I know this girl from class and over the weeks its just been small chat before and after lecture but noticed she was interested and asking me more personal questions (where do you live, what sports teams do you like ect.) Side note i honestly plan every scenario in my head to be prepared for shittests or whatever.

  • So i said is this your last class today?
  • yea wbu?
  • no but ima eat after this
  • oh yea i probably will too
  • I said oh we can eat together then
  • ok. it was kind of a soft ok but oh well.

We eat (around 35 min) making her laugh not really flirting but nonetheless i say i got somewhere to be. We are leaving and i say are you busy this weekend and she said no probably studying for our class. I said oh yea? we should study this weekend. she said really? are you down? i said yea im down.

  • This is where i started slipping and being hesitant.
  • I said Last time i didnt study so yea im down. do you have the textbook
  • no
  • ok then we can use mine.

She asked before i did,

  • let me get your number.
  • yea
  • what time are you free?
  • I said Saturday and Sunday afternoon so just let me know when.
  • ok yea ill text you.
  • i said and we can get food but yea see ya later.
  • ok sounds good bye.

Now i know this is bad, not definite plans, not initiating the number swap and then continuing by saying something about food after. Maybe the answer is as short as practice or just dont but I find it hard to relax when im trying hard to think further ahead and lay out the moves nicely.

Currently readying "conquer your campus" is there any other books that applies to my situation or on not being hesitant?

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