how to re-introduce bdsm?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-04-22T04:27:49+00:00

Say smth, like "Hey, remember when we talked about BDSM? Let's try that."

Then discuss.

Further Reading:

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women

-How to lead when she wants to follow.

Submissive Girls, Part II: More Fun With Submissive Girls

-Chatting her up about how she wants to be kept down.

Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.

-The Field Guide to playing knotty games with naughty girls.

Of Human Bondage, Part II: Slave Girls Are Fun

-When Life Sends You a Slave Girl, Put a Collar on Her.

Of Human Bondage Part III: Slave Girls of the Red Pill.

-More fun with Slave Girls.

RuGiZuGi · 2021-04-21T14:51:08+00:00

Just bring it up, you shy or something.

You don't have to be all like hey let's try this BDSM thing, stop treating it like it's some peculiar activity, just tell her what do you wanna try with her, whips, ropes, tying up, stuff like that, mention it , say it, you can be straightforward and you can say you wanna tie her up and use her up.

Not sure why people pussyfoot around such shit.

TheDevilPutD · 2021-04-21T15:08:05+00:00

Start with light bdsm, you can pull her hair, place your hand on her neck as you talk dirty in her ear. Once play starts, you can tie her up to the bed posts with some spare tshirts or scarfs.

btrpb · 2021-04-21T15:14:33+00:00

Just fucking tie her up.

319Skew · 2021-04-21T16:42:38+00:00

"I'm going to do somethings. If you feel uncomfortable and want me to stop, I want you to bite down on my hand. I won't be mad or upset, and you're in control.

Now, I'm going to tie your hands..."

She'll know what's up. Keep the mood as a pleasant tension and anticipation. Go slow. Keep communication going and walk her through it each step.

Some women try to power through it to make you happy. So take your time to observe her reaction and not what she's saying.

Don't do this with a random plate or someone with mental issues as this is a great way to get into trouble.

kclanton80 · 2021-04-23T18:28:48+00:00

Buy some handcuffs or restraints and use them the next time you see her. Being spontaneous is much better than discussion about it first. Be very mild the first time.......then get more adventurous as you go along.

Title	how to re-introduce bdsm?
Author	zestNotJest
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Date	April 21, 2021 2:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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