Hello,

firstly ignore the name, it was a joke at first however seems to be more fitting for me at the moment.

Put simply I am talking to a girl, being new to TRP I have used a mixture of BP and RP techniques unknowingly. Passed and failed shit tests alike etc. Been speaking to this girl for about 3 weeks and haven't had sex. Although some foreplay on my part. Obviously I am doing something wrong. We have spoke about it a few times... she said she wants to but in my eyes, if she really wanted to she would have by now.

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I am really trying to use this girl to gain knowledge and hopefully not fuck up in the future. I am currently a fat piece of shit and currently improving my looks, weight etc. and met this girl purely by chance therefore finding someone else at my stage would not be easy. Hence my Oneitis and reluctance to move on.

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She still has interest in me it seems; we get on really great which is good however, I feel like its potentially fading. Also as I said haven't banged yet which is a problem. I have been gaining more knowledge and I know the obvious answer would be to next however, I feel like I could pull it back with the right guidance.

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I have been looking into dread game; I am already getting my text game down, only using it for logistics mostly. I am due to meet up with her later this week. Do you think I should just use a scarcity tactic, not bother messaging her, wait for her to text me and ignore, or say I am busy etc?

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Thanks people,

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