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Listen to this guy.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 03:04 PM
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KISS - "Keep it simple, stupid" I've a well established date plan. I go to a nice bar where I can seat next to her (to get started on kino). Then I order some alcohol, I love drinking and it sets a perfect mood. Then go to a walk and then try to get her to my house. That's my plan. Get one and work around it. Keep it simple or else you'll end over-analyse everything.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 03:03 PM
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My strategy is different from the comments here and still works. I'm very direct, bold and aloof. My results are way better this way. I love the face they do when I'm direct. They are shocked - later they say how much they liked. Most guys are pussies. They keep beating around the bush. If she gave you solid IOIs then go full direct and bold. Needless to say that you need a solid abundance mentality for this to work. Roissy said it best: XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than to…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 02:58 PM
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If you see porn and masturbate that doesn't help. Once I left porn and masturbation my sex life is way more enjoyable.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 02:36 PM
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One of my best friends is 5'6'' and have slept over 100 women. In fact he's the guy I know who have slept with more women. He built a huge social network and he is very popular. Everyone loves him. Truth, the average height in my country is lower but he is shorter than average and he seems shorter than his real height. Height is part of the package. Work other areas - social status, body, charisma, money, etc....
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:02 PM
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At the moment one of my plates has a boyfriend. Before I plated her she told me she couldn't meet me in a date because of her boyfriend. I was persistent enough until one day: "Hey just a cup of coffee as two friend" - she accepted. At the date I did my job and voilá.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:54 PM
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Treat her as you would treat a girl without boyfriend.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:34 PM
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Text her. Make some small talk and flirting. If things go well set a date.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:32 PM
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I'm 28 and I never got so much pussy as this year. Your question is stupid and you should feel bad. Did you even read the TRP basics?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:31 PM
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I've been in the same situation twice. The first time I even contemplated suicide. Glad I never did. Believe me, if you work for it things will get better. In fact those hard times helped build my character and personality. I read a very interesting post here on TRP a month ago called "Kill your marriage fantasies" . There's one sentence that struck my mind: The top-two requirements for a man's happy life is companionship and regular access to sex. He states that the answer for loneliness is fri…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:48 PM
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You have two options: Dread Game Leave her
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:09 PM
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Keep it simple. Don't ask permission and be smooth. Warm up with kissing, neck kissing, etc. Take her pants off and yours. Put the condom on and go for it. Just don't ask permission. Is such a turn off for women.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:39 PM
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I have 3 friends which I consider really good friends. If it happened to one of them I would say in an heart beat. If I discovered that one of these friends knew something about her slutty past and didn't tell me I would get very upset. Bottom line - yes!
/r/askTRP19/12/15 01:14 PM
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"monogamy should never be a goal, it should be a by-product of Plate Theory" - Rollo Tomassi. Read his articles about plate theory. Pretty good. The simple and easy option is getting a LTR. It's the best option? As a man who had a 9 year LTR and spinned plates for about a year I would say that spinning plates is the hardest and best option. If you choose spinning plates for some years you'll experience sexual variety, you'll know how to game women, what to do and what not to do. Only after you s…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 01:07 PM
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This is one of many reasons I avoid LTR's like a plague. If you're getting constantly worried if she cheats or not you shouldn't be in a LTR. I remember being fucking worried when my ex was on night out. It sucks! Don't do this to yourself! Fast forward 1 year I plated a girl with boyfriend and I'm near plating another one who has boyfriend. To get you a idea, stuff that I did with this plate: I fucked her in the bathroom of a nightclub; I cummed in her drink, she then drank it while texting "Sw…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:41 PM
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It's almost certain that he'll try to hit on her and if he's such a player I assume he is attractive and knows how to seduce a women. I wouldn't say she would branch swing...but she could get banged and lie about it. I saw that shit happened a lot - women can't handle attraction. My advice: don't make a fuss around it, but by all means find out the truth. Get a keylogger and log in her facebook account, whatever.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:24 PM
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It's Fucking Toilet Paper Brutal and very true. In your opinion which field of study would you recommend?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:07 PM
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Ignore and do your thing.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:02 PM
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Do the same thing you do when you go on a date with a HB8, HB7 or HB6...Don't tell me you never went dates before and you landed a perfect nine for the first time.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:00 PM
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If you think money is all you need to get (genuine) sex you're shooting yourself in the foot. Women are not attracted by money per se, they're attracted by status. Money didn't existed in pre-historic times. Status did. Status is king. Imagine this scenario - you spent all your 20's and 30's or 40's pursuing money and not pursuing women. If you fail to become rich you wasted years and years of pussy. Yes, money is important, it's up to you how much you want. Yes, your looks are important. But un…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:57 PM
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unicorns, or even "really good girls", don't exist the way you are thinking of it. I have tricked "really good girls" with single digit partner counts into leaving long term relationships just because they wanted to have more fun. AWALT, some of you guys really need to internalize that The more wise I get the more I believe this. Nowadays I just smirk when someone talks about good girls.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 02:39 PM
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You're young, inexperienced and she lied to you. If I were you I would focus on myself and met alot more girls. That's the best long term option.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 12:40 PM
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Where I live is pretty common for young people to get in LTR's in their 18-20 years. However I noticed a very interesting pattern - most of these LTR end around the 6 year mark. Is almost always the woman who initiates the break up. I know about 25 couples who break up this way and only two of these break ups were initiated by the man. I live in the southern europe so feminism is not a big thing here. Slut shaming is still strong especially in small cities so I guess this makes girls gravitate t…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 10:10 AM
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The average adult non-Hispanic white male is 5 feet 9.8 inches tall (USA). You're two inches shorter than average, how the hell is that very short? Lower your body fat, get muscles, dress good and stop making excuses. Excuses won't make the problem go away.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 12:18 PM
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i didnt want to stay alone with her WTF?
/r/askTRP28/11/15 09:35 PM
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Last time I measured, I was around 5.7 inches give or take, not sure about girth. Accordding to wikipedia - "A systematic review of the best research to date on the topic has concluded that the mean length of an erect human penis is approximately 5,17 inches with a standard deviation of 0.65 inches." Anyway, girth is more important than length. Still on the web I see
/r/askTRP27/11/15 10:44 AM
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I have a policy with my 3 best friends. We just don't fuck around with our exes (very LTR). Fuck buddys/plates....that's another story.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:20 AM
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If you don't want to text just don't. Wait longer to reply and say you're really busy. Say something along the lines: "Hey I'm really busy right now but I'm looking forward to see you tomorrow. Bye.".
