ashamed!' Me: You're lucky another photo op is in your future. When are you free this week?
/r/askTRP09/04/15 04:12 PM
4

My wife lets me spit in her mouth and do some pretty degrading shit to her. Hey... I thought I was the only one.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:32 PM
4

I handle this by demanding the type the exact type of sex I want so that even if I found out some horrible truths come out I'm happy with the result. Exactly man, who's really to blame for not going after the sex they wanted. If OP really wanted [Sex Act] so bad, he should have made it happen or found a girl that would tolerate it. Not tuck his tail between his legs and say "OK, maybe next time..."
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:27 PM
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I would like feedback on what I can do better in the future after an f-close and what my next move should be with this girl right now You didn't mention in your post following up after you slept with her to get some documentation in case she cries rape. It's fucked that I need to mention it but every dude should be aware of these tools after sleeping with a girl for the first time. Met a 9 over spring break. I'm open to something a little bit more substantial with this girl Why do you want somet…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 08:33 PM
1

i feel selfish denying her of something that really gets her through a touch college day. You know how good head feels after studying all day? /s Sorry buddy, can't have your cake and eat it too. Find new girls to become romantically involved in and see if you even want to keep her as a friend.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 08:18 PM
3

All good. Just keep this in mind, when you are in your prime (33-34) she will be 40. Have fun with her and report back though.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:32 PM
2

I'm sorry that my advice wasn't encouraging you - which is the whole point of this post, right? As a 27 year old in his prime, you should for sure date this 33 year old post wall girl. I'm talking to more women than you can imagine And all of a sudden you don't know how to date a 33 year old? Treat her like she's 19. But you knew that too.. and have multiple dates lined up, all aging from 19-33. I'm doing alright, don't worry about me too much. Pertinent information should be included in your or…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 03:14 PM
2

Here's the catch: I went on Tinder to match with other girls after the date, to try set something up in case things fell through with her or didnt go any further and noticed that the girl I was on a date with has unmatched me Lot's of advice regarding tinder to unmatch once you get the #. Do you really need her to be asking you why you were recently on tinder or vice versa? Who cares. Can I text her in a few days saying I want to come over to hers and watch a movie with her or should I not text …
/r/askTRP08/04/15 03:05 PM
3

So I ask TRP, does real value trump 'Social Market Value'? Sorry, but no - it just doesn't work that way. Perceived value is much more powerful.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:55 PM
2

most definitely a former 9 or 10, If you have seen some of my previous posts. I'm 27, just coming in to my prime, wealthy for me age (net worth $1m+), have a sick lifestyle, top 20% body, getting better, plus thanks to this sub my game is getting much better. side from all this humble bragging, specifically do you guys have any advice for dating women who are older than you, 6, almost 7 years seems like a reasonable gap at this age, but she is still keen. I am not sure what I think about everyth…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:50 PM
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No, but why even break up with her if she had no qualms disrespecting you so much? Fall off the face of the earth and see her hamster self destruct. She will be looking for some form of closure, don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:44 PM
2

I can't help but agree with a majority of what you said. Sounds like OP is creating a nice little safety net to avoid rejection, or is simply missing out on so much opportunity by not giving it his best. Either way, I'm one who loves the chase / effort in bedding a girl I've been gaming.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 01:31 PM
1

How do I go on about dating women without any social circle? A lot of guys on here and other PUA sites encourage going out solo. Keep reading cold approach field reports and give it experience. You've excelled and reached your full potential academically, there is no reason with the same effort you can't be confident socially.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:37 AM
2

I agree with what you said about our age range.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:27 AM
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What does it say when a pretty broken woman has the audacity to reject you, and literally turn around and do worse than you. How can I not be offended and shamed about that outcome. Different strokes for different folks Do I give a fuck if a crack whore isn't into me because she has daddy issues and will only fuck black dudes and I'm SOL because my skin color is white? Fuck no. I'm the prize.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 04:54 PM
1

Sounds like she's pissed you outed her on being your fwb. Only way for you to regain power with this chick is to walk away and fuck a new one. You're not conveying that all you wanna do is fuck by ending it with "chill under the covers". Lastly, you both talk like retards. ah ha sheeeeeeeeeeeeet
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 04:48 PM
3

“Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character; watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.” -/u/yoyoz69
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 07:15 PM
1

I enjoy using direct openers, it's strong and the girl knows what's up right away. For indirect openers however, I often get suck into a boring conversation, i.e work/interview question It seems like you already know what works and what doesn't work for you. You shouldn't be getting stuck into a boring conversation, you should be leading it in the direction that you want. Since the first interaction might only be 10-20 minutes and leads to the number close. I assumed the testing phase is where y…
/r/seduction01/04/15 07:08 PM
5

She then stopped replying to texts (unlike her) I texted her asking her about a friend of hers whos not well what happened, she didnt reply. This is why you leave texting to logistics only. Why do you care so much about her friend? How is talking about her friend helping you get closer to the lay? How is taking her to the movies a good date idea - you should be moving forward with your escalation every date. And guys if you are dating and are unsure of someone, make sure to have 2 or 3 Absolutel…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:34 PM
2

You're allowed to have bad days. You probably weren't feeling confident with the clothes you had on, or were not feeling your hair etc. Superficial reasons. Pick up some new threads and hit the town and see how you feel.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 03:20 PM
2

Plates are there to satisfy your needs. Teach her how to make your cum, or find a better plate that can.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 02:49 PM
4

You were ice skating, this is VERY easy to do - pretend you suck and need her to keep you up, skate next to her and lock arms, tease her about being better / worse than you, "attempt" to make her fall / push her from behind to go faster. Lots of ways to get kino started in this specific date. Another pointer about dates, and more importantly first dates... Do not text them after saying you had fun. This works for two reasons. First, you should be scheduling a second date if you are feeling it IN…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 02:41 PM
1

I will definitely look into it. Do you have any materials on Anger?
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:44 PM
1

Excellent PDF. Thank you.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:00 PM
-1

You are too concerned about the actual $ amount. OP is failing to establish boundaries with his SO and it will inevitably come back to bite him. The ideal outcome here would be for her to feel bad that she was careless about her remaining balance and want to make it up to you and not let it happen again. Being a leader doesn't mean you jump down somebody's throat at the first opportunity, it means you inspire them to be better. I take it you're still working on your leadership skills then. I see…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:20 PM
3

I agree with you, to a point. I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. Did I get my tattoos to get girls? Hell no. If a girl makes a comment that she finds tattoos unpleasant, does that crush me? Fuck no. Same goes with beards. If you like having a beard, grow a beard. If the first girl you're talking to gives you shit about your beard and you cut it off, you are doing everything based on the outcome. This sort of behavior is very anti-TRP theory.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 05:56 PM
1

