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Rant/VentingFulp_Piction/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:09 AM
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Thats my 2c. I'm no expert but do consider what I've said, it's easy to think you've got this shit down when you're just dipping your toes in the water, from experience. One question, what did you do that fucked up her idea of you so quickly?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 09:23 PM
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Lad to be honest you seem like you've got no real frame. I'm not saying this to take away from your point, it's correct, but the way you describe a lot of your experience is very black or white. I've done this before, it makes trp appear easier because you get to box things quickly, but people are way more nuanced. I'm reading over your post again and I'll post what I think below. It's not in order: Most of the girls in your city probably aren't 5s, this girl isn't a 10, she didn't pull a comple…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 03:05 PM
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Nail on the head. Because the discourse here revolves around women, there's a lot of 'women do this, women do that,' but people, across the board are less rational than we'd like to admit, and we all reside somewhere on the sociopathic spectrum. As u/redpillschool (I think) stated recently, the opposite of crazy is still crazy. In much the same way, the guy who demonises women suffers as much as the guy who pedestalises them, just from another perspective. It feels good when you learn of all thi…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/20 11:46 AM
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I've been that guy for some girls and not for others so I'm no expert. Also, I've just pulled 'meta-game' nomenclature out of my ass, but lets stick with it. I didn't mention how important sex should be, I said that 'game' in the context of copying high value behaviours is always going to be inferior to being the kind of person who just behaves that way. It's the fallacy of thinking that what you say is as important as who you are. You're not being shit tested to see how you react, you're being …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 02:24 PM
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This is a defeatist mindset. The fact that you had to mention defeatist mindsets suggests you're a bit defensive about it and your 'realism' is just a buffer, making it easy not to try. I've found that 'dark triad', or whatever the fuck that even means, personality types are everywhere. It's just sociopathy and a willingness to rationally put your wants over others. I've also found that becoming someone substantial is a fuck load harder than any post here makes it seem, but what choice do you ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 01:03 PM
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Your emotions will always pull you in that direction, but if you can identify it and deal with it properly you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 10:43 PM
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Hire this guy as your gay ass stylist
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 03:26 PM
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Don't waste your money on a gay ass stylist.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 02:54 PM
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I don't read his stuff but I'll check it out, cheers buddy. I try to avoid ego traps but to be honest you're right, as long as you have enough internal validation to handle it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 05:47 PM
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Usually these comment chains devolve into shit flinging, so fair play for reacting sensibly. This has gotten pretty long but hopefully there's something of value in it. On the two paths thing, I think there are infinite paths if your SMV is high enough. You have full control over whether you enter into an arrangement, so why the fuck not have 5 LTRs, or whatever floats your boat? Ask any guy if they'd like to have multiple women in a rotation and they'll say yeah, yet they'll all end up in a soc…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 12:08 PM
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You're right, but thats not what I'm saying. If there was thing people need to learn when they pick up TRP it's that women are the icing on the cake. If you expect there's some meta-pussy that will blow all the rest of them out of the water you'll rationalise some average woman into your 'good woman', then get pissed off when you realise she's only human. That or some other needy beta shit. Sorry mate but the premise of pedestalising anyone, something humans tend to do, doesn't fit this place wh…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 09:24 AM
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Maybe, or maybe there's more to life.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 06:14 AM
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The Good Woman is the most powerful thing a man can experience Nope. I stopped reading here, I hope you refuted this at some point in the rest of the post.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 03:21 PM
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I know this is borderline semantics, but sheepdogs are herding breeds primarily. Though that includes German Shepherds and Malinois so nomenclature is kind of fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 02:39 PM
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If you want to lash out at society, fine but don't expect to get anywhere. Blame gets you nowhere, just fix it as best you can. All these problems are just a result of weak men being exposed to the expendability of men (historic), the male brain not being built for the modern world, and the technological revolution making life comfortable (relatively recent). There are men on this forum, and more in real life, who are excelling despite the perceived global push to eradicate testosterone. Society…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 02:10 PM
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I didn't say they were low risk. He says bonds, I say index funds.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 12:03 AM
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Invest Taleb-style. 80-90% of your savings go into low risk investments (he says bonds etc. but invest in whatever index you want). The remainder goes on options against the market as insurance, sell them at a small loss and buy more so they don't expire worthless. It's more complex than this but I don't trade options, I'm sure there are resources for this online. It's called the barbell strategy.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 10:59 PM
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Get into the habit now of saving 10% of whatever income you have.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 10:53 PM
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Words: Something about getting over you. Actions: fucking you, jealousy plays.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:04 AM
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Again, you're looking at what she's saying, not what she's doing.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:44 AM
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AF - alpha fucks. Stop listening to what she says and focus on what she's trying to communicate. She's trying to make you jealous and show that she has options to force your hand. Do whatever you feel like, seems like a good deal to me. If it breaks, it breaks and you both move on.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:49 PM
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To say they never can be creative isn't exactly right. I mean for all intents and purposes of the message here, sure. But there definitely are creative women, and (using Greene's books as a reference) there have been female trailblazers throughout history - but nowhere near the level of men. I'm saying this because I've experienced the downsides that this absolutist view of the world entails. It's like AWALT - there not ALL like that, but 97% of them probably are so in practical terms: yeah AWAL…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 06:17 PM
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It happens. Recognize it, don't bullshit yourself then sort it out.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 04:15 PM
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Yeah if you can't stomach the notion of her fucking someone else you're over invested.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:29 PM
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Go somewhere that you have status.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:26 PM
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Branch swinging but she wants a guarantee that you'll commit before she breaks it off with whoever the other guy is. She sees you as better provider material than him, she's already got her AF. Probably her friends are also in her ear and she can't justify the optics of the advantageous position she finds herself in, maybe someone found out and it's harming her rep. In any case, ignore it and see what happens. It doesn't seem to align with what you want right now.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:24 PM
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You've got other plates, so why care. Let her come to you. Actions uber alles.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:18 PM
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Talking about fight club is one way enlightened betas try to negotiate desire by white knighting other betas who will never get it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 11:43 AM
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The whispering eye was the third eye all along.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 12:08 AM
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Aren't we all.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:46 PM
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Nope, that's a bit autistic. Start small, during small talk get her name. Thats it checked off the list and now you have a cookie in the jar, as Goggins calls it - one more positive experience to draw on when you hit a stumbling block. As you do more and add more significant positive experiences (numbers, lays etc.) it becomes more powerful. Almost like Taleb's concept of anti-fragility.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:44 PM
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Read the sidebar. u/whispers guide to managing bitches covers this.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:07 PM
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I think you're more afraid of having to hurt someone to put yourself first than you are of a potentially crazy bitch.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:59 PM
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Our purpose won't be your purpose. Figure out the life you want, figure out what a day in that life looks like, then set up a few goals you check off every day to actually live that day. SMART goals (start with medium/long term) - write them down in a journal after you throw out an honest stream of consciousness about whatever you feel like. The point is to look at your thoughts, emotions, desires, actions etc. from a neutral, third person perspective. Do this every day or two. Write out your go…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:50 PM
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This is the reason why you can actively ignore/do the complete opposite of what a woman will tell you, hold frame while she's having a shit attack, laugh at her when she gets mad etc. and be much more likely to do the no pants dance in 45 minutes than if you caved and validated her bullshit. Nobody gets to choose what revs their engine. Society knows how fucked up it would be to be honest with ourselves about our true desires (assuming we're conscious of them), and nobody wants to deal with tell…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 01:18 PM
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Read 'Thinking, Fast and Slow' by Kahneman. I have a post I'm fiddling with about this idea, but basically the first impression is the most vivid and each subsequent impression less so, meaning the first impression is 'stickier' so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 12:48 PM
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Sour grapes aren't for everyone I guess
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 11:58 PM
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your red pill imperative is to find a woman who isn't broken and make her your exclusive biological act partner - forever. What I've read so far is well written and unashamedly facetious, but this one sticks out. Everyone is broken, exclusivity isn't in anyone's biological imperative and nothing lasts forever. For everyone who doesn't know what they're reading, it's called hyperbole, look it up. Edit: Finished it.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 06:12 PM
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Laughing at whoever thinks 8 is a normal number, also laughing at whoever thinks someone with a 25+ body count actually keeps track anymore.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 05:48 PM
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Nope. Read a summary of it instead. I found anything it tells you to do is really obvious and if you apply it you come off as disingenuous. However, that was me trying it so maybe I was putting it on too thick.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 06:34 PM
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The 12 rules are fairly good as a 'get your shit together and realise that there is a social heirarchy that you can't avoid' book, but he's not recieved well here because he still sells blue pills.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 06:30 PM
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Yeah, apart from the covert contracts I found it fairly meh, but it is recommended as the first step of the ladder for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 06:28 PM
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People confuse holding frame with being serious, stoic, unemotional. That'll work with low self esteem girls who are dying for your validation but, as you say, it's no fun. Holding frame is just maintaining your emotional state. Greene talks about not letting yourself be overcome by 'viral' emotions. Don't let her, or anyone else's emotions become your emotions. Also, there's plenty of his laws that deal with letting people use their imagination to your advantage. The cult following, creating sp…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 12:24 PM
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Fair enough. I didn't throw the toys out of the pram, I was like - if someone's obviously hitting on you, just end the convo and come get me. She didn't immediately do that so I judged by the actions and it didn't sit right with me. I walked into the convo as he said it so maybe she was about to tell him to fuck off, who knows.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 03:33 PM
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If you feel like you have to do anything, you've seen this guy as a threat, gotten too invested in the outcome and probably broken frame. That being said, an acquaintance tried spitting direct game at my LTR in a club once, I was just like 'cmon man you know thats not happening' and he ended up buying a drink. Looking back on it I think he was testing me more than anything with the bonus that he had a lot to gain if I failed. I fucked up after by bringing it up with her, saying she should've don…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 12:30 PM
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Leasing the pussy with the option to buy.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 10:48 AM
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Nope. Read u/whisper 's 'buckets' post.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:13 PM
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The madonna whore complex. As much as we men like to think we're pillars of rationality and logic we aren't without our weird wiring. If you're getting your needs met then who cares? If you want an LTR you're gonna have to deal the fact that the way women live their lives is outside the sphere of your control, so fuck it. Play the hand you're dealt in whatever way makes you happy. If you blame women for their nature you'll never be happy. The real issue is that the idea of women we were fed bein…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:12 PM
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I've got a gut feeling that what you think you're doing probably isn't what you're actually doing and how you come across isn't how you actually come across. I find that giving really specific advice doesn't really work, people will use it like a script instead of understanding the principle. There isn't a secret code that you say and open sesame go the legs, but usually it involves chatting to a girl, passing a few shit tests if she's interested and reading the situation well. That's all just p…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:33 PM
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Just cut it out. You end up getting situationally/emotionally aroused rather than physically. You focus on what you're seeing/feeling rather than the physical sensation, you'll not be in the moment during and probably not enjoy what you're doing. Women get emotionally aroused, if a man does it's embarrassing. You'll end up a creepy fucker blowing your load too fast.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 03:30 PM
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Haha and what about the rest of my comment?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 07:26 PM
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http://a.trp.red/10 I don't idolize the guy, meaning is subjective, and I mentioned that the women are probably paid. Read the comment if you're going to argue.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 05:46 PM
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Being 'redpilled' isn't the end goal. Being happy and successful by your own estimation, with enough control over your own sexual relationships that you can live life on your own terms is, imo, the end goal. That's empirical, the experience is everything, and if you've used the tools here to be happy, who cares. We don't need philosophical theses, validation from strangers on a forum or a red pill scoreboard.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 12:21 PM
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Does anyone here know the guy? He's an easy target because he's fairly well known, but none of us have any idea what he does behind closed doors. If any of us were ripped to bits, partying weekly with 20+ girls on a yacht we'd think we were the ultimate alpha, but when someone else does they're cucks. People say the chicks are paid - probably, but think about it: money, military history, won a fortune in poker, drugs, built like a brick shithouse, famous in the western world. Does anyone really …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 10:29 AM
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Nope, you don't much if any of those to inspire genuine desire, just be enough so that she's punching above her weight. Commitment doesn't equal shit sex. If she knows you'll up and leave if she doesn't put in the effort she'll put in the effort - frame is the first iron rule of Tomassi for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 11:22 PM
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I get you, gatekeepers of sex, gatekeepers of emotion etc. Value leads to options, options lead to abundance, abundance leads to good sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 09:33 PM
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The whole 'wants to give you as little sex as possible' thing is a bit misguided. Girls want to fuck, but they can't fuck everyone lest they be a slut, easy etc. It's all reputation, if you can fuck her without her looking like a slut to people (yourself included sometimes), you're golden. Thats why these things 'just happen', and have to be your fault. It's mental gymnastics so she can tell herself she's a good girl really. She doesn't normally do this, remember. If a girl tries to weaponise se…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 08:16 PM
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I'd definitely recommend joining a proper sports team. Playing with your friends is fine but nothing beats winning in an actual competition. This is coming from someone who captained a football team when I was younger, stopping to focus on school (oneitis and popular new friend group were all bookworms oddly enough), and regretting it ever since.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 03:04 PM
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It's like the stoic exercise - imagine yourself from above, looking down on yourself and keep zooming out until you realise how insignificant you and your problems really are. Everyone's just a tiny data point in the grand scheme of things, it doesn't really matter from a universal perspective.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 02:52 PM
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It's about sexual strategy in a world increasingly lacking in a positive identity for men. It's easy to knock OP for whatever reason you want, but he got laid, gave an explanation. The meta around here is that social media is cancer but insta is the first thing a girls gonna look at to find out more about you, so there's no reason not to use whatever tool gets the job done.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 11:02 AM
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So would everyone. But if they're smart it won't be raising the moral standards of women. Good luck with that one.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:21 PM
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If you want to die on that hill, go for it but you won't make a difference, you'll just have less fun.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:03 PM
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I've told my LTR that those are her jobs, and as long as she knows that if they're not hers then they're someone else's she'll be fine. Everything wrong with this guys life is his own fault. He got fat, didn't vet a bitch and has zero frame if she's nuts and he's still around. There's nothing wrong with a blowjob and a sandwich my man, there's everything wrong with his attitude.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 11:53 AM
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'#metoo' is literally 'pound me, too' Poetry.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 10:59 AM
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Haha I've read it front to back big man, good book.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 09:19 PM
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People get emotional about what they're invested in.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 04:13 PM
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I noticed that you usually have the dirtiest sex after some emotional event. It's like girls get emotionally horny. I know the OGs like Heartiste et. al. preach to play in the emotional realm or whatever but I still find it weird that my LTR cums faster if she's been crying.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 04:12 PM
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Yeah you sound odd man. You've broken frame, shown you're too invested by explaining yourself. Texting (and calling) for logistics is a rule of thumb because it stops you giving away attention for free, leaves room for her imagination and implies that you're not needy. In your text you've come across as wanting her to call you way more than she wanted to call. Set up a date, don't text/call until the day of - tell her what to wear and a time. Game in person.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:09 AM
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Figure it out yourself. Whats the cockiest thing you could say, in your own words, that isn't a neg? Say that.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:55 AM
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There's a pdf of the roissy reader somewhere. I'm not sure if I have it, search the main sub for that.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:52 AM
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Huge red flag for guys - not vetting against any of this shit. Her behaviour - she's hot & cold, cancels dates with no explanation. She's not afraid to lose you, she doesn't care at all. You can't win them all man, this is the easiest next in the history of nexting. What do you get out of giving this hoe the time of day?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 12:02 PM
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Look at the real estate investing sub to get an idea of your risks and returns. I read a few of the posts, looks like a good source of info. Also, N. N. Taleb books are a good idea if you're thinking about investing. He made a fortune using a 'barbell approach' - most of his money is in really safe investments, and a small amount goes into unlikely scenarios with huge returns (like the '86 and '08 crashes).
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 04:54 PM
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Don't be a man's idea of an asshole, be a woman's idea of an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 08:15 PM
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Wouldn't hit it raw unless you want an expensive woopsie.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 02:31 PM
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Nope, don't over complicate it, grow a set.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 03:09 AM
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She was looking for a reaction from you by fucking someone else and making sure your mates knew. It was a hail mary to get you to realise the error of your ways and commit, with the benefit of you knowing without her telling you outright. I'd imagine the 'talk' was going to be her admitting what she did and apologizing profusely, just to be sure you knew. You can let it break if you want but I'd bet she's invested in you for life. Always keep two in the kitty etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 06:14 PM
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Maybe if you had a set of balls and told her to shape up or ship out on any of the things you're whining about you wouldn't be in this scenario. Get your mental health in order, work on yourself so you can value yourself. "I had no choice but to cower" is a rationalisation, so is "she bullied me into ...". In all your points you're saying that 'she did this', 'she did that' - ie. she is the antagonist, she is in control. That's not where you want to be. Being a woman isn't an excuse for being a …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 05:47 PM
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You pulled the trigger at a good time, credit where it's due. I'm starting to pay attention to this sort of thing, so I'm no expert - how did you know it wasn't overvalued to begin with?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 07:12 PM
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You were able to do that because you knew how to value an asset properly. Thats where the value is, so how did you get to that point? Any knuckle dragger knows that buying a £20 note for £15 is a good deal, and anyone with a cursory interest in finance knows that what you're saying is true. Seems to me that the US economy is floating on the fact that a reasonably quick recovery is priced in and big tech and blue chips aren't going to take much of a loss on average. How do you beat those people i…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 12:54 PM
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Yeah come back and learn some game when you're banging HB9s OP. Some people, eh?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 10:55 PM
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If it's valuable it will be recieved well.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 05:18 PM
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It's easy to forget that women, social circle etc. are the icing on the cake, the fundamental focus has to be you.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 01:48 PM
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Go into the domain and see what comes to you, now is a great time to experiment and prototype. Digital products aren't that different to regular products, they're normal products supplied through a different medium. Figure out what someone wants (validation usually), and sell it to them in the form of whatever you're good at. In my side hustle I'm an entertainer. I get way more repeat business when I regurgitate the clients own taste back to them. I've been doing my thing for years so I'm pretty…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 04:44 PM
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Repeated sprint ability is definitely a factor in winning your own battle in a team sport, but another crucial factor is aerobic capacity - the ability to keep your engine going for roughly 13km in 60-70mins. I agree with you about distance running, but 5km runs aren't going to lower your T. Military training includes everything from 40km rucks to timed miles. It builds character to be better than the next guy at doing any type of hard shit. In my experience, when you know you're better than the…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 09:21 PM
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I call bull. Team sports are not low T environments.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 07:16 PM
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You need cardio. People say you don't but what good are you if you can't use your strength because you're wheezing. Evolutionarily speaking, a strong fit man beats a strong man. Every military organisation in the world isn't wrong.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 07:14 PM
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Yeah but you're not going to lose serious muscle mass running 5k. Look at a Rugby fullback/winger.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 07:09 PM
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Get dip bars, pull-up bar from Amazon, run, lift heavy things in the real world. If you're not getting big AND you're lifting like you should be AND you're shovelling the right food into yourself at every opportunity then you've got an issue. Body composition is training, food, sleep. I wasn't eating enough for a long time, eat more until the scale starts going up. Figure out your own macros, there's loads of info online. It might be hard work, but it's very simple. Now is a good time to get you…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 07:08 PM
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Reposting: So there was this event going on for a couple of days where I made a lot of friends and thru them, I met this girl. She's done a lot of drugs, heavy smoker, parents divorced and she dislikes her father. Dude. You've written paragraphs about a seedling cat lady. She's a joyride. Do a few donuts then torch the car. She gives me IOI's and we flirt quite a bit and invites me to go smoke up with her at night back at her place. Not enough detail to know if you were gaming properly, but you …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 02:57 PM
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True but it's not about devaluation of people to make them expendable. You should appreciate people for the value they bring you, but know that we're all expendable. Like the buddhist story about the guy's favourite bowl.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:24 PM
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Lying isn't always seeking validation.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 03:40 PM
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Liars win if everyone else tells the truth, honesty can at best draw. Question - who defines honor? Where do you draw your right and wrong from? You can talk about morals until the cows come home but the point of this page is to be pragmatic, not philosophical. You get the solution to your women problems, it's up to you whether you want to implement them or not.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 03:09 PM
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This has always been the attitude here, it shouldn't be a surprise. You can't control her directly, but if she cheats or acts out it's your fault. At the end of the day, you're the man - if she doesn't fear you leaving who's fault is that?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 02:00 PM
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It seemed to me he left because of the drama, not because of the direction. I can't know his intentions or motivation before but if he did want to distance himself from the examples above his timing couldn't have been worse.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 03:57 PM
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Anyone here who doesn't get what frame is should go check out wuojo's blog entry on it, it's a goldmine. Read it slowly.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/20 12:19 PM
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Happened me. Girl was decent in bed but turned out BPD.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:28 PM
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It's a little different but core concepts still apply. Looks, money, status; Frame, Abundance, Outcome Independence. Dress well (not american), get your hair cut and hit the gym, play a sport and have a creative hobby if you want. I see a lot of 'spice boys' as we'd say in my home country but you don't know if they're orbiters or what. Guys here are pretty gay and can be stuck up, you see a lot of instagram/LoveIsland-style chicks and from what I can tell they have a bit of a maturity/superiorit…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:22 PM
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Tell her to go so whatever she has to do, be encouraging. Tell her as if you're doing her a favour (you are) but have bigger fish to fry (you should).
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:09 PM
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Ok, so why do you want to do those things?
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:03 PM
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Just started listening to the 6 pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Branden, it seems like it would be good for you to take a listen. I also listened to The Chimp Paradox by Steven Peters, highly recommend it for someone in your situation.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:02 PM
1

Agree to disagree, don't think leaving is gonna help pr wise. Maybe they're all playing the game at a higher level than us but I'm not convinced.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 12:57 PM
2

So one guy got the tingles going out of how many? Averaged out I'd be surprised if it was over 10%. The majority of those guys are in fantastic shape and probably have plenty coin but get girls in spite of their attitude, not because of it. See: guy who left a South African villa because he still loves his ex too much to move on. You're deluded if you think that that's something to exemplify. They talk the talk but don't walk the walk.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 11:33 AM
2

Absolutely looks wise, absolutely not game wise. I don't watch it often, but when I do I'm embarrassed for the guys. Maybe they pull more HB9s, but 90% of them have no frame. One guy last week got a girl to talk to the girl he likes because she was giving him mixed signals. If thats the kind of guy that pulls HB9s on the regular then I guess I'll never be able to.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 09:52 AM
3

Love Island is for attention whores and poof boys, calling the guys on there alpha is hilarious. It's full of soyboys with good looks, good bodies, and anti game.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 08:42 AM
2

Look up u/whisper post about putting various buckets on your head.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 09:42 AM
5

weak 'A figment of your imagination' would work better
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 09:58 PM
31

For me, the most valuable point here is how OP didn't try to change the subject or skirt around the 'do you support feminism' shit test. He told the truth, in a way he thought was funny, regardless of the outcome because he has options. Frame, outcome independence, abundance mentality exemplified. What would you have done if they all turned on you OP?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 04:30 PM
5

Why do you want to be cold and heartless? Nobody likes that guy. There's rarely such a thing as a lone wolf, go make some friends and enjoy your life. This kind of attitude will fuck you up even more. Being stoic means you don't anchor your frame (thoughts, emotions, actions) on external things, not that you banish feeling anything yo the netherworld. If you want career advice go read the 48 laws of power. Pro tip: people can tell when you're being cold and heartless and will actively avoid you,…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:05 PM
1