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:38 AM
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I think you're acting like you don't care way too much. She may be feeling like a slut and start regret sleeping with you. You already fucked her, why the cold "I'm busy" when she wants to fuck you again?? You reward good behavior and punish bad behavior.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:52 PM
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RP is about sexual strategy. Strategy is about getting results. Do you think being an asshole is the only strategy? If so you're very simple minded and I don't think you understand what red pill really is. The suggestion given is from a really great book about masculinity and feminity. It makes sense to me. I used compliments in another contexts and got really good results.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:31 PM
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I like this guy. It's not bad advice at all.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:20 PM
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New plate or currently working at plating? If you aren't having sex with her she isn't a plate. For christ sake, just text her "Let's have a drink at X bar at 8p.m.". If she accepts good, if not try next week again. Then leave it.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:01 PM
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So if she doesn't text back just completely forget about her? Wait a week or so and try again. How would I go about achieving this? There is no magic tricks in texting. If she isn't into you it will very hard to change her mind by texting. Texting should be to get a date. In a date you try to escalate and make sex happen. Once you have sex with a girl. You choose to dump her, plate her or have a LTR. There's a lot of info about this on the web.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:40 AM
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According to the book "The way of superior Men" by David Deida: "Only the masculine side of your woman will grow through challenge. The feminine side thrives on support and praise. Telling her, "I love the shape of your body," will be much greater incentive for her to exercise than telling her, "I hope you don't gain any more weight." Praising the things you really enjoy when she exercises will magnify her exercising. On the other hand, by telling her why she should exercise, you are indicating …
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:31 AM
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One thing at a time. For startes I would: Quit porn and masturbation. This drains essential energy. IMO it's non-negotiable. Start lifting, eating well and sleep alot. Invest in your social life. Make new friends or invest in your old friendships. Have some fun. It's ok to drink but just don't wasted. Binge drinking sucks.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:22 AM
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It's never too early or never too late. You don't have to ignore. One rule that I think it's essential is don't be needy on texts. For example you texted something and she didn't replied. Don't text her again unless she texted you.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:17 AM
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Keep it to minimum, then warm up a bit when her visit approaches. Take it from there. That's the strategy I have in mind. However she insists that is all over between us. She found out I slept with another girl (plate). But in all honesty this girl words worth nothing. For example. one week before we had sex she told me she would never sleep with me. So, I want the best course of action for her to be receptive to my date inivitation when the time comes. Cheers.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:12 AM
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Yes. I'm aware of this. I just want the best strategy to get her in a date then make sex happen. Even if she states is a date between friends. Some weeks ago I seduced a girl who insisted the date were between friends. It's all about ASD.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:08 AM
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What a shitty post! You sound like a ungrateful entitled bitch! There's no better time to be alive than today. There are millions of hot chicks waiting to be seduced. You can become rich. You can make new fantastic friends. Hundrers of years ago men died fighting bloody wars or get killed by cruel diseases. They fought for freedom and for food. Still you're here complaining that you didn't bang enough hot chicks in college.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:02 AM
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Exactly! If you don't feel the harsh pain you will never be ready to swallow the pill.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 09:50 AM
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One of my current plates is a girl who has a boyfriend. She is very nice to me. No drama and lots of sex. But I would never have a LTR with her. Once a slut always a slut.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:22 PM
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Great answer! This is why you always aim for sex as soon as possible. Normally, women get more attached/invested after having sex. A women who is trully in love with you will give you less shit tests, less drama, and more sex.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:23 AM
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Heartiste.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 05:56 PM
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Evolutionary speaking oneitis it's perfectly reasonable. It is the ultimate manifestation of the scarcity mindset because nature equipped you with a very strong tool to ensure you would take care of your reproductive success fiercly. Considering a caveman tribe would have 50-100 people it's easy to see why we develop this scarcity mindset. Oneitis and rejection were effective tools back then. If humans had evolved in today's society you would see males with very low levels of rejection and oneit…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 05:42 PM
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4 months after my breakup I saw a facebook picture (in one acquaintances post wall) of my ex with anoher guy. I felt so sick that I couldn't eat the entire day. I start feeeling better once my SMV was slowly improving and start banging more girls. Believe me, there are another "good" girls out there. One of the things that helped me a lot was being positive. It also helped me alot talk to my friend whose words were very supporting.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 05:03 PM
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I have this friend who is short and is a "nice guy". He applies almost all the stuff recommended in "How to win friends and influence people". Yet he never read the book. He is very popular and likable. His father was a influenceable figure so this kinda helped him. But his social aura is fantastic, everyone loves him. Women are crazy for him and women want to be with him. From his 27 until 33 years he have slept with a hundred women. Women have to give their best to him because they know he is …
/r/askTRP22/10/15 01:45 PM
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Fun fact #2: It's one of the favourite books of Warren Buffet.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 01:27 PM
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You can change this but it takes time and a lot of effort. Respect is earned not given. For now just stop making a fool of yourself. You have to improve your social skills. Avoid people who don't respect you. Make new friends if you must. Sometimes is better to make new ones than to fix older ones.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 01:22 PM
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Having a boyfriend means shit. Last weekend I seduced a 22 years old which is in a LTR. Treat girls who are in relationships like single ones. Just be careful to not ruin friendships. Bros before whores! Always.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 11:35 AM
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What a stupid question.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 11:28 AM
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I think you suffer from delayed ejaculation. One simple question. Do you masturbate and/or see porn? How often?
/r/askTRP22/10/15 11:05 AM
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Break-ups are fucked up. Keep in mind that there are more women out there. Work and yourself and be highly social.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:37 PM
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Be very discrete! How the hell their boyfriends want to fight you? Do you try to seduce them in front of their boyfriends? If so you're very stupid. Try to seduce them very discretely.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:28 PM
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and no, she didnt wanna have sex with me at that point of time. How did you know that? Last weekend a girl I went a date told me she never could have sex with me because she has a boyfriend (7 years relationship btw) and in the end of the night I fucked her. Three weeks ago I fucked a girl who told me she need a lot of time to be very confortable to have sex...lol. Did you even read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:25 PM
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Check your testosterone.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:16 PM
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Why the fuck the husband come after him. His wife was at fault! Jeez what a dumbass.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:13 PM
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You're retarded.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:07 PM
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The point of texting is to get a date. Simple as that. To be honest at this point you can't create more attraction. I think she already decided if she's into you. Be funny, charming and then set a date!