It sounds like you are talking about the laws of attraction. The law of attraction is the name given to the term that "like attracts like" and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative results. This is a inherently blue pill mentality.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:47 PM
-2

Ignore her. If you're leaving the restaurant, and she starts talking to you, turn the radio on / up.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:26 PM
8

I wouldn't have ate it if my BF didn't buy it!!!
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:10 PM
-1

After we left I said "You owe me $10. This is not to happen again, if we agree on something keep your end of the bargain, I don't date people that are untrustworthy." I said what needed to be said, but my SO wanted to keep talking about it. She doesn't back down because she doesn't believe you'll actually follow through with what you say. You don't need to explicitly state what I bolded above, unless it is her first and only warning. Apply some dread to your LTR. I say what needs to be said, and…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:05 PM
1

Good Job. This is what happens when the girl enters your frame. More of a worried/caring Girls thrive on drama. The more up/downs and emotions you can make her relate to you (happy/sad/excited/unsure) the better off you are.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:56 PM
6

I'm impressed by her introspection, I've rarely seen it from her but it's good to know she's actually capable of it but it's a little to late. They are just words my friend. I once broke up with a 3 month fling. She said "I Love You" as a last ditch attempt to get me to stay - I dodged a bullet. Don't look back.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 01:59 PM
3

My question is, are there any techniques for getting people to respond promptly that you use when sending texts? Call. If they want to talk to you, they will pick up or text you back. If they don't, assume they are busy.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 01:55 PM
7

Both individuals obsess over their macros/diet and make their lifting/sport/conditioning their life. That wasn't a good example.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:28 PM
4

Sounds like you're describing my facebook feed. Fast forward after marriage, maybe a kid or two This is the true test. I didn't get fat, the baby made me fat!!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 08:24 PM
10

First mistake is discussing your finances with your LTR. Never discuss your finances with a girl. I get it, you're proud of the year you had. I've been there too. Got a promotion and came home to tell my lady, she ended up turning the conversation around about her and the lack of fulfillment from their job. they only care what this success will bring to them. Secondly, party girls are not good LTR. Lastly, why did you feel the need to tell her exactly what you were doing? Next time, just tell he…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 03:07 PM
1

Comment and participate in the discussion, that's how they allow you to post.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:37 PM
9

Cold Showers; The mental strength that it takes to force yourself to stand under icy water is the exact same type it takes to cold approach.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 06:25 PM
4

At 20 partners, something interesting happens: you start to forget the details of each encounter. At around 20 partners it began to occur to me that I could no longer recall the names of everyone I'd slept with, nor the exact circumstances of how the encounter occurred. That may seem like a bad thing, but it's not. It means that getting laid is no longer a special thing to you, and as such your anxiety levels when interacting with women will drop. So true. It shifts from remembering every little…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 06:22 PM
1

What's the activity?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 04:07 PM
1

How many hits do you plan on taking? LSD is a personal favorite of mine.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 03:10 PM
1

I'd also like to add a little to your solid comment. To me, thirst is doing ridiculous things for many women in the hopes that something will come out of it. Escalation is used when attraction has already been established.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:44 PM
1

Okay cool, I can see your point of view on this. It makes me think back to some of my own experiences, and if a family or parent had anything to do with a connection expiring.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:40 PM
2

What happens when you say "no"?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:26 PM
1

Why drop and take xanax? That's an interesting combo.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:19 PM
1

Obviously, if you continue to see her, there will likely be conflict. How so? I really don't see the Father being an issue to OP. Yeah, when he picks her up he will have to bullshit for 5 minutes. Who cares that the Father wants her to find a decent husband? If OP maintains frame, he can continue on as he pleases considering how this girl reacted.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:18 PM
2

How would you act if it was a guy friend that did this to you? Treat her the same way, pretty simple.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:10 PM
3

I deleted the contact and am not planning on confronting her about it. Just curious how you even know she actually gave you a wrong number? She's a new employee at your job. Maybe she just moved to the area?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:37 PM
2

Thank you, i've never been to Europe or Britain and I appreciate learning more about their culture. Does your game need to be as tight as here in the states?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:45 AM
3

Mind explaining your point of view?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:09 AM
1

them student loans...
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:42 PM
2

"why are you working out so much?" Who really asks that question?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:40 PM
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Insecure, most likely.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:13 PM
0

No, they are just better at lying.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:12 PM
2

No problem. Use the betting and light teasing for drinks. I won the first game of pool / bowling so you get the first round.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:15 PM
2

What are your career plans. Do you plan on earning a masters or PhD? You need to be aware of hypergamy - women don't date down.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:14 PM
6

t's just meet me at the local billiards/bowling alley where we could shoot some pool or bowl. Great location for a first date. Makes it easy to initiate kino (show her how to shoot), allows you to sit next to her instead of across a table, and there's a pub to grab drinks from. I guess I'm looking for some AWALT validation and some pointers on how to proceed/what I should expect. No such thing as a "good girl" Make it fun and light, bets can be fun but I wouldn't make your first kiss out of a be…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:06 PM
3

Her response was "because <single guy> and everyone will be there. This is where she over stepped her boundaries correct?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 07:35 PM
5

This should be at the top
/r/askTRP26/03/15 07:00 PM
5

tongue-in-cheek admiration of the BF beta traits. Underutilized tool for gaming girls in relationships. Great stuff here. You can see the hamster panic when you lay it on thick.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:55 PM
1

poor guy got married.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:52 PM
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She wants you to try and qualify yourself for her affection and time. Don't bite. Ignore her, pull away and do not be affectionate, stop listening to her, walk away (basically apply some dread) when she brings him up or something that he did - it's irrelevant now.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:50 PM
1

Are you sexual with this girl? She's probably using you as an emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:38 PM
2

"What is your schedule like this week / next week."
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:37 PM
4

I remember reading a thread about a dude who did MFF and was cool with it and just couldn't handle seeing his wife get railed by his buddy. This could potentially back fire.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 05:27 PM
2

