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| 1 | I cant seem to be a manI did get a guitar a year ago and liked playing it, but the music shop guy ripped me off and it was a shitty guitar with horrible sound, low quality cords and then a month later I just lost interest and wasnt going to put up another 100 bucks for a decent guitar | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to be a manThats what im kinda basing it all on, its something 'I needed to go through', and its still scary af but once I do it | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 09:54 PM |
| 0 | I cant seem to be a manI know they are nothing but excuses, but what can I do about them? I tried fighting them and came burning down | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 09:53 PM |
| 0 | I cant seem to be a manI have plenty of drive, I just keep making the same mistake. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Low selfworth/ approach anxietyI feel you in every single way. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to be a manthought of that already, opened a gay porn and a sexy cute teen porn, on the gay one I was kinda disgusted, on the sexy cute teen one I wanted to be there myself and treat her right. So I kinda got my mind made up already, so the problem is something else | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 07:41 PM |
| 0 | I cant seem to be a manThats the thing, I do know, dont really know why I dont do it. Lifted first year, then college came and did here and there but now with corona im skinny af | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to be a mantrue 100%, having a hard time changing that mentality | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | I feel... Lost. (Long)If you wanted to? What do you mean? Its forever? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)Thanks for the tip. I'll read the book. What you're saying is that tripping with friends is fun, and tripping alone is more about you and is better? Which one would you recommend for the first time? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I was on the fence between doing my trip alone or with a close friend of mine who knows my struggles and is always there and himself has his struggles and has been wanting to trip too. What do you reckon? Alone or with a close friend? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I will most likely go with recommendations and go to more than one to see which one says, if I see a pattern i'll follow up | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | I feel... Lost. (Long)This is something i've become closer and closer to realizing and today was the day I think I made the step. Last few weeks right before going to sleep i've been going to my window and just... appreciate the darkness. The cold air. The silence. The fog. And it really clears my mind. This is something I needed to understand: Enjoy the ride. Life isnt about from 0-99 is horrible and at 100 its the best moment ever. Life is about enjoying the process, the little things. Sometimes you need to suffer … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)Thanks for the reply. I've been wanting to do two things. One is therapy. Another is try LSD alone and just before doing it have one goal in mind: "Kill this anxiety. Have a conversation with my self and solve this forever". | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I wanted that. But one my closest friends told me this and its something I need to start paying more attention to: "Start ENJOYING life. You're too focused on perfection and the end goal. Enjoy where you're at right now. You could be dead. Be thankful." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)Yep yep yep! I wanted to go to a therapist for a while now. I wont take anything before checking with a professional first. I was going to one in march but corona hit hard and not I have to wait for it to go down first so maybe in june or so i'll go to one finally but until them im left with myself. Do you recommend a psychiatrist or psychologist? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:50 AM |
| 2 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I feel you. I feel you. I felt like I was making so much progress and that fucking girls brought out the demon that I was avoiding in me. Now I had to face it head on and at the start it hurt badly. Now im starting to get the hang of it slowly but as you can see, its still not that easy. But its comming. Soon I will slay that demon, and when I do the next girl that comes can try but there wont be any demon for you to bring out. Its already defeated. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)One of the biggest reasons I never approached: I had crooked teeth. I just got braces a month ago and because of this corona shit I wasnt able to yet show them off because now I can smile without covering my face | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I kinda found that med already but I was waiting for this corona shit to pass for me to then go to a therapist first My mother? Its... hard sometimes. She was and still is wayyyyyyyyyy overprotective, very neurotic and sometimes crazy dumb acting emotional. I kinda blame her for a lot of shit but I learned 'Oh well, thats that. Shes kind of toxic but whatever.' and I try to throw that shit behind my back and move onwards | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I want to be a giver. I really do. But after so many years in fantasy land and me-land its hard | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)This this this. A great friend of mine is always the life of the parties and I always love to see what he does. He never ever talks about himself. Always makes everything about the other persons. People always love him. I always tell him 'I see what you are doing' (in a joke manner, we talk this shit a lot of times) and he always says 'Exactly. Why dont you be like me? You're only missing out'. And its true. Everything I do is centered around me, this creates such big pressure. I live in my own … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)You're completely right, one of my closest friends dropped this gem a few days ago: "When you're nervous, dont fight it. Dont stress it. Dont feel bad. Its good to be nervous. It means you're doing the right thing and are on the right path." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)Hey, if a hot 35 year old milf pops by im wrapping my dick and fucking her for sure dude, not going to go raw at all. But honestly my current aim is more of the petite type and milfs are kind of meh (from a virgins stand point) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I honestly think its this: I feel like I need a little push. It isnt comming from me. I honestly deeply think its going to be therapy and antidepressants thats going to give me this push. I will be going to a therapist after this corona shit and I think thats what I need. That little daily boost of happiness will get me to do shit and get more motivated. This will make me fuck girls and reach my goals, then I get off anti depressants and since I reached my goals I feel happy and I dont need anti… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I read those books already, my mentality is set and this last few months I want so fucking much to go to a therapist. Because I think thats what im kind of missing. A little push. And Antidepressants can give me this push I believe. What kind of therapist did you go? Phyciatrist? Phycologist? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)That whas my mentality at 15 "pfft i'll get chicks later" yet seeing all your peers get girls and you get a videogame is not the way to go. If I can make money easily I want fucking girls now, I want a relationship, I want to feel loved, and the opportunity is there but my case is that im not taking it. And I dont know why | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I feel old as fuck at 22. One of the worst feeling I have is that im late for the 'race', 22 virgin? Thats why I stress so much, I put so much pressure in myself. It usually works but with girls its taking forever and im getting frustated but im getting there. I was having the most perfect gym routine this last couple months but corona came to fuck it up. But I took this time to really control my emotions day by day and understand them and its working out for the best honestly | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I did spend months getting my style up to game, my cologne with the best smelling, but you're right: I am kinda unfocused. Not totally. But I am unhappy. Because I've spent so much time building myself to this point and all I need is to go out there, i've done enough, I improved so much, I know so much, I have the rage inside of me but when the moment comes I always back off. Always. And I never understood why. Its like somethings missing or im making excuses. I cant get my hands on it. Maybe be… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I feel... Lost. (Long)I was doing the gym thing, corona fucked up my schedule. I need IG because of my college, they post most updates there and many of my friends only talk there to me when they need to speak to me, but i've deleted all of my pics except 1, and removed all stories bullshit and rarely post a story and rarely go on IG to watch other people I smoke weed once a week or once every 2 weeks and just a little bit, its usually more a party thing and I dont feel it interfered with myself at all as its somethi… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I feel... Lost. (Long)When I said I smoke weed, its once every week or every two weeks, I dont smoke every day mainly because a lot of my family had lung cancer and shit and its fucking scary trust me. Even before I smoked weed I didnt dream, I started smoking weed 1 year ago or 2 and I havent dreamnt in like 8 years | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 0 | I feel... Lost. (Long)Because in the start, I faked it until I made it. Only that when I made it (I got a girl in my bed watching a movie who was giving HUGE FUCKING iOis) I still managed to fuck up (I didnt mke a move at all). Then I made the decision that faking it was not the way to go and decided to build it up from the ground up. This was 2 years ago, today I am the way I am right now. I feel im just missing some little push and I just cant put my hands on exactly what and its driving me crazy | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Glasses... Yes or no?Up until 19 I didnt know what my errors were. At 20 after 1 year of TRP reading I knew the insides outs of myself easily. Yet, I still dont do nothing about it. Just today, I have so much shit to do yet im here having a anxiety attack. Mad at everything. Because im 22 and lost so many opportunities of having a good time, of life in general because I dont want to fail. My parents always wanted me to be perfect and never fail so I guess thats why I dont like to fail? So I never do things that have… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Glasses... Yes or no?Its not lack of reading, its deeper than that. I've been reading TRP, books and whatever else for over 3 years now, I know the theory. Want to know what I lack? Experience. It took me the first 1.5 years to be able to talk to girls without sweating and thinking shit about myself. It took me another whole year of a deep oneitis and 'heart break' to understand myself, to be able to control my emotions, things that most people learn to do or do in their teens while I spent my teens playing video ga… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Glasses... Yes or no?Yeah what I was thinking originally | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)Basically, I can either keep wondering forever and stay comfortable, or get out of the comfort zone and face reality instead of basing everything out of fantasies of my own head. You're saying there is no magic I can do, no magic words, I just have to face my fear and do it. Forget about failing or not, I should aim my success at trying not the outcome, because if I try it means I can and if I can I dont have to fear it anymore | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)You're spot on, I do think its a matter of time, I cant ignore the thoughts between now and then and its them who fuck me up. Basically you're saying: I know what I need to do, next time instead of thinking just do it, get disciplined. I know I need to escalate to get laid so why am I not doing it? Its not going to fall in my lap, yes its hard but I need to dispise comfort to get comfortable | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)Do you really want to avoid living your life because you don’t want someone to judge you for 5 minutes and then forget you exist? No I do not, thats why I feel frustated. I say I dont want to eat apples yet I eat them everyday and everyday I regret eating them. This is what is happening. I know I shouldnt eat apples (example) yet all I do is eat apples. I want to stop but I cant. Something is holding me back? Is it admiting to myself? I dont know honestly, I dont know anything anymore | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)When the gyms back open, i'll try it out then. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)I kinda always wanted to experiment at my local gym some muay thai, but want to know something? Just getting to the gym im always thinking im being judged, but at the actual lifting its pretty much gone because I just ignore it at this point but sometimes it still hits me, now going to experiment a new martial art? To have someone tell you to run and you cant run shit, cant even throw a decent punch and to fall extremely behind and have the teacher ignoring you because you cant do shit, this irr… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)get out of your head and into your body. How? I really try to, and i've gotten way better at it but the fear is still there, I dont feel enough to go outside right now and just spark up a conversation with any girl. "You're not enough" "You're not worth it" "You cant do it" "You're somehow not meant to have any girl ever" and I stop myself in my tracks and remove this stupid thinking but the damage is done and I feel like shit for the next couple of days | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)The thing is: I know, but I cant seem to stop it... Dont know what the action plan is | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Lost... (Long)True, and I feel that deeply but when the moment comes I just... cant bring myself up to do things. I've made a lot of progress on this, I catch myself on the act a lot of times such as going to the gym, not wanting to do a hard task, but when it comes to girls I just wasnt able to break the cicle as I did with going to the gym or being lazy in general... What did you do to force yourself out? I feel exactly like in a loop running in circles just repeating every week, just deja vu after deja vu,… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Lost... (Long)I kinda used to write but then after writing the next day I would read it and cringe at it and just delete it | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Lost... (Long)I was going to do eye surgery in April but thanks to the corona virus, the clinic is down until at least June so I wont be doing it anytime soon | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Lost... (Long)I try to be grateful for what I have, I really do, because around me are way worse cases of peoplee with worse stories than me, yet I feel like im not enough simply because I put a lot of focus on women since age 12, and until I lose my virginity its just... weird... Some days im fine other days I just want a chick to fuck the brains out of, yet when one comes around I fuck it up, and this is frustating as fuck and it makes me go insane and crazy mad, everytime I beat my personal bests on the gy… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Lost... (Long)I didnt want it to be this long, it just flowed and I just said fuck it and posted it, didnt expect any replies honestly. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Lost... (Long)Just so you see, I look better with braces than without braces. My teeth were that fucked up, even my friends told me I looked cuter with braces. I had to remove my 4 wisdom teeth plus 2 extra just to fit everything in my mouth... I am unconfident in myself because I used and still do base everything off looks, and in looks term I lost my way. Fucked up teeth made my jaw a lil lil lil bit crooked, huge nose, weird eyes, ugly ass glasses, horrible posture, it took me two years just to wake up and… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Lost... (Long)From november to january I had a journal, would write everything down. Then the next day cringe myself and delete it | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)I feel like im just wasting away life, never had someone hug me and love me and it hurts man it does, I want it man, I want to feel wanted, but I dont know how, is it fucking bitches and being chad? But I dont want that, I prefer a ltr even if short cause I got no time to be gaming people, I barely got time for myself, its hard man, and the feeling that I finally had the perfect shot and missed it just hurts man | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)I dont know im going insane im just going crazy over the pressure upon me my huge ego? my bad genetics? my bad luck? my bad starting hand? my fears? my no-action-taking days? my 2 years of gym with no results? I dont know whats wrong and im fearing that im starting to stop caring about it and returning to my old self, the incel self im growing each day further from what I was and its scaring me I need to take action, but I cant, some how, its unfair, but hey im 21 its too late to change anything… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)Thanks man but honestly, its just a cicle thats going to repeat itself. Im just going to give up. Im just going to try again and in a few months im back here on TRP with a long ass post crying again. Its enough, im tired of this shit, tired of all of this. I was able to do the hard part but not the easy part like wtf? Just stop it dude im tired of trying, tired of failing, tired of not going anywhere with my life, tired of beating myself up, tired of wanting to live and just thinking am I good e… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)How bro? How?!?!? Thats my big question? Whats missing? Cold approach? Doing what my brain tells me not to do aka leaving my comfort zone daily? Getting a job on customer service? | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)Not really because it was not much of actually bullying because if someone bullied me I would lash out, more like being outcasted. Feeling outcasted. Feeling judged. And girls didnt do much to me actually, they were friendly actually. I had a girl or two actually get a crush on me but since I was only seen in classes and didnt give a flying fuck if you talked to me I never got far as you can imagine. Im in a vicious cicle. Low self esteem -> Breakdown -> Get up -> Identify problem (overthinking,… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)Its true. TRP and my closest friend were my parental guidance. Honestly, I feel like my life is getting somewhat right in some way. Im really understanding what my life goals are, im fixing my teeth, im getting my glasses off, I understand the world, im being independent now, doing a lot of things by myself. But the 'why me' is part of the what ifs problems you mentioned, this I dont know how to fix. Im too much outcome dependent. When I smoke weed with my friends here and there and I go to slee… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)That is what hurts me. How can someone be as retarded as I was? That just fuels my old ways of 'you're not part of this world' and just worsens the feeling that I need to end my life because obviously im too late for the party and im not worth the trouble | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)EXACTLY, EXACTLY, EXACTLY, THATS WHY I BEAT MYSELF UP EVERYDAY, HOW AFTER SO MUCH YOU FINALLY GET WHAT YOU WANT YET LOOK WHAT I FUCKING DID. I WAS AND STILL AM A TOTAL PUSSY. i dont know what is wrong with me how do i change that shit? i do the most random shit, i make random conversations with people, i approach random people, my friends all say im the craziest around, I did and do way worse shit than fucking kissing a girl yet somehow I CANT DO IT! WHEN IT COMES TO SEXUAL THINGS ITS LIKE I HAV… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:29 AM |
| -1 | I want to move forward but I cant (LONG, RANT)I know the problems, the big asnwer here is the 'how' how do I fix them? I've been reading TRP for 4 years now if there is something I know the sidebar but somehow I am not 'accepting' it and I DONT FUCKING KNOW WHY AND ITS SLOWLY KILLING ME INSIDE, WHY? FUCK ME SIDEWAYS | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | On Never Showing WeaknessThe biggest beta male giveaway is the fake vibe they give off from pretending to be James Bond. I feel like I show this vibe during some days and I am aware of it but dont know how to change it, what should I do about it ? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant)Damn, thanks for your words. I dont know why but reading replies like yours really opens up my point of view, I just feel helpless sometimes like im going on in circles, but then certain words open up and make my brain click, its been a rough couple of years battling myself mentally, and i've been trying to find the solution in a bunch of pixels without actually making any change in the real world There’s no magic answer online, I’ve already looked. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant)I usually throw the word 'I'll do it!' to replies to my posts here on TRP like shit, I never mean it and just say it to make the poster feel better about trying to help me. But one thing I can guarantee you, from this point onwards im going to take all the shots that come my way, from retarded to stupid, and for the first time I can tell you, im going to break out of that circle. I dont need you to believe in anything or shit, im just saying this as im kinda in awe at whats been missing has been… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant)You made me bang my head on the table and feel weak as fuck, because honestly I think you replied to the last thread I made a month ago or so.... IM TIRED OF THIS SHIT, TIRED OF GOING AROUND IN CIRCLES AROUND THE SAME FUCKING TREE FOR FUCKS SAKE, TRP GOT ME INTO THIS FOREST BUT INSTEAD OF WALKING FORWARD IM JUST WALKING AROUND THE SAME TREE WASTING MY TIME AND I JUST NEED SOMETHING THAT CUTS ME OFF THIS CIRCLE. But how?!?!? Im frustated and every month getting closed to just ending it all, tired… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant)The average girl will almost always have more sexual experience than a guy. Get over it. THIS IS ONE OF THE THINGS IM HAVING A VERY VERY VERY HARD TIME TO ACCEPT. Like, since I was kind of a outcast until 18 I lived in nothing but fantasies and being someone with null experience I know that its nothing but fantasies right now but in my head when I look at girls I still see the innocent creatures they are, the unicorns TRP talks about, I dont see them as someone who 'I want dick' and gets dick, I… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant)I actually had it in the back of my mild that my way out would be to go all in, like cold approaching but not in the meaning of actual cold approaching. Like going up to chicks and just saying 'hey, just wanted to say that you got a really nice style and I like it very much' or shit like that, but I wont be dong 100s of approached looking for numbers and shit because its a small college town But I feel like what would actually get me in a straight line would be that, to just go to strangers and … | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant)Its just... Im scrolling on the internet and see a video on youtube randomly talking about losing virginity, everyone on the video and comments is saying 'middle school, high school', im like ok then, my friends all got gfs, im like ok then, a girl was really into me I wasnt able to make a move,im like ok then. A truth machine inside my brain takes all this input in and prints a paper with the results: "You're not right, you're doing something wrong" and then I get back on my feet, start feeling… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant)Exactly dude, I bust my ass 24/7 and when the rewards come its like something comes and just WOOSHs them away and here I am back in square one. You're right, it is scary. Somedays I do stepback and watch what I did wrong, I always take the easy way out. Failure usually is. Because kissing a girl or sex would mean I had to leave my 'comfort zone' so in a stress situation my brain auto picks the easy way out, failing. I feel like shit, you dont know what years of believing you're nothing but shit,… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?I am considering it as an investment, but still, its like I know im on the right path but instead of focusing purely on "ok when this this and this is fixed i'll be ready" I can take a look here and there because some opportunities come up | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?Worked fine now, thanks | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?Yeah I know how it works but if you press either the download or the magnet it redirects you and gives you 'server error', tried it on 2 browsers | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?Failed processing request. Sorry, something went wrong while forwarding your request. Wheres that from? The blueprint? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?At 19 I was: Fat, horrible hygiene, I ignored all girls in the room because I felt I was beneath them, when saying hi to friends always ignored girls, horrible haircut, ugly ass glasses, eated nothing but cookies and sugar, fapped at least 1~2 times a day. Then I found TRP along with a few of my closest friends giving me a big helping had. 2 years forward and honeslty if I think about it, i've done so much fucking progress... Like... jesus... I changed so much in these past years im kinda amazed… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?Yeah but how would you act in regards of what I explained above in getting my foot in the door? Since I got almost null experience I have a hard time finding IOIs to approach because I do get stares most likely cause the streetwear style I use and the hair and beard I have are on point but I just feel like they look at me to look at my style and then be on their way if I ever approached them they would be like 'wtf hell no' and this little bubble thats pops in my head alone breaks all the confid… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?Its true, for the first time i've been having a real go at the gym, 2 months in of true lifting, and caring about everything and eating enough and its just amazing the little details you notice about your body that signals change and its just awesome, I remember 2 years ago my local gym instructor was surprised I couldnt even do a pull up, for the first time I was able to do a full pullup, more than once! This little progress made me so fucking proud you wouldnt believe that shit... | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?I see the mindset you are trying to portrait but some shit is hard to own, and since I have some less capable social skills yet due to only at 2 years ago at 19 being the first time I actually got out to a party and made friends it was a rough path so DGAF is hard for me when the shit hits the fan, in the moment I just give a fuck and then after the damage has been done is when I realize what I did, because inside I dont feel like im worthy of a DGAF attitude, thus I need to cultivate it with po… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?What do you mean with my strenghts? But so far the only thing every girl that I have had a clear shot at says is the same, they love my the way I am, the way I act, the way I just do random fun shit out of nowhere, they say they just feel empty when not near me or my 'aura', so I got something going for me but I still need to get my foot in the door to show them how good I am, and since im lacking in the physical and since im still a very very inexeperienced person and since only 2 years ago at … | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?I am, and trying for years but its just so hard when shit like this hits you and you just wonder if its worth it | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?Hows that? We each other pick a random girl on IG and DM her. We do the exact same texts openers and shit, only difference on our profiles is our pics, we follow the same style, we take the same pics basically, his girls react to him and them DM him, and to me I get shit. Hows that? His face on his pics give off a certain vibe and mine doesnt? Then it kinda supports my point, not the point that looks is what matters but that face structure properly symmetrical will benefit and is what makes the … | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)I got what you meant dude, thanks, really. I will try to finally take action but im just in such a bad spot I honestly dont feel like I can do it. I've gotten motivation before and did jack shit with it, I just never do anything... | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 09:44 PM |
