So I am a virgin so I put a lot of emphasis on kissing and such, and I had the perfect shot like 3 times with a girl and I didnt make a move at all.

After this I called her she didnt pick up and I just waited since the ball was on her court and 4 days later she texted this huge wall of blaming her panic attacks and that she was feeling down and her anxiety (this is true tho she does take medication and all for this) I replied no biggie,

we eventually met up on monday all was good and I was checking if the vibe was still there, it was big time so I told her we should set up something this week, that i'll call her to set something up

Low and behold, I call her she didnt pick up I left a message on whatsapp saying "Hey stop (inside joke here) and gimme a call" it was meant to be funny but dont know how it got interpetred but anyway she didnt call me or even read the message yet (but they got notifications so they know what the message said without reading it, whatsapp perks)

Anyway, TL:DR: I feel like I lost attraction by not making a move and then I made it no challenge for her as I said I would contact her to set something up, this dried her up and shes now doubting my real value and testing me. How can I recover this? What should I do now? Ignore until she reaches back, if she does?

PS: Its not like im dying to fuck this girl but hey im a virgin in college at 21, so every chance I get I want to try to make it a life experience all the way, so thats why im asking what should I do here to salvage things?