This post screams troll but fuck it. Fighting is a sign of passion. What was the fight about? Perhaps you're just not compatible. You sound like one of those self proclaimed alpha/strong woman, maybe he prefers submissive girls. There are plenty of men out there who would rather just be next to their girlfriend Men lead, quit with the feminist bullshit.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 05:24 PM
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First off, you were hanging out with this plate way to fucking much. Keep it to once/twice a week, any more and you are inviting the feels. You messed up again by having this conversation via text. Sure, it's not worth a huge investment but a phone call woulda went way better. I laid in bed yesterday, and felt disappointed a bit hurt and annoyed but also kinda liberated and felt that the new and improving me is coping with all of this very calmly Lastly, stop explaining yourself. You told her wa…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:09 PM
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How do actual assholes manage to bed women constantly? Proof is in the pudding, she came back for seconds no? Work on acing the shit tests thrown at you. She shit tests me and tells me about those cute guys she sees at school, I fake interest and actually start asking her about them. This would have worked if she actually believed you could possibly be interested in her. She was hoping you would reconsider her via social proof or some sort of wack dread game. You asking about them just reinforce…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:56 PM
10

I learned a ton of vocabulary from playing video games when I was growing up.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:47 PM
6

External validation, mostly.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:06 PM
6

I'm certain she took that many pics too. Too bad, the first thing I thought was that she doesn't have great nipples.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:06 PM
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I was giving him a hard time because it shouldn't be probably, it should be a guarantee.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:46 PM
1

Don't take it personal. Girls are fucking fickle man.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:29 PM
1

For whatever reason i've found the sweet spot to be 23 - Experienced enough but not considering marriage, babies, or any of that bullshit.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:28 PM
2

Age has nothing to do with plates I disagree. Girls closer to the wall will push for commitment sooner, be less willing to be viewed as sluts, late 20's girls are the worst.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:27 PM
1

But how should I act, what vibe should I give off? I know it's childish and petty, but honestly, she hurt the fuck out of me and I want her to regret her decision. Have a hotter girl chilling with you at your place when she shows up.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:25 PM
5

That won't work. That'll just make her hamster that cheating was OK (not that she won't hamster it either way)
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:22 PM
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I'm going to spring break this week too and I will probably hook up with a girl who has a boyfriend Can I take one of your points away?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:21 PM
1

apply dread game by not being available for awhile, say something along the lines that it's disappointing when I can't expect a response from you in a timely manner - I've made other plans. Do this, except don't explain yourself. If you do jump into a LTR, I wouldn't expect things to change. What makes you think you're not just a plate to her?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:20 PM
1

Apple introduced recent contacts for the app switcher (aka multitasking menu) in iOS 8, useful for quickly calling and texting your most-contacted friends and family. Good luck with this. Source: http://ios.wonderhowto.com/how-to/remove-recent-contacts-from-iphones-app-switcher-ios-8-0156435/
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:06 PM
1

Yup. First half was ok. Second half was too much
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:01 PM
4

I think he means the girls roommate
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:01 AM
2

1.) NMMNG 2.) Rational Male 3.) 48 Laws of Power 4.) Meditations I read them in this order, I haven't read the other ones you mentioned yet. I did read the superior male, I don't recommend it.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:24 PM
3

You will come at me for being a pussy for getting dejected and you are justified, but I feel distraught. Is this a case of when a woman thinks she accidentally fucked a beta? Is it because I couldnt fuck her properly (due to lack of practice I was shit)? I mean there is no reason why she cant meet me. Fuck this. I feel like crying and feel so helpless. Why are you being so critical of yourself? Stop viewing the world as a defeatist! You met a cool girl, and got to fuck her! Who cares if you didn…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 01:39 PM
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he self identified as "blue pill as fuck". Telling him not to bother with an ex that he had oneitis for and still harbor feelings for. If he can fuck her with out reverting back, i'm all for that. Otherwise, we should encourage him to be a better man.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:32 PM
1

You're not getting what you want out of the experience.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:11 PM
1

Did you swipe right on her for tinder.... did you guys match? I wouldn't speak about the concert night ever again, or bring up finding her on tinder. You did nothing wrong, and it just seems like she may have been insulted by the lack of acknowledgment. (This could very well work to your advantage)
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:58 PM
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As in... "lol stop, you're so bad ;)" informing him or a stern get the fuck away from me? This isn't the first and it won't be the last douche to hit on your GF. This is not your place, she needs to shut that shit down immediately or you leave her.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:52 PM
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It's hard to gauge interest because if she's bored and you message her, you're entertaining her so why wouldn't she go along with it. Let her message you first, go radio for a little. See how your date goes next week. If she flakes for whatever reason do not go to the party and delete her number.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:46 PM
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She's a grownup and she should do it herself. No, she's the most responsible teenager in the house. I'm her partner, her lover and her equal. And that's why she was so cold to you. In the five months I was with her, nothing pointed me at this shit. Traveling with a girl is a surefire way to test how compatible you are. fter her stern words, I made a promise to myself to not do it anymore in front of her face and if I would do it per accident, just throw it away instead of eating it. Jesus man, i…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:00 PM
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She may try to initiate conversation, in this case I want to be in control and complete RP about this situation. Don't text her back. I know it's not what you want to hear, but it's your best move.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:47 PM
1

Dude, college is expensive and she needs all the gifts she can get! I needed someone to talk to and I wanted to talk to her since in the past I would talk to her after having a horrible night and she'd help me feel better, nothing wrong with that right? Very wrong with that. A man needs to be strong, never complain to a woman She doesn't message me first, but I did it a few times and we've talked for hours when so. The guy she likes never responds to her text messages, so she has you to keep her…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:31 PM
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It's been a month and I already was up front with her with my views on marriage (not getting married) It's awesome that you were upfront and honest, but doing so will often flip a switch in MANY females in regards to pursuing you / wanting to see you again. Me: I must not have noticed, My kids had my attention. No response the rest of the night. Was it really asking to much to make eye contact with her and give her a wink? I don't blame her for not responding, you gave her nothing to respond to.…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:24 PM
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Your gerbil is strong bro. The whole time I read this it felt like you were trying to convince us all that they are "just friends" and that this guy is just an orbiter "giving her attention" and not his cock because your dread game was super tight and nice. You have balls for going through her phone. Next time, don't look if you cant handle what you see. Me: "do you want to talk about your feelings?" her: "no" me: "ok" we both kind of smile and laugh a little Cringe. Next I imagine you wanted to…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:13 PM
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Her: Oh shut up. You're trying to be intimidating. It ain't workin for ya Pressure flip, find out if she's dom or submissive in the bedroom. Have fun with it. Push for a meeting asap or i'll agree with the rest of comments and bet that you're wasting your time.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:05 PM
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Some shits not adding up. "how if we fuck , your bf will never know" things along these lines while they are at work He said he was just joking and that he doesn't think he had ever seen her before and thought it was a different girl etc.' If he isn't sure who it is/was, how does he know she's in a relationship? You fucked up by getting involved period. If she was truly bothered, she could file sexual harassment (you say it's at work on campus) If she does nothing/lets it be, she likes the atten…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:00 PM
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Other users left some solid advice for him, and I actually agree with your point for younger gens. High school - college / grad school. I speak from my own experiences after you begin your career.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:48 AM
2

