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“You are meeting the (actual) person you married”
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 05:48 AM
3

Finish med school, then trade her in for a late 20-something who actually likes you. Do not drop out for this silly woman.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 12:38 PM
9

This is the correct answer that aligns with my experiences similar to OP
/r/askTRP07/03/20 06:39 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:34 AM
1

That’s quite a transition (I imagine both education-wise and culturally). Can you please provide some more info? PM or otherwise?
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:52 AM
8

Start doing less talking. You’ll find he’s right.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 09:49 PM
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https://m.popkey.co/01abd3/YNV4G.gif
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:33 AM
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Sex at Dawn is one of the least scientific/evidence-based books on the topic (and that's saying a lot). You know, if that kind of thing matters to you. Some of the sub arguments are true in their conclusions but he seems to create a lot of fictional narrative. Personally, I prefer to leave hamster-speak and dogma to the BP folks.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 03:13 AM
1

You never soft next? Why not?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:32 AM
1

This. Guy is apparently camp as fuck on set between takes and has a history back in Australia.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 02:00 AM
1

Take it as a polite rejection and move the fuck on. That's what it is at best, an attempt to placate your ego and let you down easy. At worst, she's stringing you along by not turning you down directly with the exact intention of keeping you floating around as a source of validation. Also, I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that it sounds like you're waiting until after you reached some arbitrary period of interaction before asking them out. You should make asking them out/escalating THE…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:51 AM
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It's a way of shaming guys who don't play by their rules, particularly if the guy is younger and broke. He usually gets by solely on looks & build with a healthy dose of unabated arrogance and a willingness to be rough in bed. Younger girls absolutely hate that they're attracted to this and can't dress it up as something virtuous to others (he's neither wealthy, nor beta-nice), so they try to shame these guys to maintain their power and perceived virtue amongst betas (while still fucking them). …
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:32 AM
9

Yes, this. I'm older than you in a similar position. I had girls with 5-10k followers ask me why I don't start a profile with weekend posts and eventually get free shit/sponsored posts like they do. So, I did. Then I see how much time they spend on the thing, mostly editing photos and planning weekends solely around what will sit well in their grid of photoshopped amateur sports illustrated covers. I've seen up close how these girls actually live and die by the reaction they get on this stuff an…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 08:06 AM
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It gets much easier to be witty when you care less. Make yourself care less.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:14 AM
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Ignore her.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:13 AM
1

I did this when I was about to graduate, but only after her internship ended. We flirted the entire time. I was initially in the trenches with her and remained on with the company in a minor role until I graduated. I called her a week after the intership ended (while I was still at the company and she had left), she turned me down for drinks on the same day (I later found out she was with her BF that night). Next evening she texted me for my address and showed up at my place 30 min later looking…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 08:11 AM
1

This is terrible advice. What makes you think she'll give herself away? He'll never have the clear evidence he (apparently) needs to break up with her and it will just eat him up inside. She's made her intentions clear enough by even bringing this up, let alone actually going.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:59 AM
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She's smoothing it over (and doing a decent job too) and using the opportunity and purposeful discussion with your father in your presence to shut down your instinctual doubts about this. Girls do this, they use open discussions and the appearance of honesty and deference to make you let your guard down and kill your instinctual doubt. They are blessed with a social and emotional aptitude most guys will never develop or even appreciate, in the same way most women are never able to match the phys…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:50 AM
1

Really, have you never been the 'other' guy? This 'dream' situation is pretty typical in hotels. That's why they take the job in the first place. Same goes for flight attendants in relationships. Although, I absolutely agree with your first sentence. He should definitely let her do it - as a single woman.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:30 AM
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If you're happy to stick around through this, then you'll rationalize it whatever way you have to when she gets back. You think she'll tell you the truth? HA! You won't hear it from her. But it doesn't fucking matter. You know why? You already know she wants to be away from you for a month for no good reason other than the glaringly obvious. You're already in denial about her reasons for wanting to do so and she is trying to convince you this is ok. You already think having healthy boundaries is…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:23 AM
1

Fuck her off mate. She's a hoe.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 09:09 AM
2