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:06 PM
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She's doing you a favor. Honestly it looks like you're a 13 year old PUA wannabe. How the hell this kind of stuff concerns a guy who is successfull with women? It's beyond me.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:03 PM
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You acted like a bitch's bitch. I'm assuming this is a troll post otherwise...you just went full retard.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 01:57 PM
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Is 2 inches below average really that short? I call this BS. I'm part of a billiards team for about 5 years. I was one of the tallest. Still I was the least respected. One of the team members was always bullying me and he was one of the shortest. Now I'm respected because I changed my behavior, I won more matches and my frame increased a lot. Your problem isn't your height. Your problem is that you're a loser. Just reading your post I can smell loser. Respect is earned not given.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 11:39 AM
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I really don't understand the appeal for blondes and blue eyes. For me is Ass (waist-hip ratio) > face > tits. Hair and eyes are ok no matter the color. I fucking hate fake hair and especially, fake tits.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 09:46 AM
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I always assumed the top 20 were the combination of Looks, Assets, Game and Status. I have one friend who is clearly in the top 10% (or even 5%) but it's not in the 20% in looks. If you think you need to look like Brad Pitt to bed beautifull women you're already doomed to fail.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 09:09 AM
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Yes, after I found that my success with women increased. This is highly effective if you have a good SMV and the girl knows you have other options.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:37 PM
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How fat are we talking about? I never fucked a girl over 35% body fat. The worst I banged was a a HB4, maybe HB5 with 30-35% body fat. However she was a nice girl. I was 52 days without ejaculating, horny as hell. It actually was good but it didn't increased my confidence so I fully understand what are you feeling. It probably made you feel worse if your ex-GF was hotter.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:26 AM
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Why would you bring a girl for a weekend with your buddy? One friend of mine once said: "Never bring sand to the beach".
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:14 AM
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I don't necessarilly think you need to be very muscled and ripped to get girls. However being overweight is a big no! Just drop those 50 pounds of fat. It's relatively easy and it's under your power to do it. Body fat levels are heavilly correlated with physical attraction. It's a must to be under 20% body fat. If you still can't get any girls, then is probably your game.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:30 PM
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You have really good advice on this thread. I was like you when I was 17 year old. I was introvert and shy as fuck, played a lot of video games and was still a virgin. It was a dark time of my life and I was very depressed I even contemplate suicide. I glad I didn't do it because life have been a lot better since then. Here are some tips for you: It's all in your head! Once you change your belief system all will fall in place. Cut video games and porn/masturbation. It fucks up your dopamine/sero…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 05:14 PM
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Your body is very important. Chinese women will not even look at a chubby guy unless he's obviously super rich/BB to the max. and Even if you're fat, ugly, and poor, you still have a chance of pulling some girls solely on the fact that you're not Chinese. I'm assuming the first paragraph doesn't apply to foreigners.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 08:56 AM
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The worst thing you can do is show the enemy your play book and trust them to empathise or get on board. Exactly! I think we should keep TRP just for ourselves. This is our man space for men who want to improve their lifes and who doesn't care about political correctness.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:17 PM
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Day 1: Back, Bícep and Shoulders Workout.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 09:22 AM
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Okeseko will take this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 09:22 AM
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I keep thinking about how withdrawing this attention to detail will affect her. That's the problem of nice guys! You're not worried about her. You're worried that withdrawing attention will result in her leaving you. So you're always worried about yourself. Your actions comes from a place of insecurity and neediness. Women can sense weakness and despite what everybody says women can't feel attracted to weak men. It's almost the same thing as asking a man to feel attraction for a fat and ugly wom…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 09:13 AM
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If you really want something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 10:35 AM
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Of course you can! Women like direct and bold compliments. I often use compliments to make a women feel special, better than other women. This way she knows I have standards and I can be picky. I chose her because she met my standards. Make compliments because you want, not because you want to buy her approval. For example, in the other day: I: I like that group photo you posted in the other day. She: Ya, ya, you liked because of my friends. I: Yes, your friends are pretty. But, they could combi…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 11:23 AM
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I don't text continually. Sometimes at night. But you should text her two days before the date. Make her mood good. Then confirm the date in a non neediness way.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:20 PM
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Happened EXACTLY the same shit with my ex of 9 years! In my case it was a very slowly dead. It took more than two years. There were times things was good, then downhill. In the end I was painfully dumped. did some of her laundry etc I've asked how her day was I came over with cheese, blueberries and other delicious stuff to chill out with Nope. Nope. I've seen this shit happened to good friends of mine and still ignored. Thought my situation was different. I tried every BP trick in the book. I'm…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:13 PM
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I read about this binary system in Models by Mark Manson. I agree partially, but for me some girls fit a gray area. There aren't especially attractive but neither unattractive (maybe HB5 or HB6). They are good for dump a load occasionally.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 01:49 PM
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Regarding women looks scale. I rarely see 9's and 10's where I live. For me a 10 is supermodel category. Never been to USA, but have been in some european cities and it's rare to see super gorgeous women. I mostly see 6's, 7's and 8's. For me 7 and 8 are almost perfect. Add a feminine personality and you have a girl to have fun. Most people (if not all) find 7's and 8's attractive, they are very pleasing to the eye. Sometimes I get a little confused about people here on TRP who only talk about H…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 09:32 AM
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Agreed. "Go to gym brah" is so simple minded. If you aren't fat or really skinny, game will give you more success with women than muscularity ever will. For me, game covers the ability to approach, generate attraction, kino escalation, date planning, masculine behaviors, abundance mentality, social skills, body language, etc. Rollo said it better: Looks, Assets, Game. Have two. Three is best, but if you only have one, Game is the most essential. And looks isn't just muscularity! Is face, height …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 09:18 AM
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Approaching sober, yes that's really challenging! I must do it. I live in a small town, 150k population. What do you think it's a good approach numbers?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:33 PM
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I already considered doing that. Right now I don't have the time. I would like to read your report.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:32 PM
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That's a good mindset. I'll keep that in mind!