Look through glo's history, might've been removed.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 08:56 AM
2

I didnt care enough about it to follow it after the shitshow it became. I'm not surprised it ended the way it did. I'd say Rollo also left because it started to harm his brand. Generally things that introduce business interests dilute the message to widen their target market. Look at how PUA turned into RSD bootcamps and instagram pages - that all started from the same roots as the red pill if you go back far enough. The difference is that EC's etc. here don't, to my knowledge, "sell" the value …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 03:04 PM
28

He took a different direction. This sub is obviously somewhere that if you're full of shit you'll get called out. Rollo is involved with the 21 convention (google it), their ceo or whatever tried to amog the sub, and speakers at the convention include someone who thinks he's alpha because he 'allows' his wife to fuck other guys and other purple pill tripe. Rollo got called out (vocally by u/gaylubeoil) and hasn't been very active on the sub since. Edit: Rollo WAS involved with 21C. He has distan…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 12:07 PM
4

You don't. Smile & nod, be non-judgemental, maybe even be encouraging. She's trying to a) see if you care (you don't) b) see if you'll reciprocate with your own info (you won't). Whether she's lying or not is up to you, but let her talk. She's literally telling you how much she's worth as a long term prospect. Also this will probably get removed, askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:34 PM
1

Option 2 is to not get into oneitis in the first place - much easier to implement than this massive list of mostly good advice. Be disciplined, if it's difficult to be cold, or you start that 'just this once I'll be nice' bullshit then check yourself. Keep it stupidly simple.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 01:49 PM
1

Thats what AWALT means.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 12:45 PM
3

Insecurity, in my experience eventually boils out into psycho bitch syndrome. Guys will throw money and attention around when they're insecure, girls will throw sex and attention.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:10 PM
3

All these answers are imo talking about guys who make women run a mile, omegas I guess. A beta has value to a woman: security, stability etc. Nothing tingle inducing, but they're still valuable. Thats why the get enough boring sex to keep them on the hook.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:38 PM
40

Practice, daddy issues and insecurity.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:34 PM
1

It's almost like acting radically makes you weird and people don't hang out with weirdos.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 07:13 PM
1

Agreed with the last bit, but bear in mind that a) op says how to get laid, you're talking about fulfillment - fairly different spheres. and b) you've lost probably like 70% of your close social circle - I've been there and it's harder than it seems. For me, personally, I joined a sports team, got to know a few lads a bit better and it started to look up. I ended up moving away myself, luckily there's a few guys around here that are in roads into new social circles so thats good, but I also star…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 07:11 PM
1

I have an issue with these kinds of studies. You have no idea that they're relevant and unbiased. Also, the information is redundant for anyone who's just dove in head first and started approaching and gaining experience. I think most of the time they're a convenient buffer against rejection - you think because you've read something you know it. You have to internalise the stuff on here and the only way to do that is to go out and experiment over and over again. You have to do it the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 12:14 AM
10

I've never noticed flattering the strong to work consistently, it's just kissing ass. In a group of guys the ass kisser gets no respect, it only offers value to the narcissist validation junkie who's too far up his own ass to care about you. Status in a male group is earned by providing value, usually that means hard work, discipline and time - there are no shortcuts.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:32 PM
1

What would have been the correct thing to do?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 12:45 AM
3

One plate breaking isn't going to turn anyone into a lonely old man. Treating girls like their pussy is different and special is gonna get you into something much worse.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 12:43 AM
1

With respect to the high up guy at work thing - imo, and limited experience, guys are just guys. If you try to use him for leverage he'll probably figure it out, don't try to force that relationship somewhere that suits you too much. You guys get on, great. I've spoken to my friend's boss at another company and, while they might be a bit reserved because they didnt know me, they're just normal people except they know pretty quickly when you're trying to sell them something.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 11:35 PM
2

Obviously. Dunno about you guys but Hep C really revs my engine.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 01:04 PM
1

Always felt control game was overreaching and over investing. It's not congruent with the stoic point of view. It makes sense but I've always thought, and read on here, that controlling others is a beta move. I guess it goes back to the whole father/daughter relationship - weird as it may be?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 12:48 PM
1

You don't have to consciously do it, you can let go of your thoughts and be in the moment anywhere. Whenever I think of the word 'reset', I get this brief moment of not thinking of anything, understanding that the past is over and I can't rest on my laurels, but still not thinking about what I have to do in the future. It's cool.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:01 PM
2

If anyone actually believe s this shit, go check out Joe Rogan's podcast with the sleep doctor - I think his name is Matthew Walker.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:58 PM
6

Perfect example of how not to post.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:57 PM
18

The quid pro quo arguments are rationalising this issue. I can hurt this specific girl because on average girls are dicks wahey! That doesn't really help, you just have to get comfortable with putting yourself first, you sound like you have issues with people thinking you're selfish or something. You have to let that go. You have wants and needs that are just as valid as anyone elses, and they're up to you to look after. No mama no more, you're a big boy. You'll be glad you guys broke up sooner …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:42 PM
1

"thanks"
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:29 PM
8

shes an actual 10 SIDEBAR
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:48 AM
1

Know when to take an L buddy. Hard next - she'll probably chase you up to get you to orbit again, tell her you've just been busy. If she pushes you on that don't reply.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:15 AM
21

Ignore, judge actions not words. Girls say this for all kinds of weird reasons that aren't worth getting into - it's almost always to do with feeling like a hoe because she's thinking about fucking you. If she says that, then if/when you guys fuck it's all your fault and she can rationalize away her intentions. Get out of that frame by ignoring it or pressure flip ("jeez, buy me dinner first", "I'm not a first date kinda guy" etc.) it's not a trigger to "push through LMR", it's a telltale sign s…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:04 PM
-1

Forgot this was a sub about hanging with friends, I must be in the wrong place.. If he was trying to fuck he made hard work of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 03:23 PM
-3

She was horny, you fucked up when you didn't take her home instead of the strip club. She got bored waiting for you to take her home and nail her when you sat with your friends at the strip club. She was so horny or broken that she got overt.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 01:47 PM
3

The problem with your approach is that 'any rejection at all' includes faking a rejection to see how you cope with it. It also turns into a buffer where you get to leave the interaction at the slightest indication of discomfort on your part, and call it a rejection.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 01:53 PM
2

Good decision. If you have to ask if she's worth the effort, she's probably not.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 05:31 PM
18

Didnt catch that bit. It's the oldest trick in the book for chicks - the dumb ones use it for attention, self aware ones use it as beta bait. You do yourself no favours biting.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 04:51 PM
45

Good example of beta bait, think about how much attention this chick gets when she mentions bondage.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:27 PM
1

Validation point is wrong. Don't widen your pool of validation sources, you need to cut off all external sources of validation. How can you be decisive if you're flapping like an exposed meat curtain in the hurricane of social pressure? Be honest with yourself about what you want, then go get it. Stop giving a fuck about what everyone else thinks.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 12:58 PM
1

Don't overthink it, you fuck with people cause it's funny. Everyone takes it as a joke but if you pay attention the guys who can brush shit off and give it back without taking it seriously generally do better in group dynamics. Sidenote: On here people think that you lose one "frame battle" you're fucked - bullshit, you can't win them all. You don't have to 'win' every social interaction, people notice that attitude and generally avoid people like that. Like Rollo's #1 rule: 'control the frame, …
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:57 PM
2

Plate.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:43 AM
10

In general, go do whatever the fuck it is you want to do. Stop wasting your time on a boring cunt for sex tokens, you can't get it back. For that question, shrug it off "I didnt really notice".
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:41 AM
0

To see if you're a faggot.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:25 AM
17

Her: "I love you" - you: "I love you too", Her: "I miss you" - you: "obviously".
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:24 AM
1

Generally the right thing to do is obvious once you grasp trp, I've found that the more I think about something the easier it is to rationalise myself into some 'backsliding' behaviour. KISS.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 01:44 PM
14

The person you're not allowed to criticise holds the real power.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 11:32 PM
0

I think that most betas in asktrp asking stupid fuckin FAQs have no idea about anything game, so telling them to do what got them there doesn't help. They've just gotten lucky that she's not figured out why she won't fuck him yet.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 10:18 AM
1

You've already fucked it up, the giveaway is in the title of your post. You think this girl is different and special, sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 10:16 PM
1

I don't think we need more of an in depth explanation than "it's ugly as sin". Any source on the 'men evolved to sense women have poor impulse control'? Why would a caveman care? He'd just pump and dump, rinse repeat.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 09:38 AM
0

176lb at 5'10" here and I've got around 6 years on him, lifting for 5 or so. Did u/mallardcove not say he was a D1 footballer as well?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 09:36 AM
2

Lol why do you need an EC to validate your worldview?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:39 AM
0

Why?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:34 AM
6

Grab the chicks hand, tell her to thank the nice man for buying you guys some drinks, exit stage left.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:50 PM
13

Pro photos on a dating app reeks of 'I try too hard.'
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 12:04 AM
1

Go look for the Roissy Reader pdf.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:50 PM
2

If you're asking for advice about a specific girl you're not fucking or haven't lined up a date with, you've probably got oneitis. There's no need to overcomplicate the dating game - go talk to more girls so you have more options and don't have to ask naive questions about your ex.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:48 PM
1

You're not going to get enough info in a reddit comment. Go do some research using the blogs, find a good info source and get stuck in.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 09:34 PM
2

You can be friends with them, but they'll never be man friends and women orbit male spaces anyway. Trying to befriend women to sleep with more women is a shit strategy. Your point 1 is anecdotal, point 2, 3 and 4 are accomplished when you're high SMV and know how to sell yourself. You don't need to be friends with women to accomplish them, and we all remember the guys from school with all the girlfriends turned out to be gay.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 12:46 PM
1

You shit yourself because you have the pussy on the pedestal my friend. If you didn't you wouldn't be overcome with regret.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 01:27 PM
9

Thats a bingo. I'd hazard a guess that HB9 was probably ashamed to be associated with OP and/or his group of betas, hence the cockblocking. Sorry not sorry OP.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 10:40 AM
3

Blaming anyone in that scenario is a waste of time - you're thinking about trust, choices and higher level thinking. Read that Vaginabrain post from a few days ago. I don't think it's happened to me too often.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 08:08 PM
19

He's saying that you're not stealing unicorns from betas - when you come full circle you realise that it's nothing personal, you're just the right guy at the right time(s) and if it wasn't you it would be somebody else. It's not your fault that girl X cheats on her bf.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 01:09 AM
1

If you oversleep on Saturday morning you're under sleeping during the week, catching up isn't the same as getting it right in the first place. No caffeine within 12 hours of bedtime works for me, sounds extreme but it makes a difference. Using a wearable sleep tracker will tell you roughly how much sleep you actually get, mine is much lower than I thought.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 09:54 AM
1

The transaction never functioned - it was socially acceptable but under the hood it was still AF/BB. There's a passage from Renaissance era (I think) France in the 48 laws of power - enter action with boldness chapter that basically says 'don't be gay, us girls like it rough'. I'm not sure what changed but I'd imagine birth control had a huge effect. Girls today are an amalgamation of whatever IG pages they follow plus some input from her friend group. They rarely have their own opinions. I can'…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 10:22 AM
1

You'll need more than a 6 month bulk to get a killer body, enjoy the process.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 11:23 AM
1

De-escalate at that particular time then forget about it. If it keeps happening thats a red flag. You could talk to her but you'll probably get some bullshit back. Pay attention to the rest of the relationship.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 03:53 PM
1

It sounds like you're paying way too much attention to what a woman says instead of how she acts. There is a cycle, it last about a month - be an asshole for the first two weeks, be an asshole with some sugar on top for the second two. Girls will rationalise their shitty decisions by 'swearing off' whatever it may be to make them feel better. She's off bad food until she sees another snickers, she's off shopping until she sees something she wants, she's off assholes etc. etc. The fundamentals wo…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 08:22 PM
14

'Start spinning plates' is terrible advice for someone who just managed the first k-close of his adult life. If this is the place where 'men learn to be men' then do your bit and teach.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 01:19 PM
7

Take your small wins OP, be your own biggest fan and build on this.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 01:16 PM
3

It's only depressing because you're trying to accomplish blue pill goals in a red pill aware reality. We were all sold a lie, it's natural to feel let down. Be patient, keep putting yourself first and approaching.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 04:28 PM
1

The development of the sub into a kind of ideological centre of thought is changing what this place is. People start turning to a forum for life advice instead of thinking for themselves. There's no trancendence into alpha, there are only choices you repeatedly make. You reach nirvana when you realise that nirvana doesn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 06:42 PM
-2

Sit down. If I said something like 'rocket science is just sciencing rockets Hurr Durr' then you'd have a point. There's no 12 step plan to IDGAF, you just do it.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:52 AM
2

It's not about a car, it's about independence. If women do something for you because you can't do it yourself, they look down on you.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:31 AM
3

You start focusing on yourself and doing what you want.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:00 AM
1

Get your own transport asap.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:58 AM
2

Crabs in a bucket, you stop caring by just stopping - there's no process or trick.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:27 AM
2

shes just trying to pull me back into orbit She is. Next. Why is she giving you rides?
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:26 AM
3

How many of those possibilities infers a future for you two? Fuck the other bitch, stop taking it so seriously.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:21 AM
6

Stop giving a fuck, be hard to please, meditate. You probably think sex is important - it's not. You're probably watching porn - stop completely. You're probably pulling your wire too much - stop.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:20 AM
1

Good call to action, seems supported by the same line of thinking as outliers by Malcolm Gladwell. A bit abstract though, maybe include a Field Report style example.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:10 PM
14

I don't know how anyone took someone who calls themselves 'beach muscles' seriously in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 02:18 PM
1

Fair enough, I wouldn't be too worried about which way the cards fell in that case. Guess it's a bit messy just.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:55 PM
2

Go write out: Other than high n count and anxiety over STD's shes pretty good. 100 times you jackass. Nothing wrong with a high n count per se, but we don't love them hoes.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:15 PM
1

The rule of 2/3, but probably 1/3.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:45 PM
3

Yeah the content was spot on, sorta, but you took all the alpha context you developed, set it on fire then pissed on the ashes.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:43 PM
1

You sound like a guy with no options, so you didn't really have a plate. You kinda did, but you really didn't. Why does it matter if you fucked up?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:41 PM
5

Date 1 is coffee or ice cream or something small, you won't get shafted out of an expensive dinner. The rule of 2/3's probably applies here but maybe the other way around, if you put too much effort into making everything 50/50 you're overinvested.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 04:43 AM
1

A net.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:22 AM
4

Overthinking it. Next, get more options.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:45 PM
12

Didn't want to tear into you, but I think your post is braggy, a little bullshitty and over reaching. Not exactly wrong but not right either. I don't think it adds anything that hasn't already been said in a better way by more experienced contributors. English obviously isn't your first language, so fair fucks for putting together a post on here. But you need to pack on about 20lbs of muscle and lose 5-10lbs of fat before you know what being ripped is like. I'm not just being a cunt, I'm just tr…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 04:11 PM
6

Tldr; OP thinks he's ripped, attitude is what gets you laid (sort of).
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 03:06 PM
6

TRP teaches you what love really is, and stops you making a dick of yourself over it.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:35 AM
1

A woman is never 'mine', like the old buddhist proverb says - "when the wind blows over my favourite glass and it breaks, I say 'of course'".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 12:33 AM
1

Epictetus' Enchiridion is a bible of stoicism. I recommend it to people all the time because it's so fucking good. I guarantee you'll get fantastic value from it if you're looking into stoicism, it's practical and it's short.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 03:46 PM
2

I spend a lot of time on stage for small groups. It's absolutely quality over quantity. Also, you're not speaking to a whole group, you're speaking to loads of small groups. Address each of them directly for a line or two as you talk, then move on to the next small group. Rinse, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 03:45 PM
0

Ok?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:49 PM
0

Absolutely a shit test. She's acting out to see if OP cares.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:48 PM
3

If it gets to 4 seconds just start stripping on the spot.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:45 PM
2

I can't imagine this actually stops you from gaming successfully?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:45 PM
1

Adhere to the Golden Ratio - for every three things you get, give two in return (gifts, I love yous, head etc.), there are no such things as unicorns, be wary of trying to reach blue pill goals with red pill knowledge.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:43 PM
4

Go read/listen to Mastery by Robert Greene.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:39 PM
2

You're never gonna be 'there'. Focus on finding the balance between competition and gratitude.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:36 PM
1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:08 PM
5

If she wants to walk, you let her walk. Don't live on your knees. You can't make her respect you, all you can do is give her the choice. TRP is about controlling yourself, not other people. You focus on creating the life you want, then give girls the chance to 'enter your world'. She will or she won't, you won't mind either way. You'll never 'win' a fight with a woman. Just disengage stoically. They want attention and frame, and 9/10 times pick bullshit fights to get you to react emotionally. If…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:07 PM
3

Have you thought about getting help?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 11:27 AM
6

A good friend will support you as long as you're moving in the right direction. If someone ditches you because you're not 'successful' then you're better off.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:00 PM
6

They're really not. Asshole while she's ovulating, reign it in a bit after that.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 12:23 PM
6

Remember to gently shake.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:51 PM
2

I can't see it. There has to be something else going on.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:30 PM
1

Initiate dread every night instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 11:40 AM
2

I think it's clear from the OC that he hasn't specifically said this, but it's difficult to listen to a man that could support this. I'm not sure how I feel about buying the books anymore.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 12:53 AM
1

My man
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 03:33 PM
17

Anyone know how to access and save the posts as pdfs - the Roissy reader is too valuable to lose.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 01:52 AM
2

Negging is a DHV that implies you're not scared of someone, it's not supposed to be offensive, thats bad vibes. Shit tests are value probes - it's a way of testing a man to see how easily they're perturbed. Different. When you look at someone who's jacked it means they've put in a fuckload of work consistently for multiple years. Makeup and slutty dress are applied in a matter of hours max. Abundance: whether men have an equal footing is irrelevant, the point is that they can have a footing good…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:47 AM
2

Okay. 1 Reasonable. 2 Yep. 3 You wont get intuitive answers to all situations reading the sidebar, thats stupid. Firstly, you get answers when you go get experience. Thats the point of this whole place. Theory is balls. Secondly, you win some, you lose some. Don't shit yourself when it doesn't go your way. 4 & 5 Changes to your attitude probably need to be big. It's nuanced, but whenever you think you're making big changes and being super alpha you're probably not. Changes to your lifestyle shou…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 11:13 PM
3

Women want emotional conquest, ie they want the manliest man they know to surrender his heart to her. To women, thats like backdoor banging a 10 on the first date. If you want an LTR to work you need to keep a carrot on the end of the stick for her to chase. Guys who break out the "she's my everything" routine are handing the whole carrot to the donkey, then they wonder why the sex dries up and the girl they love runs off to chase some other guy's carrot.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 03:35 PM
2

Thinking back, when I was listening to Jordan Peterson I often was calling people out in the wrong way. Trying to prove I could 'see the matrix' and make sure everyone around me knew it, it was laughable.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 03:23 PM
2

Some light googling found that recovery time should be 30s. It's an interesting approach, it seems like circuit training rather than strength training. 64 reps per exercise seems like overkill but don't knock it until you've tried it I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 07:47 PM
11

It really doesn't matter, it's not a big deal, she's probably insecure about not getting you hard or something. Forget about it.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:45 PM
2

A martial art where you actually spar, and lift.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:42 PM
48

It's a bad idea if you're socially retarded. If you have a good following, use some common sense and do cool stuff then it's free social proof. If you're getting 9 likes on your shitty sunset pic then learn how to use social media. You don't need it, but if you can make it work in your favour then do it. Girls who are stupid enough to buy $50 detox plans from insta-chodes are also stupid enough to read too much into a pic of you with hot chicks and a few hundred likes. Also, this probably needs …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 07:54 PM
1

The truth is only the truth when it matches the gynocentric frame of reality. Put the shoe on the other foot and we're all rich, insecure dickslingers who've decided at the rich guy AGM to keep women down.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 06:35 PM
5

Yeah mentioning cheating at all is a terrible idea. Why would you want her to think of that?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 08:27 AM
1

A bit off topic, but: Rollo likes to talk about social gynocentrism i.e. the accepted global context is to keep sweet with women and anything to the contrary is by definition 'toxic'. The fact that there's no mainstream conversation about toxic minorities either indicates that context is anti-masculine as opposed to pro-feminine. Maybe the whole pro-minority thing just covers everyone's ass, I don't know. I think u/whisper had a post about bucketheads advocating putting your head into their part…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 01:22 PM
6

Basically the 16 commandments of poon.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 07:47 PM
99

It's been said before, it'll be said again. There's a post on here somewhere about how women want emotional conquest. As soon as you 'give her your all' she gets bored, there's nothing left for her and she checks out and branch swings. Think about the volume of bullshit romance tropes thrown out over every entertainment medium and how romance is basically porn for girls and you get an idea about why intergender dynamics are so fucked up at the minute.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 05:00 PM
1

It's not like as a woman you couldn't take responsibility for your life and make something of yourself. An intelligent woman taking advantage of the world today would be a force to be reckoned with.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 10:18 AM
1

It's not like as a woman you couldn't take responsibility for your life and make something of yourself. An intelligent woman taking advantage of the world today would be a force to be reckoned with.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 10:18 AM
5

How much do male webcam models make for every dollar a female webcam model makes?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:30 AM
1

Rational Male and the Mystery Method, The Way of Men is good too.
/r/RedPillBooks28/03/19 09:14 AM
5

Frame is the context of the conversation. Someone being 'in your frame' means that they accept your interpretation of things, agree with you and stop thinking about it themselves. On here it's said that women want to surrender to a strong frame - ie they dont want to figure out all the stressful shit themselves, they trust you so they just go with what you do. A test of frame, tell a stupid joke that makes no sense, whoever laughs is completely 'in your frame'. They were always going to laugh re…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/19 05:57 PM
6

Big hurdle for me to overcome personally, and OP is spot on. An honest attempt at your best is all you can really control in the situation, so failure of outcome isn't really failure, you don't fear it and you hopefully can grind and get better while dealing with the setbacks.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 04:48 PM
1

Surely if you're spinning plates you get everything you want out of a relationship at cut price, replace them as they fall, rinse repeat.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 07:57 PM
0

Sounds like he's weirdo and needs to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 07:53 PM
0

NEXT!
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:06 PM
7

OP deserves credit for this, it didn't just happen. Opening a set, frame control, DGAF attitude, kino, cocky/funny all come into play. His buddy 'just happened' to go home alone (I presume).
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 05:37 PM
1

The person who circulated the email was an idiot. Wording the proposal like that in an effort to prove a point was obviously going to spark controversy. That being said, the double speak is palpable. Notice how when they can't criticise the idea that would solve the consent issue that puts so much power in the hands of women, they criticise the intent. Women and femimised men don't like to solve problems, they like to complain about them for attention.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 11:26 PM
2

The sarcastic asshole could be the asshole who cares too much, or the asshole who doesn't know what a comfort test is. Agree and amplify isn't going to cut it 100% of the time. You don't mention dread, gym, frame? If she's overt and angry she's not in your frame.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:06 PM
1

'ok'
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:41 AM
1

You can't force it in. Read, highlight key points, apply, internalise.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:59 PM
1

Bingo - opener, disinterest, dhv, hook.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 04:00 PM
6

What even is that last paragraph? Calling bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 04:46 PM
1

