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Yeah, StrongLifts does it on DeadLift day. Also on SL you reduce it by 15%? if you keep missing this one and start again.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 11:26 PM
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It's like he's trying to fuck up on purpose.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:53 PM
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Sometimes you're the girls friend because you've got oneitis. Sometimes though she likes you and she's trying to get you.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 03:46 PM
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They're making money. They don't care about the test.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 02:25 PM
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It's kind of like you don't "act" like a bad boy you "are" a bad boy. Just like you can't act tough, you'll get your card pulled. You actually have to be tough.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:54 AM
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She doesn't. He's the safe bet.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:10 AM
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It's their job dude.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 01:10 PM
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You mean like free meal Friday?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 01:09 PM
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It's literally Fight, Flight, Freeze.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:12 PM
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Yes it's possible to be an alpha without being an asshole. Read the sidebar and then read The Charisma Myth.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 03:55 PM
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If you're so good looking then why are you so insecure that you're posting a dick measuring contest on here? Mens attractiveness isn't quite as straight forward as womens. Also if you want to know how attractive you are and are not quite getting girls yet then see if gay dudes are checking you out. They're easier to spot than women as women can be more subtle sometimes.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:08 PM
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Maybe he started reading TRP and got the wrong idea of alpha.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:16 AM
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Sounds like she's got issues and trying to control you.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 05:02 PM
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Not only this, sounds like the only thing she did was follow him. I follow a lot of people I'm not interested in.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:09 PM
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Some people do it because they're insecure but some people do it because they can.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:04 PM
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Yes, this is classic "Why didn't you fight for us?" drama. And it sounds like she's jealous of his family and when he crawls back into her life he'll tone that down and be more focused on her.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 03:53 PM
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With mine I talked with my GP about problems I was having and he prescribed a couple of medications. He told me that I needed to see a psychiatrist so I got that set up and he kept me on the same meds but had me take them at different times. I told him that I was worried about ED or no libido with them but that I didn't have a problem with that. He said that most people just get delayed orgasm.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 08:20 PM
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Yeah I mean I don't know. There are a lot of possibilities but for real it's how babies are made.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:45 PM
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That's how babies are made. It's also how mistakes are covered. "I had a gang bang and don't know who the daddy is. Maybe I can convince someone it's his."
/r/askTRP12/04/16 09:32 PM
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I'll call the jewelry store and see if they'll take the ring back. I didn't get it engraved
/r/askTRP12/04/16 09:29 PM
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Yes. Why hold someone you don't like in your mind? Let it go.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:25 PM
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48 Laws of Power is highly situational. It's a "You've got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em." type thing.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:59 PM
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Be a better branch than the rest of them.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 05:51 PM
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I would think that there are many approaches to handling your situation. I can give you a couple of my own hang ups and how I got through them and I suggest reading that book. I do line work which involves handling live conductors, 8k volts, 15k volts, and climbing poles. I would get nervous climbing but I would be adrenaline fueled on the high voltage. Logically it should have been the other way. The voltage was much more hazardous than climbing. The amount of time I spent in trees when I was a…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:58 PM
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I'm going to start working my way on the My Personal MBA list.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:21 PM
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The thing about hard things is that they're hard. Read The Obstacle is the Way. What you're doing is going up to the obstacle and turning around. Do you do the same thing in BJJ? How difficult would it be to beat an opponent you didn't counter? Look for the silver lining in your obstacles.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:18 PM
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What Every Body is Saying by Joe Navarro and The Definitive Guide to Body Language are both very good. There is also a great video on YouTube but I am on mobile right now.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:14 PM
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Sometimes the ugly duckling are the closest thing to unicorns. Looks and aren't straight cunts.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 08:12 PM
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Hell yes
/r/askTRP24/02/16 01:46 AM
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I liked her interview with Tim Ferriss. Warning: She says triggered.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 12:54 AM
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It's a neat lens to view the world with.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 03:36 PM
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Mine was from Mad Men but he and aren't friends anymore. "You miss me this week?" I didn't think of you at all.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 03:28 PM
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I also discovered TRP from DB's. Wasn't even directed to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 05:59 PM
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When I was a kid I was a skinny little guy. I got fat and still saw the skinny guy. Years later I lost 40 lbs and still see the fat guy haha.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 11:02 PM
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Maybe so haha. If so then it's only a matter of time before she pops anyway. A lot of people I've seen that the wife finds out she uses it to pretty much keep the husband under wraps. I know this one couple where he was doing "something" and now she goes everywhere he does. He works out of state. She follows him. Nope, I don't need a baby sitter.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:53 PM
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Cheating
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:44 PM
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Standard TRP and dread. She probably "got you back" after you got caught cheating.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:34 PM
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Ecclesiastes 9:11 I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all. KJV Let him act like the clever archers who, designing to hit the mark which yet appears too far distant, and knowing the limits to which the strength of their bow attains, take aim much higher than the mark, not to reach by their stren…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:29 PM
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You can't change the past. The future is not certain. Don't dwell on either. Learn from the past. Work towards the future. Live in the present.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:21 PM
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I just got my levels checked. I'm a boy! But they weren't on the high side. I'm currently eating keto and lifting. I'm going to check them again in about 5 months to see where it goes. Then after that another 6 months. I think I'll have more info that way and see then if I want to try something else.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 01:10 AM
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You're right
/r/askTRP29/01/16 01:00 AM
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Do what you can on the gadget. Drawings and shit.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:57 AM
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How many women do you know that apologize for being a woman? Cero
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:55 AM
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Ignore it or text back "Don't bother" People tend to remember the good stuff and not the bad stuff. No way to really tell though. Edit: Don't text that. It would probably sound butt hurt.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:53 AM
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You're not going to get better at this by sitting behind the keyboard.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 01:23 PM
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There's a couple things you should know. One is that you were invited to make her look good. In most people's case this is a bad thing. You're being used even if the surface is a friendly invite. It's likely that you won't go far with her. You can go and practice meeting people.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 01:02 PM
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It's a sign to stop responding.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 12:54 PM
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I had wondered this about myself once because I took a test online that had you read the emotion in peoples eyes. I bombed it. I investigated it further, online, and ruled it out.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 06:22 PM
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People are downvoting you but this is a legit question people. I don't think he means harm. If you do have Asperger, knowing could help him enormously.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 06:12 PM
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Somos lobos
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:41 PM
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It's more of a feedback loop than a simple delusion. You're also deluding yourself in the other direction, but let's make some loops. Chad decides he wants to shoot some hoops. He does and he misses a couple then hits one. "Bam! Money!" This boosts his confidence and he starts hitting more baskets. He still misses a couple but that's not important to him. The misses don't discourage him. Beta Bob decides to shoot some hoops. He missed a couple and made one. "I guess I got lucky..." No confidence…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:38 PM
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I get what you're asking and one of the traits of a narcissistic person is delusions of grandeur. Some chads are DT so it fits.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:22 PM
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Sometimes. Reading Models helped me out with that. It told me that it's OK to find this girl attractive, there is nothing wrong with me. I should read it again.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:13 PM
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Second Tim Ferris and add The Art of Charm.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:02 PM
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She's just getting her rocks off at a 22 year old thinking she's still sexy.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 03:41 PM
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Wouldn't the jealous girlfriend be working in his favor on this one? Telling the prey how awful he is?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:19 PM
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He's more than likely going to let her next level dread him with this. The only real way I see is for her to come completely clean, tell him that it's because he's a pussy and she's a whore. Then there is the chance he'll off himself.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 06:09 PM
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She did mention that if I had been fucking someone else, then she would totally come over and hop on his dick. Because she finds him disgusting right?
/r/askTRP18/01/16 09:57 AM
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I've suggested it to people before.
/r/RedPillBooks17/01/16 04:05 PM
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I thought it was good. It gives you a little insight on how some manipulations work.
/r/RedPillBooks17/01/16 04:53 AM
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Right. Proper response to that is "You shouldn't"
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:06 PM
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Because they think they know what they want.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:54 PM
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It's hard to go home again
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:19 PM
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I think you are on target but you're looking at one side. You're just looking at the Fake it till you make it guys which is not yet Make it. You can fake it till you make it but eventually you have to make it. So instead of acting alpha you need to be alpha. Don't act tough, be tough. Don't act hard, be hard... You get the point.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:16 PM
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Start gaming hood chicks.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:09 PM
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You can mention stuff but don't expect him to take your unsolicited advice.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:07 PM
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You already know the answer and even said it. Do it. Don't worry about it. Leave if you find it.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:06 PM
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Kind of like how men are attracted to the hip to waist ratio on women.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:03 PM
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Nice find. There is a website like this but I forget it's name. You input a celebs name and it comes back with clothing they wear.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:06 PM
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I'm not bilingual. I know some Spanish, probably enough to survive in a Spanish speaking country. I can only say a few things. Anyway I was talking about this on the Skype group for /r/Spanish and some of the bilingual people said that Hispanic people have really dirty mouths. I'm guessing that it works similar and watching Narcos I picked a little bit of it up but not much. Look at that guy over there. Look at that fucking guy over there. Fucking look at that fucking guy over there. Just one wo…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:00 PM
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Not to forget "You get them on the weekends so you can babysit while I take these cocks in my whore mouth."
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 03:40 PM
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Well you can make excuses or you can make improvements. Up to you.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:43 PM
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You may have to look at it like a means to an end for a while. I love running. I mean I hate it but I love it. When I am sitting there and knowing I should go for a run its a dreaded feeling but once I lace up the Minimus and hit the street I love it. Very meditative. When I see a hill I'm, usually, not thinking oh gosh no its more like focusing on nothing but getting to the top. I know it will be grueling and I hate it and that's why it feels so good. The sense of accomplishment when you you re…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 05:55 PM
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The world needs more people like her. Men have sent other men straight to their death charging machine gun nests. I think you can get over this.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 05:25 PM
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Because you don't have an abundance mentally. You think that there is only a limited supply of money. Don't worry. They'll print more.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 04:23 PM
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They hamster stuff away. Go watch Memento. The guy in it has a bad case of not having a short term memory. Without giving away the movie he has to write stuff down to remember it. What if he would have written it down wrong on purpose? Next day he wouldn't know the difference. That's sort of how women are. They can lie to themselves and believe it. Guys can do this too but to a lesser degree. It's a broad subject though.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 04:09 PM
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Don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. Let that sink in. We're told to pay attention to their actions but even actions can be lies.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:41 PM
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My first thought was that it was an empty threat. Just never know for sure. She can handle herself in a fight and shoots as well as I do. Why she started arguing with retards on the Internet I don't know.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:22 PM
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Don't worry about it. I got the answer I was leaning towards. I tend to let things slide and sometimes I shouldn't. I was making sure that this was one. And that's how it relates to TRP. Me being better.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 07:22 PM
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I remember I had a gf once that I would tell "I'll be there at 7." And she wouldn't see me for a couple of days. It took her parents forcing her to break up with me before she'd do it haha. She was old enough but she still lived with them.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:45 PM
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True. I was trying to make sure I wasn't missing something that I needed to be doing.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:03 PM
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You're right but she understands that she called him names too so it's not exactly the victim part. As far as safe she can handle that. It would actually be funny if this guy showed up at my house and wasn't heavily strapped. He'd be picking bricks out of his teeth. I'm more pissed about the principal of the thing.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 05:36 PM
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I'm not sure I care. I mean the president is a puppet of whoever the powers that be are. He's the court jester dressed up like a king to keep the public distracted for a while. You can't revolt because you voted for him.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:20 PM
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What a lot of people forget here is that you can use AWALT to your advantage even inside a LTR.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 02:45 PM
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Doesn't sound petty at all. The stoic way would be to accept that you made a mistake, learn from it and move forward.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:55 PM
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From your side it appears that she's doing this because the boyfriend found out and "I didn't kiss him he raped me." As for what to do I don't know.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 02:26 PM
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No
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:10 PM
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Plus while at his place he did something for her and didn't assert himself "OK look in that drawer and hand me that pan" so it was passive.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:00 PM
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Or liking your stuff so you'll start hammering the like button on her page.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:54 PM
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I've read one of that guys books, The Good Psychopath's Guide to Success and I enjoyed it.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:50 PM
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I wouldn't LTR this one.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:32 PM
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I recommend reading Games People Play and The Gervais Principal.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:29 PM
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It's more like the sunk cost fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 11:44 PM
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That's how the wallflower gets his tight game.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 12:44 AM
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You could sit here and make excuses or go on exciting dates.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 12:10 AM
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Lauren gobblins a lot of cock too.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 11:03 PM
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It's surprising what flags guys will ignore to get the prized job of getting shit on.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 09:41 PM
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Games People Play - read it
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:30 PM
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Nah I'm not hungry, just finished Rover off.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:18 PM
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Guys initiate. Girls respond. Do you want her to be your girlfriend or something?
/r/askTRP28/12/15 11:08 PM
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You can make excuses or you can do something.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 11:06 PM
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My mil has recently had an ex yes ex husband die. They probably have known each other for 2.5 years total. Married after a few months and divorced a few months later. She's walking around like the widowed bride. They're both old like 70's and 80's. She told her daughter "No one has ever loved me the way he did." She told her to shut the fuck up and that her dad was married to her for over 30 years. Truth is that the old dude was a sob and hated everyone.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 05:39 PM
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Just start adding them in.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 03:04 PM
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Ovulation
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:31 PM
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There is an old saying, Revenge is a dish best served cold. Why? Because then you'll realize it doesn't matter. Holding on to something for that long makes you hollow. It consumes your thoughts and actions. It clouds your emotions. It keeps that person on the pedestal still. Every day you wake thinking about them. You go to bed with them on your mind. You're not controlling your life they are because you allow it. Learn to forget. I was taught by my parents to forgive and forget in a Christian h…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 06:42 PM
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I don't get the backlash from talking RP ideas. Maybe it's because I'm older but I only get the occasional "You must hate women." thing. I'm also careful with what I say. Try to say it like it's an old maxim.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 03:37 PM
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A Guide to the Good Life is a good book to start with. Stoicism is a simple concept but takes a lot to master. After that the book The Obstacle is the Way would be great.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:35 PM
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I was never completely beta. I didn't always understand things but I had no trouble getting girls. I got married and got beta fucked. The dead bedroom happened and in /r/deadbedrooms someone mentioned TRP. At first I was a little apprehensive about reading it because there was no turning back but once I got going it was "yes yes this is what I have been seeing my whole life but couldn't put my finger on."
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:29 PM
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Damn dude.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:23 PM
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It depends on what you need done. An alpha isn't scared to delegate or get his hands dirty. Look up /u/illimitableman site and his post on The King, The General and The Advisor. Hint, the general is the more alpha of the bunch. Edit: http://illimitablemen.com/2014/11/15/nuance-in-manipulative-style-the-machiavellian-trifecta/
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:22 PM
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As long as it's Averill Lavine you should be OK. Did punk change? Back in the day it was fuck the system and fuck you too.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:03 PM
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"Sure but we may have to end it early "
/r/askTRP12/12/15 11:21 PM
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Oh yeah we're practically twins.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:08 PM
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It was too long. I recommend cutting it down to the bare bones.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 09:54 PM
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You expect us to read all of that? What do you want?
/r/askTRP12/12/15 09:49 PM
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What is your wife doing on Tinder?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 04:09 PM
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If I look at a woman long enough they become unattractive. Even with 10's. I don't know why.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 01:30 PM
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Do it in front of the defense.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 01:40 PM
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It's just a phase but no you can't get plugged back in. One day you'll realize that a person at any given moment is doing what they think they should be doing. You'll pull off enough masks to realize that underneath there is simple human consciousness driven by primal fears and emotions. People are looking for the next chemical kick to their brain.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 01:38 PM
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You're going too slow. You should have asked her out for coffee when she opened you. That out of the way you could have asked her out today. You didn't though. Do it next time or find another. Look at how it appears. "After a month of staring at me I decided to talk to him. Then after a week he talked to me. We talked 3 times before he got enough courage to ask me out. "
/r/askTRP09/12/15 01:28 PM
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Even better.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 11:21 PM
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That would depend on a lot of factors. Generally though it is a bad thing when you find out that you're not in complete control of your destiny. And even if you do own your own business then in some ways the business owns you too. So there is a huge trade for owning your own business. The worker at the bottom just scraping by trades 100 of thousands a year to keep his head clear. Sure he's got stuff to worry about but nothing like an owner.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 09:59 PM
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This is right. What you said wasn't bad but it wasn't the truth. You deflected the pain. You could have done it without lying.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 09:12 PM
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Someone correct me if I'm wrong but shouldn't you get her to agree to hang out before you set the date? We should hang. Yeah Next Thursday at 8 No good for me I might be able to shuffle around something for Tuesday.. I'm free Tuesday I mean I know you're the prize but
/r/askTRP07/12/15 09:04 PM
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Uber
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:40 AM
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I don't think about whores.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:42 PM
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"Cool" Then never do it again
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:37 PM
4

Why would you lie? The idea behind abundance mentally is that you have the power to get someone else at any given time. This way you don't let some gash walk all over you like she's your prized possession. It can be faked and us married guys do it all the time.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 12:01 PM
2

A coworker, whom I tried to bring RP and failed, was rumored to have given a chick 2 grand. Was quoted as "I haven't heard from her since." NSS
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:47 PM
3

It's as hard as you make it. You're reprogramming your thinking so it doesn't happen overnight.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:40 PM
11

No, I've never fucked a 350 lb girl with red and blue hair, 22 chest tattoos and 76 facial piercings.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:39 PM
2

Which is why he should just reply "k" and be done with her. She'll be back.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 02:48 PM
3

You're not short, you're just not tall.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 02:25 PM
3

There are some things you can't change. Balding, penis size and height. How can you ask someone to accept you when you don't accept you?
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:11 PM
11

Doesn't matter what you want, she doesn't want to see you anymore. "K" and move on.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:04 PM
8

I was married when I found TRP. She just happens to be sane. RPW would love her. You guys would love her. A couple of my comments that you guys upvote are things she's said when we are bsing together.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:09 AM
1

She canceled and said she needs "me" time or she rescheduled because of "me" time? Sounds like she's got other options. No big deal but not to cancel for it.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:02 AM
1

That's because you're insecure. You have to look at the possible outcomes and know that you will be OK no matter what.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:07 PM
1

Stand up
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:23 PM
2

Go there expecting nothing.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:59 PM
47

You mean your new ex girlfriend?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:06 PM
1

I mostly listen to the Tim Ferris podcast. Not really TRP but has improvement advice. The Art of Charm has a few nice things to say when they are not trying to sell you stuff.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:24 PM
1

Stoic at night and mindfulness when I think about it and have some time. I usually think about the mindfulness when I am stressed. Usually around 10 minutes but others go longer.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:53 PM
1

There are several ways to meditate. I use about 3. Stoic meditation you sit and play through the day while asking if you did this or that like a stoic. This will help you think before you act during the day. Mindfulness helps you focus and not fly off the handle.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:32 PM
1

Don't matter, you can't just grow taller. If she doesn't like it then find one that does.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:25 PM
4

Stoicism would say to find some things that you can take away. As a virtue you should be practicing patience at the least. For the rest I'd suggest that you practice listening and reading body language. Plus some fat girls are great for practicing banter. Some not so much.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:51 PM
3

I think I'd do what you're doing. "He said that? Haha okay..."
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:21 PM
2

I would suggest that you read The Charisma Myth. In it they talk about having a powerful presence. See you can be nice and powerful. Problem is that most of us nice guys are nice and weak. This way you can be more congruent with who you are but not be a doormat.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 08:13 PM
6

We can want this for every man but that does not mean that will take it. The old saying that you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. You could try priming him up some. Suggest red pill things or comment about red pill stuff like in terms of relationships that you both see. I do this for guys who haven't taken the pill and I don't get slammed.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 07:57 PM
1

Why don't you accept yourself?
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:44 PM
1

Thanks, I understand the red pill very well. I do hold frame. I do pass most shit tests. There are some aspects of dread that I'm bad with. One is her seeing other women attracted to me. She doesn't have many friends and some that we do interact with are ugly and she knows that I wouldn't be interested in them even though they tell her that they'd bone me if she ever messed up. The other is that I no longer have good friends. I also try to hold myself to Christian values. This puts a limitation …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 02:59 PM
1

Hopefully someone will remember. Good luck
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:27 AM
1

That's a really good post. I should read more dal, I'm struggling right now with some of these things. At first dread was easy. Now it's harder to establish and I think I'm going to crack before she does.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 01:26 AM
2

Can you give us more to go on? If you need help with neuroticism then check out The Charisma Myth. It has helped me with my self diagnosed neuroticism.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:46 AM
7

See a therapist. I look stuff up myself but whatever I do is on me. This is asking for help that a professional should be giving you.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 06:32 PM
3

The Wall is a reality. It's going to be different for each individual. Some girl who was ugly growing up and ugly at 40 is not the same as the prom queen who gets ugly as time goes on. And some of the attractive women stay smoking hot well into their 50's. All different realities. It's the same for guys. Some never really peak. They go into their prime years fat and lazy and loaded with debt.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 02:51 PM
1

As such, money is simply a construct.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 02:16 PM
1

Read the book The Obstacle is the Way. It shows that you need to do these things to get what you want. Bad at math but need it to get something? Then do math. Want to be swole but hate lifting? Then lift. Want to learn a language but can't find time? Make the time.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 01:59 PM
1

Don't talk about Fight Club. Actually do. The thing you should take away from Fight Club is that you need to get off your ass and do something.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:39 PM
0

I don't think you can really do anything unless you are a bit venerable.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:21 PM
1

Dude this could have been more about her rejecting someone than it was about you.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:19 AM
3

Re: my ex is playing games. Everyone is playing games. Get used to it.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 02:39 PM
3

