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Deleted mine in 2013, 3 years after highschool. Nothing bad happens when you delete it. If people ask why you dont have a face book/ can't find you on facebook, first of all it is a good IOI, and second, just tell them people kept stalking you too much. Deleting facebook has prompted better conversations with women irl than any through facebook.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 04:26 PM
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The women friends I have are all post wall, tough old hags, farm girls, ex starlets - I sincerely enjoy there company and I'd like to say they enjoy mine. There is a lot of comradery to be had with post wall women that have been full circle and have seen the effects of near hypermasculinity and the times women were somewhat actually oppressed all the way to now where the opposite true almost in hyperbolic fashion. They have a lot to say along the same vein as your grandma. It is refreshing to he…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:23 PM
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Sarcasm? Women sexual peak at 30 is bullshit magazine talk. Only the most well kept, genetically superior women will be desirable around that age. Most of them are fat, kids, wrinkles, saggy elbow skin, etc. They seek to retreive their sexual peak, and return to their youth the most at 30 probably, but they do not live their sexual peak. That is for sure. 30 year old women are stale bread.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 10:56 AM
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Hey man, I mean this in all seriousness, and kindness, but do not just vent this here, get an actual therapist. Beyond sexual strategy and relationships and all that you really went through some insane shit. From an outside perspective, and someone who has had a shitty hand in life as well, I really recommend you get a professional. Does not have to be someone to hand you medicine, but you need to talk to someone that will help give you strategies to unfuck your inner self. I had to have a ton o…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:31 AM
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I was watching the machinist with an old plate post fuck (luckily) and I said something likening her to the trashy hooker the main character sees. She demanded I take her home no more than 20 minutes later. "Why would you do this, Justacrosshair_, you idiot?" I think self amusement can get out of control sometimes. In a weird way I think I white knighted a bit and helped her. A month or so ago, I saw her at the store and she pulled this paper out of her purse that was some sort of drug test from…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:45 AM
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Holy fuck that hurt me to read.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:28 PM
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How did you get that job? I have been considering a job in sales, my job sort of encompasses sales, but I'd like to actually get hired on some sort of commision based job. Are dealerships likely to hire totally fresh, 20 something year old? Would management experience be relevant?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:54 AM
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Awesome topic and great post. Where do you learn more about this sort of topic. I am managment in retail, and although I am considered a good manager by most I have pretty much been winging the whole deal for a tear and a half. I would like to solidify and inprove my managerial and leadership skills, bit I am not really sure where to start looking. Have played around with google a bit, but it is hard for me to know what is worth reading. Any help or points in the right direction would be a huge …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:11 AM
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I actually just cut caffeine and nicotine about 2 months ago. Cafffiene was through the roof at about 1gram a day sometimes more, and I was still feeling shitty. 240mg caffenated energy drink upone arriving at work, and every break or lunch. It was insane. I cut out smoking, switched to dip, then gum, then quit gum once I was around 8mg nicotine a day. Once I weened to about 500mg caffiene and 8mg nicotine a day I dropped it cold turkey. The fe first week was really rough. I didnt want to drink …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 11:44 PM
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This. I am 5"9, but my height has never been an issue. I was just never lucky enough to consider height an issue to blame my failures on. The first time I heard about tall guys "having it easier" or whatever was on here. I have a friend that is like 5"6, he's far better at pick up than I am, but is a benevelant wing. I went out with him before TRP became an idea for me. I guess having a short dude AMOG around you before seeing all this bitching can be really illuminating. Ha. Tl:dr; If you are b…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:59 PM
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Currently existing in male bachelor pad with some awesome roomates. We agreed as well to do something like this. Just came out at the beginning and all agreed, that yes - someone is going to fuck up and not clean their shit. We accepted it. The solution to the problem is if something is fucked, take action, then and there and fucking clean up whatever mess it is and call the idiot out afterward. We all agreed that we would probably fuck up at some point, we all agreed to take care of one another…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:15 AM
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Man - thinking back to my brokenhearted PUA days and remember some of the mystery videos I watched there is still one technique that I still love and do. It was his buddy that did this on video. But you end up asking the girl if she believes in astrology and palm reading and tell her that "like.. 60% of women believe in something like that." whether she says yes or no just say "look!" and grab her hand and start looking at it all puzzled like. Then in a few seconds Say something along the lines …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:50 AM
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I do not want to take the podium from redwurst, but I may make a post similar to this during the weekend. I am 23. I know enough to know I don't know everything, very willing to admit that. I do however know with certainty that this and his other post is true. I only wish I could have had these guidelines 3 years ago. After age 20 and discovering trp, it took me two hard years if discovering what he is talking about and that is 2 years of actively seeking a way out of my shithole every. Single. …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 09:28 PM
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I do something like that a lot. Can confirm it's great deflection / grounding. I do it to guys too, learned it from my natural alpha roomate. When girls or guys make some sort of.. stupid scrutinizing observation about you just look at them with a big smile or smirk and say "Oh yeah?" wait a second for them to respond (which they wont) and then give them a pat on the shoulder or head and walk off. Ex; "Crosshair_, you are a stupid motherfucker (any random comment that does nothing but force you …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 06:32 PM
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I have a 13 year little brother who is autistic being raised by my mother who divorced my father (he got custody of me, in Texas, which shows she did not fight really at all to keep me which worked out better but goes to show you AWALT) any who. Mom is a wreck, raising a 13 year old autistic boy which is essentially her first child because she skipped out raising me to go ride the CC. My little brother is in the same boat as yours. My mother has no idea how to raise him, especially with him bein…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:59 AM
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You don't need a coach you need to get a grip, stop whining and lashing out, and adjust your mentality. Your entire attitude sucks and comes fron a bad place. Build yourself up, don't beg other people to fix you. Only you can do that. Like others have said asktrp is on the sidebar. But no one is going to hold your fucking hand and give you all the answers. It's all going to come down to reading, executing, and adjusting yourself as you go. I wouldn't have commented at all if it was not to serve …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 04:41 AM
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Your whole post is desperate. Stop being pathetically needy. Why should anyone help you? But here is a coin for you, the beggar. Read, Execute, Observe, Reform. There is no other way.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:40 AM
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"I heard everybody talking bout what they gonna be. I got high hopes for you niggas, we gon' see"
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:42 AM
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What is this useless shit? Pussy worship post. "Hot girls" are not special, and don't need any special mechanisms to operate. And nothing a female says about you to your face or otherwise should make you cry lol. What is this shit. I object and say that to pull a hot girl, you just approach and flirt as usual. If interested, escalate as usual. If not, next. As usual. Shit post. Way overthinking things.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 07:45 AM
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Year 2 since I was where you are. It gets easier. As the OP mentions in the post. It is easier in the way your mindset truly does change. Things that I would have avoided years ago have become opportunities for me now. The statement you are on about right now, it doesn't even make sense to ask about anymore, it truly becomes standard operating procedure. You get angered out at some point. The questions, your opinions of it all, it starts to become meaningless. You realize you flaring out emotion…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 07:22 AM