Ups and downs, dealt with a lot of anxiety and depression after my last ltr. I'm on the home stretch now though and have learned from it. I find it easy to read manosphere stuff instead of applying it, but I'm making improvements and my outlook and attitude is night and day. I'm trying to deliberately approach and apply the mystery method, I talk to plenty girls but usually through friends of friends. Most of my friend group have left or fallen by the wayside so it's a bit difficult to go out an…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 09:11 PM
1

Mystery method. My game is rusty, but I've been here for almost 5 years and only recently decided to read it. I've got 2 chapters left but it's full of rp ideas so far and has a good step by step guide of the whole process at a good level of abstraction.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 06:27 PM
2

More strategically than tactically. I think it's a good resource for perspective on game, and good for developing an optimistic attitude. I find it's lesson and Roissy's Commandments to be a good bookmark to keep.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 05:27 PM
4

The mystery method if you wanna buy, otherwise google The Roissy Reader and The Book of Pook.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 03:50 PM
3

That feeling is you putting them on the pedestal.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:26 PM
3

No such thing as a 10, if you're ranking girls as 10's you've got them on the pedestal. It's easier said than done, but you need to remove that 'fuck she's hot' instinct when you look at a girl, you can act with rational self-interest when you don't care whether they come or go.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:25 PM
2

Women are all about theor reputation. Take away the threat of people she knows finding out she was being a hoe and there you go.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:25 AM
1

You've got some really pinpoint information, but in my experience with perfectionism and anxiety a good idea is to step back and get some perspective. Pick one hobby, make it work. I recommend the gym and maybe build up to some 5k's, but it's your call. It's really important for you to celebrate every small victory. This is absolutely key. You need to be your own biggest fan in all this, figure out how you want to live your life, think about what you really care about deep down and don't conside…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:00 AM
3

It's true. I'd love it if my LTR would think freely, but the reality is she'll follow the in-crowd influencers on instagram, buy the makeup and clothes they promote, pay for their half-baked gym programs and believe eating x food will make you lose weight, rinse, repeat for each new trend. We all do it, we've all got irrationalities that we have to watch, but women don't want to keep their irrationalities in check. They dont want to be rational, they dont care about it at all. They don't even kn…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 01:42 PM
2

n count 2 ... Incredible sex Lol sorry guy, one of the above is a lie.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 10:55 AM
1

But it's not. The problem with the wage gap is the concept itself. Just looking at the numbers and saying 'x sub-group is underpaid' is lazy and misrepresentative. We need to look at the factors behind it. The market rewards assertive negotiation and job-hopping with more money. Usually women arent good at this and as such get rewarded (with money) less. Imo, it's much more likely that we've bred a generation of faggotboys who can't keep their options open and demand to be payed what they're wor…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:27 PM
1

Don't overthink it. 9/10 times you ask yourself if you really give a fuck about the situation, you don't. It gets pretty straightforward after that. Be cold.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 10:40 AM
1

Exactly. It's not that anybody wants it to be like this, but you'll waste your time trying to conquer it. Morality is a subjective concept anyway.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 10:35 AM
5

There's always gonna be objectively better guys, if thats what you take away from the post as the reason she left then you're fucked. The point of this place is to focus on what we can do ourselves - Mark has low self esteem, allowed himself to be walked over instead of putting a bitch in her place and broke Briffault's law. Thats why she jumped ship - she'll jump to the best ship thats passing, obviously, but she was gonna jump one way or the other because Mark never exhibited the kind of attit…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 12:03 PM
1

Even if you are marrying her for some strange reason, your game doesn't change. You're vetting her for quality by your own definition - sluts are probably low value. If you're always thinking about the payoff and whether it'll be 2 dates, 3 dates etc. then you're acting outcome dependent.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 01:34 PM
3

Lol about that art thing - art is about being able to get outside yourself and make comparisons between the human experience and the themes you choose to talk about.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 01:22 PM
0

The light switch effect describes how you'll be remembered as a cunt who only did cunty things after your LTR breaks up, no matter what the reality actually was. It's an ego preservation mechanism. Lets say somehow that her not texting him means she's snagged a big daddy alpha and she's forgotten about him in 24-48 hours - she's bipolar, thats not normal.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 02:01 AM
5

After a day? Jesus Christ men get a grip.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:57 PM
3

The Rational Male has like a 6 part series, under year one I think.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:21 PM
3

Text 1: "Good, talk soon" Few days later Text 2: "Hey, lets do x at y o'clock" It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you don't give a fuck, notice her flaws and just be comfortable and enjoy yourself. You shouldn't be worried about how your game will turn out - i.e. be aloof and outcome independant.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:19 PM
5

Sounds like she used her work to post-hoc rationalise her resentment towards you. I'm not sure money matters as much as your attitude - never been involved with a masculine girl though.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 09:00 PM
3

Game will always trump muscles.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 01:49 AM
0

Nope, they're putting themselves on the pedestal, something worthwhile.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 09:42 PM
1

Could mean anything, don't worry about it. You're way better off to ignore it and bump into her in person again than to read too much into it.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:25 PM
2

Don't be furious, don't lose the rag, but make sure she knows it's unacceptable. Strike one.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:20 PM
1

Stupid question, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:14 PM
1

It's not cut and dry, some women will open you if they're interested, but that's a mini red flag for me. If you want options, you can't wait for them to come to you.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 02:37 PM
6

All fours, wow. I've read some of your other comments and your numbers are good, a bit better than mine if they're true. At those numbers I doubt you're worried about any individual girl, but I still feel that the idea worships pussy in a general sense. If thats your goal, spreadsheet away like fuck, but if that's your goal, you're on the wrong path. I've always found that the less effort I put into women, the better I got on.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 01:35 AM
14

If it works for you, great, but if you're putting this much effort into 'getting better' with women then you've still got pussy on the pedestal. I've never found that the problem with my game was efficiency or measurement, it was not having balls, not being an asshole, not having a big enough social circle, not loosening up and giving too much of a fuck. Personally, taking a spotlight to my game hindered it. IMO an excel spreadsheet is the last thing you need to bang bitches.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 08:51 PM
5

Just stop giving a fuck, it's not hard. I know everyone loves new content here and any attempt at it is fair enough, but thats all there is to this. Be the uncaring asshole.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 10:44 PM
6

They want both. You can buy your way into a relationship, but never into respect.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 04:50 PM
1

Sidebar reference.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:26 PM
4

You can never stop playing the game, you can only choose to win or lose.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:25 PM
3

You're not far away. If you get that zen asshole-in-the-moment vibe you're good. If you're being an asshole to provoke a reaction, you're outcome dependent, and you're sunk. https://www.google.com/amp/s/heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/27/being-the-right-kind-of-asshole/amp/
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 12:16 PM
1

If thats what you're in it for, but it's not the point of OP's quote.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:50 PM
-4

I'm not salty, each to their own. I'm saying that an excellent physique doesn't automatically mean discipline & dedication.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:49 PM
2

True, but the natural lifter definitely puts in more effort to get to the same place.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:00 PM
1

I don't understand how you're spinning 3 plates and also having trouble with this decision. I think somethings not quite right here. But if you're being honest, do whatever you want man, you've apparently got options.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:14 PM
2

When people box themselves into a type, 9/10 times it's a buffer. There is no post-wall game, post-wall game is easy mode and who wants to game chicks like that anyway. I'm in this for young, hot chicks, not leather handbags, wby? Money, imo, is a multiplier. Beta with money = open wallet, alpha with money = status affirming. Money's unnecessary, but you can make it work for you if you use it right i.e. on yourself, but don't be cheap.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:11 PM
-11

Or your commitment to sticking needles in your ass.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:04 PM
2

Common sense lol
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:13 PM
2

Be creative, there's never not a place to smash.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:39 PM
1

Weeks? Lower your standard s man, you're pricing yourself out of the SMV. Where do you live?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:37 PM
3

Classic sexual disqualification of a rival.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:36 PM
2

The medium is the message, champ. Move on.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:28 PM
1

How?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:27 PM
3

Lol just tell her they're gone
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:26 PM
-3

Your point?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:25 PM
1

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/the-aloof-alpha-attitude-explained/
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:24 PM
1

Just an addendum, just cause her pussy was all YESH, that doesn't mean her brain is too. 90% of the time girls have no idea what they actually want, thats why they react so well when you tell them what they want. Sounds brutal, definitely works.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:21 PM
1

Just go be dominant, thinking this hard about it is bollocks. Being a man means that you get to define what dominant means to you, not giving a fuck if you're wrong, recalibrating and moving on if you are. Go do that.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:17 PM
1

You probably don't, you can encourage things but thats as far as it goes really. Unfortunately family falls under the 'things you can't control' category - focus on yourself, you'll probably have a hard enough time getting past the crabs in a bucket scenario with your dad letalone unplugging him.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:36 PM
11

The hypergamy talk on Joe Rogan was almost awkward at times, I think he was keeping tight lipped.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:29 PM
3

It doesn't matter who they are, actions not words. I had a bpd (undiagnosed) plate a few years ago who used to throw huge tantrums at times, waterworks, "you're a cunt" etc., acting cunty in front of people. Shortly after she realised that I wasn't going to give in, it always stopped. It's weird. It's so believable too, chicks like that are fucking maneaters.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 09:36 PM
10

Nobody ever said that working 40 hours a week was a bad idea. If you love it, fantastic, go work 60 hours then. The point is to do what you want to do and don't apologise for it. If you spend upwards of 40% of your time hating how you spend it you're not gonna be happy - I don't think that money solves that but I've not been consistently payed stupid money so that's just my 2c. Personally it doesn't matter how hard I work, spending my time well energises me, spending it poorly tires me.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 10:27 PM
2

I'll add Epictetus' Enchiridion to this list!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 02:31 PM
1

You can't just throw that comment out there without recommending any books or sources of knowledge that you claim transcends the modern day bullshit. Also, I'll have two alpha soaps in pussy pink please & thx xx
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 02:30 PM
1

Girls opening you is them standing near you and waiting for you to open them. It gives them plausible deniability because 'they were just standing there.'
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:43 PM
3

It's a frame grab - you did fine. Stay indifferent, completely stoic. Ever see the friends episode where the guy keeps sayong "okay" to Rachel?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:38 PM
1

Played sports well, was somewhat aggressive and had some social proof in high school. Natural confidence borne out of naivete, alpha when single, beta when in ltr.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:35 PM
1

Be cocky as fuck and see how far you can get.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 09:32 PM
1

Not your job, not something you can control, therefore jot your concern.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:07 PM
2

Testosterone stays at peak levels well past the late teens.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 02:35 PM
1

I think most people know this is bullshit, most of these myths depend on men cooperating or humouring them.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 02:34 PM
3

The Olympics is right now motherfuckers.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 11:59 AM
1

Cut.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:44 PM
1

Yes. 100% absolutely - mutual friends is a great ice breaker. Your girl friends will also try to set you up. Contrary to what a lot of people will spout on here, you can be friends with a girl and not be being used. You don't have to be fucking every girl you interact with regularly, and a guy with no girl 'aquaintances' comes across as kinda weird.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:40 PM
14

Learn the difference between overt and covert communication, she knows where her house is.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:38 PM
1

True - if there isn't a straightforward answer to "whats in it for me?" then you usually shouldn't do it.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 10:31 PM
6

You're in with a better chance of 'winning' her back by being stoic and moving on than you are by initiating contact.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 10:29 PM
3

The Enchiridion is great too, you could read it in a day and it's pure stoic gold. There isn't a useless sentence in the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 09:41 AM
1

Do both, watch your shoulders. Do rows and pullups.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 11:36 AM
1

To an extent, too much planning is anxiety. I think that if you're already thinking about what to say then you care too much. Honestly go in with complete acceptance that it could go nowhere, and enjoy yourself first and foremost. Things rarely go according to plan anyway, just go with the flow - boys and girls are supposed to procreate anyway without all this 'game' stuff.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 05:20 PM
3

I'm not an expert here man, but it seems to me that you can't always be fucking 2+ girls. Be okay with having none for a while, it's really not a big deal and if you're focusing on yourself then you'll be fine with it. If you're not okay with having no girls then you're depending on pussy for happiness. Biggest no no here. ATM I have one long term plate, it's fine, I'm not tied down at all. But oneitis is always something to be aware of.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:17 PM
2

Relax man. You don't have to plan for every outcome, you seem terrified of failure and IMO that will hold you back. This stuff works better when you can use it in the moment, so practice that. Don't be so outcome dependent - I'd recommend flicking through Epictetus' Enchiridion for that. ​ Do exactly what you want to do, be okay with her not liking you for being you - otherwise you're seeking her validation, which she controls the flow of, so your success condition is based on something you have…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:09 PM
12

Comfort test rather than shit test. Contextually dependent, but she's in your frame here. Tease her if you want to engage more, or just say you're busy, then hit her up when you're free.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:02 PM
2

You just move on. There's no guide, just completely forget about it. You don't suffer the past, it doesn't exist anymore. You suffer your memory.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:58 AM
2

Overthinking. Reply to organise something else when you're home or on the way home.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:51 AM
1

Recently read Epictetus' The Enchiridion - 50 odd maxims, read it in a day. Pure gold so far for managing anxiety and gaining perspective. I'd recommend it to anyone here. That book and a little meditation are all you really need afaic.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 10:05 AM
1

But you want a higher smv in order to exercise your sexual desire yes? But with higher quality women than you can currently get. So your goal, eventually, is still pussy.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:40 PM
2

Listen to your balls, do it the way you want to. You need to be assertive, lead the interactions. She'll tell you if she's not into something and it's never a big deal so push boundaries all the time and you'll surprise yourself.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:47 PM
1

Ding ding ding!
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:42 PM
2

Buffer.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:39 PM
1

Whenever they want, assuming they have the experience to know what they want.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:39 PM
3

Wouldn't have responded. Second one seems like a compliance test, next and explore other options. Top comment has it pretty well sussed.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:39 PM
1

Approach more so you learn the difference yourself. Experience >>> theory.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:33 PM
6

Whats the point in waiting? You could die tomorrow. Whats the point in getting a gf? You're missing the point. A gf is the icing on the cake. The cake is your awesome life as you define it. Lift, approach, do whatever the fuck you want to do & be good at it. The rest will fall into place, including the gf thing. If thats your goal then you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:32 PM
20

Next. Iron Rule of Tomassi #whatever: if she makes you wait, it's never worth the wait.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:20 PM
1

Let her come to you, if she's interested she will.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:19 PM
3

I'm 5'8" - the less you care the less everybody cares.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:17 PM
1

Don't worry about it if you're dealing with it. Don't depend on it.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:16 PM
2

Been there man, you're heading for anxiety issues if you ask me, you're already having anxiety attacks. Whats the point in winning if you can never enjoy it? The self is always shining through, as they say, and I've found that if you're always trying to be 'alpha', trying to hold onto that idea of yourself, then you'll never get it. Let go, it gets way easier when you stop beating yourself up about everything. Perfect is boring.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 11:38 AM
5

Even if this is true, you've just bragged for 500 words. What am I supposed to take away from this?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 11:31 AM
1

After they're on the hook, yes
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 11:27 AM
1

The focus must always be on you, it's the same as anything else - if pussy is the goal then it's on the pedestal and you're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 11:25 AM
20

True, but his writings are anti-totalitarian. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater because Orwell leant a certain way politically. I'd also expect that 1940's socialism was a lot different to the short-blue-haired disaster people equate it with today.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 04:11 PM
7

Assuming this is true - she doesn't value either of these guys. They're both beta bucks, one just actually has the bucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 04:45 PM
1

You have to decide for yourself what it is, but it seems like it to me.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:52 PM
1

You're orbiting man. She flakes, leaves you on open, and you want to LTR her? You have zero abundance, or self respect by the looks of things. ​ You asked her 'are you interested?', overtly - big mistake. All she's thinking is - this guy has no options, I wonder what I can get him to do tee hee. You hoe'd your attention out for a whiff of the pussy. I'm not trying to be a dick here, I'm serious. Forget about pussy and go start lifting and putting yourself first, the pussy will find you when you'…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 08:56 PM
1

Turn 'this girl' into 'these girls'.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:44 PM
1

Sure you can
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:43 PM
6

Next.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:41 PM
1

Get more sleep, stop eating shit food, see a doctor. By realising nothing matters so I can do whatever the fuck I think will make me happy. Yep, but then they stepped their game up. Stop giving a fuck, do what you want, stop caring about anything except yourself until you're happy.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:39 PM
1

She's gonna get hurt regardless if she's going overt. Power play. Literally reply 'ok'.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:36 PM
2

Slooooooooooooots.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:31 PM
2

I read your title and scrolled through an essay. Way too much effort spent on a girl who warranted ghosting in the first place.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:28 PM
1

Text. For. Logistics.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:24 PM
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Radio silence. If she gets back to you, cool, if not, cool. Don't worry about the semantics of your texts so much, besides saying less than you need to. You can have an abundance mentality by having lots of girls, but I've found it's more sustainable to have an abundance mentality built on being fine with having no girls.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:20 PM
1

Buffers.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:12 PM
1

Can attest to the shitstorm you could end up in if you don't pay attention to red flags and get too deep too fast. It's never gonna be a bad idea to take your time getting into a relationship, if thats where you want to go. Bear in mind what an LTR is though - you're limiting your options, you're getting into a contract with a woman for exchange of sex and your time for the foreseeable future - see Briffaults law for why this is a bad idea. You're entering her frame, and to some degree relinquis…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 06:46 PM
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Asking a girl to do something during the day isn't a beta move. I don't think you were ever alpha fucks - if you were she'd have jumped at the chance to spend time with you - and I think this chick is a hoe and you absolutely dodged a bullet. Who sucks dick but isn't dtf? Doesn't add up.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 06:27 PM
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Oh, thats so similar to the quarantine statement I didnt realise it was a separate message.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:05 PM
7

So have the administration responded at all?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:01 PM
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"We talked most of the night" - apply the sidebar before you post again. Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 12:22 PM
4

Your first point is wrong. If a small arbitrary % of all males reproduce then all males may be 'genetic alphas', but only a small arbirtary % of those will then reproduce. That's evolution. For all the purple pills Jordan P throws out, he got the Pareto principle well. Check it out. Also, I've read as far as your first point. You're frame is that the stuff here isn't necessarily the truth, it just works. But to be honest almost everything here is the truth because it works. It all sounds really …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 06:44 PM
2

Just shave it off if it gets too bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 12:59 PM
3

It's like learning to ride a bike. Training wheels facilitate movement at the start, but whenyou see that you can balance on two wheels by yourself you can stop relying on the training wheels.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 12:54 PM
1

I think that game is really situation dependent. You're framing it like you're already sold on the idea of sleeping with her, even though it's cocky and funny she's still the chooser. The guys I know who spit that just throw enough shit at the wall, but when it works, you know immediately.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 02:35 PM
6

A best friend since my dog ran wway
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 02:27 PM
1

Copied rps's comment cause formatting. I'll start with some of my favorite answers: For those new to shit tests, the goal is to agree and amplify. I have a boyfriend "Cool, can I meet him" Buy me a drink "Buy me two drinks" I bet you say that to all the girls "Only the nice ones" How many girls have you slept with? "No idea wby" - fast, pressure flip Will you watch my drink while I dance / bathroom / etc? As rps said, have it half drunk by the time she returns, but be talking to another girl. I'…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 01:27 PM
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I got a serious wake up call at the weekend. I fell back into old bad habits and payed the price. I always thought Roissy was harsh but with the reflecting I've been doing I don't think he is anymore. Deep down I know it's true. To be honest I hate it, swallowing the pill the second time is much harder, but there really is no going back.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:43 PM
1

Usually only when I'm gaming the party in question, not the case in either situation here.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:12 PM
8

If it was a guy you'd tell him to fuck off, this is no different.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 10:59 AM
1

Not react.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:33 PM
1

A comfort test is still her trying to get you to react in some way.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:31 AM
3

Masculine style is pretty basic, keep it simple, less is more, function over form. Imo don't put in so much effort, it's feminine and people can tell. Fit is the most important thing. Accessories should be minimal, not flashy or in your face. Be subtle. Do the simple things right. PUA guys talk about peacocking but imo thats just attention seeking. If I saw a guy doing that I'd think he was a fag straight up, especially if he was doing it just to get women.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 04:06 PM
5

Cut her out because a) she told you, in detail, about her escapades with someone else, so she's manipulative. b) you're obviously still raw so you don't need this chick in your life right now, focus on uni instead. Next!
/r/askTRP06/10/18 03:44 PM
3

Trying to break through LMR isn't worth it. Watch her actions, but you can't be a retard in this, always err on the side of caution. I don't think this is the kind of thing we should be recommending because you can't assume that someone on r/asktrp has the social nuance not to fuck it up and end up with a police report. There's a difference between a 'no, I'm a good girl' and a 'no, please stop', it's all in the subtext and you'll feel it at the time, but I reiterate - don't push it. It's not wo…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 02:24 PM
2

True, but if it's a power play treating it like a comfort test isn't going to help. If it's a comfort test treating it like a powerplay is an unnecessary hard next. The subtext could also be "I'm done here but I need you to look like the bad guy."
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:33 PM
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Been there. I was making sex way too important to myself and my self image. It's a mix of anxiety and ego. My thought process was: "If I don't blow this chick's mind I'm a beta and I've wasted the past 4 years." I was reading stories on the main sub that bragged about sexual performance/validation and if I didnt beat those guys I was worthless. It changed when I fucked a chick or two I didnt really care about, so wasnt worried about what she thought, lad was up no bother, lasted as long as I wan…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:03 PM
1

How do you know it's not smv slipping or a power play?
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:44 PM
0

The fact that you're trying to solve a problem you're having with one particular girl instead of exercising your options implies that you have no other options. Go get some.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:42 PM
3

A list of traits isn't going to help you much, go out and make mistakes until you can answer this question on your own. That being said, probably this https://www.therationalmale.com/2014/11/14/mental-point-of-origin/amp/ And stoicism.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:39 AM
3

Maybe he did, maybe he didn't. There's no evidence of anything at the minute, he's innocent until proven guilty.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 04:35 PM
1

If they're getting a deal of some sort I'm sure it comes with a gag clause.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 04:29 PM
7

The notion that we have to refer to ourselves as 'the movement' is absurd, we're just vilified by the rest of the platform and the lazy media that pander to the "minorities can't be racist" demographic to make $$$. This is genuinely the right conversation to have for the sake of society in general.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 03:27 PM
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Michael Kimmel currently under investigation for sexual harassment. Obviously there's due process and burden of proof to be considered, but if he's convicted.. Jesus christ Reddit, what a train wreck that would be. Endorsing a rapist as an example of positive masculinity to a sub that you claim is full of misogynists, it would be funny if it wasn't so fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 03:07 PM
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The definition of facepalm. With all the new members here some of the message will inevitably get lost, but when I first found this place the point that was always hammered home when someone asked for advice was that life isn't about women, it's not about sex, it's about you. It's not a coincidence that when we start preaching that men should focus on themselves instead of women they lose their shit. Sex is the only carrot they have to dangle on the stick, and we're telling the betas not to chas…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 02:51 PM
12

There's a balance to be struck though, noobs here need to err on the side of diving in head first - analysis paralysis is real.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 07:59 AM
1

Been there. Whats the next step from this?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 09:33 PM
2

It can change though, but I think there's a window for how long you can easily inspire that kind of 'I wanna be your girlfriend' work rate without taking a break for a while.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 09:32 PM
2

