So I've been doing some reading on here for a while and I constantly come across people giving advice on how to reply back to women if they flake or if you're trying to ghost them and I see a lot of people give out the advice of just saying "ok".

I'll admit I'm extremely passive aggressive and this is something I'm actively trying to work on but how can I start acting like I don't give a fuck without sounding like a passive aggressive person? If I said "ok" to someone in my mind I'm acting petty. Same thing goes for when guys on here say to use dread in a relationship if your girl is doing shit you don't like doing.

I can't imagine any other scenario in which I don't come off being passive aggressive if I'm trying to "punish" someone. Sorry, my thoughts are kind of going all over the place, I'm just trying to see how I can seem less passive aggressive and more direct without people thinking I'm being a bitch.