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Don't worry about it. Semantics as far as I am concerned. Good job, keep on keeping on.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 08:44 PM
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No. You are implanting your own ideals into reality. Gender and identity do go together. It's not a simple matter if "its okay if boys play with barbies.". Men need men. Not just female influence. When males are around other males to compete they become stronger. Their psyche and their body will endure some turmoil and they will seek to improve it more than the other males. The female role is to nurture and aid in the recovery of the struggle and turmoil that boys need to go through to become me…
/r/MensRights23/11/15 09:36 PM
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When did TRP start caring about quality so bad? About a year ago, this guy would have been praised from all these comments or at least everyone would have had a good laugh about how 'AWALT' and it's funny he doesn't even game them. Now everyone here is just butthurt or something that he didn't even have to try to land some pussy and saying "yeah, those girls are trash though." And you know what, that's exactly what my BP beta as fuck friends would tell me when I'd pull and they wouldn't. Fuck yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 11:08 PM
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So the key to not seeming thirsty then, is too escalate regardless (Assuming you have a well off SMV and are taking care of yourself), and then controlling your reaction if the escalation is declined?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:29 AM
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You should do nothing but ignore her. End of discussion. She is dead as far as you are concerned. She can not be spoken to. Thought about, maybe, but not even recommended - but definitely and for sure, she can not be spoken to. If she wanted you, she could have had you. Instead, she betrayed you. Why you even consider engaging contact with someone like that is beyond me. Leave it, and let it wither.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 11:16 PM
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Here, you can be 4 inches taller and be 5' 9". HELL, I'll give you 5"10. Congratulations. A ton of people are still taller than you and nothing really changes. The trick really is just to realize it's okay. I am okay with my 5' 9" height because I have two good friends who are shorter than me, one with a pretty decent 8/10 redpillish LTR, and the other getting it on the regular just fine. Now, if I didn't have those friendships to lend me different experiences, or this perspective I suppose, and…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 07:55 PM
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A friend I went to highschool with (male) who is breaking, has broken into the porn industry with some small-time contracts. Uh. He never makes a deal about it and when I wanted more elaboration he essentially said "It's okay." I kind of read him and made the decision not to press the issue too much more. Like you say, I think we all have to do stuff we do not want to do from time to time. Ha.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:33 PM
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I am not going to lie. I fucking love these posts. You thought you had it all figured out didn't you? Here is your newfound sanctuary. You are being baptized. The decisions you make in the next three days are going to determine your next three weeks. The actions you take in those three weeks will determine your next three months. The consistency of your discipline during those three months will determine your next three years. The ideas you choose to accept or reject in those three years will de…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:46 AM
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Always be willing to drop a plate also, even if its your last one. I tolerate 2 strikes of my choosing then I drop. Half the time I let them know why half the time I dont. Depends on how they are. My own boundaries aren't going to be crossed and sometimes bitches need to know a pretty face don't really mean shit when theyre acting big. Drop plate, get plate, drop plate repeat. Sometimes you can have 2 or 3 going but its really a matter of luck. IF you dont put up with shit. If you put up with sh…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 04:58 PM
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You need to get over yourself. Really, that is how you will gain confidence. You've been down an objectively shitty path. If you can get over it and come out of it and still look at life with an ounce of fucking happiness instead of moaning about your past, you will exude confidence. I've been down my own gauntlent too, a lot of people have. I stopped crying about it even the whole world would have let me cry and patted me on the back and I pushed through it, dod something with myself and I have…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 04:49 PM
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The transfer of anxiety into action into experience is important. Its the people that don't transfer it and build it up without knowing what to do with it that eat bullets. Ive been on both sides. You gotta move sometimes. Move ahead. Pick a direction and move, worry about an exact destination as you go along. But to start just pick a direction and move even if you don't know why. You can figure out why your moving forward later.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:51 PM
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I never thought of this. I lost a plate who was doing pretty good by me and to be honest I stalled out for a bit and denied a girl who I could have ran a ons with and set up time with the plate instead. She was up to par with my expectations, I was doing well and I was seriousky considering exclusivity but about the 8th week plate started to ghost off more and more which was not the previous trend. I couldn't understand why, and just kind of accepted she swung to someone else, whatever plates go…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 08:01 PM
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It sounds funny, that it is red pill or blue pill. Red and blue. I don't know how many people do this but I link colors and their symbolistic connation to people a lot. Some people are brown and green and pink and purple and blue and red to me. I have been doing this since I was young, it is not really a concscious thing. With all that I really used to take pride in myself being blue and green. A real sort of identity wrapped in intelligence and focus and passivity, calmness, etc. That was my id…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 02:16 PM
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Just look up how many ng estrogenic compounds are in foods. Males produce around 130000 ng of estro a day on the norm. People say milk is estrogenic, but it gives you 11ng per 3oz. So.. not easy to tilt your hormones by drinking milk alone. However, estrogenic compunds are in a lot of shit, so if you find out you are getting like 1000 ng extra estrogen every day from various sources, readjust to a more meat and fats type diet.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 05:23 PM
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I am not saying this to discourage but check your radar too. If you were were at 190 and got up to 210, if your less then 6ft you are still a little heavy. I dont know your body comp or anything, but even with hygeine and style intact, you are not god mode yet. On the way for sure, but not yet. Imo failure to escalate stems from not getting iois. If i get ioi its way easier to escalate, obviously. Escalating to create iois is a lot harder to overcome in the psyche. Go ladder method, be aware you…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 01:43 PM
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"Wow - this is dramatic." Start pulling her back inside. That is how. No emotional availability. No allowance of a serious reaction. No putting them on a pedestal. A woman never needs to ask you that question. She doesn't need to know how you feel about her. If she wants you bad enough she will tell you how she feels about the whole situation. (All the fucking time) I've been baited like this before and fucked up in much the same way. Caught oneitis early in my GFTOW set, same shit went down. Du…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:32 AM
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It means your endocrine system is not operating the same way the other 98 percent of the population's does and you should probably go get your shit checked. A male ' mastering his sexual desires ' as you describe, ' believing the mating game is beneath you ', is a symptom of low libido. The path to mastering sexual desire would involve feeling the desire and moving past it without getting distracted by it if there were a more fulfilling goal ahead. The man who fasts is hungry. The man who does n…
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:43 AM
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Head over to bodyweight fitness sub like others mentioned. Protip though. Don't get sucked up into the calisthenics versus pumping iron debate. Calisthenics can build you solid ground if you do it right, especially as a beginner. Creating leverage with your own bodyweight makes enough of a good and resistance for you to develop formidable musculature. And if you run 6 month's to a year routine of good calisthenics you can decide to go to a gym from there. Personal anecdote, in my high school day…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:49 PM
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Waow.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:28 PM
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General form of C: Female says to you; "You need to - X", or "You are - Y", or "Can / Can't you just- Z" Male says; "Hand me that - A.", "Hold this - B.", "Move that - C." Best coupled with "I" in mnemonic, and then in more advanced cases followed by "A" in the mnemonic. If there is STILL shit being thrown after that, then I hope to god that pussy is really worth it. (Hint: It's not.)
