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| -1 | 36 questions for womenTriggering? Do I need a trigger warning? No, it was meant to be a parody (sort of) of 36 questions for men that are going about. Feel free to come up with better questions about things women do that men might be confused by? If you want an example of dumb questions, as dumb or even dumber than mine, look at 36 questions for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 03:45 AM |
| -5 | 36 questions for womenUm..I don't know what being a neckbeard means. It was partially meant as a parody of the stupid questions women have for men. I with try to avoid full neckbeard from now on | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 12:22 AM |
| 16 | How to dominate her in bed.I like dominant sex. Being dominant means being comfortable with your own shit. Saying I am too dominant to cuddle is retarded. 'Gee, I won't cuddle you after great sex because it might make me seem less dominant.' IIT just makes you seem insecure. Its about the feels. When she comes to you and just wants to snuggle up it is because she wants to feel safe and secure with you. Part of dominance is your sub being able to trust you. If you can't even meet a basic emotional need why should she? Fuck… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | 16 rules of the GameSeems like over thinking to me...if you know her job is to keep you happy then everything else falls into place. Things like compliments, and being the oak tree to her emotional tornado become irrelevant. If her looking good makes you happy, tell her, but it is her purpose, don't go overboard about it. Her emotional outbursts don't make you happy. Why would you reward them with your valuable time and attention? The behavior that gets the most attention good or bad is the one that will be repeate… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Lost a plate but kept frame.Fair comment. | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Why Women Hate Weak MenI agree but there is a lot of misinformation about what masculine traits are and whether they are a gift or a curse or both, aggression=competitiveness=violence, lifting=strength=narcissism, logical=problem solver=unemotional, sexual=exciting=creepy, direct=clear boundaries=tactless and insensitive, job oriented=provider=workaholic ... etc. That is why men struggle with masculiinity because they keep on being told that traditional models are wrong and the new masculinity is just not masculinity,… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | there's a lot of hate for fat women, but let's have an honest conversation about fat men...I say we need more fat men. The better the ratio is for us guys who actually eat right and work out the more I like it. As a man in my forties, most guys my age have a belly on them. Being in shape makes you look and feel younger. I met a guy recently at a swimming pool. He said, "scientists said we can't lose weight when we are past forty so I may as well not try." I was doing dips and push-ups at the time, so I am pretty sure he knew he couldn't convince me. Overweight is not a glandular issue… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 01:13 AM |
| 1 | males like fighting, why ignore the facts?It is true that men like competition. Figure skating, synchronised swimming, poodle grooming and bonsai growing are competitive. For me personally, I would rather eat my own spleen with a fork than endure an hour of this. You certainly couldn't make me watch it without paying me. YMMVthey are choosing to join the military I'm not from the US, and my country actually is not heavy into the military, but from what I've read, most guys that join the military are looking for benefits and a paycheck, … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Buying a car, sexist asshole!I also get that there are men who lie about vasectomies or pulling out in time. I find it hard to believe though that most women can get to 3 months pregnant without being aware of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Buying a car, sexist asshole!I actually agree with you about abortions being horrible. Adoption is awful as well. That doent invalidate them as choices. I absolutely also acknowledge that you put naked dick in a woman, you are taking a gamble. Realistic conssequencees should be going halves in morning after pill To belabour an analogy. You buy a car with full warranty, then the brakes crap out, and you have an accident. The dealership says, "if you didn't want an accident, you shouldn't have driven the car. Its your fault, … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 11:15 PM |
| 15 | Buying a car, sexist asshole!I feel for ya...that sucks. You make my point better than any example I could come up with. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 06:31 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Guys Make "Nexting" Look So Easy?Don't then...if you don't want them to control you, don't let them. Make it clear from day 1 that you aren't gonna put up with shit, and you will have a lot less to put up with. Being scared to say what you want is the essence of scarcity mentality. There are 3 billion women on the planet. You will get another chance. As for too broke, too tall, too ugly, too short, too old, too fat, too serious, too funny...get the heck over it. Fix what you can, work with what you can't but stop making excuses… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 05:12 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Guys Make "Nexting" Look So Easy?If you are actually capable of caring about people, especially women, nexting is hard. Yeah, having other options helps but if you get to the point where you can pump and dump without feeling anything apart from sexual release then you have become the shallow stereotype the feminists say you are AND you will feel empty emotionally. Be proud of the fact that you care and feel. One-itis is just dumb though. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Unconditional Love, no thanksI guess I am not in touch enough with my Buddha nature. I see all relationships as transactional, sometimes biology drives the transaction, e.g. mums and babies. Love that doesn't acknowledge need seems flawed, if only for ignoring biological drives. When does want become need? That seems like a pretty murky area. I want my girlfriend to be sexual towards me. Do I need her to be? I have other women who will be if I ask. Would our relationship end if she decided she didn't want sex with me any mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Unconditional Love, no thanksI had affection from other sources but I only had one wife and I wasn't polygamous or have sex with anyone else so yeah, I was dependent on her for my sexual and some of my emotional needs. I had no dread game and was bp as fuck heck so that didn't help. I do get your point about the difference between needing and wanting and scarcity and abundance. However nexting your girlfriend because she got fat still seems like your love was conditional e.g. I need you to be attractive for whatever reason.… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Unconditional Love, no thanksI am trying to work out Inserting A blank line but can't manage It. Even when I try to follow the mark up guide. Bugger! I agree my formatting is awful. Crap. Any advice, especially on inserting a blank line would be appreciated. As it is. annoying for readers. hard to write clearly. and makes whatever I write boring. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Unconditional Love, no thanksYou are right about a lot of points. I did reread the article. I agree that agree that in any sort of relationship of course you should accept that people have flaws. I also like the point that you judge people on how they treat you and not what they can do for you. Respectfully,I think it is a naiive view. If you want empathy and support in your relationship you are making it conditional. If you don't want empathy and support and that seems like a minimum standard to me then what are you in the… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Can polyamory work?If its not broke, don't fix it. You have found a girl who seems funky, likes to fuck, and is cool with you sleeping with other women. Enjoy it while it works. Dont get oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Is this the worst time to be a man?It makes me really proud and pleased that there are guys out there, who are NOT crying about how unfair shit is but getting on with their lives and loving it. I salute you all. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 01:34 AM |
| 3 | New Approach to Tinder Gets More Attractive Women with a Few PitfallsLOL...fair enough. Happy hunting. I may just be jealous. At my age 25 year olds are a little bit harder to get and yes, they do look better naked. : ) | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 02:59 AM |
| 2 | New Approach to Tinder Gets More Attractive Women with a Few PitfallsI meant that I find girls that young hard work. Maybe I am getting too old for it. I wish everyone who is nailing them fun, joy and lots of awesome sex. Just saying that older women have their merits too. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 06:53 AM |
| 1 | New Approach to Tinder Gets More Attractive Women with a Few PitfallsI am 46. I am seeing a 42 year old woman who isn't a hb9. Best sex of my life. She has skills. She is as adventurous and broadminded as I am. She is fine with booty calls and loves to suck my dick. She is old enough now that she knows what she likes and is confident enough to ask for it. You can keep your entitled little 25yr olds and the BS that goes with them. My dick is more than hard enough with my 42 yr old. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Truths from Bill Burr Podcast with his WifeI would rather fuck a cuddly woman I liked than a skinny bitch and that is what I am doing and loving it. There is an obsession on here about fucking hb's. Often to be that hawt you have to be body obsessed and this gives an enormous sense of power, privilege and entitlement. Us guys then complain that AWALT. Of course I like attractive woman who are in shape over hsmbeasts not just for aesthetics but because they are self motivated and active. Yes, we are shallow if we are choosing a hb9 who is… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 08:17 PM |
| 0 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyI am not sure if you are being serious or not or if you are talking about me but if you are then thanks. | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyIf they are being friendly chat back. If they have their game face on leave 'em alone. Although we are not offended if you ask us how our night has gone. | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 11:36 AM |
| 3 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyA few things I forgot to mention. If you see us moving determinedly in one ditection, there is a fight or we are escorting someone out, I do not care if we are best buddies, get the fuck out of the way, do not try to help in any way, and do NOT grab my arm to get my attention. I may be a little focused and my first reaction may not be a friendly smile and thanks for the help. If we say you are drunk, go home without bitching or talk to us in a calm and reasonable manner. That way you get to come… | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 11:29 AM |
| 2 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyYeah, as a bouncer I know for a fact some bouncers are assholes. Some are assholes before they become bouncers. Some become assholes after dealing with an unending line of drunken obnoxious twats and whinging drunken princesses. I am the most patient bouncer I know but even I got annoyed some nights. If you can find me a profession without some assholes in it I will be impressed. As for groping your girl, unacceptable. I have also stopped a lot of girls being groped by assholes. Maybe it balance… | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 10:45 AM |
| 145 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyAs a bouncer, don't be a fake chummy jerk. That just pisses us off. If I don't know you don't expect high 5's and bro hugs. Don't weasel us for handouts. Believe it or not most of us underneath the muscles and menace are relatively friendly guys. If you treat us like human beings we treat you like you might be a human being. Don't forget we might have hundreds of people go past in a night, we don't always have time for a chat or even remember you. We may be on the end of a 6 hour shift after hav… | /r/seduction | 10/03/16 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What's some good response to "Is that your pickup line?" shit test?What makes you think I have only one? Nope, normally it's " nice shoes, wanna fuck? . Not if that's your usual response. It only works on hot chicks though. Let's hear yours and we can compare notes. It sounds better Spanish. | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | My feminist friend likes the idea of being obedience trained!Lol...I'll keep that in mind should I ever start fucking high power business guys. :p | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | My feminist friend likes the idea of being obedience trained!That is great advice. As someone new to this, any advice is gold. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 05:05 AM |
| 2 | My feminist friend likes the idea of being obedience trained!I hope the 'real men' are too busy fucking the shit out of their happy partners and making them feel like women to waste their energy debating. Same reason I don't debate with religious fanatics unless I am trolling. I appreciate your insightful comments. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | My feminist friend likes the idea of being obedience trained!Smart men don't fight it directly, That is suicide. However we do show every woman we are with that not all men are lime that. Hopefully they spread the word that it is great to be with a strong man, not some feminized pseudo male. I am a glass half full kinda guy. The more whining man bitches there are out there the better I feel about myself. Obesity epidemic, ha! The more pudgy gymphobic people there are the better I look by comparison. Besides, engaging in debate with feminists is pointless.… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | My feminist friend likes the idea of being obedience trained!Lol...not sure if my mojo is that strong. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 12:01 AM |
| 2 | My feminist friend likes the idea of being obedience trained!I am just getting into the scene. I also have a fwb who is very fond of being my sub. I am happy to go with that. I am enjoying the Dom side. What the femnazis forget was that feminism was about choice. My fwb has made a choice. It gives both of us pleasure. She is not weak, or a victim. She is brave and honest with herself and me. I haveclearned that it is hard for me to accept people doing things just to please me. I still have a shitload of conditioning to overcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Swedens Liberal Youth Party suggests men should be able to denounce fatherhood for as long as women can have an abortionIt certainly would change the dynamic. My country has an issue with teen single moms. There are too many. It is pretty obvious why. Work hard, get a student loan, and be in debt forever. Choice 2, be lazy, get pregnant, get government handouts and child support until the child is 18, You might even get a house out of it. This is what makes me angry. A guy can be lied to by the woman he fucks about contraception. He can state categorically that he does not want her to have the child, well before … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Depression and evolution, my theories.Hmmm...I will think about this. Depression is unpleasant and painful. I don't know if it is always a catalyst for change though. I know a bunch of people whose reaction to putting on weight is to get more depressed and eat more, or who are depressed about having no friends and stop going out at all. People can cycle deeper and deeper into it and sometimes don't even know why they are depressed. It is not much of a motivator if you don't know what you are depressed about. Possibly too many people… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Depression and evolution, my theories.As someone once said,'unless you are the lead sled-dog the view never changes'. Interesting theory. Not sure I am buying it though. If it were true 80% of people would be depressed all the time. Also I know lots of bluepill husbands. They are not all depressed and unhappy. Some of them are happy. I am not in charge at work. I don't want to be. I am not depressed about it. Also, no alpha male would ever be depressed and there are lots of examples (read any autobiography) of great leaders overcomi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Depression and evolution, my theories.I don't know if that is true. From my experience it does the opposite when you are deep in it. You don't want to do anything. I am not trying to belittle anyone's experience at all. I did try to address my triggers and not generalise. I am also not addressing physiological reasons like brain damage or drug use, or life events. I do know if I had stayed in winter mode when my marriage disintegrated I would probably still be there. I also think if it hsd happened in deepest darkest winter I would … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 07:54 AM |