What do you make of Russia's links to The_Donald?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 08:23 PM
11

She does say she spent her twenties chasing assholes .. my nice guy waited blah blah but yeah, the outburst at the end is weirdly sexual and immature. Doesn't help the whole quarantine fiasco.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 06:56 PM
3

Betas gonna beta.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 06:52 PM
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Someone's gotta be the arrogant one, she's in your frame or you're in hers.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 06:52 PM
1

I used to think like you, then I stopped giving a fuck and things got so much better. Less anxiety, easier relationships (platonic & romantic) mainly. You'durprised how little that 'fighting down your.. biological ... directive' attitude makes a difference. It made me take life waaay too seriously which dried up all the panties around me. I'm below average height, above average build, around average looks wise, for the record.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 05:00 PM
11

You were giving advice fuckhead, not practising your stand up routine.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:43 PM
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Keep your friends out of the gym incase they make something of themselves? Christ OP thats one of the most faggoty things I've ever heard.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 12:54 PM
3

Great, the dollar to rupee exchange rate must be excellent atm
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 10:42 PM
3

This post is suspiciously highly upvoted for such a basic trp message. It's not new or creative, and apparently there's been bloops brigading the comments which makes it even more suspicious. What gives?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 09:24 PM
1

As another poster said - he builds better betas. He's 100% rational and doesnt consider the utility of Machavellianism.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 09:05 PM
2

Here's some non-fiction!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 01:51 PM
2

The books are easily accessible, ergo they don't make valid points. Lol. Grace us with your complex philosophical genius then, Homer.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 07:03 PM
3

Yep, absolutely, I'm all for a free market and control over what you own. As long as they can say 'hey we're stopping you guys discussing shit because we just don't like it, and would rather exist in our own bubble'. Fair enough. I can only speak for myself and say the sidebar, the EC's and big writers in the manosphere generally hit the nail on the head. There are definitely people who don't like the message, and don't have to, free country etc. but for a lot of the people subbed here it's a ne…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 11:39 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with leftist ideas/ideals, the problem is the self righteous bigotry and the manner in which the ideas are put a across. In Ireland we're still sort of safe, but if you say you're conservative or right leaning in certain places then you're ostracised - a second class citizen almost.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 08:42 AM
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Oh no, here come the radical left, quasi-faacist bullshitters haha
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 10:52 PM
2

Jesus, we're not seriously getting into a 'not if I ban you first' scenario. This is just a way to hold a mirror up to the admins to show how hypocritical it would be to decide to follow through with the ban. Good tactic. We have backup forums anyway. The information is what's important, not the medium. Fuck Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 07:57 PM
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Already done!
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 05:58 PM
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Surely this is a thought exercise more than anything. I couldn't give a fuck about the rest of reddit as long as they stop trying to illegitimately shut down legitimate discourse.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 05:56 PM
3

What do you want us to do? Point out your every flaw so that you can cross them off the list one by one and be A.L.P.H.A? Doesn't work like that. You have to take your head out of your ass and build yourself up so that you know you're valuable. Monk for a month. Read Illimitable Men's how to monk and The Rational Male book 1. Check out married red pill sub. Don't come back until you've got some self respect. It will come, though. This isn't an overnight process either. Also, don't take anyone th…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 04:19 PM
3

So you meet hb10 (lol) with a string of red flags, give her free attention while she rides the carousel, she then (wait for it) CHEATS (gasps from the audience) and you get butthurt because she lied to you. You didn't even cut the cord properly. Jesus Christ man this isn't teacher tales, it's orbiter tales. Read the sidebar. Edit: from your comments at least you seem to be aware how fucked up of a situation you let this develop into. Be a good man and completely cut contact. What's in it for you…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 04:06 PM
2

Vaginal Egalitarianism haha great.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 09:06 PM
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It's almost like the author is rationalising something haha
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 08:46 PM
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Comedy is different because juxtaposition is a device, but I get you. Matt Groening, whether he's aware of it or not, is the biggest feminist shitebag I've come across yet. The shows were funny to be fair, but the character development and subtext just screams Cultural Marxism. A Handmaid's Tale, Jesus Christ, it's propaganda. I've only watched the pilot and heard a few things but it's fairly obvious where that's going. There's a weird undercurrent of jealousy of the fertile. Something something…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 08:43 PM
2

Jesus Christ, that's a bit shit, but pretty hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 10:08 PM
4

As V said, set boundaries clearly, if boundaries are crossed, withdraw. Can't control a bitch, all you can do is hold frame and maintain your self-respect.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:01 PM
2

The growth of the subreddit accelerates and introduces new members, more 'plugged in' opinions are shared and upvoted. It was always going to happen. However, if someone can't swallow the pill and take off the training wheels after reading the sidebar, some of Rollo's blog posts, some of IM's blog posts or Pook's stuff then there's no hope for them. There's ample information in the 'sphere to get anyone to grow a set of balls and stand or their own two feet, figuratively speaking. Anyone who wan…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:19 PM
2

https://illimitablemen.com/the-library/books-for-men/
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 06:57 PM
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As you've said, the focus must be on you. Don't sit wondering 'what would be fun, what would she like to do'? That's bullshit that puts the focus on the girl and bases your happiness and success on external circumstances. Do your own thing, trust yourself to have your own fun and if anybody's not into it, fine, they don't have to take part. There's no guarantee that she will enjoy what you enjoy, but if she doesn't - great. Now you can part ways and spend time having fun with someone more suited…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:23 AM
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I'd argue that they're not feminist because they're developing, religious, and poorer countries - this correlates with high birth rates. Feminism and all the rest of the collectivist/hyper-intellectual hive mind becomes an option when the country gets rich and people have to find purpose when they don't have to work. It's like when you transcend Maslow's heirarchy of needs and need to fill your day with absolutely anything.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 10:04 PM
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He speaks a lot of truth, but he's contantly telling people what he thinks they ought to do with his information instead of laying out facts and allowing people to do what they want. Listen to him and Joe Rogan talk about hypergamy - he hates being pushed on it. It's either weakness in the media spotlight or blue pill ideology coming through, none of which I respect. 'Be a strong man so you can get married, raise a family etc'. is blue pill. 'Be a strong man so you can live life on your own term…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 07:48 PM
1

A woman's love, respect and loyalty is some of the most valuable things in the world. You lost me here. Somebody's failing a macro level compliance test too, it seems. Extrapolate on this, why are those things valuable, letalone a rare commodity? There is no real loyalty - if you shit the bed you'll be punished. Respect is all within an individual relationship but pedestalizing pussy either itself or pedestalizing it through this 'Chad' deity does more harm than good - why do I want women's resp…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:40 PM
1

Everyone should read the gym post at the top of the becomeaman sub, it's pure, simple gold.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 10:15 PM
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A1. I noticed the confidence start to come back with running, not lifting. When you start to be better than your peers in football/soccer/rugby because you're fitter AND stronger than them it's golden. Also, be fucking competitive, there's a load of buddhist/Alan Watts esque shit that sounds pretty and might soothe your anxiety slightly, but you're probably anxious because you're not competing at the top. Go get mad, use that anger to make yourself better than the pack. See how anxious you are r…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:11 PM
1

I don't agree with the last line. Women will lie about it but to say that by default there are no legitimate sexual assaults is wrong imo. You could say what you said about absolutely anything - 'there are no aliens unless there are.' - obviously. Nobody here thinks women are angels but part of the journey is letting go pf the bitterness.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 04:37 PM
1

The best way to learn is to get burned by the stove. Lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 04:27 PM
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The thing is they don't owe you anything, it's up to you to be someone she's afraid to lose. It's not loyalty at all, it's fear.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 03:31 AM
2

I see. Check out Rogans podcast with GSP's trainer.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 07:30 PM
1

True, but thats the same for every exercise. Didnt see face pull, good exercise if done with the elbows high. Klokovs probably have a good ROM but I'd worry about recommending it to someone before they're got a good understanding of regular OHP. Cool, any difference in gains with your rep sheme over 5 x 5?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 06:54 PM
1

Tbh this journey has always been about my own happiness, and part of that is accepting that nothing lasts forever - insert Buddhist broken glass story. You can't control individual people, you can only put yourself in the best position and let the cards fall where they may. If you read that science post that hit the front page yesterday you'll understand that the lightswitch appears to happen when someone better comes along. If you can't get any better than you already are then you're fucked lad…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 05:02 PM
1

Well of you're sure that theres nothing more you can do nobody here can help you. Well done, enjoy your success.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 03:18 PM
1

And what? He'll be as heavy and much stronger. Get to the same volume/weight as before but at 12% bf, it makes zero difference to what I'm saying.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 02:32 PM
1

But wheres the fun in that if you're not 10th prestige in every COD made?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:45 PM
1

Why not weigh the same but at 12% bf?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:32 PM
2

You really think that 80% of the time any guy waits 4-6 months and contacts an ex they bang? If they bang it's not because of some weird rule, pickup isn't maths.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 12:05 PM
2

Surely you're more useful to the team if you're muscular not fat?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 12:03 PM
2

Top 20% - no abundance. I don't buy it. Just go get another girl. It's the best way to recover from the lightswitch anyway - you've just communicated that if she's a bitch you'll go find a girl who's not a bitch to sit on your dick instead BECAUSE YOU CAN. People are only ever dicks when they think they can get away with it, but their 'getting away with it' scenario doesn't necessarily include you.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 12:02 PM
1

Needs more core/abs and some rotator cuff work for bench. Chin ups are optional for the weak. What lifts are historically maintained by 5 x 5 rep schemes?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 11:54 AM
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There's no trick. You either want to do it or you die lonely with your video games.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 11:41 AM
2

I don't think there are any cheat codes. Hard work pays off, be masculine, be tough, be the prize. It all seems to be just grinding and learning.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 03:10 PM
0

If you understand them you'll never love them.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 03:07 PM
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Patience isn't passive. It's working hard and understanding the results will come. If you're honest with yourself and work hard then eventually you will succeed. Inaction is waiting for shit to fall into your lap.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 01:52 PM
2

Try lifting a dumbell forward, to the side and backward. If one of those hurt or are weak then thats an issue. I had an overhead impingement and a weak lat raise on that side. Strengthened external rotators and started back at 2.5kg lat raises and it's 80% back to normal.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:36 PM
1

Make sure its not a calf weakness issue.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:17 PM
1

Find out which shoulder raise gives you bother, look up the right exercise to strengthen whatever part of your rotator cuff is weak. Weakness might not be the issue though, a good PT will figure it out. Don't carry on doing exercises that hurt more than 2-3/10 on the pain scale. Start with light weights. No idea about the knee.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:16 PM
2

It's straight from the book of pook. Check it out, it cuts through a lot of the bullshit surrounding 'game'. Goldmine for inner game.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 12:59 PM
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The start reads like excuses, like it or not wearing shoe slips to make you taller will get you laughed at (I'm 5'8" barefoot and would laugh at someone doing that) - your last point said to accept yourself yet you're advocating wearing slips? hamster spinning intensifies. Taller guys are stronger, more physically imposing - they're just fucking bigger. It implies more masculinity (implies is the key word here), probably a bigger dick but why are you worried about some other man's todger? Chicks…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:49 AM
4

Be a guy. Do guy stuff. Join a sports team or martial arts. Don't try to hard, don't care what people think, just be natural about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 02:49 PM
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Why are you trying to fill awkward silences? Who says they're awkward? Be the prize to be impressed, kid. Your reality is the dominant reality, if you think it will be awkward then it will be. If you think it's fine it'll be fine. If you relax and accept that discomfort the other person will usually say something. If you assume that you're the one to be impressed then you'll do well.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 02:46 PM
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I'd recommend the Book of Pook, lays out the truth and won't make you bitter. In the meantime - lift, be grateful that you found out your ex's true nature, learn from the experience and move on. Edit: Dude you really need to grow some balls. Try Rollo's 'kill the beta' post. You sound hopeless but there's a light at the end of the tunnel and the sooner you stop feeling sorry for yourself and start doing something productive the sooner this shit turns around.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 04:08 PM
2

The key to this whole thing is in one line: A well off neighbourhood (a step above ours). Hypergamy don't care, bitches, so why should you. Think about the life this retard threw away because someone a bit better came along.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 02:03 PM
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It's about balance, if you've hit the gym, done yohr run and nailed your calories i dont see a problem with an hoyr of vg here and there. A day of Fortnite however..
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 01:14 PM
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Idea: women try to make you lose control to test your masculinity, we know this. That model permeates everything in intersexual dynamics. It's the chaos and order part of Jordan Peterson's ideas. It's why it's embarrassing to cum too fast or be overly emotional. It's why men give each other shit and why they respect pro athletes and soldiers. Everyone is trying to break you to see what you're made of. I think as well that we look down on overly defensive people because they're afraid to be hones…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:44 PM
1

Look at the fitness sub's guides. Basically - whole foods, lots of protein, enough fat, no sugar, enough sleep, workout 3-4 times/week with a good program that works for you. Starting Strength is a famous book for beginners to the gym, check out defranco's limber 11 for prehab/warmup.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 02:02 PM
1

Nope. Closest thing is the red pill handbook. Just take your time and read the sidebar, it's not a race.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 01:57 PM
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Should be on asktrp, but before it's removed - forget about it, the medium is the message. You could give her another go if she reaches out but I wouldn't give a fuck, NEXT!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 01:08 PM
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I think the attitudes reflected here have always been around, we're just pragmatic when it comes to relationships. If some other model of intersexual dynamics explained the way things work more effectively then we'd be on that, we're observing a system and figuring it out. People talk about trp as if we created this world to be dicks to women, whereas 90% of the people here started out blue pill by default and figured it doesn't work. Online forums like this are the result of the collective tryi…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 06:46 PM
2

You've been here a lot longer than me, but 'control' is exactly what we all tried to do in our beta relationships. If a girl isn't up to your expectations - NEXT. Thats why you have two in the kitty, thats why we talk about abundance mentality. Possessing your girl was weak. The only thing making me doubt myself here is your handle, so tell me if I'm missing something - lead by example, have boundaries and be the kind of person she's scared to lose if she breaks them, yeah, but tell me where you…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 07:39 PM
2

Gonna chime in, other people have written out a summary of 'How to Win Friends and Influence People', but you have to add value, full stop. Be really good at something, sports or music usually are a safe bet. Be able to hold your own in a fight. Don't be a lick ass but don't be rude to authority. Stop giving a fuck about what your class thinks, talk to people, don't try too hard (important), stand up for yourself - don't take shit and don't break frame when you're challenged. You can't make peop…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 11:03 AM
1

Thats up to you, you've heard my 2c. But even though you heard it here, there's no guarantees it's going to work out, go figure out how not to need the forum. Experience beats theory 9.9/10 times.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:38 PM
1

Do whatever you think, I wouldn't give the ultimatum and stop giving attention to these girls because you're undervaluing your time. If you're happy with a girl 'caving in' then go for it, but in my experience you'll always know it's not genuine. When I was in your position that knowledge ate me up inside, genuine desire wasn't there and I had to next. This is recent enough too, I've had contact since but it's her trying to recreate her frame. Also, you said 'not get blow jobs again' - thats abs…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:02 PM
7

Been here. Next. Pick up new plates from the two you should have in the kitty. Whether you want to admit it or not, you're not AF for these girls. You're probably not BB, but you're not where you need to be. It sucks, but let it light a fire under your ass. Mistake 1: Overt Communication. You went full retard. You broke frame when you tried to negotiate a blow job. You cant logic a girl, they don't work that way. You can't negotiate attraction. Mistake 2: Controlling behaviour/mindset. You can't…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:54 AM
1

What difference would it make if you actually had sex? How can she remember that you 'fooled around' but 'blacked out'?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:39 AM
3

Start lifting, do some HIIT, get 8 hours sleep and recheck your diet. Everyone thinks they eat right, shoot for 1g fat/kg bodyweight, <25g sugar, cut refined carbs and 2g protein/kg bodyweight minimum and see how you feel after a few weeks.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 10:23 AM
3

Fuck the haters getting butthurt about your 'ego,' you wouldn't have admitted how pathetic you were if you were truly narcissistic. You've lain out a realistic plan and mindset thats attainable by anyone here and will improve people's lives if implemented, and above all you barely mentioned a woman in the entire post. Question time: you make it sound easy but we all know it's not, what makes it work when you can't pull yourself out of bed or slip up?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 02:08 PM
2

Rollo has a good post on this, if you need more convincing. Short answer is no. Cut contact.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:46 PM
3

Lifting properly for 3/4 years. I look like I work out, but I've had far from a perfect journey. Injuries, getting sick etc. will set you back, and you'll never look in the mirror and say "I'm big enough." Reg Park was apparently natural, look at natural bodybuilding shows - probably your best bet. Unsolicited advice though - warm up properly, stretch properly, sort your form before it becomes a problem - don't fuck about with a heavy barbell, set your calories by how quickly the scale moves and…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 01:15 AM
96

Sex is a lagging indicator. You're probably unhappy because you're shit at life. If you grow a pair of balls, be a man and earn the respect of your social circle (climb the dominance hierarchy eh?), you'll be beating pussy off with both hands. Don't be silly and think that if the world existed of purely bitch-men that women would be any happier to sleep with them than they already are at the minute. Don't do all this shit to get some action. Do it to earn some self respect, be somebody that peop…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 04:37 PM
3

Not as important as you think. In the past I've used every excuse under the sun, I found that if you get out of your own way (disregard confidence, dress sense, game, muscles - all the things here we say are important) during the interaction it goes fine. The worst you'll get is someone politely declining your advances if you're too direct. I suspect that all those things are just indicators of an attractive (read: masculine) man, but without the substance you're still a sheep in wolf's clothing…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:34 PM
10

It's not about what you wear, how good your game is or how confident you are, it's about whether you do it or not. Keep doing and you'll improve. That's the long and the short of it.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 01:41 PM
6

Great post. No bullshit, well documented. I would say get bloods done, check your T levels, sort out all this shit, check bloods again, go for HRT if you need to. Edit: OP, 250ng/L is pretty low, as far as I know the 'acceptable' range was reduced to this from over 300ng/L recently. You should still probably aim for around 800ng/L (?) going off Joe Rogan and the Art of Manliness blog post. Worth a look if you're serious about upping it.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 12:41 AM
2

Don't force your way back with posterior chain injuries. Injured mine in August and I still feel it after v. light deads. Yoga?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:21 PM
6

1) Read the side bar. 2) Apply the info in whatever way works for you. 3) Read the top posts of all time. 4) Step 2. 5) Read the book of pook/roissy reader/ therationalmale. 6) Step 2. You'll manage from there. You learn to run by putting one foot in front of the other, not by reading books about running.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:19 PM
2

Don't wonder, just dive in. It's the only way to really internalise this shit. My game was best when I applied the sidebar in my own way and my LTR went downhill when I spent too much time trying to make it more mathematic. My 2c.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:05 PM
2

Don't overthink it. She's not sitting there going "ugh this guy didn't text me 3.14 times in the last hour." Work on your actual in person game. You're not going to have good game then spas out over text. Have some rules at the start (don't be needy, don't care too much basically) but take your stabilisers off and experiment. There's always another girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:02 PM
3

It's not going to hold true in all cases, it's a trend. No more no less. There is no equation to this shit, it's more an art than a science. It's the same as AWALT - not all women will do exactly the same thing, but enough of them will hold a reasonable trend that if you assume AWALT you'll win long term. It's like playing good poker. Rollo has a post called NAWALT (I think) that will explain this better. We can sit here debating this ad infinitum but you'll get far more out of just talking to a…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 08:57 PM
14

No idea. There's 104 nights out in a year if you work full time. Seems like enough.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 04:46 PM
26

The Pareto principle: they fuck a lot of the same guys.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 02:34 PM
2

I don't want advice, I want an example of where I've broken frame and why so I can learn, and so you can back up your point. If anyone's broken frame here you have. You've resorted to childish insults in place of actually defending your argument at every opportunity. I've been lurking here since the sub was small, I don't post because I think the sidebar and the top of all time posts are adequate. All the best man. Edit: your first Qn. I do. It's my opinion. It's fundamental. It's pretty much th…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 11:28 PM
1

Is it though? It's a post about some beta who got the wool pulled over his eyes. At best it's a 'don't be that guy' that has more bad advice and bravado than good. If this is what we're appreciating now, cool, each to their own, but I can't say I can get behind it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 11:12 PM
0

Okay you win, bravo, 1-0 you, yaaaay! Anyway, as an EC you should understand my point, not wilfully ignore it. My point wasn't that rule number one is xzywhogivesafuck, my point is that talking about the game is 99% bad. It's not the advice you want to give to anyone on here. You stand to gain nothing from it and risk a lot. You can't unplug those who don't want to be unplugged. Remember Law 12: Win through action, never through argument? You also didn't win anything tangible and your counter ar…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 11:05 PM
2

Point out where. If I'm wrong I'm wrong.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 10:11 PM
2

Hey, keep it impersonal, champ. When you argue the man and not the point you make your point seem indefensible.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 09:32 PM
21

Wasnt there a well received post on here lately about not talking about the game, just playing it? So you got drunk and called out some chick's bad behaviour and the whole table bent over for you? I don't buy it. I can't see girls saying "you got us" even if everyone despised that kid. I don't even know what the takeaway is? Call people out? Rule number one of the Red Pill/Matrix - don't talk about it. Even if this is true, all you got is validation. Post after the wedding when you've fucked the…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:53 PM
21

Drop the us against them thing and befriend them (think as you like but behave like others). Use your haters for motivation.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 02:41 PM
11

Why bother with all the drama? What's so special about this girl? Could another girl give you the same without the weirdness and the drugs? That being said, nothing wrong with fucking her, she'll probably be a freak. Fucking drug chicks is playing with fire though.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 02:38 PM
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Then don't be creepy. Chad isn't creepy, and he doesn't have an 'us against them' mentality.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 11:49 PM
2

Guys are creepy because they're scared, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 11:27 PM
10

Jesus, how about use due process and evaluate the evidence without bias. Assuming anything without proof is retarded.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 10:55 PM
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Haha befriending or orbiting? She shouldn't exist to him.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 10:51 PM
3

This started well and got really weird and rambley. Throughout the whole thing you've assumed that women have the self awareness to know exactly what they're doing all of the time - they don't. I don't think anyone does 100% of the time. I think that's why talking about 'the game' doesn't work. You're making her realise how systematic this whole thing is, you're killing the magic and the specialness and the feels for the ego boost of saying 'look at me, I know this shit', and you can't fuck an e…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 07:55 PM
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Maybe I've internalised it, but this is ridiculous. Just stop giving a fuck and work on yourself. If you run around with 15 rules in your head while you're trying to talk to a girl you're pretty much fucked. I would be completely in my own way. You build a frame by being more invested in yourself than in other people. This leads to working on yourself (gym, career, hobbies), abundance mentality (not giving a fuck whether she comes or goes), outcome independence (you do things because YOU want to…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 11:58 PM
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For fuck's sake. How about each man here grow a critical thought process and digest the information for themselves. Steal what works, forget what doesn't - including TRP. There are no absolutes. JBP is great if you're too depressed to confront the dragon of chaos in the shower in the morning but he'll encourage marriage, not spinning plates. A good sign if something works is how many successful people agree on it. Get up early, have options, work hard, don't be anxious, trust yourself, think del…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:16 PM
3

slow clap but what's your rationale for making Susan suffer? I'd have cut off the diseased limb and forgot about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 03:13 PM
2

