We've only been out 4x and we have had sex every time prior to our outing on Sunday. I wanted to plate her and still do.

I've always wanted to do this rock climbing adventure thing near my home but I have never found anyone who is game, and as you have a personal instructor for 2 hours its not a cheap outing.

So new plate is athletic, runs, gyms regularly. Thinking this is a perfect chance. So I drop her a text and she is game. So I call and you have to book in advance and pay a deposit. So I book it on a previously agreed time and date.

She doesn't drive and the place is in the middle of nowhere. So I agree to pick her up at her parents home (She is 21, I'm 26 for reference.)

So I turn up and I'm about 5 minutes early. Sitting in my car outside I drop her a text saying, "i'm outside."

I get a near instant reply saying her dad wants me to come in and meet him, and wait.

I replied, "Maybe another time we are booked for 30 minutes from now."

So 2 minutes later out walks her dad coming right for my car (I'm basically parked at the bottom of his drive), so I got out as if I was going in anyway introduce myself and act normal and honestly the whole interaction went perfect and I feel I came across great.

I do stress to him I cant stay long that we've got plans booked and I cant be late.

Finally get her into the car and we go. I kind of feel ambushed and annoyed towards her. The adventure thing went alright but she noticed I was off.

Adventure thing ends, and we are heading out to the car. She asks if we are going back to mine. I told her no I've got other plans. (It was Sunday afternoon around 3ish, no plans really but what does she know.)

So once in the car I put music up reasonably loud and we don't talk for the whole ride home. We arrive at hers and she tries to end the day like a date, tries to say good bye, tries to kiss me. I just ignore her and say, "I'll text you."

So I'm driving and my phone and get 4 text messages,

"Are you mad at me? :("

"Was it my dad?"

10 minute gap

"You are acting like a child"

10 minute gap

"Sorry, text me later and we can talk."

I didn't get home until after the last text was sent. So I just ignored them all.

So that was Sunday. Got a text Wednesday night asking what I was up to at the weekend and I just ignored it.

How do I proceed?

Did I handle it wrong? How should you handle this? I was trying to come across annoyed as if what happened was unacceptable and I feel I achieved that, but in hind sight I feel like I may have went to far and honestly I don't know if anything that I did was correct.

Where I stand:

Do I still want to plate her? yes

Could I see an LTR in the future? Possibly, to soon to tell but its not ruled out.