| 2 | "The Manipulated Man"Love it or hate it, so long as it made you think. Welcome to the red pill. As with everything in life question everything. There are a lot of really helpful guys on here. There are some reallyangry guys on here. There are a few internet warriors as well. Some of the guys on here are just tired of repeating the same answers. What does connect all 140,000 men on here is that they all have a good reason to think that something is wrong with society and the red pill seems to provide answers that mak… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Woman breaks off engagement because fiancee won't reveal his financial details. Advises other women to do the same because it's fair.It doesn't seem unreasonable to want to know about a future life partners finances. Who wants to marry someone else's debt? That doesn't mean they need absolute specifics or access to your accounts or even have any right to use your money like it is their own. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Talking to women..ughI couldn't. That wasn't because of conversation though. I think most realistic couples acknowledge that there are going to be a bunch of days that are not symphonies and fireworks, talking about bills, the house or work or children or whatever. It isn't romantic or exciting or passionate but it still needs to be done. My marriage ended for the same reason most marriages do. I tried to do the right things and be a nice guy, and didn't realise that was the worst thing I could do. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Worried PUA tactics will affect my reputationWhy try? Anyone trying to pick up women is going to be seen as creepy once in a while. Don't be creepy or sleazy. It is not picking up women that is creepy it is failing to. Anyway, maybe relax a bit. Just be fun and social, and if a situation arises go with the flow. It is a campus, if you can't find a social situation weekly or more, you aren't looking hard enough. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Talking to women..ughTrue...I experience the same with most people, regardless of gender. I have met women who are fun to talk to. I rarely find a woman who will surprise me with what she says though. Sometimes it does feel like it is so easy to talk to women I may as well be on autopilot so why bother | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 09:04 AM |
| 2 | I just don't feel it anymore? (Throwaway)Getting fucks isn't that big a deal...unless you are 14. Getting an emotional investment from you and her, that's more of a big deal. We are told all our lives that women are these complex fragile beautiful creatures and when we start to unravel the truth, it can be hard to be interested or even have any respect. To hell with pick up, go out and do something that doesn't feel like work. | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Should I spend a year getting in shape before even attempting to get laid?No, another year of avoiding interacting with women isn't gonna help you get laid. Sure, working out is great for itself, and looking better never hurt but pudgy charming guys get laid too. What working out does for ya is give you the self-belief that you are attractive and that gives you more confidence. It is the confidence that makes you really attractive. It seems like telling yourself you have aspergers and that is why you aren't getting laid becomes self-fulfillung. If you have zero social… | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Is their anything wrong with approaching and not closing ?Nope, it is fun. | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Some advice and insight for a guy that broke up with a gf of almost 6 years?10 year relationship ended...It was fucked. We both made mistakes SFW. OF COURSE IT WILL HURT..This is your moment of choice. You can either choose to be kinder, sweeter, more generous, a better listener etc. You know, all those things that you tried to do but could never do enough of to keep her happy anyway. Or you can say 'fuck this. I am not going to be that pathetic pussy anymore'. Do some shit for YOU. yeah you loved her, you had dreams. They are gone. They were a fucking fairytale anyway … | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 09:44 AM |
| 6 | You are leading every woman, whether you like it or not. So take up the reins; she both wants it and needs it.Yup, been there with that woman. The next woman I met who I showed that I was in charge, and would not be disrespected or given shit by decided she wants to be my sub! It is that simple. Lead and women will want to be lead. It makes them feel safe and secure in their role. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Who else feels like they miss the 'game' after they get into a committed relationship?Yup, absolutely. I love seduction and flirting. I love meeting and fucking new women. I am in an intense fwb situation at the moment. It feels a little weird flirting with other women. I guess I am still struggling with abundance mentality. | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 07:28 AM |
| 3 | How to be less annoying?First step, shut the hell up. Don't be a babbling, try hard to impress, needy motherfucker. Second step. Listen to what they are saying. You dont need to have the best stories/jokes/life experiences. You just need to show that you are intetested in them (not just their tits). Step three. Relax. Quit trying so hard to impress. Just have fun. The things I find annoying are people who are only interested in themselves, who won't shut the hell up, are bad listeners, won't get out of my personal spac… | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 01:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys do when a woman stares at you? At the gym or places you visitSmile... | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you interpret a girl accepting kino?Green light. Unless you are so androgynous she is unaware of you as a gendered being and your touch doesnt register. It doesn't mean her panties ate wet, but it probably means she is happy for you to carry on. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 10:02 AM |
| 1 | whats the topic that you tend to focus on when talking to a girl you just met?+1 also talk about what made you want to talk to her in the first place (but not you were trying to get x amount of numbers for the day). "I really like your sense of style", "you have the most amazing frizzy hair I have ever seen. You must hate it", "when I saw you smiling it made me feel like it was going to be a fantastic day" bad examples maybe...avoid "hi, my name is Bob. You are beautiful" | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Where should I start to get beginner fashion advice?Nice jeans that fit well, nice dress casual shoes, nice shirt that isn't too boring e.g. blue, white, grey, black. Don't be afraid to add some color. It won't make you look gay, it will make you stand out and look confident. If you put on a piece of clothing and your brain tells you that you are a sexy motherfucker, wear it. Generally women care that you take care of yourself, and aren't homeless or being dressed by their mother. What nice clothes do for you is make you feel attractive.The more … | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Where should I start to get beginner fashion advice?Get a nice shirt with a bit of colour. Burgundy, pink, whatever. Every other guy out there is wearing a boring blue or white shirt. Jeans that fit stop you looking like your mom dressed you in tour big boy pants. Get some nice dress casual shoes. Trainers are for the gym. A nice jacket stops you looking like a rap star. After that go crazy. It is pretty easy to work out what to buy. If you put something on and the voice in your head says, "damm, you are a sexy motherfucker" go with it. At the en… | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Is building sexual tension through text a better idea, or save it for in person?What do your instincts tell you, young jedi.? But seriously, flirt and tease, absolutely. Maybe hold off on the cock-pics and obscenity until she starts it. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 01:07 AM |
| 14 | I'm done with this sub.Yeah, the redpill does have a lot of anger. It is the place that lots of men first get their eyes opened about what is wrong with the world and, for many, their lives. Realizing that you have been lied to all your life and that doing all the 'right' things was brainwashing can be hard to take. However, there are some very knowledgeable passionate people on there. That sub and this have the same message though. Live your life for yourself, not for other people to validate you. If you love your li… | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 12:58 AM |
| 1 | I Didn't Say No - But it Was Still Rape.My pity goes to genuine rape victims(male and female) who will now struggle even more to get their claims dealt with while selfish manipulative cunts like this clog the system. Rape is NOT just committed by men to women. Can I join the bandwagon. Today I told my girlfriend I was really tired and told her I wanted to sleep. Just because I was lying naked on the bed she thought that gave her the right to stroke me and induce an involuntary sexual response. She then smothered me with her breasts an… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 07:53 AM |
| 1 | I Didn't Say No - But it Was Still Rape.That is great advice. You sir are my hero. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 07:35 AM |
| 1 | The Cycle of Addiction & Procrastication. Why you read the TRP but don't lift.+1. That sounds like me too. Smart enough, but just cruised through. If I had actually worked...who knows. I have 3 degrees but I still just cruised through on the minimal amount of work. Hard habit to break. But I have made myself get up early to go to the gym 3 times a week, do cardo 2x a week, changed my diet and excercise every night. The one mantra that works for me is discipline beats motivation. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 07:19 AM |
| 1 | What were some mental or behavioral habits that you've had to change, and what are some changes that just happened naturally?Strangely confidence came naturally, grooming and self discipline were hard. Making myself go to the gym is kind of addictive any way and feeds the rest of my confidence because I feel in shape, and know I look better than all those flabby bastids out there. Talking to women was the easy part.. I enjoy talking to people all the time, women are people. Not being negative was/is a hard habit to break too. That also feeds itself and makes you look like an insecure blue pill guy. Just don't do it. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What was your worst "you wouldn't see it in the movies" moment.Lol...giving or receiving :D | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Life in Order but no Sexual DriveThen don't. When you want to you will. Stress can affect this stuff. Seriously though, just get on with the stuff you want to do. If you never want to speak to a girl ever again SFW.Its your business and nobody else's. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What were some mental or behavioral habits that you've had to change, and what are some changes that just happened naturally?Not being negative about myself is a big one. Not getting help when I need it, especially medical. Eating right and exercising regularly build up my confidence because I am no longer depressed about a flabby dad bod. Still working on self discipline about boring routine shit. Stopped worrying about my face not being perfect. Concentrated on decent grooming instead. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 08:25 PM |
| 4 | [FR*2] I can't believe how easy that wasYup...inner game beats outer skills, nice metaphor too. It is why I don't read any pick up stuff at all. The closest is models, and no more Mr nice guy. I actually think some of the pick up stuff can be counter productive. Guys are spending too much time worrying about dumb stuff and it is making them more awkward not less. You see the posts, "when should I kino?”," it has been 2.5 days since I texted her....", "Is this an IOI?". "Is it blue pill to help my elderly neighbour carry her shopping..… | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Yeah..I think part of it is my brain saying, "this feels like a relationship. Danger Will Robinson, Abort." Spinning another plate might help that. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 07:42 PM |
| 2 | feel like i'm losing my self.Men are doers. When we don't do, we get depressed. Its that simple. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Nope, I might have a beer a night on hot nights. Don't smoke, inject, snort, lick, swallow any other sort of pharmaceutical, herbal or otherwise. Boringly clean living... | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Thanks for that really open and honest reply. Not just me then... | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Still trying to sort out my diet, as for sleep, about 2 weeks of it would be awsome. If it is 'just a mental thing' trying to fix that sounds more difficult to me. I have a few suspicions but only time will tell. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Embarrassing problem with boners..A cock ring really only works if you have wood already I thought. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Hey thanks for all the great advice guys. I was pretty self-conscious talking about this (even though it is an anonymous online community) but you guys proved me wrong. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Who can afford a shrink, you know its never just one visit. I am sure there is stupid shit going on in my head. Even if I work it out, then what? Getting drunk with my buddies is an awesome idea. I hardly drink so it is pretty easy to get hammered. There is a fair amount of shit I am wading through, custody, protection orders, rbuilding a house, no sleeping, surviving on one income instead of two, becoming a solo dad, etc... Maybe I am just being too hard on myself and expecting miracles for my … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Don't watch porn, don't masturbate very often anyway. Less than once a week...just been having sex. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Embarrassing problem with boners..Bragplaining? : ) no, condoms aren't the issue. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Massage?I would have thought that short-term it would remove tension which can be a trigger to further anxiety. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | What to say when girls ask: "Why do you look at me like that" when i maintain eye contact to demonstrate confidence?Unless you have been giving her the psycho no-blink creep stare just give her a slow cheeky smile... She knows that you know that she knows why you are looking at her like that. If you have to say something then depending on context try, "because I have a very dirty mind.", "you know why.", " coz I am using my psychic powers on you." ,"I am very short sighted, and I was trying to see if you were hot. I may have to get closer to tell." | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a woman always apologizes to you?Low self esteem, passive aggressive, raised that way, is a closet sub.... | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 01:22 AM |
| 1 | A genuine question for the trp community.Whatever works for you...I like women to talk to. More than one fwb at a time leaves me exhausted. Sex is fun but it has never been the be all and end all for me. Low T count, different libido, raised differently, who knows or cares, that's just the way I am. I am looking into fixing sleeping and getting my tcount tested. Not a big deal for me. TRP is here to explain why the rules we are taught don't work. What you do with that info is no business but yours. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Plate wants to do analUse Vaseline instead of ky...you really want the heavy duty lube. Don't pull out fast...last thing u want is to vacuum pump her ass. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Girl forgets about date and messages me afterwards that I should have reminded her. How do i answer that ?She is just not that into you. She might have done the date if you had maintained some sort of connection, but you didn't. Lesson learned. Reschedule another one, if she flakes then next her | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 01:07 AM |
| 7 | Getting depressed about a vasectomyI have 2 stepkids. Yup, I may be a pussy, or I may be having a normal reaction to losing my chance to pass on my genes. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Girls who watch porn, is that a red flag?Lucky you. It gives you a chance to talk about turn-ons and boundaries. It might also give you something to do those times when you both just want to cuddle...and yes, real men cuddle. Unless you have never watched porn, don't be ss hypocrite. Maybe you should ask what is it about you that made her uncomfortable about it. In a perfect world she should be at home wanking over thoughts of the sexy shit you did to her recently. tl:dr? 3 years of good relationship. She watches porn SFW. Enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Paleo diet and smelling badLol... | /r/askTRP | 16/02/16 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Paleo diet and smelling badThat sucks... | /r/askTRP | 16/02/16 03:12 AM |