Did you read the sidebar? She isn't different. You aren't special. You din't find the one that you must pedestal and worship for a while before she finally notices that the one she was looking for was right there the whole time. There are thousands of posts on here that sound identical to yours. You want to keep being friends with this girl then go for it, just don't lie to yourself about what's going on. And that's what TRP is about, ripping open the curtain to reveal the wizard behind it.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 02:28 PM
3

It's simple but just like in the Matrix the mind has trouble letting go. There are all kinds of sayings that point that acceptance, I like the one about the scorpion riding the back of the animal across the water and it stung him and they both drown. I'm on mobile so you'll have to look it up. There was no reason for the animal to get angry, it trusted a scorpion and the scorpion just did what scorpions do. So who can you be angry with? The world for lying to you? No. The women? No. Yourself? No…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:51 PM
1

They know how to get out of the friend zone. No contact. You may can string her for a bit but I'm betting she'll no contact you. Just a matter of time.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:06 PM
1

You kind of messed it up when you went with her but no big deal. She invited you a girl so you could have taken the clue and the lead there. She thinks you're attractive enough she would suggest you to her friend. Was her friend hot? If she was fea then she thinks you aren't good enough for her but are just perfect for her ugly friend. Claro?
/r/askTRP13/10/15 12:17 PM
1

You smell? Not really enough to go on here.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:41 PM
0

It's sort of a pill to swallow in itself. Some of us guys look for a woman that loves us like our mom did. Which clouded with the chemical reactions we think we have found. After years wear out the relationship it tells a different tale but we're still hoping she does love us like that. She can't. She can only love her son like that. That's tough to swallow but once you do you can go back to loving her for as long as it lasts.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:40 PM
3

You check her clothes? Troll post.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:27 PM
1

You should have checked him for a gun and said "I'm a frisker."
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:23 PM
2

This is a good point and ties in to the question. You can look at a lot of bragging as the person thinks they are better than you and must prove it by showing you and getting your validation which counters their little thing and proves the opposite unless you actually give in and give them validation.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:14 PM
5

I guess, I love my wife. I don't see her the same though.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:10 PM
1

You know we're going to say no but you want us to say yes. Do what you want but the answer is still no.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:07 PM
1

Sure but eventually, if you act tough, you'll run across a mother fucker that wants to see if you're as tough as him. That's the difference.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:56 PM
1

Do whatever you want. Just don't come here and ask for advice if you've already got what you want the answers to be.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:53 PM
1

To a certain point. For instance don't act tough, be tough. Don't act strong, be strong. See the difference?
/r/askTRP07/10/15 10:10 PM
1

Just approach them. Or send them a text that says "I'm too scared to talk to you in person so I got your number from a Facebook post. Maybe we could talk like this for a while until I get the nerve to talk to you in person. You're not an axe murderer are you?" Edit: that last bit was sarcasm. Just meet them.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:54 PM
1

You're looking at it from the wrong perspective. Sure you might just need a few tweaks to be perfect but some on here are years from fixing themselves. Loads of stuff to work through. Some will have to change how they think about things. Things that come natural to you. So it's a long game change.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 01:01 PM
1

There are people who would pay you to tutor them in learning a language.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 04:51 PM
1

You think you could set us up?
/r/askTRP01/10/15 03:56 PM
2

"Why don't you have pictures of your old girlfriend?" I don't have problems letting go.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 03:50 PM
0

Learn a second language
/r/askTRP01/10/15 03:32 PM
1

I write down the exercises then weight. Once I complete the exercise I write down the number of reps I did at the weight. I don't change the weight during a workout while going for strength but I do if I'm going for higher rep workouts and can't complete the target reps on the first exercise.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 12:36 PM
-1

Everything is the game. It never ends.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 12:31 PM
2

Right, I threw that in there so op wouldn't go around thinking he could be always perfect.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:27 PM
2

You're on the right track but you should look at in terms of lifting someone up rather than sucking up to them. What's the saying? The rising tide lifts all boats. You're giving them value, you're making yourself valuable to them.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:40 PM
1

That's a broad question.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:16 PM
8

Most of the time things aren't really about you. It's about the way the other person perceives things. Never let success go to your head. Never let failure go to your heart. Rethink the interaction with this filter. Don't let her emotions go to your heart here. Now you could have a problem but that's for you to look inside and decide. Because sometimes it is about you.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 12:43 PM
1

Hi. How is your mom and dad? Cool, tell them I said hi.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 10:14 PM
2

No
/r/askTRP11/09/15 10:14 PM
3

It's likely cultural. It's a culture where it's okay to be ignorant. Not that there is anything wrong with being ignorant but they wear it like a badge of honor, being ignorant is better than knowing. It's a little bit weird that you have to watch yourself that you don't appear too smart or they'll get offended like you're looking down on them for being ignorant.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 10:13 PM
1

They would swing to that branch if they could.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 10:09 PM
4

By doing it. What happened to you? I grew up. (Change subject)
/r/askTRP11/09/15 10:08 PM
1

There are a few things going on here. One is that guys do befriend women because they are easier to talk to than guys. It is usually the guys that don't understand male to male relationships, the part where dudes will fuck with each other. They take this as an insult instead of ribbing. It becomes a buffer to not bond with males. Another thing is that women don't make awesome friends. Look at it in terms of value in and value out. The woman will always be pulling more value than giving value. Th…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 12:50 PM
1

One of the big things is asking if this is going to present myself to the world as I intend before posting.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 12:11 PM
1

Before TRP I'd say that I'm not better than anyone else and they are not better than me. After TRP it's still the same. In terms of stoicism they are not under your control so you shouldn't spend time wondering why they don't rise out of their self inflicted drudgery of a life. Success isn't measured by what society tells you success is. That's just one way to look at it. People who lived happy lives are successful. Some of the people you describe are blissfully unaware they could be better off.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:13 PM
1

I'm religious. I believe in God.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:07 PM
2

This isn't the right thing to do but it's the first thing I thought of.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 02:51 PM
1

Then don't do it. The ones that tell you that you should have got to answer for themselves, you've got to answer for you and I've got to answer for me. If you feel guilty then don't.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 02:34 PM
3

There is something very powerful about casting your cares on Christ. Some things are out of your control so you can't do anything but pray.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:59 PM
3

You're not the only one that believes in God here. I pray first thing in the morning and last thing at night. I'm going to try to remember to do a mindfulness meditation each day and a stoic meditation at night. I think it would be good for me. I'd like to do the mindfulness meditation in the morning but I already get up super early.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:54 PM
12

It's a mind trick to get you in a better perspective. A lot of what we do naturally is reactive. This nips that in the bud. It's very close to acceptance phase.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:14 PM
3

This is something I have stuck in Evernote and read often. Mark 8:36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? KJV Proverbs 27:20 Death and destruction are never satisfied, neither are human eyes. NIV Ecclesiastes 9:11 I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth t…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:27 PM
1

Yes it is possible to get out of the friend zone. No contact. Ever. See? Now you're not friends. Don't try to get her, you will slip back in.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:05 PM
2

Who?
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:02 PM
1

If you want to look like a guy who has been lifting for 3 years, you have to lift for 3 years. It's likely that you're not lifting heavy enough.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:43 PM
3

Do I care if you stick needles in your own butt? No.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 10:10 PM
1

It's not a compliment. It falls into line with those "Real men hold doors open for ladies." type statements. A way to praise you for being a goon so you'll be a goon. When you're there with your puppy and you throw the ball and he brings it back what do you do? "Good boy!" and pat him on the head. Same thing. They are getting the most they can out of you for a simple pat on the head.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:36 AM
3

I’m not attentive towards her needs, I’m not appreciative of her efforts at home, I don’t spend enough time with the children, I don’t give her enough time to herself, and she feels lonely and exhausted. So she wants you to kiss her ass, leave her alone to fuck chad?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:32 AM
1

Because if she will or she won't, there's no point worrying about it. You're doing all you can to be your best and that's all you can do. You're playing your cards right. If she plays hers wrong then that's her loss. Rake in the winnings and deal the next hand.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:25 AM
0

I think you should look into PHAT. I haven't done it, it's a 5 day program that looks like it pulls in ideas from lifting for strength and ideas from lifting for mass. I can't remember the exact number of strength days vs hypertrophy days but it's 2 one and 3 the other. The hypertrophy is what's bothering you right now. So if you went to a full strength style program it would seem like it's not doing anything, I seem to recover pretty well as a 40+ year old on SL, but it's working. I'm definitel…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 03:16 PM
0

All I keep hearing from you is excuses. Do you want it? If so then put in the work. If not then stop wasting my time. A couple years ago I was working 6 14's and still put in an hour on the treadmill and some time with the weights I had available 3 times a week for a couple of months. You'll get no sympathy from me. I'm sure you can make your 10 hour days work.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 05:17 AM
4

I try to be young but I keep on aging. How do I stop?
/r/askTRP30/08/15 04:10 AM
1

Why waste brain functions on it?
/r/askTRP30/08/15 04:08 AM
1

I work in the powerline industry. My barbell row is the same weight as my bench press. Thur night lift. Fri morning run. Sat afternoon lift. Sun morning run. Mon 2AM lift. Tues night run. Suck it up buttercup.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 04:03 AM
1

Go to the doctor. Get over it. Start again. This is life, not just a moment.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 03:57 AM
1

I'm on week 10 of SL 5x5 and doing B210K. It's working for me. Getting stronger and more fit in the cardio department. And I'm an old ass.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 01:17 AM
48

You'll see a guy fall for a waitress but how many women are knocking down doors to get with a waiter? Sure they'll fuck a waiter but....
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 04:28 PM
3

Why are you scared they won't like it? Sounds like scarcity to me.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 02:46 PM
2

It's not different. They're both weak.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 07:16 PM
2

Just banter dude.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:47 PM
12

Chapter is done. Cards were dealt and the hand was played. It's over now so write the next chapter, and deal the next hand. I'd get some boxes and pack up all her shit. Don't destroy anything or act out, just pack it. When she gets back in town tell her to pick it up. Have a good friend be there, maybe even be out when she gets there. Just don't fall for the "I'm sorry boohoo" bit because she's not sorry she did it, she's sorry she got caught.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:37 PM
2

Why do you care so much? Hint: You shouldn't care at all.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:36 PM
5

/r/stoicism For me personally I go through things with a Christian type of value coupled with stoicism. The Power of Now is a good book that will help you step out of your head. It doesn't really show you what to do though. It will show you your ego however and this ego is the reason a lot of people break frame. First when I got into stoicism it shut me down. I wasn't being moved by events and that was OK but I wasn't going in a direction. Later this changed and I started doing things that shape…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:31 PM
3

So now that you know the problem, fix it.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:26 PM
1

How is it difficult?
/r/askTRP23/08/15 09:35 PM
2

What's RP?
/r/askTRP23/08/15 09:34 PM
3

Next her.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 09:24 PM
1

How much you weigh?
/r/askTRP23/08/15 08:20 PM
1

I don't think it's a waste of time. Just like you said, networking with people. There are a lot of guys that watch sports, play sports and the like. Girls do too. So you can get into conversations with guys that help build rapport with them and build a meaningful relationship. A lot of guys are lacking in the area of male to male relationships. It's not necessarily a switched on building value thing, but I wouldn't call it completely wasteful. Same goes for video games. NO! Not saying play games…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 04:05 PM
3

Expand on this please. I think it raises a good point.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:56 PM
9

Your LTR is right in being worried about this girl if you remember helping her after 3 years. That's some next level regret right there. She's wrong about telling you who you can or can't talk to. Tell your LTR that she's not in your life to police who you let into your life.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:44 PM
1

Models is a good book that will help you angry be congruent with who you are.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:36 PM
3

Sounds like oneitis. Why do you care more about this girl than your bro?
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:32 PM
2

Where you carry weight is genetic. Mine is in my gut, it's the last bit I lose. Some people carry more in ass. Some thighs. Some face. Just keep lifting and dieting. Keto is a great fat busting diet. Use that with intermittent fasting, it'll take a bit of time to kick in but once it does it goes pretty quick.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 12:00 PM
3

When I run my first marathon I'm going to eat eggs and drink coffee. I'm going to be the free shitter. It's a bodily function that people keep to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 09:56 PM
3

It's a buffer. It doesn't work.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 02:40 AM
1

Women seem to make everyone they know into a tool. Aparently you're the tool she uses to get her pussy off.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 07:27 PM
2

The idea is to have relaxing things that you do to entertain yourself that are also productively adding to your SMV. It's killing two birds with one stone. You do need to unwind.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 07:24 PM
0

"yeah"
/r/askTRP14/08/15 07:11 PM
2

That's pretty much it. To live life without blinders.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:27 PM
2

This was the underlying theme in Fight Club. That you're wasting your life one second at a time. EDIT: What she did was psychological manipulation. To which you should have told her to take a hike.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 12:11 AM
4

Mine is calling mid life crisis.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 06:21 PM
1

And possibly get brinner.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 02:13 AM
2

Just wait dude. And go meet some more girls.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:21 PM
1

You should have said, after she told you she trusted you, "Yeah." which would have been an unspoken "Does he trust me? OMG am I doing something wrong?" but instead you told her you didn't trust her and she got pissed. In essence you invited this on yourself. You kind of screwed the pooch with this one.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 01:35 PM
1

http://illimitablemen.com/2015/06/23/notes-on-law-28-enter-action-with-boldness/ To lead you have to make decisions. You also have to work.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:24 PM
4

Read this on Law 28. Buy the book Certain to Win. With a 25% stake in the company you're going to want to do what you can to make it grow and thrive.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:04 PM
3

I think you over reacted since you guys play in private. She didn't know it was a boundary.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:30 PM
3

Lighten up Francis.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:27 PM
2

Stop living in the past. Stop living in the future. There is nothing you can do about these two. The past happened and it was the way it was supposed to be. Everyone at any moment is doing what they are supposed to be doing. Not that it's right mind you, Hitler thought he was right. The future you can plan for but it doesn't mean that it will be what you want. Ecclesiastes 9:11 I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread t…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:21 PM
5

Why are you even talking to her?
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:01 PM
2

Any recommended reading on this? Something that I could do while still having a full time job?
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:59 PM
6

It's a shit test. Ignore it to pass.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:11 PM
2

Take it and eject later. Companies are not loyal unless it's a family company. Besides you can do better.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:12 PM
1

To lift and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 12:58 PM
1

Considering a lot of books get rejected I wouldn't read anything into it.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 12:49 PM
6

Yeah, I was bullied. By guys at school and there were things that my dad, even though I think he was a good dad, should never say to his son. He did the best he knew how to. There is something that you need to understand about bullying. Just like girls will shit test you, guys also test. There is a theory that it's to build up the tribe of only strong me. Strong tribe survives, weak ones die. What happened was that you failed a bunch of these tests. You didn't know how to pass them. It's OK. I d…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 12:43 PM
2

I would forget they exist. As long as you are thinking about them they hold some power over you. If they say something about you and you get offended they win. Here is a line, not verbatim, by Dr Cox on Scrubs that sums up this way of handling people like this. I don't hate people, hate is a strong word. I nothing them. If a person doesn't like me then who cares? I'm not going to waste brain process on them. Unless there is a threat of harm, and I don't mean the Facebook "Wait till I see him, hi…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:52 AM
1

Buy the book Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain and the workbook. That will get you a good base.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 05:49 PM
23

i don't think they know what equal actually means. And that's scary given what they do.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 12:47 PM
2

No. Don't kiss and tell. You don't want overt dread. Plus it sounds like you just met these two girls there's nothing really to dread. You're way more invested than they are. You want to stop that. It looks needy.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:52 PM
2

You shouldn't live in the past. You can't do anything to change it, learn from it and move forward.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 12:31 PM
1

You have no move with this one. Meet more girls.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:49 PM
2

Start doing /r/keto and StrongLifts 5x5. After 12 weeks on SL start doing some HIIT along with SL to accelerate the fat loss. Things like sprints, push/pull sled, jump rope, burpees, sledge hammer and stuff with HIIT.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:35 PM
1

No. They are incapable of detaching themselves from the scenario.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:28 PM
1

Read the sidebar. This is basic level stuff.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:24 PM
1

It's a bad situation for him. She's a victim and will forever cling to her victim status. When the miscarriage does not work anymore she'll find something else to cling to. He's too far up her ass to notice the problems and will spend the rest of his life trying to make her happy. He's too needy. She'll get tired of that and end up cheating on him. (But it won't mean anything.) This is a pretty standard one.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 11:11 PM
1

How is it going to end? Painfully. I don't know what you're looking for here.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 10:12 PM
3

Sounds needy not an ultimatum. You need abundance, not oneitis, you should be in contact with more girls at the same time. Next time you start to send texts like this, approach more girls.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 12:44 PM
4

Sort of like Brett Favre in a t-shirt and wrangler jeans. He'll still walk around like he's Brett Favre.
/r/AlreadyRed27/07/15 01:21 PM
1

A book that a lot of us would do well to read is Prometheus Rising. in it he does a good job of pointing out how people use biases to form an opinion and reject any new information. Everyone has a reality and it would do you some good to try to understand the reality of someone else.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 12:40 AM
1

This, unplugging that we do here, goes deeper than just the female imperative. Just like women would have you believe the BP way about stuff companies would like you to believe that hard work and dedication is the way to rise up in the company. Another way is through Powertalk. Women speak in a covert language not unlike Powertalk. You should do all the reading that The Gervais Principle suggests. Impro, Certain to Win, Boyd: The Fighter Pilot Who Changed the Art of War and the rest. Learn about…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:53 PM
1

Another line I like from there, fools rush in where angels fear to tread but angels in turn must make leaps of faith that fools cannot even comprehend.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:34 PM
1

It's just people who like being ignorant.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 12:46 PM
1

He's a pot-bellied 40-something, per his own admission. Yet somehow he thinks he'd rack up the notches, but, he doesn't want them. Uh huh. Sure. Would they say he needed to get into shape to land a college aged chick?
/r/askTRP24/07/15 12:45 PM
23

4) Pussy Pedestalization I went into Walgreens one day, it's a huge chain drug store for those that don't know, and there were 4 aisles, literally more than half the store dedicated to make up. That's a huge amount of deception.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 11:53 PM
1

Hobbies that you can do alone or with people. Fishing, camping, hiking, mma or whatever. Then invite people to participate with you. Invite them to watch sports. Invite them to hang out. Invite them to dinner. Put something in to it.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:24 PM
1

Good idea. I've still got some body stuff to work on but when I get that taken care of this is going to help me.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:56 PM
8

I read somewhere that 80% of the people think they are in the top 20% of people.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 12:49 PM
5

TL;DR What women want is your resources or your dick. If you give up your resources too cheaply then they'll simply take that and leave.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 12:38 PM
14

Laugh
/r/askTRP22/07/15 12:15 PM
3

You're going to have to put something in it. I do suggest hobbies that you can do alone or together with someone. Fishing or shooting and stuff like that, outdoors and masculine. Find something you like though. Next you can invite a couple of associates to join you. If you can prod them beforehand it's better. That way you know they like hang gliding or whatever. You're going to have to do this a few times with them to make them a friend.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 11:39 AM
1

You're right. Unless she's a widow it's not a good idea to LTR a single mom.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 12:25 AM
1

While this is the general advice, and for a great reason, there is a subset that should be noted. If you are going to game a single mom there are things you should consider. She's guaranteed to be an alpha widow. You're never going to be number 1 in her life. Men come and go but my kids are forever. Her time is limited. Work, kids, stuffing cocks in her vagina, etc. She's already proven to fail. She's going to try to make you a BB. After all she's strong and independent and doesn't need no man e…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 12:29 PM
6

Cuz he's alfuh
/r/askTRP21/07/15 12:03 PM
2

Read the sidebar. Look up stuff in the main forum about powertalk and The Gervais Principal. Look up The Gervais Principal on Google. Read books on body language like What Every Body is Saying and The Definitive Book of Body Language. You can find some useful YouTube videos on this as well. All of this combined will give you a pretty good indicator of what goes on in an interaction, the verbal and nonverbal stuff.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 01:47 PM
1

Don't worry about it dude. You're allowed to make mistakes, you're going to make mistakes. Learn from it but don't dwell on it. To be honest you sounded like a dork. I'm a recovering dork myself. Never let success go to your head, never let failure go to your heart.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:25 AM
1

It's in your mindset. One of the benefits of abundance mentally is so you don't look thirsty. It's a hard thing to explain. Look with hunger and not thirst. Desire rather than want.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:19 AM
1

1 month isn't a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:14 AM
2

The married guys have to dig deep in TRP to find usable advice. It's all here though.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:10 AM
2

Just don't send another message. If she sends one come back here before you reply.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 07:58 AM
4

Most people suggest that you text only for logistics. It's easy to become her time hoe, the guy she chats with all the time bit doesn't fuck.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 02:12 AM
2

Shorten it. I went to school with an Indian girl who's last name was 10 maybe 12 characters. They shortened it to 4 and that's her name.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 02:10 AM
3

Is she the only one you matched with? Sounds like you care too much. She rejected you. Then said "well maybe..." But then you said some lame shit and she forgot about you. Do more swiping, this one is dead Jim.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 02:04 AM
1

She checked out of the marriage a long time ago. It's messed up but you'll make it. Hopefully there will be someone to help you with the divorce. Keep improving, all aspects.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 11:25 PM
5

Because we still have biological urges. We're human and we sometimes, often, fail to control ourselves.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 11:19 PM
7

That's just banter.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 01:18 PM
10

Imagine? We don't have to, 2xcromo...
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 10:02 PM
8

She's fishing for complements.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 06:12 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 12:39 PM
2

The acronym thing is just a way to communicate without typing everything out ffs.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:16 AM
2

They aren't the same as women no but guys are all pretty similar. That's kind of how we got into this whole mess of a thing to begin with. So many of us falling for the same tricks that women pull to manipulate. In guys it's easier to look at it in terms of personalities. Within those personalities they'll act very much alike. Driven by the same types of things. For instance the alpha acting guy would react differently than the beta acting guy in the same condition. Reading up on Transactional A…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:11 AM
1