Try this, blocked for me at work. https://www.google.com/search?q=roosh+v+day+game&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8#q=roosh+v+day+bang+pdf&spell=1
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:50 PM
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Just to jump onto /u/karmasutur3 solid advice... Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:48 PM
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How old are your pictures that she didn't know how long your hair was? FWIW, I would be pissed off if a girl on tinder had long hair and showed up with a pixie cut. For now I won't write anything. I wouldn't. Let the hamster work for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:20 PM
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But when I shared my new-found motivation and goals with my relatives what they had to say was "Now you remembered it? NOW? Aren't you a little late to the party?" Never share your goals or ambitions with anyone. http://www.ted.com/talks/derek_sivers_keep_your_goals_to_yourself?language=en
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:29 PM
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That wasn't a definition. And you still failed to explain where you derived "you didn't really hit it off" from I asked you in my initial comment, has date #2 been scheduled yet?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:38 PM
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I don't understand your logic. What makes you so convinced that she's not simply shy, timid, and inexperienced? AWALT; I'd rather be cautious and edge on to the side of her not "simply being shy, timid, and inexperienced." She's not throwing herself at me, therefore next her? It sounds like a great way to focus on girls who are truly interested in you. That seems like a great way to end up with women with high partner counts. Only if you're stupid enough to commit.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:23 PM
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I am verging on ditching him as it's been months and i cannot force attraction, and i need to focus on myself and other prospects. Do you plan on lying to him when you decide you've had enough?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:55 PM
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What can I do to make my social media presence more "attractive" to members of the opposite sex? Delete your fucking accounts. Nothing drives the hamster better than being off the grid.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:49 PM
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Your only hope is running into one of these girls in person and showing her your changes subconsciously. Anyways, texting is for logistics only...remember?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:46 PM
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I think I might be looking at weeks or months of sexless dating with this girl, and I might never get there. However, the potential payoff is quite high, so I'm willing to invest more time in her There is no payoff. It sounds like you guys went on a date and didn't really hit it off. She doesn't give into your questions about relationships or love because she doesn't want to tell you no or get into with you. What do you believe are the reasons she doesn't want to get into it with you? Do you bel…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:38 PM
1

We're hanging out this Saturday -- I prefer to not talk too much between now and then. Ignore her texts or... If she texts you some BS about her day, reply before bed saying "oh no, lets talk about it Saturday. You're still catering to the BP mind when you feel like you're going to lose a girl by not responding to her text message. We talked about that night and we agree to just "have fun." It is almost never this for both parties involved, tread carefully.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:31 PM
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Show him this comment, maybe it will help.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:25 PM
2

Which was the title of this post, Marriage and Spinning Plates.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:02 PM
1

He will have to learn by himself. Yup. He has to be the one who wants change, not you. TRP has to be constantly applied, it takes effort to change the way the mind believes things to be. It's not something you can skim through and immediately get, nor is it something that can be watered down. Show by example I.E. You know Dave and Cathy? I think she sticks with him even though he seems like a jerk because of X
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:59 PM
1

how is that leaving her better than you found her? The government will make her better than he found her.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:37 PM
2

I just can't stand that woman using my father's money. Your dad is taping that pussy in exchange for money. It's his money but it just stings knowing that he'd rather help someone else's business instead of his own children and wife. You're a 30 year old with a home, wife, and child. Earn your own money and stop crying about your dad living his life asking TRP on how to proceed so you can get a fatter inheritance. What happens if/when your father removes you from his will? Your mommy is fully ca…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:40 PM
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It's good. It's emotions. How could it possibly be good to have a plate cry after you fuck them? Huge red flag. There is also a possibility that she cries to manipulate you into making yourself emotionally available to her. 100% this.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:42 PM
1

Usually it's X times 3. So at least 18.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 03:34 PM
1

Emmanuelle Chriqui, such a fucking babe.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:17 PM
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If OP has never had that happen he doesn't have the perspective. Right on man. I see this often too with the people who say NAWALT. Sooner or later, the hammer will fall.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:57 PM
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She will continue thinking about you, you are in a position of power once you stop having all them feelz for her. Something to keep in mind about the Number thing. You may find a girl who you're comfortable with a number of 5. She didn't count 4 guys because it was in the backseat of a car and he didn't come. She didn't count the guy in mexico because it was spring break and she really doesn't remember what all went down. What a woman says is just hot air.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 08:02 PM
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But I kind of feel like I'm coming off as a jealous insecure beta You are being insecure. Work on that, or don't get into it with your future prospects. he lie wasn't that big of a deal yet I made a big fuss about it b/c of the principle of the thing, and I still don't believe she told me the truth about her sexual past. If she lies about this, she will lie about other issues, issues you will consider to be a bigger deal. Demote her / run dread game.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:33 PM
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Before you think I'm some beta ass faggot who sticks up to every girl ever, nope. You're a beta faggot for trying to prove yourself to strangers on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:16 PM
2

To them I say skip college and pick up a trade.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:02 PM
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Let's also not forget what college is REALLY for. Building connections. Hard to beat Ivy League Fraternity connections.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 05:46 PM
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"The highs aren't so high, but the lows aren't so low"
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 04:51 PM
2

Just keep A&A or pressure flipping it when she brings it up. Next time she sends a pic of some dude say "Yeah most guys don't usually look and just mass swipe. Think he will keep the match after he goes through your pictures?" Fire up the hamster.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 03:24 PM
3

Wish you coulda told us what movie you saw and how it was. Where's the value in this post?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:31 PM
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She's protecting her own ego by trying to flip the script on you and pretend that she doesn't need you. It's expected that women will do whatever they can to save face.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:28 PM
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Is she trying to tell me I'm her best choice right now? Is this she trying to plate ME at this point? What's going on here? She is doing multiple things: -DHV -Prove to you she's looking to commit -Trying to pull dread
/r/askTRP18/03/15 01:58 PM
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makes them feel like I'm giving them the attention they need to stay spinning Don't be confused, you are projecting your own feelings.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 03:36 PM
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If it happens once a week, you've made it a point to say this behavior is OK.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 03:30 PM
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Last night she came home at 1:30am What was she doing and do you believe her? snuck into bed (she did make an effort to try and not wake me) How many times has this happened? I don't know the right rp path here Regardless if she stays or not, don't back down. Stick to your boundaries. Reiterate that it's her last chance if you want to give her one. Next time you're out with her purchase a blanket and pillow and look at her and say I purchased these for the couch for the next time you decide to s…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 03:18 PM
2