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:30 PM
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That's a good point. I noticed when I did NoFap, in the third week I was crazy and horny. I didn't mind being rejected. I don't masturbate, but in the past two weeks I saw some porn and had sex. Do you think just seeing porn without masturbation is bad for approaching. I may ban porn forever.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:29 PM
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I think it's really good idea focusing in just doing the approach, and don't expect an outcome. RSD deals about approaching women. I will look into it. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:27 PM
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Just ignore. Do they hook up consistently with hotter girls? If they don't, they are jealous. If they do, just ignore them and keep working in yourself.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 11:16 AM
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i'm afraid i'll never attract another girl as hot as she is I know this feeling. It sucks. But there are good news. You can! Think about it, you already attracted a hot girl (your ex). It wasn't a fluke. Somehow you've attractive qualities. TRP will help you boost your attractiveness and in a matter of time you'll attract other hot women. As a man you can improve your SMV for years. When you are in your mid thirties you'll be rocking (if you work your SMV), your ex in her mid thirties will be fi…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:56 AM
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Is height really that important in commanding respect? At least in my context it isn't. One of my shortest friends is very respected. Fast talking is a big issue. Fix that. I used to have that problem since I fixed that my repectability went up.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:21 AM
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She's not giving pussy to anyone. I live in relatively small town in southern europe so people here are not very liberal. Slut shaming is pretty strong here. With that being said. Be very skeptical about women indiscretions. Women guard their reputation with their teeth, especially in cultures where slut shaming is strong. Being jobless and with too much free time on my hand, it's a bit difficult to keep busy and put myself first. You have internet access. Go out and meet new people. Learn new s…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:15 AM
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What I do and works for me is state clearly my intentions by flirting a lot. For example, she asks you: what did you do today? You say, work, gym, and thinking a lot about your pretty face. Or, I'll make your mine. You say this with confidence and a smirk in your face. Make it funny. This way she knows from the beginning you want her and you're entitled to her. So when you make a move she doesn't seems surprised. When you try to kiss her and she moves her head. You just smirk and say for example…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 08:53 AM
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You can't do strict no contact with a girl who LJBF with you, and you still say there is nothing BP in you? So basically you are her emotional tampon while she gives her sweet pussy to another guys. Yap, that's pretty BP in my book.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 08:33 AM
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If you want to have sex just do, otherwise don't. Simple as that. Sometimes I ignore some ok looking girls and go out with my friends. Other times I'm horny I need to have some pussy. The world is yours do as you please.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 08:22 PM
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You could be right! Here in my country we call it just MD. From a quick google search I found that is somehow related to MDMA. But it could have other substances mixed in. Anyhow, the effects were mind blowing. I'm looking forward to try pure MDMA.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:05 PM
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Being dumped by my LTR of 9 years and 4 months made me found the manosphere. To make things worst I was my ex's first and she was very attractive. At the time of the break up I was afraid I would never attract a women as hot as her. The first weeks were surreal. For months I lived in scarcity mindset. I start feeling a lot better when I start attracting the same high quality girls as my ex. It didn't happen radomly. I worked for it. Almost one year as passed and I'm glad she left me. I improved …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:02 PM
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I really hate seeing those shitty posts here in TRP! Asktrp is great. Almost all questions I see there are answered. Sometimes by endorsed contributors. Let TRP sub to people who know their shit and want to share valuable information.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 07:33 PM
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The first time I tried MDMA it was amazing. It wasn't pills, I don't now how much I snorted but it was a lot! I didn't slept for almost 48 hours. But it was one of the most amazing nights I ever had. I felt so great and had an unshakable confidence that nothing could ruin it. I had so many IOIs that blew my mind. Nowadays, when I go out at night I use phenibut and some alcohol to put me in the mood. I know, it's a crutch but it makes the game so much easy. It's like steroids...but for the mind.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:53 PM
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You're young and wiser, still all what you do is whining. No wonder you feel you're wasting your life. If you started doing instead whining you'll feel better and you'll get results. What I see is excuses to avoid rejection.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:28 AM
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Invite her next week. Continue to improve your SMV and try pick up other girls. Girls are flicky, especially in the beginning of the interaction. She isn't invested in you yet so don't invest in her too. The correct mindset to have in this situation, is you don't had nothing. Not even a K-close. You were in square one all the time. This way if things don't work out you don't end too frustrated.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:25 AM
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It seems that you haven't kiss her yet. So inviting her at your home seems a little bit too much. But honestly...just do it! If she accepts going to your home, great, she wants to have sex. If she doesn't accept, you need to play it cool and re-schedule the date to another day. This time you should not invite her to your home, but the end goal should be take her to your home. With women being bold pays out. Always assume she wants you really bad and that she's only playing hard to get.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 07:25 PM
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Pay Attention To What A Woman Does, Not What She Says. That sentence is written all over the place here in TRP...
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:17 PM
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You're still young. Believe me, many men would kill to be at you right now. Add TRP knowledge and hard work and your set to a great future.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:13 PM
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You're putting too much pressure in only one friendship. I think the theory of plates should be applied at friendships. Go out and get more friends! My best friend lives in another town, sometimes we don't speak for a week or two. But when we do we speak of everything. I can share everything with him. But I'm not needy neither he is. Go make new friends and don't stress about it. Remember abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:07 PM
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I find myself lonely, not fruitful, and almost hoping for an LTR. I find myself almost in the same situation as you. My best plate is leaving town for at least two years. Before that I was starting contemplating entering in a LTR. I guess I had luck that she's leaving and the decision of LTR is out of the table. I guess we can't by any chance stop improving our SMV! Even if we enter in a LTR. But in all honesty, I already had a very long LTR. It's very comfortable and enjoyable, but somehow we c…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:02 PM
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Invite her for a date, give a specific time and location. If she can't at the time you offered try to set the date to another time. Don't seem too available otherwise you'll look you don't have options neither a life. At the moment my date plan is: 1 - Have a drink in a location where I can physically reach her, so I can start kino. 2 - Afterwards, I go have a walk with her. Try more kino and then stop in a place where I can lean on and try to hug her. After that you may go for the kiss. 3 - Try…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 03:54 PM
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You're right! I think that's me right now. 10 months ago I barelly had IOIs from girls and I told myself that my looks sucked and how I wished to be more attractive and everything would be easy. Now, I'm better physically and have a couple of fuck buddies and I still think that I'm not attractive enough. For example in the other day there's this girl at the gym which is really hot. At first I tried steal some glances but she doesn't seemed interested. Later she passed by me and she locked eye co…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 10:17 AM
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Fucking true! Some months ago after my break up I start going out with this friend. This friend is very popular and know a lot of people. Anyway, I ended pretty drunk a lot and made a fool of myself, for example approaching women and trying to make out with them in just seconds after I met them (it worked sometimes). In one episode I made a dirty comment to a girl who was passing by, her boyfriend heard it and wanted to fight me. To make things worse a group of six girls witness it and later tol…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 10:58 AM
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What are you talking about? 10 years ago I had a virgin girlfriend of 18 years and she was pretty hot but a little religious. At the beginning she was repulsed by blowjobs. A year later I managed to make her see porn movies and cum in her face. It took too long because I was still BP and back then I didn't know the power of persistence and showing shameless sex desire. IMO, it's a man job to make her wife/GF a slut. If you tried every trick you know and still didn't work it's time to find nem wo…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 10:33 AM
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If you're doing it to get rich, well, there's a lot better ways of doing it. If one wants to be rich which path would you advice to follow?