For this you'll have to start a new habit of stoic meditation at night. Stoic meditation differs from Mindful Meditation as you think. When you're thinking you start going through your day in order and ask yourself if you acted virtuos. /r/Stoicism for more details on that. While you're doing that you can ask yourself if you've done the habit you wanted to do that day. If it's to stop biting your nails you'll ask yourself "Did I bite my nails today?" If you're like me and want to face confrontat…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 02:44 AM
2

TRP may help you with the big picture, the gestalt, in an artistic environment. Once you've been around TRP for a while you start to get a feel for how all sorts of people behave. Not just limited to females. Certain to Win is a book that you would benefit from reading in whatever work environment you're in. AWALT - All Women Are Like That. All women given the right circumstances will behave in similar fashion. Which doesn't mean all women given the opportunity to cheat will. She may feel perfec…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 04:55 PM
3

You need to contact him. Still hang out with him.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 10:33 AM
1

"we just drove by a horse pasture. The thing has a dick as long as my arm, I doubt my dick has traumatized anyone." But you can use your door as a makeshift stall. I work outside and in the public often. I do it all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 03:18 PM
46

Or marry a BB and tell him about the rape and how they wouldn't believe her. He'll save her.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 11:38 AM
1

No I get it, she may be using it for that though. Doesn't mean she is.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 07:08 PM
2

I'd go. But the offer was a sleepover and was pulled away for coffee. She may have the MySpace angle going on and wants you to see.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 07:03 PM
1

Take the lead from the IOI. Lead. Lead. Lead.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:49 PM
1

I think you were reading it right but after the dad bod she might be moving on or trying to make you jealous. If it helps your ego to pretend that it's to make you jealous then do so.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:48 PM
1

/r/keto /r/ketogains
/r/TRPOffTopic13/07/15 03:30 PM
2

Sounds like it's over.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 03:14 PM
0

And don't forget about the off topic sub.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:56 PM
1

Shave it.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:49 PM
1

It begs the question; What does J.K. Rowlings husband look like in a dress?
/r/TRPOffTopic12/07/15 02:20 PM
2

Read the sidebar. That's your solution.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 05:44 PM
13

Don't be retarded
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:58 PM
9

Yes
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:55 PM
1

Looks like she first went for a guilt trip and then to shaming you. The shaming tactic is easy to spot for me because I am living in a time where I should be ashamed to be a man, ashamed to be white, ashamed to be Christian, and ashamed for thinking of sex and all manner of things. I don't really know what to say about your situation, my preference is different than yours. Maybe flip it back when they start with this? "Oh I get it, if I were gay it would be OK because that's my sexual orientatio…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:49 PM
1

I like their music. Particularly the stories they tell.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:50 PM
9

This is just your opinion man. Keep it to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:41 PM
1

I don't think about them at all.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 11:08 PM
3

I'm currently reading 1984. Seems good so far.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 05:40 PM
-1

Smells like feely shit.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 05:39 PM
60

I don't think women really understand how much stronger a weak man is than them much less a strong man.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 10:12 PM
1

Forget her.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:22 PM
1

What do you like? There are people doing it who will be your friend.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:10 PM
2

What can you do to change the past? Learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:51 AM
9

She wants to break up with you but doesn't want to lose what you guys have. This is so she can ride the CC in college and get the whole "college experience" and you'll be waiting for her when she gets back.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 01:13 PM
1

There is a saying that goes: You get what you put in. That's wrong, you get what you take. Just like the post you could spend the next year improving yourself but unless you go out and take what's yours it's for nothing. Rarely will you ever get anything by waiting, unless it's time to wait, do. It reminds me of some scriptures in the Bible about the talents. One guy was given 1 one was given 2 I think and the other was given 5. Two of them used it and doubled the money. The guy who was given 1 …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:55 PM
0

I've got two problems here, not with the post. One I don't own a suit. Two I never know when to dress up or down. So I have a few long sleeve button down shirts and some nice jeans. I have khakis but I don't really wear them. I suppose step 1 would be buying a suit.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:25 PM
6

I laughed at one episode where there was this kid and the dad hired an instructor to teach the kid to skate. The dad was "pushing the kid too hard" and all the bystanders were getting on to him. Once the guy walked away and a chick who had been exercising came up and, so lovingly, got him to go down the ramp. EXACTLY HOW THE GUY DID. Except when she pushed him hard it was wonderful.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 08:53 PM
1

There are a couple of things going on here. You're her orbiter. Why? You waited too long to make a move. Of course you're the only one she wants to keep because the rest can actually eject from orbit. You tried and she tractor beamed your ass back to orbit. Next you have oneitis bad. She shits through the same kind of meat asshole as the next girl. Why is she not special? Because if she was we'd all have heard about her by now. Your move? You already tried and she rejected you. What kind of hint…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:43 PM
1

There is no such thing as a RP job but there are jobs that come with status. That's easy, doctor or nurse? Doctor has more status. Doctor or plastic surgeon? Depends but mostly will be plastic surgeon. What you should be more concerned with is if you'll like it. Or if it's rewarding. I work in construction, specifically power lines, and even though we get paid to do it there is nothing quite like a 75 year old man thanking you for restoring his power on a cold winter day. So even though I should…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:24 PM
2

/r/alttrp
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:25 AM
1

I usually ask myself what I want more. Like tonight, 25 min run night, but I worked 30 min over, it's about to rain and by the time I get done and a shower, eat it'll be time to get to bed. But what do I want more, rest or abs showing? I ran.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:24 AM
3

/r/keto
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:09 AM
1

Watching some ufc fights or bellator over the weekend and saw that Asian guys look pretty badass when muscular.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 05:55 PM
2

If I remember right The Charisma Myth was written by a woman. But the assigning it to someone else type stuff works. It appears to be a watered down form of meditation, one that's easy and doesn't take too much time. The Art of War is a slow read for me. A better book on strategy to me is Certain to Win. Totally not the same thing but it helps you find the Cheng and Chi in stuff that The Art of War opens you up to. 33 Strategies of War is one that I find very difficult to get through. It's not t…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 12:03 AM
2

The real clever hook of this is to start communicating like you then they start switching your communication. It sort of comes down to strongest frame. Since you guys hit it off but her frame is stronger the switch goes in her favor.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 10:28 PM
4

You mean, they'll have to do their job? The horror! This was one of the first things I thought of when I heard the news.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 02:58 PM
3

Usually step 1 is lifting. For you step one is pull the dildo out of your ass. Step 2 lift.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 02:16 PM
-1

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/01/18/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/
/r/askTRP27/06/15 05:30 PM
4

Lifting increases testosterone. Specifically squats. There are some foods that assist in increasing testosterone but I haven't done any research on that.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 01:39 PM
2

Considering that TRP is a mindset you should start practicing it right away. Observe things in the real world and decide for yourself. You should be lifting now as well as reading all you can.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:19 AM
5

It's funny that if I want to eat healthy at my house I have to buy the food. The rest is straight sugar in various forms. So my keto snacks? They go straight to my wifes mouth. It's funny as fuck but seriously fucked up too.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 02:16 AM
1

I wondered why they were looking at me funny, walking up to guys grabbing my nuts. I'll try that next time.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:10 AM
0

Yes, you grab your nuts.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:33 PM
1

While there is no guarantee, becoming a RP man will help prevent it. Head over to /r/marriedredpill and check out some of the posts.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:30 PM
1

Doesn't matter, it's over. Why sit worrying about it. Move on.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:27 PM
2

Who gives a shit?
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:26 PM
1

I've done a lot of reading on stuff, how the mind works and things like that. Some Transactional Analysis stuff and recently The Power of Now. I've started thinking of almost everything as addiction. For instance masturbation, releases chemicals in your brain. You look forward to that. Almost everything you do releases some chemical mixture. People get hooked on that feeling. The Power of Now called it an ego hook.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 08:07 PM
10

Until I read NMMNG I didn't realize how much of a lying manipulative bastard I was. I need to read it again.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 02:40 PM
4

Never let success go to your head. Never let failure go to your heart.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 01:16 AM
4

Posts like this aren't easily understood by people. The map is not the territory is next level shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:22 AM
3

A person commented that people think meat heads are dumb. My mind went straight to awesome when I read it. I'm still new to lifting but not to knowledge. I hope people mistake me for a dumb meat head when I get big. It's going to be hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:08 AM
2

TRP shows you how to open your eyes to the territory and discuss ways to build your own map. PUA is "Use my map and win these fabulous prizes!"
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:00 AM
1

My sister told me the girl she started working out (walking) with said "go eat a steak so that muscle you just built doesn't turn into fat" I told her that the stake isn't going to hurt but fat doesn't work like that.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:56 PM
37

Never trust a skinny chef. Never take diet advice from a fat person.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:31 PM
0

I finally recognized a comfort test. "Do you think you will ever love me?" "Maybe someday." and kissed her.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 04:43 PM
0

I think a lot of this boils down to the gamble. The guy gambles that the girl is pure, won't get fat and won't stop having sex with him. She isn't and she will. The girl gambles that the guy is who he says he is, won't get fat and lazy and will live up to his potential. He isn't and he won't. So now you and I live in a world without delusions. We see, or should see, the world for what it is. Through deep observations and understanding we now can navigate this world and drive our ship firmly thro…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:27 PM
1

Why are you even asking? Knuckle down and study. Take the test and pass for fucks sake. I quit school. I had moved from one state to another and was going to have to go back for one year to take one class. I dropped out. Got my GED. I'm doing well for myself but I often wonder what would happen if I had finished and went to college.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 12:53 PM
2

The thing that's funny to me is that all but one post I've made in here, unless I accidentally, is written in Evernote over a period of a few days or in one case months. None would be hard to edit and repost quickly in the format. Basically just a tl:Dr at the top. Now it still might not be top notch shit but I put an effort in. And that's what this is about. Low quality low effort upvote me shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:19 AM
4

This is spot on with what I got out of it. You should get an xbox. Oh yeah? What types of games do you play on it? Do you like rpgs? I do but they're too addictive for me so I stay away. Yeah they're fun but I like halo. Cool
/r/askTRP24/06/15 09:32 PM
1

I'd suck it up and finish the degree. You can live knowing that it won't be forever.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 09:12 PM
6

You're sabotaging yourself from success because you're afraid of who you'll be later. I get it. It's OK. But are you the same guy you were 10 years ago? No, none of us are. We change a little here and there. Each second we live is a new beginning, a new self and we can make it what we wish. You have to trust now your future self will make the right decisions and let it go. Now do what you need to do to get there.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 09:10 PM
2

I like Polo Red. I get compliments on it all the time.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 03:07 PM
9

Go fuck yourself
/r/askTRP24/06/15 03:03 PM
3

It's not a perfect indicator of good or quality content. It can be manipulated. Some of the people here are not fully unplugged and may upvote a bad post that sounds good but is not TRP truths. At the same time the not quite as unplugged guys may downvote a good piece of information.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:02 PM
6

You haven't read much on here have you? Good relationship with father. Can cook. Low partner count. Very low ons. Dresses well. Long hair. No trampstamp. Tattoos are tastefull or nonexistent. No dumb saying on the tattoo like "git er done" or "it is what it is" or "you only Yolo once" or whatever the catch phrase of the minute is. Little makeup. Doesn't require enormous amounts of money to be happy. Follows. Etc
/r/askTRP24/06/15 12:26 PM
2

You're not going to be him. You see his mistakes and the solution to the problem. Execute the plan.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 12:16 PM
9

You already know this, after two flakes she's out. You're not a dog, you don't beg.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 12:14 PM
2

I too read books as well as posts. I read then observe what I have read. I re-read books too.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 10:28 AM
2

When you do come clean frame it as them being close enough to you to know about the child and your child's protection from different bitches. Like they earned that information with loyalty. If the kid has a room at your place they'll know though. I hope you have a strict rule of your kid not meeting random bitches unless they've given you about 6 months of their life.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 10:26 AM
1

I wonder man, what are some realistic goals for lbs on the bar? 1000lbs is going to be years down the road and doing my body weight on the bar is not going to sustain me forever. What would be a next goal after all 3 lifts at or above bodyweight?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:53 AM
1

Right. I neglected to do this when I first started with TRP. I got all my mind right, got career focused, shit tests figured out and much more. I still wasn't quite complete. The dread that came with unplugging stopped working. Then I saw a picture of myself with my wife and I'm fatter than I thought. I started diet and have recently started SL 5x5. I am anxious to see what I'm going to look like in 3 months.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:51 PM
2

There are also water bags. I was going to invent some so I could bring to a hotel, fill and exercise. So I started coming up with plans and discovered they exist. Since my life is also spent in hotels I've got this plan. I lift Thurs night, Sat morning and Monday morning at 2am. I run Fri, Sun and Tues.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:37 PM
1

If you were to make a list of benefits of lifting for TRP, number 1 would be that she fucks guys who are jacked. There are many other benefits of course like better health, discipline, mental health etc. But you can't argue with what the majority of women find attractive enough to cheat on their husband with.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:29 PM
3

As far as goal setting my starting goal is to do my body weight with all 3 lifts. I'm just starting and the one I'm close to is my deadlift. I may be over my bodyweight in it, haven't weighed myself in 2 months. Last weigh was 185 lbs and I'm noticeably thinner. Last DL X 5 X 1 was 180 and wasn't all I could do. Last squat was 105 X 5 X 5 and was heavy enough to break form a couple of times. Last BP was 100 X 5 X 5 and had more in the tank. I am trying to make some realistic goals here and not l…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:39 PM
1

What is the condition? Doesn't all exercise increase your heart rate? As well as getting fat and lazy. Exercise decreases resting heart rate.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:20 PM
2

"You can't have this." "I don't want it anyway. So there!"
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:07 PM
19

I don't think either of these girls are interested in you. You were their time hoe and you stopped. They thought "Did I do something wrong?" and messaged you. You replied. They now know they didn't do anything wrong. This is not bad or anything but it's not good either. What are you looking to get out of this? Edit: If you didn't, you should have waited a day or so to reply.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 12:11 PM
1

I'll give you some RP advice I learned early in life. If a person, because this also can pertain to the RP women out here, breaks up with you, don't bother trying to get them back. It's groveling and that's far beneath you. If you initiate the break up then it's OK to contact if you wish.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 09:19 PM
1

http://www.manuelflara.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/thor.jpg Choose one. The good looking guy on the left or the good looking man on the right?
/r/askTRP22/06/15 09:10 PM
1

Doing nothing is perfectly acceptable. It gives you a chance to unwind. Setting a timer on it, like you did, is great and keeps you from being lazy.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 08:34 PM
2

There have been about 4 threads on this in the past couple of days. Look to them for answers. Examine.com has testosterone stuff and /r/testosterone
/r/askTRP22/06/15 08:29 PM
1

Out of plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 05:39 PM
2

You're going to have to vet her yourself. How long have you been with her? Do you have plates or just her? What does her mother look like? Are you the captain? Does she have a shit stirring spoon? Is she fit? Does she agree with you on religion? Can she cook? Kids? So far the only positives you've mentioned is low partner count and loyalty. But you didn't say how long. Loyal for a week or 6 years? TRP doesn't say not to get in a committed relationship with a woman but it does say that it's a bad…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 05:37 PM
2

Cone or tunnel, you're still unable to see the world for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:40 PM
1

It happens.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:47 PM
1

Solid advice. I think the same thing. I too am getting better attention from people. People I don't know are being nicer to me. I've been working on my posture, my presence and losing my gut. I've recently started SL 5x5 and I'm going love this in 3 months.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:40 PM
2

"I'm not interested in seeing, fucking or talking to you. You're literally wasting your time on me. Have a nice life."
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:27 PM
1

The anger phase was the longest for me. After a while I realized that the person I should truly be angry at was myself. I allowed myself to be lied to. I chose, out of ignorance, to react to the world the way I had been doing. After a while of that I couldn't be angry with myself, I was doing what I thought was right at the time. I learned how to make a more informed map of the world and use it to navigate life. I have quoted this song before as a powerful RP line and I will again. Blackbird sit…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:22 PM
2

I do it in batches. I may read for hours, skip a few days and read 10 minutes then an hour. 8 or 10 books this year. Started more that I didn't finish.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 12:32 PM
2

Push/pull on a larger scale for them hooking emotionally.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 12:29 PM
1

I'm a little torn on this one. I have a niece who's dad is a fucking loser. She called him on father's day and he just cursed her out. My SIL boyfriend is much better to her. Sadly he's getting a bad piece. I try to be a good uncle by being a good dad. We include her in stuff too and try to make sure she knows she's loved. I'm afraid she'll be pregnant in a couple years.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:16 PM
4

It's the grown up version of sticking your fingers in your ear and saying "la la la la la."
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 08:59 AM
1

I'm not certain. I'm on mobile so I didn't look it up. He does have several books. One I read he went through the whole thing without saying that anything "is" anything.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 07:50 AM
3

It's a shaming tactic plain and simple. It seems all women use them to whatever degree. A real man blah blah blah Well maybe he's tired of putting up with your shit for the trickle amount of sex he gets compared to the mani pedi shit and the copious amounts of food he pays for.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:10 AM
1

Thanks for the correction. I will edit.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:53 PM
0

This could have been a good post.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:49 PM
1

I think you're on to something there. CBT is something I had experienced in my early 20's, on my own to get past some childhood shit. I didn't realize it was a form of CBT at the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:47 PM
33

I still feel like it can all be explained with Robert Anton Wilson's Prometheus Rising. He talks about "cone of reality" where people see the world through a cone and are unable to see reality through another persons cone. He also states what the thinker thinks the prover proves which means if you think of something like white privilege you'll seek out to prove it true. With this bias it's easy to prove something. A hammer and nail situation. When you're a hammer everything is a nail. When you'r…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:13 PM
1

I was thinking about this just yesterday. I quickly dismissed it as I'd be horrible at it except for the knot tying.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 07:02 PM
1

I'll preface this by telling you that I haven't been tested. I'm 40 years old and am taking this stuff to increase testosterone. Testosterone from Examine.com I'm taking all of that except for the Fenugreek for about 2 weeks now. I'm more aggressive than I was. A noticeable improvement which is kind of what I was looking for. I started strong lifts this week and, not tested but by feeling, makes it through the roof. I wake up all hours of the night and my dick is hard as Chinese algebra. The Deh…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 05:38 PM
1

I'm going to stick with the program and probably curl on the DL days. Or maybe just once a week since I'm cleaning the OHP which is a pull I guess.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 04:55 PM
1

It sounds like a question a girl would ask a guy. "I like trying to figure people out."
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:57 PM
1

Thanks. SL has squat 3 days and seems so "done" compared to hours in the gym I felt like I needed more.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:33 PM
2

Thanks
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:45 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:45 PM
1

Mine is 20 years removed from flirt with all, which is a long time to program myself to just stay away heh.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 11:48 PM
1

You're right. It's been a long time since the 90's!
/r/askTRP18/06/15 11:46 PM
1

You met this girl in person or online?
/r/askTRP18/06/15 10:45 PM
6

Keto ftw. The only thing better than meat and potatoes is meat and meat.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:23 PM
1

It doesn't matter much which field you go into as long as it's one you enjoy. You should strive to be better than a middle manager. What I'm saying is that you should be in a position where you can make the company and yourself money. This way you have some control over your own self.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 03:07 PM
7

Send nin animal Edit: NiN - Closer
/r/askTRP18/06/15 02:57 PM
3

I do this with driving as well. At one point I was driving 14 hours a week for work. You can fight the traffic all you want but you're still only going to be able to take what it gives you. It's less stressful to understand that and take the opportunities where they present themselves for advantage. I am trying apply this in tee rest of my life too. I have spoken about this in the asktrp sub before to people who are struggling with the anger phase but it applies here too. There is a song, Someth…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:45 PM
2

There are a couple of things that I am bad at in here. Things that are not me but a reprogramming over a long time. One I use to be a huge flirt. I have a hard time with the dial on that one. It's 11 or 0. I know it's a fear that if I turn it on I'll wind up cheating and need to start doing it again. But without going to 11. The second thing is friends. I'm not incapable of making friends, I just don't take the time. The guys I use to run with back in the day wouldn't make good friends now, I'm …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:07 PM
5

In terms of survival of the human race men are disposable. There are some that rise above that and become indispensable. At TRP we strive to make our value above all normal men. Above all above average men into the top 10 percent. At this we are not easily replaced. There we are the prize. Do not settle for good. Strive for great. Turn your weaknesses into strengths and your strengths into greater strengths.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:22 PM
29

The discovery Channel has it all wrong. I never heard of any of the animals in the entire animal kingdom get consent. Must be rape.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:29 AM
7

So ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 11:36 PM
1

Hmm busy tonight, how about blah...
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:24 PM
1

In addition to what the other guys recommend The Gervais Principal, Be Slightly Evil, Certain to Win (must read this)
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:08 PM
1

The house of leaves was a good one. Not RP just a book.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:04 PM
2

I laughed out loud.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 07:42 PM
1

You messed up when you were explaining yourself. "No." "Dont you love me?" "Do guilt trips work? Those are against the rules baby."
/r/askTRP17/06/15 07:42 PM
1

What you want to do is create a best plan. It may include keeping some hidden money as an insurance policy against this type of thing. That'll take careful planning. You can limit the chances of Chad by doing your part but that doesn't mean it can't happen. But having a plan in place for exist can't hurt.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:58 PM
1

You're right. Take the advice of lifting. Sounds simple enough and it comes with several alpha benefits. Becoming the body that the majority of women are attracted to for one. The confidence that being the body that the majority of women are attracted to brings. But how many good looking built guys do you know that are complete dolts? I know a lot. This knew guy in particular was built like a shit Brickhouse but other than that there was nothing. Not even the clever stuff that some guys like him…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:36 PM
2

I watch occasionally to see people and observe them. Like others said he has his moments.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:59 PM
3

