How to not be afraid?

Coltron778 · 2017-03-13T07:47:46+00:00

Fear is a natural emotion, you overcome emotion with reason and will.

Reason is simple, the worst case scenario in talking to a chick is already happening and has been happening since the last time you fucked/loved/held/whateverthefuckyouraftered one.

You lose nothing trying. Will is harder, you just have to do it. No ammount of reading is going to turn the should to an ought.

But hey, that's why men are horny as fuck, that's why you want to give some girl your heart boner or dick feelings. Focus on the reason, a few thousand years of evolution should do the rest. In the mean time the side bar is in the side bar.

oldredder · 2017-03-13T09:32:50+00:00

This fear is the result of you believing, or knowing, you are unworthy of them.

When you change who you are to be stronger, smarter, faster and more attractive and probably also have some kind of money or status, THEN the fear will go because then you know the women will see value and not a facade that will fall apart in seconds.

SkimSTi · 2017-03-13T21:11:32+00:00

you have to remember, that by over-analyzing a future situation that hasnt even happened yet, you are just creating an illusion in your head... its all in your head dude.

stop worrying about what happened in the past (where fears develop) and stop worrying about what hasnt happened yet (the illusion of 'what if').

when you start living in your present moment, you stop worrying, you will start DOING without much thinking. that is where you want to practice living dude. remember... ALL men, even solid studs still do get rejected. It happens to everyone. no big deal.

little bit of practice every day dude, baby steps, start small and work up to bigger things. all action, and less analyzing.

Title	How to not be afraid?
Author	soyDonEladio
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	March 13, 2017 7:30 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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