Some guys say "don't try too hard bro, girls see that and you look bad" and suggest just being passive and letting girls give you IOIs for you approach.

I'm tall, nice face, juiced up as fuck but that shit has NEVER once worked for me. The only thing that ever worked is constant approaching, even if it means I get shot down a ton.

Am I retarded? But I don't see why I would let a hot girl go past me without approaching. That seems stupid.

To me approaching 10-20 girls in an hour seems better than wasting it on some shitty coffee date with some secret fatty from tinder or waiting around like a bitch waiting for girls to come up to you (never seen this happen, EVER).