A chick is attracted to me. I am as well attracted to her.

Now the problem is plausible deniability. She has refused all the dates I suggested precisely because she knows what is going to happen. Our mutual attraction is known to all in our social circle and we both know we want each other. The very fact of her agreeing to a date would mean letting her take a decision which she will never do.

She is going to reach 25 and I am 29.

Now I am at a loss as to what to do. Should I neg her, or play some reverse psychology ?