Some people like to bounce ideas off of TRP people. There is TRPOffTopic but it's rarely used.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:56 PM
2

Lazy has bad connotations but can lazy be good? Yes as in this case the lazy person appeared on the surface to be alpha. Undoubtedly he didn't realize this or he could have played it up. If a person is lazy but clever he can show you the easy way to do anything. These types are useful to have around. I know a couple. Most of the time they're wasted space but the few moments of brilliance make up for it. A dumb lazy person is always useless and you should show them the door when possible. Another…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:35 PM
2

Bill Burr has a video on YouTube and he talks about this. When a woman is arguing with you, and what she's doing there is trying to guilt trip you, if she's winning she's on point. She will not let you deviate from the point. If she's losing the argument she'll try to get off point to other things and try to make you slip up. Don't go to that. It's a trap and you've won the argument already. By doing this they get you to think emotionally and that's her territory. The only time you need to be th…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:15 PM
1

What are the context of these groups? Are you the alpha Magic player? The beta rock climber? You need to increase your value. If the group where you're the top dog decreases your value you need to eject. I'm reminded of a quote from Groucho Marx I think that goes something like this, "any group that wants me as a member is a group that I don't want to be part of." I think I read it in The Gervais Principal but I'm not sure. I'm on mobile so I can't easily find it for you but the author explained…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 12:50 PM
1

It's over. The only thing you can do now is move on. Or move forward I should say with your life apart from her. Jesus in the Bible gave only one reason to divorce. Marital unfaithfulness. So that may tell you how bad it is. She doesn't love you.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 09:16 PM
3

Yeah. It's an 18 year marriage so there is that. Plus like I said in 6 months I'm going to be looking pretty good. My dread worked pretty well for a while but then she got complacent in it. I've been RP go for a year and a half but only worked on the head side of things. Now that I'm doing the other side she's noticing it and squirming a bit. It's going to be funny when I get in shape and she sees girls eyeing me. They do now but not when she's around for some reason.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 09:09 PM
-1

Drama. You didn't start shit with her so she did with you.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 08:27 PM
10

"smart girl"
/r/askTRP16/06/15 08:19 PM
-2

Where you messed up was being repentant of her needs that she didn't say. "I can't believe you left me here alone! And you didn't get me anything! You are inconsiderate!" What? You poor thing you need a full time nurse? Don't fucking come to me like that. This is her starting shit. She can go fuck herself.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 08:14 PM
2

Yes. The main sub threads are basically the same thing said a different way by a different person. Often times diluted. Once you have the basics you'll be okay. Over time you'll realize there is some advanced parts. You won't get them in your first readings or maybe even second. This is not that the handbook material isn't good it's because it'll be over your head at first.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 01:06 PM
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For around 8 months my wife has said that she was going to cut her hair. "Oh baby I prefer you with long hair." and I got all kinds of shit tests from this and how "You won't let me get my hair cut." which I never refused her doing it at all. I am balding and decided to be bald. I mentioned it to her that I was going to shave my head. "No! You can't!" I did. She went that weekend and cut her hair. I think they do it because they are comfortable. "It's easier..." which can be translated as. "I do…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:42 PM
2

Fake it till you make it. = Acting
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 10:32 AM
1

There is a song that Michael Grimm sings, Something I Said, that's pretty BP except for a few lyrics that are extremely RP. Blackbird sitting on a telephone line singing something true. Doesn't need a rhyme or reason she's just supposed to. Now you're being angry at her, yourself, parents etc. But can you be? Why? You can get mad that you had been beta but it doesn't matter. You were just supposed to. Now you know better and you do better because... You are just supposed to.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 09:18 PM
1

I think it's better to observe the films with how they dress and carry themselves. I'm currently trying to go through all of the bond films doing this. I just started this weekend. I also find a few examples of dominance, frame and confidence. Watching actors in public places is a good example of how to carry yourself too.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:58 PM
-1

Which is why I don't understand how people want to get rid of capitalism. Sure it's corrupted and there are some really fat cats in bed with the government but what do they think is going to happen if it were removed? The fat cats will solidify their position of power.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:50 PM
2

Speed limits are for people who cannot handle driving fast. They aren't for me. No matter what the police say.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:15 PM
2

What is your process for meditating? In some of your articles you state of stoic meditation and in others suggest zen and the art of archery which would be mindful meditation if I'm right.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:14 PM
1

There is a book called Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain in which the author takes you through a series of exercises and it flips your brain into a state of consciousness where you focus on the smallest details of what you're drawing. For instance if you're drawing a leaf instead of drawing the image you have in your head of a leaf you'll instead focus on the line, the shading, the veins and everything. It doesn't teach you to draw as much as it teaches you to see. You won't be able to focu…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:31 PM
1

No the magic marker eyebrows are worse. I swear it looks like a clown.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:12 PM
1

When I have a bad day I go to Walmart. Can't feel bad about yourself there. If it's particularly bad go to Piggly Wiggly.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:07 PM
8

Some people like the pain. They identify with it. It's an addiction is you break it down to the simplest terms. An endless loop of high and low. Pleasure and pain will walk hand in hand. He is his situation. This is the opposite of what being the rock is about.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:01 PM
2

Baby Mama - Three Six Mafia is the deepest red pill song ever to red pill.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:49 PM
1

How do you remember to practice this in conversation?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:44 AM
5

The mark of the expert, in my mind is the greater capacity for doubt, and the greater courage he must exhibit doing what the novice does without thought. Fools may rush in where angels fear to tread, but angels, in turn, must make leaps of faith that fools cannot even comprehend. From The Tragicomic Exasperations of Expertise
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:36 AM
2

Do you feel present and aware all the time? If so how long did it take you to develop it all the time. So far I get it in spurts. It's easy when I think about it to go into observation state or watcher but I slip back into the mind. I'm way quieter, my mind, than I use to be before I started practicing stoicism. It's interesting that I'll be driving along and in my mind and a bird suddenly flys across and then it's like an enlightenment moment watching the bird.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:12 AM
4

One trick to quitting something is to say you don't do it. I don't drink alcohol. I don't smoke weed. Another is that you need to take each "desire," I say desire rather than craving because you don't really crave weed like you would cigs, at a time. One at a time. When the desire hits you don't smoke. When the next one hits don't smoke. I know it sounds simple but it works. You'll look back and you've gone a week without smoking then a month and so on.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:16 PM
5

There are four looks that women give you that you have to know. There are others but get these. Look of disgust. She looks and her top lip curls up. Look of open. She simply looks. She's not sure about you but approach. Look of attraction. She looks then looks down. Green light. Look of hunger. She looks like she wants to devour you. Warp speed. All you have to do is not mess it up.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 07:16 PM
2

Only on one finger.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 12:58 PM
1

Thanks for the clarification. Feminism must be a hate group. Who would have thunk it?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 12:35 PM
1

Polo Red smells amazing. I get stopped by chicks asking what it is.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 09:12 PM
1

Yeah do that. I imagine most on /r/marriedredpill are subscribers here too. The sidebar on the other sub has useful stuff for us married guys.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 09:09 PM
2

http://illimitablemen.com/2015/06/01/the-hierarchy-of-love/ Go read that.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 08:53 PM
2

There is also a little bit about status games in the book Be Slightly Evil. The author, who wrote The Gervais Principle, is a fan of Impro. I am too. He says status matters to those who think status matters. I've been trying to practice status for a few months. I still have not overcome it yet. He states that when you do you'll no longer see felt status. Or rather when you're playing high or low you don't feel like you're actually high or low, you're just you. YouTube has several videos from Kei…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 05:15 PM
7

Make sure you're not using this as a buffer to not go for a girl that's attractive to you. Read Buffers How often do you see a skinny fuck with a very large girl? Why is he with her? More than likely it's because he's settling for her. He is not a chubby chaser. He doesn't look at her and say "That's hot!" he looks at her and says "That'll do..."
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:54 PM
3

I think the liar lyrics are better RP than this but this is good.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:43 PM
2

I think they confuse empathy with sympathy. I don't have sympathy for instance. I am not incapable of understanding how you'd feel in a situation I just don't care. Now I do have a very unhealthy portion of guilt so if I did you wrong even though I don't sympathise with you I feel guilty. This stops me from being a complete ass sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:33 PM
1

I got something out of one video but that's about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 01:43 PM
3

How do I know you're not a guy?
/r/askTRP12/06/15 07:44 PM
1

You'll get there. We just have to put in the work. I too am not pissed about my weight, just want to be lean at this weight.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:04 PM
1

The power of silence.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:59 PM
1

You can be the victim all you want and if that's what you want then by all means wallow in your self loathing. But you know the answer here. You know it's bullshit and you have no one to blame but yourself. Channel that high-school guy back. You're still that same guy only better.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:47 PM
1

Lol and I'm right in the middle of working out. Just did my run and on rest between lifts. I'm back down 20 and starting to get some "Hey you've lost weight!" from people.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:24 PM
1

Mine didn't hit me until I was 25. Then I put on about 40lbs of fat. Until then I could literally eat anything and not get fat.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:19 PM
1

Seriously. My wife buys my kids whatever they want to eat.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 12:30 PM
1

There is a double threat. She's gone but what are you doing at home? I suppose you could put a logging program in her phone.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 12:28 PM
1

So going forward with a pattern because I think it should be a pattern since patterns started TRP here is LV pattern. Here are the symbols for Mars, Phobos and Deimos. I tried to make it but I'm very rusty on my graphical stuff.
/r/AlreadyRed11/06/15 10:28 PM
1

If for some reason this has to be manually typed into the wiki I'd be more than happy to help with this. Grammatically I'm not going to be a help.
/r/AlreadyRed11/06/15 07:52 PM
1

Blackbird sitting on a telephone pole singing something true. Don't need no rhyme or reason just doing what it's supposed to.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:01 PM
9

NAASALT - I'm artsy. Fuck PC.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 12:18 PM
1

"Sister" right...
/r/askTRP11/06/15 11:11 AM
1

Exactly. She doesn't effect your world.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 11:02 AM
11

If she wasn't going would you want to go? If so then go. Ghost her like you can't see her. She no longer exists. You don't hate her, you nothing her.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 10:51 AM
7

TRP began when men found patterns in what girls did. Instead of some guy raising some ones kid it was 10 guys saying the same thing. There was a "Hey! What's going on here?" moment. Once patterns emerge you can circumvent them. For this reason blue pill examples should be allowed. Honesty I don't read them a lot. They piss me off that someone would be such a cunt and I don't like being in that headspace. I do occasionally read them though.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 10:44 AM
3

Wouldn't we need a wiki type thing to edit and refine? There is probably a better alternative to wiki for collaborative editing. Vetting should be done for the editors. I'm, out, I don't know, where the commas go,.
/r/AlreadyRed11/06/15 10:36 AM
1

I like the idea of Mars and I think we should do Phobos and Deimos too. All of it would line up with TRP. The obvious men are from Mars. The not so obvious Mars is the god of War. Phobos and Deimos, fear/panic and dread/terror. And that works on about 3 different levels that I can see. The symbols for Phobos and Deimos aren't as impressive and should look good as a border around and made small. Or a line on the spine but this may be too much for lettering. I don't agree with a contest. It asks p…
/r/AlreadyRed11/06/15 09:41 AM
3

It's not pathetic at all. We all came from somewhere to get here and I was a pretty neurotic mess when I found TRP. I learned a lot and found several things that helped me. I read the Bible often. I have read Prometheus Rising and The Charisma Myth and try to practice stoicism. All of these things have helped me unfuck my mind. It is a process and won't happen overnight.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:51 PM
1

Go to the doctor. You may try changing your diet. /r/keto
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:38 PM
1

There's not a lot to go on here without some more details. How did you get to this point? Was it a steady decline or did you allow neuroticism to overtake you? I think you'd do well to read Prometheus Rising. There are some key points in this book that spell out how we as humans quite frequently lie to ourselves and believe the lies. Similar to the rationalization hamster. So you lie to yourself that you're not good enough or that you're ugly or any number of things. It's time to change your lie…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 10:49 PM
1

Ah so you are a troll. Or really dumb...
/r/askTRP10/06/15 10:14 PM
-1

First off stop talking like you're a troll or a neck beard. I swear you sound like a fat feminist girl trying to get her clit off asking us questions. Go read the sidebar material on shit tests again. Take time to notice them in the wild. Start trying things. If you mess up then note it and move forward just don't think that it's the worst thing ever. If you do good then note it and move forward. In a professional setting you're going to get a lot of requests that aren't your job. They'll come t…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:52 PM
1

If you have access to a physical therapist I'd see them and let them know that you want full ROM back. It may be that you have to do some alternative exercise for a while until you get all your stuff lined up again.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:24 PM
5

It's funny because it's jiz
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:14 PM
1

I'm guessing this was a comfort test or shit test. My wife would say this to gauge the reaction on my face.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 03:44 PM
3

She hates that she made a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:51 PM
1

This is what The Charisma Myth says to do. If you haven't read it do yourself a favor.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 12:45 PM
1

It's interesting when you look at the anger phase from the matting pattern lense. If you break it down to just survival and leave out the emotional shit it just simply is. Not just for females either. The males the same way. Your biology dictated that you're a provider. You are important for the human race! Chad is important too. But you look at Chad and get angry. He's simply living off of his own biology too. The question comes then is it possible to change from one to the other. When you're b…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 12:23 PM
3

I can usually tell the females. Always the betas.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 07:11 PM
1

Power over others is great power. Power over yourself is the greatest power.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:17 PM
2

I think it's still too pricey. Mine would be about 4 grand. If it came down to a grand I'd do it.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:53 PM
1

Yes. But what can you do but move forward. Stop dwelling on it.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:36 PM
1

Chest to impress. Curls for the girls.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:20 PM
1

There are a few things that are going to happen here. You are going to be increasing your value while the majority of men are trying to skate through life. They'll get married, fat and lazy. At a younger age women will select you for your dreams. When you're older you'd better have done some shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 01:53 PM
1

I'm not going to say the same things these other guys are saying. Maybe you are saying it the wrong way. Women communicate covertly not overtly so you tend to say more than you think. Kind of like read between the lines. Look up The Gervais Principal and read it. There is a guy that worked for me who saw a girl and asked "what kind of perfume is that?" after a short conversation I asked him why he was flirting with her. He said he wasn't. I explained to him that you don't ask girls that without …
/r/askTRP09/06/15 01:32 PM
1

www.startbodyweight.com I think it's every other day. Insanity for the warm up.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:26 PM
2

Wasting time.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:22 PM
1

See I like the lyrics. Especially when it is a metaphor or double entendre Quiet. I am sleeping. In here. That's a triple.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:21 PM
1

Speaking of rivers the one that is popular right now is some bitch "singing" about going to a river and sucking dick. She sounds like she's on the toilet squeezing out a turd.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 11:51 AM
1

For a while. I still listen to it though. Check out Volbeat. It's got a pretty good story. The dude seems like a DT going through relationships.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 11:37 AM
4

You have to be careful here because it's a trap. The mind tries to identify with this. This past emotion of pain. I was thinking about it the other day. Smashing Pumpkins, where Billy Corgan writes these beautifully sad songs, are you ever happy? NIN same thing. Maynard is doing it both in A Perfect Circle and Tool. It reminds me of watching something on Dirt, an album of Alice in Chains. It's a pretty depressing album, I love it, and when questioned about their state of mind, Layne said "Yeah b…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:23 PM
3

What the actual fuck?
/r/askTRP08/06/15 09:17 AM
6

Man cave? You mean my house?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:11 PM
2

Sure thing but I might not be the best available guy on this. I'm stoic meditation you go over the days events and reflect on how you acted. Did you act within the stoic virtues? Then you add in whatever thing you want to build on. For example prayer: Did I pray first thing in the morning? Or posture: Did I remember to check my posture often? Recognize it and forget it. Don't beat yourself up if you didn't do well. By doing this you're going to be more mindful of these actions the next day.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:28 PM
1

Listing stuff in stoic meditation helps too.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:18 PM
1

The above example is just one way to look at the quote and pull from it. Think of a person in your life that's angry all the time. I can think of 3 right off that no matter what they are pissed off. More as I sit and think. Now do you think that them being pissed off at everything helps them in any way? One use to work for me. A few years younger and a complete loser. The other I've spoken to about his anger. When you allow someone to make you that angry about something you allow them to control…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:13 PM
1

I have to admit I didn't read all of this. I stopped when you started pining over her. You gave her the opening to a LJBF and she took it. You're needy. Stop that because it sounds like you would have had a shot with her.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:57 PM
2

The way it can be used in other things is that it shows what is being presented to you isn't necessarily what's going on. Government for instance. If you think of it as a game then you'll see that it's a big game with very high stakes played with a lot of pawns and on multiple levels. And who is right? Who is wrong? It doesn't matter, societies have come and gone but the people have outlived them all. It is all about power and control. Control you and me and everyone else. Control their opinions…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:49 PM
6

Last night I was chatting with my wife while watching some show. The guy lived in Florida and his wife in North Carolina. She was now able to move down full time. I commented that now he's sad because he was in Florida fucking hookers and now he can't AND has to listen to her. "Hey! You worked in Florida..." She says. I told her that they would come to the hotel and hand out business cards. After a little banter back and forth. She jokingly said "You better not be paying for sex."
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:30 PM
1

Anger can direct you to a cause. Let's say you see a kid getting picked on by some dudes and it makes you angry. You then use your servant to stop them and send them on their way. Now same scenario. You get mad. You start an Internet campaign to find these guys. Get them fired. Turn their families against them. After they find another job you poke in that and get them fired again. See the difference?
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:15 PM
1

Yes but you can't change it so stop worrying about. I'm average and give out multiples from PIV sex.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:08 PM
-13

I don't know what RPP thinks but I personally whip my children. Now before you call me a monster I don't have to whip them often. In almost all cases I can snap my fingers and they will stop whatever it is they are doing and look at me.
/r/RedPillParenting04/06/15 06:34 PM
2

First learn how women argue. Gaslighting, guilt trip, etc. http://illimitablemen.com/2014/03/09/how-women-argue/ is a great place to start. When she's winning she's on point and will not let you out of that. When she's losing she strays from point and pulls you with her. Don't stray, you're winning. Make her stay on point. Socratic Method - Learn it. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_method
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:49 PM
9

Depends on how far they go with it.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:45 PM
4

Deserve is my trigger word.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 03:26 PM
1

Sometimes it helps imagining you're looking at someone else instead of yourself. If you do that you'd think "Oh that's a cool guy."
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:58 PM
2

No. Leave it alone.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:50 PM
1

Why wouldn't you simply use Joe?
/r/askTRP31/05/15 10:30 PM
2

As with everything you do, read and observe for yourself.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 10:24 PM
1

I suppose it is a level. Some guys swoon over Katie Perry and I think "Did you look at her head?"
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:03 PM
1

What's your number?
/r/askTRP31/05/15 02:46 PM
1

I see a lot of stuff on here about self-improvement and it's all great. You sound like you've got a lot of work done for your age. There is nothing wrong with the me time. The down time between lifting and working and.... But you should select a better activity rather than browsing reddit. Go fishing or camping, hiking, biking, shooting, archery or any other relaxing and meditative activities.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 02:43 PM
1

Go for No
/r/askTRP31/05/15 02:26 PM
1

This is one of those interesting things that there is a difference but it's hard to put in words. It's going to stem in your brain. When you look at a chick with needy eyes she'll spot it for sure. You say "I wished I could have a girl like that." Your eyebrows are likely raised and eyes wide open. Your mouth is probably frowning... With desire your brain is saying "I want her." Your eyes dilate, one of your eyebrows cocks maybe. And maybe a smirky smile. What you do next is important. You must …
/r/askTRP31/05/15 02:05 PM
1

I did leave my town when I was still in school. This wasn't the shift though, the shift came later. It was a good move for me though. I was able to make a lot of friends that didn't treat me like shit as they did in the other school. Now this is 20 years in the future I see them on Facebook and a lot of them are losers. You don't really want to have schadenfreude in that however. It's the past and you're trying to let the bad parts go so you must let this go with it. It's over, kids are cruel. I…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 12:55 AM
1

Every guy thinks they're Mighty Mouse... Here I come to save the day!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 11:11 PM
1

When I was growing up I got picked on. You know the guy who got picked on enough by everyone long enough that he went and shot up the school? That was me except that I didn't shoot up the school. I also went through some other things as a young adult that I'd rather not get into here. For some reason when I turned 21 or 22 I decided that I wasn't going to play that guy anymore. I had no confidence, no self esteem and everyone no matter who they were was more important than I was. It's kind of we…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:35 PM
1

I guess I should start off by saying I fall into the same trap. Logically status matters to people whom status matters. The simple answer is to not care about status. The roadmap to get there is longer. I'm going to post the roadmap below, the one I'm currently following. Stoic meditation at night with an emphasis on the question "Did I act like I was below someone else?" This will get you to thinking about it during the day. Don't beat yourself up if you fail, notice it, correct it, move past i…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:14 AM
2

Yeah, this falls inline with Buffers.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:55 AM
2

The thing with going all in with chicks you barely know is that it scares the sluts, they're not looking for anything long term and it scares the potential LTR's because they don't know you. The only way it's an asset is if she's looking for a sucker and she'll just use you til she's tired of you.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:54 AM
3

That's a safe response. A better one would be "They're right, you should run while you have the chance..."
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:44 AM
1

Only if you want a chance with her. Out of all the girls I didn't approach, I fucked, kissed, LTR'd blah exactly 0% of these. Well that's not entirely true, I have had them approach me, but that's going against my point so ignore it. If you want a chance you've got to take a chance.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:42 AM
2

I don't think of them at all.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:33 AM
6

The demand this or I'll that is extremely powerful but... You can only pull that trigger a couple of times before it loses all meaning.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:42 PM
2

Is requiring every guy to be Tall Dark and Handsome too much to ask? Low partner count, a guy's got to have his standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 02:47 AM
12

