Girl I’ve been with for 7 months now has extreme competition anxiety. I feel good that I’ve built up that fear in her, but now she’s acting up way too much. She constantly questions me about other girls, but I’m always nonchalant about it. She’s particularly worried about this one female orbiter I have that’s really hot. Example:

Yesterday we went clubbing, having a great time dancing, talking about banging later, etc. We go get our jackets to leave, and she steps outside. I stay inside for 2 minutes while I call an Uber, and she flips out at me for “texting another bitch with a smirk on my face.” I literally was just calling an Uber. Then she brings up how she saw me texting a ❤️ to the female orbiter, and how I should just go fuck her instead. This is all out of the blue.

She continues arguing for an hour, walking into a pizza store and telling random people our “story.” All this time I had a cool head on my shoulders and tellling her we should leave and talk about this shit in private. She eventually screams at the top of her lungs for me to leave outside, and I tell her to go fuck herself and I walk away.

She calls me 2 minutes later crying. I go pick her up and we get in a cab home. I drop her off, and she asks if I’m coming over, I say no, and go home. She then blows up my phone telling me to go fuck the other girl, how I’m gonna start dating her soon, how she’s not fit enough for me etc. She also says if I truly cared I would want to try to work through this argument. I ended it with “you pushed me away tonight. When you’re ready to apologize msg me. Otherwise good night.” Then shut my phone and went to bed.

Fuck man, it’s good to see jealously, but she has an unhealthy amount, and it’s really hard to deal with. When she gets angry she turns into hulk and it’s like impossible to deescalate. Maybe I spoiled her too much in the first 5 months (before TRP found me)