| 2 | I feel like this girl is playing games?attention whore imo | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How well does the TRP mentality hold up when you're not physically fit?This this this. I feel exactly the same as OP. Until im 100% fit, perfect face, haircut and everything THEN i'll be able to approach girls. But no, you see it everywhere, you can get girls, the 100% perfect is for the 10/10 models, to get the 8/10 you need game of course but as long as you're decent, you can score. You see it in the world around everyday, perfection is boring. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)I’m a fan of TRP, but you don’t need that at this moment. It can turn you into a bitter person by exposing you to things you’re not ready to see, such as women’s true nature (hypergamy) and that only fuels your disappointment. Being that you’ve been exposed, now you must go through it to come out a better man on the other end with TRP knowledge in the bank. What did you mean with this? That I shouldnt give a damn about any 'rules' and just go for it 100% balls blazing? It sounds like you’ve deci… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)I will do some HIIT at the gym after my workout. The pressure is really fucking me over honestly. I feel like, i've found TRP and this alone has given me such a upper hand on some people and even with that I fail. I gotta fix my teeth, jaw and shit like that but the braces themselves wont come off until at least 3 years, this really fucks me up. Am I going to be a 24 year old virgin? But then I think about the girls that gave me clear IOIs even though im ugly as a brick, what gives? Is it my sty… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)Not going to beauty it up: Its been shitty. I've either half assed it, or skipped a week due to something and then stop going for months on end. The best i've been doing is the last 2 months, going 4 times a week no failure, pushing myself every single workout and just pushing and pushing, eating protein and eating clean and healthy, and my personal bests are for the first time being beat over and over again, and the soreness proves it. Im actually proud of my gym routine right now. One of the f… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)Yes it is. I've always half assed everything including the gym, but for the last 2 months i've been going 4 times a week, actually doing and pushing myself, beating records, eating good, and the personal bests just keep increasing... Sometimes I just dive into the victim pool and lose the mentality I should have all the time... Sometimes I just need the reminders. Im half assing everything and convincing myself im giving my best, im being lazy and lying to myself about it. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)Sometimes I just dive into the victim pool and lose the mentality I should have all the time... This is what TRP taught me initially, if you cant change it, own it. If you can change it, change it you retard. Sometimes I just need the reminders. Im half assing everything and convincing myself im giving my best, im being lazy and lying to myself about it. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)Sometimes I just dive into the victim pool and lose the mentality I should have all the time... This is what TRP taught me initially, if you cant change it, own it. If you can change it, change it you retard. Sometimes I just need the reminders. Im half assing everything and convincing myself im giving my best, im being lazy and lying to myself about it. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)Sometimes I just dive into the victim pool and lose the mentality I should have all the time... This is what TRP taught me initially, if you cant change it, own it. If you can change it, change it you retard. Sometimes I just need the reminders. Im half assing everything and convincing myself im giving my best, im being lazy and lying to myself about it. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)Yes I did, I got incredibly sensitive eyes and extremely high eye reaction and dry eyes, the doc tried for like 30 minutes to get one contact lense in my eye and was amazed when I said I couldnt do it myself, you know that test they do before you see a eye doc? That flashes into your eye a light and takes a photo really quick, I had such fast reaction my eye closed instantly and the photo always came out with my eye closed, the doc was amazed again So yeah, im doing lasik, I have very low levels… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)What are you refering to? Im yet to understand | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | fucked up mentality due to being ugly (rant)???????? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)The thing is, I know what you are saying, but I cant seem to embrace anything at all, if you check my post history i've been on this exact spot for 2 fucking years and its breaking my mind down. Im honestly contemplating suicide on some days. WHY CANT I JUST DO IT? WHATS HOLDING ME BACK?? And the answer to that is what i've been 'searching' for so fucking long and the best i've could come up with is since our brain runs on feedback, if you get a lot of positive feedback then you must be good thu… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)I've been stuck in this place not for months but 2 years so far. I dont know how to get out of it thats why I post here every here and there because im exactly the fucking same. I dont know what to do. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)I just feel like im not worth it, like im going to ruin my reputation, I feel like I need to improve my face more, like teeth and shit before actually approaching, but then some other times im impatient as fuck regarding that as im still a virgin... I really dont know what to fucking do and im here on the fence for ages | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)Exactly, and thats why I make this posts. Because im scared and being this way its changing my own mind. I had over protective parents and only 3 years ago or so when I found TRP was the same time I started actually socializing thanks to my friends who changed my mind along with TRP. It took years for my mom to understand I was fucking 20 years old. I always was over protective and had anxiety of what might happen. I want to change, but I just cant grab the how to, How can I stop being scared? W… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)How can I change that? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right?I do have lots of fun in college but when it comes to girls I fear myself, I either shoot myself in the foot before it starts or if im vibing perfectly with a chick I pussy out and she ghosts or friendzones me... | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right?Im also kinda just wondering if im on the right path or not... No point in pushing foward if im not going the right way | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right?I will push forward forever, but im just wondering if im actually on the right path or I should change something up? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right?I will persist if I know im on the right path, thats why im asking to make sure im not working for shit | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right?You don't need to be a perfect red pill super alpha to get some pussy. I cant get over this, im aiming for perfection and until I get there I beat myself all the time. I cant help it, I need to just let it go IN MODERATION, keep pushing hard but also enjoy life. Goddamn im a virgin in college ffs, wtf am I doing? So many girls and look at me... | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right?issue is, people with way less, doing way less, not knowing half the shit, getting 100% more than me, is this how life is? he was born cute, success appears. he a total beta, got a hot ass gf since high school, guys who look like shit on a plate got a girl just like them for years and are way happier, whats up with that? Is it the way life is? Do I have to break my mind, my body, learn so much, 0 pleasures just to get 1 gf here and there and way less hot? Whats up with that? Am I just trying to … | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What is your age and lay count?Age: Sidebar Count: Next Her | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | I get out of the gym a new man, but lasts only a lil bitFrom what is written in this thread I can’t really tell if you are suffering from something deeper mentally that makes you feel this way I've been trying to figure this out too, I spent my teens with video gaming everyday and beating myself up everyday and I got kind of a mental block about that 'era' as I dont remember much, so I believe there is something there not letting me be me, i've made much progress but I still gotta battle with it. I've been trying to look for a good phycologist or som… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I get out of the gym a new man, but lasts only a lil bitthis this this I gotta fap, it makes me more horny for girls because I remember how slutty they can be but I dont get needy cause that surge to DM girls goes down | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedMy doc will in a month redo the blood tests if its still low he will probably increase it, i'll keep it for now and then see where I stand and if its still low i'll increase it then | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | I get out of the gym a new man, but lasts only a lil bitWhats Sexual Transmutation ? Never heard of it Its true what you said, just by starting your own journey you're already ahead of so many people that are just cruising around. I had a horrible starting hand, and I had so many shit on my life, a total incel at 19, and now im 21 and was able to get girls interested in me, got friends, got style, getting gainz, I matured so much mentally its amazing, getting crushed by emotions and regret cause of failures is what really makes you grow, I look back … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedYeah, someone commented that already and I checked and its D3, I take 1 vial every 15 days and each vial has 25000 UI of D3 and each box has enough for 2 months and my doc told me to at least get 2 boxes | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/19 08:00 PM |
| 12 | I get out of the gym a new man, but lasts only a lil bitI am, and its extremely hard. At 19 I wasnt even a player in the game, I didnt even consider possible that chicks could look at me and get interested, I gave up totally. Found TRP, started changing myself drastically, now I got friends, I know how to socialize, I know how to get a girl interested, hell I did it already, I am getting ripped, I am eating healthy, im learning about my body But the biggest battle is my mental side because 19 years of bad mental shit is hard to change, this year was … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I feel lied by my LTR about her "virginity"Europe | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedActually my doc gave me D3 | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I feel lied by my LTR about her "virginity"Its not that there cant be a good girl around, but TRP stories are all about the same thing: The girl lies to the guy, the guy trusts her and puts it all out for her, eventually the girls truth rises up, the guy is devastated and tells her to fuck off and gets so depressed that he feels suicidal, while the girl spends a few days emotional and then goes suck some other dick and thats it. Sure it can be true but its too good to be true. If someone came to you and said 'shake my hand and i'll give … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How should I use 100k to improve my social status?Should I buy an Instagram or Twitter with a lot of followers? I lulled at that Anyway bro: You obviously dont have the right mindset, yeah yeah I know that you read this and be like 'wtf what a shitty reply', but just keep this in your mind: You have the wrong mindset, read TRP, read the sidebar, watch up some vids, experience life, and in a few months come read that post again and see that it was stupid. Trust me, you can fake it until a certain point then the reality kicks in and you get knock… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 12:45 PM |
| 2 | I feel lied by my LTR about her "virginity"Its eye opening dude, it hurts like hell, but thats just how girls be... They manipulate everyone and everything. She wants a new car, the CEO is eyeing her but he only likes virgins, she puts up a front and marries him and he thinks shes the love of his life and in fact all she wants is a car and she feels in power because of it, because inside her mind she knows shes fucking him over, and on the side shes meeting up with muscular big dudes to fuck her brains out and leave her on the side of th… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 12:33 PM |
| 8 | I feel lied by my LTR about her "virginity"Bro, the thing i've been trying to tell you is this: Chicks do that on purpose. They create these 'fantasy' persons just for fun, they be like 'hum.. imma act all innocent so he can destroy me like im a lil girl hihihihi' and she acts like that just for fun, you dont really know how manipulate these girls can become and in their brain they are just having fun and its all for fun and giggles, but for you its serious shit relationship | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | I feel lied by my LTR about her "virginity"Dude, if you were a hot af girl that gets horny af at least once a month and gets dick anytime she wants from very hot guys, do you think you would last 24 years without trying dick out? Please... Girls do be like that, they create barriers because its in their nature, its how the human race got so far. Sure its like 'wtf why tho' but its how they be. You gotta change your mindset and your point of view, and it will hurt to know that this is the world we live in but it is what it is. Sure, not a… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedcaveman dude, chill, you're like the antivaxxer dudes, if you think you are right good for you but as you can see your opinion is not shared by most | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/19 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedWent to so much docs about it because of my skin problem mixed with my allergies its just horrible, but this was when I was little, now that im older its mostly only the usual sneezing and runny nose, it depends on the season a lot aswell but what i've been doing is: Nothing. Stack up on tissues and hold it. I dont take meds for it because they fuck up your immuno system and I dont like it, life is life, just get used to it. In my case after my college degree i'll move from europe to the states … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/19 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Got low SMVYeah I will probably about the extra 2, but the wisdom tooth had to go out anyhow and they arent healthy at all | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:11 AM |
| 9 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedactually I double checked the check up results and no zinc results are present, they werent tested at all! Should I get them checked? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 11:24 PM |
| 5 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedMy zinc levels were normal so the only cause for me was vit D and nothing more, but basically: Get your damn vitamin intake | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedDid you see any improvments? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Got low SMVAfter the 4 wisdom tooth and braces are in I will have to get extra 2 off to get space aswell... But you gotta do what you gotta do | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedNever believe anything and dont take it from granted, im just sharing my side and you could get them checked from a real doc and get a real opinion. NEVER go get the supplements out of nowhere without a doc first | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 05:57 PM |
| 15 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedbro im not going to prove nothing to you, you go do your own research and come to your conclusions, im just saying its something to keep in your mind, if you want a real opinion go to a doc Im not blaming it on anything also, I didnt even know about it until my doc told me, so you're saying my doc lied to me? Im just sharing that its working and other people could get it checked | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedThere are lots of ways just search it up, but if you have them low enough it WILL take quite some time to get them up to normal, the best is to take the supplement to get it normal and then go for it. Beware it can also be a problem related to absortion, if you take the supplements the doc will want a checkup 2 months later to see if its working, if your levels are still low then it means you have absortion problems and then its a whole another story | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Got low SMVI want to, thats why I posted here, I want to stop this bullshit behaviour | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Got low SMVYeah just comes to me. Its like im overseeing a maze in my head and each entrance is a thing that needs connecting, for example: When organizing a party I need food/drinks/place to host/invite people at least, so each entrance would be one of those and my brain just connects everything with steps inside that maze and I just follow what pops up and boom its done, sorry I cant be much of a helping hand here but I really dont know how to explain this, the problem is since I dont get pussy I beat my… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Got low SMVSomedays its hard to understand that, the victim mentality is strong with me and always was | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:31 AM |
| 0 | Got low SMVRemoving wisdom teeth I stay at least 2 weeks down each one and it really fucks up my motivation honestly, but I've been on a streak of consecutive weeks at the gym (2 months so far) | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:31 AM |
| 0 | Got low SMVYou made me chuckle with the chad part, you're right but another of my traits is impacience, a lot of it. So I get frustated... | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Got low SMVIt really is, all my friends always go for me when they need shit organized, when a problem needs solving or when its to schedule a party/dinner/meet ups its always up to me cause I do it perfectly and effortlessly | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Got low SMVI've improved a lot, but I feel like i'll probably check with a psychiatrist because why not | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Got low SMVI've been wanting to use them since 18 but my wisdom teeth are 4 times bigger than normal and upside down, removing each one is 3 hours of surgery, at least 2 weeks of downtime and not eating solids, and a big antiobiotic run, this shit fucks you up, your face looks like shrek, you cant even sleep, its hard man, in 1 year I was allowed to only pull 3 because of how healing and antiobiotic overdose is present | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Got low SMVyour orthodontist will tell you, check with him first. Mine are 4 times bigger than normal and are upside down, removing each one is 3 hours of surgery and 2 weeks of not being able to eat and a swollen face af, its hard man and im 3 down already only 1 more to go, you also gotta go on antibiotics each time so it fucks up your intestines aswell, if you gotta pull them do it as fast as you can because in one year I was only allowed to pull 3 of them because of antibiotic overdose and the time it … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Living a fantasy one day, reality on another (kinda venting/rant)Problem is, I know that... Thats why I cried at night after pussying out because I knew she wanted it, but the next time came around and I still couldnt do it... Same shit... In the moment I always craft a fast way to dodge the bullet of having to face my fear... And right now im making this post looking for a way to avoid having to face it, for a magical solution... I just dont know any more, hopeless | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Living a fantasy one day, reality on another (kinda venting/rant)Its true, I only game ever 2 girls in my life. Both of them became down to fuck, the first one I didnt do much because she ghosted fast the second one tho, I improved so much... I was able to escalate phyisically, to caress her face without freezing, its just a small step but honestly for me it was... such a huge step... you dont know how much more of a man I felt after doing it... Im just craving so much positive attention that I feel like im unworthy of life and of everything, I keep pushing b… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Living a fantasy one day, reality on another (kinda venting/rant)The kiss is where I get stuck. After the first kiss I feel like I know what to do easily, and I do everything right to reach the kiss part, when the time comes I just cant do it because I feel un worthy and that the chick isnt into me at all.... | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Living a fantasy one day, reality on another (kinda venting/rant)I've got victim mentality, I overthink shit, I complicate shit. I've tried a lot of things to change myself but its being half a year or more and im on the same boat. I had the goal to get myself into girls radar at least, to be a player in the game, to get girls interested enough to at least go on a date. Now I got to that point. And got kinda lost. I am complicating shit. I had a 'recipe' before, followed it, reached my point. Now im stuck for almost half a year on this 'phase'... Complicating… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itThats the thing. Until 19 I had 0 social life so all my base for social life is TRP. Basic shit is hard for me to get into me because I always feel judgmental about it because my whole life I lived a horrible social life, and its hard for me to take shit in. The best thing I did was work on myself, 2 years ago I was scared shitless to even cheek kiss a girl and just avoid them totally, now im only afraid of making a move to kiss a girl, i've made a lot of progress and in the next months i'll be … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itTrue but the thing here is not knowing that information, but rather questioning it. After a few weeks of TRP reading I knew the basics yet after 2 years im still having problems applying it to the real world. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itYeah, but it didnt dawn on me, I just didnt want to accept the truth. I was stubborn, and what did the trick for me was this thus I explained it, thats why it has the rant/vent tag, because its a rant/vent | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itYeah, they just adapt to whom they feel is the right one. If they get the tingles for a guy, they dont know why but they like it thus they adapt to that guy, if they see that guy says he hates skirts she stops wearing skirts. End of story. Its how they are. TRP teaches you what moves their tingles so that if you understand how they act you can attract the bigger number of them. But the best way to actually learn is to expose yourself to the real world and compare it to TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itTrue, but remember that its not their fault, its how the human race got where it is. Thats why you cant be angry at them. Learn to love them, and the real fun will start. Just get those shitty fantasies out of your head because that is just fake stuff. Like porn. Its all a fantasy, and you will always second hand your decisions until reality hits you in the face. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itYes yes, they do this but in their own mind they are doing the right thing because they work based on emotions, to them they are doing the right thing. Thats why you cant go to a girl and say "You are manipulative!" and they aint going to say "omg you are right how do you know?", in their minds they are doing the right thing always. Its how they natural selves are, its how the human race got so far. Thats all. If I was a girl I would do the same shit, it is what it is. What I wanted to tell guys… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 03:46 PM |