Do you think every relationship has to seem bad for cheating to occur? That's extremely BP. For women, cheating is about having your cake (emotional commitment) and eating it (tingles) too. It's not about love, dynamics or how you treat each other. The relationship sex can be stable as hell too. Why on earth would she be so willing to be away from you for such a long period of time? You even said it yourself: it's super strange for my borderline-clingy girlfriend to suddenly be OK with not seein…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 09:01 AM
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This right here is what I've said several times. It's the perfect response.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 08:47 AM
1

I fucked a girl out of the club two months after my 18th birthday. I was hardly a chad, although I said I was 22.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 08:09 AM
2

Attractive/AF get less shit tests overall, but they still get them. I can guarantee you Brad Pitt has been shit tested several times (yes, even with the fame). I have been around some scary organised crime types and even they get them initially (when the girl hasn't 'figured them out' yet). The thing that is really different is these guys don't even process it as a challenge. They laugh and literally go over the top and hit them back with a nuclear sledgehammer of a response. Since they can hurt…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 07:51 AM
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First up, unless we're talking about a 16 - 18yo here, she may be BPD. I suggest you have a look at the sidebar posts, google 'borderline personality disorder' and see if she has other traits. Be really honest with yourself about it. If it seems the case that she is BPD, I suggest you run. Otherwise, tell her she can call you whenever she wants. If you're not busy you'll answer. Then just answer whenever you feel like it. Ignore the first two or three days when she throws a fit to manipulate you…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 07:42 AM
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If you haven't already bought 48 Laws of Power, do it. Then read law 16 ('Use Absence To Increase Respect & Honor'). Be scarce, don't give people too much of your spare time. But when you're around them, make sure your presence is felt. Engage people with a jovial attitude, be cheeky and an overall source of fun (without being a clown). Focus attention on others in very flattering ways in small, yet intoxicating doses. Always leave them wanting more so they the feel like making you stay next tim…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 08:19 AM
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If the problem is psychological (over 90% of the time it is), your first sentence gives it away. You think she's better than you. She's a girl, man. Touch her and use her like you wish. Stop caring about what she's thinking once you escalate. She's obviously turned on and attracted to let herself be in that situation with you - you just need to use her in the way you want. Imagine she's your concubine slave that doesn't have a choice but to oblige whatever you find pleasurable. Funnily enough, y…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:50 PM
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She wants the BF experience without the commitment. She thinks bringing up other women only will make it seem sexier to you. If you see it for what it is, it's not sexy at all. Keep fucking and don't treat her like a girlfriend anymore. Treat her in a way that you won't care or lose face if a close friend sees her hooking up with another guy. She's just one of your hoes.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:43 PM
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You mean like the entire HR department...
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:40 PM
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No surprises. Enjoy. Don't LTR her or you'll be back again in 4 months asking why she cheated/isn't in love with you anymore.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:03 AM
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If you feel that strongly I'd recommend discussing a vasectomy with a urologist.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 08:29 AM
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Agreed. Craig comes off as a beta trying to be butch. That said, Connery comes from a certain time and place.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:41 AM
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I've had 3 plates ask me this. They didn't have any issues and I didn't either, but I freaked out the first time (no condom). It doesn't necessarily mean you need to freak out too. It's usually the sluttiest of the bunch that do this and they ask after the fact to make themselves feel more diligent and responsible to compensate for how impulsive they really are. Think the fat walrus that chooses a diet coke when they ask her what drink to have with her super-jumbo sized McDonalds meal. Probably …
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:20 AM
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No, but only if it is mirrored in her actions. She might just be saying it as beta bait to see if you get all lovey dovey and comfort/validate her. Wait and see how that goes. A rarely mentioned green flag (ime) is if a girl holds back her emotional world from you until you've known her a long time. This is normal amongst guys. But for women, this is so rare. It's always meant good things in my book. BPDs and other crazies will tell you their deepest secrets (along with their friend's) and their…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:13 AM
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Who gives a shit. She's probably with her boyfriend and doesn't want a series of text replies.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:06 AM
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He's spot on, mate. We've all learned this the hard way. Learn from our mistakes. Take our advice and you can skip ahead of most guys your age without taking the hits. Tell her you've had fun together but you're done, you just don't feel in love with her anymore.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:03 AM
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Yes, because she felt the need to impress them. Something about you and your behaviour has told her that she doesn't need to try as hard because the risk of you leaving her is much lower. The descent has already begun, because subconsciously she is now acting as if she can do better than you. The fact she's actually telling you this up front is a real concern. You should begin dread game now if you sincerely want to maintain your happiness and this relationship at this same time. I do mean right…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:58 AM
1