Re: No you can't marry an ugly girl and expect her to be faithful. AWALT. No exceptions, even for uggos. I thought this was more common knowledge than a hot chick cheating.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:39 PM
0

You don't have to try so hard to be an asshole, it just makes you look bad.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:04 PM
1

Not enough to go on. Perhaps you said something that you didn't realize had a double meaning? Maybe she had to fart...
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:20 PM
2

This is something that I've been trying for a few days.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:15 PM
-1

DT stands for Dark Triad. DT traits are Psychopathic, Machivallianism and Narcissism. I'm not a DT. I am Machivallian but score low in the Psychopathic and Narcissistic tests. I do have some traits of the other two like a complete lack of sympathy for one.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 12:53 PM
5

You're addicted to the power you have over her. That's your ego hook. Here lately I've been looking at everything as forms of ego stroking addictions. Since everything shoots chemicals in our brains, not just sex, we get hooked on it. I had an idea of this reading Games People Play and it finalized the idea with The Power of Now and the way he talked about the egoic self. I have been looking closely at myself and the things I do to feed my own ego. I finally get "fake it till you make it" and va…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 12:44 PM
1

I bestow upon you the power of ignore. Hamsters spin faster if you don't look at them. Ignore. Ignore. Ignore.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 12:47 AM
1

Pretty much. But it's hard to understand the condensed version without knowing the long.
/r/AlreadyRed27/05/15 04:35 PM
2

Affirmations do sound like Stuart. Prometheus Rising gives a better road map to become your affirmation. It's a long topic and you should read the book. The basic idea is that you can lie to yourself. You do it negatively so stop and do it positively.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:52 PM
1

/u/illimitableman eludes to meditation. I read The Power of Now recently and I have to agree. I don't agree with all the book said, too Buddhist for me, and looking at some of the guys videos I don't think guys will be clamoring to act the way the author does. But it does bring in a good point of being aware and present.
/r/AlreadyRed27/05/15 11:01 AM
9

Spinning plates is a band-aid solution to the problem of Oneitis. Like I said in the other post a chick hooks your ego. Spinning prolongs the hook from forming but does nothing to lose the ego itself. To lose the ego requires some deep inner game and feels a lot like detachment from emotions. To hold that, where nothing phases you and can hook, is very difficult. Edit: And I should say that as nothing can hook the ego, a lot of what we do hooks it. Anger, love, porn, politics and on and on as yo…
/r/AlreadyRed26/05/15 11:05 PM
10

You're negotiating desire and love. She checked out. Looks like you need to do the same.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 01:11 PM
2

Well there is a certain level of aloof that gets the guy in the chase mode. Dangling the carrot just out of reach. Depending on the guy and his initial level of interest to the female determine how long this can go on. It's a hook to the ego. That's all. That's why they say to spin plates. The standard guy who is plugged in may spin plates naturally and eventuality one plate is left spinning, the best plate. Then WHAM! you got a girlfriend. Or at least that's how I met your mother some 20 years …
/r/AlreadyRed26/05/15 01:06 PM
2

Keto gets easier, taking a lot of looking up stuff in the beginning.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 01:00 PM
1

Read Prometheus Rising and live in the reality that you're good looking.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 04:02 AM
1

But you can handle it a different way.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 10:14 PM
3

While I'm unplugged and understand, the whole world is not. I think maybe a drink spilled on her or a "NEVER DO THAT!" with an "I'll fuck you up look" would suffice. Not siding with her, what she did was wrong but you can get your ass kicked for hitting a random cunt.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 09:48 PM
2

My wife calls her tits "The Negotiators"
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 04:09 PM
1

I have no problem with people profiting off of TRP. Ads are OK ad well as books. The Rational Male in book form, sure he'll profit but he's given it away first. I'd hate to see it like most self help shit though. Pages and pages of talking in circles of what you'll learn if you just buy our books and pay for out seminars and special counciling.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 02:16 PM
1

It's weak to want to deny reality.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 11:47 AM
1

They are psychologically drawn to it. Like an addiction.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 05:22 PM
2

And that is an example of gaslighting. "You slapped me before."
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:42 PM
2

I think it is. It's a part of acting. You can see it play out in life though. I need more time to get it though. It seems a bit like how people talk about frame here.
/r/AlreadyRed21/05/15 09:21 PM
2

Money isn't everything. Most people are trapped inside their own minds. A prison they created brick by brick. Going in the same endless loops doing the same tired things.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:05 PM
15

You're right but there is a lot of emphasis on slaying pussy. Some of us married guys have to dig pretty deep to find fully relatable material.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:14 AM
7

I think sometimes the underlying message here in TRP is "Be the Chad, only wear a condom you sick fuck."
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 11:48 PM
1

Yeah.
/r/AlreadyRed20/05/15 09:49 PM
1

By contest do you mean looking at portfolios and selecting?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:47 PM
3

Oh, some girl just used her pic as their own. I'd tell him. Maybe. Maybe ask him if he want you to help him set up a fake profile and swipe right.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:35 PM
1

Let's assume that you're right, even though I am a special snowflake, how would a married guy get over approach anxiety? I can't exactly do tons of cold approaches and pull numbers. Well I guess I do cold approaches but it's simple small talk to unattractive girls and only in passing. I guess it is time to graduate to more attractive ones. It's still odd that I was that attracted to her, she's nothing special but she had my head screwed sideways for the better part of the day.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 01:17 AM
1

You want her to think of you as the AF and not just the BB. The Alpha fucks and bucks maybe?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/15 01:55 PM
1

I think part of the trick is to making her think of you as "that" guy and not who you have become to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/15 01:40 AM
1

I liked the book. It was a lot of a history lesson with a little practical knowledge on stoicism. The knowledge could have fit in 10 pages.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 11:21 PM
1

I don't think we're in this to change the world but use the knowledge as a map to navigate through it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 10:04 PM
7

Good luck dude. It's a marathon not a sprint. Keep plugging away at it and you'll kill the demons soon enough.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 10:02 PM
2

Eh. You just have to have a filter dude. I know, and you know, it's usually the same old thing posted by different people talking in circles. I do think the guys truly are trying to help. They read the sidebar and that fades from memory then a few months pass and they have an epiphany and have to post about it. Well they had the epiphany because they read it before but it just didn't register. I know I've had quite a few just like this myself.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 09:53 PM
4

Society would not exist without betas.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 07:57 PM
2

Now I'm curious to know
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:49 PM
3

I'm still in the tool collection stage but I want to start building knives.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 06:07 PM
2

Sounds like a blast. I'm not sure I need to be taking on a 350 pound linebacker though.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 06:04 PM
1

I'm going to need to see them again...
/r/askTRP13/05/15 01:31 PM
2

I'll do my best but I don't exactly have a firm grasp of it myself. /r/stoicism - There isn't much info on meditation in there but it's a good sub. In nightly stoic meditation you go over your day in order and reflect on how you acted. Could you have acted in a better way in this situation or another. You do it, in some people's opinion, 3 times. Then you forget it. It's over and you can only do better next time. By doing this it makes you aware of what you're doing during the day and less likel…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 12:45 PM
1

This is literally what I started doing today. I have made a list of things to focus on during my evening stoic meditation. Did I act with courage in the face of uncertainty and confrontation? Did I try to present myself as fun? I'll add more to my list later but so far that's all that's on it.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:12 PM
1

Try rejections. 10 rejections a day.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 02:05 PM
1

Yeah don't deny, that'd be supplicating. A genuine laugh with "hate huh?" would show you don't take her seriously enough to hate anyway.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 02:00 PM
1

Don't get butthurt for one. You can ignore some.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 01:35 PM
1

There are several ways to look at this and it's something that I asked myself just this morning. I am staying at a hotel and last night I flung my underwear towards my laundry bag. This morning I saw them and picked them up, essentially doing this for the maid which I've never met. I thought about myself doing something for someone I've never met but then reframed it to myself not being a slob and do I want to be the guy who just leaves dirty underwear lying around for every one to see? No, I do…
/r/askTRP12/05/15 01:32 PM
4

Sounds anti-male to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 09:42 PM
3

Not in this case. A party island dude. If she asks then ghost her. (Not kill her, she doesn't exist to you.) If she doesn't ask, ghost.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:30 AM
1

"Aww that must suck..."
/r/askTRP09/05/15 05:09 PM
1

Woah! Slow down there Brad Pitt! You make the moves. Males make the moves. There are instances when this is untrue. If your SMV is really high, their SMV is really low, they are complete gutter sluts. If she's texting back immediately then set up where you can hang out.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:56 PM
1

It's weird that we read books once and are done with it. Music, movies and the like are consumed many times over without question. Read them all again. Some subjects are simply too deep to grasp the first or second time around.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:49 PM
2

Change haircut, eat better for skin, better fitting suit, get over being short and Asian. Note that from the reality of the white guy ethnicity is a feature.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:28 PM
1

Did you let them know who you are?
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:23 PM
2

You can take care of this with /r/stoicism and it's Negative Visualization. Works a treat.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:26 PM
1

How do you do stoic meditation? Do you do other kinds of meditation?
/r/askTRP08/05/15 02:13 AM
1

Sure it's possible. But what I'm saying is being hard all the time going to get what you want? Things like "Don't outshine the master." come to mind. Surely don't be indecisive ever. The book The Charisma Myth explained it best with Nice but Powerful.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:42 PM
1

My dad is a curious mixture of alpha and beta. He's a compassionate man and was pretty hard on me growing up. Very true in his values. I've seen him being checked out by some very good looking women but he's oblivious to this. He doesn't see the bad in people. He's very sociable and when growing up I would swear we could cross the country and run up on someone he knew. He's a preacher and not just on Sunday. It's his whole life and his compassion goes into it. If his members are sick, he's there…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 01:55 PM
0

Models by Mark Manson may help you accept yourself. How are the ladies going to accept you if you don't accept yourself?
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:52 AM
3

You see this in marriages a lot. A lot of guys will say "My wife let me go fishing..." or whatever. This is allowing her to control you. Now I am not saying just go to the bar every day and night, you're married but don't set it up where she's your mom either. There is a book some of you married guys should read, Hold on to your N.U.T.S.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:42 AM
0

I don't want to see your hairy pussy, answer my question infidel.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:32 AM
0

He did actually. You didn't see it. Stop giving fucks.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:29 AM
0

/r/stoicism The Charisma Myth Models
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:23 AM
1

There's been several other threads, search powertalk and you'll find them. I wanted to do a discussion on The Gervais Principal that didn't center around powertalk. I enjoyed his book Be Slightly Evil and didn't understand some of it until after reading Certain to Win, Improv and a couple other books he recommended. It focuses more on manipulation. I'm currently trying to wrap my head around Status 101 in the book.
/r/AlreadyRed05/05/15 08:43 PM
1

You're not wrong, you're saying it wrong. I agree with you on goals. Direction is better than goals. A direction of fitness with smaller goals. Goals are too concrete. Let's say a company has a goal of adding 5 more teams to their workforce in 1 year. They are definitely going to work for that. But what if the market was ready for 8? What if 2? But a direction of growth would add them at the best time, when conditions were right.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 12:20 AM
2

Like the guy said, /r/keto they haven't steered me wrong
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 12:08 AM
1

I like this. The company I work for is employee owned. You can't get the other guys to understand they have a stake in it. While it's not an ideal "control your own destiny" situation, it's better than none.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 12:06 AM
5

I wonder what this post would look like if we changed validation to status? http://lesswrong.com/lw/b0t/social_status_hacks_from_the_improv_wiki/
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 11:43 PM
6

That's a terrible problem to have man. I hate that for you. Does sarcasm work on the Internet? Seriously though just learn the art of bullshit and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 11:38 PM
1

Admittedly I've only read that one, he sounded pretentious. He may have had some good points on the technology. Even Boyd admitted that the fighters they had in Korea were able to do better because of hydraulics. But the reformers had some good points too. I think he's wrong on the OODA Loop. Vao talks about them and he's a smart guy and good writer too. But whatever man you do you.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 10:55 PM
1

Fred sounds like an idiot. People do naturally think like an OODA Loop says when learning something. The problem comes when new information comes available and they don't orient themselves to it. They still try to put the square peg in the round hole even when they see the round peg.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 08:49 PM
2

And see all this ties into the OODA Loop very well. Being able to compress time. Even though my example wasn't anything big, by the time I had said "Yeah" I knew where it was going and part of my observation happened a month before the conversation. So you've got to have your eyes open or you will not notice the changes in the industry. For instance the one I'm in will fluctuate between an employee or employer benefit. At times the employer has many people asking for jobs and at other times, lik…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:52 PM
3

Will do, I have to work today so it's going to be this evening before I can work on that.
/r/AlreadyRed02/05/15 11:25 AM
4

In Certain to Win he talks about different levels but says it in a slightly different way. He doesn't use Clueless specifically or any of GP's jargon but he does talk about breaking the people up into manageable chunks. That's the same thing to me as the Sociopath having the clueless to run the Losers. Chet seems to have more faith in the Clueless than Vao does though.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 11:23 AM
5

I've read it 3 or 4 times and each time I come away with a whole pile of answers and another pile of questions.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 03:48 AM
2

Yes and it goes with a lot of different things. The Map is not the territory, OODA Loop all kind of the same. Prometheus Rising had a "Cone of Reality" and that accurately describes most people. Our cone, map, model is bigger as we observe many more things than that of most people. This allows us to make more accurate predictions.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 01:27 AM
1

The map should be ever evolving. If it's not, you're not paying attention. Which is kind of the point of updating your maps but you could still be wrong anyway.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 12:54 AM
1

You hear this every day when talking to married guys. They're scared to rock the boat. You also see it in people who make the same "mistakes" over and over. "That's just how I am."
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:46 PM
3

Be what you wish to seem. --Socrates
/r/askTRP29/04/15 09:10 PM
12

For the future never call them by name anyway. My wife thinks she's special because I call her Baby. I called every girl Baby before her.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:20 PM
3

http://illimitablemen.com/2013/12/26/success-is-alpha-failure-is-beta/ What is alpha?
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:13 PM
1

The Carisma Myth
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:09 PM
2

Except that watching the documentary with him and Lars you come to understand that both of these guys are bitches. Pretty killer music though.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 11:35 PM
2

I'm a former shoe gazer and my traps are my best feature. My posture looks like Billy Corgan with a good sized upper back. I've got a lot of work to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 06:26 PM
13

I'm starting to think that the political correctness bubble has finally popped. About fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 06:20 PM
29

"Face down! Ass up! Mouth shut!"
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:56 PM
3

lol
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:53 PM
7

I'm going to be doing a post in that other sub where members are already red pill. This is a topic that's over the head of most subscribers here. It's in a draft stage right now and I need to clean it up before I post it. I'll probably cross it to /r/theredpill at some point. I'll start by saying I'm not the definitive authority on PowerTalk but I do have some understanding of it. I believe what you posted above is a slang talk. Or maybe code talk. Vao gave only one example of PowerTalk and whil…
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:29 PM
1

I get where you're coming from. Yeah going solo will work for you and you might add some friends in. Doesn't have to be overnight.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:58 PM
3

Keep them but add in new ones. Eventually see them less and the new ones more.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:38 PM
1

The old saying that comes to mind is Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Don't dwell in your past. You cannot live in the future. Today is the only place you can live.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 12:43 PM
2

Sometimes I wished women would look at me while I am with my wife the way they look at me when she's not around.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:56 AM
1

I was reading some of the comments on a girls FB the other day. All of the typical "You're so beautiful" "I love you Ursala" over a pic she posted and then one guy says "Are you on the toilet?" Genius!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:28 AM
7

It's not your job to help OP but you replied. We all do it. We all know we shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:16 AM
1

Rejection is your goal. Not number closing is 1 of 10 women you needed to not get that night. 10 rejections a night! That's your goal.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:00 AM
10

It should be that territory but you still have women blaming everyone but themselves for the choices they make. Betas can do the same shit too. "Why can't girls approach?" "If she liked me why can't she just tell me? Like I'm supposed to pick up on eye contact and laughing at my lame jokes to know." They don't want to play the game but not realizing that everyone is playing the game. Your mom is playing the game. The game has many many rules. Don't follow the rules because they're there to hinde…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 12:56 AM
2

The last one is absolutely true! That's the hamster at work. They will twist and bend the truth until they are right. The trick is cutting the hamster for a flip. A more accurate saying would be "A woman may not always be right, but they're never wrong."
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 12:45 AM
1

He basically dreaded himself when she withdrew attention.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 06:14 PM
1

Haha I can picture you (or a guy) about to do some fucked up shit rocking back and forth saying "steady steady steady"
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:02 AM
1

Generally speaking Let's Just Be Friends (LJBF) means she let you down easy. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She acts friendly because girls do care about feelings. If you think she's in to you try.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:59 PM
1

Learn a 2 step.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:53 PM
1

You're right, nothing blue about recognizing danger that's why you don't stick your dick in crazy. Cowering in fear is though. And sure, she can use the law and manipulate them to fuck your world up. You're a man, men have conquered countries and modern civilization wouldn't be here without men. You can burn her world to the ground around her if you choose to do so.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 04:18 PM
1

Who said anything about man handling? You guys are sounding like the same guys who say "I'll come over and see my bud as long as it's OK with my wife." Full on blue beta bitches.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 03:01 PM
-1

I'm one of them. I have no sympathy for myself much less anyone else. You think women can fuck up your world, wait until you meet me.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 02:36 PM
1

And don't be so scared that you're pissing in your panties. It's just a girl.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 01:49 PM
1

Eventually it'll be less conscious. You'll be doing things and countering without much effort.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:40 AM
4

She's 120 pounds. That's like being scared of a chihuahua.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:34 AM
2

I read this again recently on rpw and realized I may still be in bargaining. I could have sworn I went to acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:58 AM
2

I guess a few minutes is a while so... I think I'd hush and keep an eye open for more lies. You now know that she will lie to you.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:37 PM
3

You have swallowed it. I don't think you've digested it yet.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:24 PM
1

First off you cannot help who you're attracted to. You can't, I can't, your mom can't. There are some chemicals that fire off in your brain and that's the attraction. But you can control your actions.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:21 PM
1

Right but maybe I'm misunderstanding the way she shows love. She does clean and cook for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 07:53 PM
1

OK. I will look in to that.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:20 PM
1

Jogging... You can go rum the 5k races without much time investment. Plenty of people go to them. Clears your head. Hopefully I'll have some time coming up to invest into longer races. I love to draw but I think I'm going to start doing amateur stand up as a creative outlet. It sounds fun. I'll be sharpening my wit.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:10 PM
1

I wished they did that where I live.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:02 PM
2

See chess is one of those games that people will label you a geek and doesn't appear to be a game where you get the girls like a sport would. That's their loss though because you can barely describe the adrenaline rush of discovering a good line. A 5 move forced mate... Yeah, 5, I'm not that good heh. Still a fun game.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:01 PM
-4

The gym I'm going to join has a Smith machine. I'll be OK.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 01:48 PM
1

Yep, I'm only commenting so you'll upvote me proving to myself I'm well liked, funny and intelligent. Which I'm being sarcastic here but it's true. If you've read Games People Play or any other Transactional Analysis book and looked at the world through its lense you'd see that there are many things done just to get the cortex stroked. Including but not limited to posting pictures of themselves for the validation. There is one girl on my Facebook that I went to school with. We had some classes t…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 01:38 PM
11

I think he's suggesting the burn out on machines because not every newbie has a partner to spot him. It would be dumb to go to failure with free weights without one.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 12:43 PM
3

I mean that is what they notice when they see a built guy.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 12:41 PM
3

Make a decision. Red or blue? Blue. Toast or Biscuit? Neither. Table or booth? Table. Where do you want to go? Doesn't matter... Just kidding, make a fucking decision. Even group decisions. The other day we went to eat as a group of guys and when we entered the chick asks if we want inside or outside. They all stand with their thumbs up their asses not wanting to offend anyone for the wrong choice. "Inside." It was about to rain and even though the outside is covered, I don't want to sit in that…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 02:29 AM
15

Well that's the red pill. You destroy all delusions. You pull back mask after mask, curtain after curtain and instead of the wizard you're faced with a mirror. You see the truth then. You're the wizard. You stole the heart from the tin man and took the courage away from the lion. You're responsible. You cannot blame others for your own downfalls. If someone manipulates you it's because you allowed it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:23 PM
2

That was important to me too. My dad was an only son and I was as well. I've got two and we stopped. It's up to them now.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 01:40 AM
1

Sounds like you've put some thought into this. Are you okay with a large family? How large? When my mom was born 5 was an average number of children. 3 and 4 would be considered large now.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 01:27 AM
3

Exactly. I work with almost all guys. Occasionally I'm the odd man out. Construction working guys are usually more open to RP ideas than other guys who work around women a lot. Even though there are a lot of BP ideas that permeate the entirety of manhood.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 01:16 AM
1

But how are you going to entice him that you are indeed the one he should take the bait on?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 01:12 AM
2

Yeah, my wife and I had a bunch of happy accidents or tried things we later read about that were a thing. We had a lot of funny accidents that just didn't work too.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 01:10 AM
2

I see that a lot of girls are under the impression that the more partners they have the better at sex they'll be. That's bad logic. Sure the quality of sex can go up the more you learn but two people are perfectly capable of exploring sex together over the years and get better.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:33 AM
1

Yeah, that's what I was thinking about when I asked but wanted a more serious reply.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:05 AM
3

How the fuck did I miss this? Wonderful man!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:44 PM
1

There's no wrong answer, just looking for everyones opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:36 PM
74

This happened with my sister-in-law. She and her fiance were fighting and they "broke up!" A day later she went to the coast with "a friend, he's not like that." I told my wife what she was doing, breaking up with him so it wouldn't be cheating. Then bet her that I could predict the future. "Oh yeah?" Yes, she's going out of town to fuck this guy then she'll be back to capt save a hoe within a week or two. Well it didn't take a week.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:35 PM
1