Why don't you spend some time at your GF's place?
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:54 PM
1

My first (and pretty much only) relationship was a year ago, it only lasted 2 weeks. You need more real life experience with girls. I still want that blue pill dream of finding a girl that actually loves me for who I am (and not for who I would be pretending to be if I did absolutely everything TRP suggests). Chances are, as soon as you find a girl that takes interest in you, you'll pedestal her, she will lose attraction, and TRP will come full circle for you. I guess I'm just confused about whe…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:49 PM
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Or they could have concrete examples and real life clashes with BP minded friends like OP. You're shaming someone for shaming someone, great strategy twat.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:30 PM
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I'm just wondering where the line is between holding a strong frame and forcing her to reopen the conversation; is it better or worse to help the girl out when she's clearly struggling? Depends how much effort and investment you want to put into the girl and conversation. It's good to lead the conversation, sure, but I find that asking questions and letting them banter on about the topic is a better approach. This was amazingly powerful... Freezing them out is a great way to judge their interest…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:29 PM
0

AWALT?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:24 PM
1

I know a slut would jump ship, but a woman who is equally as invested as you are, surely she would have some decency? haha I chuckled too.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:22 PM
2

Met a nice Christian virgin girl last year ... but she lost her virginity to a drunken one night stand with frat boy on campus. Started having sex with me but hid me from that fact. She sounds really nice man. Now you know how females truly behave and you can see them for what they are. AWALT. I know what I want in life, to have a successful career with a virgin wife that I can settle down with and have kids with, a simple traditional life. This just isn't the norm anymore in the west. You aren'…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:19 PM
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Would you? I'd handle my meal on my own and meet up after I already ate if what she was having didn't sound good. Date girls who can take care of themselves.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 07:40 PM
0

Feel her out. If she acts entitled or doesn't put out then next her. Who knows, maybe she'll offer to pay for the whole thing. Look up maslow's hierarchy of needs. Food comes before sex. Wait until you have harem of 5 women before you start expecting them to provide food. He has food. She doesn't like stuffed cabbage. Should he discard his meal that he made for himself because some bratty child doesn't want it?
/r/askTRP11/03/15 07:02 PM
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she asked if i want to get something to eat. i said i already have stuffed cabbage at home = let's eat here. she texts back "idk if i'm in the mood for stuffed cabbage. let's go out!" Okay, there's a really close McDonalds. Pick me up a double with fries on your way here.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:33 PM
2

As a more experienced man, are these qualities a dime a dozen? No. Some of them are atypical. Some immediately made me NEXT her in my mind. You need to realize though that your opinions and ideas of this girl are just that, ideas. You will never know how a girl truly is until she is yours. She's going to a club... you could be in for a world of hurt if you truly learn her true nature. AWALT no exceptions, understand this mate. When you have a girl so high up on a pedestal, the only way they can …
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:31 PM
1

Try to get away from the mentality of seeing a cute girl and not acting immediately. All this planning and thinking about how you are going to execute is fucking you up. If you see something you like, go for it immediately - less planning more action.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:18 PM
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After class, I meet a 'friend'. He is my wingman. No, no he's not. Stop relying on other people to assist you in life. My 'friend' drops a bomb. He tells me that she is into the other guy. WTF ! The guy in a total AFC. My plans shattered. I'm frustrated. You're way too invested into a girl that you've yet to isolate 1 on 1 or take out / hook up with. Take the pussy off the pedestal! The only thing you are right about is that Self Improvement IS tough. If all your effort and focus is towards winn…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:02 PM
1

I've never been in a situation like this and I'm wondering what's the best way to go about this. At the moment, I've decided I'll just deal with the relationship question if any of the girls I'm seeing or will see bring it up and until then just not talk about it and enjoy my time with them. Bingo. Never bring it up first and be prepared to diffuse the shit test when they eventually do ask what you are. Plates don't spin forever, either.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:57 PM
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My case of oneitis led me to TRP a three weeks ago. Been reading the sidebar and other posts like a monk and could really use some help. You're not ready. Members have been reading and practicing RP theory for over a year and still fail with their old Oneitis. http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/how-the-sunk-cost-fallacy-makes-you-act-stupid.html Killing the inner beta takes time & experience. You may be able to be alpha for that first date, but your beta will come rearing it's ugly h…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:37 PM
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I tried therapy and they put me on meds that just made me hyper It is very common to go through multiple medications before you find what works for you. I suffered from isolation, neglect, deprivation, and abuse from my parents growing up. I understand why I am the way I am: My brain is bruised and scarred due to my life experience. Ask yourself, are you a victim of life or a conqueror of life? Women play the victim card. Men overcome.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:09 PM
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my actual question though - how do I motivate myself to actually pursue women? When I'm horny I just rub one out and get on with my life. Stop jerking off.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:55 PM
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She's pressure flipping everything you say and you're entering her frame. Suggestions include: Use non verbal ques to express your dissatisfaction with her. Stop arguing with her period, don't make it into a discussion. Make it a statement. If you told your child to go to their room because they're grounded and they said "NO YOU GO TO YOUR ROOM" how would you handle it as an adult?
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:04 PM
3

I want to tell her that I love her, but I know that I can only hint at such things by way of my actions rather than by way of my words. The man never says "I Love You" first.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 01:57 PM
1

Don't listen to what they say, watch their actions. Feminists need dick just like every other woman. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:43 PM
1

Sounds like you fucked up and lost a good one. No social media and barely on Facebook? She's not getting tons of validation from social media and was looking towards you to build her up and make her feel comfortable. The men who frequent this forum and take everything literally are sheep.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:26 PM
3

This isn't a pressure flip, this is A&A.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:29 PM
1

She just suggested going out dancing. If she suggests this in person, smack her ass and ask for a lap dance.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:28 PM
4

before I'm trying to fall asleep. Start pretending to snore, loud. She'll get the hint.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:27 PM
3

girl still owes me money (couple hundred) for groceries etc while we were dating. It's done now, and I need to hard next. What's done now? Is she a still plate? Or is that what you are referring to being done? for groceries Do you know how many men would like the money back that they spent on food for a woman? What's the best way forward? Hard next and just say eff it? If you're still on good terms you can try and get your money back but I wouldn't hold your breath.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:24 PM
1

use bodybuilding.com for all your supp needs.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:21 PM
8

How long have you known this girl? she was telling me how she doesn't have sex with guys who aren't her boyfriend Bet you hear this line again. It just sounds like she's into you and she's worried you won't text her back or talk to her again because she thinks by giving you sex you'll give her commitment. I would send her a few comfort texts just incase she really hamsters the regret and claims you raped her.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 02:24 AM
1