| 16 | Girlfriend going to visit parents out of state where her exes live. Do I set a boundary or let it go?Let it go...don't be that insecure guy . | /r/askTRP | 16/02/16 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Honestly, how often do you have sex with your SO?Sleep | /r/askTRP | 16/02/16 01:28 AM |
| 2 | What is your favorite quote?Live, laugh, love. Discipline beats motivatio . Whether you believe you can or believe you can't you are right. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Are there any Christians on here? Advise for how to apply these lessons from a christian mindset?I am not christian, but even I understand that Jesus preached love for man and woman. I struggle to understand why god would create women and punish us for desiring them. Most of this site is about being a strong confident man. Collossans (excuse spelling) talks specifically about a man leading his house. Seems like the same message to me. When you find a woman that you want to make your wife, how will you attract her and make her think you are worthy husband material, pray she likes you? No you… | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 08:31 AM |
| 1 | I fucking did it, I went against my fear and did itBig ups to you.. Whatever happens you have seen the elephant | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 08:13 AM |
| 1 | I have come to love "the prison"You hate your prison because you know you are wasting your life. Maybe you should hate the person you have become. You sound like a waste of space. Why are you here? This isn't a site for helping you feel good about being pathetic. This post is an insult to all the men who ate genuinely trying to improve themselves. If you are in interested in seducing anything but your own hand then ask those questions. Advice: stop jerking off to porn, get off your ass, and stop justifying your lazy behavior. … | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Opting out of the social contractOk...if you want a reaction, suggest drafting ONLY women. After all the femnazi's are saying that women are the real victims of war, let them get justice for themselves. Men are obviously needed to maintain the primary industries. Men can also take over more parenting duties. After all it would be sexist and misogynistic to think that women can't do a job that a man can. Of course they will have to use weapons and vehicles made by men. If women actually want equality that is. After all men have … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 02:03 AM |
| 13 | My Recent Experience Saving My Own Life With Self Discipline. Gain Power By Controlling Yourself.Discipline trumps motivation every time. You had both, congratulations. Keep strong. The world needs more men like you in it. Let the kazy fat fucks get the heart attack they deserve. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Hey Guys I Just Wanna Get GirlzRight on. To me redpill showed me how the world worked. I used that information to realize how blue pill I was and change. Being someone that women want to fuck is better than tricking women into fucking you. Sometimes it seems like all the advice on hear could be summarised into Be confident, don't give a fuck, grow a pair, and fix your own life first. A woman ain't gonna fix shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Would getting with other chicks help get me out of the 'friendzone'?Ok...you are never getting with this girl EVER. You took too long and showed her you are willing to be her happily little orbiter. Move on, find other girls. Stop hanging around her like a bad smell. Get some self respect. Next her. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I Didn't Say No - But it Was Still Rape.I did...but only after she went batshit crazy, started breaking windows and smashing shit up and getting abusive, threatening with a knife, shouting at neighbours etc.... I have a protection order against her. Of course the first thing she did was claim I had been emotionally torturing her and that she finally 'lost her cool'. Bullshit. As for implied consent...fuck me or I will beat the shit out of you would imply consent as well then if I had sex out of fear for my own well-being or anyone els… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Some of you act exactly like the feminists you claim to abhorAnger is a natural response to feeling powerless. Many men feel powerless. The OP is just saying understand your anger. Without causing offence feminists get their power by essentially saying all men are like that. Not too different to AWALT. Feminists are saying the problem with men is we don't think like they do. RP men are saying the problem with women is that they can't think like we do. Seems similar to me. The difference is that RP theory is provable time and time again unlike a lot of fem… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Polite reminder: Never discuss your transformation with womenSeems to contradict everything Mark Manson says. Anyway let your actions define you, not your past. You can admit that you used to be different if you are giving woman feelz. I don't know how much they care if you can show you are dominant, can fuck well enough and have an abundance mentality. Honesty isn't always weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 07:00 AM |
| -2 | I Didn't Say No - But it Was Still Rape.Hmm my crazy ex screamed abuse at me, stripped naked, tried to forcibly undress me and tried horrible psychological manipulation to get me to fuck her. Yet by these laws, if I had I could have been accused of rape. Fair? Not so much. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 06:48 AM |
| 4 | I Didn't Say No - But it Was Still Rape.Hmm my crazy ex screamed abuse at me, stripped naked, tried to forcibly undress me and tried horrible psychological manipulation to get me to fuck her. Yet by these laws, if I had I could have been accused of rape. Fair? Not so much. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 06:48 AM |
| 1 | How does one actually internalize the inner game taught here?Stop thinking about it. Like yourself, have fun, relax about results. Forget the rest. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Asked for number too soon, scared her off, saved it and now we are talking again - when to ask for it again?Never. If she starts dropping massive hints like, "I would really like to go to that new TexMex place but no-one wants to ask me" then just maybe... | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Older guys of seddit that have had a lot of success in the game, how much money do you actually spend on women? Is it possible to do it without spending a dime on her?Yes...absolutely. My last date was minigolf and an icecream. Worked just fine. Doing the fancy restaurants and stuff seems like a bad idea. It always seems like you are trying to impress by how much money you can spend. To me that seems a bit needy and try hard, like wearing gold bling. Restaurant dates are boring. Besides it sends a pretty clear message that you want to provide beta bucks IMVHO. The date before that was playing pool, having a few beers and talking. K-close to f, close next morn… | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl responds whenever I initiate, but is constantly not meeting up.. how to proceed?Next. Even if you against all evidence manage to hook up, she isn't going to change her life. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Where do I start?Kinda vague ask but, do stuff you think is fun. Chances are other people do. Even if you don't know what you enjoy try different shit out. Don't focus on getting laid. That will just make you nervous. Don't care about being a virgin,SFW. We all were once. If you are not insecure about it then the girls you like won't care either. Relax, be confident. Don't be needy. Most importantly, realise that if a girl says no to you so what. She is not the last woman on earth. Not needing a woman in your li… | /r/seduction | 11/02/16 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Banter/flirting vs serious getting to know you?Because you are talking to a woman...there are no rules. Personally I just go with whatever vibe is working, usually a combination of both. It shows that you are a fun guy but interested in her as a person. IMHO. | /r/seduction | 11/02/16 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Getting back on the saddle again. Tips greatly appreciated.Have a good time, make no promises, make no commitments. When they ask, tell what you just told us,you want to have fun but you aren't looking for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 10:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Let them hamster....you don't need to say you are currently fucking other women but you can say "I am really enjoying my life now and not looking for anything serious but I do like to have fun. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Serial First Dater; How do you gauge when enough time-investment and when to move on?Doesn't seem too complicated. If you don't feel like another date after the first, don't. If you would like to see her again, do. If you are bored, move on. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 10:09 AM |
| 4 | Tinder question. It seems strange to meDon't do tinder? | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Fourth date later. We already talked about past relationships, ONS,... could not talk much about me because I'm still a virgin. How do I explain this to her in a honest or playful?Why are you guys ashamed of being a virgin? So fucking what...do you think she will run away screaming? If she asks about your previous girlfriends try the truth, "I never had one". If she asks if you are a virgin, unashamedly say "yes" like so fucking what. It's not like she might not know the first time you fuck anyway. Actually admitting it will free you from the power it has over you. She will also understand any awkwardness or mistakes and she might even enjoy the thought of her being your … | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 10:03 AM |
| 2 | what do you do if you want to pull on a night out but you don't have a wingman?Never had a wingman. Don't really see the point. If you can't open them by yourself, maybe you shouldn't be trying. Besides another guy means less attention for you and makes you seem less confident. I have gone out drinking with friends. Usually they act like socially retarded school kids, with no game whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Girl gets unresponsive after I visit her after year of contact?Never text her again. Flaking repeatedly, especially on your big night! Not worth it, ditch the bitch and move on. She is either fucking someone else but enjoying the validation you give her, or disrespectful, not that into you anymore, or just a dumb bimbo with shit life management skills. There is no good option. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 09:39 AM |
| 2 | To the guy that cold approached my girlfriend last Friday night right in front of me..If another man can steal your woman they deserve her. Great response by the OP. Confident and laid back about it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 09:33 AM |
| 2 | How do I get girls, or even people, to want to hang out with me?Get off your ass and do something. Now, this minute. Get warm clothes on and go build a snowman or throw snowballs or a walk, anything. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 09:22 AM |
| 1 | I continue to fail with meeting girls from online, no matter what, and it makes me feel suicidal. Why?I only know what you have said. Honestly I don't know shit about you. You say you have no theory of mind about other people. Whatever the reason you can't grow something you havent got. Do I think you can't get laid? Fuck knows. You were the one getting depressed coz you weren't getting laid. I had a flst mate who smelled bad with 0 social skills. He is now married. I knew another guy who was autistic and got happily married. If you are attractive enough, then you can probably get laid. Nice clo… | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How to be an ethical "player"My limited experience is get it on the table early on. You will lose more plates (maybe) but you will have less dramas later, "but I thought you loved me." "I would have had your children", " I thought we were soulmates" crap. You can say "I like you and love having fun with you, but I am not ready for a long term relationship yet." If she says she wants something more then tell her she can.leave anytime she wants. You will miss her but you won't make her stay. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 09:19 AM |
| 1 | I continue to fail with meeting girls from online, no matter what, and it makes me feel suicidal. Why?Yup, that's how I would describe mild autism, or social blindness. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 09:10 AM |
| 1 | How to be an ethical "player"Yup | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 01:32 AM |
| 1 | had to "break up" with a plateGood move...I support your decision | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How to get a Day 2 after fumbling with logistics?Give her a couple of days. If she doesn't reply, send her a last brief text. "Hi, x here, what are you doing on Thursday night? Meet me at X venue/gallery at 8" If there is no reply, or says she is busy and does not give an alternative night, then next her. She just isn't interested. She probably just wanted to get rid of you without being rude. If she can't handle a pressure date then she is too friggin sensitive and you will spend a lot of time pandering to the delicate little snowflake. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Sexual innuendos audio books?Why, what do you want them for? If it is for conversation and flirting they are not necessary. Just display honest sexual interest, without being creepy. Instead of innuendo learn to derail conversations into sexual topics. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Question regarding KINOIt's not painting by numbers. Just enjoy touching her when it feels right. Enjoy the moment. Turn off the playbook in your head and relax. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:32 AM |
| 6 | Talking about how guys hit on her during a date?Yes, bad topic. It screams insecurity. "Gee, how am I doing compared to other guys?” Who cares how other guys hit on her, it's you there right now. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:25 AM |
| 2 | I continue to fail with meeting girls from online, no matter what, and it makes me feel suicidal. Why?Save some money, find a nice prostitute/call girl and get laid. She won't care if you are autistic, retarded or have no teeth even. Hell, I'm tempted to do it myself. If you are genuinely autistic and not just socially impaired you will never get it. If you have gotten laid before then there is a chance you will get laid again. Go see a doctor, call Samaritans, life line, the autism society, anyone who might have a clue to help you work out your problems. Getting depressed over online dating bei… | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm really confused. It seems to me that every genuinely good guy never gets any girls,what do you think ?You are welcome. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 06:52 AM |
| 2 | I'm really confused. It seems to me that every genuinely good guy never gets any girls,what do you think ?It is OK to be a nice guy. Don't hurt people, be honest, trustworthy and reliable. That does not mean be eunuch. Learn to make direct eye contact with women and hold it, walk confidently like you are king of the world, get comfortable with physical touch and initiating it and escalating, learn to disagree with people especially women. Develop an IDGAF attitude.The big secret...women already know you want to fuck them. They want men who are honest about that. It is not an insult to a woman to hav… | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 10:11 PM |
| 2 | How do I get girls, or even people, to want to hang out with me?Be a person that people want to hang out with. As for depression, if you are male, you have suffered or will suffer from it, during your life. The simplest cure is 'do something'. It sounds lame but men are doers and when our desire to do gets thwarted we get depressed. I mean get off your ass, get out of the house and get active. Chop wood, now the lawn, ride a bike, go bowling, anything but not playing WoW, reading a book, watching a DVD. Seriously though, you might not be able to change your … | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What is she thinking when she asks if I hook up a lot?Just smile and carry on. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 09:38 PM |