He's not wrong, he's just pushing the agenda he thinks will be best for society. Read Jack Donovan's 'The way of Men'.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:28 PM
3

Exactly. Watched the playlists on YouTube last summer. While there's good info in them it all boils down to "get your shit together, be the blue pill hero". As Rollo said: The alpha Buddha never asks: 'is this alpha?', he just does.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:26 PM
2

"So here I am listening to this" what? hahahaha Then basically says: 'this is why my way is better than his', and starts defending virtue and morals. Fuck morals, they're the cornerstone of social pressure shaming and the sooner you ignore them the better.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:21 PM
5

Among the wider population yeah, but if you're here you know that all pussy is the same from the inside.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:38 PM
1

Cooking 5 star meals and fucking him like a porn star? Haha as if. Maybe until the engagement.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:57 PM
5

How does being a bad provider make women wet? The absence of 'beta traits' is not equal to 'alpha traits'.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 02:22 PM
2

It's not exactly what you say, it's more to do with how you say it.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 03:07 PM
23

She was eyefucking you and whispering to her friend? You pulled because you didn't put your foot in your mouth kid. She gamed you as much as you gamed her. How does this add anything that isn't already here? And how does that make this girl superficial? That's what they go for, they telegraph it with their actions. Kudos on your lay.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 03:00 PM
7

Another key point from the book: The best deep workers can only work deeply for about 4 hours a day, under half of a work day. For a beginner you're looking at 1-2 hours of solid, quality concentration per day while you build it up. Don't burn yourself out. 2 hours of quality work a day is more than you think, and if you can keep between that and 4 hours/day (judging by the authors accounts in the book) you will go places. Use your 2 hours wisely.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 07:12 PM
1

Just genuinely don't give a shit. Don't worry about appearing that way, that just makes you anxious. There is no right way, don't be a retard and trust your own process.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 12:54 AM
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I've had more success lately being literally confrontational and not worrying about offending people. The whole non-reactive, stoic thing only goes so far. The guy who makes a bigger idiot out of the others usually fucks. JS.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 09:04 PM
1

It's a stupid idea. You can do it if you sugar coat it, but if you start talking about this shit like you discovered antibiotics she's gonna treat you like a social retard. Girls know this shit, guys who know girls know this shit. TRP mostly isn't really new info, but it's collected together so it's powerful.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 01:40 PM
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Hypergamy is the (proven afaik) theory that men date across and down the socioeconomic scale, while women date across and up it. Here, though, they also say that women will jump to a better man given the opportunity. This is called 'branch swinging.'
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 02:57 PM
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Haha we both know you've made a huge leap there, nice logic kiddo.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 11:21 AM
1

I admire your conviction, I hope it works for you. I meant out of your way figuratively, not literally, but ok. The thing is though that while you care, hypergamy doesn't and AWALT. Your cuntiness of the highest order is just manifestations of hypergamy, and resistance is suffering. Just learn the rules of the game everybody's playing and move up the ladder. You've got a cheat book here, use it. If he got an STD then he has to take responsibility for that. Not because it's his fault (let's say i…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 03:24 AM
2

More power to you if that makes you happy, but it's a waste of time. You can't force the game to be fair, beta's aren't going to listen unless they want to and the pleasure you feel is probably ego massage. You went out of your way to fuck up some chick's hoodwinkery of her little beta boy. Who cares? She's gonna rinse repeat, he's gonna rinse repeat and the world will keep turning. Really ask yourself why you feel that 'pleasure' in 'resistance', because it seems like you're taking out the fact…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 12:20 PM
-1

Why bother? You're just white knighting a beta. You really think Bevans going to learn from this?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:47 AM
4

Female friends are good, just don't be a doormat.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:40 PM
1

This is a comment I put in another thread. It developed in not something cool, so I threw it up here to see how it sounds. Not sure how to format it right on mobile so I've just put it in quotes. "On a human level you, as a man, respect people for doing man things, you pedestalize great men as examples to look up to and learn from so that you can become great too, so what they say and do has meaning and actually matters. I'm gonna make a judgement here and say that the group of girls in your cla…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:39 PM
1

Yep, and if you're so invested in the result of that interaction that you carry it with you afterwards then you're fucked. Go read the u/metalhead post about approaching the girl in the gym. He got "shot down", but he didn't give a fuck, he was less invested in her than she was in him, leads to attraction. It's a cornerstone of anyone's game, it's the first lesson in 'Models', it's literally what outcome independence means. On a human level you, as a man, respect people for doing man things, you…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:35 PM
11

What weight/height are you at?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 05:00 PM
7

Jesus that's a great point, never thought of it that way.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:05 PM
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First things, if that's your goal then you've got the wrong mindset. The key to this whole thing is to be less invested in the girl and anything she can give you than she is in you. Second of all, you just have to lead her. No girl will look at herself and say "I'm a slut, so I'm going to initiate all this sexual stuff because I'm 100% not worried about what this alpha, and my social group, thinks of me". So you lead her, by action, to do what the fuck you want her to. You have to lead her becau…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:25 PM
4

Ignore it. If it's not in your frame, it doesn't exist. Even considering it as a legitimate test is giving it power. If it escalates go amused mastery, but never ever tale it seriously.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:11 PM
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Yeah. To be honest you're as well to forget about how people see you for the time being and monk mode (search the sub) for a while. Understand that the way you've been acting has let people put you in the 'beta box', so it's going to take a brave while and lots of resistance before people put you in the 'cool' box.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:08 PM
6

Seconded. Been lifting properly, not perfectly, for 3 years with a month or two off during. Game puts you ahead of the curve full stop. Being muscled, well dressed, with money changes people's expectations of you in a good way - it makes the 'alpha persona' that we're trying to emulate more congruent and believable to others and to yourself. However, if I lost everything tomorrow and could only keep one aspect of my former self, it'd be game hands down. More specifically; I'd keep the belief in …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 06:46 PM
6

No red lights = green lights. You should be actively working on having another girl or two lined up, so I'd be thinking about one of those.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:57 AM
59

"Tell me you don't want it" never fails. Great line.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 03:18 AM
2

For me, frame is the idea of reality. So if everyone is in my frame then what I think is funny is funny, my opinions are accepted as true, and what I think is cool is cool across the board. You know when you're talking to somebody and you know they're "not as cool as you" (for want of a better term), so you tell a stupid joke that's not funny and they laugh anyway, that means they're in your frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 11:12 PM
1

That argument was going nowhere. I could've ignored it but I wanted to have some fun, sue me.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 11:03 PM
3

doofus Ah, the old personal assault instead of an actual argument. You'd make a great feminist kiddo.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 04:03 PM
1

Being at one with the universe isn't my point - I was making the point that you need teeth(metaphor) if you want to be respected. Also, why does an abstract concept trigger an emotional reaction for you?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 02:40 AM
5

Not in my experience. I did the Buddhist thing for a while, cool philosophy but the whole 'be at one with the universe' thing, while intriguing, doesn't get you respected or laid. If you want to get anywhere then don't take shit and don't be scared to fight.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 12:10 AM
2

I'd start with the rational male year one. Don't try to learn as quickly as possible, just enjoy the journey.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:58 PM
2

ZMA supplements, cut out caffeine 12 hours before bedtime, cut food 4 hours before bedtime, drink water but not for a while before bedtime or you'll be pissing all night, exercise if you don't already and get into a solid, stable, consistent routine.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:56 PM
1

Don't sacrifice your self respect for the quality of something that won't last forever. Bitches, jobs, friends, whatever. Who gives a fuck if your band is cool if you can't look in the mirror at night. Self respect builds general respect, self love builds general love.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:50 PM
2

Did something like this with less running and more learning. Payed with stress, anxiety and a repeat year of school. If you can do it, more power to you, but keep an eye on yourself. My advice, build a system (rather than a goal) that makes you happy, and then work hard at it.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:46 PM
1

Who payed for the date?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:17 PM
1

Who payed for the date?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:17 PM
3

Not everyone can turn into a 10. Going off a Pareto distribution it's probably like 5% of people globally, maybe 20-25% here? Anyways, point is that TRP gives you a choice. You get to either maximise your potential or use your whiny bitch tears as lube IF you can get your beer gut out of the way.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 12:48 PM
1

You realise that intelligence is what makes an alpha male, Right? You have to be stupid or fucked up upstairs to think that you can go fat beta and still pull. An alpha male is the guy who wins at pretty much everything he does, meaning he's meta-conpetent. Guess what the best predictor for this meta-conpetence is? IQ. I've just read your last sentence and realised I shouldn't have even bothered to have replied, but it's there so I'll throw it up anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 04:52 AM
74

To paraphrase Jordan Peterson: Girls are attracted to guys at the top of the dominance hierarchy. Disagreeable people rise to the top of the dominance hierarchy, and make more money. This a no brainer.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 06:54 PM
3

Deload, strengthen your core with weighted hyperextensions and a good core circuit. You should be deadlifting and squatting more than you're rowing, so how do you keep it tight for those?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:28 AM
-1

Because your choice of markdown implied a kind of "actually, I thought about it first!" attempt at one upping OP. It's all about the info, so who cares about who first brought it up?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 10:06 PM
25

Dark Triad bro, gotta get that Narcissism.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 04:02 PM
12

If you communicate that you're just looking for a hookup directly you remove some plausible deniability on her end, she'll do the "Actually, I'm not a slut" thing in her head. Perhaps it depends on the girl and your value, but I find that an "I'm not looking for anything/just looking to enjoy myself" answer works best. But, if you're abundant, then you can afford to be brutally honest, but that's only if the question isn't a shit test (which it is 9/10) - so the answer is probably something like…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:14 PM
2

Okay so you share a consensus. Your argument is relevant, but why do you need to tell everyone that you came to the same conclusion as OP?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:02 PM
0

Probably been discussed before, but I had good results with completely not giving a fuck about anything on a night out recently. I was in one of those situations where you can't win, the main group of guys weren't including me so I just thought fuck everything. Into the bar, meet a contestant in a local beauty contest, she's got a bf, maintain the DGAF frame and she's just way too close, my ex is all over me, on the way home there's a girl touching my leg talking to me on the bus. I was definite…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 02:40 PM
2

Yep, but do you think that's a defence mechanism or logic?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 01:22 PM
2

True, sort of, but you don't have to choose sides. You don't have to be a Nazi or antifa to look at the evidence, synthesize it and regurgitate it. The labels are just so people have a clear target, whether you 100% fall into the category or not. Obviously there are situations where you just can't win, so I'm not so sure what to do there. It's weird, I'm starting to hear that voice he talks about saying "that's not you, that's not your idea, you don't find that funny, you don't believe that", so…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 12:38 PM
7

Someone's been watching Dr. Peterson.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 07:37 PM
-1

So, why didn't you open her first?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 05:59 PM
1

Always keep two in the kitty.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 05:38 PM
1

Surround yourself with it and I imagine it becomes normal.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 05:06 PM
1

I don't think it matters about those other things, she's giving you the choice to show her what you'll put up with. If you do decide to put up with it, the knowledge that you're investing more for what other guys got for very little is just bad logic. While what you say might just be true, if you really had options you wouldn't risk it, you'd just pursue another avenue. The risk wouldn't outweigh the reward. Somewhere in her she knows that, and it will come out eventually. I think it would be to…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:15 AM
2

You can't negotiate desire buddy and if you show that you accept a girl that doesn't put out after telling you she's been pumped and dumped 'too much' then you're always on the wrong side of the dynamic in that relationship. If she was into you she would've fucked you on the first night. Don't listen to what she says, the only important guage of how she feels about you is her actions. Also, if a girl ever makes you wait for sex, it's never worth it. You could go distant and dread game, but I'd n…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:48 AM
3

Most of the advice for that is to go get a new hobby. Whenever new people see you their idea of you is a blank slate. I always get on better away from my hometown because everybody has me in a box back there.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 09:50 AM
1

It's a small post just over halfway through if I remember right. You should read the whole thing though, excellent collection of info.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:57 AM
2

Google 'the book of pook'. It's also in redpillbook top of all time AFAIK.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 08:44 PM
3

Acting alpha is something that comes naturally when you have values and boundaries and enforce them. You need to find a physical hobby that you enjoy, and get really good at it. Also check out Jordan Peterson's YouTube about dominance hierarchies. Listen to his biblical series, it is long but definitely worth it. Basically you rise to the top of the dominance hierarchy through competence in the context of the hierarchy. When you're low on the hierarchy you're anxious because everything above you…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 08:06 PM
8

Pook has a post on it in his book. Basically, gain 50 pounds of lean muscle and you transcend tingles.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 07:57 PM
5

It was said here quite often. I think the idea was that if you're a newbie then you're probably an orbiter to all your female friends. I made the mistake of taking it absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 07:56 PM
14

Social Circles. There was a lot of nonsense on here about 'not being friends with girls' when I first started into this. Having a close friend who's a girl opens you up to her friends when she wants to play matchmaker and her gossiping about her friends when they fall out. Just don't regularly give more than you receive like a stupid cunt, it's not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:28 PM
1

You haven't mentioned subjectivism. My 9 and your 9 might be completely different to everybody else's 9, but your point still stands. So is it that the woman's experience or the man's expectation of how the scene will play out that determines the outcome more accurately?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:11 PM
2

You freeze when you interpret a threat - social ostracization probably. Honestly stop giving a fuck and see how that goes.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 04:31 PM
1

Some of these things are just good things to do. You can wake up with a 'fully charged battery' anytime, I can give myself time to think whenever I want, there's nothing special about earlier in the morning, you're clutching at straws. There's definitely some psychological benefits to it but if you buy into the whole 'I get up early so that makes me a winner' mentality then what happens when you can't get up at 5AM? You'll spend that day with doubts because you didn't beat your first challenge. …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:33 PM
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The best lesson I got is that you'll get exactly what you expect to get. Picture yourself talking to a girl expecting her to drop her panties for an outdoor quickie within an hour of meeting her - how does that guy act, what does he say, how does he say it? We all know exactly what we have to do, the hardest part is doing it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 10:59 AM
1

It depends on the place it comes from. If you're basing your self worth on the likes you get then it's validation seeking, if you're letting people see your awesome life and you dgaf about likes then it's not.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:14 AM
2

Illustrates LMR from a girls point of view. Don't worry about what the hamster says, look at the actions: My first thought was "she feels anxious immediately in the face of perceived social pressure and goes on the defensive from then on.", but maybe thats just the hamster too. In any case, she creates the frame of 'I'm not a slut' to protect her ego, then rationalizes it in retrospect - reticular activation system anyone? She does this because a guy she just met spent a shit load of money on he…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:23 AM
2

Punishment for what? If your girl is acting bitchy then you've let her think she has you by the balls, so she's testing that out. Girls don't 'misbehave' - they behave in mostly predictable ways depending on your own behaviour. Also, if there's no dread then hypergamy hasn't been satisfied. She has to be punching above her weight to feel dem tingles.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 09:08 AM
4

Happiness is borne out of doing hard shit. Your life just became hard? Great! More opportunities to overcome something and feel good about it. Check out the Jordan Peterson's most recent appearance on Joe Rogan's podcast for some really cool understandings of where you're at at the minute and how to get out of there. I learned the above, and also learned about my motivations and what they actually are. Each time you want to do something you create a sub personality that embodies that goal. It's …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 03:21 PM
3

With the groups of girls thing, even if you don't close you can come away with a number. If you go in expexting poor results, you'll get poor results.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 08:45 AM
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Yep, judge a tree by the fruit it bears - at the minute, your tree is barren. Look at it from her perspective: this guy is giving away his time/money/energy/whatever for a girl who's giving him very little in return. You don't have to drop her, but spin more plates. Edit: it took you a month to figure out she's a virgin? You need to escalate faster man.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 02:29 PM
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Fuck the boyfriend. That's not jealousy, it's insecurity and it's exploitable.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 12:56 PM
4

In terms of practically applying what OP says here, when you have a goal you need to forget about it and focus on how to get there. Cultivating a mindset of abundance, outcome independance, frame, positivity and fun in general is much better than trying to apply it specifically for any one girl. Invest in the process instead of the result, so that the process is the goal.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 11:36 AM
3

So when did we start allowing mobile applications in the dominance heirarchy?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:24 PM
6

Okay so yeah, don't be a nice guy, but why the fuck is she getting angry at you in the first place? When a girl pressures you emotionally IT'S A SHIT TEST - just don't take it seriously whatsoever. Laugh at her, "tell her she's cute when she's mad", put her on the naughty step, agree and amplify if she goes off road, just don't break frame. All that 'communicate rationally' shit doesn't work so keep it simple: If she's acting out, no respect w/e then dread game, if that doesn't work then move on…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:21 PM
1

Judge a tree by the fruit it bears. The same goes for taking advice from anyone - unless you want their results, don't take their advice. I'm here to figure out how to get laid more, not listen to egos rationalize that "it's still red pill coz it's blah" - which may or may not be true, but who gives a fuck if it doesn't produce results? 80% of the value is already in the sidebar and the manosphere blogs anyway. How much of the stuff on the trp front page at the minute hasn't been said before?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 11:27 AM
4

Yep, you pity them because you know where they're at. In relationships you're either the heartbreaker of the heartbreakee, and being the heartbreaker is a lot more fun. Don't worry about it, you're giving people experiences that they'll never forget, it's beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 03:06 PM
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So how exactly did he break frame? Everyone who reads this page knows "don't break frame", you're not adding anything of value unless you tell us what he did, how be did it and the results it had.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 03:01 PM
2

You have a massive amount of theory reading done, you lift all the time and box, and yet you still lack the discipline to do what you already know you have to do? That doesn't make sense, man. Maybe you got used for a possible free lunch, if you ever get a 'when I make time' response to a date request again, just forget about the bitch, she's not into you for anything more than a safety net.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 01:50 PM
2

When you go through that list yourself you'll think of solutions to all your problems. It doesn't matter if it's not the perfect solution, and there's no secret to make it easier. It's hard, and it needs to positively satisfy three questions: Can you do it? Will it work? Is it worth it? Don't bullshit yourself or come on looking for opinions before you plug out the xbox, do your homework and start approaching girls. The only thing that will help you right now is straightforward decision making a…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 11:18 AM
1

I went on a date recently, first time in a while so I was dunging myself. It probably went fine, but it wasn't up to what I'd expect from anyone on the forum. A few takeaways I got from it was a) lead everything b) game is active for men and passive for women so let your personality out c) just let the fuck go and live as a masculine man in the moment, no expectations of where the date will go.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:31 AM
2

Be more aggressive, let the fire out. You're probably so beta that what you think is 'aggressive' isn't really aggressive at all. Don't listen to the resistance you'll get - thats people trying to keep you in line with their idea of you, go balls to the walls for a full day and assess in the evening. Edit: don't worry about 'kino' or any particular tactics. If you're letting your masculine ego out then those things will happen naturally. You shouldn't be planning manoeuvres when you're looking a…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:22 AM
4

ACTIONS > WORDS. Next dude.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:18 AM
1

If you've read the sidebar then know exactly what you should do. If you're really having trouble then get a plate, see how much you give a fuck about your ex then. Also, major point: She's not fucking you up; YOU are fucking yourself up. You'll never change unless you take responsibility for your weaknesses instead of playing the victim. It affects you, so you better get a grip on these silly emotions.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:12 AM
3

Oneitis for a plate, broke frame and you shat where you ate, learn from it.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:07 AM
2

Fair play. It's all about decisions, and in your gut you know what the right one is. The hardest thing about beating addictions is understanding that the voice in your head, the one that says "one hit doesn't matter", is a liar. Jordan Peterson talks about this, check it out. The right decision, if you're honest with yourself, is the one you'd make if you had 5 seconds to make it with a gun to your head. Keep making those decisions and you'll move forward.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 09:51 AM
4

AFAIK testosterone levels grow based on your physical activity level. It makes sense, as when these systems were evolved physical activity meant either hunting or war, which testosterone aids. It also makes you more likely to reproduce. Meaning that the guy who's better at hunting and fighting is more likely to pass on his genes, and the human race grows stronger. This is all opinion but I'm sure you'll find studies if you want to go looking.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 05:04 PM
1

Because that's the theme of the forum. The Red Pill came about because PUA forums became too PC. It's branched out, but mostly deals with getting to the top of your local social dominance hierarchy. The guys at the top are the alpha males who get the most sex. I think that the importance put on sex here is due to the number of new members - that's the problem they come here to solve, but most of the older members will advocate for living a fulfilling life. The sex will come. It's also worth cons…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:48 PM
1

It's a good idea to open a girls eyes to her own nature if you want to keep her on. I've never had a girl argue, and it shows that you know the games they play. If you actually don't know the answer when you ask then yeah, you lack social intelligence - but asking as if to say 'I know your game' is +EV. Amused Mastery bitches.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:48 AM
2

Wait a few days, set up another date. Don't overcomplicate it. As things progress, leave her enough space to chase you.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:41 AM
1

Where you say "the fructose in sugar" is misleading. Fructose IS a sugar, like glucose and lactose. Double check that, it dents the credibility of an otherwise good post.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:19 PM
1

You're getting a lot of shit man, perhaps for the sensationalist title, but you're not wrong. Most people stalk strangers' social media to help figure out their SMV - if you have an awesome life, reflect that on social media and you'll be seen as higher value. So why the fuck not? Somebody not sharing themselves with the world may be their own choice, but 90% of the time it's insecurity with a good excuse.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:45 AM
1

Why not just use it for your benefit? I stopped using it most of it, but downloaded it again because it's +EV to have active instagram etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:39 AM
1

There's a time for self reflection and a time for IDGAF balls on the table confidence. Pook said "as you think, you shall become" - if you're doubting whether you deserve HB10 or not then guess what? She's not into you because your frame is weak. Be introspective in private and always know yourself, but also believe that you deserve exactly what you want. Confidence is just self-belief.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:43 AM
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You hit the nail on the head somewhere in there before the 'it' s 2017' bit. There's nothing new here, girls trade sex for attention and some more than others (slooooooots). They've just cracked the nut on leveraging social media for said attention. Play the game, use instagram for boosting smv. Put up cool stuff, photo's of yourself in good shape and photos with loads of bitches. After that who cares what the average Joe/Jane does.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 01:34 PM
2

We all take this shit too seriously. A few posts have resonated with me lately: don't be emotionally attached and talk to more girls - solutions to 90% of the problems I'm facing, and the same for most of us on this thread too. Outcome Independence and Approach - do the simple things right. I've made improvements this past week by giving myself a break. With the amount of time I put into Uni and reading my brain was tired as fuck, so counting calories and working out suffered. Had a week off, di…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:02 PM
3

All bitches will act manly with a beta, it is your responsibility to keep a bitch in check for both of your good. BUT crazy bitches will try to act manly too much and they'll wear you the fuck down, it is also your responsibility to see the red flags and next theses women for your own good.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:09 AM
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Pardon the generalisation, but all these kinks are is eroticising one's biggest fear as a defense mechanism. Cuckoldry just so happens to suit what goes on under the hood of human nature. EDIT: Who gives a fuck if this becomes normalized? More fun for any man with sense, and if you're reading this you're never going to be on the wrong side of the cuckold fiasco.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:33 PM
4

Alan Watts' out of your mind lecture series helped me with social anxiety. They're long lectures and bounce around the issue, but stick with them. TL;DR of them: You're re-enforcing the idea that you're bad socially every time you try to censor yourself, say the right thing or do anything out of a fear of failure. Just let the fuck go. You're not that different from other people when you pull off your skin, so the things you want to say are probably what other people do too. You can say ANYTHING…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:39 PM
2