Before I leave in the morning she says 'you know I don't care, right?' I reply 'not much we can do it about it now' said goodbyes and left. To me, this may have been her saying "oops, I bled on you". She may have given red wings to other guys and thought that you may have felt uncomfortable FOR her. Women put themselves first almost always. My fear is that I've broke frame by being vulnerable in this situation. I was unprepared for this. She still wants to hook up again, is that a win for me or …
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:55 PM
4

While it is arguable that The Red Pill is a simple sexual strategy, I have found it to envelop so much more. It is a lifestyle to me, and one that I will not be abandoning now that I have found it. Amen. The majority of men that find the red pill were sent searching for answers due to the women in their life (or lack of women). Thus, this is their first and primary concern. I know I don't need to mention this because you have the discipline, but don't eat that cake. Stick to your diet and liftin…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:03 PM
1

In ~4 months she'll finish college and (in theory/theory) she's gonna move here so things should improve pretty fast then; but until then? So you're gonna have her move in with you? Does she have a job lined up? What about friends? You realize every thing that goes wrong for her once she moves to be with you, will be your fault right? Read Rollo's article "letting go of invisible friends" http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:46 PM
2

Throughout most of human history, it was common for men to leave for months or years at a time, communicating only with letters (or not at all). This was before the rise of feminism. Are you suggesting that this type of behavior would be suitable in today's time?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:42 PM
4

Honestly it sounds like you are finally seeing woman for their true nature.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 06:10 PM
6

People including myself go to bars solo to pick up all the time. Are you new here?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 08:19 PM
1

You have such a serious looking face Just wait till you see my O face.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 12:54 AM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for – women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t se…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 12:53 AM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for – women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t se…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 12:53 AM
1

Are you still hung up on your ex? I only ask because you went through all this effort to make the post and could care less about the new girl. I wouldn't read to far into this, nor would I think much about your ex anymore either.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:26 PM
1

There are plate theory posts on the main sub side bar... but here are a couple quick and easy suggestions. Keep your interactions to 1-2 times per week at max. Don't hang out with her if you're not gonna get any... no lunch dates, meeting between classes, etc. Don't let her sleep over or vice versa. Texting for logistics only. Don't bring her around your friends/family or hang around her friends/family.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:17 PM
2

Couple quick questions... Does your ex follow you on Twitter? Is the new girl hot? Do you want to bang said new girl?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:13 PM
1

I'm tall, nice face, juiced up as fuck but that shit has NEVER once worked for me. The only thing that ever worked is constant approaching, even if it means I get shot down a ton. I've heard before that I can be "intimidating looking". Perhaps this is your situation too. Keep approaching and keep crushing.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:11 PM
1

Make sure negs are apart of the demographics (targets age). There was a good post about a week ago breaking down the age groups and how to talk to them. Otherwise... check the tone of your voice, your body language, and the flow of the conversation - if you're connecting with her there may not be a need to randomly insult them.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:44 PM
5

To jump on this, don't be ambiguous. Make your intentions clear that you're interested sexually.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:41 PM
0

I know plenty of hoes who can cook / and or clean and I still wouldn't LTR them up.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:49 PM
10

I swallowed the Pill a little over the year ago and have embarked on the self-improvement journey. Even though it has been extremely difficult and I am still nowhere near where I want to be today, the difference in me is astounding. Don't lose sight of your goals. Keep lifting every damn day. Do NOT go through the motions, every day counts. It is not your place to force feed the pill down your friends throats. Sooner or later, these men will ask what went wrong. Most men on this forum have. But …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:55 PM
3

Find new pussy and move on. Stop worrying so much about what some dumb CC riding slut thinks about you. You fucked her twice - you won that game. You tried to get the third lay by manipulating her into thinking you had real feels for her when you don't. (but you do, be honest) Trying to change the power dynamic back to your favor isn't really the move for you, but to answer your question... game new girls in front of her.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:36 PM
1

Gerbil is strong in this one.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:05 PM
1

I am thinking that I have emotional baggage and I can't express myself sexually with girls I am attracted to. Note that I was grabbing a girl's ass an hour ago, but that was just ''fun''. What the hell man? You claim you have emotional baggage because you didn't make out with a girl while petting her hair like a dog? This isn't a case of emotional baggage, this is a lack of experience. Start off easy. Brush your hand, arms, and legs against hers. Use your hand to squeeze her thigh or arm when yo…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:51 PM
2

Have you brought up being exclusive with him yet? How old is he? What makes you believe a young 20 something "true alpha" like you described is going to want to settle down?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:45 PM
2

Bullshit, woman are just as narcissistic. Ever browse through social media, specifically Instagram? I wouldn't suggest it - It's toxic. All these 7's and 8's believe they are 10's through fishing with selfies. Once you're aware of what's going on, you can easily tell which girls are feeling particularly lonely / dying for attention.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:28 PM
9

Everyone here knows that lifting is priority #1.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:23 PM
1

That may also be because your friends haven't been unplugged yet. As a man who is unplugged, i've found that in almost every instance in pursuing a LTR with a female she will ruin her chances by showing behavior that is undesirable. If don't want to get dumped don't let your gf think she has you. Right, make your GF think she NEEDS you.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 01:44 PM
1

Don't send another text, maintain frame for tomorrow. If she doesn't text you back and you still want to see her, text her sunday and arrange to meet.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:53 AM
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Straight from the Rational Male: I’m sorry to break this to you, but there is no such thing as a long distance relationship. That’s correct, you have no relationship. An LDR simply does not meet the criteria necessary for it to be considered a legitimate relationship. There is no reciprocity of anything more than words passing over a phone line or an IM text. Understand me here – you have no relationship. You have self-assumed accountability, self-assumed liability and internalized responsibilit…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:38 PM
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It's called "trickle truth". Theres more where that came from... remember the small details of her stories and see if they change.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:31 PM
9

I find the number after some digging and sent her a text that says "Guess what I found" with a picture of her name and number she wrote me and no response. What do? You failed this shit test. I would have turned to her and smiled and said sorry, I don't save numbers of girls that I haven't been out with yet, what days are you free this week. With the right confidence and body language you would either get a date and move on or realize her true nature and interest level in you... win / win.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:29 PM
2

No I don't think so. As we all know with Hypergamy, woman date up. If woman have a UNI degree... BS degree or what have you, they will only be attracted to those males with Masters and PhD degrees. So to your point, the men with higher education will have the same chances. Those who don't pursue anything past a bachelors will be left behind.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:23 PM
1