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:57 PM
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abdada, you seem the right guy to help me out. What advice would you give in how to develop charisma? I feel I'm wasting tons of opportunities because I don't approach women while sober and even don't warm approach women in my social circle. The thing is I can do that in night game while drunk, and get some positive results, so my looks aren't the problem. I get a little self-conscious talking with strangers and sometimes it feels a little awkward. It's more a matter of practice or mindset? What…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:27 AM
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Well said. It always make me laugh when blue pill guys want to marry. They think after marrying they can sit and relax and enjoy a confortable life. This is only possible if the guy as high SMV, or else, he must conform with an ugly wife. It's really pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 01:45 PM
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I'm a firm believer that evolutionary psychology can explain all our emotions and actions. It's our source code, our nature. We can't escape it. We were programmed to live in small tribes, not to live in huge modern cities. By understanding Evo-Psych we can leverage our sexual strategy to its full potential. I really enjoyed your analysis. Hopefully there'll be more posts relating red pill and Evo-Psych.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:28 PM
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I fail to see your logic. Do you think Microsoft shares valuable information with Apple? Of course not! That would be stupid. It's perfect natural to cutting down competition. Genes are selfish! This is evolutionary psychology 101 - the basis of Rep Pill. I care about results and my well being. Call me a selfish prick but I'm far from being altruistic.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 09:36 PM
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Since I embraced my masculinity I never been happier. A part of me wants to keep most men feminized. It keeps the competition very low.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 11:15 AM
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Where I live - a small town in southern europe the most attractive girls want commitment and they very rarely slut around. They know reputation is very important. However if you're not man enough they'll leave you for the next best thing. I never been in the USA, but women there seems to be very commitment phobic. TBH I would like to live in a hookup culture for some years. Of course women are like that, is nature! Stop being a wussy and accept reality. Don't tell me you still getdepressed becau…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 09:53 AM
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Good advice! This way you're always improving your skills.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 11:03 AM
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I laughed pretty hard reading your comment.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:58 AM
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It's not worth it! She'll never fully respect you. If she doesn't fully respect you she'll never love you! She's only with you because she doesn't found anyone worth branching. When she do that, and believe me, she will. She'll dump you. If I was you I would grow some balls and end the relationship. Just say you can't forgive her and your self-respect is more important than her. I once forgave my ex for flirting with a guy in facebook (not actual cheating). Things were better for a while. Two ye…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:52 AM
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I used a teeth whitening mouth tray. My dentist customized one for my mouth. It worked like a charm and can be re-used. Just go to your dentist and say you want to whitening your teeth. If you smoke whitening teeth is a big no, your teeth will turn yellow very fast. Don't put your teeth too white, it will seem too artificial therefore not attractive. Find a sweet spot. I still drink coffee and tea.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 08:47 AM
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Most of the times you're right. Unfourtanetly my case is a little more serious. Strengthing the cores muscles help a lot.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 08:44 AM
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Yes, facebook is a great way to display your SMV. My profile and cover photo were taken by a friend of mine who is good in photography. I also carefully select only my good photos to be posted in my wall. I just don't post emotional crap neither music, stuff like that. I think if you do that it says you spent too much time on facebook and that you don't have a life. Your friend doesn't know the luck he has. One of my best friends is rich same as yours. He is 33 y.o. and he is short. Since he has…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:18 PM
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The beauty of being a man is you can do a lot to improve your SMV and your age isn't a big factor. The downside...is fucking hard work! Here's what I did to improve my SMV in the last 8 months (I found TRP 4 months ago): Looks Losing body fat -> My face is way more attractive at a lower body fat and no more belly fat. Whiten teeth -> I got my teeth fixed and whiten them. I've been complimented a lot because of this.. Posture -> This is a hard one for me because I have back problems, nevertheless…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:08 AM
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True friends stab you in the front! I would say to my best friend in a heart beat and he would do the same to me.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 11:12 AM
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I would read the book. Is more complete. One of the best books I ever read. If you want a good book for inner game I most recommend The Manual: What Women Want. It has a pompous name but my success with women got better after I read it.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 11:07 AM
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Better place?! Listen to you, do you really wanna make the world a better place or do you want to enjoy life? Be honest with yourself. I know what I want. I want to live a great life! I could care less for what people will think of me when I'm dead. I want sex with girls I'm really attracted, I want to travel, I want to have great friends. When I do something is because I want to and it's because it serves my goals. I'm selfish! The irony is that everybody is selfish but very few really admit it…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 11:00 AM
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I don't use it and I don't plan to use. But I'm not against them. I care about results not how to get there.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:33 PM
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That should be pretty obvious.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:32 PM
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I'm 28 now, and I never get so much female attention until now. Truth is I'm in best shape, dress better and have some Game. I almost picked up a 17 year girl last weekend. I hesitated after I found her age.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:28 PM
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I don't know why but I'm pure genius texting when I'm really horny.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:25 PM
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I think Facebook doesn't work if the girl doesn't know you because it's very easy to approach girls on facebook and she can't see you body language, eye contact, etc. BTW, do you have any idea how a mild attractive girl is approached on facebook? Facebook is fantastic after you have met the girl.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:22 PM
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Rollo talked about this phenomenon. Their ego is invested in a blue pill fantasy. Maybe they don't have enough experience with women or maybe they are too dumb to understand that humans are animals shaped by natural evolution and each sex has a sexual strategy. Be glad you find this community.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:07 PM
