Does a solution exist?

tepper2 · 2015-07-09T17:30:26+00:00

I hooked up with a girl while her bf was sleeping in the next room

I want make her my gf

You got yourself a unicorn, son. Put a ring on it. Wife the fuck out of her, nothing can possibly go wrong.

1NV0K3R · 2015-07-09T17:43:50+00:00

Go to seddit with this bullshit.

Edit: Actually, tell me her name and where you guys live, and make her your gf. Let me know when you guys are having a party and make sure to sleep in the other room. I'll take things from there.

Johnny10toes · 2015-07-09T17:44:04+00:00

Read the sidebar. That's your solution.

UnluckyPenguin · 2015-07-09T17:31:06+00:00

*Edit: better solution - don't trust a cheating whore. I know I wouldn't. And it's not even spinning plates if you only have 1. So it sounds like you have one-itits, which doesn't seem to have a cure.

You're young, probably around college age. You're supposed to date a lot of women.

The best solution would be to remove any labels, especially "girlfriend". That girl is your friend. The male version is 'friendzoned'; the female version is 'fuckzoned'. Actually get to know her as a person before you turn it into an LTR.

So, the first step - Postpone gratification. If your 'relationship' with this chick can't wait a month, then it never stood a chance anyway. Get the girl to move out.
Second step - Be friends with the girl, actually get to know her. Don't force yourself to be exclusive with her. Wait at least 3 months before you even make a hint about being exclusive, and definitely say 'I.L.Y.' less than she does (although personally any girl that says that after less than 1 month of dating, I consider a red flag and get out of there)
Third step - Don't move in together unless you are going to marry the girl next month. But what if we can save money? Scarcity mentality. Stay away from it.

RPmatrix · 2015-07-09T18:11:10+00:00

stop using throwaways and come back when you've got some comment karma, stop wasting our time asking to be 'spoon fed' "how to's"

the sidebar reading, is where you belong Right Now

Title	Does a solution exist?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	July 9, 2015 5:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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