I (24) met this hb7 (27) from okc on Friday last week. we got along great and she gave many little IOIs, she has the same music taste and likes the same video games (which is rare for girls) and sells herself somewhat unique. We went for a long walk and then for dinner and then I tried to get to her place, which was of course not cleaned up enaugh according to her.So I thought, well that's bad a long date with no happy ending here. So I went for my train home after dinner (should have done that earlier). She wanted to come with and wait for my train (40 mins!)

So in summary I was getting the vibe, that she kind wanted me as her new boyfriend and was playing a bit hard to get, so I woudn't know she is a slut.

We texted a little little back and forth on the weekend she was investing more than me (I know, via text...) and SHE made the suggestion to watch a movie at her place for yesterday.

But then she got flaky and ultimatively she hat to work yesterday, which would have been her free day usually.

At this point I ignored the bitch and her smalltalk texting (she sends a few messages every day, how her day goes and stuff, while I merely respond with "oh cool", or "really?") until she came with an alternative day. SaturdaySo I asked "then movie on Saturday?"

She texted: "Sounds really like great idea. But maybe you wouldn't want to get sick, since you have a test on Monday" (I think she has a little cold)

So I am a little annoyed by her bullshit and that she can never really say "yes" or "no".

I mean I know that the medium is the message and I am probably not her first choice and she is somehow not in the same mood than she was on Monday, when she had the idea to watch a movie at her place.Maybe she is shittesting if I am needy enaugh to say "I have a good immune system, won't get sick", or if I loose my shit and tell her to go fuck herself, and overtly call her out.

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So here is my question:

So how do I react? Just with an "ok" , so she is hamstering if I got it or not.

Do I tell her "let's see how you feel on Saturday" and then ignore her.

Do I ignore her completely right away and don't text back until she makes a clear statement or not

Am I being paranoid here and the best way is to say "your place at 5pm" ?

the thing is, that I think she is still somewhat attracted, beacuse she is always testing with smalltalk, if I'm still responding, easpecially when I cut back the invest, maybe that's all one big shittest, maybe the bitch is insane.