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 10:54 PM
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I'd be a whiny victimized bitch. A lot of shit went down before trp. Car wreck, friends suicide, death of mother figure, depression, LTR, packs up and leaves. I could still be crying about it to this day and the world probably would have pat me on the back, said I am sorry, and allowed me to as I cried into a blubbering pool of apathy and nothingness. But TRP told me to stop. TRP told me I could fight back, not to bitch about, do something about it. TRP quite literally picked me up off the groun…
/r/askTRP06/06/15 06:13 PM
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There is a circle of insecurity I see a lot. And I am not pointing at you but, this got me thinking. There are dudes that aren't getting laid, and they have all these insecurities about what women think of them as far as there personality and superficial features, etc. Then they work on it a little, get over it, and start getting laid then they start worrying about their penis. Then the penis is a static factor that can't really be changed so much so their is a little decision here. One is to ju…
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:59 PM
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Agreed. The best frame is to act as if you have already been intimate with her. It would work even better in this situation as the girls not going to great for talking, so escalating Kino and nonverbal expressions are going to be king. Move and touch and escalate as if you've already had her. Assume you will fuck tonight until directly proven otherwise. You should be aiming to escalate Kino no matter what. Upon meeting hug. Grab her waist and walk to the place, put your hand in her back pocket, …
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:38 PM
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_Jumping in from my work, on my phone. Same situation as you. Remedied it a bit recently. You need to tune into the girl you are with. If their persona is not the total free spirit party type you have to throw in a little more comfort and do not break rapport so often. Sometimes you have to feed a passion fantasy. A good 33 percent of girls still want the kiss in the rain type shit from what I can tell. I don't know your exact situation but keep it in mind. Tone down and soften up a little if yo…
/r/askTRP06/06/15 03:31 PM
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Burps. Girls will burp will burp when I am with them, like a challenging playful kind of attitude. I get what they are doing but, man. It fucking turns me off like no other, you know? This situation has happened to me 3 times so far, the first time I just said what I felt and I did it the other times as well. Just tell her that shit is not feminine. Now, from what I have experienced is that they will take the hint and stop, or you are going to open a whole can of worms. The second one who I got …
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:01 AM
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To add, there is another one for guys that are not already big, but on are still working on their bodies. It goes something like "I will love you no matter what you look like". Do not listen. If you fail that one two things happen. One, your girl is going to care what you look like despite what she says. Two, if you stop your progress it means that you are not doing it for yourself. If you use that validation of a girl wanting you despite what you look like, you are showing everyone you only bet…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:59 PM
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I don't blow off my mom, but she is not overbearing. She will not call me, I never would answer when she did so she stopped. Although I do call her and catch up every couple of weeks out of respect and love. She wants to know I am okay and alive and she deserves to know that. I've been lucky enough to meet and befriend in my life boys without mothers, or boys who've been given up to the state. Through those experiences I learned that I have a good mother, despite her faults as woman - faulty rel…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:32 AM
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One of my plates who is pretty cute, 8/ 10 easy aspires to be a stay at home mom. She doesn't want to work she enjoys household duties (she says), but she may just be trying to get me to go provider mode for her and she is 20 as well so she probably has baby fever or something, she also does not have her shit together Really. On the other hand, My roommate has a very traditional girl, but she has a big girl job working in some analytical business place that I am not really that sure of. But she …
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:49 PM
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If they are RP they will still feel it, but they will be self aware enough to resist and confide in the male with what is going on. RP women would recognize what they have to lose or what they are gambling when they fly with their feels. They still experience these things though.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:51 PM
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Holy shit. Get the fuck off this god damn sub if you are at the point where you have to ask how to have fun at a fucking rave. Also who cares if you aren't fit, and who cares if your girl is semi-ugly. Is this a troll post?
/r/askTRP24/05/15 02:00 AM
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If you have no destination, simply pick a direction and walk for the sake of walking. It is always better to act and move towards something than to sit and contemplate somewhere to go. You only figure out where you want to end up along the way.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:22 PM
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I want to say you are right. I have a feeling that what you are saying is a subset of what she felt but I am sure there was a lot of other things tumbling around up there as well. I mean, we are talking about mortality. Do you think that she really hampstered all that in place of looking her own mortality in the eye? I don't know. I bet you are right OP, I just don't think that was as far as she went with her thoughts though. I hope not anyway. Godamn.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 01:53 AM
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I do want her back, that's why I've come here. No. You do nothing, you say nothing. You work on getting ripped, and you work on fucking other random girls, and you work on getting money - those are your three goals now. Eventually whoever you think you want right now is going to have a kid with some other dude that (that is immediately going to go full beta in response to 'father' mode) and she is going to pretty quickly turn into a ham planet. Meanwhile you are jacked and do not have to worry a…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 11:53 PM
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You need to get off here. You need to do. Stop thinking just to think. Start walking just to walk. You will find out much more about what you need that way.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 01:39 AM
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Open all man. Let me tell you a little kicker that I don't often see verbalized: Literally everyone is happy to talk to you. The main thing that really opened the doors for me was realizing that chicks like to be approached. Even if they are just sitting around studying or something looking busy, interrupt them. The face you are looking at when you are pre-approach, is not the face you will see post-approach. Open with a smile, and they will smile and the very worst that comes out of anything is…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 01:06 AM
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Listen. If you knew there was a radio-tower controlling everyone's mind, would it be enough? If you rejected the the radio signals that tried to control and went around screaming that the other people's minds are in control, would it help? No. It is good that you can recognize 'The mind control tower', and it is nice you want to be different. But do not stop there. It is not enough to recognize and reject the mind control - you have to go even further and build a mind control tower yourself. And…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:44 AM
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Let me tell you how I learned this lesson before ever reading TRP. I had a friend in highschool, he was really my best friend from about 7th grade all the way to graduation. I moved out after graduation and started my own journey, and we slowly stopped contacting eachother as much. It was okay though, I felt fine with it. I knew we 'were' great friends and that if we were to ever meet to catch up again we would be able to just go out, do whatever and enjoy ourselves. We wouldn't even need to cat…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 07:43 PM
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I improve for the sake of improvement. It is just something I see as "goodness", with whatever connotation that may carry to you. There is no reason, no end goal. I simply do the best I can, then I try to do better, for the sake of itself. I do not need any other reason than the fact it is something I feel like doing and so, because of that, it is worthwhile to me. If you see no reason in improving or, do not feel it is in your nature to strive to do better then do not do it. I do it simply beca…
/r/askTRP11/04/15 07:31 AM
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Meshing yourself into high value groups can be hard if you are literally starting from nothing. Cheating with faking it and making as many artificial value inflations you can, playing the halo effect, helps a great deal at first on your way. Lifting, hygiene, fashion are the biggest initial roi for money in exchange for perceived value. After that you can gain rapport with some high value people. This is sort of the path I took. Once I was known but not necessarily ' needed' by high value people…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 02:48 PM