| 1 | The Bewilderment EffectI get what you are saying and maybe it is residual blue pill conditioning, but I don't want a broken toy, full of insecurities. My current fwb is confident enough to tell me what kinks she likes and ask for them. She is a happy fun person, but she knows I am not interested if she is going to have an emotional day. I would rather women fell in love with me because they felt emotional secure enough to do so and not because I had trained them to be emotionally dependent on me. YMMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | The Bewilderment EffectSeems like tedious work for a stupid result. I want the woman I fuck to have confidence and self-esteem. I want them to also know that they can't take me for granted but a little dread game will take care of that. I don't want a timid insecure slave. That sounds like a bunny boiler waiting to happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 11:08 AM |
| 6 | Finally seeing a hamster spinning and a nuclear shit test.No offence but you and me are gonna disagree on what a nuclear shit test is. LOL. My local police will also be able to give details on what a nuclear shit test looks like. Avoid her, don't plate her, don't fuck.her. Just be polite and leave it at that. She is at work with you and it will make your job suck, whatever happens. She is engaged. Even if you could nail her, why would you? What is there about this whole fucked up situation that makes you think for a second it would be worth it? Abundan… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Questions that will develop a good connection and escalate Kino on a first date?It is kinda ass backward. I think you are better off going with the flow but OK. Some questions might be, 'what did you want to be when you were a kid? What is your passion? (Full credit mark Manson), what country would you most like to visit? What's your secret flaw? Weirdest thing you have ever eaten? Phobias? Favourite teacher? Have you ever been in hospital? Dumbest thing you ever did? .... | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 10:17 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Being upfront about being attracted to a girl can work wonders. I say skip the bullshit and make your intent clear.Er...bravo. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Learning to Seduce my GirlHold her down and spank her....hard. Try some dom/sub. Fuck her in changing rooms. In your friends houses when they are away. Fuck her on her parents bed. Learn to talk dirty, make some noise when you fuck. Don't always be considerate, caveman the shit out of her, cum shot her, leave the curtains or door open. Go dogging. Watch porn together. Tie her up. Roleplay, call her at work telling her whatvyou would like to do to her. Masturbate her at the movies or some other place she can't make any no… | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 09:56 AM |
| 5 | 5 failed dates in the past month. Don't know WTF I'm doing wrongThere is no hard and fast rule but by second date you should both know you wanna fuck. Heck by the end of the first date there should be hints. If you havent built up rapport then it is going to feel awjward. Sometimes girls just flake for a zillion reasons, PMS, boyfriend, abducted by aliens, fuck knows. These are Tinder dates. You were expecting what exactly. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 09:33 AM |
| 1 | With an average/below average womanHot body or hot bitch I guess. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 09:16 AM |
| 2 | With an average/below average womanI mean keep her around, but keep looking for other women. If you hook up then you can decide to soft next her or spin plates (have several women around that you are sleeping with). | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Other males that did not find and swallow the pill themselves are not your friends my brothers — they are your worst enemy.Gonna disagree... I have friends who see how I have changed and how my reaction to women has changed and women's reaction to me. They want to know how to make their lives and relationships better. I never say I can help them. I just explain what I am doing and why. Men I know are surprisingly willing to listen. I don't think of blue pill men as being the enemy. I was once like them. Am I going all MRA, shit no. That is dumb. I am in a female dominated workplace. I need a job still. I know I can'… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | I will leave right now. I will go!Damm, I think I failed thus shit test recently. My fwb told me she wanted to finish with me because she didn't feel emotionally safe with me, she had no security. I turned up, told her she was a lying retard ' cos the real issue was that she was scared of being in love with me, then fucked her. We are getting on really well at the moment but maybe I should have just ignored the message. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 03:05 AM |
| 1 | With an average/below average womanIf you can do better plate her. I am with a woman now who is not a HB. Do I give a fuck, hell no. We have lots of fun together, the sex is great, more importantly we like each other. If anyone wants to give me shit cos she is not a supermodel, I laugh in their faces because I know what I have got. I have fucked some gorgeous women. Did I have a better time than I am having now, hell no. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 02:51 AM |
| -1 | FR - "I accidentally slept with a guy"Next. That is competitive level hamstring. You can reply with 'I may have accidentally filmed you sucking my cock before I cornholed you and published it on the internet.It was an accident. I couldn't reach the cameras from the bed.' If you are just fuck buddies, no big deal apart from potential std's but if she wasn't planning on fucking him what was he doing at her place in the morning, alone. Why did she invite him back? Wtf does 'may have' mean anyway? We did, but he didn't come inside me. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The world is scared of men congregating. Red Pill state of affairs 2016Came here from a broken marriage, couldn't understand why when I had done everything I was supposed to do, be faithful, support my family, work hard, never complain or get angry, support my wife in her choices, I still got treated like shit. Thanks to red pill for starting my path, I feel like I am reclaiming myself and getting back to being the best version of me I can be. The only area of red pill I struggle with is all the anger. I understand the anger, but even if women are a special sort of… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Bachelor PadA stereo and your music collection. It is a conversation hook, just like a library is. A wine shelf or liquor cabinet, depending on your tipple of choice. Your guitar or ukulele. Carnivorous plants. A few glossy coffee table books on whatever floats your boat. I love architecture, art and design. I also love black and white photography. International cookbooks too. Even travel brochures of places you have been or places you want to go. Women love talking about this stuff. If you want to show a l… | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Moved back home to attend school, so I'm living with my mother. Should I take a break from approaching?Having my mom nearby would certainly cramp my style. Even if my mom was cool with it, it just don't seem right. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it unmanly to try to avoid confrontation?Been a doorman on and off for 20 years. In that time I have had 2 people throw a punch at me. How do I do it. Be polite, be friendly, show no fear. Do you know why people don't pick fights with mma guys, or boxers (even if they don't know its a boxer). Its because those guys don't show any fear when the shit talking starts. That makes the other person think hmmmm maybe this will go badly for me. Is it unmanly to avoid confrontation, no. Is it unmanly to surrender your values to avoid confrontati… | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 09:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Approached a girl, she re-approached meAre you trying to find out if this only happens to handsome guys? It happens to confident happy guys. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | With an average/below average womanDo you like her? If you are dumping her because she is not attractive enough that is pretty shallow, especially if you liked her. Why did you fuck her in the first place? | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 07:50 PM |
| 0 | What to say to a woman who says you're ignoring her?Sounds like an entitled, disrespectful little bitch. "Yes I was, bitchface,", "is your phone, laptop, and transport all broken?", "yup, I hate you SOOOO much I decided to never talk to you EVER again", ignore, or call her on it, look her in the eye, turn off the friendly vibe and tell her in a calm way, "don't talk to me like that again," and withdraw affection and attention until she apologises. The trick with the last one is not coming across like you are butthurt and upset. What you are doing… | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 07:47 PM |
| 3 | How to be an ethical "player"Tell them when you first hookup. You like them and would love to see them again. When they ask just tell them u aren't into a serious relationship right now. You are too busy enjoying your life and having fun. IMHO There are a lot of angry men out there who use pick up as a way to 'get back at the bitches' who pump and dump with no regrets. For them it is a necessity to have no feeling or real concern for their latest fuck. That seems a bit cold, empty and for me. I sleep with women because I li… | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 10:27 AM |
| 1 | What type of girls prefer tall guys?6'7" here. I love being tall, but I also workout most days and dress nice. I also have pretty strong inner game. I don't believe inbrelying on just being g tall to get girls. Being tall helps though. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Back to square one and feeling lowIt was a gift to you. If you hadn't broken up you would have been making plans maybe. Instead you got away from this women who was going to hurt you more if you stayed with her. You have also learned about yourself and women. Read the red pill and rational male, change yourself so it doesn't happen again. This event in your life is free motivation for you. Use it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How should I respond if a girl is giving me hard IOI's and yet she rejects my kiss?Breath mint? Maybe you're misinterpreting ioi's. Maybe you are escalating too fast. If she is into you she will kiss you later. If you are pushing it too soon too hard then that can be a turn off sometimes. Maybe you are a bad kisser. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Saw this posted in a mens change room at a gym today.Yup, I get that, been there, done that. I am waiting for the poster campaign that says, "stop psychological and social violence against men from women", "blue ribbon day, women against bitches", or " international men's day/week", or "respect your man day". I may be waiting a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Equality Is a Bitch, Ain't It? - Army and Marine Corps Say It's Time Women Were Eligible for the DraftSingle dad and early childhood teacher. Anyone who says a man can't care for children as well as a woman can go fuck thenselvescfor being a retard. We might not do it in the same way but we can do it. Men don't overprotect so much, want children to learn to do (not just talk about it), want to children to learn to take risks, and understand that firearms are more than just killing machines. A child who learns to hunt and protect themselves has a deeper understanding of nature than most 'greenies… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Games to help initiate kino?I think you misread my intent. I am absolutely aware that most women know what you are doing. It is still nice to have a fun-icebreaker instead of diving straight in. There is no shame in having fun either. I wasn't saying don't kino either. Appreciate the comment though. | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Saw this posted in a mens change room at a gym today.Where I live there are lots of campaigns "stop violence against women," "reclaim the night," "no means no" etc. It pisses me off for a bunch of reasons. My ex was a violent abusive psycho bitch who just needs to claim I was mentally abusing her (translates as no evidence of abuse from me ever) and her shit is all justified and swept under the carpet. It should be about stopping violence, irrespective of gender. I understand that most violent crime is committed by men but no-one ever seems to ask… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 12:58 AM |
| 1 | My personal fail proof opener for both single women but even better with a group of women. 99% fail proofFair enough, good reply. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to memorize all the shit tests in the side bar and doesnt it seem a little overkill if you turn everything into a joke?No...I also think of them as confidence tests. She is just trying to see ifcshe can fuck with you and if you transform into a whiny bp bitch when provoked. The way to deal with whatever the shit test is is to not give a fuck. Ignoring, agree and amplify, disagree and amplify, whatever, all the methods are doing the same thing. They are showing the woman that you are confident in yourself and that her stupid little tests don't bother you at all. Confidence beats all shit tests. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Feeling regret after sexSex. Fun but not that big a deal. I realise I am disagreeing with another poster but given the choice between banging some random hot chick who I have no connection with or a plain girl I liked and connected with I would go the plain girl with no regrets. Getting a fuck isn't that hard. Getting a connection is tricky and scarier. No shame in feeling regret after a shag. Sometimes the thrill of the hunt is way more thrilling than the final result. Maybe it just means you are a human being with em… | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:35 AM |
| 2 | My personal fail proof opener for both single women but even better with a group of women. 99% fail proofOr maybe just seem like an argumentative asshole if you play it wrong. However talking about relationships is a good conversation starter, although I am not sure if women are into men asking relationship advice, seems a bit bp to me but if it works for you, more power to you. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:25 AM |
| 2 | How many of you approach or game at the gym?Nope. The gym is where I go to workout. I like to look at the fit women in the gym but no gaming. I'll talk and not be a douche but I have the rest of the world to meet women in. My gym is time just for me. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Getting back in the gameHigh 5...I just got out of 10 years of marriage. I have one ongoing thang and another who is keen. I am 46 and not handsome or anything. I am saying thus because it is possible to make it work. My tips are: get a nice haircut, play some James Brown, knock back a shot of liquor and go out to have fun. Don't go out to get laid, too much pressure and too stressful. When you are out having fun, if you are getting a few signals, smile back and talk to them! Don't try to get laid, enjoy a chance to fl… | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Are there any safe ways of telling a friend I like her without ruining the relationship?She knows. She is just waiting for you to man up and admit it. Any woman who says, "I didn't know you liked me that way" is a liar. We are not that subtle and should be embarrassed if we are. Either shit or get off the pot. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Games to help initiate kino?I don't know what boop is but a massage just seems a little obvious, unless you got the vibe already there. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you make your life more exciting?Nope, it doesn't. Why don't you answer the question yourself, what could You do to make your life more exciting. A small word of advice though,being unemployed might be exciting, but sometimes the excitement of 'how do I afford to eat this week' is not all its cracked up to be. The gym is boring. Work, whatever it is will eventually have moments of boring. Read 'what color is my parachute?' | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Tinder bio: DNM + BDSM = ?Yawn...sounds try-hard. Thank god you left out that you write poetry inspired by the dark dichotomies of our existence, or that you feel isolated by your soaring intellect and deep sensitivity to the human condition. "Bored banging bimbos, like spanking sexy sophisticates." ;) | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Sense of HumorHumor is good. It helps establish rapport and makes you slightly less creepy. It can also make you seem try-hard and insecure if overdone, especially self a depreciating humor. It is a tool, not the whole dammed tool box. | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Where do you sober fellas head to approach women/ how do you think your game is different from the bar scene folks?Shops, supermarkets, art events, coffee shops, street performances, hobby classes, .... | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with someone calling you outShitty...tough to deal with. Losing your cool was dumb but maybe unavoidable. Next time maybe make a joke like, " I think she's jealous" or something, although just a suggestion, maybe vary your pick up spots a little more. | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 08:37 AM |