| 21 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itexactly, thats what I wanted to pass on, nothing more, but he had some right points | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Exposure Therapy really works, try itYou've struck both goal and coal, before finding TRP I wasnt acting beat or alpha, I was non-existent. I wasnt even a player in the game. All I remember from my teen years was my 3 friends, videogames and porn. I always believed I wasnt meant to be here and shit like that, and TRP opened the doors for me. I didnt want to pass that message when I talked about friends, what I meant was that thanks to TRP I saw that I was bad because of me and not because of the world (victim mentality) and I chang… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 03:28 PM |
| 6 | NoFap, miracle or bullshit?Its more like a placebo effect honestly. If you fap 10 times a day to hardcore stuff (like really bizarre hardcore stuff, not the 'regular hardcore') then yeah you gotta stop. If you fap here and there because you saw a cute girl or because you're feeling like it, then why not? NoFap is just like TRP, people look at it as black or white. Alpha or beta. NoFap or Loser. But it isnt like that, there are fucking middlegrounds. Everythings different for all guys. If I stop fapping I lose ALL my sexua… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting my life back on track, need your helpHey man, that's because of my psychologist, he told me to start with meds and get back on therapy after some time Do me a favour, its recommended by a lot of people: Check up on at least 2 phycologists with the same exact issue and compare the answers and pick the best one, not every doc is right. I had vitmamin D extreme defeciency and went to a doc to check it, the doc ran such basic blood tests that it didnt even show, the doc then went on vacation so I went to another doc of the same area an… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting my life back on track, need your helpWhy you on anti depressants? And for how long? Lifting for 8 years, actually lifting and you at 10% bf looking lean af or just gym once a month or some shit and you dont have any real gainz? Lifting 8 years and you are 24 I highly doubt, if you said 'I visited the gym for the first time 8 years ago, and since then I know where the dumbbells are then I would believe you. Something like this happened to me, up to 19 I wasnt even a player in the game thus I didnt get any down or up sides. I found T… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 10:19 AM |
| 1 | If she calls you "Daddy" , does that mean she has daddy issues?Bro. Listen to yourself... Really, just do it. You. are. overthinking. stuff. Chill out partner. Stop being so black and white. "If a girl call you daddy, she has daddy issues."... Well then if your daughter calls you daddy, does she have daddy issues? Drop this shit. You need to start relaxing more and having more fun. In my head you deep down are not trully trully free, you still dont know the real you. You are following the rest of the pack. You found TRP now you take everything it says? You … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 02:41 PM |
| 3 | TextingBro, you gotta see her point of view. She found you interesting. But maybe her parents raised her to be extremely aware of rape and kidnapping, so maybe she is just being safe... Talk to her a bit, tell her "You're right, but I prefer to talk in person im not that big of a texter" and then say "Im heading out for coffee friday at X, how about you join me and we can get to know each other" and boom. With heading for coffee pick a crowded place in a busy street so she feels safe and you're done. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 5 | I Fucked Up a ONS and Now I'm Laughing at MyselfI know bro I know, I feel you. Best thing I can tell you is this: Experience mixed with TRP knowledge gives you such a amazing boost its unfair to anyone else. But for it to work you need to fail, connect the dots and go up to it again. Now you learned that if you dont escalate at easy situations like that you will lose the pussy. Thats just how life is. Expose yourself to more situations. A few keypoints that really shined through my brain: As a man, you shouldnt only be motivated by motivation… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 06:27 PM |
| 5 | I Fucked Up a ONS and Now I'm Laughing at MyselfHey man I feel you, I really do, because when I made posts here before I actually got the replies you are talking about and they didnt help me at all. Thats not what I meant here, I meant it as in he will spend time thinking about what he is done. And how much of a 'pussy' (aka fear of escalating) he was, I went through this pain recently thats why im sharing what helped me out while always letting him know that there are always two sides to a coin, what worked for one person may not work for an… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 06:20 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with pain in my balls after leg dayThis. In any case, feel up your balls. Anything weird? Schedule up with the doc. Go to sleep today, wake up tomorow, is it still hurting? Schedule up with the doc. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Aren't you going to pay?Bro, lot of advice here. Like MANY people say, TRP is is a toolbox. You are receiving advice for several situations, for several 'type' of girls. Not everything is going to work. Its impossible for us to know 100% your situation. Always keep this in mind in your journey here. Also remember that there are a lot of variables you are forgetting that many people here seem to forget, including that not everything is black or white. Maybe she is a sarcastic humor type of girl and was just joking aroun… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 05:45 PM |
| 27 | I Fucked Up a ONS and Now I'm Laughing at Myselfbro, here is what I got from this: You actually care. Otherwise you wouldnt be posting here. Stop lying to yourself. The only way to stop faking stuff is to face it head on and take the beating, the pain, the failure and embrace it. Know that it is part of life. And then you will grow. Its harder than faking it, but the reward will be much better. Like you can fuck fatties and not work on your body? Sure. But if you work on your body, you will fuck much hotter and cuter pussy and the rewards wil… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else getting this ?My two cents on that is simple: -If you are a virgin/have low experience go full fuck up mode, actually fuck up as worse as you can. Chase a girl if you feel its lost. Go full beta, but always keep in mind that you are doing this to check the facts. Because we all know that even though we read this stuff, until we apply it or it happens to us we dont trully believe it. Just fuck it all up. Lost frame? Chase the bitch. See where it gets you. Then you will start connecting facts to reality and the… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else getting this ?Yeah bro, you are right. Not everything is loss of frame. Like I say a lot: Not everything is black or white. Sometimes the girl hit her period hard and feels horrible this week. Other times you are taking too long to make a move and she is very self concious and think you find her ugly and so she is backing off to prevent her from catching feelz from a guy who doesnt want anything to do with her. Sometimes it isnt any of these things. Thats why you gotta set boundaries, sure you will lose pussy… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 12:16 PM |
| 9 | I've been doing all the shit that I was told would make me the prize and I'm still insecure. Is there a way to deal with this?Hey bro, heres my two cents: You havent failed. Simple as that. A man is made to fail, learn and move on. You are not failing but expecting to learn. It doesnt work like that. You overthink stuff. You lack a goal. You look in the mirror, tell yourself you're at least average but deep down you feel like you are ugly ass troll. I've been there bro. Want to know what it took for me to change my mentality and prespective? Fail. I dated the best chick I could ever meet, phisically and mentally. Somet… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 07:16 PM |
| 78 | Anyone else getting this ?Bro, this happened to me. I had amazing frame with this chick, but got 'in love' and boom there goes my frame down the shitter. Half a year or had work in the gutter. I became a zombie. I saw her lose interest. I slapped myself everyday and everynight for being this retard, I literally cried. Want to know what happened? I waked myself up. I matured mentally. In 2 months of everyday just thinking about how I fucked up this shit, how I could be such a pussy, how im a true man, how im awesome, and … | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | College/keeping myself in check.Tru tru tru. If you do get an LTR, just keep your own life, go out with your friends, have fun. Dont do like many guys do when they get a gf and put her on top of everything, then the girl will get high on power and use him inside out. You gotta keep your own life as it is. Girls are desert. The vibe I set is like a lil sis looking up to you, waiting on your moves, waiting on your attention, and you the immovable wall, you stand tall. You defend her if needs be, she knows this. She throws everyt… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 07:00 PM |
| 8 | College/keeping myself in check.Bro this guy is telling the truth, but PLEASE remember this: Not everything is black and white. Not every college girl fucks a different guy once a day, not every college girl is a slut. He is making a point, most girls on college only want to get dicked down hard every day by a different dick, but that doesnt mean all do. This doesnt also mean that they will never do this. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 11:25 AM |
| 2 | What does lifting do for y'all?you shooting out references like a gunslinger | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 04:24 PM |
| 13 | Got any friends who are curl/bicep fanatics?you're mad cause hes getting compliments while you feel like you work harder but you got shit. Well yeah, its more of a personal thing. I prefer the whole package, build all my body up, because im training to become the better version of me. To be able to lift something heavy with my legs if necessary, to be able to handle punches, to be strong, to feel strong, to be able to throw girls and hold them in crazy positions, to be able to have strength everywhere in my body. If you want to impress gi… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)nah bro, I was really about to but honestly every single female friend I had said it would look bad, and after all of this time I saw a lot of guys with hair like the one I wanted and 0 of them looked good, because its hard for it to actually look good on you. If you are asking this question, it probably wouldnt work on you, but like the guys said, if you got a really manly face with big muscles and manly way of being then yeah go ahead, otherwise you will look like a try hard fag, and guys will… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop cold approaching?Your replies here spill the beans for you, you're lying to yourself, stop that shit. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop cold approaching?Bro, I bet the problem is not you in the way that I know you are thinking you depressed fuck. You said in the post 'im not good looking' aka you have low confidence. Strike 1. Fashion on point? What type? Maybe girls look at you and using the halo effect (search that shit up) pin you as a weirdo/mommies boy who knows dude and the type of girls you are approaching act differently. Dude common, I bet (again, this time im all in) that you just made this post because you are wondering if TRP is real… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Broke it off way too early. Want her back.Gotta ditch the excuses. "I'll get out of the bed cause X" "i'll only text her because of Y" fuck all of that, you owe shit to nobody. You text her cause you did already shit for her and because our instincts want what we cant get/lost. If you want, do it. Who cares. "Oh she didnt even reply, I was a simp..." so what? what happens? "oh she replied but took 3 days to reply and only replied with a fast reply even badly written... Shes so over me... I bet shes talking shit about me to her friends..… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Should I stop cold approaching?1500 approaches? Did santa teach you his secret or some shit? Or did you mean you passed 1500 girls and made eye contact over the period of 1 year? Common dude, you dont need to impress anybody, you're not good looking? Then change that. Get a dope haircut, beard, muscles, read game, socialize, have friends. Also, cold approaching maybe isnt the best way? I prefer social circle gaming, but you do you | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What should i do nexthey bro, been there done that. Heres what will happen: You will pussy out all the time, eventually she stops comming. Then the next few weeks or months you will die inside every night thinking how much of a pussy you are, you will cry, you will break down. But then you gotta ask yourself: Am I really a pussy? Am I the man or what? During that time you will feel horrible pain, feel regret at its deepest. Afterwards you will either: a. become a man mentally, and those months of mental monk mode to… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Broke it off way too early. Want her back.hey dude, i've been in your spot and /u/900_year_old_vampire is right but my opinion is: If you really are feeling like its not over, go ahead and go for it. If you trully inside feel like "well maybe X and Y happened so Z should happen... but TRP is saying Z shouldnt happen" then go for it, because if you dont go for it you will feel a weight in your head, and im not saying it will work or not or to follow 'true love', im just saying if you feel like going then go because this is how you tune y… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 07:03 PM |
| 8 | Trust Me, You’d Rather Face Rejection Than RegretThis. I've worked my ass off to lose my virginity, finally got into a situation just like you, pussied out and the girl lost interest. Here I am still a virgin. One thing is fucking sure, next time im in the same situation i'll remember the pain it caused by not trying and i'll fucking do it... NEVER again. Fucking feels like I fell and hit my head and it hurt for months... When you hit the bottom, you will remember how it looks and then there is only one way: up | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 03:14 PM |
| 2 | I can't fucking do it.bro, if you check my post history, im on the same train as you. I just want to leave you with a quick points: 1-You are not alone, there are guys who dont go through what you are going through and they never become a true man, and are forever sad. There are guys who went through what you are going through, and there are guys who are still not there. My point is, you are not alone. Its a thing you must handle to grow. 2- It will hurt and hurt and hurt, but listen from me, one day after so much hu… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I can't fucking do it.my man jordan peterson! Listen to his videos, that man is a god. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 12:30 PM |
| 7 | where to start if i have nothing?This. Its going to be hard. You are going to break down during the path. You are going to do shit you regret. Its going to hurt. You are going to start taking steps back and take some time to catch yourself, and when you do it will hurt. Life isnt fair or easy. Some people take it easier than others, some guys are born with awesome genetics and are never depressed, others are born paralyzed, others are born blind, others are born with bad genetics, others are born into a world where socializing … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 02:22 PM |
| 3 | If your LTR hasnt had sex with you for 3 days is she cheating?Dude, listen to yourself. TRP got into your brain. You are looking at the world and seeing either black or white. But the world is not like that. Its not beta or alpha. Its not loyal or cheating... Everything revolves around your persona and the way thinks are. You gotta do yourself. Stop overthinking. Do you think she is cheating? Or are you really just overthinking? Maybe you are already assuming she is cheating as the truth and are acting like "omg what can I do now? I lost my pussy... Now I … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 02:13 PM |
| 0 | How do I turn this text convo into something real?imo shes testing to see what kind of man you are. You asked for her number, she assumed you were a beta and not going to go for it so fast. Shes shit testing you, since its tinder turn it sexual fast like this: "It may include my bedroom 😏" "You gotta pay me dinner first to find out 😏" "Im going to call the president" Up to you, girls just want to have fun dude, make it fun and add sexual tension so she gets her water running and you're game | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 10:18 AM |
| 1 | student at college, want a job, but some questionsI had a way immature mentality. I wasnt ready for life at all. I was a total kid at 19. But kid I meant like 8~9 year old mentality. It hard for me. Its like from 19 to 21 I matured slowly, then at 21 when I dated a chick for 6 months and couldnt pull my shit together just to kiss her and pussied out and now she lost interest in me, then this shit struck me hard. I broke down totally. Cried at night, hated myself. I started saying to myself to change this attitude. I let go of everything for a c… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | student at college, want a job, but some questionsYou haven't had a single job in 21 years of your life? What have you been doing?? Yep. Until 19 I was in hs, from 19 to 21 i've been in college studying. Thats kinda why I have social anxiety and stuff, I never experienced anything in life. Overprotective parents and shit. I only got out of this cicle actually because two of my most closest friends waked me up and then I found TRP which just boosted the shit. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | student at college, want a job, but some questionsThats kinda why I dont want to hire a professional. I dont actually want the 'sex' itself, I want that emotions you get from actually interacting with a female. And the higher my smv is and the smoother I am, the better the emotions will be. I considered bar helping out and stuff like that, but I am not sure how to actually ask for a job thats why im asking for help. Do I just go there and say "hey im looking for a job and i've been to your bar quite a lot and noticed it gets backed up sometimes… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:05 PM |
| 2 | student at college, want a job, but some questionsYou're so right you dont even know. I overthink so much to the point where I get eczemas that my dermatologist says are purely from stress. And I dont do anything stressful. Its just me putting so much pressure on myself to be perfect in everything in life that I just get so anxious. "You could have sat down and did X and not Y." "You could have done X and not Y" "Why did you send that text, you could have done Y, now look shes taking her time to reply." And its just small stuff I shouldnt even … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:02 PM |
| 2 | student at college, want a job, but some questionsWhat are you doing to correct this? 4 days at the gym a week, all the time trying my best posture and the 'teacher' there helps me out big time with posture and stuff, when at home or anywhere I always try to fix this, eating clean, exercising a lot. You... apply to jobs man. Almost all applications are online these days. Well yeah but I had this questions, you could have tips like "if you hand out your cvs it will actually be better" or shit like that, im litteraly at zero You're going to have … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | student at college, want a job, but some questions1- not everything, i got a bit patchy beard, my teeth are a bit crooked, but I overthink a lot about the small stuff. Some days I go to bed to anxious and thinking about what I did wrong and future scenarios that I wake up fucking early as fuck and cant go back to sleep again. I just overthink a lot of stuff. But anyway, im doing that actually, I got a great guy at my hometown gym who I was honest and said I spent my teens playing videogames but want to change that around bla bla bla and he actu… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Girls playing the 'good girl'It depends on you dude, remember, you are who you are, maybe you want LTRs, maybe you want to be a pimp? Its all on what you want. Remember this every time you get into askTRP or TheRedPill: EVERYTHING IS NOT EITHER BLACK OR WHITE. BETA OR ALPHA. THERE ARE MIDDLEGROUNDS! AND A LOT OF PEOPLE HERE DIDNT EVER TEXT A GIRL IN THEIR LIFE, SO BE AWARE OF THE ADVICE HERE NOT FROM TAGGED OR KNOWN MEMBERS. My way of being is I prefer a high quality LTR over plates anyday at this stage of my life so LTRs w… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Girls playing the 'good girl'Its easy. Women like to have fun. If they know if they text you "i want your dick. now." then you will give her the dick, then she makes you a background option. Doesnt mean that she doesnt want you, she does, but she wants someone that gives her emotion, and the guy that she actually feels insecure that if she texted "i want your dick. now." the guy wouldnt come. This makes her emotions rise, and they associate that with the guy so they go after the guy that doesnt care, while you will maybe gi… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I am really, really, really confused. I just dont know what to do (L O N G)I really want to understand what you meant, I kinda did, I see that you say to just let it all go. But to what terms are you refering to me? Should I just say fuck it and just start going i dont give a fuck and try to go all in in moments where I find myself freezing? Or are you saying to just forget everything and just go like a blind man, run ahead until I hit my head on something? I really didnt understand | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I am really, really, really confused. I just dont know what to do (L O N G)The problem isnt getting girls interested, land whales are a BIG no no, I prefer virgin over uggos and whales big time. I just look at them and feel sick. I know if I really really want to have sex, the uggos and whales are there. My problem like I said isnt getting girls interested or getting IOIs, its closing and approaching. I feel like im not worth it. Until I get a date with the girl I want i'll beat myself up "oh if you did X" "oh if you only were Y" but then i'll get the date and once im … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 06:47 PM |
| 7 | Best way to hold frame when brand new LTR hangs out 1 on 1 with other guyshey bro, I just want to tell you this: Most people on askTRP are stil learning and they still only see the world as black or white, beta or alpha, "oh I texted the girl to come to meet me at 10pm but she texted me back saying she wanted to go to mcdonalds first to eat something if that was fine with you. That bitch was trying to make me be a fucking beta and change my plans, I nexted her so fucking hard. Im the man here." See how pathetic this is? Maybe the bitch was just. fucking. hungry. My po… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Girls playing the 'good girl'Same old advice: Escalate. But I know that you wont. I've been there. You question TRP and say that shes different. Fine, then dont escalate at all. She will see that you are boring and not giving her the emotions that flirting and sex give and the other guy that started texting her is getting her riled up so in some time you'll see her start to move away from you, then you will see she pulling back and you will chase, but then you will eventually see that she is being plowed hard by someone, a … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 11:02 AM |