I think you guys are both talking about the same thing. You're both right. When you do the pan trick, the one where you have three pans of water. HOT, ROOM TEMP, COLD Then place a hand in the HOT and a hand in the COLD and let them get use to it. Then take them out and put them both in ROOM TEMP pan and you'll have the one you took out of the HOT feel like the ROOM TEMP is cold and the one you had in the COLD will feel like it's hot. You have no choice in that, just like you said. You can ration…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:24 PM
1

I always liked the quote "Keep his belly full and his balls drained." Sounds like it'd fit here. But don't make the belly too full. You don't want him getting fat and unattractive.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:02 PM
2

I use to be more outgoing but now not so much. I don't trust those ones you take online because I'll sometimes catch myself checking boxes of the ones I want to have instead of what I do have.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 08:07 PM
2

Yes, you can change whatever you want about yourself. However you should look for your strengths and play to them first and then change other things. Sometimes you don't see your own abilities. I'm pretty good at seeing the potential in other people rather than myself but I'm an absolute master at counting my flaws. This makes for a recipe of self loathing. When I eject myself from my headspace I see that I'm successful in my career, decent looking and could clean up well, intelligent and funny.…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 07:46 PM
2

I guess but even the word appreciation can be fake. Yes I know that actions can be faked too but I'm more likely to believe it over the words. Especially if some actions show the opposite of love.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 04:45 PM
2

Read the sidebar. Digest the information and observe it in life around you. Relate it to past experiences.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:04 AM
7

I went to a pub for supper last night. I don't drink. They had karaoke going and since I don't drink it sounded awful. It must have shown on my face, the waitress, who was cute but a little chubby said "You look how I feel tonight..." Now I could have taken this the wrong way but I quickly analyzed my mood and saw that I was acting like a sour puss. I said "You feel awesome tonight?" She perked up and flirted a bit.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 03:58 AM
1

I've still got to get to the gym but the head stubble is there now. Some guys could pull off the balding look. I could with a hat but I don't want to be the guy who never takes off his hat guy. Balding is not a choice. Bald is.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 01:55 AM
1

Ignoring is a good tool.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 01:28 AM
2

See I don't get that. I mean I love my wife but I'm very skeptical about love. She says "I love you and miss you already!" because I work out of town, but to me they're just words. Maybe I'm misinterpreting her love. In the 5 Love Languages test she scored high on the one with words. I can't remember. But I scored high on physical. So maybe she's telling me in her way but I don't see it because words mean exactly dick to me. So without her providing me with a vagina I don't feel loved.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/15 10:29 PM
7

Lend me 50 bucks bro
/r/askTRP18/04/15 09:49 PM
1

That's what I have you for.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 04:50 PM
3

I usually can't get into RSD videos but I liked that one.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 04:03 PM
2

It's the other side of AWALT. You must be the alpha and beta. It's hard however and a lot of guys fail at it. It's what us married guys try for. The effort is not worth the benefit for most guys though.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 03:04 PM
3

Well he's not talking to her so...
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:53 PM
9

Who cares what this silly bitch thinks. This has been exactly my line of thinking lately. Where I use to respect the opinions of all, it suddenly dawned on me the average IQ. My own IQ is well above average. A too smart for normal guys and a too dumb for the really smart guys type. So if the majority of people I come in contact with are intellectually inferior to me then why would I blindly value anything they say. I do give them the opportunity to sway me one way or the other. So it's not that …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:51 PM
1

She knows.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 02:07 PM
1

I feel like a lot of us get hung up on PowerTalk but it goes deeper than that.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 02:05 PM
1

It's likely a LTR. Otherwise there would be no reason to run dread, you'd simply next or soft next.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:51 PM
1

/r/keto
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:45 PM
2

Classic guilt trip. She's trying to make you feel guilty for hanging with your friends. Ignore it.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:40 PM
2

Don't worry about that, it's her job to find reasons not yours.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:36 PM
3

Never! Never give up your balls!
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:34 PM
1

I didn't watch the whole thing but the few minutes I did watch I'd say that it was a good example of Socratic method and the reframing sounds a lot like stoicism. Like when your favorite glass breaks. It was already broken. At least you got to enjoy it when it wasn't.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:31 PM
2

My ex girlfriend and I attended a religious event that's really popular in the town we live in. We were sitting there talking when a girl, which we both knew, sharply turns around and says "You guys better stop talking about me!" We weren't. But after that we were. Maybe you're delusional. There is this little game I play sometimes when I'm out. I make up little stories about people and try to figure out their lives from the way they look. Maybe they play this game together, I've heard some coup…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:08 PM
2

It sounds different from anger phase. Sounds more like accepting. In NMMNG I learned that I was already manipulative. The manipulations were weak. The Gervais Principal, which is a great read, talks about pulling off the social masks and standing behind them. Once you do they lose their effectiveness. Much like learning a magic trick. Others are amazed but you're not, you know how it works. Where I'm at, and it sounds a bit like you, is that when I pull off the mask and stand behind it doesn't f…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 12:14 PM
1

At my nephews funeral the preacher asked "When was the prodigal son saved? When he got home? Or when he started his journey back?" Many here on TRP will say I'm not RP yet. I say they always were, it just takes time to hammer out the dents.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 09:10 PM
5

In my experience they're unattractive ones who do stuff for you to try and get you. As long as you're nice to them they'll hang around for a while. Eventually they'll get that you're not going to be attracted to them and they'll bolt. This can be a way for some of you aspiring alphas to get some validation while you're waiting for it to come from within.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 07:25 PM
0

There's a fine line... On one hand you have to be open enough to accept new ideas or reject old ones. But you have to understand which new ideas are bad and which old ones are good. An OODA Loop helps with this process. Look it up. Creation and Destruction is essentially an OODA Loop, both from John Boyd. You destroy the old idea into pieces and add new data in for creation. Then orient and start the process over when needed to add more data. Not adding new data in would be like Dorthy looking b…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:52 PM
22

It's socialism. Everyone is OK as long as they think like us. Everything else gets deleted. That's how the Nazi party would have done it.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 11:48 AM
3

https://youtu.be/_ElBTulP30Q I still feel the devil breaths in me but this time I will break him piece by piece! I love that band.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:16 AM
0

Sometimes, after years of domestication, I can turn my old self on. I should do that more often.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 03:01 AM
1

Pfft... I'm the only one I would trust to send a nekid pic to
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:21 PM
2

Most of the natural alphas I went to school with are carved in stone beta bitches that "get to" go hang out with the boys while she goes on her girls night out.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:18 PM
1

She's not going to tell you anything more because now "you'll leave her." It's clammed up now.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:13 PM
2

I'm not going to lie to you, it's going to be tough. You have to find someone who shares the same values as you and vet them enough to know they aren't just blowing smoke up your ass. This will take you a long time. Plus you'll be plating these girls just to vet them. You only can choose the values which you live by. Whether you make them up or adopt them from the Bible, they're yours. Do read it, just like you do other things, and decide if the standards they tell you to live by are in there or…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:15 PM
3

You're absolutely right. You can't do anything about the past. The future is not certain. The present is all you have and the only place where you can make a change. Do that. But I think he was asking for advice on his present as he's still in HS.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:31 PM
1

What would you do differently had you swallowed the pill in high school? That girl that showed me her panties. Seriously though I'd get in shape. I was a skinny runt. I'd probably have gone to college. Focused more on career goals. Learned to have fun.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:28 PM
25

I think the quote "You can't be so open minded your brains fall out." would apply here.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:25 PM
3

I'd say more skeptical than cynical.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 05:07 PM
2

Moon cycles. My wife is a full moon period. My friends gf is a new moon period. Ovulation on the opposite. I got a moon cycle app.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 03:13 PM
1

Their petty ways and solipistic nature makes things comical. One post on Facebook about a new car and "She was talking about my old car. I don't like her." type shit goes down.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:00 PM
9

Yes and no. Yes at first you should kick out all societal reservations you have to conform into the fake person you currently are. No because you can become something you're not. Be what you wish to seem. --Socrates
/r/askTRP07/04/15 12:43 PM
2

Do you want a baby? Cause that's how you get a baby.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 04:05 PM
1

That's just the way I am! It's a piss poor excuse. Some of the stuff is genetic but you can't let that stand in your way. Since you were a baby you've been making decisions on how you will act or react to everything. Now you're at a point where you realize that you make yourself.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:39 AM
1

Social intelligence. There are many different types of intelligence. They had learned things early and developed cool.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 01:23 PM
2

That's a shaming tactic. Same as "slut shaming" they find repulsive. Why? Shaming works.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 05:27 PM
3

Ass first.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 05:24 PM
4

They are mad because they want it all. They have their manipulative tricks to pin down a man. For instance using sex and other things to gain more resources, read commitment, from the guy. So the guys hit it and quit it and they claim that's emotionally disturbing. But do you know what else is emotionally disturbing? Committing to a woman only to be divorce raped. Then they don't understand that it's their own fault. Don't want to get pumped and dumped? Don't get pumped. I have no sympathy for e…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:54 PM
4

It's fine, just don't "Come and hold me baby..." In other words don't do it from a weak beta looking frame.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 02:43 PM
1

I chose Spanish because it's the 3rd most spoken in the world. I also live in a region where we get an influx of Latinos which made the decision even easier. Not only that the Latin culture is very interesting to me.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 01:59 PM
2

It's a society rule. It means nothing. It's just some old bitches complaining that the younger chicks are taking their men. If I remember right you've been here for a while. You should know by now that societies rules are simply controlling mechanisms. We don't like to be controlled.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:15 PM
3

I'm also in my 40's. You're never going to stop finding 18 year old girls attractive. It's in our biology that we find girls in their prime child bearing years attractive. Society places the rules on this. You can date only girls who are half your age + 7 years... Fuck that noise. That's just from some old chick's that don't want the younger girls competition.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:07 PM
1

AWALT is a blanket statement. In the right conditions they will respond similarly. Us married guys know AWALT so we use the other side of AWALT to circumvent the unwanted aspects of it. Things like dread game, owning your shit, keeping our SMV highest possible etc to keep her pulled in and engaged, as opposed to blue pulling it up and having her almost assuredly cheat on you or have lack of respect. Now even that isn't absolute, you can do everything right and she still shows disrespect or cheat…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 11:48 AM
2

The problem is not the problem, your attitude about the problem is the problem. Instead of getting angry about it let it fuel your ego. They are doing it because they are intimidated. If it's a girl shit testing you she's doing it because she's attracted to you and wants to make sure you are real. Let that sink in. Treat it as a good thing because it is.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 11:19 AM
1

I have a friend who married a Catholic girl. She'd do everything except PIV sex with him.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 11:11 AM
2

/r/stoicism
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:36 AM
1

Some of it can be regional. If the girl came from a small town and is decent looking she's had all the guys hitting on her. The ones from larger places won't be as bad because they've had more competition. And too the 5's - 7's get hit on more than the 8's 9's and 10's so it gets skewed.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:29 AM
1

Some you can tell. I suppose reporting when you find them is best.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:23 AM
1

It's a cute, interesting theory. I'd love to learn about it in psychology. But really, this has nothing to do with the fundamental ideals of the red pill. No, not specifically, but it does pertain to our discussion on differing viewpoints. To do the idea justice it would have been as long as the book. I skimmed the red pill yesterday, and you know what's the first thing I saw? A long thread about "training" your woman like a dog. Teaching her certain 'tricks', breaking her, rewiring her because …
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:17 PM
24

This is creating a positive feedback cycle. You're your own worst critic so reverse that negative feedback cycle and replace it with a positive one.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 07:04 PM
1

I'm not well-versed with the terminology used by the Aryan brotherhood. But I sure as hell can have an opinion on them. Feminism is closer to the Aryan Brotherhood than you may think. Both think they're right. Both try to shove this down your throat. Neither thinks that they are wrong in any shape or form, facts be damned. It's the socialistic way. Just like Nazi Germany. you don't deserve their sympathy I don't need it, I didn't ask for it. I don't have sympathy for anyone, not even myself. Obv…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:45 PM
2

I don't even know what half of that stuff means, and frankly, I don't want to. That's why you're ignorant. You haven't put in the time to try and see another point of view objectively. You can only make assumptions based on little knowledge. Go read the sidebar material. This is another huge flaw. That redpillers simply don't have faith in women. But don't you see? We do have faith in women. Faith that they will fuck it up. If the same statistics of divorce or infidelity were applied to automobi…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:52 AM
2

There's certainly different strategies or styles to go with TRP. Some do go on a testosterone filled fuck fest with multiple women and that may not be the whole guy she wants. This guy, if he wants a commited relationship, must tone it down a few notches and become softer. That's the plate spinning guy. The other guy is the complete opposite. He is so soft he may need tampons. This guy is too feminine for the girls. Sure she can talk to him but there's no raw animal attraction to him. He needs t…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:12 AM
1

I've have women completely stop me to comment on Polo Red.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:57 AM
2

The shaming was where you said something about deleting and blah blah. But shaming is a useful tool so I can see why people use it. I use it myself. Supposedly there was some calculations made where it showed that a hooker was cheaper than marriage. I don't know the validity of it however. Now we believe that all of the things we learn about womens sexual strategy are partly, a huge part, biologically driven to do. We men are biologically driven to seek them out as well and have sex with them. M…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:07 AM
3

Because I'm not gay. I'm not OK with not having sex for the rest of my life. A better logic argument on your side would be "Why not hookers?" You pay, play, and leave. She cleans up and is off to the next one. The shaming tactic at the end of your post was pretty weak.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 10:31 PM
1

The most red pill song ever to red pill. http://youtu.be/tA-oNFI7yJc Also Volbeat is pretty much DT like in the stories the songs tell.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 10:13 PM
1

OODA Loop. Learn everything about it.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 09:58 PM
1

I think some of this can be applied to TRP theory. In The Stupidity of Intelligence one of the quotes suggest that IQ could be a factor in mate selection. So why are the girls fucking the nerds? Because she wants a child that is athletic and socially intelligent. After all we are a social race first in need of the ability to protect from large beasts. Since she's not going to turn down a free lunch her beta guy gets her. She retires to a wealthy life and fucks the charming and well built handyma…
/r/AlreadyRed01/04/15 09:56 PM
2

I said this once in different words but got down voted. I'll try again. It's been said that we are the fishermen and women are the fish. I disagree. We are the fish looking at the bait deciding if it's real or a hook. The women paint themselves attractive with clothes, makeup, boob jobs, words. Good grief the words. Some guys are nibblers. The just taste the bait. The girl gets pissed and tries her luck elsewhere. Soon she tries a different fish all together. Some guys swallow then spit it out. …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 06:50 PM
1

Right. You have to exercise it. You have to learn to love the conflict. To recognize it when it pops up and ixnay the doubt and fear. Treat the fear as a demon that you must break.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:01 PM
-3

Now I'm going to read all your posts in a Russian accent... But you're right, save the ones you can save. Learn how women argue. This is going to sound odd but watch Judge Judy when a woman gets on there and starts trying to pull some stuff. She shuts her shit down hard.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 12:36 PM
2

1000 times yes. Scared to talk to someone because you don't know how they'll react? Go talk to them. Afraid to go to a place because X might be there? Go. Afraid to start lifting because you'll fail? Lift.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:56 PM
1

I suggest you also check out The Charisma Myth. Humble and powerful at the same time. A lot of us have the humble and just need to add the powerful.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:50 PM
1

Looking at a relationship from the outside where the man does place the woman above himself, the man looks really weak. The other way around, like you're stating here, the man places the woman below himself but with love he looks powerful. If you place someone on a pedestal they have no choice but to look down on you. Men can break the pedestal cycle though by not being above but above with love.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:23 PM
2

This is her fishing for compliments. There was a good article on RoK. I'll see if I can find it and edit this comment. EDIT: I couldn't find the article. Maybe it wasn't on RoK?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:35 PM
2

Don't LTR a girl you're not attracted to. It'll suck the soul right out of your body.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:27 PM
1

http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 09:39 PM
2

Yes. The spinning plates thing is to have an abundance mentality. You've got to fake yours into a possible abundance.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:38 PM
3

She wanted him to act beta so she could play a victim. She'd have felt justified.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:15 PM
1

A lot of the times it's because we aren't pro-women. It makes it look like we are anti-women but that's not the case.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:35 PM
2

I would imagine she's not giving up the pussy. I never imagined myself as a cheater until I found myself in a dead bedroom situation. When I started seriously considering cheating it scared the shit out of me. I found TRP before I did anything drastic. The bedroom still isn't where I want it to be but it's much much better.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:48 AM
5

What? You looking too?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:42 AM
1

This lines up with some of the same things that I've been thinking about lately. Mostly "What is intelligence?" and the types of intelligence. I believe that we do have some sort of "thing" that sets our self on a path. Mine was drawing. I enjoyed the process and the praise. After adulthood I realized I wasn't that great at it but that's not the point. Anyway I have a good spatial awareness from this. I believe anyone can do it though. With the right kind of practice of course. Another one that …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:56 PM
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Not only that, the useless drivel that comes out of their mouths. My wife was watching the view the other day and I heard the most retarded ideas spoken, followed by thunderous applause. When I would comment on it my wife would laugh and agree. I asked her why she watched it and she came up with some reason that was nothing to do with the view.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:22 PM
1

♂ This is a good post. To further add to what he's saying I suggest that you read Prometheus Rising then come back and read his comment again. Pay special attention to the "Cone of Reality" bits. The TL;DR of it is your thinker thinks and your prover proves. But your thoughts are not necessarily grounded in reality. Like he said above, you think they are talking about you. Well you look up and see one looking at you and this proves it to you. Reality is that they may be but it's not actual proof…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 12:00 PM
11

Yes. Set up a date.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:39 AM
2

Plus that gets blamed on Christianity but who did it? People. And Christians are people who use to not be Christian.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 10:47 PM
1

Stoicism and Christianity have a lot in common, particularly in how to control yourself and letting go of your troubles. Since I was a kid I'd been told to leave your troubles at the alter. Stoicism has a similar method. Yet there are a lot of Christians worrying. I think it is because of the way it's taught. I didn't fully understand until I read up on stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 10:44 PM
1

http://freenortherner.com/2012/11/16/biblical-alpha-proverbs-part-1/
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:51 PM
1

Not only what he said but you have got to understand that she can tell the difference between "You're pretty." from sexual and "You're pretty." from omgosh a girl! Your posture, voice inflection, eye contact, etc...
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:42 PM
2

This is good. She can't figure it out.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 01:45 PM
2

I'm going to send you on a quest. I'm on mobile so you'll have to look these up. OODA Loop. Minds work similar to this naturally. Learn everything you can about OODA Loop. Certain to Win Be Slightly Evil Prometheus Rising Then start learning everything. Physics, Algebra, Psychology, History everything... Now using the OODA Loop with the knowledge you have about multiple topics you can get the power of the OODA Loop. You're pulling from multiple sources in your observing. You're using your intell…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:10 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with his strategy, but I do wonder about the "I don't use TRP" thing. TRP is not a thing to use but an awareness of things.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:52 AM
6

👉👌
/r/AlreadyRed20/03/15 01:44 AM
1

There is nothing wrong with developing your child inside. There is a lot of creativity in there. A different way to see the world. Can you imagine being able to have the first experiences again? This time with a different lens, a red pill lens. Read some on TA or Transactional Analysis. It states that everyone has a Parent Adult and Child, PAC. Sometimes playing just the Parent can stifle your creativity and make you dull and jaded. Now paying 1G to play at a daycare seems certifiable. You could…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 09:15 PM
2

LDR no. Unless it's very short term it's not going to work and it's likely a buffer. The Rational Male - Buffers Virtually every common problem guys deal with finds it’s basis in these buffers: LDRs - Long Distance Relationships. The AFC will entertain an LDR because it was based on a previous acceptance of intimacy and being no longer convenient (due to distance) the guy will cling to the “relationship” because it’s a buffer against potential rejection from new women instead of accepting the re…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:20 PM
1

Like I said I'm no expert. I was talking about your bones and joints not being able to handle the heavier lifts for some time.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:40 AM
1

Well you don't really know her so. I'd start with that. But now you have to be careful with the boyfriend traps. Tramps love the boyfriend traps.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:31 AM
1

Yeah, you don't have to go total "If we're not fucking we're not talking" route. You've got some leeway. Just don't do shit for her like "Can you take these to the mail room and fax them for me?" "Can you get me a cup of coffee?" You can put her in a friend zone type thing. After all girls have girlfriends.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:29 AM
0

One thing I see wrong with 5x5, and understand I'm no expert, is that it seems it might overload your base while you're new. I don't think it's a newbie friendly program.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:24 AM
3

Sounds like you might be too serious. When she throws up her hand for a high five just say "Who's gay?" and point at her. Make sure you have a shit eating grin. And yeah they cry wolf. The pout, smile, cry and all manner of emotional shit to manipulate you.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:16 AM
11

One reason you don't apologize for someone getting emotional about what you said is that their reaction is not in your control. But here is the skinny from The 16 Commandments of Poon. VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like a cat expects…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:08 AM
-1

Do interesting stuff with them. They're sidekicks that you can bring anywhere.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 04:38 AM
0

Pretty sure he's here for advice.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:55 PM
1

I'll let you make it up to me.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 01:33 PM
1

Timer delay. If you only have a cell for camera you can rig a stand with a metal coat hanger.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 02:08 AM
1

Recognize it when it happens. If you catch yourself then stop. If not then try again next time. Write it down somewhere like Evernote and read it 3 months from now and redo the being aware part. You're just breaking the habit.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 02:04 AM
3

Neither mine that you can't extrapolate and figure out abundance mentally.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:46 PM
3

No. You're missing the point and getting off topic. The analogy is an example but you seem to be taking it literal. I don't think you should be posting in the main sub.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:33 PM
2