| 3 | How do I smoothly get a girl who's being way too forward to slow down without ruining the interaction?Carpe diem...this site is full of guys who are painfully desperate to get any woman interested in them. If she is up for it bang the shit out of her or never bang the shit out of her because you will be friend zoned. The biggest compliment you can give a woman is honest lust. What exactly do you want to find out before hand anyway! If you like the same sort of music, her views on the middle east and whether she can cook! At least you will have clarified whether you are sexually compatible, sort … | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Gaming should be supplemental, not coreIt seems kinda weird to me to devote that much time to pick up. I like to flirt and have fun but I don't go out just to get laid. I go out to have fun. Getting laid is a bonus but not the goal. Maybe I just don't need that much validation. | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone tell me a better reply to this shit test? Thank youYou kept on talking to her. Bravo, that was well done and you cold approached her. Good on ya...sometimes though the bullfighter doesn't win. 3 billion women in the world. If it was a shit test (slightly skeptical) then just smile and carry on, but you asked for her number and she said no Anything after that is hard work for nothing. | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Can't make girls stick around after the first dateThere's 'you are like my awesome gay brother' fun and 'god you are giving me tingles' fun. Sounds like you got the first happening but we do need more information. Ask yourself, was there physical contact? Were you relaxed dgaf and confident? did she give any signs of interest, eye contact etc..did any sexual topics come up in conversation and did YOU feel sexy when you were with her? Do you think of yourself as a sexual person. If you don't then she won't. | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about girls who "only like black guys" or a specific race?Great...its nice of them to save me the trouble of being interested in them. It is no worse than me liking perky nipples and big round tits. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Want some motivation? Look no further.As a 6'6" guy, I want to reassure you we aren't all assholes, the same way not all shorter guys are insecure. Tall guys get teased about their height too.... Anyway, congratulations. I am really pleased for you. I wish you every joy and success for your future. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my son I want to date again?Appreciate the comment. I let my son know there are women I talk to. I am not letting him know that I have fwb. I don't go out, I never stay the night anywhere. I have made it really clear that I am not interested in a relationship with anybody. Noone ever visits my house. I am not really sure what else I can do. I also don't want to be celibate until my son leaves home. | /r/RedPillParenting | 01/02/16 09:08 PM |
| 4 | How are we supposed to flirt actually, according to Mark Manson?Just don't be a douche. Flirting is about having fun with someone. Negging someone, even though arguably effective, is being a jerk IMVHO and not necessary. I think it can actually kill rapport if done badly. Example: you have really little feet, I can imagine you walking up and down my back.(flirting) you have really weird little feet. They are so small, they look like stumps. (Negging). I hope you can tell the difference. They are all context specific and depend on the vibe you built up. Examp… | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondHow about thanks for the offer but no thanks. You are busy. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 12:04 AM |
| 0 | How to reduce flaking in daygame ?Build attraction first...instead if "hi, I'm Brian. What's your number?" | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Why women are infinitely more beautiful when they are not naked?I agree, a big T-shirt is sexier to me than a thong. It is like Christmas time. Part of the excitement is about imagining what is under the wrapping (even if you know it is a book)...Once it is unwrapped, next present. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Building a Better LifeStop jerking off, eat right, lift and actually have a real life. If you are enjoying your life and you aren't a complete gonad there is a good chance other people will enjoy it too. You might even like yourself a bit more. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 10:57 AM |
| 3 | I'm using a crappy website for "dating" and getting crap back... How to deal with this?Dating sites are a stepping stone to meeting real people. You still will have to interact with real people!!!! All the skills that this site teaches you still have to be used once you meet the person. These sites, while superhelpful, are still like learning to smile using a diagram. You have to do it to really understand it. As for being shy, how is getting rejected on a crappy dating site repeatedly going to help that? If you are too shy to put a photo up because someone -gasp- might think you … | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 10:50 AM |
| 61 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondYes it does. You have been orbiting her for months and obviously not made any serious moves or done anything to convince her you are not a complete blue pill pussy. She is blatantly rude, disrespectful, dishonest and unreliable. She left you hanging for two hours...and you just offered to pick her up!!! If she was into you she would crawl through the snow to get to you. Next the bitch right now and grow a pair. She is just keeping you as an orbiter for validation. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 10:36 AM |
| 11 | Help with friends sisterJust don't...unless your friend isn't that important to you. If you don't care about your friendship then you ask her the sane way you ask anyone else, find out when she is free and tell her where to meet you. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 10:28 AM |
| 1 | What's sexier to you in a woman?Somewhere in between. I want to show her that I am interested and determined but I am not gonna fuck around with a cocktease or playing stupid games. The other end is flattering but sometimes a red flag and gets awkward when she isn't your type "cough-drunken hen party- cough" | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 10:22 AM |
| 1 | She's ready for it, but you want to wait longer, how's that played out for you?It does sound like you are saying to them 'sex with you isn't that important to me.' I can understand why it fizzles out. It doesn't exactly inspire desire and passion. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 01:29 AM |
| 2 | How to turn her on over text?Be honest. Tell her what you find sexy about her and what you would like to do to her. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 01:22 AM |
| 3 | What are YOUR tricks for giving off a sexual vibe?When you shake her hand hold it just a little longer than you normally would. Inner game- if you think of yourself as a sexy man then she will be aware of it. Everything else will follow Eye contact is good, so long as it is confident, and not creepy. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 01:16 AM |
| 0 | What are YOUR tricks for giving off a sexual vibe?Lol- you would hope she would know before then that you were sexual. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep it strictly sexual?Just tell her." This is really great at the moment. I like you but I don't want a relationship at the moment." Oh yeah, and don't see her or text her all the time because then it will feel like a relationship and fuck both of you up. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 01:02 AM |
| 2 | What do you do after an f-close?Fuck her again? | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | how to deal with women's (plate/ltr) body image issues?showing her how much you want to fuck her is a good way of dealing with this. If there is nothing about her that you are attracted to you shouldn't be there. If you show her that you care about your appearance (gym/hygiene/ nice clothes) she will start to put more effort in as well or she isn't that interested in you. the last thing you want to do is let her know that 'you love her just the way she is'. You are the prize. If she stops working for your affection then start applying some dread. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Flirting: Relationship vs Hook up?Right on. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Just recently ended my first long term relationship. How do all of you sake off the cobwebs and get your groove back?I get that. I just got my first post-relationship lay out of my system. I just asked a couple of people out. One said yes. I let myself be open with her. There was an emotional connection and we f-closed. It only happened because I have learned from the break-up , especially how bp I was, and moved on. I learned to like myself again (very important), and am enjoying my life. It makes that desperation over hooking up disappear. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Just recently ended my first long term relationship. How do all of you sake off the cobwebs and get your groove back?Oneitis is insidious. Flirt with lots of women. When you are ready spin a few plates. That might be 3months, 6months, a year. Who cares. Have fun meeting women without trying to get them in the sack. | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend admitted to not being physically attracted to me at all-- I walked away, initiated no contact --- she came back in tears. What do I do now?Next the bitch and get in shape so it doesnt happen again. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Misinterpreted RP Thinking You Must Address NowNice article. Alpha DOES NOT mean macho douchebag. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson - Models without PUA-stuffYup...love the book. Makes it hard to take a lot of seduction information seriously though. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:12 PM |
| 2 | How do I not compliment her?Agree and amplify..."yup, you look hideous. You should be flattered I am even talking to you :)" Sincere compliments with good intentions if not overplayed are fine. "You are totally hot.” (bad and a little lame especially if not true). " you look like you work hard at keeping in shape" you have acknowledged her effort as well as her being attractive and can easily lead into conversations about gym, diet, exercise, what she does for fun. Meh...maybe that's a bad example. I don't really prethink … | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 06:30 PM |
| 6 | The side effects of working out at the gym on game+1. You look healthier, feel healthier, are more confident, and have more self esteem because you made yourself get off your ass. It helps produce testosterone which makes it easier for little brain to be in charge making you more sexual. Also it gives you interests and friends outside of PUA. My 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Guys who did really well with girls and hooking up in college, have you ever been able to rival your success after college?I think it is pretty accepting but I agree that there is a myth that 4'10 inbred obese monobrow guy can be as successful as 6'3 handsome buff Chad if he lifts and works on his lifestyle and inner game. I am not saying he might never get laid but if is always going to be more work for him. Sucks to be him | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Guys who did really well with girls and hooking up in college, have you ever been able to rival your success after college?Yes. Thanks for asking. :) | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 10:09 AM |
| 1 | I have no problem getting first dates. But clearly I'm doing something wrong on them.You are my hero. Said what I was thinking. The OP still sounds like he is using diagrams to smile properly. And just over thinking it and working too dammed hard at it. Relax, have fun. Stop reading this stuffm go out, turn off big brain date a by a calculated rational methodology and let little brain take the wheel for a while. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with friends?Maybe they just had somewhere else to go.... No big deal. I agree though that if you had been friendly to the group then maybe it would have gone better, but there is nothing creepier than the guy who follows a group of women without being invited. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 09:54 AM |
| 3 | How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person?OP sounds like an upfront guy who doesn't like 'tricking' or 'manipulating' women. I get that but I have a few questions for him, does he shower every day and use deodorant or shave? None of that is natural. Is he tricking people into thinking he is better smelling or more handsome than he is. Not if he is doing it for himself, and so what, even if it is a 'trick.' I suspect the OP might need to read more about inner game and abundance mentality. OK...in a nutshell, you get women to invest more … | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 09:49 AM |
| 1 | What to say to set up the date?It was great meeting you...I would love to take you out. What days are you free? (This is the most likely flake point. Don"t sweat it. Women flakevfor a gajillion reasons..) If she gives you days she is free. Then something like, "cool, meet me at x at 8."Although she still might flake it is a lot less likely. After all she just told you when she was free. Also you have shown her you are assertive and confident. IMVHO | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 09:18 AM |
| 2 | How to converse with women who are obviously sexually attracted to you?Thanks, obviously not everyone agrees. Oh well. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Do any young guys or guys in college on here have the fear that by the time they figure it out and get there, it will be too late? Older guys have any advice?Lol...I am 46 and life had never been better. Don't think and worry so much. Just enjoy your life, whatever age you are. | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | would it be considered a disappointment or failure if my first date didn't end with at least a hug?Yup, start kino early, even if it is only a hug or a handshake. Women will forgive you trying to escalate more than they will ever forgive you for not trying. Men do, so grow a pair and let your next date know that you are sexually attracted to her. | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 11:08 PM |
| 0 | How to converse with women who are obviously sexually attracted to you?Lol...because it drives them nuts. It also shows her that yeah, you've noticed but that you are not desperate and needy but confident and self-assured (very attractive to women). It might even let you get on with some class work. It also puts the emphasis on her to make you interested in her which completely flips the power dynamic on your favour. You are the prize, not her. Make her work for you. It might also stop you from making a dick of yourself by being too try hard. :) | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm going on a second date next weekend and have no idea how to escalate without coming on too strong.You are welcome. Hope it helps and that it all goes well. Let me know how you get on. | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How to converse with women who are obviously sexually attracted to you?Seems a little like bragplaining but I guess it could be awkward for you.I am a little unsure what the actual problem is though. Do you want to do well in class and she is interfering with that, then treat he like a hambeast you aren't interested in and get on with it. Do you like her and don't know how to escalate in class without looking like a douche, then either get her out of the class, "hey guys, who wants to go out for pizza tonight/ movies/whatever you guys do as a group.?" If she really… | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm going on a second date next weekend and have no idea how to escalate without coming on too strong.IMVHO Yes. For a bunch of reasons. You say you are both active people then go with what you love. You will feel more relaxed and confident doing it. That automatically makes you more attractive. She will be more relaxed doing it, that makes her more receptive to you. Movies and dinner tells her you have no imagination, passion or sense of fun. That equals BORING, major turn off. It will also lead straight into the friend zone. I don't know what you do for fun or where you live. For all I know yo… | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 08:53 PM |