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I think our ego and proud get on the way of getting what we want. I think you can cut contact but don't say stuff like "I'll never talk to you again and try to argument with her", they are women, their emotions state their beliefs at the moment. A month later she could feel differently and you have another chance. You'll have higher SMV and be more experienced. For me, a no from a woman is - "Not right now, but maybe in the future." Keep increasing your SMV and chase other women. In one month or…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:57 PM
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Good input. I agree with not jerking off. Right now I don't jerk off. If I want to cum I must find a woman...and it's working. Still I only do night game. I enjoying going out night so it's all good. But still I most push towards my comfort zone and start doing day game.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:35 PM
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I'm glad to see a post about approaching. I never had done one single approach while sober. This is my main weakness right now! I honestly believe once you have a minimum looks threshold you should concentrate in Game. Especially approaching. When I learn how to approach, deal with rejection and create that initial sexual tension attraction I'm sure my results will skyrocket.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:27 PM
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Treat them like sex objects. Don't masturbate and you'll start seeing them like sex creatures. The thing is, women love sex too. By being sexual with them you're doing them a favor.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:15 PM
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Just keep you mouth shut. I talk about some RP concepts (without the jargon) with my friends. At first they dismissed me. Now that they are seeing my results they are accepting my advice. I only do that with my close friends. To the remaining ones just keep it secret.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:14 PM
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Roissy has a great article about this issue. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/04/05/should-you-call-out-a-girls-bad-behavior/
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:01 PM
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Dignity? My goal with women is sex. Once we have sex for the first time the roles are reversed. I lose some interest after sex and women get attached. I already k-close the HB8 and she is starting to get emotional connected. I live in a small town in southern europe, I can't afford to be too picky, and the anti slut defence here is pretty strong. For many women, especially for the most attractive ones reputation is everything. They hate being perceived as slut. Patience is a virtue. I learned th…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:20 PM
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Beautifully written! I totally agree with your POV. No one cares about your honour especially women. So focus in results!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:12 AM
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Last week my friend went on a date with this 20 y.o. girl. I asked how it went. He replied it was great but he didn't tried to kiss her and didn't even did any kind of kino. I warned him, be careful with the friend zone. He replied saying - "Hey Okeseko, I'm not like you, I don't just want sex I want a relationship. I need it!". I told him, even if a relationship is your goal, you must aim to get sex. He ended agreeing with my POV...Unfortunately he didn't had a 2nd date. She saw him as a friend…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:52 AM
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I've been flaked three times last week. Two of those flakes were with a HB8 and another one was a HB6. I was expecting those flakes. I didn't build enough comfort with the HB6, she cancelled the date without a valid reason. I replied saying don't worry and start flirting with her and talking about some mutual interests. Her IOIs increased. I didn't set a date with her because I'm a little busied right now and have other prospects. The HB8 flaked me twice. Short story, I randomly met her in a wee…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:14 AM
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My latest conquests confirms your statement! Confidence and charisma all the way!
/r/askTRP29/08/15 04:47 PM
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Very clear and concise explanation.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 10:33 AM
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Exactly!! Two years ago I caught my ex flirting with this guy on facebook. I forgave her at the time but I was devasted. My self-esteem was completely destroyed, I was depressed! I spent the following months trying to "communicate" my feelings and doing more for her...LOL. You know the rest... After swallowing the red pill my life is way better! It isn't easy but it's totally worth it.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:32 AM
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This kind of stuff doesn't surprise me anymore. Last weekend I went out to this local summer party. I talked to this girl who added on me facebook on the following day. She started bluntly flirting with me. Told me I was really good looking and would love to know me better. I saw her facebook profile and she's married and she has a ton of photos with her husband and their wedding. Which apparently was very recent. I dismissed her, she wasn't hot, HB5 at most. On the other day, in another summer …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:52 AM
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OP I know what are you feeling! I've been in the same place 10 months ago. I've been dumped by my ex of 9 years. The pain was unbearable. I even had a panic attack. Embrace the red pill - it works. Self-improvement all the way!! Before it gets better it'll get worse. If you're walking through hell keep walking. Two days ago I saw my ex with her new boyfriend in a party. The look on her face when she saw me completed different was priceless. I'm more good looking, more confident, and more happy. …
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:28 PM
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There's nothing wrong saying "I love you". Just don't be the first one to tell that. But you can ocasionally say it. Don't say it too much, keep increasing your SMV and ALWAYS be preapared to leave any relationship. Just live it.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:44 PM
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The solely fact that pre-selection works for men but doesn't work for women is the definite proof that attraction is perceived differently among men and women.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:10 PM
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I totally agree with you. Especially with your last sentence! So... Live your life free, amoral, and don't worry about what they will say, only what is important to you. I couldn't care less for what other people will think about me in my funeral. I will be dead, so will they be after some years. What's the point? In a few millions/billion years the human race will most likely be extincted. All memories gone for eternity. Nothing will matter. Be remembered?! You would be surprised how short memo…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 09:44 AM
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Like you said porn is like fast food. In fact porn can be more addictive than hard drugs like cocaine and MDMA. Personally, seing porn and masturbation makes me unmotivate and ruins real sex. So I don't see it neither masturbate.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 08:57 AM
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Why do you have her as girlfriend if you aren't really attracted to her? IMO that's needy. Girlfriend status should be reserved for girls that you feel genuine attraction and you want to spent time with her. I'm not saying she must be a model, but you must look at her and find her physically pleasing. You say you're a high value man and you've a girlfriend you aren't really attracted...
