Hi gents,

I often read "do something exciting on the first date, like laser tag or [put some adventure stuff here]" Well how the fuck would you do that?

Let's stay with Laser Tag for now: you need at least 10 people so it's 5v5. You don't do 1v1, do you? Or is it just my place and everywhere in the world you go to the LT alone and get mixed up in a team with random strangers?

Another example: I like rock climbing. The climbing hall is a 10 minute drive out of that city where i like to meet women. Now my problem: I don't want us both to drive each in their own car. That's just bad logistics afterwards, if you want to get to her place. "Now pick her up with your car, mate!" Well a) I got a shitty car (it's technically fine, but could lower smv, not sexy) and b) who the fuck gets into a car with a stranger, in the dark, and drives through an empty industrial zone?

Hiking, you say? Really? Most women I know only write "love the great outdoors" in their tinder bio to sound interesting. If we talk about having an active lifestyle, then the answer is "no" (hobbies). Also: it's winter, so already dark in the evenings when I want to meet.

So I stick to the boring coffee/bar... I know I live in a shitty, underpopulated place, but I'm sure I'm not the only one here who's not in NY or the likes. So guys, seriously, how do you do these "exciting dates"?