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My roomate went through seminary, and is a very good christian in that he is not a mindless shit spewer. Talks with him and reading Through some of the books he had, a lot of philosophy about justice and the problem of evil, etc, showed me a lot of the fuckery in the world actually. Sense of justice is completely skewed, and I think that leads to the sense of entitlement we see in our western culture. The problem of a man that is starving stealing food for instance. People now would believe that…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:14 PM
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Hey man. I don't know what a lot of these guy's deal is. I think they are sensing some validation seeking from you and are retaliating against it. But I don't think that is needed. I think you are doing good. I am not going to lie, you are late to the party. But better late than never at all. I am glad that you found the opportunity to learn how to become better. 34 is not that old. A decade of Improving yourself and looking at things through a more RP lens will do miracles I bet. I'm about 2 ye…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:59 PM
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the leg size shouldn't matter that bad. If she is smaller though her feet should go to together and you should either be kneeling or widened over her legs. Was she arching properly? Girls like to camel hump there back sometimes but that is the opposite if how it needs to be. Her back needs to be like arched down like a smile. If she crinkles up and takes the shape of a frown, it will cause slipping and a weird angle. Chest out, face down, ass up. Move her how she needs to be by pushing down on h…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:24 PM
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Beta girls don't know how to make men feel like men.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:26 PM
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Yeah man. Your dick is objectively fine. Doggy is something you are fucking up with your stance or something. Or maybe her ass truly phat. You gotta good dick bruh. Chin up. Get rid of your insecurity. You are all good. Ride that shit rough.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:24 PM
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I was at a party once and someone brought up the crying thing. My major ex had cried when we first got together, and two ONS cried also. I responded to the guy that brought it up by just shrugging and said " sometimes sex makes makes girls cry, man." A lot of the group just cracked up with wtf in their face and took the time to poke at me saying that maybe they cry with me in particular but not them. However these were guys if my nerdier / beta-ish click and I honestly doubt they have had more t…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:13 PM
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I really look at "game" as a hobby in itself. I don't know if that's some dangerous toxic thing for me or not. I don't obsess over sex in itself, but I obsess over being capable of getting sex. I look at it as a big skill set, being a good talker, being someone who is 'smooth', or charming, being outgoing and confident, etc. I am dedicated to developing interpersonal/ intrapersonal skills because I've had an affinity for it since I was young. I like to socialize for the sake of being good at soc…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 05:54 PM
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I agree. Saying something like "Wow, you did really good with your hair today, but your nails could use some work." will get them going. Sometimes I am really serious about it and sometimes I have a big ass smile on. Seriousness will emphasize the criticism, playfulness will emphasize the compliment. You can even grab her hand while you say this or something. It's a huge spike in emotional bullshit for a woman. Sensory overload in 2.5 seconds. Validation, Criticism, Physicality. Seems very small…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 04:20 PM
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If you were truly feeling shitty and you were truly with one of your closer male friends and his girlfriend, I think you went wrong when you said "Nah, she just wants attention". I think it would have been okay for you to just tell the truth, you could have framed it however you wanted, but I think you should have said that you were actually tired, instead of placing it on the girl. Something like "I am tired as hell, but she can come at me if she wants." Whatever you want, just something that s…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 04:06 PM
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My room mate says sorry for everything. I looked him in the eye, put my hand on his arm, and told him he was was too apologetic and he doesn't have to say sorry for everything he does. He told me he was sorry, and I couldn't help but laugh for a solid 5 minutes. So yeah, saying nothing is probably the best idea.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 02:19 PM
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This is fucking hilarious. When girls ask me out to do shit I literally make up retarded stuff to tease them. I am going to add "I don't know, I have stuffed cabbage to eat." To my list of retarded shit to say along with "I guess I could reschedule my tap dancing class." Or "I am teaching my grandma origami.". Girls want fun and they want to be impressed. Stuffed cabbage is not fun or impressive. Girl will not want stuffed cabbage. This shouldn't be hard to fucking grasp. You are literally whini…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:37 AM
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I struggled with this myself for a long time. It is paradoxical. You have to accept your present self. You have to accept your lot in life. Being the fucking top at all points in time is an american spoon fed lie. It doesn't happen. You have to tell yourself it is okay. It will be okay. If you are weak it is okay, because if you will it you can become stronger. If you are ignorant it is okay, because if you will it, you can become wise. If you are poor it is okay, because if you will it, you can…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:06 PM
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I think your right. As I see it now alpha is definitely a relative thing. The definition it takes is always relative to the scope of the individual. A lot of guys are going AMOG consistently I think so they are becoming alpha relative to there group and then coming online and declaring alpha. Which in some ways is okay. There are things to learn from everyone even guys that are just self actualizing. But if you broaden then scope.... Are they alpha compared to some navy seal that goes on confide…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 09:17 PM
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If you have food to eat, clothes to wear, a roof over your head, and now I suppose a car to drive is pretty important, you should be able to tell anyone you need to fuck off when applicable. You can either learn to lower the threshold of what your bare minimum to live is. (You can learn you won't die from sleeping on a floor mat or eating Raman and chicken for a month, etc. ) Or you can save enough/ lock in enough passive income to increase the threshold of your bare minimum allowance. Once you …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 04:12 PM
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Tell her to complain to someone who cares and pick your nose.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:23 AM
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I am average manlet. First step is to accept average physicality. I get outshined by my alpha friends that are 6 something and muscular with relatively same social skills as me. There are little trade offs in our knowledge sets though. I am a bit more of a handy man/mechanically inclined than one of my standard jock type friends and when there is a chance to demonstrate I do and neg my own friend about it too. Happened with his girl the other week actually he couldn't open the godamn pickle jar …
/r/askTRP08/03/15 08:38 PM
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I am friends with this 2/10 landwhale type and she actively does this to guys after the bars close to get fucked. From my own experience, I have never picked up a dime at the tail end of the night but I have pulled some cuter ones although a bit curvier. Not fucking balls though. Point is, be sure to inflate a sexual frame at closing and run all sets and you will probably land something. You have to run full on direct game with sexual intent though. People hanging around the street at 2:30 are a…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:41 PM
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That could actually be a legitimate excuse if the person was knowledgeable about how mania and stuff makes you more promiscuous and apt to make risky/confrontational decisions. BUT I wouldn't assume someone that does not really know about bipolar disorder to care. I hope this doesn't come off as whiteknighting or some shit, but as a dude with bipolar disorder that has lots of experience with bipolar girls I am genuinely proud that you are attempting to take control if it and yourself instead of …
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:21 PM
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If I have an annoying cold with runny nose and coughing and just generally feeling bad I turn everything off but going to work. I used to power through those things but it seems to actually alleviate faster if you just turn off as much physical exertion as possible. Go to work if it is not effecting my mentality and I don't feel delusional from fever. But when I get home work out is canceled, girls are canceled everything is canceled. I rest, allow myself comfort, take hot baths, drink hot tea. …