/r/askTRP14/08/15 08:52 AM
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You want a friend and a lover in the same woman. I don't know about that but it seems the recipe for disaster. She was shit testing you. If you were a real confident man you wouldn't need her validation. It's your life do as you please! A word of caution. Women separate lovers from friends. It's nature. If a friend you seek a friend she'll be. When you display signs of weakness, even if something was out of your control, she can't get over the feeling that it's unattractive to her. She may stick…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 08:18 PM
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I've made it clear from the beginning that I want us to treat each other with respect. Deals with women are worthless. Remember, they see the world as a persisting state. I learned this the hard way. we started talking again a week later, and things have been great ever since. You showed your willingness to leave the relationship. That's powergame right there. but she made a choice to be my antagonist instead of my bedrock. Did you even read TRP literature? Do you expect that your girlfriend is …
/r/askTRP08/08/15 06:49 PM
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I'm not experienced enough to recommend you a specific diet plan. There's a lot of info around the web, find one and stick with it. However I have some guidelines that I feel safe to recommend: Measure your body fat every month to keep you on track Don't try to lose body fat too fast, you risk losing muscle, aim to lose 0,5Kg of fat for week. Consume enough protein, 1,8g/kg per day is a good bet Consume healthy fats Sleep well, sleep deprivation is correlated with increases of body fat Keep trai…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 12:42 PM
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If you have 20% body fat there are good news for you. Firstly I would aim to 10-12% body fat. Your face will look leaner. Afterwards I would do a very long clean bulk. Don't worry about being skinny, your face will look better and losing body fat is faster than gaining muscle.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 10:43 AM
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Wow, fantastic post! The baseball metaphor is spot on.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:56 PM
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Refreshing to see some grooming self-improvement. TBH it's very rare to see a gay man that isn't good looking. I wonder if it's a genetic correlation between being good looking and being gay or if it's the ability that gay men have to groom themselves. I think it's the latter. Face can definitley be improved! In some months I improved my face aesthetics by: Whiten my teeth Cleared my mild acne Slightly natural tan Body fat - this is a huge one, especially for guys who have a naturally round face…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 07:55 PM
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The Disney fairytale is gone but instead the porn fantasy becomes real. Hahah, great quote! I agree, I already lived my Disney fairytale...it was very good! But I'm really starting to enjoy the porn reality.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 07:22 PM
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Sleep is essential! I always loved to sleep, years ago many people told me that I was wasting my life by sleeping too much, so I tried to cut a couple of hours. I did it for months and I was always tired, lazier and way more stressed. I tried to rationalize and forced myself thinking it was only an adaptation period but it never get better. Do you want more time? Just be more productive, don't sacrifice sleep.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:47 AM
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Okeseko will take part in this challenge.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:37 AM
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Do you use any tools to help you maintain emotional control, self-discipline or even to eliminate self-limiting beliefs? Like meditation, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), etc... Sometimes I feel good and confident but some days I feel unmotivated and my self-limiting beliefs and weak emotions start to beat me down. How do you keep pushing forward and staying on course, how do you resist momentary temptations that compromise your long term goals? What do you…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:59 PM
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Brilliant! Why this comment isn't at the top??
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:22 PM
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Chad Thundercock is a the personification of the ultimate alpha male. He is tall, very good looking, muscled, very popular, very social, rich and has top game skills. He bangs HB10 on a regular basis, he turns nuns into whores, you got the point.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 09:19 AM
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I have a friend that is not more than 5'7 and he has a notch count of almost 100. However he has high status and he is a very likable guy with a really relaxed and funny personality, I never saw him bragging and he's so cool with everything. Everyone loves to talk to him. It's preselection working at full speed. Girls throw themselves at him. Last week we were in a nightclub and a young cute girl just approach him and introduce herself to him. He just grabbed her and kissed her right there. He d…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 09:07 AM
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You have a zillion sperm for a reason-- spend profligately. You're right! I noticed that guys who talk about rigid high standards are not that good with women and they lack some self-confidence. On the other hand, I can't imagine myself being in a relationship with a girl that I'm not really attracted. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 08:47 AM
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I don't have a fat fetish so no problema. Hopefully she'll badmouth you, and that'll do wonders for your preselection. I thought preselection wouldn't work like this. For example "That asshole John just fucked me and never called me back". If potential lays heard this wouldn't they be afraid of being pump and dumped, if I try to game them?
/r/askTRP22/07/15 08:41 AM
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This gutt feeling you talk about is a subconscious primordial mechanism evolved by millions of years which signals a very strong likelihood that you're being cuckold. Trust your gut. However you can't know for sure. Don't confront her, she'll deny it and she will be more cautious in case she's cheating, which will make harder for you to find the truth. Does she use facebook in your pc? Install a key logger and get her Facebook password. Play it cool. In case you have hard evidence that she's che…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 11:51 PM
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I disagree. Guys like Chad doesn't have any shame of showing sex desire. IMO, women love to be desired, they got horny when an high SMV male is interesting in them. Because: A man who demonstrates direct sex desire is a confident man. He goes for what he wants. A woman loves to be desired by a man who is desired by other women. It's the ultimate compliment. Like Rollo said - "Women don't want a Man to cheat, but they love a Man who could cheat." A man who is horny is more likely to take responsi…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 03:39 PM
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Great resource. I will give it a look.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 09:43 AM
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In the first years of my ex-LTR me and my ex fought a lot. For every reason! We would not speak with each other for hours or even days. But after making peace the love and sex was even stronger, she almost always wanted sex. There were moments I felt she hated with a passion. She commented often, to our friends that I wasn't the nice guy that I looked like. As soon as the fights went down...you guess it. Her attraction ended. You don't need to be a prick, but you must be a challenge. There's str…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:16 PM
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DO NOT DO POLYPHASIC TO GET MORE TIME OUT OF YOUR DAY Agreed. I tried it once for weeks and it's not worth it. I'll never sacrifice sleep again. It's better to be awake 15 hours and be 100% of your mental ability than to be awake 19 hours at 60%. Simple math IMO.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 04:21 PM
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This sounds like a zealot disgusted by life not being a fairy tale. Totally agree! What Michael's story teaches is that all women will be sluts given the opportunity. IMO Michael is an eternal Beta. He should've ride along and bang as much hot girls as he could. Instead he wasted is youth idealizing marrying a virgin Mary. I think every Red Piller should accept the truth, maximize his SMV and define a strategy which best suits his needs.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 11:37 AM
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Agree. I find Lisbon nightlife interesting. Do you do day game?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 01:17 PM
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I think Lisbon is the taller city in Portugal, however I don't believe the average is 1,80m. Although I agree with you about clubbing, last time I went to "Urban Beach" I felt average. I think the reason is that usually taller people goes clubbing. The dutch are the tallest of the world. Do you prefer picking up foreigns or locals? Where I live there isn't many young foreigns. But last time I went to Lisbon I picked up a 21 y.o. german girl. It seems a lot easier than the locals, but I think it'…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 11:38 AM
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Comforting men doesn't really work. They still feel awful, because deep down they know they are not being proper men. They don't want sympathy. They want respect. So fucking true! I always got stronger after my biggest failures. It's like you know that in order to survive, in order to pass your genes successfully you must be better. I think it's a manifestation of the natural male instinct. Personally I get more motivated reading posts like this than posts with comforting words like: "You can do…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:01 AM