I thought about another man being with my woman and said to myself, "fuck no!" If I'm going to be in a relationship, no other man is with her. Then I realized something, this is what she wants, if she wants to be with another man, so be it. I will not fight her desires. I will use them to my advantage. If she wants to be with another man, I will be with MANY other women. Excellent attitude. Once you start plating and sleeping with other woman, you won't even know why you considered keeping this …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:20 PM
15

If she complains that things are shabby, that her friends are doing better, that she is unappreciated, or underpaid, that she works harder than others and gets less, that other women are bitchy and gossipy and that she does more than her share of work around the house these - are all complaints about status. What are some strategies that a man can adapt to deal with these work related situations? I've come across dozens of woman with college educations working dead end jobs. They complain that t…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:16 PM
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The general abandonment of the slave morality of modernity I, like many other men on this sub grew up with the same Paradigm of the "American dream". You know, the big house with the white picket fence and cute, happy, loving family. I thought it was my job as a man to work endlessly to provide the "good" life to my wife and children. My wife would love me unconditionally, she would have food on the table when I return home from the office and the house would be clean and my children would be we…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:06 PM
9

EDIT: General questions I see often, not my questions.. How many chances should I give this girl? She keeps flaking! My GF / Plate told me I need to wait X amount of time before sex, what gives? Where are the best venues to bring a girl on a blind date / First meet up? How do I get her Number? My GF says she's on the pill, do I still need a condom? Im suffering from depression. Is this something I can talk with my GF? She takes too long to respond to my texts, am I doing something wrong? What's …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:49 PM
10

Her attraction as well as my gut It's amazing how accurate our intuition is; if something seems fucked, it most likely is.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:43 PM
32

it's 50% off. Some chick posted it as a moment saying fuck this.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:24 PM
1

Join something co-ed.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:40 PM
7

I was never under the impression that you should approach just anyone - just the ones you find attractive / interesting.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:15 PM
5

Remember the "leave them better than you found them" mantra.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:14 PM
3

Keep it up man, you're doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:11 PM
6

7 months later: 6'1" guy, making 205k a year, dressed awesome, great body, low body fat, standing straight, confident voice, stoic but can turn the charm on, gina tingles guaranteed. Impressive stats if you ask me. You didn't include your age, but did you only give yourself a 8.5 because you're taking into account millionaires / Professional sports players? Steve Buschemi Face perhaps? Good job mate. I always kept a healthy 60% (male) - 40% (female) friends/acquaintances ratio. What do you mean …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:44 PM
2

nothing helped my outcome independence more than that year of abstinence I believe you. That year most certainly showed you that you don't need outside validation or a lay to feel like a man. Now that you have the tools to get it, you can truly gain "the prize" mentality. Maybe next time she won't lie about her period.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:26 PM
1

It's cool man. No such thing as too many questions, it's what this sub is for. Please be sure you read everything on the main sub and side bar. You don't bring this up, ever. Never ask a girl a girl what you are, it's always their job to do so. Pretend that the conversation never happened, and talk to her how you would normally. If you want to see her, tell her to meet you at X at Y time. Losing frame happens, when it does - never acknowledge it.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:23 PM
2

No. "Yeah, I haven't had nightmares like this since NAM!" with a shit eating grin. "Is this the cause of all my constipation lately?! Make her feel stupid for insinuating that what you have going on is so bad.. she secretly loves it.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:02 PM
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Imagine paying $9.99 for a service to match with bitches JUST for validation. They added that feature. Any girl can say she lives in NYC when she actually lives in bumble fuck just to see how she would fair. Now we have fatties lying about their age & location. No thank you.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:32 PM
1

Hey bro, girls in relationships are easier to game. You need to focus on yourself. Focus on school work, the gym, and join a club. Please join a club, you will have a chance to make both male and female friends.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:25 PM
1

think about the morality of doing this in regards to TRP. Use the gear and get fucking jacked if that's what will make you happy.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:21 PM
1

am I doing the right thing to ignore her? Yes you are doing the right thing by ignoring her. She KNEW you were leaving tomorrow. She KNEW she was never making it to your apartment. What she doesn't know is that you're killing your inner beta and will no longer tolerate undesirable behavior. Your inner beta is taking her words seriously. She can say she's sorry all she wants but at the end of the day she would rather eat with her girlfriend then see you, before you leave for weeks. A good girl wo…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:14 PM
1

Not sure. Are you positive the plate actually dropped? "You know, i've done this stuff before, and it always ends up badly" is a shit test. Agree and Amplify or pressure swap the next time it comes up. Soft next her and go no contact. I bet she will hit you up to hang soon.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:09 PM
1

Don't sweat past mistakes man, ENJOY your last 13 days and if she comes around she comes around. If not, try and bang a new girl in those 13 days... what do you have to lose?
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:06 PM
1

It's the same blue pill mindset where writing poetry or pouring your heart out will win the girl. He thinks if he says all the reasons why you're wrong for her (which works to your advantage) will open her eyes and she will see what a gem HE is.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:04 PM
4

what do you guys do about jealous orbiters? I've seen two strategies for handling these guys. The first is to just ignore. ALL girls will have some guy that wants them that can't have them. Be secure in yourself, if this guy tries to put you down to her while you maintain frame you'll be in the best light. The second is more for LTR but turn the guy into a fucking joke. Never act threatened and anytime he comes up in conversation or when you go over to her house crack a joke about how you had to…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 04:33 PM
2

I was wondering what I did wrong. You didn't provide enough detail to give you any sort of answer, but my best guess is that you did not provide her the commitment that she thinks she deserves. This is to be expected, plates don't spin forever. This plate was an amazing lay(and my first) though It's nice to be sentimental. Losing your virginity to a girl is great and special in that moment but a few years down the line it means nothing. If your first lay was "amazing", you're in for a treat.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 04:10 PM
1

in her defense, she said it was the last day of her period and i didnt want blood on my hands so we just cuddled. Sounds like typical ASD and LMR. should i be mad/spiteful At yourself, yes. You had a threesome with this chick, and she comes over for a movie and she doesn't touch your dick at all? although she pleaded with me to stay. If she is really on her last day, morning sex should have been on the table and I would have pushed for that. should I just continue to play it cool and schedule on…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 04:03 PM
1

should I just look on the Internet and say like: "Meet you at random place at 10pm"? Yes. Use Yelp. Worse case scenario the place sucks and after your first drink you move to a second venue. (it's good to bounce around a lot on dates)
/r/askTRP03/03/15 03:52 PM
2

He's probably implying that lifting will improve his SMV
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:56 PM
2

Selecting yes on everyone
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:55 PM
3

I doubt i'll hurt my game cuz that pussy is cheap easy and abundant. AWALT. In this case you KNEW you were better which likely lead to no fucks given in this encounter. You didn't feel pressured and did and fucked to the beat of your own drum. Keep the same attitude with a hotter chick and report back.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:54 PM
1