When I said I was going to when I decided upon the LTR. Things change though, great family too. It was really enjoyable but I didn't keep a bitch in check and the LTR started working against me instead of for me. Should've gotten out at that stage as well but oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:31 PM
2

People project themselves when they criticize them another person. You can learn about somebody if you ask them why they think the other person behaves in a certain way.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:05 AM
5

If in doubt say what you would you say to a little girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:17 PM
4

Had the same plan for an LTR, fling over the winter; ended up two years deep. Be careful, your brain is very very convincing.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:16 PM
1

You could talk to him if you want, frame it in such a way that you can laugh at him about it. Make it embarrassing that when he sees you with a girl he has to get her - inferiority complex/jealousy/whatever. Functionally, nothings gonna change really until you figure out where YOU'RE going wrong before you try to manipulate others. If you're gaming and she decides to leave for any reason then YOU didn't succeed. Whats stopping you from 1) improving your game 2) putting on more muscle?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 11:39 AM
3

I wonder how many of these are guys projecting their irritation with their former selves onto any dude who acts like they used to? If merely somebody else's actions irritate you, you have no frame.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:24 AM
1

Go apply it. Don't get involved in the nitty gritty of the sub, there's too much shit of little value on here. Read The sidebar, read Rollo Tommassi, read Illimitable Men, listen to The Black Phillips Show on youtube. Start lifting 5x5, running is great too. People who act learn exponentially faster than those who read, so application is imperative. Just jump in, don't expect results of meaning for at least a month or three.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:05 PM
2

Realistically looking at it, there are very few 'Chads', for want of a better term, in real life.I reckon that if you see a girl & a guy walking around together, theres probably a 30% chance he's fucking her and a 5% chance he's fucking her right. Also, the guys that you see that look 'alpha' don't all act alpha, instead they're getting pussy because they look high value, drive nice cars or have lots of friends/money. They're an accessory, not an addiction.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:33 PM
1

It doean't help that 90-100% of the men in their lives have enabled the shitty behaviour by not crushing it before they figured it was okay.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:19 PM
1

Cool. The reason for the double standards in perception of anger with respect to gender is because a woman being angry is crossing gender norms, analogous to men being more sensitive and caring - and we know all about that.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:16 PM
2

To paraphrase Patrice: Women never have a plan B, they never have to explain their opinions or deal with the hypothetical. If you want to shut a woman up, one word: Why? But to be fair most human beings are herd animals.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:07 PM
1

You do you man, but if we had a conversation and I'm trying to throw you off your game and you react in any way then I know I'm gonna succeed. For example if you shoot the 'disrespect' down, I just chuckle and say: "Woah man, chill. We're just trying to have some fun" - then give our company the 'this guys a bit odd' eyes and leave. The mistake is that you consider it disrespect in the first place, and by thinking that you have to defend yourself you're investing in the belief that I've already …
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:26 PM
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TL;DR: Most people use game as a means of avoiding failure, and it works. The result though is that you internalize avoiding failure everywhere, what we call scarcity mentality. If you stop taking yourself so fucking seriously and embrace your mistakes your life will improve, because you'll realize that failure is probably the best way to be okay with yourself, and 90% of the prideful dicks that talk shit, make excuses and victimize themselves are doing that because they're scared to say: "I fuc…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:17 PM
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Frame is your emotional state. If you're happy as fuck and somebody tries to bother you (frame grab) you can change your state (break frame) or stay the same (hold frame). Some say you can tell the size of a man by the size of the things that bother him, visavie how strong his frame is.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 08:00 AM
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You don't need reprogrammed. As others have said, listen to whatever you like and be aware of what you're hearing. Older music & hip-hop is generally less ridiculously bp than today's tripe. I notice a lot of rp truths in songs sung by girls though. Edit: D'Angelo's Voodoo album for an actual suggestion. It's groovy/sexy af, and the musicianship and arrangment are fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 01:45 PM
1

To senior members; is there ever a point when you fully internalise this info? E.g. Yesterday, a group of girls say something blatantly red pill in my presence, I'm like "fuck, I forgot, AWALT". Is it a circle of I've got this shit figured out, oh shit no I don't, rinse, repeat?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:09 AM
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It depends what the goal is, if you're trying to show your disapproval so that she changes her behavior you're trying to control her, and you can't control anyone but yourself. If we really have abundance, are spinning plates and are ourselves in the position to pick up more plates at will, then why would anybody be assed with the effort of Machiavellian games? Just soft next and go fuck some other plate, otherwise you care too much (also solved by... soft next and fuck someone else). I'm not sp…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:01 AM
2

Every day is your life, just in little tiny bits. So what you do everyday, all added together is your life and what it will amount to. There is no arrival point where you just make it and your life turns around, you have to create the life you want every day and live that life every day. Don't wait, it never just arrives.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 10:54 PM
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But when do girls not trade sex for preferential treatment? 90% of the time it's a tool.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 07:57 AM
1

Late to the party, but here's some stuff that explains op's point: For the asshole part: Roissy Reader - Asshole Game. For the letting the past go part: RSDJulien's happiness manifesto on youtube (sounds gay, but it's an hour of 'how to not be a bitter, anxious, gives-a-fuck cunt' gold).
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:41 PM
1

You'll definitely learn from how those meet ups go. The thing about expressing disappointment is that it's an investment that says you care, but if you were exercising abundance mentality you wouldn't give a fuck. My gut tells me that if you expressed that you cared then they'll think 'I'm losing my potential orbiter, better throw him some rope', but the proof is in the pudding. For some good text game stuff google 'yareallyarchive'.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 09:00 PM
1

Anger in the long run is bad, but if you're putting pussy on the pedestal, go to the extreme of anger and tone it back bit by bit; you'll find the optimum.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:57 PM
1

You've misunderstood me. I meant that I have standards, not in an arrogant way. I would respect anybody who could live up to them, myself included, however women by their nature probably won't. Nor would they want to.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 07:18 PM
1

The best woman they can be, in their estimation, probably still won't be good enough. Very few will live up to the standards I've set for my own self-respect, and that's fine by me, I just can't respect them knowing what I know. It's not in me. As I've read here before; the moment you start pretending they don't have fangs is the moment they'll start using them, the ideal woman is dependent on your capacity to be the ideal man and bring that out of her.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:34 PM
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A lot of people here saying "women aren't pathetic, thats just the way they are". I get where you guys are coming from, but I'm with OP. Women are pathetic if you judge them according to the standards any man should hold themselves to. Any supplicant, needy, subservient, manipulative, externally validated man is a pathetic man. Giving them their own rulebook is a slippery slope that leads to you excusing shitty behaviour because 'girls, right? lol'. Part of waking up is realising that women don'…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:20 PM
1

Judge by actions, not by words - the medium is the message. The rejection is what they're communicating, using excuses to cover up the fact that they're 'not being nice'. Do you really think that ~10 different college girls would all rather study than go on a date with a guy they want to fuck? Go radio silent, and find some girls with whom you share mutual expectations of your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:13 AM
2

Spot on: Who cares why? She's not of any real use to OP anymore, he's acknowledged his mistake and will learn from it. Knowing the reason she didn't fight to save the relationship doesn't do us any good. Also, if anybody thinks that she left because he broke up with her/wwyd if she broke up with him - remember hypergamy. She has to be punching above her weight, so she should be fighting for the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:57 PM
5

Dodged a bullet man, onwards and upwards!
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:52 PM
1

I agree with you, but for me n count doesn't factor a lot into attractiveness for an ONS(within reason), though it's important for an LTR. To plagiarise your metaphor; everybody has need for a car, and you're gonna drive the best one you can afford. Years ago cars were more expensive but more reliable. Nowadays there's a range of car prices, but you get what you pay for. Still, it's easier to find something to have some fun in while you're saving for that Ferrari.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 09:07 PM
2

I know it gets a lot of hate around here, but I'm becoming more of a feminist every day. How could you be against a social movement that practically ensures you a harem if you learn some game & work out?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 02:24 PM
1

Monk for 6 weeks, lift, run, no alcohol. Read the whole sidebar, read the roissy reader. You'll know what to do afterwards.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 12:23 PM
2

Shit tests. Don't let it affect you whatsoever. Don't change your emotional state, as long as your reply comes from a positive, unwavering emotional state you'll be cool.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:12 PM
1

Somehow girls can just tell when you're feeling uncomfortable, so it's good if you can snap yourself out of it ASAP. I try to remember hypergamy, your frame is that she's there to impress you, otherwise your gonna have a bad time. Check out Roissy's Asshole Game and Rollo's Amused Mastery. I also try to remember that everybody's human. Many of us have come from the belief that girls were just perfect, we idolized & pedestalized for so long, as we were taught to do. Next time your brain says: "sh…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:01 PM
1

To add, give people the same respect they give you. If you're on the bottom rung and being treated as such then go find another social circle who give you the time of day. Don't disregard people because of their status, talk to everybody and lead those interactions. The more people you get on with the better you'll become socially and your value will go up. The same principles apply for people of high or low status/SMV, the game just gets a bit harder when you're dealing with bigger egos.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:55 PM
2

Reading through it without paying much attention to the words you two exchanged says it all. It was open-close from the get go, but she needed an excuse. Thanks for the post man.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:08 AM
2

I've also begun disregarding attractiveness when deciding who's worth my time, so far so good. It always comes back to hypergamy and AWALT: Uggos treat you well because you represent the hypergamous ideal - the best she can do, while she knows that you can do better. It's exactly what dread game is meant to imitate. It doesn't matter how attractive the HB, be the best she can do and you're gonna have a good time.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:43 PM
5

The definition of rape in many places is "penetration of the victim". Being made to penetrate is analogous to rape, but falls outside the definition so it's called sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:41 AM
3

Girls can find intelligent men attractive, it's just that intelligence isn't enough on it's own. You're not removing yourself from the dating pool by being smart.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 12:59 PM
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They do it for the same reason that they give "just be yourself" dating advice: they believe it. Most girls aren't sociopathic masterminds consciously perpetuating the feminine imperative - they don't think logically enough for that. Girls are passengers of their feelings.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:46 AM
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It should be obvious, but don't be overt about it, you have to guide the hamster down the windy lane. Plausible deniability is your best friend.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 06:14 PM
2

Always keep two in the kitty. At the time I said to myself: "thats's s dick move, maybe I'll ignore that one". I promise you that you won't regret implementing it. If you can keep two on hold while in a relationship a) dread game gainz, b) abundance mentality gainz, c) you know you're still on sharp, that you haven't been blunted by a crazy bitch.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:55 PM
3

As it says in the sidebar; there is no fundamental 'fairness particle' in our universe. Fairness - the execution of moral justice, what one 'deserves' - is a flawed concept. Base your work ethic off your results. If you're not getting what you want, work harder & smarter. Don't get bitter about it, that won't get you any closer to the mark.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 08:24 AM
1

He's insecure, and covering it up by getting angry to get you to back down. He wouldn't need to get defensive if he didn't fear losing something - in this case it seems to be his reputation/status. I'd call attention to it under the guide of 'advice'. He can't assault you at work so apply pressure. Take the piss out of him: "whats that on your nose man? It's all brown.. Oh nvm it's just poo, carry on" etc.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:09 PM
1

You always stand your ground. If the group turns against you then you're better to forget about them, they don't want you there and you lose all self respect by perpetuating a one-sided relationship. Always be prepared to walk away. I would be gone already, fuck those guys, but if you want to rescue this then do the above. I've been where you are before. The guys were laughing at me because I was easily wound up, so I started not giving a fuck and winding him up instead, it was simple because he…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:56 PM
1

These are shit tests. If you pass them you get a point. If you flip them back onto the other person, you get double points. Other people have said to call them out, be confrontational etc. I wouldn't be so directly confrontational because as soon as I can get somebody out of their mental state/frame I know I've won. Don't let it bother you, it's not personal until you allow yourself to get offended. When you understand that they're trying to make you look worse to make themselves look better it'…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:23 PM
1

Rationalmale year one, Chateau Heartiste's early posts (there's a trp post collating some of them), the trp front page post about self amusement, and the harsh truths article on cracked.com are a good start reading wise. As others have said; lift, self-improve, get your shit together. Put conscious effort into being happy - it's a skill we learn, not an intrinsic human property. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:49 AM
2

Great quality content. I'm trying to piece the puzzle back together after an LTR, this is a major piece. Keep it up, I'll be keeping an eye on your blog.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 08:35 AM
1

What you're describing is changing the rules to make the game easier, but you're still trying to reach a beta goal with rp strategy. Hypergamy is the way it is, it's supposed to be there so we work hard for quality women, and the resulting children are the best genetic combination available. Hypergamy is hard wired, it's lazy and hypocritical to try to control it, you can't force nature.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 07:20 AM
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This is going to get deleted, so I'd put it in AskTRP. You're going to get answers on this thread telling you what to do, and they'll be right, but I don't think they'll tell you why to the degree that you'll understand that there is no option other than to get out. If you were happy you wouldn't be asking us guys for advice, you're looking for somebody to make the decision for you. Go read rationalmale's year one and try to really understand your situation. Once you take the pill there is no go…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:12 PM
1

There's a post on the imgur front page that explains the tactics that Trump used to win the election. After reading it, I'm convinced that he had won this election before any of the other candidates even considered running. Check it out, it's good to challenge your beliefs. Edit: The man gamed his way to his goal and held frame in light of all the shit. That's an alpha trait on another level.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 08:59 PM
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It shows how people will stick to social conventions in public even if they don't believe in them. I don't think he'll be given free reign to do whatever he wants, the senate aren't all like Trump. He'll polarise the media, and probably the entire country to some degree, so expect lefty protests for the next week.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:07 AM
3

Good work. Though she grabbed you at 1am to go fuck and you think she's close to a unicorn? Not in my book.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 04:59 PM
1

I'd edit that in for noobs' sake. You're right in that regard, in any squat heavy 5 x 5 you'll gain a lot on your legs.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:47 PM
3

I'd say the deadlift is a better all round movement, it hits the most muscles (though that could be bro science). Anyway, there's no way you're getting the most out of your body if you're not following a proper routine. You've got no DL, no shoulder or back work, no accessory work (which is fine if you're a beginner). It obviously depends on your goals, but for building a beautiful, balanced body that's a terrible program.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:51 PM
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Don't just read the side bar, understand the sidebar. Consider jotting down a quote that emphasises the point of what you're comprehending. Do likewise with TheRationalMale's best of year one. Get a 5 x 5 program from the fitness subreddit wiki and sort your diet out. The most important thing about all this is that you act. There's no point in any of this if you won't apply what you learn, it's the only way to actualise your goal.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:12 AM
5

Players are vilified, and the man who leaves his impregnated LTR is vilified for the same reason: abandoning the feminine imperative in favour of his own mating strategy. Men with alpha traits are excellent daddy material. They were the only men who successfully hunted for and protected their tribe ensuring the propagation of the species. Chad's children + The best provider she can get for her children = the feminine imperative. If she could get a man with alpha traits to commit she of course wo…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 02:35 PM
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The thing about sexual strategy is that for man to fulfil his biological imperative (riding many bitches), woman's imperative (get pregnant by alpha and secure a relationship to protect herself and her child) must fail. To paraphrase Rollo; this is why, as we're in a fem-centric society, the nice guy who supports a single mom is a societal hero, but the player is vilified. This chick is seeing her imperative fail, and it's leaving a bitter taste.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:51 PM
10

They 100% will fuck up your frame. If your belief system changes, your frame changes with it. Doubt follows anxiety & jealousy, it breaks frames.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 08:43 PM
1

If you're building muscle then you're breaking muscle. I've never used rings myself, but I know they're more advanced movements than lifting weights. Make sure your form is tight or you'll end up with shoulder & hip injuries.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 03:45 PM
7

Abs are made in the gym, abs are uncovered in the kitchen. Compound exercises only train your abs so much.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 03:41 PM
6

Go read the sidebar, then read rationalmale's best of year one.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 10:43 AM
21

There is no end game. TRP is a toolkit, nothing more, nothing less. Use it to make yourself happy in whatever way you want.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 10:27 AM
2

They can be used by both. It's not the actions that are important but the frame that those actions come from. In a relationship a man with a dominant rp frame creates tingles, but a woman getting away with the same frame emasculates the man. Shit tests are frame grabs, thats why they need to be crushed.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 10:21 AM
2

Perhaps there's some merit in not controlling your emotions, that's not my experience. If you want to indulge your emotions then remember that man always controls his reactions. Letting your emotions run wild is counterproductive to why we're here.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:19 PM
1

Hey Rollo, I'm recently re-reading your year one posts after leaving an LTR and realising how I'm basically back at square one. While I managed the relationship well for the most part, oneitis creeped in and I grew attached to the relationship I had 'built'. I'm finding internalising the material difficult this time around, I comprehend it but it's hard for me to apply what I read. Can you point me in a good direction? I'm also interested in social circle game, if you have any post recommendatio…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:27 PM
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Looks play a part, my point was that looks are not the be all and end all of who gets laid.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:41 PM
1

My point was that it's not all looks. Hot guys get more lays because they've got a higher chance of developing game, as you say. Of course everyone has game. Considering where we are I assumed I didn't have to explain that I mean game as it's defined in the sidebar or on any of the recommended blogs.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:39 PM
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You can't walk up to an HB anything with no game and lay no matter who you are. Stay around here and you will see that saying "it's all looks" is taking the easy route whether it's true or not. If it's true, then there really are leagues based solely on appearance. There is somebody out there exactly as attractive as you that you're meant to be with and this forum is pointless. If it's false then you're limiting yourself. You're pricing yourself out of getting laid. (Rollo: 'always let a woman f…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:38 PM
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Been there to some degree. What helped me through the guilt was to start reading therationalmale's best of year one again. I've picked out a quote from each post that exemplified the point Rollo was making. Don't feel guilty, you've made the right choice for you. Society will always try to shame you into towing the line, don't let it.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:19 PM
1

Everybody has those 'oh fuck, how could I have been such a tit' moments. You're on the right path so keep doing what you're doing. I recently got out of a relationship and it's eye opening to see how beta I was, in retrospect. It's impressive how that girl was able to project her insecurities at me such that I gradually changed - resulting in the relationship going downhill - however she still validated the whole beta side of our relationship as the ship sank. I don't think most girls really und…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 11:25 AM
1

Joe Navarro's "what every body is saying" is packed with useful body language information. Daniel Goleman's "Social Intelligence" and "Emotional Intelligence" describes how the emotional brain works socially.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 09:55 AM
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The timing is too coincidental. There was always incentive to sue - money, big headline - but the fact that four allegations have dropped close to the election makes it clear that they're bullshit. Obviously there's no proof yet but it's clear who benefits.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 07:13 AM
1

Not gonna lie, I didn't read your whole post. I'm posting to say be very careful with buddhism and meditation. Ego death is a real thing, it does make you passive and it's a struggle to get out of. Women fall in love with your ego, and we're here to get our dicks wet. No ego, no bitches. The goal is to control your ego.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 08:24 AM
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Her pussy is the carrot she's dangling in front of you, she doesn't want you to bite. Ironically, holding a 'your pussy isn't as valuable to me' frame during a shit test will get you rewarded. Displaying the mental attachment to sexual release (getting her pussy) will get you punished. "Give it away and it will come back".
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 08:19 AM
2

"You ain't supposed to see the whole eyeball on ANYBODY" - Dr. P
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 07:58 AM
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Any sources on any of this? You're pointing people in the right direction but when you say things like (paraphrased) 'adderal is bad for ADHD kids because it's a stimulant' it makes me doubt the whole piece.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:09 AM
2

** You can't negotiate attraction. **
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:05 PM
1

Wise man say: 'how would one respond if one were in bed with two Swedish volleyball players'? Be unaffected, you can't control her so don't even try. The only value women have is their pussy, and it's only valuable because men acknowledge it. Don't give that shit any value.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:03 PM
1

Laugh it off because of how ridiculous the thought of her choosing beta orbiter over you. If it's not ridiculous work on making it so.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:48 PM
1

Attraction is looks, money, status. If you can't cure your Psoriasis work on building the other two to compensate. Also lift.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:28 PM
1

Show your interest, if she doesn't reciprocate then she was never going to.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:25 PM
1

Jesus Christ man. I'm not speaking down to you, you really need to hear this: That bitch is crazy, she's always going to be crazy and by associating yourself with her you're going to drive yourself crazy. You're feeling pain because you think that this person was special, you've experienced loss and you're fucked. We've all been there, and we can all tell you how all girls are the same, no snowflakes blah blah, but the only way for you to get that into your head is to experience it. Read the sid…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:22 PM
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You see the problem is that, because women are praised for their femininity, which manifests in submissiveness and sexual attractiveness, the Hamplanets who've lose the genetic lottery are jealous of their attractive counterparts and bitch about the unfairness of life = feminism. Hot chicks don't need feminism, they've got men queueing up to provide for them. It's ironic that a feminine feminist is a thing of myth.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:39 PM
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I'm going to keep heading down the 'toxic masculinity route' thanks. While I hope society realises that feminizing young men isn't a great idea, there probably isn't a better time than now to be a man with rp knowledge. Enjoy it fella's.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:25 PM
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That divorce didn't come out of the blue. There were signs there that you either didn't comprehend or were ignorant of. Forget about this one, protect your assets and move on, it's a better ROI than trying to save the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:45 AM
1

I'll add to your excerpt on failures: Learn what there is to be learned and then move the fuck on. Cutting out worrying about the past is half the battle towards living in the moment, which itself is a huge part of game.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:41 AM
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And the award for 'pedantically out of context comment of the thread' goes to: Drum Roll... ... u/silentao!
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:58 PM
1

Don't make it your number one goal, just understand that it will help. Your ex cheated on you twice and branch swung the day after you guys broke up, I'd guess that she had that lined up. There's your fuel right there, find some productive way to burn it. I'm a few weeks ahead of you in the process so feel free to PM.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 04:58 PM
1

Jesus thats rough, but you're copping on. You've been broken in half emotionally, you need to think about things objectively and do your future self a favour. It's probably a crude thought right now but you need to go fuck something, channel your inner turmoil into something positive (lift), and start loving yourself. It seems darker than I can imagine atm I'm sure, but it helps, trust me. We're all here because we've all been where you are before, work through it man, everyone here wants you to…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 03:59 PM
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Often when people try to shame you out of something, it's because it works for you and against them. I'm not sure if people truly understand why they shame, just that moral superiority feelsgoodman.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 04:55 PM
1

I find that understanding that nobody knows what tomorrow will bring to be a very powerful image. All that 'I'll do that later' thinking is (I imagine) a one way ticket to "I'm 37 and I'be done fuck all with my life".
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:40 PM
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Game is just the ability to show that you know whats happening behind the good girl facade. Most of the time a girl already knows if she's dtf or not within a few seconds of meeting you, so you pass a shit test or two and give her some plausible deniability ("Share a taxi", "Netflix etc.", "I just want to sleep in your bed", "something to tell my orbiters why I went over instead of saying that I just wanted to fuck, thus preserving my reputation"), and you're golden. I'm with you though. There's…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 12:03 PM
4

I think he would say 'the only way to solve those problems is to stop trying to solve them, then they just disappear'.
/r/seduction21/09/16 09:57 PM
1