The lack of an abundant in the no rent situation just makes the choice harder. You don't do the unethical thing and trust that you'll come out OK anyway.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:23 PM
2

Sounds like the chase gets her off. She sounds like a big tease. It's like a rat going through the maze and not having any cheese at the end.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 01:45 PM
1

A banana... Really anything you have that she wants. If you have a banana and she's hungry, "Let's make that banana our banana!" Now there is an association of you and her. "OK here have half." Nom Nom "Say, can I have some of that pussy? I gave you a banana." "Ummm no!" Association has ended, banana gone.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:31 PM
3

I'm not sure you understand what abundance mentally is. Let's do an analogy. Say you have 8 months salary saved up and your boss asks you to do something unethical. No. Absolutely no. Now let's say you are behind on rent, overdrawn and hungry kids. Your boss asks you to do something unethical. Now you're in a dilemma because you need this job. You got to feed your kids. You don't have options. This is abundance or lack thereof. With women it's the same. You don't have to be spinning plates, us m…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:23 PM
2

Because it is easy for a woman to get high numbers.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 12:07 AM
1

There are more things to consider than low or no partner count. But that's important too. Today's women aren't worth marrying. It's sad really.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 01:31 PM
1

Don't take her attitude seriously. She is after all just a child, on the inside. Sometimes I give my wife an "Aww, poor little baby." with my bottom lip poked out.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:43 PM
1

You're assuming betas don't get laid. They do.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:39 PM
1

Don't judge women for their sexual past. Old habits die hard than the inverse. To say that one's past should not have a correlation with someone's present is to undermine the modern criminal justice system. Case in point: former behaviors often manifest in the present, so it is not illogical to gauge risk woman-to-woman. As for judging, we are all free to do what we please and likewise we are free to suffer the consequences of our actions. My favorite comment.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:32 AM
2

Right and it's easier to explain with financial goals or direction. If you have a goal of an extra 1000 bucks a month you'll stop when you meet the goal or overreach when you can't. But setting a direction of more income and looking for opportunities where you might be above a goal or being able to see a pitfall that could cost you money. Plus your plans for having goals are concrete. With directions you can have a gestalt I guess and plans can fluctuate to better reach the direction you're goin…
/r/AlreadyRed10/03/15 08:27 PM
3

I'm not disagreeing with you but pointing out that spending 15 minutes doing something isn't a goal but a direction. And direction is superior to goals.
/r/AlreadyRed10/03/15 10:41 AM
3

The Definitive Book of Body Language and What Every Body is Saying are two very good ones.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 02:57 PM
1

And to say more, making yourself happy goes a long way to stopping some of the arguments. Also just stop arguing.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 12:04 PM
1

Well sometimes shit happens because we didn't do our job. Other times in spite of us doing it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 01:09 AM
1

It happens.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:27 PM
1

Maybe I spend too much time in the observation phase. I can predict a lot of shit with great accuracy. However there is a lot of stuff between intermediate and advanced.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:26 PM
1

I deduced because I knew my parent were going to swing by and she asked more than once. I thought it was tasty...
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:14 PM
3

Something as simple as "Are you hungry?" It's a covert language. In this sub we are very overt. You should know that there is more than one way of communication. Also even more than just spoken language. The other day my wife cooked some chili. My parents were going to visit. She kept asking me if I wanted chili. No, not hungry right now. Now I didn't miss what she was saying but I didn't want to eat right then. She wanted me to eat then so that there wouldn't be a "Hey I'm going to eat, want so…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:55 PM
5

It's the curse of knowledge. A person makes a well thought out post that is above the level the majority of users. Then they, since they know everything now, dismiss the post as rubbish not realizing they're have a lot to learn. I've said this before and I'll say it again. I'm a smart guy. So smart that I know I don't have all the answers. You "advanced" level guys should realize this for yourselves and you might be surprised that you're "intermediate" instead. Not that it's something to feel ba…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:47 PM
3

Sorry I can't comment on the legal advice. I will say that your mistake was having a LDR. What did you think was going to happen? I'll also say that your next 15 days she doesn't exist to you. Stonewall the shit out of her. She's a ghost and we don't believe in ghosts.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 12:33 PM
1

Not only that she was "raped" which is a red flag he claims aren't there.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 12:27 PM
8

Depends. How big are your tits?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:25 AM
2

It's a reality show... I'm sure you could get laid with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:33 PM
2

In other words, talk is cheap. Learn to talk.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:21 PM
1

Since birth, but they did a great job of beating me to conform. Let's break out of the box and see things differently. Authority is there to control. Control you, money, and power. Let's do some reading and if you've done it what I'm going to say will make some sense but may look like feckless meandering if not. I'm on mobile so you'll have to look these up. The Gervais Principal - website Certain to Win - book Be Slightly Evil - book Prometheus Rising - book In terms of authority and models of …
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:09 PM
3

I think what he's really saying is "fuck the rules, they're for the followers." And he'd be right. Now sit up straight. Tuck in your shirt. Comb your hair. Good boy, you get a gold star. Fuck your star. I went to the dollar store and got all the gold stars I wanted.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:50 PM
3

Observing the stuff I'd read. After a while of doing it you can make some pretty good predictions.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:41 PM
3

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. We simply show you the plug. It's up to you if you want to unplug. I will say that it'll take you longer to implement changes in an LTR or it'll drop. You can't do it instantly. It's also a long journey. I'm over a year and still killing old ways of thinking. You were set up from birth on your old path. Good luck bud.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:04 PM
1

The only perspective that I can give is start setting directions instead of goals.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:33 AM
1

Two things. 5 Love Languages hits on just this. It's PC though and administers a test as to which you are instead of male female. Get a lunar phase app for your phone. My wife is red on full moon and ready to go on new moon. My coworkers girl is opposite.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:33 AM
1

This is what they're talking about when they say to get a useful hobby. Get one that contributes to your status instead of taking it away. Also learn to ignore either way.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:38 AM
1

I think I'd be more bothered by the girl using me to fuck with him than I'd be bothered that he was butt hurt over a slut.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:08 PM
0

Labeling you into what she wants, you but sweeter.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:56 PM
1

It's kind of a hammer and nail situation. When you're a hammer everything looks like a nail. Every person has a cone of reality. It's a cone because they can't clearly see anything outside of it. Reading Prometheus Rising, Robert White says that what the thinker thinks the prover proves. There have been experiments to this effect. Feminists think that the patriarchy are holding them back therefore their prover looks to prove it. TRP thinks differently and their prover also proves it. There is on…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 04:07 PM
1

I think you guys are talking about two different things. Of course you can pick and choose however if someone tells you hypergamy exists and you choose not to believe it doesn't make hypergamy go away. The other way, us married guys have a slightly different path we walk. Some of the NEXT things won't apply to us and some of our best tactics won't apply to the pump and dumps. In this sense we have to pick and choose. Just because an idiot tells you it's raining outside doesn't make the sun shine…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 03:15 PM
2

I don't think it matters much. I'm from the south and we kind of just do the door thing. For girls, for guys, for little old ladies and even kids. I wouldn't treat it like it's some kind of awesome thing because it's just a thing.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 04:49 PM
1

Yeah he dropped the ball on that one.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:50 PM
3

The best gift a woman can give a man is her youth. So in terms of the best female commitment strategy for one man "happily ever after" is to find a guy who is single and 30ish while she's 20ish. Forget the partying and fucking as many men as possible for the experience, you can have a lot of experience with one guy and "settle down" early. And then hopefully he'll keep you 20 years later. It's a gamble but it's a gamble for us too. There is no guarantee that you'll stay attractive in your 40's.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:59 AM
2

Yes, he did.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:28 PM
1

Not give a fuck
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:48 PM
1

Yeah I get it. And yeah it sounded like he did fine for a first date
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:01 PM
3

Why are you dumping on him for telling you the answer? You said it sounded bitter, he agreed with you, I agree with you. I also agree with him, no contact and next this girl. I might would send a "no" if she initiated contact with a "haaaay let's hang ooooout" but that's it.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 02:55 PM
6

Not sure what you are asking but I will say this. Stop calling yourself a pussy. Stop any self-deprecating talk. I mean don't take yourself seriously but don't put down on yourself either.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 02:43 PM
0

The problem with 50/50 is that eventually it's 60/40 and guess who is going to be the 60... She's going to make sure it's her so you should make sure it's you.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:11 PM
6

My wife said no woman should be president. She said they'll be on the rag and nuke somebody.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:04 PM
1

Your goal is not to get phone numbers it's to get rejections. So for 2 weeks go out day or night and get 5 rejections 3 or 4 times which is 15 to 20 rejections a week. Up the number to 10 the next couple weeks. Also "I have a boyfriend" is not a rejection. Or maybe let it be for the first week. After a month change up what the rejection goal is. Kiss close, number close or whatever. What you're doing is treating the rejection as a positive thing and in turn tricking your brain in to not giving a…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:51 PM
3

"yo I hurd u try 2 set up fresh meet for da Booty call" "lol yup lol. Lol I guess I mixed up sum signals lol." That should work.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:24 PM
1

You're right but you can still find some gems. Like Jon acting just like he did with Kate in celebrity couple counseling and that horse face chick on there from teen mom who did porn that was "leaked" lying about it and saying two different things at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 08:53 PM
2

I have a friend who is or was orbiting this chick. She would give him pussy sometimes but I guess that's to keep him tethered. He calls me up one day and says that she wants him to come hang out with her and her boyfriend. "Oh... Really?" Yeah they're at the creek getting wasted and they want me to hang out. You think I should go? "I don't know man. She has her boyfriend there." Oh and she wants me to bring some alcohol. "No, don't go she's using you for alcohol because they'll get busted if the…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:50 PM
1

While none of us know if the other guy is real and it sounds like she was looking for a LTR with Opie and since that didn't pan out the other guy did. Likely he's got a good bit of beta in him and if she can somehow "fix" him he'd be perfect!
/r/askTRP23/02/15 04:56 PM
1

Damn girl... This one has them all.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 08:55 AM
1

All women need saving. Even the good girls.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 12:04 AM
1

It's a buffer. First thing guys look for is the hip to waist ratio. If she has a good hip to waist ratio then she can be a little heavier and still be attractive. It's likely that you're doing this as a buffer for rejection from the thinner girls. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/buffers/
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:15 PM
3

That's debatable. They will have some connotations with them. Some good and some bad depending on the placement, content and the person you're dealing with.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 06:21 PM
2

Sounds like he did it to himself with the weight thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 02:05 AM
38

With a bigger payment on the back half for less benefits
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 01:11 AM
92

Us married guys are on a payment plan.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 10:58 PM
1

That would be a pretty cool app for this forum. Social proof with a few guys on here. For DOXING reasons it wouldn't be done though.
/r/TRPOffTopic16/02/15 11:03 PM
1

TIL what taking the piss means.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 01:31 PM
1

Why wouldn't you just laugh?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 01:29 PM
1

You're using logic again. Haven't we told you it's all about the feeeelings?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 01:20 PM
8

You should get 3 or 4. That way they give you some pre-selection
/r/TRPOffTopic14/02/15 12:12 AM
2

This is interesting. I think you are at an advantage compared to a person who appears normal. You understand that the way you think or rather that the reality that you live in is different from a normal person. They may be aware of this but they aren't going to have the same motivation to figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:39 PM
2

Not everyone has to look like a hard ass. You can fly under the radar where others cannot. Where they constantly battle people who are on guard in situations against them. You look unassuming but to treat you as such is a mistake on their part. Read /u/illimitableman alpha success post. It'll head you in the right direction. http://illimitablemen.com/2013/12/26/success-is-alpha-failure-is-beta/ Edit: Chins can be hidden with hair. Mine is pointy and a goatee or beard hides this.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:28 PM
1

The needed space thing is the red flag I see here bit it's not concrete proof of anything. Other than that it's a textbook example of a woman wanting more commitment. There is also a hint of depression in this mix that's got me worried. One possible scenario is that she wants more commitment from you, and who wouldn't, and that the space is her looking at other options or trying to put her brakes on. She understands her biological clock and that you're the one, the total package, the one that go…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:16 PM
1

Exactly. And to add a bit you need to get another number quick.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:58 PM
1

Women do open. There are a few reasons. If you are very attractive. If they are very ugly.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:47 PM
1

First start thinking that everyone is a dumbass. Then understand that not everyone is a dumbass. Next put the burden of proof on them for the first statement. What you're doing is valuing someone else's opinion above your own. I'm not going to say that someone's opinion of you or me cannot be valued but you have to make sure that the one you value isn't a dumbass. Let's do an example. There is a guy I know, he worked for me. We did a job that made us a lot of overtime and with it came a good bit…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:41 PM
1

I'm all for it then. You must realize that you're not doing it for him but yourself. This is identical to guys who come in here and ask "How do I get this one girl?" We call it oneitis and the underlying reason isn't always said or understood. Getting the girl or in your case guy is the wrong motivation for change. Do the change for yourself on the inside and you'll see the results on the outside. You do this by making yourself more attractive by dressing nice and proper grooming. And guys here,…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 11:56 AM
3

What's the context here? In a relationship it's a flag that she's looking outside of the relationship. Not a positive indicator but something to watch for.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 12:52 AM
5

Do you want babies? Because that's how you get babies.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 12:49 AM
0

You'd probably end up with psychosis.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 11:05 PM
2

Your face looks mad.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 07:08 PM
2

As long as I'm willing to do these things or she fucks up totally. I'm 18 years into it. I've come to look at it like it's up to me if we survive or not. Taking the responsibility of change or growth from her and putting it on me. If she changes or I should say if there is positive movement in our relationship it will be because I've lead her there and if it fails it's because I've failed. She cannot be accountable, she's just a child. A 37 year old child.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:09 AM
2

Yeah I've found that when she pushes just push back. Before TRP I'd try to manage them in catering to her emotions. A natural reaction I suppose. Dead wrong though.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:12 AM
1

My wife says I'm an asshole after sex. I think I act the same and think it is just how she feels.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:09 AM
2

Self esteem. They think they don't look sexy face down ass up.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:07 AM
1

Right. When I shave my wife looks like a cougar. And she is aging well.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:04 AM
1

That's what I was going to say. I swing mostly right but some parts left. There are some things that I won't bend on. Abortion being one. I think it boils down to thinking for yourself and not what the liberal media or conservative media tells you. I read a quote yesterday, from a girls Facebook no less, that rings true with a lot of TRP thinking. I'll have to paraphrase it. I don't trust words. I don't trust many actions. But patterns, I trust patterns. The liberal media has a pattern of lies a…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:31 PM
0

It's interesting that you say BPD is boring and I suppose it would be compared to a LD. I've told you before that my mother-in-law checks off all the BPD boxes. My wife checks off some but not all. In other words she displays parts of her mother's and her father's personalities. It's two different kinds of crazy. Lately I've been on the line that handling her can be reduced to managing her emotions. Do you think this is a fare idea to women in general?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:56 AM
15

Similarly some chick got into a debate with me and said something like "Well a slut the way I define it..." to which I refuted with the dictionary defines it...
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:39 PM
1

I get that and like I said it's my plan or was. I think now I'm going to try and influence positive changes in the company I work for and try to so some real estate that I can operate from a phone. Right now the company I work with is a 20+ million dollar one and is operating like a mom and pop business. Room for improvement and then growth for sure.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:34 PM
2

And that's a time sink thing or learning to do it. Not all people are going to invest that time into something that could possibly fail. Don't get me wrong, it's a good idea. It's my idea. But the more I ponder on it the more I realize that it's a long plan. And for what? Freedom. And what is this freedom for? To be my own boss? To work my own hours? OK but what about the work involved in that? Now you're doing freelance work and you have that but you have to sink a lot of time into working on t…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:55 PM
1

The funny thing about how women are better than men is that they continue to try to be what we naturally are. Edit: we
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:15 PM
1

Married guys need to slow down in implementing TRP changes. If you go too fast you'll break. Others can do it asap but they have a nifty reset button they can press if they screw up called "next." Our reset button costs us a lot of money and time. There are some things that women will do to shape or manipulate you for security reasons that backfires on her making you unattractive. She slowly creeps these in and you need to be aware of them. Others will list more I hope but here are a few example…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 02:59 PM
1

There are Sociopathic people on here and they do well with TRP. There are those of us here who try to emulate Sociopathic behavior. Let's look at some benefits of the sociopath. The ability to observe what's going on without having emotions cloud perception. This benefits you because you can make decisions based on the situation and not your emotions. Those of us who are not a sociopath can emulate this with stoicism. Empathy will still hold us back from making decisions that hurt others. But pr…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 02:20 PM
2

Not only that, it's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 01:23 PM
3

I've noticed a lot of down voting for new threads that are legitimate questions and anti trp advice in asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:53 AM
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I didn't see it either. I see it as they think they have all the answers. I'm a smart guy. So smart that I don't delude myself into thinking that I have all the answers.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:43 AM
1

I've been gleefully awaiting your narcissism article so I'm not sure how I missed this. While I've been waiting for you to hand me the answers I've done some research on my own. I've studied sociopathic stuff and have come to the conclusion that you're right. Stoicism can substitute for the lack of sociopathy. I'm currently at a place where I can stop the reaction process but not quite to the place where I simply observe and act. Fear maybe or I think a lack of experience and confidence. I'll ge…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:22 AM
2

You're on to something here. I was going to suggest that he treat him as an equal behind closed doors which should, since he wants to be one of the guys, be welcomed and relieved. After you've primed him properly start influencing his decisions in a positive direction for the company and try to make it so you get seen by his boss or his bosses boss doing the influencing unless what you've influenced doesn't work. This would be a heads I win, tails you lose/win/win. If the influence works for goo…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 12:19 AM
1

I think what you're looking for is status. Well status is is an illusion and can be manipulated. It matters to people who think it matters. Manipulated because you'll see people who don't have money or power but do have a higher status.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 05:08 PM
4

Being a supervisor is a weird position. You're no longer one of the guys and no real power. It sounds like he misses being one of the guys and is trying to relate to all of you. Instead he should be training you to be better and giving you support to accomplish your duties while making it look easy and keeping his eye on his next jump to a place of real power. I use to be him. The problem with trying to relate is not that he can't relate to you it's that his subordinates can't relate to him. He'…
/r/askTRP08/02/15 04:35 PM
1

The problem with keeping her as a friend is that it is going to be easy to fall back in the roll you're in now. You don't have to be a complete asshole to her but you're going to be too busy to hang out.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 03:06 PM
1

I'm not sure what people on here are talking about with psychology being BP. TRP is psychology. Maybe it is what is being taught academically that they have a problem with. Anyway psychology seems to be the bastard stepchild of science. /r/askscience won't answer questions about it stating "that's psychology not science." There is no psychology science? There damn well should be.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 02:58 PM
3

That's a good standard for them to live by but not many will be able to.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 12:21 AM
3

I'm self diagnosed with neuroticism. Stoicism and The Charisma Myth helped mine.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:26 PM
1

Women who are interested in you will look your way, some do the look then look down which is a good indicator. Some will stand near you for no particular reason. After she shows she may be interested you approach her and make conversation and flirt. Use cues to see if she's interested and escalate to the Nth power or "Nice to meet you" and leave. She may not be in to you. You don't care either way.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:17 PM
1

Some reality shows are cool to watch for the dynamics
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:45 PM
1

No real reason to feel bad for him. Most of us here are close to that guy. He just needs to be awoken. My niece has this guy who is a "friend" but my wife and I knows he likes her as more than friends. She's 14 I think. Anyway we tell her this and she denies it. I'm not quite sure if she knows and denies or just doesn't know but it's apparent to us. He's this shy kid too but it's his own fault, just like the one on the op.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:30 PM
3

Which is why try works so well. It puts the clueless into the clued in category. But this still isn't enough. A man must then act. Put into practice what he has learned. Even that isn't enough to match the natural, the learned isn't intuitive and must learn from his inevitable mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:08 AM
1

Ok
/r/askTRP30/01/15 12:31 AM
1

No. There are a lot of us here that are married or in LTR's, we get overshadowed by the singles. This may not be what's going on but I think you should consider it as a possibility. You're going to creep out girls by looking for a LTR from the get go. It comes across as needy and pathetic. You should still plate or at least pseudo plate girls. You don't have to be sleeping with them but you should be vetting them. This will remove some of the creepiness because you're not focusing all the attent…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:09 PM
1

It's not that I'm unmotivated, I'm improving in all areas but the one I need to focus on. Diet and exercise. Fortunately or unfortunately depending on how you look at it, me studying psychology type stuff has made me realize I'm sabotaging myself for some reason. I do have an odd work schedule that has me going all over the place but I just have to do it.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 06:40 PM
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This will go a long way to stop many of us here from being asshole for asshole sake. Not every situation warrants that. One of my problems is that I'm all over the place with improvement. I can hold my vision for a time but get distracted.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 05:28 PM
2

The turning the hand is comical. Or at least it was for a couple of people I shook hands with. One literally twisted until his was in top. Plus this wasn't the first time we met, I already knew he was an idiot. One of those "exert dominance for dominance sake" but no real power. Basically a tattle tale. He will blow the whistle on you to higher ups and try to get you in trouble. I think the only reason he has a job is to report back to them. To spy. Anyway I'm going off on a tangent. Point is th…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 12:25 PM
1

What are they going to do? Eat you? Say mean things? Rejection is better than regret. I read a book at the end of last year, a book on psychopathy but that's not important, where the author said guys he knew would make a game out of being rejected. Rejection was the goal. He stated that they got over their fear by treating the rejection as a success. Now that doesn't mean to go out and just ask "hey you want to fuck?" Even that will work, there is a video on YouTube where a guy goes up to 100 wo…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 07:29 PM
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I like the one where "she'll feel betrayed" because he found out. Not that he feels betrayed that she didn't tell him.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:12 PM
2