| 1 | I am really, really, really confused. I just dont know what to do (L O N G)Girls aren't going anywhere, but your time is. You are right. But I am on the right path in terms of mostly everything in my life except pussy. Its like a graph where everything is perfectly balanced except pussy, this is at zero. And I am not sure why. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I am really, really, really confused. I just dont know what to do (L O N G)You are 100% right, I got myself into this "if I got all of this knowledge, and most guys dont, and im not getting any then somethings wrong" and I just have been stressing about it non stop... establish an identity that you can leverage with game. Becuse this 21 year old virgin identity is very unattractive. What do you mean with this? I kinda got the point that I should just chill, and my persona is overall way better if I just be chill. But I am not sure what your point was Stop worrying abou… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do they like being lied to?Hes right tho. Trust me. The solution to your problem is experience. Get yourself out there for real, and after half a year come back and read this post. You will laugh and see that the answer was not what you expected at all. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do they like being lied to?Hes right tho. Trust me. The solution to your problem is experience. Get yourself out there for real, and after half a year come back and read this post. You will laugh and see that the answer was not what you expected at all. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Help needed to kill the loser I've made myselfYour entire post was a cry for an external solution to your internal problem son! Dude listen to this guy. I am in a situation that isnt the same as yours but produces the same bad mentality and bad results. My eyes are honestly watery right now. I've been posting here on askTRP about my issue, and I just made a huge ass post about it just a hour ago or so, and it fits your issue perfectly and what I can tell you is this: Save this mans message in a notepad and read it. Every. Single. Day. Becau… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Lost, need a wake up call 22/MHey dude, listen, some people would honestly kill themselves to be in your situation. I know this is not what you want to hear but trust me. Im 21 and a virgin. Do you know what i've been doing this last 2 years just to get a LTR? Do you know what I would give to be someone who at 22 already had a LTR, was living abroad, that PLAYED FUCKING CONCERTS? Look at my life dude, The highest point of my life this year was dating a chick for 6 months AND I DIDNT EVEN KISS HER. SHE WAS GIVING ME OBVIOUS S… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with regret, failure and such?No way I can travel to a different city right now, but in september I do have a 7 day vacation going to NYC from europe alone with a buddy so yeah, but the problem isnt that honestly, for example this last girl I was with I knew if I did a horrible escalation it would have been perfectly fine, but even so I didnt do it. No point in finding excuses, I just am a pussy about ti and its scary as shit to me and im pissing my pants just thinking about it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 12:53 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with regret, failure and such?I know dude I know, but im having such a fucking hard time just letting go, I put so much pressure on everything I do, its just useless but im having a hard time letting go and having fun | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 10:57 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with regret, failure and such?Im having just such a hard time doing the first escalation....... I've been trying for a whole year dude, I mean, im usually a pussy about everything but im trying to really change but its just so fucking hard | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | need some helpHeres my honest point of view, let go of TRP. Just let go of it. But before you go, take this: You are 16, start lifting. Correctly. Dont go all in, dont go sicko mode, do it properly. Make friends with the gym teacher, with the a gym big guy, someone that can help you out to get started. You are 16, you will go through a lot of maturing until you reach the 'ohhhhhhhhhhh ok' point, you will be down, you will be up, thats maturing. Understand the basics TRP tried to teach, read the sidebar, learn… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Is this a good mentality to take in?You're right dude, but I also got a history of overthinking. Its something I am battling right now, my problem was that I was sttageringly ugly, I fixed that. But I never minded my own self, my own mind, my own brain, and when the moment came it fucked me up mentally. This last year of self improvment i've been understanding myself each time more and more, but sometimes I start to overthink stuff and wonder "wait... is this the right path?" so I come here and ask this stuff, someone says "of cou… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 12:37 PM |
| 12 | Girl texting me questions like "What turns you on"You do you my man, from the 5 comments that are here I can tell you this: Some are absolutes, some are useless. The best one (as usual) is the tagged man /u/TyroneTheDriver Hes right, dont hide your intentions but also dont play in absolutes or try to be a fuckboy if you arent. Now, if shes texting "what turns you on" it means she is thinking of you in a sexual way and is trying to make the convo sexual. Its all up to you, make it extremely sexual and start sexting and get nudes, or tease her an… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | I lose my frame when on nofap, but am also boring when fappingnot every guys is the same, and in my honest opinion I feel like you are exagerating facts to make yourself seem cooler, if you are not in fact lying then you gave off the wrong vibe anyway, like I was saying, every guy is different, for me I cant handle no fap, I mean, I can but I have to get busy. If I gotta study for an exam this 2 weeks and I am in no fap, then all i'll do is think about sex. If I get boring days like this, I just fap it out and be done with it BUT always fap thinking about … | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I cant accept defeatIts both | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I cant accept defeatYou're somewhat right. The thing here is that this happened before, and I texted her and she agreed and it was like it never happened, im not hoping the text will make her attracted to me again, I know it will not, but if I she is 'meh' about me, and agrees to go chill somewhere I can then raise the attraction | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Got girls number and set up date now how to play?Same, same same. And still I havent learned it the whole way. Im stubborn af | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I cant accept defeatIm kinda doing both, one day im bitter af, other day im actually fueling it somehow into something, but other days im just 'wtf am I doing' I just feel like I need to send that last text, I know, you know and the pope knows im going to get ignored/rejected, but I just need to do it to move on, I didnt get full closure and now im hanging on the line of the 'if' and its fucking me up. I need full closure. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | I cant accept defeatI've been around for longer than that, its only that when I started I didnt even know how to greet women, and how to make friends. I fixed and improved A LOT. And I mean, A LOT. I now consider myself at the very minimum 'normal' while 2 years ago I considered being 'normal' was not for me. I just need to send that text, which I will in a week when my uni exams are over, and get ignored, hit the bottom of the well, and then climb back up. Cause if I just try moving on I wont be able to do it, bec… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I cant accept defeatI feel its kinda what im doing, the pain im going through, but I dont know whats best. I feel like I need closure, which is stupid, but I just feel like I need to send that text and get ignored to actually be able to move on. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I cant accept defeatHow can I do that? My brain just wants me to try again and take that rejection to the face, like a splash of water. I need to see her ignore me straight up to wake me up. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I cant accept defeatI didnt know that, I was invested, she was invested, we were hanging out every single day from 10am to 10pm, we were extremely close, she was and is extremely shy and so her signs were very very very closed off, but sometimes I picked them up, and since I didnt have experience I didnt know what to do, so I never did shit. All of what you've posted wouldn't happen if you had other chicks on the side. If I had chicks on the side, I wouldnt be on TRP. stop dwelling on the past. I cant, thats why im… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:18 PM |
| 6 | I get more attraction being skinny and low bf than I do big and musculularGood faces win it all. Its a sure fire way to tell girls you have good genes, point blank case. A skinny guy with a good face can be skinny (not extremely) and will pull 50000% more chicks than a guy with a ugly face that worked his ass off in the gym for the last 5 years. Im not trying to put anyone down, but its a fact. Now, heres the thing: Most good genetics guys are good with girls because they got girl attention when they were maturing early and so their personas adapted to that and are no… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Got girls number and set up date now how to play?My tips: Be super super super chill. Act like she is being tutored by you on how to be dated. She does something, you smirk and joke about it in a sexy-flirty-sarcastic way (if this is your vibe, im giving my example). Its a bit weird but it helped me a lot to let go of the nerves. Think this is her first date and shes learning how it is, and you'll go into super chill mode cause you'll get her off the pedestal and put her below you but in a quick way. It helped me out a bit, try to mentalize it… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeBut my best thinking is telling me to try again with this girl, thats why im not trusting it that much | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeIt would have been nice if you'd had that chick. Would have wrapped up some of the things in your head. This alone is what fucks me over, the mere thought that we were both down, and that it would bring down so many walls for me and I just didnt do it and I am in this pain because I didnt move my body 5 cm infront of hers fucks me up. I get mad, straight mad at this shit. You can say fucking women doesnt do much, but its like rich people saying money doesnt do much, sure maybe they are right, bu… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeYou are right about the mental masturbation, I try to deny it but its there. I need a break from all of this, its just confusing my mind, im trying to hard, to please everyone, to please myself, to be perfect. I need to chill. Its like you said, im living in a problem, I need to change my thinking. I need to solve my mental battle with myself, I need some time off everything and battle my own mind. The phych lets see if he helps me out or not. I'll take what you said to heart, next time I post h… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 12:48 AM |
| 3 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)True, naturals are just people who were taught how to act. Its like you go back in time and meet the 12 year old you and start teaching him TRP every single day, then you would be called a natural also. TRP acts as this influence, but its just text, you need to understand it, go through the pain and experience it to actually change your mindset. Its a long journey, never give up and keep going. Eventually you will start seeing the results you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 10:18 PM |
| 5 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)I'd be thankful for going through the tough work early on rather than having an easy climb, being oblivious to the future. This. EVERYONE has to go their own journey, TRP just gives you a compass, a map and what to expect, its not a plane or a teletransporter, you still have to walk to the end, but it makes your journey easier and quicker. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)Im 21, kissless virgin. Not from lack of opportunities, but from laziness of getting more opportunities and when the time to close comes, I pussy out. Its all on me. I need to fix my mental right now, and college will begin in a few months ago so i'll take this time to monk mode a little bit to get in there with a fresh mind and ready to rock and roll, finally. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 07:43 PM |
| 0 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)Thats my point, yes there are people with advantages. Yes maybe you will not be able to bang the 10/10 you see, but what are you gonna do about it? Suicide? please... Life is life dude, if you were dealt a bad hand then what are you gonna do about it? Improve what you can. Be glad you are even playing. You can go earn money, go to the gym, change your life, travel, you can do so much to change yourself. Go ask that teenager in the middle of a war zone if he is insecure about his height. He is in… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeCut off porn entirely, search up your brain on porn and see the damage it has causes. Jerk off without and use lube and don’t death grip your dick with it. Gradually decrease your masturbation from once a week to once and every two and so on. Porn puts on authentic representation of sex due to lighting and enhanced audio/ camera work. Thanks for all the help, really. Im going to go into no-porn 100% and cold turkey it. Like I said, it’s all mental. Perceive yourself as a man with value and that … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 07:25 PM |
| 3 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)Yeah you're right, its kinda what I tried to explain there by saying it was his brain that sparked, not him, he has no clue indeed. Thats where the "just be yourself" comes in play, because he was himself but at 13 6 chicks were fighting to see who would date him because of his looks alone, at 15 the 10/10 hottie banged him because he talked about videogames, not because of the videogames but because he has a 10/10 face. While the average joe at 15 didnt even know how to say hi to a girl. Life i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeYou are so full of toxic shame. So you fucked up, and didn't try to sleep with 'this one girl'? Now you're believing you're some terrible, mistake of a human being? Pretty much summed up, all of my posts are TL:DR into this. Move the fuck on. Approach some other women. Everyone seems to be telling you you're attractive. Either you have some deeper issue you aren't finding the solution to, or you like being in this position. As if actually moving the fuck on will mean you lose your victim mentali… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:46 PM |
| 4 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)This is what I tried writing up, some people get a upper hand, others get 0 advantages, but going through the journey and knowing the why is way better than just doing it cause you dont know why but it works. Maybe you find this at 40 years old, when the other guy found it out at 18, well thats too bad but what you gonna do about it? Cry for the rest of your life or do something about it? There is nothing wrong, its just purely an example, but the 18 year old might look up to the 40 year old and… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeFirst things first, get into the habit of meditations and positive self affirmations to help your mind state. It the biggest barrier you currently that is dragging you down. There’s a recent post on the main sub that’s very good so go look at it. It is, like I said in the post itself, I fixed only the outside of me and it worked because I get girls interested, but the inside is shit so when the time comes for the inside to show off it is a big pile of shit, so naturally I dont make the cut and g… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)It is something I want. I want to control a woman, I want to dominate a girl, I want to make her orgasm. Its what I really want, I feel like I was made for this, but I just dont do it. The only two times I forced myself to go for it, where the only two girls I ever approached and both of them I got them into my dorm room. I just didnt close. I feel like you are right about the need to force myself, because I know I got the know how, I just need to do it. But I look at whales and ugly ass girls a… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 11:58 AM |
| 3 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)Exactly. Spot on dude. I was dealt a bad hand, and accepted it and didnt know I could change it. At 19 I found TRP and I learned I could change it, so I set a goal of getting a girl interest in me and in my bed. I was able to do this, but then I didnt know what to do. I learned how get to my destionation, but not what to do then. I froze. The girls lost interest, found me boring. It crushed me inside. Last year or so I spend fighting my mental battle against myself. I feel worthless again, I fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)Glad to hear you were lucky. Im trying to fight it but its just too hard. When I found TRP I had a goal: Get a girl in my bed to fuck her. I did it, but didnt fuck her because of myself. And now im lost. I dont have a goal anymore. My goal was to get a girl interested in me, I did it. But then what? I didnt know what to do next. I froze. I didnt make a move. And its kinda where im stuck now. I just dont know what to do anymore. And its ruining my mental health. On certain days I feel fine and li… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 11:22 AM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeBefore I had a goal: Get a girl in my bed to fuck her. I did it, but didnt fuck her because of myself. And now im lost. I dont have a goal anymore. My goal was to get a girl interested in me, I did it. But then what? I didnt know what to do next. And its kinda where im stuck now. I just dont know what to do anymore. And its ruining my mental health. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeBasically, I need more experience to fix closing. But inside, in my mind, I feel unworthy. How can I change this? I was actually thinking about seeing a psychologist or something, because I dont know what to do anymore... Before I had a goal: Get a girl in my bed to fuck her. I did it, but didnt fuck her because of myself. And now im lost. I dont have a goal anymore. My goal was to get a girl interested in me, I did it. But then what? I didnt know what to do next. And its kinda where im stuck no… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeI've kinda deep down always felt like that honestly. But you dont know that the stove is hot until you actually touch it, sure people will tell you to not touch it but until you do you are never 100% sure. Years of me having the wrong idea about girls is hard to overcome. Me finding out that girls like sex was mind blowing and this was just 2 years ago. When the moment is up and my mind is not focused I forget that and act like I need to exchange goods for sex. That the girl actually wants it to… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:59 AM |
| 16 | What is a natural? To everyone who feels they have been dealt a bad hand (Long)This. This. This. Some people are born with rich parents, others with perfect genetics where they do one push up and gain muscle easily, others with a perfect face where girls just melt for them. What are you going to do about it? I was born with a skin disorder, mixed with ugly face and over protective parents, and me knowing shit about life and my teens were horrible. 3 friends, video games, porn were my salvation. I showered once every 3 days or so and badly because of my skin problem, I didn… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 12:52 AM |
| 5 | how do you escalate/show intent if you aren't supposed to give compliments?Hey my dude, you seem like a guy who is just getting started. Here is something that a lot of cringiness and a year or so into the redpill that I found out: Redpill isnt black or white, yes or no. Next or sex. Its not like this, yes its portraited like that because if it wasnt most guys would be lazy about it. You are putting too much effort dude. You do you. if you really improve yourself mentally and phyisically, you will reach a point where you feel so good about yourself and about life that … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeIts like everything is lining up honestly, I dont approach girls because I feel im not worthy enough, and the eyes they are giving me are not because they are interested but because they are laughing at my ugliness, but then I managed to get a hot ass girl to date me for 6 months and give me countless of opportunities? I dont go for the kill because at the time I shrug off the signals as to "she isnt that into me, just friends" but then I look back and cringe to how oblivious I was, and figure o… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeYikes in fucking deed. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | how to handle this feeling, and confused with lifeIf you’re really sick of not getting any guys, all you need is Grindr and you’ll be in a hurricane of dicks. Are you seriously jealous of girls? It’s a different category, man. You got me there, a few more of these failures and i'll be installing grindr thats for sure This though, this is wrong. As your friends said, you seem outwardly like you could be banging all the time, which basically means you could. Its like I said, I fixed the outside, but the inside I didnt look into. Now the inside is… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | i need real opinions, depression, life, im scared (long)You are right, I feel that I've put such a huge goal for me that I cant reach it, TRP helped me a lot but also put a lot of hard expectations how I should be, no female friends, nexting everyone, being super chad, etc, and my 'normal' self wouldnt do anything like that so I always felt bad, but i've slowly realized its about a balance between the two of them. We are human afterall. I have very close friends to whom I talk to about girls and life and they were a key moment to help me with my inse… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it all lost or do I still have a chance?You gotta fail to learn dude, you gotta go through those cringe moments, that regret that destroyed you mentally, that feeling of "fuck me, what have I done", because then you will learn not to do it again. You can tell a kid not to touch a stove cause its hot, and he might still touch it, but if he touches it he wont do it again thats for sure. So just keep it in your mind failure is necessary to learn. Its not lost, you gotta internalize its not black or white, its not "yes" or "no", its a cur… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | i need real opinions, depression, life, im scared (long)I'll schedule with a phycologist then, but im not sure what to say to him | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 2 | i need real opinions, depression, life, im scared (long)Thanks dude, I will. Phycologist or phyquiatrist? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 2 | i need real opinions, depression, life, im scared (long)its kinda what I have been trying to avoid, thats why I keep posting on asktrp, because after I improved myself but then I didnt manage to close on a girl I kinda knew I had deeper issues. I kinda tried to find a therapist but dont know what or where to change, phycologist or phyquiatrist? Thanks for the reply, its kinda what I was fearing. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this? Am I on the right path?You're saying: Set a main goal, in your case lifting would be perfect. This way, you will focus your mind and then eventually you will start seeing results on the area you are questioning about, as a byproduct. And then you will learn. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this? Am I on the right path?Basically, I gotta set a goal ahead of everything. In this case, lifting is perfect, so if I set my mind to reaching a goal in lifting and then everything else after that, I will actually start to see progress in areas I 'didnt give my best interest', like girls, as they will start comming, am I correct? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Im lost, can someone guide me? (Long)I sort of kinda knew this, and you learn to take the lead when you build yourself mentally and phyisically, it goes hand to hand, and im on the right path right now but im just half assing it and expecting results, as you can see im self aware of this but I just am having such a hard time mentalizing myself that im half assing everything and need to focus | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Im lost, can someone guide me? (Long)Exactly! I al half-assing it and expecting results, I know its not logical and I understand it but its like I lived in a fantasy for so long that I lost control over it, its like im fighting a mental battle, half of me is logical and says "Well, you dont put in the work you dont get rewarded, its simple" but the other half is like "i want it, now." and im just going from side to side, and this is what i've been struggling lately | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 01:26 PM |