Yes, even if she comes off like some nympho you should definitely still be creating scarcity. If anything it will kill her interest in you after a while if you're constantly dropping your life every time she hits you up (she'll perceive this, no matter how you think it looks).
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:40 AM
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There's this wave of new guys that insult and disbelieve any example of guys seeing more of a sexually open side of women than they have seen themselves. Pure jealousy because deep down they either have to disbelieve these stories or admit to themselves they're not as attractive as someone else to reconcile the differences in their experience. Basically, they haven't completely swallowed the pill yet.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:34 AM
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Help a whore cheat on her husband... because she needs help to do that. It's his fault. Because she's never done such a thing before in the entire history of her marriage. Of course. Are you really willing to bet your life on that? She fucks, husband is beta. This guys actions don't change shit.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:30 AM
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Don't tell me his fingers were bigger than you...
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:46 AM
1

Exactly. This subreddit is getting mixed up in dealing advice for cucks who are in LTRs they shouldn't be in. We need to swing it the other way again.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 04:44 AM
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PREACH. Tell 'em how it is mayne.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 04:39 AM
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Jokes, A&A and pressure flips should be used first for shit-tests generally. You did fine initially. Unfortunately, she pushed it harder over and over again because she wanted to see if you'd buckle. A shit test is one thing and they're usually fun to deal with. But It's when a girl insists, tries to control me or consistently undermines me that I categorise these as being nuclear. There will usually be an occasion where she keeps pushing through to see if she can control you or be seriously dis…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 11:41 PM
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I can count on two hands the amount of recently divorced guys I know who lied about being happy when they where married and came clean to me about the real state of affairs within months of separating. They're all happy as pigs in shit now.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 11:13 AM
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She sounds miserable, but any girl can descend to this point if you let her. In future, you need to be unflappable in your frame the first time this kind of thing happens. Do not be afraid to lose her. Act like she doesn't mean shit to you when a girl you're serious with does this stuff to you. Be an asshole if she is being seriously unreasonable. It works every time. In fact, it's the only thing that works. Don't be afraid that it's some comfort test and she'll run off crying and never come bac…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 10:56 AM
3

Have you ever fucked a girl on a ONS and felt that the chase, success and resulting validation was more rewarding and fun than the actual sex? Well, thats how these 18-24yo harlots feel when they get you to commit. They don't love the feeling of committing to a guy. They enjoy the validation they get that a guy will commit to them. Their asking and trying to sell you on commitment is their form of spitting game, man. In the same way we have our game to get sex. They don't honour it because they …
/r/askTRP29/05/17 10:29 AM
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Yeah, plate this basic bitch. Don't even tell her, just go back to plating her.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 10:24 AM
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She sounds like a manipulative piece of shit.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 09:02 AM
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Best way to form new social circles is to befriend people you like and introduce them to each other. Take those sporadic one or two guys you know from wherever and invite them out for drinks on a Friday. New social group done. Just make sure you're befriending solid guys that aren't manginas to start with. Guys who won't kiss your ass to your face and will have your back when you're not around. Basically, avoid betas. That's really important. No point investing in people who aren't solid and won…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 08:57 AM
1

How does he get her an uber on her dime? Either kick her out assertively and let her find her own way home or get her an uber with your phone (and dime) if you need to maintain grace for some reason.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 08:49 AM
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Of course she did. It's called guilt tripping. This is the female 'hail mary pass' for cheating. I promise you she wasn't crying when she was with this guy.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:48 AM
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I've heard this story a million times growing up. She didn't get raped. You did what you needed to do for yourself. Pat yourself on the back for that. I know you want to buy into her story to protect your ego and image of her, but don't. It's healthier for you if you just move on. You'll find that she won't report it. Want to guess why?
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:43 AM
1