| 7 | I'm going on a second date next weekend and have no idea how to escalate without coming on too strong.OK...don't do the movies! Movies are awkward and all escalation feels cheesy and forced. Go bowling or playing pool/billiards/snooker. Both of these have excuses to touch e.g. lean close to help her with her shot, high 5's etc. They are active (good vibe and endorphins) and are fun. Rollerskating, skateboarding, it doesn't matter so long as it us active, fun and YOU decide what you are doing. Anything active has excuses for kino. It is your second date! She likes you. She wants you to grow a pai… | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Pulling Your Leg (not in a good way)Trust your gut... If you think she likes you then she probably does. | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Social circle or cold approach?What do you enjoy the most? Do that. | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever okay to not practice pickup and just work on yourself for a bit?Just enjoy your life. Your situation is not that bad. As a bartender you are basically being paid to go out and buy women drinks. You are 30. You lucky Bastard :) If you want to meet women, meet women. If you don't, don't. There will always be more women. I am 46 and still meet women. Your dick doesn't drop off if you don't get laid for 6 months or a year. It is a well known phenomenon that if you stop worrying about it or looking they start to find you. Just love your life. | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Why the hell can't I just be myself on dates? For the love of god, someone please help me.Think less, do more. Sounds like you are too invested. You need to refocus your analytical brain if you can't turn it off. Instead of focusing on your shit, focus on hers, what exact colors can you see in her eyes, what jewellery is she wearing, what shade of lipstick is that, is her pulse fast or slow, what accent does she have? Make it a game, analyse the cues about her and do some cold reading... anything, dear gods and little fishes, ANYTHING to stop you self analysing while you are on the d… | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 3 | I have rule 1 and 2 down...but I guess these messages really turn girls off. What am I doing wrong here?+1 I get for older guys it can be hard to meet single women in your age bracket. I am 46 so I know. Here'e a tip though, women are everywhere! They are even allowed in swimming pools and supermarkets. Some of them even work in shops! Instead of relying on the internet get a hobby or hobbies that involve other people who share your interests, wine tasting or salsa or whatever. Get a life and then worry about women. I have never used a dating app in my life. It seems to me though that you are givi… | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What do you do every single day to boost your self-confidence/inner game?1) I look at my competition. Guys my age are mostly fat, bald, broken losers with no game (no offence). 2) Enjoy my life. If I am loving my life, filled with friends and good times, who cares if you get rejected. Your life should be so good, it is her loss. 3) going to the gym just makes you feel better about yourself if only because it makes you get off your lazy ass. Men are doers, we feel like shit if we are not actively doing something. 4) putting on a nice shirt. My day job involves t-shirt… | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Looking for help. I am a 38m with a 26f. We have been together for 4 1/2 years and are getting married in march. I want to watch her best friend fuck her and I also want to be involved in the 3some(mff). How can I do this?Let her know you are cool with whatever freaky shit she can come up with, and directly after fycking her brains out talk about her fantasies. You never know a 3some might be in there. Don't get creeped out if it is watching you get fucked by a horse while an 8yr old boy eats her out or worse. | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 06:52 AM |
| 29 | My one 'hack' to getting good with women.Yup...as Pook says, live, laugh, love. If it isn't fun, why do it? | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 06:46 AM |
| 7 | Last Night I Got 3 Women Arrested For Groping And Assault.I had to get my wife arrested for assault and domestic violence. When the cops arrived I had her pinned because she had been smashing windows and trying to stab me. Even though she was clearly batshit crazy, and I was calm and rational, the male cop very quietly warned me to be careful because she would try to twist events so I was the abuser. True words, she didn't even see jail time. I had to apply for a protection order privately. Sure as fuck if it had been me smashing shit and threatening w… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Text game: one shit test that I keep struggling withI think I fucked some recent text game. I had been trying to stick to the simple logistical text game but a conversation started. I suspect I came off as a bit tryhard. I am going to go for radio silence, and see what happens. The old me probably would have texted her the next day and said, "gee sorry blah blah blah blue pill justification for why I might have caused offence. Please forgive me etc etc...". If radio silence works great. If not,lesson learned and move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Models the book.Another one that I found good was "manhood" by Steve Biddulph. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it a good or bad idea to give a girl an ultimatum to seeing you?She fails the '2nd date' test. Be kind, but soft next her. How much of your important time and energy are you going to invest in this damaged woman. Realistically, what is the best case scenario? | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Other than cold approach, how did you guys meet women after college?Sorry, just cold approaches. Works for me. I work as a bouncer occasionally. That helps. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 06:27 AM |
| 6 | The first rule of Fight Club is?I am going to disagree with you just because if someone who hardly knew me hadn't said, "look at the red pill. It might help." I would never have found this community and tried to unplug myself from my crappy bluepill existence. yeah, don't preach. That just pisses people off. There are a bunch of people out there who are hungry for this information. They can see it affecting my life and want to know more. I don't think it is wrong of me to point them in the right direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Models the book.Looking for a discussion. I read it and thought the focus on being genuine, and not being afraid of emotions or vulnerability were really good. He really seemed to have it against the PUA community and I could also see why some members of this community might struggle with what he says, especially the 'slay heaps of bitches, it's all they are good for' crowd. It ties in a lot with my own thoughts on inner game. Overall I thought it was a good read. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 04:47 AM |
| 2 | are these test ?Good...I suspect she is damaged in the head. IF you are interested in this head case, who is clearly suffering from chronic low self-esteem. Don't talk to her for a week at least. Then invite her around for an obviously romantic dinner. Don't be subtle about it. You need to show her that you are not LJBF material although it might be too late. If she gives you any bs like I just want to be friends, or I never thought of you in that way. Calmly and without anger tell her to leave your house and n… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Affair with a married womanSadly, you can love, but women can't, not in the way you can. Men are the daydreamers of love. Women are the accountants. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 10:51 AM |
| 2 | are these test ?She sounds like a manipulative bitch and you are being her chump. Sorry man..radio silence for a week or hard next her. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How to be a friend with RP?That is a big realisation to make. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 08:50 AM |
| 1 | How to be a friend with RP?Funny, that is why most men swallow the red pill, because women can't love us the way we want to be loved. As for the guy you are fucking, although he sounds reserved, you are clearly demonstrating why he needs to be. You guys have something going on. He seems pretty clear about what he wants but you still want to get under his skin. Maybe he has been so hurt by manipulative bitches in the past he has decided he won't let it happen again. I think you are lucky you haven't been nexted. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 09:30 AM |
| 0 | I was invited to girl's house+1 If she likes you like that she WILL let you know especially if you make it clear that you are not an AFC. Just strong eye contact will make it clear to her, and what the other guy said. :p | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Why does society try to bring you down, when you try to rise up?It is just another shit test. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Honestly, my dad is a complete loser. Am I doomed?As a dad myself, I think you should show some fucking respect. Yeah my dad is a douche and bluepill as fuck BUT he kept a roof over our heads and made sure we had food in the cupboards. You say he is one of the top in his field. Do you think that happened by pure chance! No, he drove himself, he set goals and achieved them. Out dads were raised in a generation where men were meant to provide for their families. Hating them because they did what they thought were the right things is arrogant and … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Getting ED having swallowed the pillScary, I haven't gotten laid since swallowing the pill. Hope it doesn't happen to me. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 02:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle girls making fun of you over "unmanly" activities (e.g. cooking, cleaning, driving safer than they do)?Laugh and point out where the cooking stuff is. Ina tone of voice that implies they are borderline retarded. "We call this a stove. It is for cooking food. The food is in this thing. We call it a refrigerator." | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 02:41 AM |
| 0 | ED and The Ultimate Shit TestSounds to me like your brain is redpill but your cock is bluepill. Maybe there is some residual dissonance about "just using girls for sex." Your casual fucks don't sound like that much fun. Maybe if you only fucked women that you saw as a potential LTR you might have less ED, whether you ever make them a LTR or not. Either that or you aren't that attracted to sluts. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Pickup is nothing more than a gameIf it isn't fun, why do it? | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Don't discount the 40 plus women, they can be good for you.I get where the OP is coming from. As a 46yr old I find 20yr olds harder to game (as they wrestle with the social stigma of the age difference) but I was at the swimming pool today and I gotta tell you, there was a real shortage of older women, or even in the 25 to 35 age group that I thought were sexy. Letting themselves go is an epidemic. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 10:26 AM |
| 1 | How to tell my son I want to date again?Thanks, that was awesome advice. I really appreciate it. The women I meet though are not from my social group, and I am not at all interested in ltr's. He is a good kid and I have started introducing rp principles to him. The main thing that he is freaking out about is my ex finding out and going ballistic. It is a legitimate concern. | /r/RedPillParenting | 02/01/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you get hit with the blue pill feels?Get drunk..flirt with other women, not necessarily in that order or at the same time. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 12:21 PM |
| 2 | How to get comfortable with being really tall?I'm glad I could help. Other little ploys you can use because you are tall...put your arm on their head like they are a bar. Give them a big cheeky grin if they get annoyed. Deliberately stand in front of someone facing the other way. At a bar is good. When they tap you to get your attention (they have to initiate contact) turn around and look over the top of them then act surprised when you look down and see them. Give good hugs. Being wrapped up in the arms of a tall guy makes woman feel prote… | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 12:13 PM |
| 15 | How to get comfortable with being really tall?6'7” here. Embrace it. It is like you are naturally peacocking all the time without doing anything apart from having to have good posture. Don't be one of those tall kinda hunched over guys that look like you are pretending to be shorter. That just makes you look like you lack confidence. Stand up straight and proud. People notice you when you walk into the room giving you heaps of opportunity to make eye-contact and smile. You said girls just want to talk about how tall you are. Dude, girls are… | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How to open a conversation with a random girl on the streets?Just find something you like or can gently tease someone about. If she us smiling, tell her how much you love seeing happy people. If she has quirky style tell her how much you like her style. It is contextual and situational. If she just gotvrained in and her hair has gone to shit, don't talk about her hair! Share a gripe about thecweather instead. Etc etc... | /r/askTRP | 01/01/16 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Cologne?Hmmm, how about just smelling clean... A good old fashioned lightly scented soap is my preference. The issue with cologne for me is that although I love it, sometimes if a woman doesn't like it she REALLY doesn't like it. Also less is more, otherwise best case they tell you to go have a shower, worst case their eyes start to water. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/16 11:14 AM |
| 6 | How to tell my son I want to date again?Fuck no...I have a police protection order against her. She smashed my windows, threatened me with a knife, threatened to set our house on fire, t aumatised my son...the list goes on. I appreciate the sentiment and I acknowledge the importance of a strong mutually respective relationship on the development of children and wish it could have been that way. I also acknowledge the negative effect of exposing children to someone who is abusive. I appreciate that there was no way you could have known… | /r/RedPillParenting | 01/01/16 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Issue with getting hardSleep with more attractive girls. Seriously though, stop thinking so much. When you get the chance caveman it. Just enjoy her being naked. Don't THINK just do it. Oh yeah, if your cardiovascular fitness sucks work on that too. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How to handle "exciting" dates?Instead of exciting (although exciting is good) think active. I like playing pool. It might not be exciting but I guess it is what you put into it. Bowling, lame but kinda fun. Horse riding, air hockey, bike ride, whatever YOU find fun. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I got invited to a party tomorrow. My social skills suck. Should I still go?Go, listen to people, don't be a twat, be friendly like you would be to anybody, have fun. It is OK to be nervous. Most of the sober people will be. Don't be the fake too loud try hard guy. You will be remembered for all the wrong reasons. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend broke up, questions on pursuing other women nowThere is a lot of talk on here,”just fuck some more girls","your turn is over","awalt", "they all just bitches", "quit whining like a bitch and get your shit sorted". All that is good advice but it doesn't mean it is stupid to care about someone and actually feel something more than just physical release IMVHO. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 06:45 AM |
| 3 | When are you too old for pickup? I just saw a middle age man hit on a coed and it was disgustingAs a 46yr old I just want to tell you that I hope I never get too old. I feel more confident and sexier than at any other time in my life. Gaming 18 yr olds is hard work but it is their choice who they sleep with. Besides big ups to the guy for doing it. At least he wasn't standing around watching other people game and bitching about it. I get where you are coming from and I don't want to be that guy either but possibly you might need to do a little self examination about why it disgusted you. | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 05:39 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts of withholding from ejaculation?LOL, Would if I could. Although when I managed it in the past it did start to give me pain in the testicles. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 05:19 AM |
| 1 | "I don't suck dick"I agree with you. Whether you love head or not if she is bitching about it already, it isn't going to get better unless it is just ASD in which case she doesnt actually mean it. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | "I don't suck dick"I would guess that either she isn't turned on enough, you are not dominant enough and she is shit testing. Either carry on, bang her and next her or pull your pants up and show her the door. I don't know the context, if it was "sweetie pie, please suck my dick, pretty please" then I understand why she didn't. If you had already railed the shit out of her and she says that then Next. She is just being a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I let the chemistry flow out on dates with girls I barely know? (mid-late 20s)OK...my 2 cents. First step is eye contact. Look her boldly and confidently in the eye and hold it. That right there let's her know you are not a complete AFC. A hug is nice, it let's her know you aren't afraid of physicality, but can be a little forced or awkward. Have fun, RELAX, don't be ashamed to look at her body and show you like what you see. SHE WANTS YOU TO LIKE WHAT YOU SEE. she would be more offended if you weren't looking and it would be a huge turn-off for her if you were embarrasse… | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 09:53 AM |
