The girl I am dating is going thru “find myself” phase where she is staying up late, posting finding Jesus quotes on Instagram at 3 am, not eating or drinking enough water. Now i am not trying to be save captain save a hoe or white night, but when asked what’s wrong she didn’t wanna tell me. Despite her shitty toxic behavior, we still went out for a bite to last night, but her negativity is killing the vibe. She didn’t wanna talk about it (thanks god). Did I do my part in helping but I feel obligated to “give her a hand” which i WONT be doing but why do I feel the need to “be there” when someone won’t open up? Should i Just tell her HMU when things look better?