Fantastic advice right here. I was doing this already without knowing it was a thing.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:20 AM
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If she's wet, she wants to fuck you. The test is there to make sure you're worth getting wet over. Understand?
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:18 AM
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This gets better with experience. I promise. Eventually it will reduce down to 80% - 100%
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:14 AM
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Who cares how hot she is. Her pussy still smells when she doesn't shower. There are other girls just as hot who will be willing to give you a shot to step up to the plate again. But you need to believe it before they will. Improving yourself will help, but your beliefs will ultimately make or break your chances. Next date with a girl like that, treat her like a 5 and let her impress you.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:09 AM
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I've noticed that as men, we are prone to thinking way too much about the content of our words. In most cases the best guys just do it, they don't say it. Don't forget that bringing emotions into your sex doesn't necessarily involve using 'love' as a word. You can make her feel more emotionally dependent on you using your body than you can with the basic 'I love you' phrase. You can make a girl feel loved by how you touch her. Be extremely emotional with your body, cradle your arms around her as…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 04:52 AM
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+1 I was really surprised when I turned a corner years ago to find out this is a most definitely a thing. Plenty of girls in their early twenties that have revealed they're having gangbangs (4-5 guys), arranging hotel rooms they split between their girlfriends just to fuck and share guys for a weekend. Girl I was talking to post-coitus the day after her 23rd birthday last week revealed she was in the hundreds, somewhere around ~220. I didn't believe her, but she had a little moleskine journal fu…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:52 AM
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Follow people you meet instead of getting FB/snapchat/number details. Make really cool posts. Use VSCO on all your pics. Follow all your fb friends. If you know/see anyone who is using their IG for business/career (local or indie musicians, real estate agents, DJs, personal trainers) then follow them, they'll almost always follow back. Once your SMV is high (or your pics at least make it appear so), follow a few big names with lots of followers. Random thots will see you and follow you off that …
/r/askTRP26/05/17 02:54 AM
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My BPDex used to tell me she'd have to kill me if I left her. Needless to say, I left her.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 11:28 AM
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Sounds like you've made a decision - time to execute. Kick her the fuck out. She wouldn't hesitate to hold it over your head if you were staying at her place. Start your phone recording, put it in your pocket and kindly ask her to leave by tomorrow evening. She can get herself the first flight home. If the first flight is more than 24 hours away, get her a hotel for the night and make sure she leaves. You'll help her pack. Call her family if you need to, take all guilt tripping options off the t…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:52 AM
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She's manipulating you. You've seen her true colors. Now that you have, don't be afraid of losing her. It's the only thing stopping you from acting the way you should and the way that will ultimately turn her on.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:08 AM
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You should push every girl to be as filthy as possible early and assume she's into it. The average female is more perverted than the average man but there's a 99% chance she won't volunteer that side to herself if you haven't pushed her there first. The belief that 'she isn't like that', or 'doesn't seem like the type' is silly. They're all just responding to you. You set the tone from the beginning. Effectively, get her to be your slut early on and don't be surprised that 'she's like that' next…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:50 AM
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Exactly. The easiest way to fuck her in the ass and have her gagging while you're balls-deep... is to do it on the first fuck.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:40 AM
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No. Don't fucking mention it. You don't seem like the type, but I'd exploit the exhibitionist tendency she has by telling her how it turns you on. Make sure you frame it as something that turns YOU on. Take the responsibility and shame away from her. Bring it up when you're already being sexual. Fuck her in the park after drinks or against the window facing the street. Make her send you videos playing with herself in the bathroom during work. If you pull this off (I.e she hasn't completely beta-…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:39 AM
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Exactly. Don't even carry yourself as if you're defending yourself. Be apologetic enough that he takes pity on you for being so foolish and embarrassing yourself. Let him see a younger inexperienced version of his principled self in your eyes so he strikes up some empathy and lets you off. Don't be stupid next time.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:28 AM
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From my personal experience and the other guys I've worked with who use Instagram for marketing and career networking, there's a real snowball effect after 1K. As in, random girls will start following you just because you have that many followers already and you're attractive. Getting the first 1K is the hardest part. Once you hit 3 - 5K cold DM's from random 8+s are a regular thing with no other work on your end.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:23 AM
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Please...
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:18 AM
1