| 0 | How to stop this? Am I on the right path?due to posture and weak core im doing a deadlift variation (T-Bar row) as recommended to me by my gyms personal trainer, doing 4 sets of 10 with 25kg or ~50lbs 0bjj,0 fights, thinking of getting into muay thai | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Im lost, can someone guide me? (Long)Thanks dude really. Im just frustated, thinking so much work would have paid off but actually I needed to put it even more work and since im a lazy fucker with 0 patience it just burns inside when I dont get things lickety-split and need replies like yours to be a wake up call. My goals are simple, and like you said im just whinking for not having life handed out to me. Im a spoiled son of a bitch who isnt getting what he wants and instead of working for it is whining. I just need to work out to… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Im not a man, im something in between. I want to change.I was thinking of scheduling with a endocrinologist and just plain saying I think my T levels are low and are affecting my mood and day to day life and my dermatologist also pointed out that she wanted to check my thyroid because of the patchniess in my beard and such which might be related and I wanted to know your opinion doc | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Im not a man, im something in between. I want to change.Raise T naturally? | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Im not a man, im something in between. I want to change.What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Im not a man, im something in between. I want to change.Yeah i've kinda always had that on the back of my mind but I actually did a testo test and my doc said it was perfectly fine but all it said on the paper was 500 out of 1000 and said that from 500 to 1000 was normal, so I was just at the line, it would explain my whole life of depression and anxiety but some days I feel so different and like I am a true man but only some days | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Im not a man, im something in between. I want to change.testosterone is just at the bare minmum, thyroid going to schedule an exam soon already got it with my doc to check it up, I do think its hormones honestly. My beard is patchy and I get depressed easily, I change moods often a lot aswell, my dermatologist was the one to notice this honestly and so I've been wanting to check this up for some time but dont really know what to ask, ask for a full test? Because on the testosterone subreddit they say that you need to ask for X extra for the 'good' te… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle this?What do you mean? I improved myself, followed TRP for a whole year, 1 year monk mode. College came, thanks to TRP I made lots of friends and knew how to finally socialize, I was not fat anymore, I was average even above average in some areas. I got a little girl attention, nothing major, and still fucked it up. I dont display my intentions and friend zone myself. I basically tell the girls "no ty" they either accept rejection or think I was a pussy to make a move and ignore my ass from there onw… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle this?And as you are improving you can practice picking women and all the hassle that comes with that (picking up on ios, flirting, passing shit tests etc). What do you mean? I cant do it dude, I tried and spent 2 years asking myself why I am such a pussy and making very little progress. I honestly think if I go monk mode is better because then when I go practice women will be more OK with my failures and I wont go back into the hole of depression | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle this?Next to me I only got muay thai, I can give it a shot sure I've been kinda wanting to for a while aswell. Well yeah, but still sometimes I just wonder blackpill stuff, like: Is it true tho? Like forreal? Maybe I just wasnt meant to be. Sometimes people here on TRP say just lift and done, others say lifting is useless, others say just confidence will do the trick, others say just to push forward and done, others say they are normal people just chat normally and I just get confused... | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle this?1- You are right, they do have way better frame than me. And yes they do approach more, it does make sense. 2- I will, thats what helped me 'move along', because I knew just like the previous girl I would look back and wonder why I was so down, there is so much better around and all is temporary 3-Im still getting used to that, because before I just didnt do shit all day and so I was used to my days not going up and down, but now that im getting out there the truth is hitting me and im not used … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle this?Kinda uplifting to hear im not solo, to which you are never, there are always people in the same or worse situation than you. But from everything I gathered its sort of simple: Take a step back, improve yourself. Pack on muscle, get your posture straight, get your grooming on point, then try again. This alone will make it 100% easier. Heres a perfect example: You are currently going for anal sex without lube, sure its possible but it isnt that good, now apply tons of lube and look at you go, its… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle this?Thing is I was told that like a year ago and look what happened: Exactly the same thing. I knew she wanted to be dicked down, but my brain was just like "does she tho? maybe TRP is wrong" and thats why I didnt take action, I felt like I just wanst enough and she just wanted friends. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle this?Thing is, I tried a little bit yes, got hit in the face and took some time to awaken again, which happened a few weeks ago. I returned to the gym, focusing on posture, fixed my diet again, following a proper diet, taking my protein, etc, but what can I do about this 3 things: 1- Why do my friends who do even less than me, know less than me, and are uglier get chicks? Luck and good timing? It really bothers me. Sure I got friends who are in way worse positions than me, but I also got friends who … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 05:37 PM |
| 0 | How can I handle this?I am falling. I improved my self a little, got a little itty bitty of results, stopped improving myself and now im crying why I cant get results, I just need to keep pushing hard and eventually I will get results | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | OCD on everything, applying it to datingholy shit, it makes sense. You are saying im creating a battle where no enemies exist, and since there are no enemies im wasting time and resources on trying to find them when they simply dont exist. But then, in that case, knowing that there is no issue should be able for me to do what I was battling to do, or will this be a slow progression? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | OCD on everything, applying it to datingYou know, you gave good advice, change my way of thinking, instead of thinking do this cause you have to, do it cause you want it done | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | OCD on everything, applying it to datingThe thing is I dont know. I just dont. I cant put my hands on what exactly, I blamed childhood, parents, OCD, being a pussy, mental retardation, I dont know if its a mix of everything or something else, thats why im making these posts, I just dont know whats wrong. Maybe im trying to rush things? I just dont know | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to gain back frame after being beta?This. Its hard dude, it will hurt as hell, but just let her go. If you tried and it didnt work out, let her go and go improve yourself. Use this to try to motivate you: She didnt want? Fine. I will improve myself as hard as I can, then she will see the new me and be all over me, and then i'll fuck her and send her on her way. That'll show her. Its not the right mindset, but if you dont have experience then this will work at the start. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Man im applying OCD to dating, im being a pussy, im overthinking, im making a shit show out of all of this. I need to take a break, look at girls as a fun thing and just go for it. I think I developed a nice mindset now and im more than enough, all thats missing is me going for it. Just go. No more excuses I just need to do it. Right now just do it, fast, go. I just found myself making another post dude, if you check my post history you will see I just posted another post, now with the excuse be… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 11:04 PM |
| 0 | OCD on everything, applying it to datingIt is, but I cant seem to get rid of it anwhere. I dont know what to do about it.... | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | OCD on everything, applying it to datingWell yeah, it does apply, he isnt wrong: If I just do it after a few times it will be easy to do, its exposure therapy, but im having a extreme hard time doing the first time. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | OCD on everything, applying it to datingI actually heard that a lot a years back for the rhythm and not for the actual lyrics, so you are saying: Stop thinking, clear my mind and just live. Let my actions roam? Like just go and be free? I tried that, I just think im not good enough, so I go to the gym and improve myself but even then I dont think im good enough, but then I see plenty of proof that says otherwise so I question myself and end up doing this over and over again... | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | OCD on everything, applying it to datingYou are right, but everytime I post here I go a little further, every advice I get helps me take that extra step, from a year ago to now I've made progress for sure, but you are right. I wasted a year trying to figure out what doesnt need figuring out. You say 'just do it', but in my mind comes, 'do what'? And then I remain in the cycle, I want out badly. Its making me go insane, thats why I ask for help, I just... Im trying. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Another guy commented on this, and I agree and since you kinda relate to this I want your opinion if you dont mind: I had extreme OCD when I was a teen, and now I didnt realize it but im applying it to everything. I want everything to be perfect. I dont approach girls until im a 11/10, I dont make a move until the moment is 100% perfect, I dont do shit because its not perfect. I just kinda clicked on my brain, im good enough, why dont I just go for it? I beat myself over useless things, I dont k… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Exactly dude. E fucking xactly. I want everything to be 100% perfect so I never do them. Ok she wants to be kissed, but its not under the right ammount of light, its still daytime, my left year is tingling, im feeling kinda down so i'll do it later. And then she leaves. Then I dont approach girls until im 100% ready and its killing me, its making me go crazy. I dont know what to do about it. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Thanks dude, I keep trying to go get a gym routine and such but I just feel like im trying to hard. Im beating myself up to hard. I want everything 110% perfect and since nothing is perfect im fucking up. I spend my time reading TRP, watching improvment videos, but then I fuck up and I beat myself up hardcore, I torture myself, and on the day on day normal day I just try too hard, "a girl looked at me X or Y" and then I over-analyse stuff, I look at mself in a reflection, I spot bad posture, or … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Thanks dude, thanks for sharing your experience, i'll try to give me a little extra push when socializing and try to make meet more girls in college to improve my chances. Will also focus more on myself, sutdying, health, etc Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)I see what you mean, instead of making it a priority just take my time, if I feel like it go for it otherwise its ok. Also, you mencioned converse with women, I do have a hard time with this. Its like I act like they are different creatures. Some of them I speak fine but others I tense up. What do you recommend? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)I see what you mean. Basically, keep improving myself every single fucking day, study, lift, high quality friends, connections, learn, skills, and on the side make contact with girls, like if you see her giving you IOIs on social circle, or some shit like that, dont make it a goal, just let it happen, go for them but dont make it a priority and make it the goal to be fun and sexual, not to reach penetration. Eventually as I grow up from 21 to say 28 since I will have improved so much more, and g… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)The thing here honestly is: Am I on this emotinal stress because I am close to reaching the goals I want, or because im way lower than I should be? Like am I about to reach a place where I can look down and be like "wow i've grown so much" or am I just on the bottom for so long im going 'insane'? Do I endure this a bit longer and push through to reach my goals or do I change my approach? What do you mean with your age and experience? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)You said that in a reply before about that ass thing and it stuck with me cause its a really nice thing to do. It sets the vibe correct, and it fits my humour perfectly, next time I date a girl I will say that for fucking sure. "you got a nice ass" with that little grin will set the vibe correctly. Goddamn I love you. Thanks. What did you do when you were a virgin and on the same boat to get the first time? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Well yeah, if I compare myself to my peers im way above them, my streetwear style isnt matched, I got a nice haircut, I groom, I know how to act around people, I have a big social circle, I cant go into campus without someone passing by me and saying hi cause I know them, I get stared at college parties sometimes, I get IOIs on campus, but they are not the stares and IOIs I am looking for, its mild stuff. Not the big time interest signals, and this then matches with my 0 experience and I overthi… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)I honestly feel like this: I want to fuck. I know if next week I go to a college party and approach all the girls there, I know I will be able to pull my first girl ever. Problem is, the girls I will pull will be below-average and they will fuck me not because they 'like' me but because they just need a dick real quick. I currently am 70kg scrawny ass dude, skinny af but not skinny abs just skinny fat. I got crooked teeth (fixing them this summer), and I honestly believe that if I spent this nex… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)I live in a rural area, so not much dating and my campus is also in a closed area, not much of that. In my country isnt that much for internet dating, so I doubt that will be by turning point. I feel like what I need is: Improve myself physically, im a scrawny guy atm, so I feel like improving my posture, getting gains ready, that this will be a game changer. I feel like once I got the confidence that I am stronger than my peers, than most guys, and that girls look at me and get a wet spot will … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)A hooker in my country is hard to find, especially since I live in a rural area, but thats not the point, the point is that it just doesnt feel right, on one side I have the release and feel better, on the other I have that I prefer to take this journey head on and watch results come in because of my actions and not because of my money. I dont know... | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)I read it, and I thank you for sharing that with me but what im trying to portrait is that the way I am currrently is getting way inside my head and its hurting my day to day life, and I need to so something about it right now otherwise my mental state will just deteriorate further, most of the time im fine but sometimes it just hits me hard as a rock and im actually scared of the person I become on those times because even suicide comes to my mind, and I want to get rid of that side but dont kn… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)College is ending in 2 weeks, summer im going to do awesome shit but im going to focus on self improvment for the next college year so I arrive with a fresh mind, but since im a virgin it just becomes such a focus in my life to get pussy, and the problem is when I get it I just fuck up in the most easiest part possible, and this fucks me up mentally. I dont know how to find easy pussy, I mean, I know and at the same time I dont know, because I dont feel worthy of that, I feel like I gotta work f… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Yeah but the easiest part is what im fucking up with, and since im a virgin it just hits me so fucking hard I become a emotional wreck, what should I do? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Problem is im a virgin dude, 0 experience, so im desesperate af, and have missing this shot recently and now realizing all the mistakes I did and that its too late now, and she was a cutie, just hits me hard. I know if I spend the summer improving myself and going travelling (which I am) and doing shit it will be great for me, but I just feel like after missing my shot that nothing like that is ever going to show up, and I just cant get it out of my head. What should I do? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Exactly, I want and need pussy fast, but I have zero fucking pacience, and college is ending in a couple weeks so I feel like I am already too late, I know if I spend the summer improving myself, and this summer im going from europe to new york, im taking up surf, its going to be awesome, I know next college year I will be a different guy, but you are also 100% correct, all I need is to lose my virginity to lose this desesperate feeling thats making me not think about anything else. If I go no-f… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)Thanks dude, I just have a hard time letting go, I feel like everything has got to be 100% perfect, I had big OCD like 4 years back but then it just kinda went away, but some is still here and Its like OCD, it has to be perfect. But since its never perfect, and much less the first times im at a stand still with myself. And I feel like I just wasnt cut for the job and then stop going to the gym and stop eating healthy and see myself just slop away, but then I eventually recover and it just repeat… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)It took 2 years for me to apporach 2 girls, both of them I did everything hard, the hardest part of getting the date right and getting them into my room I can do easily, but to actually make a move? not making a move and not making my intentions clear our of fear, not fear of rejection but some sort of fear of being 'found out', of not being good enough, and it really crippled me mentally and now im shooting theories everywhere, thinking about everything and dont know what to do next, and the fe… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)the fucking up part is not making a move and not making my intentions clear our of fear, not fear of rejection but some sort of fear of being 'found out', of not being good enough, and it really crippled me mentally and now im shooting theories everywhere, thinking about everything and dont know what to do next | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Im completely lost, can anyone please guide me? (long)its hard to write a tl:dr for this but last 4 paragraphs should do it | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 12:12 AM |
| 0 | got my first rejectionWhat do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:51 AM |
| 0 | got my first rejectionwhats based zoomer? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | got my first rejectionyeah but for me I just live in my head, from my 10 years old to 19 I didnt have friends, was forcing inside my head I wasnt worth it, I wasnt meant to be here, that when people counted human beings they didnt count me, that nobody wanted me, that I was a ugly motherfucker, that I was autistic. This made me live in my head forever, fantasies, talks, everything. Only thing that didnt make me kill myself right there and then were videogames. Then came TRP and saved my ass again. Now I feel like I a… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 11:51 PM |
| 0 | got my first rejectionI didnt think it was a field report, more like a "heres my situation, if you been here and can guide me a bit i'll be thankful" but I guess I didnt quite write it that way | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 11:42 PM |
| 0 | got my first rejectionI know dude I know, but this is not main sub worthy imo, its just a small post and since most people that are in such a fucked up situation like mine are usually on asktrp and not on the main sub I usually post here, thanks for the understanding and understanding my point of view. I hope it was not pity moved | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | got my first rejectionI know dude, I know, the thing is I didnt practice, I mentally masturbated with TRP knowledge, and now when I jumped into the real world it hurt like a motherfucker and I took way longer to make extremely small steps, so its being hard for me, but im making progress. I honestly think I needed a slap like this to begin speeding me up, its like a whip on slaves, the pain makes you go faster | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 11:38 PM |
| -1 | got my first rejectionWhy? You wanted me to come and say look guys I fucked 20 girls in 10 minutes. Just yesterday I was thinking of taking my own fucking life, and today I got rejected, I felt emotions, finally, I never had anything related to sex or love, I grew up in a fucked up home, if not for TRP I would have probably killed myself already. I dont want pity I just want tips, opinions, people who were on the same page and improved and know my struggle that can help me get out of this mess quicker and more cleanl… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmI actually tried a few days ago meditating randomly, it kinda was weird but it kinda worked I felt a bit chill afterwards, but I need to practice. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmYeah in theory it sounds about right, but some days, at certain times it just fucks me up mentally and thinking about that just doesnt do the trick | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmI still got 3 years of college ahead, but you are right. I do have a defeatist mentality, and very much. Im always negative about stuff, and I dont know how to change | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmthanks dude, i am hitting the gym and its already helping me out, i will go for thr hiit and meditation, also the book has been on my list for some time now ill get to reading it asap, thanks | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmits true, its all in my head.Everyone around me says the same shit, dude you can do so much more, you can pull that girl ez, and the best things I do like meeting new friends or getting that girl talkin to me is done when I wake up feeling different, feeling like I own this shit, but then I crash and here i am on my depressed state again, so you are right, its in my head for sure but I dont know what I should do to avoid it, but I will indeed try the things you did, especially the mantra because… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmthanks dude, i will. Its just, it seems that im so not in tune and im not doing what I was supposed to that it fucks me up | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmYoung? Im a virgin at 21 dude, Im laready 2/5 years into college and accomplished jack shit. My peers at 18 did already more than me. The difference? I know how the world works, I can pinpoint the exact TRP points to certain actions my friends take, I understand how the world spins, they dont. But the problem of this is that im not being emotional able to handle this, and since im having anxiety over approaching its being some hard days. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmThing is, I took the TRP knowledge from 2 years up to now, its more than internalized. I look at people doing stuff and see a TRP point pin pointing that action. Its like, I got the know how perfect. But I got 0 on the practical. But instead of just beginning the practical im overcomplicating stuff. A LOT. I need to dumb myself down and just take action action action action nothing else I cant write dude, just thinking about writing makes the same old point come to my head "what for? whats the p… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:20 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyThing is just last time we were together she gave me the 'kiss me motherfucker' eyes, what is stopping it from happening again? Otherwise, you'd probably be fucking her right now. The ammount of shots she gives me is ridicolous. Ludicrous even. I just dont take them cause pussy and other factors. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmWhy do I care? I dont know. I just do. Everything I do, if its not 110% perfect I feel like im not doing the best I could and fuck up and beat myself up for it. You said "hi" instead of "hey", 1 night of no sleep. I just dont know | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | I cant seem to calibrate with the world and myself, kiling myself is the best way atmI do live in my head, always did. In my teens I had no one but myself. I was alone for most part of the day, it made me have plentl of time to analyse every single situation. Here I am complicating stuff again, thinking about this shit again, I just... I need to calm down. Which doctor do I go for SSRIs? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyYeah but last time we were together she gave me the "kiss me motherfucker eyes" even after weeks of not talking in a single date, whats stopping it from happening again? Maybe she cant find anyone better than my loser ass and still prefers to have me somehow, but I dont care about this shit rn, im going to go for it this week, i'll do wahtever I feel like, if I want it tomorow it will be tomorow, otherwise friday. I will call or text depending on what I fucking want, enough of asking for opinion… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyNope. Check my post history, I just made a post that explain the why I didnt and why its fucking me up. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 02:45 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyNope. Check my post history, I just made a post that explain the why I didnt and why its fucking me up. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 02:45 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyI know, and in theory this would be the best fucking move all the time. Problem here? I lack experience, I am not in a ambudance mindset, and summer comes im going back to my rural hometown with shit nothing going down for 3 months besides gym and internet. Im going to be honest here, if I wanted to ghost her right now I would have done it, everywhere says its the best thing to do, but here I am making this post. The problem here is simple: Lack of experience. I have 0 experience in both rejecti… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyIts not that I dont want to believe in what you are saying, but there are a lot of extra details and shit that happened that if I was going to write you the whole story, it would be a diary and you wouldnt have the patience to read it, from everything that happened including recently, and knowing her and her usual actions, if I do it right I will be able to get another shot at her. We are also in a project group, 4 members, and we will eventually have to meet most likely in the next weeks so she… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyIt was oneitis, big time. Thats why I stopped texting her when she stopped innitating. TRP opened my eyes when I posted about her. But now its more of a personal victory, it just hurts when you did everything right but the end, the best part, you just fucked up. And I see a shot at getting back at myself, to show myself "I can do it". This was a fail, I learned lots of things from it. I know I fucked up big time, it appeared I was one thing but then I showed her the true "hey im a loser. date me… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyI'll try to give you the short version: We dated, shes shy af and extremely self concious, due to me still having anxieties about approaching and making a move (still making progress), she innitated contact a few times, then one day she didnt reply to my text and I was tired of fucking up dates with her so I said fuck it and ddidnt text her until she texted back. She didnt for 2 months. After those 2 months we had done a project together and we had to review it at that date, I had to text her wh… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | little question about date frequencywell yeah, you are not wrong. I got a long backstory of complete incel to now, I improved a lot but there is still a lot to change. I know there is still something and shes still hanging on the line and wants me to show her if its still worth the effort but im just blank on what move to make next | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | little question about date frequencyyeah but whats the move now to hand her my best cards do she can make a decision? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:08 AM |
