okay so i was scrolling through instagram and saw this girl who looked pretty and kind off familiar so i dmed her where is she from and she said a suburb very close to mine anyway long story short we chat a bit for a few days, on the dms, and now i am not sure what to do, i normally never dm a random girl ive never met before or even text game or anything like that normally just cold approach in person. so what should i do? would i sound a bit too needy if i ask her on a date?, shes 17 i am 19, or should i just continue and flirt with her on the dms and much later ask her out, or would i then just become boring? i am not sure what would be the best, i dont have oneites or anything i just dont have any experience in text game with a stranger, what would you guys suggest i do?