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:10 PM
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You know, come to think about it my top 3 smoothest, most 'zen' first night pulls involved a god damn hand comparison. I am not too into tech and scripts and shit, but I think breaching the stupid hand comparison thing is a solid move all the time. You can test comlliance, observe Interest, neg a little, kino and set a bit more of a sexual frame all in one. Never really thought about it 'This one weird trick will get you laid! Fuck with her hands!' It's such a small thing but I jussssstttt now r…
/r/seduction04/03/15 07:49 PM
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This is what I suspect, and sort of what I was going to assume. But you know what assumptions do. I'll feel more confident acting as I usually do thanks to your input though. +
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:24 PM
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Thank you.I am definitely aware though. I did take some introspective time for myself when I decided to go through with this and am consciously aware of what you are saying. My mentality is for sure not to save her or treat her like a charity case. I am going through with this to experience something that will be unique in a way. At the very least I can joke around with my male friends about how I have handicap game, and at the best, and this maybe a stretch, this experience may help me grow to …
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:20 PM
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Thanks this was super helpful.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:16 PM
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She doesn't have a kid either. My bad. Most on the app do and are looking for a daddy. She doesn't have one is what I should have said.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:13 PM
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The whole part in the parenthesis is exactly what I might not figure out! I'll just have to fucking see how things go I guess. But yeah everything on her works but the legs.and the throwing and placing is a given. But yeah, you see what I mean? All the physicality leading up to smashing is going to have to be run differently normal. I'll just have improvise unless someone has some actual field report documentation type shit on this.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:28 AM
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Okay, you need focus on alcoholism first. You aren't going to get shit done while the bottle fucks with your hormones and brain chemicals. That is priority over even the credit card debt. Find a group, get a therapist, go cold turkey, do whatever the fuck you feel you need to do to rid yourself of that dependency because it will bar you from any other improvement until you do. Simultaneously fix sleeping and eating habits. Eat properly, meat and veggies heavy, bread and fruit light, take a fucki…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 06:28 AM
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Thing's like holding the door open and pushing the chair in can actually be dominant gestures and also allow for you to execute some kino, ex; hand on back as she goes through door. You did good splitting the bill too, and having to leave early for a family emergency probably fucked with her a little bit as in she might think you were lying. So you have some like macro push/pull thing going on. If you are going to do these things though DO NOT neglect to kino and present yourself in sexual way a…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 11:37 PM
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You are right in a way but that's just a piece of the pie for some people especially people that are hard cases. The feeling of actual genuine confidence can be a huge catalyst for some people to accomplish everything they have been striving for. I'd say sexual strategy is something a zero knowledge/ hardcase beta is not the route they should pick first. Understanding how to operate under a confident mindset and gaining small leaps in career or academic power is a good thing to experience so tha…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 07:15 PM
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Yeah, I am experiencing huge cascading results and personal growth as well. In fact it was sort of hard to accept the identity of being someone that people wanted to look up to and be around. It is a huge transition and it is possible it happens very quickly. My life has gone complete 180 in the last year and I have so much forward momentum. For the first time in a long time I can say with confidence that I am doing great and I enjoy my life. I am not in school but I've enjoyed much the same suc…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 07:07 PM
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To be honest, I won't mess with women that have this problem. I tried twice, kind of knowing it would be a cathartic kind of thing and they both ended in a fantastic blaze of glory kind of way with broken shit and what not. The reason I won't mess with them anymore though is not because of that, I actually love emotional outburst and crazy bitches, the thing is that everything I've described a woman will never apply, let alone try to take control herself. They get away with it all because they d…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:09 PM
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You are very right. I learned this last October. The girl did not give one shit about improving herself or her situation. It's okay I didn't get bent out of shape about it or anything, but you are absolutely right, and I am very aware of what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 03:08 AM
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I think you are incredibly right. I have been studying on myself how much my biological/hormonal -> psychological states influence my decision making. I have bipolar disorder and about 6 months ago I became somewhat obsessed with figuring out how to manipulate and control it better. With that I have become acutely aware the role of hormones and things take in shaping your decision making. For instance as you don't eat your blood sugar drops and your body also starts releasing hormones telling yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:23 PM
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Eh. You can, but for the mindset to apply to your natural stuff you really have to live beyond a comfy middle class suburbia life. To understand what you can control and change versus what you can not takes time. To learn to deal with only what is in front of you while balancing that with making strategies to accomplish future goals takes some effort that can't be created artificially. Hardships and various trials also raise the bar as to what becomes stressful to you, they also let you clearly …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 07:03 PM
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Ha, that damn poem. I read it in Highschool, read it once again in one of my college classes, and now reading it once more and realizing I have actually been living it, line by line, for the past two years there is such a difference in sense of understanding. Some days I wonder if I really am going any right way, if any of the trials and rigors of life itself are worth anything and then my head drops heavy. I forgot I aimed to really understand this poem one day in Highschool. I read it but I kn…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:19 PM
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This is pretty fucking funny. I think OP got got. OP keep looking for other work. If you like your current place or are attached because you put blood and sweat into it or whatever, get a dollar per year off from another company and use it and this situation as leverage to negotiate a higher salary. If it goes south abandon current company and go for other companies offer. Be proactive though. They are trying to fuck the new guy. You are the new guy.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 08:22 PM
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Let them stay in their ways. I have abandoned even having pity for the lesser men and women. I used to bring rp ideas in a casual sort of way without all the jargon and hardness to some friends that could have used it at the time. Never goes through though. Let them stay in the dark. The knowledge and ideas passed around here are really powerful for all things in life not just sexual strategy. It is better for those that have already wrapped their head around it and embraced it all that those wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 07:47 PM
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Precisely. If it is something you can change that will help you in the long run, like losing weight, you would be literally retarded not to try to get in shape. Not even just for pussy, just so you can be a better you. So you can fucking live life and not get so tired. Things you can't change are already an inherent part of you. Those are things to accept and learn love about yourself. That's your fucking character model. You got a big ass nose? Welp. If you fucking get good at something and ins…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:43 AM
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I always think of the difference between a men's health magazine model, some army ranger and a some old hard ass biker guy. Assuming these are all self actualitlized people with their head on straight and are essentially alpha, can you really sit there and tell your self that hard ass biker really feels insecure around male model, or that army ranger gets intimidated by biker guy or anything like that? No. All those guys are going to be secure with themselves. They aren't going to be insecure or…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:27 AM
