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Girlfriend just asked for her nudes back... How can I phrase a breakup with her to potentially lead to sex later on in the future?

Jjj341
December 11, 2018
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Title Girlfriend just asked for her nudes back... How can I phrase a breakup with her to potentially lead to sex later on in the future?
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Jjj341
Upvotes 0
Comments 31
Date December 11, 2018 6:31 AM UTC
(7 years ago)
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[–]Pill-de-Blasio25 points26 points27 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

How the fuck do you give nudes back??? Did she send physical copies through the fucking post?

[–]BrutalMan42013 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

you dont store your nudes on a floppy disk? let me guess, you burn them to cd.

[–]Jjj341[S] 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually, I make composite drawings and frame them at my parents house.

[–]mountainbiker1781 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice

[–]Jjj341[S] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When I say "give nudes back" I mean that she asked me to delete her sexy pics that I took.

[–]Jjj341[S] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Give nudes back = delete them

[–]GetMeLaidAlot12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Yea, sure"

Then you dont delete them if you dont really want to.

[–]KilgorrreTrout7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol. Polaroids?

[–]Jjj341[S] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Morse code sexing actually. No, more like: "can you delete them please?"

[–]443610667 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ghost. Block without any further communication

[–]Jjj341[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What does this accomplish here?

[–]443610666 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Making her respect you

[–]Ceroe2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Just ignore her. If she was concerned about them, she would have never sent them in the first place.

[–]Jjj341[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah. It's this reasoning right here why I'm thinking she's preparing for a breakup!

[–]Ceroe0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Could be a shit test, to see how you react. Either way, ignore and don't delete it.

[–]justathrowaway14242 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t bother

[–]Fulp_Piction2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol just tell her they're gone

[–]Jjj341[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think this is what I'll do. Takes the least effort anyways!

[–]Gravel_Roads1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wait, are you breaking up with her because she wants her nudes back, or are you just really desperate to get "taken back" later down the line?

[–]Jjj341[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's simply a sign to me that she's covering all of her bases while preparing for a breakup. I'll beat her to it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Could you possibly be anymore vague?

[–]Jjj341[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably. Not much context required here though IMO.

[–]YslJames 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Move on

[–]Jjj341[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I already have, to other women of course.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Why are you so desperate to set up possible future sex? She's asking to break up...wants photos back.

Abundance mentality. Let her go, and seek out new women.

[–]Jjj341[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't feel like I have much to lose here really, I've already moved on to other women; I'm not desperate for shit! I'm simply trying to see if there was a way I could position myself for this to potentially happen later...

[–]INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok, I get that. If it were me, I would just focus ahead.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Tell her that she's lucky that you don't post them on gonewild, and leave it at that.

[–]_Icarus_Reborn_4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And that's a quick way to be charge under revenge porn laws etc.

My advice to OP would be either just delete them and be done with her or say you've deleted them. Then keep them on a separate secure USB drive and keep that to yourself.

[–]Jjj341[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We've established how to keep nudes on a phone that I control... How can I breakup with her in a way where I could set myself up to fuck her later in the future potentially here?

[–]_Icarus_Reborn_0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's outta my pay grade here fella.

I'm still very fresh here and probably not best to give out advice.

I'd probably scour the sub for similar posts. Or call on any EC. possible /u/gaylubeoil or uncle Vasilie. (probably butchered that spelling)

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