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Ignore it. Don't take it personally. I think average girls are more likely to have a high notch. Their inability to make a alpha commit results in a endless streak of pump and dump.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:53 AM
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Totally agree. I won't say a damn thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:45 AM
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I'm portuguese and I'm the same height (1,80 m) as you. And I'm taller than most guys I know. In Portugal being 1,80m is considered slighty tall. I believe the average in Portugal is 1.73m and in Netherlands the average is about 1,83m.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:42 PM
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Avoid doing feminine things like cleaning and cooking. And by all means don't do stuff, that you want to do, just to please her. She may seem happy but deep down her attraction for you is slowly fading. You can do things for her. For example is her birthday, don't ask her what she wants to do, instead intruct her to pack her bags and say you're gonna go on a adventure. Take her to Paris, or something least expensive, whatever. Planning is key. With this you're demonstrating confidence, risk taki…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 11:44 AM
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She is losing respect for you. A woman just can't love a man which she doesn't respect. Increase your SMV, use dread or just leave the relationship. If you fail to do that, it will get worse.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:45 AM
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I honestly think relationships hinders progress. Just try to get laid. Meet girls bang them and don't enter relationships with them. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Remember that.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:41 AM
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I'm in a 57 streak of no fapping, but got laid yesterday. The benefits were not that huge, but I believe they will get better. The benefits I got so far: More motivated - I rarely watch tv and I don't waste time. The sex gets way better - Fapping everyday to porn will ruin your sexual experiences When I'm with girls I'm more bold. IMO fapping is unnatural. Your body doesn't produce sperm just to be wasted to a tissue paper. Train your body to only seek sexual release through a women. BTW the NoF…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:30 AM
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I'm not qualified enough to recommend acne clearing products. You're still very young. Focus on diet and try my advice. Ah and don't touch the fucking face. It makes acne worse. When you've some money saved and if it still bothers you go see a professional.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 04:32 PM
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Acne - I'm not going to say my face is perfect when it comes to acne. My nose is riddled with black heads and my forehead/chin break out in spots on occasion. Any recommendations for products to use? I've been using St. Ives items but no use. Please make it affordable as I pay for all my shit I had some breakouts some months ago, now my face is acne free. I did some several changes: Diet - very limited fast food and high glycemic carbs. Healthy diet! Diary - it may be that diary products could g…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 04:21 PM
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It definetly helps to think that way. Three months after our break up I found out she was seeing this guy. The guy is a friend of my friend, and is a douchebag player. If there was one thought that made shattter all my feelings for her was the thought of her being a fucktoy of this prick. I felt sick for hours after I found out, I wanted to vomit. After that moment the idea of her being a "special snowflake" completely vanished. I don't hate her, after reading many red pill literature I learned …
/r/askTRP11/07/15 11:26 AM
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I confused you the way I constructed the sentence. What I mean is I don't want her as friend. I just want her out of my life. I'm done with her. I really appreciate your advice, and I'll follow it.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 02:00 AM
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Any advice for those who can't squat or deadlift? Back problem, doctor orders =/ I'm getting nice results but I feel I'm missing some gains by not doing squats neither deadlifts. I already have impressive legs, so squats aren't that necessary. Which muscles do I neglect by skipping deadlifts?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 01:08 AM
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After reading TRP I doubled my efforts on the gym. I won't lie to you, a good looking face is a factor in SMV, but there's not much you can do about it. Well in my case it can! I went from about 24% body to 15% in about 8 months and my face is definitely more attractive. I had a chubby face before, now my face is getting angular. I'm aiming to get to 10% body fat. Then endure a very long clean bulking. If you have a naturally round face and you've a high body fat, just drop your body fat until t…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 01:06 AM
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I really appreciate your advice! It is reasonable and I'll do as you said. Have you been seeing other girls since you broke up? Yes I have. I've been with another girls. I've the abundance mentality really internalized (thank you red pill). However at the moment I don't have any plate worth spinning. My problem now is approaching women and meeting new women. At the moment I'm focusing in the approach. Still have some approach anxiety =/
/r/askTRP11/07/15 12:49 AM
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I want to share the first experience with what I think it was MDMA (Ecstasy), in my country we name it differently, so I'm not sure if it's the same drug Almost half year ago, weeks after being dumped by my ex from a very LTR I went out with two friends of mine, we had some beers and I was walking down the city feeling a little down. I remember trying to make some eye contact with some girls but with no success, I quit altogether of looking at girls, adding the fact of my recent break up, I was …
/r/askTRP11/07/15 12:39 AM
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I'm a 28 y.o. IT guy too and I got my degree in a small local college. Most IT guys was normal looking guys. Very few nerds. However, some months ago I visited a friend of mine who lives near a big college campus. One day we're having dinner and the sister of his girlfriend, a cute 19 year old was surprised when she found out that me and another friend of mine were IT guys. According to her most IT guys in her college are social awkward, can't have a simple conversation and look like they live i…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:07 AM
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Being fat is unattractive because these people have disfigured their bodies to the point that none of the natural cues of attraction are triggered. That's a succint explanation why being fat is ugly. Well done!
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:34 AM
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Well written and I feel deep empathy for you. Honestly! Your post is a hard reality check. A bitter reminder we men need to read from time to time. I'm now 28 and I've been in a LTR for more than 9 years. My ex is the type of girl that many people admire: attractive, responsible, sweet, hard working, respectful and religious. Even so, even the perfect women will fuck you up given the chance! 7 years into my LTR I noticed things changing, red flags start popping up everywhere. She start losing in…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:14 PM
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You can't even have one. You have poor self control. You honestly made me realize I'm still playing in easy mode. I appreciate your directness. I would like to know your mindset for dealing with rejection. Serious question, do you lift? I am guessing no, because you're hung up on your looks and you're a drunk. Yes, I started lifting 6 months ago, I managed to get from 23% to 15% body fat and gain a couple of pounds of muscle. I still need to improve my workout. I also bought new clothes, whiten …
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:36 PM
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Remember - There are no shortcuts in life, especially if you're on the RP path. Crutches are for cripples, and your goal is to be the Rock of Gibraltar. Thanks man that's really inspiring! I must face all my discomforts in order to grow even more! You made me remember a quote I saw in the book "The Way of the Superior Man": Unadorned suffering is the bedmate of masculine growth.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:11 PM
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Really the thing that finally changed is that I started to dislike the feeling of being very drunk. That's how I feel! There is a initial euphoria phase that lasts about a hour then kaput. I'm decided to break this nasty habit.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:57 PM
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I only binge drink once a week maximum. But, still it's a terrible habit. It's bad for your health, you may get into fights, the following day is completed wasted and in my case I tend to forget a lot of what happened. On the other hand, quitting altogether is much easier goal. Zero tolerance is much more maintainable. Ya, I think you're right. But cutting it completely seems to drastic, a couple of drinks helps to energize me. I'll try to put my limit on three drinks, if by any chance I end tre…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:52 PM
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From the book 48 laws of power: Law #3 "Conceal your intentions" Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late. Don't talk about the redpill with anyone. Most people will wrongly think you're a biiter person. Be social, build a greater social …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 02:32 PM
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