10 swipes, wait 24 hours...
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:42 PM
4

I feel like with a solid 7 or 8 I would act differently. Careful mate, treat them all the same.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:41 PM
2

Percocet 30mg
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:29 PM
2

I have a feeling this will just make the females more selective in the "likes" they dish out - Which will only hurt the average user more.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:15 PM
1

As for dread, be a closed book. I would much rather use the hamster to my advantage by letting it run wild in all directions than point it in one where it'll meet its destination faster. Makes sense. I'll give this a shot.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:03 PM
2

Thank you mate, I will check out some of your previous posts.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:02 PM
1

I should add that I live 45 minutes away from this chick, we made plans in bed after sex. I didn't appreciate the fact that she canceled. If it was from a girl that I hadn't met yet I would know to next and move on.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:02 PM
1

Great sex, 2 - 3 times a week
/r/askTRP01/03/15 08:58 PM
1

Thanks for the reply Blake. I can see why it seems like I may want to date her, she's the newest addition and my interest is higher over the two other girls i've been seeing. I've been trying to kill the "needy" vibe that I feel toward this one... Should I not see her for a bit?
/r/askTRP01/03/15 08:26 PM
8

Ok shows low interest on your part - you did fine.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:37 PM
1

Iron Rule III Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Revisit this.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:01 PM
3

Finger blasting a chick in the mall parking lot? Ahhh to be 16 again.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:57 PM
1

How many room mates do you have? Do you have your own bedroom? keep your personal spaces as clean as possible. Try to go back to your prospects place instead.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:31 PM
7

Law 13 When Asking for Help, Appeal to People’s Self-Interest, Never to their Mercy or Gratitude If you need to turn to an ally for help, do not bother to remind him of your past assistance and good deeds. He will find a way to ignore you. Instead, uncover something in your request, or in your alliance with him, that will benefit him, and emphasize it out of all proportion. He will respond enthusiastically when he sees something to be gained for himself.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:07 PM
1

Parents wont let you have a girl over in your room..?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:52 PM
3

FWIW mate, you think you're the only guy she messaged first?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:46 PM
3

my hitta my hitta.. this guy gets it.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:45 PM
-1

Read the title so you don't waste your time?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:45 PM
1

How old are you? Has she had sex before?
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:28 PM
1

Always assume attraction mate.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:24 PM
2

I'd also consider your vocals.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:13 PM
3

I prefer to call. I've added it to my tinder strategy and i've only had one girl not pick up, but she called me back 30 minutes later. In my opinion they love it. It absolutely sets you apart and gives you an upper hand that texting can't. Just don't chat for too long. When I talk to my friends about this in real life they say they hate calling and they get scared and "hate being on the spot". Don't be them.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:10 PM
2

Where to go from here? Outside. Apply what you've been learning. Talk to everyone you come across. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:45 PM
1

It sounds like you don't actively participate in activities with your friends. What do you guys do? Are your friends and you all into rock climbing, fishing... you get the point. I used to be similar to you in that I would have a plate come over, drink a little, watch some TV, hook up and she would be gone. If you don't feel like bringing these girls out into more active activities, maybe drop them and start fresh.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:21 AM
1

Is there something that these people have that make you value their opinion? Have you considered some martial arts to alleviate some of your stress? Since this is TRP and you should be lifting - I've found that channeling these "painful feelings" before lifting the weight off the rack is exactly whats given me some of my best work outs.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 09:00 PM
2

I agree with /u/fnordsnord here. I'd maintain your frame with not playing games, and pretend that whole conversation is behind both of you. If you're still unsure of the approach, you can message her establishing you know who it is and who you are again, and judge her interest from there before inviting to meet up.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:38 PM
1

Appreciate the post and your input. I'm in my late 20's and my best luck are college seniors and grad school girls. Phone calls are my go-to, I've found great success with them. I need help with the ratio of texts. The effort girls put forth in their messaging is pretty terrible... perhaps I don't have enough influence or give them the tingles enough to send a message, and then follow up with another question if i don't respond immediately. Any further advice? It's not that I'm a boring person i…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:34 PM
0

Run
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:18 PM
1

Have you seen a picture of her BF? How do you know he even exists? I wouldn't cancel, unless you're not attracted.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:17 PM
2

Thanks for sharing mate, I especially enjoyed the ending.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:52 PM
1

Every time I see in the bio i'm not here for a ons, fwb, blah blah I can't help but roll my eyes. Do I need to change my course or strategy if many girls I speak to say that I'm forward and bold? I make it clear what my intentions are - is the best course of action to next a girl if she isn't as sexually motivated as me?
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:51 PM
1

If I don't kiss the girl on the first date there is no second date.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:06 PM
2

Have you considered asking your friends to not say that to girls?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 12:16 AM
1

In addition - As a man who is climbing the SMP and has taken on 6's and 7's in his journey to improve game... how would this look to a 9?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:03 PM
2

Does preselction work with women who are 2-3 smv levels lower than the prospect? What about virgins? She CLAIMS to be one but I really don't believe that.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:01 PM
1

Yes, One night stand with her cousins wife's sister - which I'm certain will ruin any chances at a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:59 PM
2

I believe this is where I stand. The pussy I've bagged (compared to this girl) would be marginal and not impressive.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:44 PM
2

Thank you for the reply. I'm trying to access my own SMV, and these girls are actually older (creeping on the wall) 28+. I am 26 years old. I think it wasn't the fact that I approached her or her friends... it was just some 6's and 7's in our town. To be completely honest I'm not even sure which girl they are referring to.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:42 PM
4

I Agree... I also got her on the telephone for 45 minutes. She says we can never be together because i'm "hot in the pants" and she's not. I always believe in the don't listen to what she says watch what she does... but I just can't figure this one out.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:40 PM
1

Can you elaborate on why you say this? For example, social proof and pre-selection very well may make a woman change her mind and opinion of you.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:37 PM
2

Turn the odds against her and start actively pursuing and mentioning chicks that you're interested in front of her. Get her to be a wing woman for you. Two can play the game my friend. Nothing wrong with free meals but you're just another girlfriend.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:43 PM
3

Valentines day is a great time to meet NEW girls; if you like this one, ask her out during the week after V-Day. Way less pressure and you won't instantly be in the BF / BB category. Any Kino when you are having coffee or studying - I know you mention pretty flirty;pretty touch and whatnot - can you elaborate more? If you kept your nose in your book while you were with this girl I'd say you already lost. The fact that you want or "need" to have it feel official may mean you are already in too de…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:15 PM
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