Good one GLO. The Gervais Principal said it like this, and I'm paraphrasing or should it be Pharoahphrasing, your development is not halted by your weaknesses but by your strengths. Loads of people shore up their weaknesses, improving on them but how many people take something that works and works on it to make it better?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 02:48 PM
1

I think I'm going to do a dozen red roses this year. I haven't done that in a while. 18 years together and I've done it once or twice.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 02:38 PM
1

I think it boils down to natural beauty. If a girl is low maintenance and not naturally beautiful then she's not going to be as attractive as a girl who is a natural beauty and low maintenance. A girl, and a guy for that matter, should try to look their best but don't break yourself trying.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 02:26 PM
2

I get this one often. Before TRP I'd always say "Go for it!" Now I say "I prefer X, you fix it however you want." After this I get "I would cut my hair but you won't let me." She's not a beauty shop girl anyway. Maybe once or twice a year and dies her own hair. In other words I just gave her something to butch at me about but I learned that she at least respects my opinion. Edit: I ignore the "You won't let me." Shit test because she can get it cut if she wants.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:59 PM
1

Show him this place. Tell him you expect him to have positive direction, money does not mean everything so don't insult his income. Ask him a couple of times, no nagging, if he has read the stuff here and give him n time. 6 months or whatever, you decide what's enough to see positive results. If not then an ultimatum with n time may best.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:50 PM
2

A lot of stories on here make me feel that way.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:40 PM
1

I once had a girl jerk the steering wheel while I was driving down the road as a joke. We wrecked. Girls don't know how to make jokes.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:20 PM
1

Who?
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:00 PM
1

You need to consider the effects of alcohol and drugs.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 03:45 AM
1

Sounds like you give too many fucks.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:57 PM
1

It's interesting that you point this out at this time. I'm currently going through some lessons at https://www.khanacademy.org/ and some apps brushing up on Algebra because I want to learn Calculus and Calculus because I want to learn Physics. Now... I wasn't good in math. I'm still not but Algebra I was decent at and have forgotten tons of stuff. But the reason for learning is maps, models, realities, ideas, etc. When you're a hammer everything is a nail. We are in a bit of a Hammer/Nail situat…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:20 PM
1

If you look at the attitude you display towards their behavior you'll see the armor. If, when you meet them, you look like you're disgusted with them then you have the armor on. If instead you look impressed with how she handled 3 cocks at the same time then you're on the other side of it. This doesn't guarantee a wholesome girl. Remember they all lie about stuff. So if she thinks you want a good girl then she'll lock you in and you'll be none the wiser.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 10:14 PM
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The last three can be viewed as the same thing. And it probably needs to be said 3 times.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 10:04 PM
1

There are 3 things. One is that they may be turning you down. Two is that they have abundance mentally themselves. Three is that they may just forget.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 11:48 AM
1

I don't have time to list them all, /r/theredpill has some good ones
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:26 PM
2

Yes - No - Maybe This more of an enlightened question that the two below realize. The pursuit of happiness, freshly mowed yard, house, 2.5 kids etc. Enough to lull you to sleep, a working robot going through the motions. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust you're dead. What for? If you work for someone you're making them rich. If you work for yourself you're taking all the risk. But you're taking your life in your own hands. You have to ask yourself if the risk is worth it or are you comfortable with g…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:42 PM
2

Yep, if you want her to bake you cookies then start slimming down.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 06:30 AM
1

I've done a ton of reading in the past year. I've completed 5 books just this year. I'd recommend The Charisma Myth out of all the ones I've read to do what you ask. Though the self improvement aspect isn't in there and I don't know which book I read incorporates all. The Mindful Attraction Plan has a pretty decent sounding roadmap to improving many aspects of your life and I thought it was a good read but... You could do the same thing with a spreadsheet. You'd have to first figure out what to …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:10 AM
1

I wonder if it's anything like living vicariously through you? "I'm not cool enough to bag this cat. My friend is cool enough and somehow I will have a piece of what it's like to fuck her." And then I wonder if it's a person being genuinely happy with your success. For instance you see a lot of animosity to people who reach a goal. My brother in law cannot stand that I bought a house. But as with everything with him he tries to downplay you and play up himself through bragging and cutting. My wi…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:20 PM
2

I think it's important however. We are in a no reaction phase, and while it is not where we want to be we are learning valuable information. In stoic terms, be happy with where you are.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 03:26 PM
1

Possibly
/r/askTRP15/01/15 11:34 PM
11

This is on topic but different and not as load blowing as yours. Plus it's 20 years in the past, long before I knew about TRP. A beta will hook you up with the chick they orbit. He shows me pics and begs me to meet her. I go to a party. We hang out. Go on a date or two and kiss but she wasn't into me. Fine. But her sister and I did hit it off and I've been married to her for a long ass time. I thought it was interesting then and now. "Come hook up with a girl I want!"
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:44 PM
1

Tell a long story but make the end a joke.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:39 PM
1

I've been around for a while and I respect your opinions so I hope you don't take this the wrong way. Can you describe the difference between don't seem interested alpha and don't seem interested beta. The beta being unable to make a move. (Kind of a similar thing husband gets turned down for sex and tries to come off like who gives a shit but it actually comes out butt hurt. In this case it's attitude and I suspect that it's attitude in the other case. I just, and am certain others here, don't …
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:31 PM
1

You can't control how she thinks of you. Go for it or forever wonder 'what if'
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:20 PM
1

Pretty sure lsd made me neurotic.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:18 PM
2

Yes and while I'm a fan of stoicism I'm not quite there yet. Stoicism if practiced perfectly will take away reaction, yes and that's where I think you're confused. However deeper in, and this is the place I'm trying to get to now, will add an act. Basically reacting to things you can't do anything about or not acting on things because of past failures or mistakes or letting them influence what needs to be done now will go away. Things that should be done now enter in. And that's where you live. …
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:17 PM
4

Not texting you is not a flake. Accepting a date and then changing plans or canceling is a flake. You seem to move too fast to relationship status and haven't even kissed her. SLAP What's wrong with you?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 11:47 AM
2

Right. You must accept it, or a large portion of it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 10:35 AM
4

I do not personally take offense. You would have people that will but most of them would be a he sjw type or clueless. You already have people profiting off of this. The websites we link, the books we recommend. Some of them claim redpill and some are exactly a redpill road map but do not mention it. Athol Kay and his Mindful Attraction Plan for one. Further down the road you'll have some watered down bastardization of #justredpillthings for profit and you can kind of see it happening in certain…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:25 PM
3

I wonder if Machete had these hang ups. That's one ugly dude, possibly has Charles Bronson beat out. If you guys took their attitude you wouldn't see a problem.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 02:03 PM
2

BPD is not made up. Or did you mean the diagnosis is made up? I think most bipolar diagnosis are made up, an excuse to act like a cunt. My mother-in-law checks off all of the BPD boxes. My wife acts like her in some ways but doesn't check off all the boxes.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 12:42 PM
-1

Sure show him the sub. Tell him it will help with his women troubles. Don't bring it up again unless he does.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 11:51 AM
1

Good thing for us these things aren't exploitable. Jobs pop up out of thin air. Can easily pack up and move state to state on a whim. If you don't think that your employer is exploiting you in some way, you're naive. Please read The Gervais Principal. It's a website http://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 08:19 PM
5

What you're expecting is that the business world works just like you're told. That the only way to get ahead is to work hard and long hours to get noticed. And if you were working for me I'd let you keep on believing that so I can get as much production out of you as possible.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:42 PM
34

Once you've read enough material here you are, in fact, red pill. You will keep acting blue pill for some time, it takes a lot to undo the programming you've grown up with. Even after you get those things out and new things in you'll stumble upon some new truths about the world.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:34 PM
1

For one it's a known line therefore the sub-communication is that you're intimidated by him enough to try and fuck with him. Now he has the high ground and can take it as a complement, I hope for you, or he can further intimidate you, likely.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 04:39 PM
1

There are a few interesting things to note. One is that we are not baboons. We are capable of going against our nature. Two we can objectively look at other people and see that they behave like baboons. They are, in a sense, locked into themselves, a meat robot. Some blissfully and some not so blissfully unaware of what they are doing. And three we can look at things with whatever lense we want. Like the Yogi Berea quote: Whether you think you can or you think you can't you're right.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:46 PM
1

I'm not sure what the technical name for this is or if there are any long term negative effects from doing it but this mind hack works for me. Associate the struggle or anxiety with adrenaline or something you enjoy. I'll give you a real world example that happened to me. My job is hazardous. We work with high voltage and in an elevated position. None of that mattered much to me. With the voltage I would be very cautious about stuff but not fearful. A highly alert state of mind with a bring it o…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:09 PM
3

What are the odds that he got that 90k?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 11:54 AM
1

That's how you turn a plate into a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:33 AM
2

Practice asking open ended questions. You live around here? Yes. -- Falls flat... Where do you live? Just 3 blocks over. What's your favorite thing about this neighborhood? -- Requires more than a one word answer. You're just wanting to get them to doing some talking. Most people don't listen, they're just waiting to speak. So you get them to talk and let them.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:12 AM
2

Step 1: Turn 13
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:23 PM
1

They predicting the sun to rise in the morning? If so then life goes on.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 11:27 AM
2

I don't see how it's abstract, I gave a reason where I would go against my moral thinking, or what I want to live by, and ended the molesters life. For the break in I would want to hold the person until the police arrive but who knows what I would do. I suppose it would be better to create a scenario and have a plan ready so I could act instead of react but that's a whole different thread.
/r/AlreadyRed09/01/15 09:41 PM
7

That's like chaining the refrigerator up and telling a guy he can't eat with a sandwich in his pocket. --Bill Burr
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:00 PM
1

The first point is from The Charisma Myth. I can't do it justice.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:13 AM
1

So you're free clammin?
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:45 PM
1

TRP members with anxiety, how did you deal with it? Realizing that it's just an emotion. Not good or bad just what you feel. See yourself from 10 feet away. Now from 100 feet. Now from Mars. See that little blue dot? That's you. The world is likely to exist tomorrow so don't sweat it. How to increase base confidence? By creating wins. Look at your losses as wins because, after all, you learned something. Even if it's something that didn't work. Use it to create a positive feedback loop into your…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 06:29 PM
2

I'm almost done with this book and thanks for suggesting it. I think with my post in this thread I may have made a hammer and nail error as to what the op was getting at with the map and terrain. I had been reading about OODA Loops and figuring how to apply them in all aspects of my life. The lingo of maps to models is similar and I may have followed the wrong metaphor. But this can also be applied to TRP in that when you look in the mirror one day and see yourself as good looking but the next d…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:55 AM
8

Looks like drugs are hitting the campus hard at uva
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:12 AM
3

No the murder example is right on topic. It's a "Where do you draw the line?" question. Is it immoral? Most people would say yes. But do people do it? Yes. Hitler thought he was right. Is it against my religion? Yes. Would I do it? No. Unless you touch one of my kids inappropriately. Then you should kill yourself and save me the trouble. So even though people have lines, they also have the ability to cross the lines. The same is true for all "sin" from theft to lying to lust, which is my vice. N…
/r/AlreadyRed07/01/15 08:40 PM
0

She always looks like she's smelling shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:04 PM
1

George Michael? No Michael Jackson. Get it right Ellen.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:44 PM
3

Buy them yourself so she doesn't have a reason to have condoms around. "Whose magnum?" "honey they are yours" "ummm no. Mine is not that big, plus there are 3 missing. "
/r/askTRP06/01/15 12:15 PM
1

Observe people. Don't just look at one guy look at many guys and see how they do things. Pull the positive things from them and discard the bad.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 12:00 PM
2

There is a good article on the OODA Loop at artofmanliness.com if you're interested in reading it. I've been using a form of the OODA Loop unknowingly for years. I collect what I call ideas and OODA calls models and you called them maps. If you take an idea and rip it up and put it back together with another ripped up idea you can create a new idea, map or model. For example take the subway map and rip out the exits/entrances and paste them to the street map and boom goes the dynamite you've got…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 06:56 PM
3

This is essentially an OODA Loop and you're right. Another way to say it is fit the idea to the situation and not the situation to the idea. Meaning the situation will change therefore your idea must change with the new information. I see a lot of people at work doing a task with an incomplete map. They hit a roadblock and the task takes longer because they are having to deal with this "unexpected" situation that was there from the beginning. In drawing, people can't draw not because they don't …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 12:07 PM
1

On his desk
/r/askTRP03/01/15 08:19 PM
6

She didn't talk to you for 4 months. She instantly brought up divorce. That's only two things. Another thing, there are a lot of guys posting on reddit that say stuff like "Why does the guy have to approach?" or "Why does she not give better signals?" Well it's just the way it is. You want to fight your nature because it's easy to let her take charge. What anxiety you feel about taking the wheel clouds your mind with things like "I like being her puppet and doing as she wishes." It's bullshit an…
/r/askTRP03/01/15 07:58 PM
2

She's got your balls in her purse. If you want them back you have to take them not ask for them. But you're married so you have to sneak them back so that she doesn't notice they are missing. In my opinion you changed too much too soon. Also I think she must be the better looking one on the smv scale. She doesn't respect you as a man. She may have another lined up. Also you should have had her clothes on the porch on the 3rd day of the silent treatment.
/r/askTRP03/01/15 07:35 PM
1

Sounds like work related problems. There are many ways to approach this and a cookie cutter style doesn't always work. Two basic types are Leadership and Managerial. Both have advantages and disadvantages. Leadership style takes longer to cultivate but when done can run almost by itself with you just babysitting the beast, making the tough decisions and stuff. In the beginning it's a lot of work for you. It makes win wins for your team. They learn to be efficient and make decisions on their own.…
/r/askTRP03/01/15 01:39 PM
2

TRP is sexual strategy but when you have your eyes opened up that it doesn't work like they say it does you look around and realize a lot of stuff doesn't add up either.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:51 PM
2

I've done lsd a couple times. Felt like someone pulled out my soul the next day.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:42 PM
-2

TRP is about what ever works
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:55 AM
4

Good job controling your emotions dude.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 01:29 PM
1

Exactly. You have a big emotional bond with it, acting as dad then it goes away. I have a friend that was with this chick while she was pregnant. Acted as father until the kid was about four years old. She split and it fucked his head up for a good while. Named his first child after it.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 09:18 PM
3

With single mom's the thing is that they fucked up somewhere. Of course if you ask them it was the guys fault or alcohol but it's statistically the girls. Then you'll be raising someone's kid. Then she'll bail out and you won't have any say in your child's life.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:12 PM
3

She's pissed about you not wanting to drive drunk. Fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 03:48 PM
2

In The Charisma Myth there is an experiment. Close your eyes and think of your favorite song. Can you hear it? The instruments are vivid aren't they? Now close your eyes again and imagine you're sticking your hand in a bucket of sand. You can almost feel the sand. Now imagine the difference between a lemon and a lime. Which is more sour? Makes my mouth water... All that even though there was no music, no sand and no lemon. So you can lie to yourself. Your brain doesn't know the difference. Ever …
/r/askTRP22/12/14 12:39 PM
0

The only possible answer.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 10:19 PM
6

I remember this one time I had climbed mount everest when it got a bit nippy. I didn't want to climb back down so I radioed a chopper to pick me up. The pilot gave me the controls even when I told him that I had never flown one before. I'm a fast learner though and did a few loopy loops before landing. At the airport there was a guy with a 747. I asked him if he'd let me take it for a spin and he asked "you nuts? Hell yes!" So there we were going way up there and I decided I'd jump. I found a pa…
/r/askTRP21/12/14 10:13 PM
4

No.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 10:04 PM
1

What are you doing that's beta?
/r/askTRP21/12/14 01:00 PM
2

Honestly the way things are for TBP guys is that they find the dumb shit the girls do endearing. The guys can't separate the fun from reality. So it's likely that he's with her because she's impulsive and a slut. But not seeing 5 - 10 years down the road. Things are so perfect what could ever go wrong. I can only remember 2 relationships that I ran interference on. One was before TRP and the girl was a compulsive liar. She was fun but I warned my best friend. The other was after TRP and a friend…
/r/askTRP21/12/14 12:48 PM
3

Well next time when I tell you I want to do something with you, don't do it without me. Especially if it's important to me. Also it would help if you apologized. LOL you're silly
/r/askTRP20/12/14 10:15 PM
1

This is not understandable by me. EDIT: perhaps I got it: you are saying you allow her to "win some games" in order to let her think she can control you. Is this what you are saying? Kind of yes. It's more about letting her be addicted to you. If your intention is to pump and dump then it doesn't matter but if it's an LTR then you need to engineer strategic losses. For instance you don't want to lose the "go sleep on the couch" game but may decide to lose the "will you take out the trash?" game.…
/r/AlreadyRed20/12/14 05:17 PM
1

http://illimitablemen.com/2014/02/17/lucifers-daughter/
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:00 PM
1

No, but you should also learn cold reading techniques.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 03:13 PM
3

I thought women just had the machevillian aspect and not the psychopathy here which are two different things. Anyway I can see the gist of your post and I've been milling around something in my head the past few days which I want to do a big post on someday, I'll touch on it here. I should note that I am not a psychopath nor will I pretend to be here. On the tests on scored high on the manipulative side but I went most of my life not realizing my manipulative tendencies. Therefore they are weak …
/r/AlreadyRed20/12/14 02:18 PM
1

What you're saying is true. Improving yourself for yourself will make the biggest leap. Now I've regressed some while growing in other ways but I need to get back on track of my happiness.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:12 PM
1

I was thinking go for it the whole time until he posted the red flags. She wants to be his gf but looks like she has a backup plan.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 12:31 PM
2

You got to love yourself man. Try a pressure flip response. "You're short!" Maybe so but if you keep drinking like that I'll be taller than you, lightweight!
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:25 AM
1

I understand. That's a whole nutha level.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:21 AM
1

This isn't always going to work. In most cases it will make it worse. Like the current law of power in the main sub he found your thumbs screw and could have used it against you.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 09:51 PM
2

A Dangerous Book for Boys is a good one. Not exactly TRP but can help boys be boys. A video someone posted had this link in it with suggested books for boys. http://www.boysread.org/
/r/askTRP18/12/14 08:59 PM
4

When I first started reading stuff here I did a few "gain way" experiments. While shopping I looked right past people to get where I was going. Over a couple of days doing this I had a biker gain way. It will is weird being able to move people without touching them.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:44 PM
1

There are limited reasons you'll have girls outright seek you and I may not have them all covered here. She has very low SMV. (The kind that aren't fuckable and if you do you don't want anyone to know.) You have very high SMV. (Celebrity status, lead singers, comedians, politicians etc and can be local.) She's a complete slut and you're filling a roll almost any other dick could fill. All else will take work from you.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 03:23 PM
1

Do both
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:39 PM
1

"You're delusional"
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:37 PM
1

Yes. And like I said. He gets laid because he's short and not in spite of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 11:34 AM
1

I don't know but things like that do happen. He's not alone. My history teacher told Vietnam war stories to us. Pretty horrific depictions of them killing kids because the enemies would use them to kill soldiers. Now he has more demons to fight. I was in just after desert storm. Never went to battle.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:22 AM
3

The curve skews at the 5 mark. You can easily tell a 4 from a 5 but a 6 and 5 have fuzzy lines
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:07 AM
5

Waffle House closest relative is Huddle House. Maybe an IHOP. The IHOP has higher standards. Basically a short order type diner with a long U shaped space to sit, watch the cook cook and eat. he turned to me with an ak47. He killed himself...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:13 AM
1

I've been reading Be Slightly Evil and in it also recommends finding a thumb screw. It says to be annoying. Once you're annoying they can't think as well and a person not thinking well is one that is more predictable.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:36 AM
14

I've seen some people who think "I have to be the best!" I think this is an error in thinking. You should instead be better than you were yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:25 PM
8

Ah well I should tell you about my friend. Ugly as shit and maybe 5' flat. He completely owns it. He gets laid because he is short. He's so vain that it's ridiculous. Flirts with everything that has a slit. But yeah it would be nice to be tall.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 08:40 PM
1

I think you're missing the point. Looks are the last of our problems for the majority of us. Psychologically is where this guy lost. Social status only matters to people who think it matters. Does his financial status matter? Remind me how many wives are fucking the pool boy.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 08:33 PM
3

I understand where you're coming from. Growing up mine extinguished by 3rd grade. I didn't realize I was attractive until I moved away in 10th grade. I was able to redefine myself there and made out with a lot of girls had sex with one. Moved a year later and self discovered why the LDR's are bad. Eventually I regressed back.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:58 PM
1

Clearly he does because of the pig sitting across from him. I can see his flame going out early in life. In the preteen years.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:57 PM
35

I can't remember where this quote came from but I have it in my frequently read quotes. Self-love is not as great a sin as self-neglect.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:39 PM
5

I see nofap as misguided, at least for the way they describe it's benefits here. I can fap in the morning, have sex at noon, fap right after and want sex that night. And I'm over 40. There was a period in my life that I stopped fapping. I found that it makes me come sooner. So I'm a better lay if I fap. The only thing I see where I would benefit from nofap is to tell my body that I'm still the one in control.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:26 PM
1

I use to put old people in that category. Respect them without question, but knowing a few that are utter cunts have changed mind to treating them like anyone else, respect them when they earn it. Only the good die young. I do enjoy the back in my day stories so I am inclined to talk to old folks. And if any of you are reading this and are introverted, talking to old people is good practice. They have a lifetime of stories.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:37 PM
1

Taking TRP has made me more observant. That has made me come to some conclusions about all manner of things. The other day I held the door open for an older lady and noticed that at no point did she reach for the door or show any signs that she would in fact open it herself. Now this isn't about the insignificance of who opens the door. This is about the reality that she lives in. The reality that men open doors for me. People live in the reality that we give them. Someone who is better will hav…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:30 PM
1

I come under the radar or should I say that I'm unassuming. I have recently discovered that it's not a curse but a blessing. Discovering ways it's useful and turning it into being modest about my qualities.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:37 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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