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No. How is this act displaying confidence or aiding to the idea that you value yourself? Its not. It is sneaky third rate kid shit and you are pussing out of talking to the girl. Why don't you just go ask and find out first hand? Ask. And ask correctly. Confidence ( or at least the illusion of) and if you get rejected then show apathy ( or at least the illusion of). Ask as if she has already said yes. That's the mindset to have if you are faking it. If she says no. Remember that you don't care. …
/r/askTRP29/01/15 11:21 AM
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I kind of like the internet hate we receive and then actually not giving a shit. In fact I hope everyone starts getting the fuck away from trp and thinking it is evil or whatever. Stay beta everyone, please. Please go buy some tampons for your bisexual open relationship sjw partner who can't fuck you tonight because she is on her 'period'. I don't know who feels the same, but I am done even trying to promote or defend trp shit. Not because I disagree but because its just useless. You either get …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:05 AM
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To be honest, I don't care at this point if all of trp and any redpill related anything got fucking banned from the internet somehow. I've read and applied so much and have come so far in the past year with all this. They can denounce it and get angry and try to silence this all they want, but the ideas are in me and a lot of others here and it is spreading, for better or worse, in reaction to the last decade or so of needless hyperfemenism bullshit. You can kill a man but you can't kill an idea…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:51 AM
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what goes on here is the polar opposite of taking responsibility for your actions, growing up, and bettering yourself. Sucks you feel that way man. Since I ran into a lot of the ideas that get passed around on this sub about a year ago I have had nothing but personal growth and real world success compared with my past where I was not applying these ideas. There is a difference between people on here who are angry at their girls that cheated on them or left them, the guys on here that are just tr…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:42 AM
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You can be 18 and be a last year in US highschool's. Uh. Just sayin'. In case it is important to anyone, you know?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:25 AM
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Whether the post is fake or not is irrelevant. Regardless, the male in the post was not representative the ideals this community tries to embrace. Imho probably best to ignore if you have shit to do. Just saw the 2x post. Just saw this post. Got the gist of it and all I see is irrelevant bullshit drama incoming. I advise others reading to leave this and whatever crap happens alone and let mods review and filter posts discussion for disgruntled 2x'rs and others from /all. Internet drama is not go…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:19 AM
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Act more. Think less. Think after action not before. Shoot first ask questions later. Etc etc.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:53 PM
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Yeah man. It's rough I know. You really just got to redevelop your mental framework and it can take a while of being conscious to it. But you are right even if you get rejected you don't have to see them again. Its like this. People say there are plenty of fish in the sea l, and there are. But you right now have a really big problem just summoning the courage to cast out your line. So the thought of you using all that courage and energy on the potential for something that may fail is what's hold…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:46 PM
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I just made a comment in another thread dealing with this same thing although the poster did even identify what he was doing was just approach anxiety. But what you say is so true but it goes over everyones heads. Don't think guys. Just do. Don't worry about how things MIGHT go. Worry about how how things actually are. Guys are worrying about conversations they aren't even having. I did the same thing but the biggest improvement that helped was to just deal with the the fucking situation in fron…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:25 PM
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What? First you are just assuming you can get the close on her without any real evidence of attempt but then you are worried about the size of your cock size after (you assume) you get to the point where she wants it in her? It is like you are so confident on one hand that you can just fuck her. And then on the other hand you are concerned about your dick size. How about you make a real attempt at fucking her, fuck her, then see if she says anything about your dick before making a deal about it?…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:08 PM
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Assume they all have the capability to do those things, but don't assume they all actually will go ahead and do it the moment you say hi. Women can do some salty shit, guys can too. Anyone can. But you can't just shutdown on the off chance they do. The correct flow of things is this: Act. Observe consequences of acting. Calibrate as necessary. What you are doing is this: Speculation of consequences if action. Not acting. Go act. Stop worrying. Its much better to focus all your energy on what is …
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:53 AM
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Last girl I was with said I was the only one to make her feel nervous. She was 18 so she might not have been just talking me up and I literally might be the first guy that made her stay in line with me and make an effort to actually please me and not the other way around. She was not the first to vocalize this feeling to me either although I had only heard it once before. I can only guess its because they perceive you as really high value and are afraid of being there usual entitled selves aroun…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 06:26 AM
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Manic fist bump. Fucking owning the world turns to a bout of depression and a thousand yard stare within 10 fucking minutes. Great shit. I've learned to fake through the depression and shit and live "average" through the darker episodes just kind of recognizing it and waiting for it to pass. Its like a mental stomach virus or something. Sucks ass but you still have to keep doing shit. The good thing is most people seem to be depressed or generally unhappy so those days where I'm not a charming a…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:23 AM
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Can vouch for this. Black girls are really receptive to just being hit on. They understand. Gaming them is so direct. Worked a blue collar job for a time and started rolling with some of the black dudes, they showed me a fucking lot. Got in a thing with a quiet light skinned girl through them for a couple of weeks. This was all when I was first really putting red pill to practice. They somehow already fucking knew everything. Aggression, confidence, keeping emotions in check, etc. They had it an…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:49 AM
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I am on my phone so I don't want to write a book. But I was exactly you a year ago. Just trust me. You just have to go. You have to move. Don't think just do. It will take time and more failure to achieve what you want but if you don't start right now it will postpone the process that much longer. It is scary and there are a lot of worries and concerns I know but push them aside and for the love of god just act right now. Just go. Learn and worry and fail and succeed as you are going along. Just…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 10:36 PM
1

This whole "Machiavellian" thing is for people who don't want to put forth the effort to become stronger. You being unwilling to actually understand Machiavellianism and just accepting it as some thing that passive aggressive people use behind your back original whatever is in a way like you aren't putting in an effort to become stronger. You can't just accept that people who are Interested in this are weak cunts because some of the stuff Machiavellianism entails involves caution and subtlety mo…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 05:19 AM
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Should I be looking for other opportunities? Always. But 52k a year for a single dude is pretty comfy. I dont know where you live or what debt you may have but if I was riding 50k a year right now Id be happy. Always strive for more though. If you have any disposable income spend some on other high value people and try to move around. Have 'parties', get togethers with other high value guys in the group. Start inviting them for drinks or lunch or whatever. Use money and transfer it to rapport wi…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 06:45 PM
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Lmao. I have no advice to give on this but that is some nice fucking dialect you have over there. But if your first question was so direct I don't see why she would have gotten mad at the later either. When was the last time you had a root? It's great.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 06:22 PM
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Whoah whoa . Nsfw tag this, trigger warning, trigger warning. But seriously, it's a pretty good video showcasing all the double standards and how damn despicable some these dudes are that are helping to allow. It's more mostly funny but some things really did just piss me off.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 03:44 AM