| 1 | You Have One Superpower...Yup, what do you have to be sorry about, she is the one missing out. Besides better to show you have the confidence to go for it than feel like a completecwuss. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 09:02 AM |
| 1 | How to play the no couch game?Geez, get a rug or a futon and a low coffee table to put wine on. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 08:51 AM |
| 4 | What do you do if a girl you're dating resists having sex for no other reason than a shit test?Define resists. Are we talking "no, no, yes, yes, yes." Or "if you touch me I'll Bobbitt you and leave you with a stump.". If it is the first it is just ASD. If it is the latter, NEXT. It sounds like your SMV is pretty low or she thinks you are beta. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Is overgaming a thing?Yup...she thinks she is barely hanging onto you and you are leaving soon. You don't have to go all exclusive but it wouldn't kill you to tell her she is special/amazing/important to you/[insert appropriate adjective here]. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 08:32 AM |
| 2 | I keep on going back to my blue pill instinctsI feel your pain. I still struggle sometimes with not giving a shit about women's opinions of me | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Night game for old dudes.Don't know...I like approaching I guess. My ex smashed the shit out of my laptop so operating entirely off my phone. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | She's fat, fuck I got catfishedFat chicks are fat chicks coz they will swallow anything. Best head always came from fat chicks. Anyway, turn the lights out, get it done, let her swallow your pride, and go to the gym in the morning. HelI, you might even enjoy it. I dare her to follow you there. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Ex wife...The shit that made her an ex is still there!!! For the love of god don't do it. For your son, and most importantly for you. With all that history it will be a friggin nightmare. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 10:16 AM |
| 1 | I want to hate her but I just can'tGeez, invest in some porn. Wank off to someone else for a while. Do anything!!!! You have crybaby creepy stalker written all over you. You are smart enough to realise that your feelings for this girl are fucking you up. Get out of the house, join a club, learn an instrument, take over the world. You need to fill your life with something more worthwhile than thinking about some girl you like. Or plan B, give her the chance to properly reject you and ask her out. Maybe then this tragic masochistic… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever met another RP man in real life?When I was going through shit with my future ex wife I met a guy in a gas station who I would chat to. He quietly told me to read the red pill. I asked him what the hell that was. He said just read it. I did. It changed and continues to change my life. Whenever I see him we share a joke, a quick moan about the world and I shake his hand. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to proceedAre you bragplaining? Text them both, dumbass. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:48 AM |
| 1 | how to best this shit test?Laugh, 'you would have to be stupid to miss a chance to get fucked by me.' 'There's the door.' Ignore comment and carry on. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:46 AM |
| 1 | How does the red pill community feels about gay men?If you can think for yourself then I don't care. I would rather talk to a thoughtful gay man than an ignorant hetero one. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Long term plate/ fwb gameHonesty, and fun.... | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:26 AM |
| 1 | What if your girl starts putting less effort into her appearance?Withdraw from her a little. Respond when she makes an effort. Go out more by yourself, go to the gym more. Get a nice haircut, buy some new clothes. You don't have to fuck someone in front of her to generate dread. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Why does she apologize for something barely worth mentioning?Um...well done. You just told her you are OK with her getting intimate with other men. Just spooning, wtf. Were her legs broken? Was she unconscious or was she comfortable with her ass against another man's cock? If she can do it once.... Whether you end this relationship or not you just killed it by letting her know you are pretty bluepill. The redpill response...next. Even if you don't really care and you should, ignore the words and look at the actions. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:08 AM |
| 1 | "We'll see"Yup...plate her at best and move on. Out do sound pretty needy and you wussed out when you said you would go over to see her. An 8hr drive! 'We'll see' means you are a placeholder giving her validation until someone that gives her tingles arrives on the scene, cos it ain't you. Maybe if you man up a little and give her space and give yourself some space she might get a few tingles. As someone once said, 'how can I miss you if you won't go away.' | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 08:55 AM |
| 1 | "All you want is sex"And? Or You didn't come here to folk dance... | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 08:40 AM |
| 2 | How is it possible to be a womanizer at 5'6"?Ask prince | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I get started approaching women?By approaching people. Don't stress about numbers or kiss close or any of that. Go out and talk to people. Find out one fact you didn't know before you met them. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Need some help with my favourite plate.You have your jaw wired shut. How active do you expect to be. Seems like she said "I am concerned about you and want to see if you are OK." And you said, "I don't need you to help me." She probably has hurt feelings or is feeling unwanted, pretty common with a plate. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Age and abundance and buffersLOL... harsh but true. Thanks for putting it into perspective. There seems to be one faction on these posts that is seems to be applying the shotgun effect and possibly a tiny amount of BS. they advocate trying EVERY girl you meet. In conjunction with the 'if you have enough confidence you can pick-up hb10's' crowd can possibly lead to ordinary guys trying their luck when maybe they shouldn't whether it works or not. Maybe it is just my social conditioning. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 10:29 PM |
| 2 | General tips for gaming overweight girlsIf you say so.. What else are you going to validate, their awesome diet, the self-improvement choices, their wardrobe? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Has being Dom ever gone wrong?No, I wasn’t thinking of going full on 'only speak when I permit it' but I feel I have been repressing my natural inclinations for way too long. Nice guy was working well enough but it gets a bit fucking boring. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 08:21 PM |
| 1 | General tips for gaming overweight girlsLol...compliment their tits. It's the one feature they know they can outdo a skinny chick with. I have yet to meet a fat chick who didn't do great blowjobs. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What TRP's opinion on How to Make Friends and Influence People?For me, it felt like a great tool to remind yourself how to be a person of value. I think this is enormously important for improving self-worth and innergame. Listen to people, be interested in people, try not to be overly critical. I think there is a trend especially in pick-up circles to reduce interactions to stimuli/response and although this might be very effective IMHO it takes away some of the richness of human interaction. If you are genuinely interested in people, cold approaches get ea… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | The Complete FAQ for Game Denialists, Only Looks Matter, and "It Doesn't Work for Me" GuysFor me happiness meant getting control of my life. I gave my power away. Now that I have reclaimed my power (I became single and swallowed TRP and read 'no more Mr nice guy') I am blissfully happy. 4 months ago I was ready to drive my car into oncoming traffic. The best advice I can give is 'if you don't know what to do, do something.' Pure TRP advice would be quit whining and fix it. No-one cares. While you are assuming that nothing can make you happier it is a self-fulfilling prophecy. | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | This pill of blue wants blood.Like yourself, enjoy your life, don’t be a complete douche, don’t let women or men steal your power. | /r/becomeaman | 23/12/15 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"Yup, I have bluepill friends and family. When my marriage disintegrated (my event) they all thought I was going manic. I wasn't manic, I had swallowed the red pill and started reclaiming my life. Red pill is s choice as much as feminism, or religion is a choice. I hate people trying to force religion on me. Why would I force my views on anyone else. If they ask me however... I work in an all woman environment. I have to be slightly diplomatic. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | The Complete FAQ for Game Denialists, Only Looks Matter, and "It Doesn't Work for Me" GuysMaybe you should be chatting on a mental health site. Is happiness important...yes, more than anything. If you cannot fix your own unhappiness, get help. Do that before anything else. There is no point painting the house if you don't have a roof. Fix your own unhappiness and everything else will fix itself or you just won't care. | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Want me to punch you in the face?!Only if you want me to spank your bottom...cheeky smile | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Why are women OBSESSED with telling me that I'm old?I am 46. I laugh when I get told I am too old. I like to give an evil smile and A and A. ”yup, you are so right. I am absolutely past it. I hope you nice young children will look after grandpa. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How would you respond if someone said you aren't attractive?Laugh. Its an obvious shit test. Give her a cheeky smile and tell her that under the covers you are fucking gorgeous. Or agree and amplify. Yup you are right. I am the elephant man, I was so ugly when I was born the doctor slapped my mother. Yup, somewhere in Africa baboons are picking fleas off a human baby. At high school I was voted least likely to evolve. My family tree is a mushroom. Etc... | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 07:43 AM |
| 1 | A Brief Synopsis of Abundance Mentality: You'll Know It When You Feel ItSome people would argue it is the other way round. If you have the mentality then you get the results because you are more confident, you don't care as much about the results, and so on. I understand your point though. It is hard to maintain that mentality if you have been rejected 100 times. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | great video explaining the basics of Body Language - Indicators of Interest (IOIs)I disagree. If he tried a line, any line instead of just standing there then the outcome might have been different. | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | The Complete FAQ for Game Denialists, Only Looks Matter, and "It Doesn't Work for Me" GuysOk...you sound like you are suffering from depression, maybe even SADD. Get advice, get out of the house and do something active, anything. If there is nothing you enjoy why do you think women will fix that? Seriously though, get help. I have been depressed too. It isn't easy to break but doing nothing feeds it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.I cant afford a decent pair of jeans or new shoes. I can be the most charming mofo in the place but if I am dressing like a hobo it will affect my SMV. Some money makes a difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 08:41 AM |
| 1 | A Brief Synopsis of Abundance Mentality: You'll Know It When You Feel ItTry rethinking it. Out of all the guts there, some are unnatractive, most are desperate bluepill niceguys, some are trying way too hard. So all these guys are actually not real competition at all. All they are doing is making the women wish there was a confident man out there. Suddenly the odds are hugely in your favour. Those guys aren't competition. They are mannekins keeping the women in the place until you got there. All these women waiting for you. That's abundance thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 08:11 AM |
| 1 | The Complete FAQ for Game Denialists, Only Looks Matter, and "It Doesn't Work for Me" GuysThat is because you are faking it. How about spending 3 months finding out what you want to do with your life. Find out where your passions are, heck even finding out what you think is fun. Deliberately have nothing to do with women apart from unavoidable situations. Stop worrying about getting the attention of women and enjoy your own life. If you are enjoying your life who cares about women. At the moment you sound sad, insecure and as if you don't like yourself or your life very much. Find so… | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 02:24 AM |
| 1 | great video explaining the basics of Body Language - Indicators of Interest (IOIs)After watching the video the guy who got rejected didn't do anything to make them want to notice him. He looked miserable and insecure. If he had smiled, moved in looking confident, then he would have gotten ioi's. What it also pointed out was that girls give off ioi's even if they aren't into you so if you are going to be defeatist then you can't trust anything. I also think it could drive you mad analysing tells. Assume attraction and often it will come, even if there wasn't any initially. The… | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 12:11 AM |
| 3 | The Complete FAQ for Game Denialists, Only Looks Matter, and "It Doesn't Work for Me" GuysYep, inner vs outer game. Other denialists arguments. "Yeah, maybe I could get girls if I could bench press 400lbs but I can't." Look around. Look at all the couples you know. Landwhales. Neckbeards. Manboobs. Inter-racial. Short. They managed it at least once. "Girls don't like short/indian/fat/old guys." Check out Dudley Moore, Hugh Heffner, the list goes on of non-chads with hotties "NAWALT" AWALT "I work out, I dress nice, I take care of myself, but I still don't have anymore success with wo… | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Still overcoming bluepill and translating womaneseI have never heard the expression black knight. What does it mean? As for what did I say...nothing too offensive. I asked her if she was high maintenance. When she was pointing out which beer was best I asked her if she had tried them. When she said no, I pointed out that she was speaking out of ignorance if she hadn't tried them herself. (Shrugs) to hell with them if they are going to be so sensitive. 40yrs of conditioning don't disappear overnight. Occasionally, I still give a fuck what women … | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Setting Boundaries Leads to Ass Grabbing and Boob PlayNot attracted to you enough. If she wanted to fuck you she would have. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | TwoXChromosomes confirms another RedPill observation - women love being dominated and violated by Alpha males.This woman seems like she was bragplaining... I agree though that anyone leaving marks is taking risks. I had to restrain.my crazy ex-wife. She smashed windows in my house and then.found a knife. The first thing she did was scream that she was being held against her will and then showed the cops the marks on.her wrists from me holding her down so she couldn't fucking knife me. Even the cop quietly said to.me that "as a man I had to be really cateful with not giving her any evidence to use agains… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 11:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Setting Boundaries Leads to Ass Grabbing and Boob Playseems like one-itis a little and needy. If you don't want to see her, don't see her. If you do want to see her quit trying to explain your way into her pants. Tell her you are still attracted to her/want to fuck her brains out/hook up/ make sweet sweet love all night long (whatever works for you. Let her know when you are free. if she is up for it great, if she isn't quit tapdancing around your feelings and whether you want to bang her or not, and move on. You seem like an orbiter, being kept at… | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] How do you know how attractive you are?Of course you are, you are confident, and take care of yourself. You also like to dress nice. Right? If some of these are absent, you might still be OK to look at but you won't be nearly as 'attractive'. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you have a fwb relationship? And if so, how did it come about?if the vibe feels right...plant one on her. if it isn't escalate kino and plant one on her | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What do y'all do to self-amuse when going out?In my head I score myself on smiles I get, or cheeky/neg comments I make and give nyself a mental high 5. Every time I see nipple Through clothing I give myself points. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact :oMake it a challenge you do vs yourself. Bluepill vs redpill. Everytime you want to make eye contact but don't blue team gets a point, and red team gets a point every time you do. If that is too complicated just give yourself big ups every time you achieve eye contact. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Appropriate response to another man insulting you/the woman you're withWhen I was in my bluepill marriage I had a neighbour get drunk, and shout abuse at my wife because she asked him to turn his stereo down. My wife came to me, telling me to sort him out. I told her he was just a drunk idiot and went back to bed. I didn't know it at the time but that was the moment my marriage ended. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Really nasty shit testsremind yourself that all women are irrational selfish bitches who can fake being a human being at best and that getting cross at a woman for being a bitch is like being cross at the ocean for being wet. Remind yourself, if you get angry you have lost. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Really nasty shit testsI am not sure she was shit testing you. It seems like she was a bit of a bitch who thought you were a dick. You basically told her she was vain and couldn't dance. You hurt her pride, so she retaliated. Stomping on her foot IMHO was kind of a dick move. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 10:25 AM |