Ignore her beauty. Focus on her femininity, see if she matches up with how masculine you are.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 09:19 AM
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I'm sure this all works if you've gone to such lengths to post it, but some of this seems like ass licking. I read halfway and as I write this I can't really remember such minute details. This kind of post is like the perfect recipe: retards can follow it, if the can remember it all, but they'll never learn to make their own. It's a buffer against making mistakes, a bubble wrap. While your post is informative, well written and probably correct, I think it would help anybody looking for advice an…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:38 PM
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Book of Pook is a must read for anyone here. I thought it was a seduction book, but, along with providing a good social toolkit, it makes you realise that women aren't actually whats missing in life, often we use them to fill a hole.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:11 PM
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You'll find out in a month. Good luck, this is the first step!
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:42 AM
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Maybe switch to hentai to be safe. EDIT: Thought you were trolling. The goal is no porn, but step by step. Normal porn is a step in the right direction.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:09 AM
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If you wank to a loaf of bread for a month straight you're going to start getting horny walking past the bakery. Start jacking off to anything else, work your way back to 'normal' porn, then no porn. You get turned on by fetishes because they're exciting, taboo and give your brain that sweet dopamine that we all crave. The cuckold part is probably down to some Freudian conditioning, just work through it, otherwise you're re-enforcing the most beta behaviour with (probably) the most powerful moti…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:59 AM
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For further reading; Rollo has a post called 'Buffers' that deals with this.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 06:58 PM
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It's about happiness. At the end of the day we wouldn't be here if we were content with out lives, we all had that "this isn't right" gut feeling and trp conceptualises a model for understanding whats really at play. You go through the famous five phases and at the other side you're at peace with the way the world works. I doubt TRP all the time, but when I look back to who I was when I joined (around the same time as you), I realise that digesting this information at my young age changed my lif…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 09:15 PM
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The reason for it doesn't matter. You can't control them, there's nothing in it for you so ignore them. It's probably an attention game anyway.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:33 AM
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Say as little as possible without looking like a dick. If somebody asks you a question give them a simple answer. Don't elaborate unless you're asked to.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:31 AM
2

Buddhism, stoicism, doing what makes you truly happy-ism.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:29 AM
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Can you honestly figure out what you're getting out of this relationship? It doesn't seem like much. Is that enough? She's not what you need right now, next her.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:28 AM
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Next. If you're not happy with her sexually then go find another plate (or four) to fuck who's more fun. Carrying on in a situation where you're not happy stinks of a lack of self respect. If you want to fix her, you can't, that's the oneitis talking. TRP isn't about controlling other people, it's about controlling yourself. To be honest it sounds like you just need to get better at this whole thing (not that I'm a pro), stick at it.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:12 AM
1

Most of the time the TRP front page reads like MRA and buzzfeed had a joint site. Nobody reads the sidebar anymore. I joined here two years ago and we didn't need any new material then, and we don't need it now. But that creates a vacuum that 160,000 subs can fill with whatever they like.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:11 PM
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I say neither. If it's my fault I say "shit, what can I do to fix it?", and either fix it or forget about it. Requests for apologies are just manipulative attempts at getting free validation.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:56 PM
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An apology can be tactical. Don't swear off it because "Alpha's don't apologize brah! Grr!". Don't take life too seriously, sorry is just a word. If you really have to say sorry it's usually your own fault anyway.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:47 PM
1

Read The book of Pook for game advice. One thing I'll say is that a girl has decided in the first 10 seconds of first meeting you whether she'll fuck you or not, after that it gets harder to change her mind as you've already been put in a mental 'box' so to speak.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 02:37 PM
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His return of investment isn't sex, it's having a network of friends in the workplace. He'll get some info at the least and if somebody gets promoted he widens his sphere of influence by proxy. TRP says: 'stay away from women unless they're DTF', but women can be very valuable friends. They introduce you to other women and they know sensitive information about their social group that they don't mind sharing most of the time.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 02:19 PM
1

This isn't a hard and fast rule, assess your own situation before just talking less cos trp. It's hard to keep anybody in your frame if you don't talk. If it works for you guys, adapt it, however I think talking to everyone is a much better strategy. If somebody isn't really listening or whatever just move on to the next person.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 12:24 PM
2

The enlightened man is not always happy, the happy man is not always enlightened.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:54 AM
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I almost grimaced at myself reading this. OP's right though, no point hoping for a better past!
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:52 AM
2

Think of every living thing as being something that the entire universe is doing in the same way that a wave is something the entire ocean is doing. Every one of us is just a concentration of the universal energy at a particular point in space, we're pretty much the same. It's an idea that makes it easier to connect and empathise with people. The ego is the idea of there being an I, an identity that each of us have that makes us special and different from everybody else. The ego is defensive (im…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 12:50 PM
2

You can't save people like that because even suggesting to do so implies that they need to be saved, and their ego can't take that so they get defensive. On the other hand, trying to save everybody (aka white knight activism etc.) is itself egotistical in nature because of the same.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 01:00 PM
1

Look at how many females there are in power, it's a bit weird. I've on seen as far as HODOR! though I've noticed it since season 5. I mean has there ever been a time in history where there's been around an 80/20 split in female/men rulers? Add to that the only males in prominent roles are a dwarf, paraplegic or Jon Snow (Obviously GM's alter ego). There's certainly something unsettlingly Freudian to the whole show.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 12:28 PM
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The only way to be happy, as far as I can make out, is to get rid if your ego & seek nobody's validation but your own. It's the essence of inner game.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 12:19 PM
1

It can't have been easy but that was perfectly executed. Onwards & upwards.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 11:47 PM
2

I don't know about the rest, but Buddhism is the only religion out there based on common sense. The whole idea is to limit human suffering by detaching yourself and accepting reality, while still being completely in the moment. It, and stoicism, work really well with red pill.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:12 AM
1

Alan Watts' guided meditation on youtube, the man is a genius.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:08 AM
1

Ah cool, thanks!
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:31 PM
1

He's buddhist, a philosophy that would ask 'why' get into the top 10%' rather than 'how'.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:09 PM
2

You nailed it, you were trying too hard. The least confident man in the room is the man obviously trying too hard. Alan Watts gives a short lecture that will help you, it's called 'give it away and it will come back' on YouTube. The way to really reach the stars is to only apply the concepts when they're obvious, don't take yourself or the red pill too seriously, be as optimistic as you can in life and talk to as many people as possible. The mix of rp theory with real world experience will catap…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 12:57 AM
2

Think critically about what I was trying to say. We'll all probably get angry if somebody spits in our face, but will it overwrite the past and un-spit that spit? We'll all get sad when our mothers die, but will it bring her back to life? No, so whats the point? It doesn't achieve anything, it doesn't change anything. A cuckold - a man that raised another's child, unbeknownst. How will jealousy stop a woman being attracted to somebody? It's not like "Wow my boyfriends jealous because I'm into th…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:33 PM
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It shouldn't provoke jealousy. Jealousy is the beta way. It's comparing yourself to others instead of comparing yourself to where you were yesterday, last week or last month. Jealousy is the emotional manifestation of knowing that you're not good enough and doing nothing about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:38 PM
1

People are attracted to mystery, to things that don't quite make sense. Casting off your stereotypes gives the impression that there's something deeper, something beyond the stereotype. It's a powerful seductive technique, historically used in the context of gender (e.g. the masculine man who shows a sprinkle of femininity), but can be applied in almost any scenario as long as it's conflicting enough to arouse interest.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:57 PM
1

My dad has a saying: "Give them enough rope and they'll hang themselves".
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:27 PM
10

The most successful seductions happen when the victims believe they are making the decisions.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:26 PM
5

The thing about having a good, feminine woman that you've decided to LTR is that she will do her best to make you comfortable. The more you give in and let yourself go, the more you start to get that feeling in your gut that it's just not right. It's hard to say that humans are instinctively monogamous.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 07:37 PM
1

In an LTR at the minute. It really wears you down at times, and you don't even know it's happening until one day you're just an average guy putting in average effort. I'm off to schedule the gym into the rest of the week. Trust your gut, and don't break frame, not even once.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 09:45 PM
3

Women don't love men unconditionally. Look good, make good money and have high social status and you're set for a lot of women to 'love you now matter what'. The rhetoric flips if you start slipping, she'll start looking for a new branch & soon you'll get dumped for the 'Chadder Chad'. You're spot on though, most women's lives nowadays are one big pissing contest. Great distillation of information here, Bravo. Should be side-barred for beginners.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 03:05 PM
1

It's a great aid for breaking through the initial guilt/shame we're conditioned to feel when we start putting ourselves first. I'd consider it a must read.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 02:28 PM
3

The New Leaders - Daniel Goleman. He has books on social & emotional intelligence too which are fantastic for inner & outer development.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 12:59 PM
1

Nice post. Though I will say that self confidence is s pre-requisite for leadership before it's a result of leadership. Daniel Goleman's 'The New Leaders' book is a must read for anybody interested in leadership. It draws a lot of parallels to trp, it's a science backed bible in how to practice and apply leadership skills.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 12:55 PM
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I'm on the same boat. LTR is tremendously insecure, depression, dependent, anxiety issues and shit. Blows up about facebook likes, snaps, the whole shebang. I've been pondering this. Don't bend to people's whims. Do what makes you happy above all else (though don't be a cock about it), and if people don't like it then that's their problem. If you begin to compromise your happiness you'll never screen out the people who don't suit you. Trust your gut through all the shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:52 PM
1

Vitamin D3 is great, check out examine.com for dosage.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:34 AM
1

It's fab. I haven't got an issue with confidence, he's superbly confident in himself because he's earned it in the octagon, and in that regard we can all learn from him. I simply disagree that any functional confidence manifests itself in such a manner that would result in insulting people personally. For prize fighters it's a device, as you say, and we shouldn't look to emulate it. The confident man is confident in spite of his trash talk, not because of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 05:23 PM
0

You're right, though it's a means to an end. Next time I get the chance to mentally unsettle somebody trying to kick the shit into me I'll trash talk them. However if somebody starts to trash talk you in some sort of exchange you have today, you've already won, they've already come into your frame.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:31 AM
1

Haha dude if I saw somebody in an everyday situation talking about others and demanding attention like Mc Gregor, that's military grade insecurity right there. I understand that pre-fight press conferences aren't everyday situations, but that doesn't mean we should all act like CMG, that would be a recipe for disaster. But there's every possibility that I'm wrong and really am projecting, or that I'm not and you're projecting. How can anyone know?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:25 AM
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He's on the right side of the coin, but he's more cocky & overly personal than confident. Trash talk is all well and good when you're basically a marketable brand in front of TV cameras & 100 journalists, but if you or I do that it just sounds insecure. It still sounds somewhat insecure from him, but he's a fantastic fighter and makes money from publicity. I'm fed up listening to Mc Gregor, I only want to watch him fight.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 10:42 PM
5

Precisely. What do you get out of reacting? The idea of frame is that you don't react. You're unshaken, so you let her run on and do what you were doing anyway. If she does something shitty enough to warrant a breakup you break up with her then go and do what you were doing anyway. Revenge is emotionally driven, it's not logical, and anytime it seems logical is completely coincidental.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 12:19 PM
3

Key point here is "that's cool". If you show that it bothers you, you may as well paint a big shit test target on that topic in future. Your ability to walk away is the most valuable asset in your arsenal, and makes the hamster spin whether you have options or not. Let her do what she wants. It's a win win; you either have a girl that wants to be with you or a girl that wants to be with somebody else. It keeps you out of marginal situations and keeps your decision-making process simple.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:38 AM
2

There's a deeper rooted complex in a modern's man's head to appease women he finds unattractive too.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:18 PM
7

Women are valued by their attractiveness which itself is a measure of their reproductive ability. Hot = fertile. You need one man to have as many kids as you want, but you need one woman per 2-3 kids (This is where the 80/20 thing comes from). The more women you got, the faster your tribe grows. The girls will choose alpha because survival, great. The problem lies today in the fact that society has created a space where even the weak can thrive, the respect of your fellow men isn't necessary as …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:59 PM
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Jesus Christ. Point 1: it's hard being a man waaaaah! Feminists are bad waaah! (Sound familiar?) Point 2: The feminists are opressing us men waaaah! (And again.) Point 3: Our LTR's are oppressing us waaaaah! (...) Point 4: Society is oppressing us, waaaaaaaah! (...) For fuck's sake, this is honestly the most beta post I've seen on the sub in all my time here. STOP MAKING FUCKING EXCUSES FOR BEING A LAZY, ANTISOCIAL LOSER. EVERY SINGLE LAST ONE OF YOUR POINTS BLAMED SOMEBODY ELSE FOR YOUR SHIT LI…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:54 PM
2

Yes, SMV = Looks + Money + Status. People showing up will boost your social status.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:56 PM
1

They're validation pits. However they're useful for showing pre-selection and status, if you have it. It's thin value, focus on fat value.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:01 PM
1

For me, the meet-ups were never serious, just a very good PR stunt to gain traction and to emphasize how society treats the manosphere. It's nothing new, we all know how we're painted in the media. I'm not going to be overt about it, except to the right people. There's nothing to gain but pride.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:54 PM
2

I understand that the scope of this guide is an "autistic's guide", and as such it's going to stick to the basics, also we may come from different schools of thought. You are correct, you'll make strides if you know how to pick a person apart verbally, though nobody is suggesting violence. Unnecessary violence is completely breaking frame. Without self-confidence anything like this can seem insincere, losing you position. You don't have to know the mechanics of wit, you just have to grasp shit t…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:32 PM
1

I'll agree with most, apart from avoiding providing. Avoiding having a provider aspect in any part of your persona is a mistake. Given the economic nature of social interactions being selfish gets you farther than being completely unselfish, but not as far as we could get. We need to bring something to the table. It's a safe bet, you can't be taken advantage of by not providing. It is often the unselfish who will be taken advantage of if they can't set boundaries and draw the line, but controlle…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 04:16 PM
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That's what happens when you bend. You may think that you'll be appreciated for bending and compromising, but the more you bend and compromise - the more you be the Nice Guy - the more shit you're going to have to put up with next time you put your foot down. It's worse if you argue, then bend. It shows you can be manipulated into compromising on something you value, it's breaking frame. Don't just do things because somebody on rp does it, establish your own values and own them. Then find a girl…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:22 PM
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There's very rarely such a thing as an un-emotional argument with a woman, or a beta/white-knight/whatever. On that note, a logical argument isn't an argument, it's a discussion. Arguments are inherently emotional. Law of Power: win through your actions, never through argument.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:12 PM
2

If you let people think its okay to give you this shit, you need to forget about defending yourself and start working on yourself. It happens once, you shut the cunt down because insulting others only comes from a place of insecurity. You have to emphasize how stupid that point is, without trying too hard to do it (LOP: "Make your accomplishments seem effortless"). It doesn't bother you, banter it straight back at them, but powertalk your point. "Yeah, dress like a poor guy day. I see you got th…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:29 AM
0

If the depweb sites like SilkRoad can run anonymously for a long time before getting shutdown, then a few well encrypted transactions can work, for the time being at least. As for the risks, if it comes to the point where you're hiding your assets from people you're probably going to lose the money anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:16 PM
5

But 'she tagged herself' after he didn't tag her. A comment I guess.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:01 AM
3

All great points, well laid out and easy to understand. I would emphasize however that whenever you cultivate your masculinity it becomes natural. It's pure instinct. It's not about forcing yourself to be a man, it's about not being afraid of your unbridled testosterone. Also, empathy is useful, I wouldn't discourage it as a feminine trait to be avoided. Whether you want to manipulate people or form meaningful relationships with men or women, you need to be able to understand the feelings of ano…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 04:44 PM
6

Do you think that those guys are being serious?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 01:36 AM
3

If you know you've already won the game, you can say whatever you want and she'll eat it up. If you think you've already lost, it doesn't matter what you say, you'll never get anywhere. Be cocky and funny, pass the forthcoming shit test(s) using the info in the sidebar in the main sub, close. You're not going out to pull, you're going out to enjoy yourself. If women are the reason you're out, you still haven't taken them off the pedestal. That's step one
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:26 PM
2

This parenting style plays a big part in 'entitled princess syndrome' as well.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 04:12 PM
0

Luck is bullshit. Luck is what victims use to rationalize their 'second-rate-ness'.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 04:08 PM
2

Agreed. Lifting has more benefits than just turning you into a "GRR.. ME STRONG" type. Lifting benefits confidence, testosterone and nurtures the mindset of achieving your goals and knowing what that feels like.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 04:02 PM
1

Precisely. It's not only feminists, 80% of the people you'll meet are too scared to realize that the sexes aren't exactly equal, so they perpetuate this nonsense to appear progressive. Even races aren't exactly equal, they're geographical adaptations of the same species. If the sexes were supposed to be equal, there would only be one sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 02:37 PM
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Most women wouldn't think they were oppressed if it weren't for feminists bitching about 'not being able to handle shit'. Society then lowers the bar because "oppression", "not 50-50", "herp derp". The perfectly happy woman gets told by 'heroic female role model' in the media that she's oppressed. Womankind's biggest weakness is their ability to be led so easily.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 04:26 AM
1

Don't forget looks and money.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 04:14 AM
1

A lot of good advice here, things you should understand. But to answer any kind of "does she like me" question, use the Brad Pitt rule (it sounds shitty, I know, but it's spot on): if you were Brad Pitt (or any other famous person), would she have said the same thing? If the answer is no, she's not into you enough. Also check out Heartiste's maxims.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 03:59 AM
1

Brush it off, it didn't bother you. The worst thing you can do is force things. Don't try to make her figure out that you have options. If you do have options, you'll act like it and she'll pick up on it. Interesting to note that she didn't reschedule, DON'T SCHEDULE ANOTHER DATE. You're the prize, and if you're not, start working harder.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:21 PM
1

"A little too masculine" - this is the biggest red flag there, it's probably the root of the n-count. The red pill is masculinity in terms of sexual strategy, which itself is the only reason masculinity and femininity exist. Hyper masculinity inspires hyper femininity. Beta's are submissive and feminine, their women have to assume leadership and guide the relationship - AKA be dominant/masculine. We know where the story goes from here: Sally gets sick of betabux cause she just don't feeeeeeeeel …
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:00 PM
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Good advice, but spending time at the gym isn't an option. If it's "not [his] thing”, then OP is going to struggle.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:45 PM
1

The ratio of dick to cooch doesn't matter if you're working hard, unless there's an abundance of alpha males, in which case the advice is still the same. Improve your SMV and set yourself apart, you have the knowledge in front of your very eyes: Looks: Lift, dress sense, hair, hygene. Money: If you're a student, it might be difficult, but this the least important of the three. It's beta BUCKS for a reason. Status: Self respect, frame, setting boundaries. Understand shit tests, they come from men…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:26 PM
2

Shit, been there too. You dodged a bullet and found rp though, that's winning. How longs it been?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 07:23 AM
2

How did you break up with her and her suicidal tendencies? I'm dating a chick, no word of depression or well-hidden scars until months in. I love her, she's great a lot of the time but fuck me if she doesn't get on my tits with her Lucy like behaviour. How do you get past this suicidal shit? I know its bs, but there's always a 'what if'.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 12:32 AM
1

YouTube: Alan Watts - Guided Meditation. Alan explains the benefits of Buddhism and meditation in a more understandable manner. A lot of his popular talks have given me great insights on stoicism, outcome independence and learning not to force anything, to quote him - "Give it away and it will come back". Also check out r/depthhub for a comment explaining mindfulness and how it will help you let go of all your attachments. I know this sounds like pseudo-spiritual bullshit, but don't knock it unt…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:40 PM
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It's about the struggle. Is it worth it to toil and toil for years to perhaps end up with nothing? Life will wear you down, do something that fulfils you, and do it today.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 05:30 PM
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I never realized it, but 1984 opened my mind to the possibility of a real 'big brother'. It got me thinking about social manipulation, and how to identify it. Talking about 3 massive, generic leftist states using propaganda to manipulate their racially identical population, who themselves are under constant surveillance after being born into a war that never really affects their lives and is only perpetuated in order to harbour fear is becoming less and less of an exaggeration by the day. Troubl…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 05:22 PM
2

It's a difficult concept. I understand it as emotional state. Imagine a physical foundation holding your emotions in their relaxed, calm place. If you allow your emotional state to slip out of your control, you have 'broken' the frame. Subsequently, if you can influence the emotional state of another, they're in your frame. The trick to using this in a social setting is to be able to do it covertly. If I pull a gun to your face, you're in my frame. I can tell you to suck me off and you'll probab…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:03 PM
1

It's like the transition from beta towards alpha. Just straight up say it overtly if you must, don't break frame. If she's too entitled to split the bill, or tries to embarrass you for it, find an excuse to leave the room and then find a cab, you don't need the bother with that same splitting the bill argument or the "why don't we ever do nice things" bullshit in an LTR. Betabux can deal with that bullshit while you're deciding which of your un-entitled plates you'd like to enjoy the company of …
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:52 PM
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If you're putting in the work you should be putting in, there should be no boredom in it. Lift heavy weights, try The Book of Pook as well. The creepy card can set off alarm bells in your head, don't break frame. You're fucked if you break frame.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:10 PM
2

Being nice is like a restaurant advertising: "Come on in, we won't give you food poisoning"!
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:05 PM
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Either your SMV has dropped, her standards have increased or it's a shit test. Dread Game and observe.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:00 PM
1

Would you grab a pint for your buddy? Yeah. Would you always pay for drinks for your buddy? Hell no. Paying for a drink shows high value, remember Looks, Money, Status. Do it the very odd time and it's a good value move. Doing it too often makes you look like you're either trying to buy her attention or you're a provider.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 09:56 PM
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Stop identifying as an omega. The term is used to amplify the beta part of the alpha-beta model. You have some traits that fall on the beta spectrum, but you aren't an 'omega', its a word. The more you re-enforce it, the more you'll radiate that to everybody you meet. Learn to look good (r/malefashionadvice and r/malehairadvice), work on your frame and outcome independance (r/stoicism), go to the party to have a good night, not to get girls, not to ignore girls (but if you cross paths with one, …
/r/askTRP10/01/16 09:51 PM
2

You might not think so, but you've gotten very very lucky, your fiance just showed her hand on the turn, and it's a straight flush to King. Fold, scram, get out. If she's saying this kind of shit to your face then she doesn't respect you. She thinks you're already in the bag and would never walk away. She's overtly saying "Hey bitchdick, make more money to buy me more shit, I promise some pity sex if you do". Big problem #1: You can't negotiate attraction. Read that again, and again. You cannot …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 05:46 PM
1

Good going man, keel it up! Riddle me this though, why shouldn't I take a cold shower after a workout? I find they're the best ones.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 09:49 AM
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Can anybody point out why? I don't get what the left have to gain from this? Is it to cover their own asses for being so open to opening the borders?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 02:49 AM
1

I agree with the most part, but RP Commandment one is "stop giving your attention to her if you're not getting sex, go work on yourself", this coupled with pre-selection is the whole reason dread game works. While making a covert contract for sex in exchange for money, favours or gifts is the key ingredient in an average frustrated chump casserole, attention is sex, prolonged attention is commitment. While men want sex, women want attention, they're synonymous with one another. It isn't to say t…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 05:56 PM
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While you're not wrong, it's nothing new. Keep up the writing and contributing, I enjoyed your rhetoric. It's easy to be over-negative in this community.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 07:28 PM
2