| 2 | what for?dude, you just made me go back. What made this girl want to be around me was that at the beginning I was dgaf, I was having fun, texting random shit. When I started to see I needed to kiss her and such I became thr stagnant motherfucker that I am, and shes losing interest because of this. You woke me up again dude, I just need to have fun. Do random shit, joke around, and be sexual while being fun and she will be overwhelmed in emotions to the point where the kiss is just the cherry on top of th… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 10:44 AM |
| 2 | what for?Depression: Thats what I was kinda thinking, but until I found TRP at 19 I accepted I was different from everybody else, a special snowflake, since that was what my parents always told me, and so I was thinking I was made for other things and not girls. So naturally I had many mental blocks on this. Most of them I lifted, but some still remain. Anyway, now I can have fun, I can lift myself up, but some days it just hits me. When im alone it just hits me. 'Why are you so autistic? Why cant you be… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | i've found this to help me out a lot to change my mindset, any opinions?yeah but when im at home ready to sleep, for example, and my brain is doing 110 on the overthinking mile road, what can I do about that? Its a mindset change | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | i've found this to help me out a lot to change my mindset, any opinions?exactly, and I really need something like this because its really stopping me from improving, thanks | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How to turn this around?I see what you mean and it took 3 months of dating this chick and every day self motivating just to via face to face be able to tell her 'I like her ways and want something more' while stroking her hair and face, not in a nervous way, it was such a awesome step for me honestly, I felt like I finally made something happen. Thing is, this girl even after that still is giving me some signs, less signs but she is still present. Instead of her being now: "omg i want you", she is now: "meh, if you do … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How to turn this around?And thats I did, it took 3 months of dating this chick and every day self motivating just to via face to face be able to tell her I like her ways and want something more while stroking her hair and face, not in a nervous way, it was such a awesome step for me honestly, I felt like I finally made something happen. Thing is, this girl even after that still is giving me some signs, less signs but she is still present. Instead of her being now: "omg i want you", she is now: "meh, if you do the right… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | How to turn this around?Yeah but I cant stop 'sweating it', I dont really know how to stop, how to stop caring about the outcome even if you got so little as me (in terms of girls)? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How to turn this around?Yeah, thing is just last week yesterday I was with her, it seemed like she was with me just cause she was, just cause she had nothing better to do, and at the time I was like "well fuck this aint going to work to shit" but then when it ended, and I got home, and I think about what happened, she was giving sublte signs, because shes shy about this, and after that she told me today she was going to be at campus I said i'll text her if I go there aswell, I text her saying if she wants to grab lunch… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How to turn this around?im 21 actually, started college 1 year later cause issues. im stressing cause its retarded, I improved so much and instead of reaping the rewards im blocking them from me, and I want to get over this because its nothing, its just leaning in and kissing to get the ball rolling, and im putting too much emphasis on it. And since this girl digs me and even after pussying out she is still around I got a chance so im like fuck it, but I want to do it right thats why im asking for opinions and tips and… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 10:37 PM |
| 7 | How to deal with having inferior genetics?Hey dude, listen: I went through highschool thinking I was one of the ugliest motherfuckers alive. I reached college, same. Only after 2 years of low self improving here and there, after getting a decent haircut, decent fashion, knowing how to socialize, having a big social circle, and looking the best I can (Im still skinny af so mind that), I noticed something. I always had crooked ass teeth (still fixing them atm), it kinda made my jaw a lil bit crooked, I grew a beard. First 4 months looked … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Im complicating this shit, can someone help me outdunno, guess im putting it as a big ass thing when its not | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Im complicating this shit, can someone help me outYeah but im overthinking because I cant just kiss out of nowhere, thats why im asking for help | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Im complicating this shit, can someone help me outThats why im asking for help here, im overthinking this stuff. What should I do? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Im complicating this shit, can someone help me outExactly what always happens. I plan shit, it doesnt happen as planned, I freeze and it stays the same. I pussied out on the last few dates, on the last one we had I was thinking she didnt want anything now cause she was acting a bit more away, so I said fuck this shit and started calling my friends setting stuff up infront of her, ignoring her completely since I was thinking this was fucked up already, told her I was going to grab a bite and then go home, that she could do whatever she wanted. A… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Mental Blocks prevent me from doing what I want mostI just wouldnt feel rigth with a prostitute, I want to be able to feel the reward of so much work, to be able to finally tell myself I can overcome any adveristy. What fucks me up is that I had this girl date me for 6 months, and it feels that only when I know she is losing interest by the minute that I feel the motivation and be like "if I was at X date now, it would be different" and then it crushes me that I have no other options besides this girl. And then im like: "Well how to get more gi… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Finally got my first rejectionThing is, I prefer social circle game and at parties and such I feel way more pressure than during the day or normal social circle. But i've read and re-read what you wrote and I got the idea, and I will always apply it if a girl is pulling convo and im into her. Do you have any tips for social circle or day game? Like meeting a girl normally via friends or such and then asking her out and stuff like that? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Finally got my first rejectionyeah I know, the post isnt about getting her, and even if it was a shit show I made so much progress and just failing like this made me so much more comfortable with girls, one thing is reading, another thing is experience this stuff in real time, it really wakes you up. It really does. For example, I was so dreadful of touching a girls face, like I was thinking they would bite my finger off or some shit, with this girl I failed hard, I cried on TRP, then tried again and grabbed my balls and… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Finally got my first rejectionThe way you put it I just need to get out, have fun and see a girl I like and go make convo, if she is into it then proceed to follow those steps. But it isnt that that that simple, to get to that point you need to have decent SMV (like you said, you are high, I am at around average), you need social calibration (even though I improved a lot and can hold convos with girls, I dread sexualizing anything with a girl, it just feels like I wasnt made for that, like with this last girl I made SO much … | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Finally got my first rejectionthanks for the time writing this, you are correct, my SMV is not high. Probably average or less, but the thing is this girl (for example) made it very obvious, the most obvious was when we went on a date and at the end instead we say goodbye and she instead of leaving starts talking random shit and looking me in the eyes a lot, I got the hint. The problem here is not me getting the hints or not, but me taking action. Thats why I say I probably have some kind of problem, simply because I understa… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Finally got my first rejectionbut its like im affraid of getting rejected, but this was my first experience at getting rejected and I was autistic about it | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Finally got my first rejectionits like I prefer the maybe instead of yes or no, cause its like: Relax dude, you had the signs, you could have fucked her easy I prederred having that mental masturbation instead of just doing it, this was the first timebI did something ever | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Finally got my first rejectionyou re right until the summer part, we actually live pretty close to each other and there is still lots of classee before summer, but yeah I simply friendzoned myself | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Finally got my first rejectiondude ibdont know, probably? I wouldnt be suprised if so, this is why I post on trp, I need help | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR)Dont you agree its better than nothing? Since I cant seem to do it at once, I can take baby steps to it no? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR)I do. I dont go after girls when im drunk im exactly the same. Alcohol makes me looser for sure and I hug girls and all but I never escalate even when drunk. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR)What I will do is, if I see I am pussying out of the kiss I will 'declare' myself to her, I wont say those exact words but something along the lines of "look girl, I really dig our friendship but I think we have a connection and want to take things further" or something. If i see that I am pussying out again I will say those words, because my chances are already slim and I prefer to come out doing something like that than letting it stay like this. I know its not the best but its better than not… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 07:54 PM |
| 3 | i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR)You just made that 'click' in my brain. All I need is to get rejected. Like really. Get awkward as fuck, get rejected. Im going to be honest, I NEVER once got rejected. N E V E R. Every interaction I had with a girl with dates or minimally sexual ended with the dates turning into friendly meet ups and me friendzoning myself. I never got a no from a girl, thats whats missing. What im gonna do is: I can get a meetup with this chick easy, and once im with her and we chat for a bit im going to say "… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)You are not wrong but honestly, I think its part of my journey. Just 2 years ago I didnt even have more than 5 friends, I didnt have any girl friends, I didnt have any girls interest at all, I was ugly fat and no social skills at all. No interests, no life goals, nothing. Now I managed to get ahead of my peers in terms of socializing, I am known for being the out going guy who gets people together in parties, I cant walk 5 minutes in my campus without someone comming to say hi to me, i've improv… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)I get what you mean. Heres what im gonna do: Tuesday comes, we both in campus and I know she is going to lunch that day there so imma text her at ~11 "hey, meet me at 12 @X spot lets grab a bite and talk about the project", we meet and just platitudes. Then, after or during our eating when we are in a more isolated spot i'll be like "hey look girl, the truth is im incredibly attracted to you and im a bit shy but you have recently been on my mind and I would like to spend more time with you", and… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)I cant seem to get out of my head, when it happens like it just happened I just get devastated and cant think about anything else... | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:28 PM |
| -1 | i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR)read the problem to below | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)Thanks dude, really. You dont understand how much a conversation like this means to me, you really hit it home. I was just thinking on opening my window and jumping and reading your reply almost brought tears to my eyes. Really dude, you dont know what you just did. You read my fucking mind, what I wanted to do for a long time now is when I meet her again im going all in and giving the most honest answer she will ever get: "look girl, heres the deal. Since the first day I saw you that I was inte… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)I dont know what to say, im going to be honest. I was a social outcast from my teens, im a 21 virgin and 2 years ago I found TRP, I read it and finally girls made sense to me, I now know how girls work at least to a very very basic point. The problem here is: Its not the first time it has happened to me. This is why I come here and post this long pleads. I dont know what to do. I can get to the kiss part but I can never muster the balls to do it. I just dont know whats wrong with me. Last year t… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)you are right, cant say anything else. The problem I have is that I didnt miss them or I didnt create them, I can go from "hi" to the point where she is waiting to be kissed, I know how and have done it with other girls but every time it gets clear that I CAN FUCKING KISS HER I JUST PUSSY OUT. There, I said it. Nothing else. I know when she wanted to kiss me everytime, I know all the times she wanted me to make a move. I knew it every single damn time. I just somehow closed myself off it and the… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)The problem with me is that I can get girls to the kissing 'point', but then I just dont do it and they lose interest. I dont know what to do. I just dont really know, this happened in the past several times with other girls, im still a virgin cause I cant muster up my balls and go for it. I just dont know what to do, just the tough crossing my mind that I lost so many chances to get laid cause I pussied out, not because of my looks, not because of my attitude, not because of how I walk or how I… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)exactly. I just cant muster up my balls to do it, being a virgin and since in my highschool days I was a social outcast just fucked my brains up, I dont know what to do | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)I dont know what to say, im going to be honest. I was a social outcast from my teens, im a 21 virgin and 2 years ago I found TRP, I read it and finally girls made sense to me, I now know how girls work at least to a very very basic point. The problem here is: Its not the first time it has happened to me. This is why I come here and post this long pleads. I dont know what to do. I can get to the kiss part but I can never muster the balls to do it. I just dont know whats wrong with me. Last year t… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | i was a pussy, means shes gone but she isnt? (long)yep, I overthink stuff like this. Im just gonna invite her out tomorow for tuesday and close the deal | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety. I fuck it all up. Im tired of it. How can I fucking change?Its true. But since I got TRP available to me I want to speed things up, the quicker the better thats why im asking for help. But I see what you mean, and my mentality honestly is changing. Like you said, im getting tired of playing on the side lines, sure you dont lose anything but you also cant win. If you want to win you gotta put skin in the game, I honestly started feeling more idgaf and going more ballsy. It might not be much but as an example this girl that fell into my lap but is still i… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety. I fuck it all up. Im tired of it. How can I fucking change?exactly, I need experience to make the anxiety dissapear, but to make it dissapear I need experience | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety. I fuck it all up. Im tired of it. How can I fucking change?yeah dude ik, what am I gonna do about it? Best thing I can do is try to overcome it and not embrace it, thats why im working on myself and not sleeping my life away | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety. I fuck it all up. Im tired of it. How can I fucking change?exactly, but only because im failing where I shouldnt fail. The hard part is done, I can get girls giving IOIs, they texting me and dating me and giving me signals. I just dont make a move. I improved already but at this rate i'll lose my virginity at 30... This mindset makes me lose all the frame, I can re-gain my frame but I just lose it instantly when I dont make a move. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What should I read/watch first. 19yo male first post here?Then why did you ask which of them to read if you already know | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:14 AM |
| 3 | What should I read/watch first. 19yo male first post here?All of them you lazy bastard | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Cant get over a girl?You will suffer. Its your brains way to tell you to not fuck up again or there will be consequences. You need to lift first of all to get that brain with some strong testoterone foundations, then use this mindset: Its all part of your biological self, its just atoms. Zoom out of yourself, see the universe, you mean shit, that means shit. Its all done to make sure humans evolve. Just take it like a man, even enjoy the feeling. Means your jungle self works. Start going after other pussy. If your b… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:04 AM |
| 5 | I want more sex out of my pregnant wife, how do I get it?Make a deal with the fetus. Dude common. Stop being retarded. You are overthinking. Just tell her ffs | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | How to make RP friends at the gym?Not everyone at the gym is RP my dude, but gym buddies are great. If you can enter the gym and say hi to everyone and know the regulars its awesome. Just have common sense and make an effort. Go say hi to the instructor if they are with someone also shake their hand or somethin, if you want to use the bench press and someone is using it ask if you can alternate and then ask them if they want a spotter or if they can spot you, easy dude, dont force it tho. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I feel like im not good enough for anything, that im not worth the time. What can I do?Exactly. I didnt make a move because my desire was not that high and since I wasnt confident enough I said fuck it and delayed it. I will keep the gym routine all the time, I need it. It fixes my mental self. And now im going nofap to see how it goes for me. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Feeling void and suicidal. Is there more to life?fuck you and your planning. just go. tomorow. lift a couple of stuff. Go there and do some shit. Start tomorow. Say hi to the guys there. Afraid to be naked in the lockeroom? Go for it. Afraid to say hi? Go for it. Make small talk with the guys there, eventually some of them will become regulars to you and thats how you get gym buddies. Go lift random heavy shit, get sweaty. Then follow a decent exercise plan, befriend the instructors, then start eating healthy. Eating vegetables with your meal,… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Feeling void and suicidal. Is there more to life?Honestly, lift. I am a virgin at 21, I had so many feelz like that, and still do. I wondered maybe im autistic or something, maybe somethings wrong with me. Lemme tell you what I learned: Lift. The only thing that somehow made my head get clear was having a full month of 3 times a week gym routine. I dont know why, I just feel different. I feel like I want to rape chicks, I want to fuck them to death. I say fuck you to everything that looks my way, I just feel different. I look at the overthinki… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I feel like im not good enough for anything, that im not worth the time. What can I do?So you're saying: By lifting during a long period of time and building myself, plus all this pain im going through right now of failing with the practice I get into will with time make me someone who will look back and think "goddamn I improved a lot". All of this plus the TRP knowledge I got will be enough to be a high value male, to a certain extent at least. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I feel like im not good enough for anything, that im not worth the time. What can I do?Actually its the oposite. I only have male friends, to some exceptions of course. I have quite a big social circle in college, get invited to lots of parties, am on the basketball team of my college, I am eating clean and right now at a month and a half of a perfect gym routine, all im missing is taking action with chicks. Which shouldnt be a problem but somehow is... | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I feel like im not good enough for anything, that im not worth the time. What can I do?This. Just today I noticed how much of a pussy I am. I was having a hard time putting in eye drops. Eye fucking drops. I was afraid that it would hurt my eye. I stopped myself, asked wtf am I doing and just put them on in a flash. This really placed things in prespective, its not that im not attractive enough, its not that im gay, its not that im lazy, its not that I have some mental issue. Its simple: Im a fucking pussy. And I need to grab my balls or life will flash before my eyes. Thanks dude… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I feel like im not good enough for anything, that im not worth the time. What can I do?Yep, since I was 13. Everyday. I am trying to stop it for some time now. Its being hard | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I feel like im not good enough for anything, that im not worth the time. What can I do?Thanks dude, you fixed my issue, I was gay after all. For real tho, if I knew what was wrong with me I would fix it. I dont know. Sometimes I feel that its afraid of being rejected, other times I feel im just lazy, other times its that im a pussy, and I just cant put my hands on what the issue is for real. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | getting new glasses finally, any tips?imo that makes me look like a 40 yr old, not my style at all | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | getting new glasses finally, any tips?Exactly this. My glasses are ugly af and this affects my confidence, so yeah imma get some I like but there are known factors to face shape and such that just fit you better | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | getting new glasses finally, any tips?All the shops I passed by have only women working ffs. I asked one of them what glasses would fit me better, then on another store asked the another about that pair of glasses and she said they were ugly and didnt fit me right, thats why im asking for opinion to people who can have an opinion, but i'll keep an eye out for that gay dude | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | getting new glasses finally, any tips?yeah I did ask for a contacts recommendation and I am going to get them but I gotta have my glasses anyway for emergency or something so im going to get them anyway | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when she’s ready to be fucked?Get her on a date. Escalate, touch her leg. She sort of pushes away? 'Move' away and re-start. Then eventually you will touch her leg again, maybe this time she touches yours, then you get closer, she gets closer. Then /u/GayLubeOil shows up and winks at you. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:16 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if a girl wants to hang up?what the other guy said. If she is not saying hell yes then its a no. Why? Simple. Go buy a hooker for sex. Now go 'seduce' a hot girl that is wet just by seeing you. Watch how different the sex is. This is why you take the hard path of becoming a alpha male. This is why you go to the gym. For that when the girl sees you, the way you move, the way you talk, the way your body is shaped, the way other guys respect you just makes her tingle for you and go wild with you. This is the best part of gir… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if a girl wants to hang up?"hey you wanna hang out?" "yes" | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 12:27 AM |