No. I don't care about any girl's past. I rarely commit. However, I do enjoy calling out the hypocrisy of guys who rationalize their choice to commit because their girl is better than fucking 'random sluts'. They're all random sluts to varying degrees, her giving you the gf experience isn't worth the commitment and she respects you less for it. Of course, it required me to lose my virginity to acquire the experience to work that out. Rape fantasy role play sessions excluded, I'm not a rapist.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 08:24 PM
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If your LTR had a ONS with me before you met her, doesn't that mean you're in a relationship with a 'random slut'? Cause I can assure you it is almost certain that she did, probably even with guys less chad than me.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 05:56 AM
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What the fuck is happening to this place Jesus
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:37 AM
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+1 on the BPD traits. Keep it moving. She'll hit you back to fuck soon but you better get divested from her validation or you'll get destroyed. You should constantly be ready to hard next every moment with her. Keep your ears shut when she tells you you're the hottest, most dominant fuck ever, etc. This is some low level drama game and it's already making you trip. This will go nuclear eventually and you'll lose your shit.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 12:44 AM
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Females (especially low IQ ones) tend to mistakenly believe that dread game has the same effect on on males as it does on them.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 07:19 AM
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This your BPD ex again? From your reply to my other comment and your recent ones, I swear we were fucking the same girl.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 07:18 AM
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Exactly. (Not that he gives a fuck right now, I'm sure)
/r/askTRP13/05/17 03:37 AM
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Chances are it was too late for you when you were 6yo.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 11:49 AM
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Fuck her like a whore, don't date. Don't believe anything they tell you. Girls avoid her for some reason. You should too.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 03:22 AM
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It's actually through my anecdotal experience that I came to believe this. Not through TRP. These guys aren't being insecure or narcissistic jerks. The fact of the matter is women can and do cheat far more easily than men. They seem to be far more sophisticated in hiding it too. You have a big argument with your girl where you stand your ground, hold frame but still feel like shit? Average guy will deal with it by having a beer out with the guys, chilling alone or doing something he enjoys to ge…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:00 PM
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Just watched "Long nights short mornings" by myself last night. It was like a cinematographer and sound crew followed me for a month of my dating life a few years ago. This is the first film that portrays dating and sex for young men exactly as it is today. It was jarring to watch. Seeing my experiences on screen like that through a guy I could identify with made me realise that every nearly every guy must be putting up with the same shit these days. It all feels very cold but I felt like I took…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 03:28 PM
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third this
/r/askTRP22/04/17 08:27 AM
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Fantastic
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:22 AM
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I wouldn't even bother soft nexting, just next altogether. She will come around to hoover him back with how much she loves him after pulling this shit and then get jealous when he's pursuing other plates after telling him she doesn't want to be serious. Then she'll fuck around and drive him crazy because he still cares no matter what he tells himself. Ask me how I know. There's a hotter girl with infinitely less drama on the same block as this guy I'm sure. He shouldn't sacrifice his happiness j…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:42 AM
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^ This x100,000. My worst ex who is BPD pulled this for the first four months. Must have the same playbook. Turned out to be a horrible person who had a spine-chilling capacity to lie like I have never seen before or since. GTFO and kill that emotional investment whatever way you can. If you keep in touch with her this will fuck you up, bring you down and make it harder to fuck other women.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:31 AM
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Honestly, you're doing fine. Provided she isn't doing shady shit like hiding her messages or taking her phone to the bathroom and doesn't give you the vibe that she's bringing it up to gauge your reaction (you'll know) then I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:50 AM
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No experience with shrooms, lots of LSD only. While high, LSD puts you in that childlike state that can seem beta. However, it lets you see yourself and the things around you in a more abstract way. This typically allows you to feel more confident in coping with change once you're off it. This can help you in your RP endeavours and realisations, but too much or taking it solely with intention of getting pleasure from the euphoric effect is where you'll enter hippie-betaville. Taking it with purp…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:32 AM
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If you have a competent doctor they'll discuss tapering. Make it as gradual as you can to avoid sleep issues, strange moods etc. Sexual side effects might take another 6 weeks or so to go back to normal once you're off them. Also, just a heads up, you'll probably be a little more 'sensitive' down there than you were on them.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:23 AM
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Christ...
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:26 AM
1