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The female friends I have are not ones I try to fuck. They are much lower on the looks scale and in turn they are attempting to develop career oriented skill sets. They know about my plates. I imagine they wish they were too. What happens with them is that they are basically respectable people on a platonic level but at the same time they really wish I would break and fuck them. To be honest I basically use them like high value girls use orbiters. I don't know how despicable that it but that's h…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:27 AM
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People are going to think what they want to think. The only thing you can control is how you react to it. If the lies are enough to warrant some sort of legal danger simply say I did not do X. And leave it at that. Without knowing exactly how you were perceived before and knowing exactly what lies are being told now and how peoples perception of you is changing versus how you actually want them to percieve you this is about the only advice that can be given.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 11:02 PM
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Uh. Hold frame, for one. Meaning - just don't give a shit. Congrats you are now a fucking heartbreaker I guess. Continue forward, replace the plate, and ignore all the bullshit that is coming your way. Its just going to be a bull shit from betas and girls trying to warp you back into their frame of mind. You really need to just next and stop worrying about it. Really you should have already been getting shit going with other plates as soon as she mentioned break or whatever. The key is to just n…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 10:41 PM
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Look, I don't give a shit what you watch. No one does. Free time is cool, what ever. Just pointing out that their are oppurtunity costs and there is always something you can be doing better. You can watch sitcoms but you are basically giving up that time. If that's the choice you are making then so be it. But its whatever. Go validate yourself some more and call people faggots.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 08:30 PM
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When she says she loves you, she is only talking about how you are making her vagina tingle in that one particular instance of time and it has no actual bearing on her nonexistent integrity or commitment to you. Ftfy Some of them are truth though. A couple.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 04:11 AM
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Relative to all the other shows or books that are out there, comedies or otherwise, big bang theory is pretty shit. It is a bit funny when looked at by itself, but when you factor in the actual good shit you aren't reading that you don't even know about yet, it sucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 04:04 AM
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The kings had to tell the peasants something to keep them happy!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:59 AM
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Wow. I have been mulling this idea over for a while now. It is not enough enough to to simply reject the control. You have to be in control as well and to do so you have to blend with the ways of the world around you. It takes a discerning eye and precision timing to know when to go against the grain , so to speak. This is good for me, I am glad this showed up today. There is that one saying that goes something like in order to fight the monsters sometimes you have to become one yourself. That i…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:50 PM
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If you don't feel you like sex then do not worry about it. I don't see what you are getting at. There is a difference between not liking sex and making excuses or rationalizations for social inaptitude though. Being a virgin at that age demonstrates that you really are disgusted by sex or that you are relatively inadequate with social facets involving women. One is much more likely than the other. Edit: To answer the main question though, sexual measure is necessary to be viewed as "alpha" becau…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:15 PM
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The youth paradox man. A lot of guys here on TRP say to get them young before they are all fucked in the head and elsewhere, but there is still a good chance they end up hamstering that they are giving up their entire youth, feel like they got committed too early, etc. You have to be exciting and what not to keep the young girls, otherwise the chance grows that they try to fulfill their need for excitement in other ways. It's trouble sometimes. I don't really know your situation or anything, but…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 04:11 AM
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I have been diagnosed with type 1 bipolar disorder. I do not take medication. I deal with frequent manic switches - sometimes on an hourly basis, going from a hypomanic state into a full on depressive episode. Wide-eyed, racing thoughts, inadequacy, irritability, trouble controlling sleep habits, etc. are all little quirks that I deal with. I have been focusing strenuously on mitigating the negative aspects of this disorder in order to be able to hold on to the hypomania which is a true blessing…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:48 AM
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Also, thanks for posting up even though you failed man. Take it in stride and continue on - different shit is going on everyday. Have fun with people.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:02 AM
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I don't have a lot of time to type right now but I have type 1, and I have very frequent switches between hypomania and depression. Essesntially what I want to say is that it takes a weird mental finesse to control but when you are depressed and feel like a fucking flea or whatever don't try to emulate yourself as when you are hypomanic. If you are in the midst of the depressive state, be sure to recognize it first of all, but stretch your body language only so far as to looking calm and focused…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 11:51 PM
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She already had given him head, he was gone for a month and then he called back up for a hook up and she came over. She got all the way to his place for a movie and drinks before she made any mention of having a boyfriend and was acting cold and shit. She was wasting his time and made a little power play that would have essentially made him have to chase pretty hard after he was under the assumption they would just hook up like the last time. He could have tried to overcome her little power play…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 12:22 AM
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It is a very important time for him to start being conscious of his own strengths and weaknesses. Find and focus on the strengths and then mitigate those weaknesses. It is the first time he will need to take some real seriousness about self development and understanding where he stands in the world as he will be relatively on his own. Staying idle and not thinking at least a little bit about these things can create a lot of unnecessary "U-turns" in life so speak. The idea of 'finding yourself' i…
/r/becomeaman24/09/14 05:43 AM
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I agree man. It does depend on what you want though I suppose. I'm with you though, not really one to share. And if she starts wanting to share herself then.. welp. Not really worth the trouble of messing around with all that jazz. And to everyone else, everyone has different degrees of tolerance. Sometimes you've been through a situation before, maybe two or three times and you don't feel like fumbling through it another. In this circumstance it's way better to just to call it off. My own breat…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:24 AM
1

If you were wanted that then your great!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 06:09 PM
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Only semi-related, but look at this dudes posture. http://imgur.com/rDSVpOm Look at those points of contact. He could hardly curl into more of a ball. This is a broken dude. A scared, broken, shriveled dude.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 10:38 PM
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I loved it too.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 02:40 AM
1

I cut down the booze - I still drink a bit, just because I don't want to be caught acting like I am drinking, or being the 'goody' that doesn't want to drink, also I've nearly ran into trouble from a crazy and her friends when I took her home when she was tipsy and I wasn't. But the primary, super important reason I've slowed down is because figuring out where in the hell you are going to go, being able to drive, and making those quick logistic calls are way easier when you aren't spinning. Maki…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 07:49 AM
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Just to add, not refuting anything: Girls get into the whole emotional sway shit at amped up parties and start doing shit like this. My ex had once gotten my usually fairly conservative, christian aunt to go skinnydipping in the fucking pool and made out with her there at a get together my uncle was having. It's weird shit. The thought or memory of that probably makes my aunt cringe to death. Women get a fucking fire going inside them, every single one. I believe the staunchest, most bitchiest g…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 10:06 PM
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Erm.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:49 PM
1

Regardless of what she is saying, the reaction to what she said is the fucking crazy thing here...