| 4 | How do you know when she’s ready to be fucked?kino | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | is the red pill a cheat code to a game ?You dont want to do them because everyone else looks happy and they arent doing any of those things. At least thats what you think. Maybe they got lucky, got her in the right timing, are the right type of her, she didnt get anyone else, she wanted to try out new things, he had the balls to approach you didnt, he is actually struggling with other things in his life which make him not worry about pussy thus getting it. Maybe he lost his parents and is hard as a rock emotionally and girls dig that,… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 10:48 PM |
| 5 | is the red pill a cheat code to a game ?You will fail dude trust me. It can take a while, but you will. When people say you will die dont ask what if I dont die, like its kinda a real question but we all know it aint gonna happen. I was just like this, I was thinking I had found a cheat code for life, the scroll I was missing! I improved myself then I went out thinking it was easy since I knew all of this that the other guys didnt know. First time, failed hard. I rejected myself. Didnt know the ammount of pressure I had. Second time? … | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 12:03 AM |
| 5 | is the red pill a cheat code to a game ?This. Once you feel like you know it all, go outside and try it out. You will fail miserably, and question TRP's principles then you will learn where you did wrong and try again, then you will fail again at the exact same things. You will get mad at yourself, mad at the world and mad at life. Once this mad stage wears off you will rationalize that maybe you did something wrong again, you find what that was and compare it to what TRP says, you see where you failed and you keep going. Eventually y… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 11:46 PM |
| 3 | how long does attraction lasts ?if they ghost you, how do you rebuild attraction? does trp adress this? I know its more hard work than getting a new chick but is it doable? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | oneitis, setting life in order, need some helpI wont be tonight, I got a wisdom tooth out and it was a 1 hour and so surgery, because my wisdom tooth are horizontal and not vertical it cause my teeth to be crooked, to get braces I gotta get my wisdom out first, I already got 2 and this was the third but since they are horizontal the hole is huge that it leaves behind and I gotta stay in house and not even catch sun for at least 4 or 5 days so yeah cant really do much besides getting depressed and watch my gainz leave the door | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | oneitis, setting life in order, need some helpHey dude, thanks. I see what you mean. Worst I can get is she saying no, but then I wont need to overthink stuff cause I know the answer. I either stay the same or get her number, its a win-win situation... I see what you meant. I will dude, I will do it. Thanks. I will go for it, once I do, I will return to this post and leave you a reply. I guarantee you. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | oneitis, setting life in order, need some helpExactly dude, the thing is im aware of that, like I said in my weird ass example all I need is to give that last little push to get started, once I teach my brain im not going to die from rejection I will be unstoppable, and goddamn once I become this bullet I will be one hard motherfucker to stop it. I can tell you TRP molded another guy to the point where most guys will bow to me once they see the power I hold. But returning to the present, I just need that little nudge to start it off. And th… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Girl blocked my after initiating dirty talkthis. I know you want to be direct, I know you want to reach up to girls and be like 'you me, mi casa, fucky fucky?', but they just cant accept even if they want if you come like this. They want to feel like 'it just happened'. Next time say something like: "You really need to see my cat, but be careful he is agressive winky face here" this way she can interpret as a sexual innuendo but without any pressure. You just wanted to warn her about your cat, nothing else. If she brings up something sex… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itEven when im drunk at college parties I cant approach girls. Or guys. Im afraid of leaving my comfort zone. This is it, nothing else. I didnt close cause I was afraid. I knew I could have closed, I knew it. But deep down, closing meant leaving my comfort zone. And im afraid of doing so. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itThing is dude, I kinda know this. But how can I really change my head to this? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 03:01 AM |
| 2 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itI know that and I guarantee you that it was a learning experience by far, next time it happens I WILL MAKE A MOVE. This I guarantee you. But the problem here is that since I dont know when the next time will come with a chick hot as this, im feeling depressed knowing I lost a easy kill and im still a virgin. This could have been my ticket out and the last piece of the puzzle. Yet I didnt manage to grab it. This feeling makes me VERY depressed to the point where I dont do shit days on end... | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itSo true, this is the way I feel. I know more than enough of the theory indeed, at least a year of reading TRP and watching TRP videos daily. I know it, I help my friends and it works. I just am afraid of closing. Of getting out there, its true. Im afraid of leaving my comfort zone. I do do the thinking for others, I do care about validation way to much. I want to fix this. But how? Also, I guarantee you that it was a learning experience by far, next time it happens I WILL MAKE A MOVE. This I gua… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itSort of. I guarantee you that it was a learning experience by far, next time it happens I WILL MAKE A MOVE. This I guarantee you. But the problem here is that since I dont know when the next time will come with a chick hot as this, im feeling depressed knowing I lost a easy kill and im still a virgin. This could have been my ticket out and the last piece of the puzzle. Yet I didnt manage to grab it. This feeling makes me VERY depressed to the point where I dont do shit days on end... | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itLooks: Im lifting properly, just a matter of time now. In a week im going to change my EXTREMELY ugly glasses. In a a couple of months im having braces in to fix my crooked ass teeth. Im setting up a nice beard. Money: Dont know what GPA is, im in a european country. Im taking a 5 year degree on computer engineering, this degree pays extremely well so imma be set for the job world. Status: I got good friends, I got parties easily, I get girls IOIs, what im missing is the other part of the world.… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itExactly dude, this feeling that knowing that she was 100% down to fuck me, more than 10 times is what is making me feel less of a man. How could I not see it? I know that I guarantee you that it was a learning experience by far, next time it happens I WILL MAKE A MOVE. This I guarantee you. But the problem here is that since I dont know when the next time will come with a chick hot as this, im feeling depressed knowing I lost a easy kill and im still a virgin. This could have been my ticket out … | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itIn my case, I went to the gym for 6 months half assing it, skipping weeks and exercises, I lost weight because I was eating right but I gained minimal muscle and got skinny fat. I stopped the gym for 1 year, going once a month or so just to say I go to the gym. 1 month and so ago I decided enough is enough, its time to man up. I have for the first time being going to the gym for the 5th week in a row, everytime im there I give my best, I practise the best posture and I push myself. Just last wee… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 02:51 AM |
| 3 | I think I'm sabotaging myself because of a fear that girls will recognize that I have almost no sexual experienceHey dude, just wanting to lay this down for you: If you check my post history i've been crying and crying on askTRP about the same topic, I have perfect shots with girls, like they get into my actual fucking room giving obvious signs, and I dont make a move and reject myself aka sabotaging myself. I didnt quite understand why, i've blamed it on my past, i've blamed it on my virginity at 21, i've blamed it on being lazy and i've blamed it on being ugly. Guess what? All of this what I can tell you… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itExactly, to get the 'good posture' fixed I need to hit the weight room, which I am doing now. For the first time I went to the gym 3 times a week for a full month but every time im there im actually pushing myself instead of just 'meh' lifting. In terms of comfort, I have some extremely UGLY ass glasses since middle school, I never cared about them but recently I learned about the halo effect and since my glasses are weird blue and nerdy it categorizes me as nerdy. This plus my extremely crooked… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itYou dont say? Why do you think im here asking for help, if I was able to do it I would just do it dude, I know what to do, I know she wanted it, she knows I knew she wanted it, and still I didnt do it. The why is what im trying to figure out, honestly I think its all a matter of action, since she was the second even girl I dated and the first one to get so far I overthinked way to much and fucked it up, honestly I feel like I know what to expect now and what to do next time, I feel like I needed… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itWill do, thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itThing is dude, I know. It was the second only girl I ever dated, I never got so far with a girl. Honestly, I feel like you say I just know that next time imma go like 'nah nah nah, she wants the d just go for it I aint going to go away not knowing again like last time' and I feel that I will be able to do it, and I gained experience it was still a kinda win situation but it could have gotten so more far, she was hot and she was into me and we had so much in common and it would have been a nice e… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itI notice a lot I always look weird in pics and my body language is always off to the point where it looks unnatural, I cant set a 'normal' body language, the only time I got a sort of natural body language is when im sort of drunk, or im really having a good time, but when I notice my body language and my face like when someone goes to take a pic and says smile I put on a fake smile or something it really comes off weird, I look weird. I dont know how to fix this. I think its because im caring t… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 03:34 PM |
| 2 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itmy dude, thanks. You really helped me understand. What I need to do is, take more action. Go and fail to the point where I fail so much I start connecting the dots and this experience is what will change my mindset, along with hard work of gym routines, clean eating, good discipline, and constant improving will make me someone that is on top without even caring about any hierarchy. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to get confidenceExactly, but since I never experience it in my head its like she will kill me litterally and I will never be the same, and everyone will lose respect for me, and then I dont do it | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I fix my reputation with women who refuse to acknowledge that their whole perception about me is flawed? And misconstrued and fake?I know how you feel, but if you are not trully fucking girls you gotta do it for something first. Make it be for girls, get in the gym and be like 'imma get so swole so I can throw that bitch from 2 blocks away to my bed in one swing', something like that to get you started. Once you start fucking girls you'll change your mindset. You gotta start somewhere, if you want to create a multi nacional company, you gotta pick a country to start first, you aint going to create one office in every countr… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to get confidenceExactly, I only have theory and since I got that not so good childhood past I overthink even more. I believe practise will fix it, like you said. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I cant seem to get confidenceProblem is dude, I know the solutions. Im afraid to make a move on a girl? Just start getting rejected and approach with confidence, this will make it seem like no biggie. During almost a year honestly I was wondering why I was so afraid of approaching women knowing that I have the means to make it work, I just need to practise. I couldnt move myself to actually do it, I was thinking for a long time that I had some kind of mental problem. Want to know what conclusion I finally came up to? Im jus… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | I cant seem to get confidenceExactly, its like I built a car from scratch, its not the best but its damn good. And now I want my car to be in the my towns car show, but for this I need to drive it there. Sounds simple, but im overthinking it and now im afraid of turning the key for the engine to start, and then I get out and call my friends crying why isnt my car at the car show yet, maybe cause you havent drove it there? It isnt going to pop up in there out of thin air, and it isnt going to move itself, life is going to go… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to get confidenceThis, this this. Its true. EVERY move I make in my life, like every fucking single one is based on what gives me more validation, from talking louder or creating small lies, I do it all. And some of them I am fully aware and feel disgusted but still do them. This is what is affecting me, I got to focused on building a nice looking car when I didnt even realize the bridge is down, whats the point of having a nice looking car if you cant cross the bridge? I forgot to build this bridge, this is wha… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to get confidenceyou are right, it wasnt a actual trauma more like a fear of me missing out and being left out. This made me pursue validation and now every move I make is based on what validates me the most. I need help to stop caring about validation and start caring about myself. Making my action reflect my own opinion. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | I cant seem to get confidencevery true, im being lazy and instead of living in reality I live in my imagination where its easier to make things happen, and then I suffer because of it. How can I change this? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Improving my gameMake a convo, shes showing IOIs? Try to daate the same day or same time, you see it wont work then say "nice to meet you but I gotta bounce, tomorow i'll be trying a new coffee shop around here, give me your number and you can join me", she comes you start talking, then applying bit of kino, after the date you isolate (you park your car a few minutes walk away) then you go for the kiss, shes down then you lead her to a bed and boom, fireworks. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 05:27 PM |
| 8 | SMV 1/10 blue pilled friend waited 6 months for girl and she says yesDude, there is a difference. You can be ugly as fuck and still fuck chicks, you can be beta and fuck chicks. The difference is, if you fuck chicks while you are overweight versun when you are at the top, besides being at the top making it 110% easier, girls will have a different passion, this is the difference between a girl wanting her asshole destroyed by you versus she saying no sex tonight. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 05:26 PM |
| 3 | How do I fix my reputation with women who refuse to acknowledge that their whole perception about me is flawed? And misconstrued and fake?You ignore them, then you hit the gym and get the biggest guns in your arms you have ever got. You fix your style, you get a dope haircut, if your face genetics is shit, you grow a beard. If you wear shitty glasses, you get better glasses or use contacts. After this is sorted you re-appear in the world, get chicks flocking to you and you getting a different pussy every night, with this you automatically feel aweosme, get a masculine frame, abundance frame and when this happens I guarantee those … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Y’all got any good conversation starters?You see a hot girl, you go to her and you say "hey, listen to this" and then rip the biggest fart you have ever ripped. If you're hot, she will touch you playfully and laugh, you say "me you my bed, later at 7" she agrees. If you're overweight with a face that makes you look like that little ugly ass monster dude from lord of the rings, you get cops on your ass. See the difference? Now go increase your SMV to the point where 'game' doesnt matter and chicks will kill themselves just to smell your… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | I got a mental block, any tips on removing it?Exactly, im overthinking stuff. Its like instead of just sitting back, chill and take things as simple as they are, im taking notes, making calculations, oh wait she approached me by the X angle that means she is 37º from the sun thus she only wants dick if I move 3 inches to the left, and then when I notice shes gone. Since im a virgin I didnt experience it first hand, and thus I really have trouble mentalizing myself... In regards of the tough guys, im actually the funny guy in the group, im a… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Have you had problems with fantasy?Exactly, I know to get a easy pass to pussy, to even get chosen at job interviews, to get received better by people I just need to improve my physical aspect, yet I prefer to stay in bed all day. So far im being able to beat around the bush of laziness and got myself a nice gym routine, im feeling much better, sleeping much better and all but why is it even knowing its good for me I just dont want to do it, I just want to be lazy all day long? You're saying I need to set up a 'base' routine for … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Have you had problems with fantasy?How to restart this bological drives? I cried in TRP for 2 weeks, returned for a week for a gym routine and pushing iron after almost a year doing shit, in this week I already feel happier and with that motivation of goddamn imma fuck this brains out of a girl. So let me guess, Innate biological drives => Your body aint pushing itself => Your biological brain doesnt give you drive cause you dont need it? | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How to take action? How to get out of this loopExactly, if I see IOIs heck i'll go for it, but if not i'll stick to my routine and instead of taking 5 years to get a minimum decent body and get 1 to 2 chicks meanwhile its better to just stick to 1 year hardcore routine and then get 1 to 2 chicks a day. Thanks dude, for real. Really. You just changed my mindset and most likely my life. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How to take action? How to get out of this loopMan ignore my other reply, it just clicked inside my head whats wrong with me, after improving myself I got some attention and I got greedy and wanted the best of both worlds, I ditched the improvment world and now because I dont have my mind in a healthy way it haunts me with retarded choices and options. Thanks to all the replies it finally clicked in my head, I finally understood what TRP is about. Instead of being the average chump and playing the numbers game and get what you can, I instead… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How to take action? How to get out of this loopWill do, afterall I dont feel good with my current body. Skinnyfat, no abs, noodle arms, I got crooked teeth and will be getting braces soon, I got some ugly ass middle school glasses that I am going to change soon, I got some fat ass eyebrows that I need to pluck, honestly the worst thing in me is my physical body and face, the rest I believe I got it pretty far, not on point but above average already. Thing is, midway this improvment I already did I got girls attention so I decided to take a '… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How to take action? How to get out of this loopYeah, I derailed and need to get it together first of all, once I got a nice routine going again of sleep gym clean eating and no smoking and drinking I will feel like a different men and this overthinking will be a pathethic thing to look back onto. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How to take action? How to get out of this loopWhat do you mean? Are you saying I am thinking my SMV is higher than it is or that I am just overthinking stuff and need to tone it down, take a chill pill, and just do stuff? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How to take action? How to get out of this loopYeah but how? I overthink because I am not sure where in the spectre I am, am I in the SMV average->above average area or am I in the SMV dead->ugly ass area? I get mixed signals from both areas so I am not sure where I stand, and I am looking for ways to set my SMV level so I then can apply attitudes related to it, if im the average area or above I need to approach if im in the ugly area I need to improve myself first of all, how can I see where I stand? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | How to take action? How to get out of this loopI know but since I overthink everythink and sexually retard, what do you mean with jumping out of a plane? Be direct with girls? Go make conversation with all girls? DM girls? Cold approach? Try party approaching? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 11:45 PM |
