So i feel as if a lot of the advice on trp is geared towards starting a conversation and carrying that conversation with women. Personally, I have never had a problem with getting a conversation going with girls at the parties I usually go to - as a college student, its an inherently social environment where being atleast somewhat attractive combined with a good energy means most girls will be willing to give you the time of day.

But looking back on my last few nights out, I've found that while I can get a conversation going, I find it difficult to make the conversation flirty. It more or less feels like two friends talking, both being fairly nice/polite to the other without an underpinning sexual tension (maybe due to the lack of tension, shit tests don't appear much either.) I'm wondering how to correct this behavior and make my conversations more flirty.

Some of the issues i've noticed is that I feel like my attitude when I'm feeling good and confident might be too energetic and positive - enthusiastically responding to whatever she says, laughing loudly, and only ever smiling. While these traits generally show confidence, I think that when taken alone, they give too much of a sense of comfort to those I'm talking too. Thoughts? How can I create an underlying sexual tension? How can I go from carrying a conversation that eventually dies off with a smile and a goodbye into a conversation that invokes some tingles?