Take this middle school line over to r/philosophy please. This is Red Pill, not metaphysics.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:20 AM
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You sound like you're getting invested in someone who is going to let you down. My suggestion is not to do so. You'll realise this looking back in retrospect, I just hope our comments can help you skip that part and back out now. Your happiness should come first always.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 04:23 AM
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Every time I've felt the need to worry about that shit I've been right. As in, I've never felt the way you explain and turned out to be wrong. Unfortunately, you only find out in time and it might take a really long time in which case you will need to pick up the pieces. I know the household favours and proclamations of love make you think otherwise, but she's probably compensating. Unless you suffer from a mental disorder, trust your fucking gut always. Staying exclusive in a situation like thi…
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:32 PM
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BPD signs are strong with this one. Come back in 6 months so we can all say we told you so. Trust me - she does this to any decently attractive guy. Don't let your ego get the better of you and your long-term sanity.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:03 AM
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Precisely. Don't let anyone get or remain emotionally close to you once they've proven their disloyalty.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 08:07 AM
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You got the downvotes because you came at it left of field but there's some truth to that. Most BPD types (~75%) have experienced some level of sexual abuse by the time they're 12yo.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 08:04 AM
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Spot on, I've noticed two girls that I ghosted after 2-3 lays due to BPD red flags that displayed this trait within 5 min of meeting me. My BPD ex used to do it all the time when trying to get attention (which why I cut the 2nd and 3rd loose so quickly). It's usually a sign of attraction but only a certain kind of girl does it. Be careful.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 08:00 AM
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Personally I've nearly always preferred to ignore over the typical 'ok'. Dread & soft nexting aren't passive aggressiveness. They are responses of action (not words) that women respond to instinctually. Overt communication (what you call 'direct') will get you a superficial response that won't be mirrored in her actions.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:48 PM
3

Ignore or amplify in the social situation, soft next her when you guys leave. Don't pull her aside. Don't reward her with angry sex/drama. If it continues, (hard) next her.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:43 PM
3

Exactly. This will sound ridiculously cold and even jarring to someone younger or new to RP. However, it is something you need to internalize, even if it is reframed as: 'women are incapable of loving me in the same way I love them'.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 02:04 AM
1

Crown Skinless. Until Vasalgel comes around, there's nothing better. Thank me later.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:57 AM
3

Until you knock up that one who won't.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:50 AM
2

While I stubbornly used to do the defiant skittles routine with plates/LTRs when I was younger, I found an easier and much more honest and effective solution over the last 4 years: Valentine's Day is now the day I take to enjoy myself. I don't entertain anyone else's ideas, even through my own frame - no exceptions. This is foolproof. It prevents any ambiguity and allows me to do exactly what I want free of even considering the expectations of others.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:08 AM
1

Post-wall women are just as direct (if not more so) when isolated/shielded from judgement.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:00 AM
1

When you eventually do it, you'll know within moments of entering by gauging her reaction. But I think we know the answer. Also, don't ask her for anal.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 01:59 AM
1

I've noticed you have a fascination with sneaking out the bathroom window after you come in the back door. I'm guessing it's some acquired childhood issue. Use her hand towel and pillow cases to clean up and walk out like a man.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 01:52 AM
3

Listen to the other fellas. Ignorance is not bliss. Your relationship is over. Make the most of your situation and line up some dates tomorrow (preferably one with her best friend).
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:37 PM
26

Think over why she is being clingy and constantly contacting you. The clingiest LTR I have ever experienced was also a closet slut the likes of which I had never seen. She may be feeding your ego/checking on you because she's projecting her own behaviour on you ("If it's this easy for me to pull one over him, maybe he's doing it to me"). If you cheated, she found out and eventually stayed, it would be the typical girl not giving up her alpha story. This is different. The fact she said she's ok u…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:02 AM
1

That's PUA territory.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 01:24 PM
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