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 05:48 PM
1

Maybe she won't talk shit about you to her friends for the next few days either, and instead do subtle little brags about what you did, that will in turn imply to her female friends how bad she has you under her thumb. Hooray...
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 05:35 PM
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It's the tone!
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 07:41 PM
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I know this one. So - confidence is going to be closely linked to your own self-esteem. But then you are like "Well I need to be confidant to increase my own self esteem, that way people can see me all confidant and be like 'man that dude is pretty fucking cool." Nope. You gotta do a bit of some internalization work.This may or may not sound absolutely fucked to you, but just hear it out. Your self-esteem is a choice. You literally have a choice to think you are worth anything or not. Even if th…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 05:03 AM
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Wait until one of your Blue Pill friends sees you actually getting some consistently, then they start fucking calling you a player and what not in front of other girls. THEN watch his face when you are tonguing one of them in the back seat of his car while he drives the group to taco bell as the D.D. THEN get irritated again when he finally fucking cracks and comes to you for advice but rejects literally everything you say and remarks "Yeah but I don't want any girls that act like that." Fucking…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 03:59 AM
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I know exactly what you are talking about. I still miss my highschool sweetheart first LTR at times. But she really fucked me over and I realized that I really just miss the wonder all the ups/downs that were really new and exciting at the time. I'm still in someways chasing that dragon, you know? The very first short term relationship I was in after my big, married type, LTR was when I realized how similar girls behavior patterns are and my ex was not as special as I thought she was. Every girl…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 03:47 AM
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The first thing you should know is that it does not happen overnight. You are going to have those nights when you are thinking about how you are going to be better the next day and do something with yourself, etc. And then the next day comes and - you just don't. Don't kick yourself too much over it. Don't overlook it, but try not to beat yourself up over it. Don't get to the point though, where you just don't believe in yourself anymore. Like where you accept that those thoughts of improvement …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 01:55 AM
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For me, I get happy by just improving. When I look back on how many times I've either fucked myself over, or been fucked over, and those few times I've literally been brought down to rock bottom zero - I mean no money, no food, no job, school, using someone else's house, or just not having any shelter at all. I've been in that situation twice in my life, once when I was a minor and I did not have a big part in placing myself there so much as my parents did. And then again when it most definitely…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 12:03 AM
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Don't back down OP - Better to be too bold than too tender. Maybe just try to refine yourself in such away that your confidence comes out solely when applicable, and you don't seem like you are making a point to be confident. See if that may be what you are doing. That may sound weird, but think about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 05:39 AM
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I did this in my LTR - I don't see why anything bad should happen, especially if you've been fucking/sharing the same bed for awhile already anyway. I'd really get at it, and enjoy myself, I wouldn't withhold my breath or anything and 9/10 she'd lend a helping hand, or more. The few times she didn't - well hey, I guess she was really actually tired. No biggie. I never got yelled at or anything for it though, not once. If I had been yelled at, I'd think that I'd just ask what the big fucking deal…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 05:08 AM
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Don't break bud. Return to your life for a bit. If you've proven yourself worth anything she'll come back to resolve things on her own. If you haven't then jump to line 2.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 05:05 AM
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Man - something tells me that you grabbing a 'practice' girl is just going to bandaid some deep underlying shit you have going on. No offense, but you need to get at this: But I'd like to be able to fuck women and [Pussy] should be one of the greatest pleasures in life. You are saying it yourself that you are mostly homo - you need to sort out your sexuality, which you obviously know. I am just saying getting some girl to toy around with while you try to convince yourself you want her shit is go…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:28 AM
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Look man, I see what you are saying. I know the 'alpha-females' you are talking about. I am 'friends' with a couple, literally just 'friends. They have a lot going on for themselves beyond sexuality which is good. But they are still females. They still always desire a constant flux of emotion no matter what. But with this you are going to run into the most irritating thing of all. They are going to be expecting you to emotionally entertain them at all times, but then when you expect any form gra…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 06:38 AM
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You can bump it down to 25k if you can acquire a taste for Black beans and Raman noodles like I have. There are tons of simple meals that cost under a $1 per meal and fill in your macros. Even the Raman - as long you aren't eating 6 packages a day like most, mix some of those nice carbs up with some veggies and some lunch meat. Hell. Food is great in America, I hate how people are always complaining about groceries. You can spot-pick the times you want to eat extravagantly for social occasions a…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 04:40 AM
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Thank you for the resource.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:56 PM
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I keep seeing dread game, but I can't really gather exactly what it is through context. Google returns a mish mash of articles that aren't exactly helping me any either. Can someone explain it a bit better to me?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 10:07 PM
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Yeah, what is not going to screw him in court later? Fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 08:41 PM
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Alright - this is the beginning point that allowed me to stumble into Mystery Method, then Seddit, then here and beyond. 6 months ago, just got dumped by a girl I was practically married to. Was hurting, oneitis and all that. Then 21st birthday - Went to visit homebros at their college because I heard colleges are nice places to get drunk and my bros told me not to be a pussy and come out. So. Chilling with homebros. Been doing some pregame drinking to get ready for getting black out drunk that …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 04:48 AM
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There are like 3 like that in proverbs.. One with the roof, one with the attic, and one about living in a desert. I don't know about God, but I trust that damn Solomon dude that wrote proverbs.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 08:48 AM
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