On this point, its much better when you actually find somebody who enjoys the same shit you do, its imperative for any LTR. Though, as you touched on, a girl will follow you into almost anything, and she'll enjoy it as well, if you lead.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 06:21 PM
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You give her praise, that's validation. Treats and toys represent the same validation. The dog respects you, so your praise will suffice, however if your dog wasn't looking up to you as its leader, it wouldn't give a flying fuck about your praise. It's an eerily familiar parallel to our own relationships with society, not just women. Betas try to buy other people's affection with niceties and gifts, and get upset and confused when it doesn't work. Alphas are leaders, the praise of a well respect…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 06:15 PM
1

"I'm a coach now" - Fantastic, I'm stealing that. But explain your reasoning behind approaching Model just because PL told you to. She wasn't going anywhere, while it worked out, you qualified yourself. I understand you were never going to go for PL, but women talk. Nonetheless, a great submission. Keep the posts coming.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:15 AM
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Femininity is reactive by nature, masculinity is proactive. When a woman involved with a beta has to fill in the void and become proactive to make up for betabux, she will resent him for it. When you care about yourself, your frame and your interests first, and actually take action to strengthen and further them, that's attractive masculine proactivity. But when you start sacrificing your self interests for a woman, that's reactive (read: beta) because you're attaining a sense of importance from…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:16 AM
1

Also, he could cycle/run wherever he needs to go.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:58 AM
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Don't lie, don't make stupid plans. Tell her exactly what happened (if you want), then cut the cord (if you want). It sounds to me like you had her stuck somewhere between plate and girlfriend. She'll say "but we weren't officiaaaaal", and she's right. You should've either plated her and kept it at that, or LTR'd her. Learn from this in-decisiveness and don't make the same mistake in future. Also, this post will get removed. It should be on AskTRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:53 PM
4

Just to jump in, I'm a few years on down the line from you. I dropped out of an in-demand college course because I didn't enjoy it. It was tedious and I wasn't as interested as I thought I'd be. You wouldn't give your time to a HB that you didn't enjoy spending that time with, so why give your time to something you don't enjoy for the sake of 10% more money? Pick something you enjoy doing that also pays prett well, work hard at it and be confident in your ability to master it to the extent that …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:06 PM
2

Perhaps. I wasn't disagreeing per se, just elaborating. The tingles aren't caused by all assholes, so much as "aaaaaaassholes ;)", context is everything.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 04:36 PM
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A girl saying "Asshole", and a man saying " Asshole" are two different things, though the way it's said is more important. OP means being an asshole by your own standards, not your girl's.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 10:41 AM
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If any young men here think this is bullshit, I understand. But complaining about not things not being fair is beta. It absolutely is not what this sub is or ever has been about. It might be unfair, but if you had that much power you'd be silly not do the same. You want to dodge alimony? Don't get married. If you do get married, be good enough at whatever it is you do to make 200k+. We all are armed with the tools we need to do it, either we live to our full potential, or we die the cowardly lio…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:13 PM
3

Pygmy woman. Don't be such a misogynist.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:57 PM
2

If only. My tax is the same as your tax, corporation tax is low.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:32 AM
2

Bingo. They're trying to use the argument that there are geographical quota's, so there should be gender based. Why not introduce age based, race based, special needs based?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:17 AM
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Interesting, you make good points, where can I learn more about this? The world is becoming an Orwell novel, Jesus. The EU is the biggest pile of bullshit that ever came about. I don't feel Irish anymore, Ireland is just another province in the EU after the Lisbon Treaty.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:13 AM
1

Exactly. You know somethings up when people try to change democracy to suit themselves.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:08 AM
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True, it's just a spin on the old "You're only creepy if you have low SMV".
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 11:28 PM
1

You're right, but for me and a lot of your fellow rpillers, we read to find out why somebody is attractive and use that knowledge ourselves. It's about understanding, and the resources of the manosphere help us to do that. If you don't wish to learn, it's your loss. In your second point, you've made the assumption that it gets difficult for men as they age. That may be your experience, though most here have experienced the polar opposite, and as such you won't get far with that point here.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 11:56 AM
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We were all there once, all the best to him.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:55 PM
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I don't think you've grasped my point fully. Read tomassi's SMV posts and ctrl-f the red pill handbook for 'SMV'.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:48 PM
2

But what's the difference between free love and the cock carousel for 10/10AlphaBro? Free love comes across as benefiting the beta male, whereas the cock carousel is just the same sexual revolution in a society that's more judgemental and image based on every level, so the alpha's get the fux as there is a greater reward for the risk of being labelled a slut? Enter hypergamous doublethink. What do you think, having experienced it all?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:45 PM
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I'm 20. If I haven't improved my physique and lived my life by age 40 something drastic would've had to have happened. Generally, the average person's SMV will follow the graph shapes laid out on the rational male, you'll find them and loads of other info there with little digging. I understand your point OP, we shouldn't rely on youth, and you are right. But the thing is that for men, youth isn't necessarily the SMV boost that it is for women. The thing that boosts all of our respective SMV is …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:24 PM
1

Sloppy seconds for me is if somebody in my social circle fucked her, she won't be a plate for a long time. You can look at this as an insecurity, but it's just one of those things that doesn't sit right with me. I'll have to figure out why I get that feeling myself, but there's plenty women out there for me not to have to do this for the rest of my life. It's possible, yes, but that's not my ideal situation. If my plate is looking for something above and beyond me, I need to have the humility to…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:19 PM
1

I see where you're coming from, but would you rather be a lion or a hyena? I don't want any of my friend's sloppy seconds.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 08:55 PM
3

That point about shifting the responsibility back to him to relieve his awkwardness, you absolutely nailed the whole post in that sentence. Reminds me of an old post about shit tests. People will often create emotional tension to try to manipulate you, this is a shit test. Smashing the shit test shows that you see through their shit, you're actually laughing about how ridiculous it is, and won't jump through the hoop they've set up.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 03:17 PM
1

I understand. I learned the hard way about the 'beta backslide', as another commenter put it. I've regressed so much socially since my LTR began. The sickest thing is that you don't even notice it until one day you wake up like "how the fuck did I get here". The whole dualistic nature of women bitching to you about why you're not more of a loving beta who wants to talk on the phone every damn night, when you're trying to remember that it's some sort of a shit test so schizophrenic in nature that…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:24 AM
0

As cold as you can stand it. I'm not sure of any scientifically proven benefits, but it wakes you the fuck up in the morning, closes your pores, and is supposedly good for circulation, but I can't measure that. I just really like & recommend them.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:19 PM
0

On this note check out Odd Future's OF Mixtape Volume 2.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:14 PM
3

Agreed. I'm reading the rp handbook and I'd forgotten it's not about being a dick, it's looks, money, status. The most important of which is undoubtedly status. The other two are important, but status is the all-round perception of how you're percieved by your peers. OP is correct with his critique on the importance of looks, but using Tinder as an example of how looks are everything is obviously going to confirm his point, Tinder is a looks based dating app. Having good looks doesn't mean you'l…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 05:02 PM
2

Good post. My only criticism is that, while we love to spout AWALT, the reality is that not all women act so robotically, they all fall somewhere in a general area of a spectrum of behaviours. This is a powerful example of that behaviour. She's spot on about a woman's relative attractiveness though. My current LTR is in the more desirable and of this spectrum, however she's a bit feelz crazy, so it's hard. BRB: lectures
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 08:44 AM
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A comma that's there sometimes but not at others. Thermal/UV active ink or something. That being said, I'm with some other commenters. We don't need to draw attention to ourselves. We've seen the post quality go down the drain as the sub grew. We either need more mods to share the load or some sort of entrance exam to make sure people have actually read the sidebar before self-posting, if we're going to advertise that is.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 07:40 AM
1

I'm with you man, fake it till you make it works, but I'm getting at the difference between giving off the impression that you're successful and actually being successful. TRP game and PUA game, for me, differ in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 11:39 PM
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I'm not lying, I've worked hard to be truly awesome and I don't waste my time on girls that I'd have to lie to to have sex with. TRP, for me, is about being a high value human being, not feigning it or using confidence tricks like a PUA. The easiest way for me to put it is that while chicks dig the person your friend pretends to be, but they don't actually dig your friend. Chicks dig me as a person, as a result of me not pretending.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:41 PM
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I'm not attacking you, don't take it personally. This is a place for discussion. It's ironic that you would berate me for not reading the point of your comment, whereas you've ignored the point of mine and chosen to instead talk about how much it takes to fuck gold diggers. That has nothing to do with anything. You've used a tactic a lot of people use when they perceive a personal attack and clutch at straws to defend themselves, try to recognize it when you do it and when you see others use it.…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:00 PM
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You don't need a 300k apartment to get laid, unless you've got a gold-digger fetish.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:37 PM
5

Came here to say this. Chicks don't dig liars, what kind of man has to lie about his achievements? It's an incredibly beta trait and screams weakness & insecurity. While it is working for him, for now, it will all fall to shit eventually when he runs out of women or one of them (or a white knight 'friend') see's through his lies and tells everybody in the world, cause bitches & betas do that thing. Reputation is everything, guard it with your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:36 PM
1

Daniel Goleman's books Emotional Intelligence & Social Intelligence are fantastic resources on understanding how the brain works in social situations. A must read if you're into this sort of thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 08:14 AM
2

Yes! Throw Testosterone into that post as well. I understand the 'power poses' (from Amy Cuddy's talk) can affect both. Also, is there a way to maximize the dopamine released from a single success? As an amine, are there any foods/supplements that would give me more of the building blocks for DA synthesis?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 08:05 AM
1

I imagine it's due to the possibility of having ingested calcium, which limits the absorption of ZMA, but you should take it on an empty stomach. Unless there's something I'm missing?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 10:16 PM
2

Check out ZMA, there's plenty resources about it online. I started taking it last night along with vitamin D3 during the day, I woke Woke up laughing this morningmyself up laughing this morning. I feel a bit better today and I find it easier to maintain frame and control my emotions, although that could be a placebo effect.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:28 PM
0

I've been in a shitty local band, been playing music by myself for about 12 years, 5-6 professionally. You don't become attractive by virtue of being a musician, being captain of the football team was WAAAAY better than playing music for increasing your SMV, unless you're the life and soul of the stage and can get the crowd going every night. Being a musician before TRP gives you attention, a higher social status (marginally) and a bit of individuality, which you don't know how to use. However, …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 01:51 PM
1

I'm the same, though I find my levels of empathy fluctuate inversely proportional to my self esteem, self confidence etc. You need to learn to identify both the path that benefits you most and the path that you've been indoctrinated into by society (definitely check out the red pill sidebar for the article on the origins of morality and other social constructs). After that you need to strip it all back to whether you want the 5 minute endorphin rush from doing a good deed at your own expense, or…
/r/AlreadyRed08/08/15 01:18 AM
19

Fair play, you've made the right decision and you're getting compensated appropriately for your value. But tell me what you get from giving two shits about your boss's reaction? It's nothing personal, you had no spine so they fucked you about, they did it to the guy before you and they'll do it to the your replacement. This isn't a movie script where shitty boss gets told cause the beta bitch did what he should have been doing his whole life anyway. Shake the man's hand, pack up your shit and fo…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:03 PM
3

Don't ditch her if you don't have to, but if you cant treat her like a ho, let her go.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 11:15 PM
7

Always give less of a fuck. But dude, if you're trying to give less of a fuck so that random girl X likes you, then you're just digging a hole wherein you've defined the successful level of not giving a fuck as: little enough fucks so that girl X likes me. So in that regard you're still not free. You're still basing your decisions on external influence. Tbh I find it hard to believe you're spinning as many plates as you say you are if you're getting your panties in a bunch over this one chick, a…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:40 PM
1

Daily Check in #5: 6.5 hours. Went to bed at 4am, woke up at 10:30am.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:55 PM
1

Daily Check in #4: 10 hours. Went to sleep at 3AM, woke up at 1PM.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:19 PM
1

Daily Check in #3: 9 hours. Went to bed at 3, woke up at 9 for an hour, slept until 1.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:17 PM
1

Daily Check in #2: 10 hours. Went to bed at 3AM, woke up at 1PM.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:04 PM
1

Daily Check in #1: 9 hours. Went to bed at 3AM, woke up at 12PM.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:03 PM
3

Fulp_Piction will take part in this challenge. We should add 3 books to understand for the 30 days, The book of Pook, The 48 Laws of Power and the RP Handbook spring to mind. A stoic challenge would be of benefit to the community as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:09 PM
1

Hit the nail on the head there my friend. Morals and political correctness are merely an over-exaggerated social contract spiralling out on control since the original 'I won't kill you if you won't kill me' from the earliest civilisations.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 12:58 AM
1

If you ever want to know who is in power, ask who is it less acceptable to criticize. There's your answer.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:48 PM
1

*Replacement beta bux. If she's 'hanging out' with guys like op describes while sober, what about Chad T.C in the club?
/r/askTRP27/07/15 01:05 AM
1

Crabs in a bucket. It's easier for people to pull you back to their level than it is for them to actually be a better person than you. It's just a shaming tactic: "Your confidence is making me look bad, therefore I must hamster it into an undesirable trait to a) preserve my own self esteem, or b) lest I look second best, or c) because I'm too lazy to try etc.". As another commenter posted, A & A, ride it out, keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 04:43 PM
1

Boil it down to the bare bones and you've got two choices: split, plate up, have sex. Stay, have no sex and deal with a girlfriend who WILL develop a victim mentality. I'd advise you to split. Yes, it takes balls to disregard what's 'fair', but what do you get out of it other than 'nice guy' validation. Your call.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:15 PM
5

True that. You'll also notice that they're completely sane until you LTR them. Next thing you know her emotional state has the stability of a house of cards in a hurricane, she has anxiety, bipolar disorder, and borderline personality disorder and it's your job to fix it all. Bitch please.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 03:06 PM
1

If you want to make them feel like no other man can stack up, make it true. Be the kind of man that no other man can stack up to. There is no 'trick' or tactic other than hard work and discipline in every aspect of your life. It will take some time, but that time will pass anyway so you may as well be the best fucking you that could be.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 02:48 PM
1

Check out the Brad Pitt test if you haven't already!
/r/askTRP16/06/15 02:35 PM
3

Soft next, no dates, don't initiate contact. If she comes back: Netflix, wine, your place. If she doesn't fuck then you're out, cut your losses and forget about her. You've given enough of your time for nothing. Always maintain your self respect and integrity. If she doesn't come back then it's her loss, and you've dodged a big ass, gold digging bullet.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:54 PM
1

Hi IM, I've read a lot of Manosphere over the past year or so, and I've noticed that you speak on perhaps a deeper, more complicated level about things. A real dissection of the concepts. So in that regard, what is your thoughts on ego, validation and how to use them to your advantage with respect to the red pill, and life in general? It's something I've recently been grappling with after watching a lot of Alan Watts.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:38 PM
2

"if a girl is into you she'll have sex with you regardless of ASD or having her friends in the room videotaping it at a frat party". Each to their own, but on my experience ASD is at best a shit test caused by bad game. There is no sex better than sex with a woman who is uncontrollably passionate about you, and no sex is better than sex with a woman who has the slightest doubt about your alpha-ness.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 05:21 PM
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I disagree that the plate can just 'lose interest'. The reason you're not getting all her attention is that you're not all she's thinking about. If she seems distracted, it's because something (read: Chad Thundercock) is distracting her. There's another alpha in the vicinity so either up your game or cut your ties. Edit: 'Shitty way to end a friendship'. Don't shit where you eat man. Once you fuck a friend, it's not a friendship any more. I find it hard to believe you were true friends and not e…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:46 PM
2

Any links to the sex God method?
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:42 PM
2

You too: http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:22 PM
4

To quote the rational male: "A girl who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you". Check out iron rule #3 http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:21 PM
6

Dread game that bitch, if she doesn't respond cut your losses and plate up.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:15 PM
1

"Good" people are still engaged in the social economics "bad" people are, they just barter for a different product. Good people are good because it makes them happy, or because they should be. Perhaps I'm different, but if you're bragging about being good then you don't have much to brag about. I don't mean you specifically OP, this is a good post, but some aspects of it encourage the beta behaviour we all seek to drown like a bag of kittens. Seeking to give woman sexual pleasure for no reason o…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 02:16 PM
25

You're seriously up against it, if you want to patch things up then nobody on the internet can stop you. But for me you're pursuing an ex who's family and friends hate you for being a grandiose, arrogant prick. Why would you bother? If that isn't oneitis, I don't know what is. AWALT, go find a few new vaginas to pump.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:50 PM
0

I've been reading up on the Gervais principle today, just a few paragraphs on my break from work. Definitely read it, it's like putting on another set of to lenses to see the world like binary code. It's what I imagine being able to read the matrix is like. These people, that detract from the obvious truth because it's easier to use the same old excuses that society accepts (read: any excuse) are fooling themselves. They are the clueless. Consider it like this: We all know what the GM posters in…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:29 PM
1

You come across as seriously insecure and defensive. Check out No More Mr. Nice Guy and some Mark Manson. Have a mission, and a hobby, and work on both every day.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:53 AM
3

YMMV, but it worked for me. If you have a quicker/easier way of getting the same results, perhaps you'd share it?
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:01 PM
2

Check out the main sub stickied post. Basically, attention and sex are two sides of the same coin. When you give a woman your attention for nothing in return, that's her fucking you in exchange for sweet fuck all. To shift the dynamic, be the one who needs the other less, ideally not at all. Don't rely on them for anything, do your own thing, find a hobby, lift, meet real male friends.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 11:07 AM
1

Cold showers are about discipline and mentality more than just better circulation and a buzz in the morning. They're a choice you make to ignore what your instinct tells you you should do, and choose the path of discomfort over comfort, something everybody should cultivate. They help you realize that you are in control of your body, your actions and your emotions. If you can laugh for 5 straight minutes in an ice cold shower, you'll laugh whenever you want. It illustrates the ability to tap in t…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 10:55 AM
6

"Self respect comes after you do something you respect yourself for." A perfect way to put it. I'm writing that one down.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:37 PM
7

It's naive to think that an organisation independent of the government is free from political bias. FIFA is a 'non-governmental governing body' for example.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:45 PM
1

If he feels like he gets something out of white knighting a beta, nobody is stopping him. But in his position I wouldn't waste my energy, because all I see coming out of that situation is a little validation for being such a 'great guy'. Sound familiar? Lets say he does tell him, it's a coin toss about whether he believes him or not, the beta can hamster just as hard as a woman. The best option, for himself, is to game this chick (obviously pining for alpha cock) into moving him up the ladder. F…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:00 PM
2

Of course. Having no desires is pointless, as we would never seek to accomplish anything. However, I'm aware of my desire to lie on the couch all day, watch Netflix and get fat, but I don't do that, I don't allow that desire to control me, for what would I accomplish? I'm aware of my desire to take HB9 home, which ego and narcissism will accomplish, but I don't allow the outcome of this interaction affect my inner self, nor allow the ego inflation or validation I would receive to be used as a ba…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:33 PM
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It's not your job to fix another man's fuck up. He legally and emotionally invested himself in a woman he wasn't alpha enough to keep the tingles going in, and payed the price. We're not preachers, we can't unplug those who don't want to be unplugged. While we'd rather not see it happen, this is the reality of hypergamy and we can bitch complain and get angry about it like little girls, or use it to our advantage. I know what I'm gonna do. Alpha Fucks or Beta Bucks, It's your decision.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 11:14 AM
3

This reminds me as a quasi Buddhist application to westernism, an approach that all young men striving for freedom should investigate. Internalizing the ability to control your ego and your desires to work in your favour is true outcome independence. Meditate, lift, and practise the avoidance of easy comforts. Know that you will have fun, enjoy things in the moment for this too shall pass. Paraphrasing: "Say there are two men, with one exquisite wine glass each. The first man covets his glass, h…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 02:48 PM
7

Law 38: "Think as you like but behave like others."
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 12:17 PM
6

By giving her the choice, you are giving her the power in that she controls the future of your relationship. There is no way to really ask permission and maintain your position as the decision maker, as you're letting somebody else make the decisions. This, for me, is where you really have to know the ins and outs. Briffault's law (contributes to hypergamy) states that there only exists an interaction between male and female while the female gains some advantage from the interaction. As soon as …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:33 PM
10

Definitely keep your eyes open. "If you do it in training, you'll do it in the match". People resort to learned behaviour and what works/worked for them when the shit hits the fan and they're acting on instinct. It's by no means a deal breaker, but there might be one hiding somewhere that you missed or have yet to uncover.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:02 PM
2

ELI5 Direct deposit shenanigans?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:53 AM
1

I understand we have different approaches, but for me yours goes: "Oh my gf laughed at me? How dare she not respect me. I'd best get one over on her to level the scoreboard." The last thing you want to do is give her any control over your emotional state, which she has if she makes you react. Men act, women react. I would've told her (pokerface) that I hope she really likes ice cream, because she'd be eating a lot of it to soothe her tender throat after I rammed my cock down it (que her licking …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:47 AM
8

Bingo. She betrayed your trust, don't feel bad about betraying hers. Just remind yourself about Chad J. Thundercock Esq. pounding the woman you swore mutual exclusivity to if in doubt. Also, if your ho is looking for more meat somewhere else, you need to up your game: Lift harder, work harder, game harder.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:27 AM
1

Although this worked out, my gut says OP took himself a bit too seriously, what with the whole exacting revenge for licking your ice cream. Man's gotta have his boundaries, but if somebody oversteps them, they get cut out, zero reaction, just radio silence. By putting effort into controlling her it shows weakness, akin to a child throwing ALL the toys out of the playpen so nobody else can have one. I would've went for amused mastery or even a soft next before reacting. Anybody like to weigh in f…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:21 AM
3

Good body language and QUALITY of input over quantity. Making one good joke that leaves everybody in tears is monumentally more effective than 100 giggles, which is itself more effective than 1000 smirks. Nobody wants to be the dick at the bar who doesn't shut the fuck up. There was a great post on here (maybe last week) about body language (link: http://westsidetoastmasters.com/resources/book_of_body_language/toc.html) Start studying that, make eye contact and small talk with EVERYBODY. You'll …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 11:25 AM
11

It's amazing looking back on previous relationships, how you got into one and where it repeatedly went wrong. I found myself with serious oneitis in college, breaking frame at every opportunity, basically suplicating to a very sub par girl in the hope that I would be rewarded with the usual beta bullshit. The straw that broke the camels back was me getting her 'shit presents' for Christmas. She dumped me shortly after. I was also bottom of my social group, always getting ragged on etc. Surprise …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 10:22 AM
3

For me, game is acting. Good game is being convincing, but it isn't game if it's real. If we improve until we are the intelligent Alpha that OP speaks of, then we don't replicate, we become.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:21 PM
7

Bingo. "... went to sleep in the same bed as him in her panties" I just hope he learned from this falty friendzone fiasco.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:41 PM
6

"Unless you are not afraid to lose the girl" Why would any of us be afraid to lose the girl? Abundance mentality guys. Be bold as a motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:24 PM
19

True, women are biologically programmed to fuck the alpha to procure the best genes. Reduced chances of future kids won't eliminate the alpha tingles.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:50 PM
1

Chronic victim mentality plays a part here too. If people can rationalize that it's not their fault, life's not fair, it's out if their control, it means it's easier to not assume responsibility for the problem. The most common rationalizations I see are being fat, or being 'too stupid to work hard and get a good job's and this mentality bleeds into every aspect of their lives. It's a fear of failure. The very act of protesting, to me, says "Hey, society, fix it for me". People these days seem t…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:53 PM
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