How to raise a boy...

CockyAndHot · 2019-04-16T14:17:54+00:00

So this is going to be controversial in TRP, but heres the truth.

Being pure alpha is not ideal for fatherhood. Testosterone in men is linked to reduced empathy (especially towards children), aggression, impulsivity (e.g. drinking and drugs) and cheating - all things that are bad for fatherhood. Actually, when males become fathers their testosterone drops. Why? Well probably because of those exact reasons.

You can't really act abundant with kids, because you probably dont have an abundance of kids and wont be willing to leave your kid if they fuck up.

Remeber. Alpha FUCKs, beta bucks. Its not Alpha fucks and raises children, beta bucks. Alphas are very good at sexual attraction, not long term relationships and fatherhood. Women know this, thats why they want to fuck the bad boy but marry the beta. In biology this is called female dual-mating startegy.

TRP tends to misunderstand alpha as just meaning "all good male qualities", when it really just means sexual, short term relationship strategy.

RedPieuvre · 2019-04-16T14:12:27+00:00

Here's a pitch I found : * Listening and observing, without judgment, so that boys know they're being heard. * Helping them develop strong connections with teachers, coaches, and other role models * Encouraging them to talk about their feelings about the opposite sex and stressing the importance of respecting women * Letting them know that they don't have to "be a man" or "suck it up," when they are experiencing physical or emotional pain.

"...stressing the importance of respecting women" caught my eye... Feminine imperative... Exactly what I thought.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-04-16T15:01:54+00:00

By leading by example. It takes a man to raise a boy. Words are cheap and come freely. Action is the solution.

SimplyFishOil · 2019-04-16T15:38:44+00:00

Trp guides you to fatherhood, but trp does not guide you through fatherhood.

You gotta put aside the mentality of banging multiple women. It's not about you anymore, it's about the kid, and you need to lead him through life and make him into a better man than you were

nexther · 2019-04-16T19:19:03+00:00

With a regular masculine and feminine figure in his life.

CainPrice · 2019-04-16T13:59:10+00:00

People publish books to make money, not to help you.

Title	How to raise a boy...
Author	RedPieuvre
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	April 16, 2019 1:48 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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