| 1 | 2 Chicks, 1 game - How.TpNoob here but I would suggest flirt obviously with both of them, escalate with both of them. Make them compete for you. "You ladies are both kinda hot, but which one of you is the best kisser."etc etc... Alternatively make it clear you are interested in both of them at once and want to take them both back to their hotel and fuck em. Hopefully they will see you as someone confident enough to ask for what he wants and are into the idea. If one oof them isnt then problem solved. If neither of them … | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 08:31 AM |
| 1 | How to keep dominance in bed?If you are asking her if you can be dominant in bed, you aren't. If you want to roleplay then talk all you want. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 08:16 AM |
| 1 | For guys what is your go-to cologne that gets lots of compliments, or for girls what cologne do you really like on a guy?Soap...just smell clean. Women usually prefer that to cologne. YMMV | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Flipping gender roles, what tips would you give a woman trying to get a guy?A pulse. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Hello, seddit. I'm a 26 years old guy, and i will kill myself in the end of this year. Seems like i have only two weeks to lose my virginity. So, what's the plan?Why not. I was screwing 20yr olds in my 30s. I can still score early 20s and I am 46. If you think you can't then you can't. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Going to girl's place dunno wat doGive her a shoulder rub (but only if you are any good at them.) Pay attention to the side of the neck as it is super sensitive, then kiss her neck. If she is not into it she probably would have stopped the shoulder rub sooner. IMVHO. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Wish me luckRemember to have fun. Don't worry about numbers. Be happy and interested. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 02:38 AM |
| 1 | How to approach the cute girl at the gas station?Is she friendly? Helpful?Happy?Then tell her. "I really like seeing people who are (insert genuine comment here). I'm Tom, (shake her hand)" | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Explain Pick Up like I'm 5.Who dares, wins. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Try The Oldschool WayDont reccomend it. I abstained from.sex with an ex wife today. She ended up smashing all my shit and getting arrested. Not much fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 11:10 AM |
| 0 | How do you stand out?I am 6'7". I try to use what I have. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Like it or not, girls love muscles.I am not perfectly in shape. I have a dad bod. I was at the swimming pool today. I found myself unconsciously puttung my towel in front of myself to hide my slightly wobbly bits. I tealised I was doing it and moved the towel out of the way, stood up straight, put a confident smile on my face and walked around the pool like I owned it. If I had a better bod to start with then I would have been doing it automatically. Nothing says I am a beta male who doesnt like myself more than not giving a fuck… | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Playlist for getting 'in the zone.'Apologies. I didnt know there was a red pill music. Now I do. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Passion Addicts (Don't be 'neutral')I find this a little confusing as well. If she is picking fights and we get in a fight with her aren't we rewarding her crappy behaviour by giving her what she wants. It seems to directly contradict all the other advice about being strong and resolute when she is caught up in her emotions. I also understand that there is a bunch of stuff that I am passionate about and will share that passion. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 07:59 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/9/15What would a chad do? If she was some hambeast who was shy, would you be able to talk to her. Of course you would because you would have nothing invested in her liking you or not. That's how you need to think about all women. As an excercise, wherever you live go into town. Find a seat, grab a sandwich and a coffee and just count how many women out there are pretty enough that you would be interested in them...kinda puts things in perspective, huh. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 06:54 PM |
| 2 | I feel like a worthless "old" piece of shitI am 46. I wish to god I had read trp when I was your age, sonny. Re-read the stuff about SMV. Read about command presence on rational male. Think of hugh heffner and the women he bangs. If you think you are too old to bang hot 25yr olds then you are. While you are admitting defeat there are a whole bunch of guys out there who are older than you and are happy you are out of the way. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 06:15 AM |
| 1 | A Treatise on Respect within TRPI guess what annoys me as someone new to TRP is when I ask a legitimate question and get a reply like "figure it out for yourself, bitch." or "don't be a blue pill faggot." Of course there is stuff that I need to internalise and some stuff does need to be lived not learnt. It does discourage us newbies from being part of TRP. And yes, I have read the sidebars and the rational male and the rest. That doesn't mean I don't like clarification or that I understand everything I read. My two cents. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Blue pill envy....I have read the rational male. It is impressive and a little bit mindfucking. I have not rejected the redpill. I practically licked.it out of morpheus's hand. I accept most of the truths. I struggle a little with some of the more extreme accounts of sexually dominant men. I have had a reasonable ammount of sex, played a few games and had a good time. I knew how to make my partners cum. It is a bit disheartening to think that all they wanted to be dominated, Arse-slapped and treated like a cock r… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 09:08 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill now illegal in New Zealand.New Zealand male here, loving TRP and rational male and trying to help other men see the truth. We haven't given up yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 11:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you accept a compliment?Badly | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about casual sex? Shit testRight now! well, ok if we have to. You will respect me in the morning though, wont you? (flutter eyelashes). Or... It never hurts to practice. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 10:07 AM |
| 0 | Only hangout to have sexLaugh, and say 'not JUST the sex.' Make it clear sex is part of the deal. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 10:01 AM |
| 1 | sore muscles, shouldI train?Thanks guys for ALL the advice. My diet is crap, largely full of processed carbs. I sleep well at night, even if I have a sandwich before bed. Usually I am tired because I stay up too late reading TRP. I think my biggest challenge will be affording to eat healthy. :-( | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 09:07 AM |
| 1 | sore muscles, shouldI train?is it bad to eat before bedtime? That is when I get hungry. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What made it all click for you?when I read the sidebar it all made sense with an enormous click. I looked back through red pill eyes at my marriage that ended recently and it all made sense. I had been a complete blue-pilled beta and frustrated because nothing was working despite doing all the stuff I was supposed to. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How to manages divorce, plates, time and be with my son?Thanks, it fills me with hope. My challenge is my son is living with me... | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a "Your mom" insult?Geez, get a sense of humour and relax.. "No, I was too busy with your mom, guess She's out on parole again." "Yup, we were knitting you a tiny little cockwarmer for christmas." "We were busy fixing the winch that gets your momma out of the bath." "We were busy stopping greenpeace from dragging your momma out to sea." "We were busy consoling your family after they found out about your paedopholia/career as a rent boy/felch photos/cross dressing/compulsive masturbation (whichever one is funniest)" | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 11:08 AM |
| 2 | "The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1"Basic God knows if any of these would work... Question 1: ”Are you a player?” With an enormous shit-eating grin, "oh no, I'm far too shy." Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” Same grin, "Oh no, you are my very first." Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” DSB... Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Who slept? Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” I've got a lot of love to give. How about you? Intermediate Question 6: ”Are you gay?” Why, are you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 10:43 AM |
| 1 | How to manages divorce, plates, time and be with my son?I already have been talking to him about trp as mych as I understand it. Why should I keep my son completely unaware of me dating? Any single dads out there? How do you manage it.? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 10:26 PM |
| 1 | "I like someone else" "I have a thing with someone else" yatta yatt yatt Ljbf. WTF am i doing wrongWhat are they and where are they? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 11:06 AM |
| 1 | "I like someone else" "I have a thing with someone else" yatta yatt yatt Ljbf. WTF am i doing wrongYou sound desperate. Relax a little. Make out, have fun. Laugh at the shit test. Who cares where it is going? You got this far once, you'll get this far again......just Relax and enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 11:05 AM |
| 0 | Have you guys ever dated or plated someone that had severe anxiety and borderline depression?LOL AWALT | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Ex slandering me to friends.I am employing a novel strategy. I am telling the truth about what is going on B-) naive but fortunately my ex is helping my case by acting crazy. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Ex slandering me to friends.Not sure how to link posts yet. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Ex slandering me to friends.Yup, it.is a good strategy, especially if she wants to do legal challenges later on. I think it will backfire on her though. At the moment it is making her look like a vicious lying bitch to anyone who has spent time.with me and knows what a good space I am in. It is clearly bullshit. Finding someone to bang is a good idea when I am ready for it. Of course women say, He is just doing it to hurt you, or it is rebound sex, or it doesnt mean anything. Eventually she will realise it is not about her… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming bluepill conditioningThanks guys. I will see if I can find no more mr nice guy on amazon or book depository. As for why I want to be nice to women, I also like to be nice to my friends too. I have had 45 years of blue pill conditioning. It isnt going to disappear overnight. I love the red pill. It is making me really happy, but I have only been reading it for a week. I have already changed how I interact and feel about women. I am not there yet. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 10:21 AM |
| 3 | 2nd ever attempt at maintaining frame.I didnt want to leave my son alone with her and her bitchiness and she does legally own half the house and there are no court orders against her. Besides I live there. If I cant go to my own house she has won. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 06:40 AM |
| 2 | 2nd ever attempt at maintaining frame.what else would someone more skilled at maintaining frame than a newcomer like me have done? @helpmelove. it's all good, she left first, voluntarily. I am not sure laws, here in NZ are quite like that, but when I can afford a lawyer I will find out. When I got back she had gone. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Ex messing with my head. Should I mess with hers?I agree with these other guys, box the stuff, tell her the day you ate getting rid of it. After that day, trash it or sell it and block the manipulative bitch. Every moment you spend plotting your revenge is another moment she is controlling your life. Practice your IDGAF. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 09:54 AM |
| 1 | I was hanging out with some girl and her ex-boyfriend was stalking her and confronted me. What to do?Yup, is she is selfish enoygh to expose you to a potential shitkicking then she is selfish enough to do anything. Maybe you should ask the ex what the fuck is going on? Anyway, its a fucked up situation. There is no way it can get better. Best case scenario, you nail her for a while then you become the crazy ex-boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 05:16 AM |
| 0 | How to stay in the anger phaseWhy do you even want to stay angry? Stop giving your energy to people who dont deserve it. If you are angry it is because something is making you feel powerless. Fix it or fix yourself. I am not a saint though, there are andbalways will be stuff that pisses me off. When I hear a woman say,"would you mind.(insert pointless job here)", "all men care about are tits", "hes a good dad but I wish there was more excitement in our lives", "we live in a patriarchy. It is men's fault that men do the shit … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 01:05 AM |
| 2 | [Field Report] A discussion on Shit Tests, expectations, and urgency.I am in that situation apart from the lack Of fucking | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:45 AM |
| 1 | First attempt at maintaining frame. Am I doing it right?Well, I had a chance to try again...I dont do so well face to face with my ex. She came around (after txting all week we need to talk). She does own half the house, it is hard to stop her. Before I get home I.text her to say if the conversation gets angry or accusatory the conversation was over. So we sit down to talk and the shit test starts so I ignore the first stream of crap, then I agree and amplify. You are right, I am the biggest asshole in the whole world, bigger than adolf hitler and jo… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 06:53 AM |
| 1 | First attempt at maintaining frame. Am I doing it right?What is semi overt and A&A? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:15 AM |
| 1 | First attempt at maintaining frame. Am I doing it right?Thanks guys. I am pretty new to all of this. Dont ecplain, dont complain. I like it. I wasnt trying to be a complete dick (a bit of one maybe). I will try not to be. I think people who have swallowed the red pill cannot be understood by anyone else and must seem like arrogant assholes. Their problem, not mine. I am sure I will be asking advice again and no, I am not going to get back with my wife. I am not going to swallow the red pill and willingly put myself back into bondage. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome this anger?Why be angry? Being angry at a woman because she couldn't love you the way you loved her or because she was a user is like being angry at rain because it is wet. I hate to say it but if you let her treat you like shit, that's on you. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 01:30 AM |
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