| 1 | fucked up, trying to finally take actionEveryones advice is: Stop being a pussy, im trying I really am | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | fucked up, trying to finally take actionI know dude thats why im asking TRP. But you want to know what I feel inside? I feel laziness, I feel like I just dont do it cause im lazy, I need to stop posting here crying. Honestly, just ignore me. I know whats wrong with me, I know what I need to do, I know what I should be doing. I just dont do it, im lazy thats it. I knew when I was with the girl she wanted dick and you know how I felt? I was like "meh... too much work, might get rejected, i'll leave it for another day", and then I cry. L… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | fucked up, trying to finally take actionI know man, if I keep posting its because I still need help with it, im trying, I already made progress but really slow | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | fucked up, trying to finally take actionI see what you mean, I was raised in a bubble so the most difficult thing for me in life is to get up the morning. If I do something worse then by comparision it looks like nothing and i'll be able to actually make moves on girls like it was nothing. I basically need to just approach girls for the first times, like get rejected in the face really hard so then I see well this isnt nothing like I was afraid of this why and then i'll be able to improve | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | fucked up, trying to finally take actionI see what you mean, you are saying I just need to do stuff that takes guts so then I compare it to kissing a girl and feel like that aint shit, like me going to a war getting shot, and then see a girl and be like "lol this aint nothing compared to that" and at this point is when I feel i'll be able to make progress | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | fucked up, trying to finally take actionNo actually dude, this girl was at least a 8.5/10 the one I fucked up with, the ones that are giving me IOIs arent the fatties actually, those I just cant fuck they disgust me to hell, like fags they disgust me to hell. Its just my own opinion, even if I am a 30 year old virgin I refuse to fuck fatties, never in my life, they disgust me to hell I find them repulsive. Anyhow, the girls that give me IOIs arent the slutty dressing hot girls at all, they are more the average sally type of girls. The… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | fucked up, trying to finally take actionwhat do you mean a warpath? This was my first experience with a girl, ever, I never got this far. I froze, I overthinked and fucked up. I posted here crying about this already and got over it, I learned that when a girl gets in your room it means business and I need to escalate, I learned that the hard way. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 04:44 PM |
| 38 | Women are attracted to me but treat me like I’m invisible... what’s going on here? What am I missing?This. I didnt ecalate: She ghosted me A mans job is to escalate and they are to reject you, you are rejecting them so they get confused and then they assume that you are a pussy (something like this), trust me, just engage and escalate a lil bit to test the waters, if the test comes out horrible and a crocodile jumps at you just move along, if everything goes well and a mermaid appears you fuck the shit out of the mermaid | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Saying sweet “soft” shit to a LTR?Yep, after crying on TRP 2 weeks ago after the chick ghosted me I internalized that with nights of crying, getting slapped on TRP and digesting the pill. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Saying sweet “soft” shit to a LTR?Yep, after crying on TRP 2 weeks ago after the chick ghosted me I internalized that with nights of crying, getting slapped on TRP and digesting the pill. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Maintain dominance when tables are turned in LTR? (she works I don't)somewhat that yeah | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | mewing?read up on mewing, but to cut it short: either bullshit or really really small improvments on adults | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Maintain dominance when tables are turned in LTR? (she works I don't)If you want a LTR, read up on LTR here on TRP. If you dont want an LTR, also read up on handling the talk, should be a link on the sidebar. But what I would do is when she says do you love me you say "of course I love that ass" and you slap her ass, this should defuse the bomb for some more time. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I turn girls Lesbian?Dude it was an example of course you dont say shit like that And look, you were born a fucking man and thats life, you need to either give up entirely or push through it, keep going at it, keep fighting, stop giving excuses. In every reply something new bad comes in, oh this oh that oh this and that, just stop. Stop thinking about anything. You are complicating and overthinking, you want us to tell you 'fine you're ugly, you lost it just like you said, congratulation you were right', if you want… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I turn girls Lesbian?he said 115 btw | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I turn girls Lesbian?balding at 16? make the brand look bad, maybe shit test ? You act high value and they think you're not so they check "are you high value?" and you reply "no im faking it" and they lose interest? 1 choclate bar acne in the next few hours? My dude thats hormones | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Saying sweet “soft” shit to a LTR?yeah I dont know how tho, I can get girls in my room but cant make a move, then they leave and I get friendzoned, I dont know why I just cant its like my brain doesnt think im good enough or I have some kind of mental barrier so I just keep rejecting girls, I went on fucking 30 dates with the hottest girl I ever managed to get my hands on just a few weeks ago, 3 times it was netflix and chill and now she ghosted my ass I think im turning gay or something ffs | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I turn girls Lesbian?Dude you're 16... Maxed out SMV? You only max out your smv at 30 somethings at best... I bet whatever you want that you aint lifting shit, reply to the other guy below on what is your squat and benchpress and lets compare values. About your haircut, just go to a decent well known hair stylist in your area and ask what haircut would fit better with your face shape, about your clothes not looking good go read on male fashion and pick a style you like, I go for streetwear 24/7 (unless its a formal … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Saying sweet “soft” shit to a LTR?I swear to god, when I finally man up and stop being a pussy and actually start taking action and lose my virginity, I will do that. Challenge accepted, but first I got to actually stop being a pussy | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Maintain dominance when tables are turned in LTR? (she works I don't)Exactly, but the difference is that alpha is for emotional experiences and beta is for boring vanilla stuff (not really, this is just so you get my point of view), if you start making yourself as someone predictable and soft emotional person her fantasies wont be able to fit in your frame so she will look elsewhere for them, and if you say you love her she will not wonder all the time where you stand, making you boring. Just no overthinking, she says she has to work late sure act aloof, if you s… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Quickest way to get fuckbuddy in college without social circle , online, or "classroom game"Then great dude! If you get IOIs from high tier woman go for it, if you get 0~1% closing rate, then this means those were not IOIs and you are not at their tier simple as this, do whatever the fuck you want and always aim high. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Saying sweet “soft” shit to a LTR?Man I love you. OP see the frame this guy has? This how you need to be. Instead of thinking this is beta, this is alpha, actually internalize the points TRP preaches and become one then do whatever the fuck you want. Do that if you feel like it, then the next night you start talking about how you think the moon landing is fake or how the earth is flat, do whatever the fuck you want. Just dont be boring imo. If you are not boring, and do whatever the fuck you want, if she cant guess your next mov… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I turn girls Lesbian?Exactly my dude, it depends a lot. This guy asked on this post how to get fuck buddies girls from classes, I replied with this, read it I think it fits here well: Thats what every single fucking guy in this world wants dude, if it was easy everyone would be doing it. I'll break it down for you as best as I can: If you have attractive genetics you wouldnt be on trp, i'll assume you > dont. This way, you can either learn game and frame basics and go for the low tier woman, approach and make > smal… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Scars from self-inflicted injuryThis. "I was actually kidnapped a few years ago and they tortured me but I broke free and called the cops, they are now in death row... Then I woke up" "It all started with one of my girlfriends who had this big ass nails... Goddamn those were the times... Anyway, point of story is: Never have a wild tiger as your girlfriend." "Each scar is from every dick I sucked" Just A&A, act aloof and with a chill funny vibe | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Maintain dominance when tables are turned in LTR? (she works I don't)Some girls actually enjoy this, but problem here is that if this is the fram you have, then convenient for her is to tell you she has to work late and actually gets her fantasy of bbc gangbangs come true you see? If she has no respect for you then she will start feeling like she owes you shit and will use you | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I turn girls Lesbian?So did I dude, whey everyday and creative before workouts, went 4 times a week for almost a year made minimal gains. Wasnt eating enough, didnt push myself at all on the gym at all, just half assed it and didnt even notice until I started reading that 4~6 months of gym should already have at least minimal gainz and I was like "wait a minute" and then I went to the gym the day after, and actually pushed myself, slow reps, proper grip, pushing my abs and glutes, etc, etc and at the end I was fucki… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Quickest way to get fuckbuddy in college without social circle , online, or "classroom game"Then prepare to be on a dry spell until your SMV is high enough for those tiers | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:37 PM |
| 7 | How direct to go with girls in college classesYou are overthinking a bit, here are my takes on this: -Direct game wont work unless you have high SMV, because girls like to make it look like "oh it just happened" like oh it was supposed for us to go and study but it just happened... So that when she breaks up with you its your fault, they dont like to have anything on their shoulders. -People talking a lot about you is good and bad, depends on your SMV. If your SMV is high you will get 'he goes for what he wants' vibe, if your smv is low you… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I turn girls Lesbian?shitpost/troll, if not you have a extreme kid mentality, its normal at your age. Heck at your age I was playing LoL 24/7 and have never even had a girl message me at all, I had 3 friends and I was fat af, im not where I want yet but I improved a lot. You got time my dude. Lifting for a year, I feel you. I also lifted for a year and my arms went from noodles to noodles with spices, once you get in the gym you need to push your limits simple as that. I know you are half assing everything there and… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Quickest way to get fuckbuddy in college without social circle , online, or "classroom game"Thats what every single fucking guy in this world wants dude, if it was easy everyone would be doing it. I'll break it down for you as best as I can: If you have attractive genetics you wouldnt be on trp, i'll assume you dont. This way, you can either learn game and frame basics and go for the low tier woman, approach and make small talk, if she shows any kind of IOIs go for the number or something close, then set up a date and escalate escalate escalate and boom. If you are having trouble getti… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:23 PM |
| 2 | mewing?actually my goal is to be a german shepherd, but I gotta start somewhere | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Curious on what advice trp men will give me for attachment styles...I meant, why do you care about it? Stop overthinking, respect yourself. Everything else should follow after your own self respect. If your SMV aint high enough (aka you're ugly) to get respected, then first improve yourself. If you got bad ass abs, shoulders mixed with a bad ass attitude and a dope style, you will get pussy with ease, if you aint getting pussy with ease just go lift and focus on your style. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | mewing?goddamn dude so fucking true, im back at looking for quick shortcuts I can do 5 seconds a day to look like a greek god while my arms look like noodles without the flavouring, then cry on TRP why a girl is ghosting my ass ffs 4 days a week gym routine with a decent workout plan, decent diet will do miracles for any man, I need to do it properly. Thanks for the wake up | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Curious on what advice trp men will give me for attachment styles...whats attachment styles my dude? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How was the approach?cant really tell you much, but remember this its either a hell yes or anything else, if its not a hell yes consider it a no. You can never use logic with girls remember this, she could have give you her number or be receptive to you for a number of reasons. She doesnt like to reject people so she prefers to go along to a certain point. Maybe she wanted to tell her friends that a random guy just asked her for her number so she gets validation from that and from her friends, maybe she just got dic… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Could anyone explain why this girl would let me rub her thigh in the car and poke her butt here and there but then when we went to a secluded parking spot I tried to have us go in the back seat to fuck but she wasn’t about itlike the other guy said, not enough info, but from what I can deduct: LMR or ASD, check sidebar for how to handle this If it was in fact ASD or LMR, your SMV just dropped, even if a tiny bit it dropped believe me. If she has other guys that were in same 'realm' as you, consider yourself gone out of her option list. If not, just chill and next date you try again but before going read up on LMR and ASD. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Advice for lost college freshmanI feel you, try clubs and meetups, events and such. If you party then try to friendzone random guys during the night and become their buddy for the night, add them on ig or something then hit them up some day and get to know the basics of his social circle and boom new girls in your life. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl flaked on 5th date, said she'll try to come but never replied. Should i call her back after a week and invite her for some other plan or?You gotta have self respect dude. Dont ghost her, you will seem butthurt. Just wait. You can either wait and game other woman or next week text her you got this amazing thing to do and she should join you, if she says no or maybe you then say "no problem girl, hit me up when you have some free time" and then just dont text her no more, if she gets horny and has no better options than you then she will text you and you know whats up if she doesnt text you, too bad it means shes got better options… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Nervous about girl I met.relax dude, use a chill vibe. If you are chill she will be chill. If something ever goes wrong act like it was nothing ang laugh it off (not weirdly please). You got her number so just wait until the next party and make some convo a few hours before like "hey, you going to X later?" she says "yeah" you say "great, bla bla bla" and text for a bit, try to qualify her like to get her to bring something or challenge her or say you gonna do Y game when you arrive or that you have a great idea bla bla… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What to textsend whatever you want, it depends on the frame you have and have set with her, if you have set a frame that you are a serious guy and you say "imma rape you" shes gonna call the cops but if you have a funny sarcastic frame with her and say "imma rape you" she knows you're joking but her imagination fires up anyway. DONT send her that it was just an example. Just send what you want, if it turns out wrong congratulations you learnt to not use that again, if it works congratulations one more thing… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Eye opening encounter - is this normal?too late | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions for gap between high school and college?This. Do some voluteer work on another country. The time between highschool and college was what changed my life | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Eye opening encounter - is this normal?gay test? guys I think im gay | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | im kinda confused, I need this last nudge to make it (HUGE HUGE detailed long text about my life)I had a blast on those dates with her, dont mind me, all of them I was having a real fun time, besides being an experience for me I loved the fact I could turn things slightly sexual and see her blush, see the control I had on her. I would say lets eat at X and she would say she prefers Y and I would say ok then we'll see each other after eating then and see her bring a random excuse to afterall come and eat with me at X, knowing the control I had was an experience for me, I loved every single m… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | im kinda confused, I need this last nudge to make it (HUGE HUGE detailed long text about my life)Thanks a lot for the reply, really. Thing is I know I shouldnt blame myself and I know with this 2 situations I improved a lot from the first to the second but still I kill myself to sleep, I almost cry thinking about it, how can I be so retarded? And some days it just beats me up hard. How did you overcome this? Any help you can give me? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | im kinda confused, I need this last nudge to make it (HUGE HUGE detailed long text about my life)Thanks for this. I do have 2,3 and 6 down. 4 will come from 3 since my degree is computer engineering, 1 is too soon for a college student imo and 5 im working on it. You are right, the girl I went on 30 dates doesnt even know what she wants out of life, she does nothing but netflix. Nothing. I was the one who made her drive her first car, I was the one who made her drink for the first time, I was the one who made her break her own shyness comfort zone, thats why she went on 30 dates with me. Bu… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | im kinda confused, I need this last nudge to make it (HUGE HUGE detailed long text about my life)Nah, im at an european country (popular one too, one of the most peaceful ones). I kinda tried TRP principles and kinda didnt, they did work out to an extent. I basically know how to get a girl from meh this guy might be ok, to ok this guys is fun as hell I never know what his next move will be, plus he makes me feel so good The problem here is that when you do this to a girl, you usually can reap the reward of: intimacy. The problem im having is getting this reward, take it like a video game: I… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 01:25 AM |
| 2 | im kinda confused, I need this last nudge to make it (HUGE HUGE detailed long text about my life)you're so goddamn right, its like im looking above waiting for permission but no reply is falling down because im at the top but I dont rationalize that im at the top, I instead rationalize that im not worth of a reply. There is nothing above me. This is what I need to start internalizing. Believe it or not, if I ever get stuck in a autistic situation i'll try to remember that the king has given me permission. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)fuck it dude, honestly im tired of missing out on life. I just want to try new things, instead of sticking to the norm. Im tired of my overprotective parents not letting me go out of my comfort zone. I drank my first beer at 20 and smoked for the first time at 20 aswell. At 21 im still a kissless virgin, im tired of not pushing my comfort zones. I'll go fucking make highlights even if it makes me look like the gayest person in town. And i'll go after chicks and make my fucking gay hair a questio… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)I have that haircut, im talking about getting highlights in it but leave as it is. Like just instead of the hair being PURE black like it is now, i'll get it like the first pick with some bits of gold in it | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 02:54 PM |
| 0 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)I take no opinion from the guy that says Please, the profanity is unnecessary | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)Exactly, but I wanted some opinions on this since I never saw anyone that did anything like this in my college or area (male) so im not sure how it is going to be accepted, so thats why I asked for some opinions here | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)I am afraid that i'll get the tryhard tag on me, since I already have a streetwear style plus a haircut like this I stand out so much in a college full of guys that their pants go below their fucking shoes and I get so pissed about that shit but I think im going to be labeled as a tryhard and im not sure if chick dig that I stand out.... | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)dont know, im really on the fence about it but not sure what to pick | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)what? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)Dunno im really on the fence on it, one side I never tried anything like that, the other side my smv dropping for half a year | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)Exactly thats why im asking for opinions on it. I mean, honestly I dont give a shit i'll just try it out anyway for the heck of it, at least I wont die without saying "I never dyed my hair, not even a little bit. I wonder how it would be...", if it looks good great and then i'll keep using it. If I get no talk out of it and everyone I ask for opinion says it looks meh or bad then yeah i'll just wait for it to come off or cut it out But I am looking for opinion on what you guys think about this a… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | men hair highlights (hair styling opinion)Honestly I dont know, im not going to abuse it and go only slightly and with not bright colours, with the exact intent of what you said. I dont have a strong masculine aura at all, but I dont have a fag aura aswell, the way I dress and promote myself is masculine, the way I act is masculine, I dont do feminine shit but im also the funny guy, funny inthe point of where I say random sentences not laughing and when I notice people are laughing their ass off but I do it without intention, but my gen… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 08:35 PM |
| 14 | Starting college at 22?I finished high school at 19, spent 1 year on college doing nothing but partying cause I was in a degree I didnt want and next year I changed to what I wanted so I basically started college at 21, and its like im the same age as all the 18~19 year olds that are with me, its no fucking big deal dude. Do what you want. You want to finish a degree? Fucking go and do it. You want to turn gay and suck some dick? Go and do it. Whats stopping you? Nevermind you are right, if you join college at 22 all … | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | approaching and reputationExactly, frat guys get laid cause they have idgaf attitude, they just wanna fuck and they have status. I dont really know how frats work since im not from the US but from what I know this is what I conclude. And you are right, some methods here are too extreme and will get you kicked off some social circles but the thing you dont understand here is that there are people here that are COMPLETE and I mean COMPLETELY clueless how the social world works. Like imagine your worst scenario, there are p… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”non negotiable that would mean if it was there it would stay there forever, if it was there and was lost, it should be able to return it? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”So if she ever comes trying to get back, it means she has more emotional cargo and if you accept her back something you never expected will happen, rape charges etc? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | approaching and reputationShe could’ve been staring at you because she recognized you or thought you looked funny. Just because a girl stares doesn’t mean she’s into you. Thats why its called ioi indication of interest and not indication of wanting to suck your dick, it means that something about you gives her the feeling that you are a guy she wouldnt mind to date or have sex. Its called hamster, its like when you see a girl with tatoos, piercings everywhere, forked tongue and purple short hair you get the impression th… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | 18 and never been kissed?Whats with the reply? Whats on your mind | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”Yeah I did, and thats why I asked, I actually never learned about it before and it explains a lot, but I understood what the problem was but didnt come off it with a solution, thats why I asked | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”What can you do when the lighswitch happens? Like for example, I didnt escalate to seal the deal, she got 'sad' cause she have fun and went home wet without me sealing the deal, thus she is now unnatracted to me, like ghosting me or ignoring me or low quality replies or not wanting to meet up. What do you do now? Soft-next and if she reaches back great if not you not escalating was the ultimate fuck up and shes gone from your list? Or do you have any other recommendations? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Should my girlfriends sexual past bother me?yap, enjoy the ride while it lasts when your time is done say thanks for the ride and go for the next one at the carnival | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate in a coffee date?Hey dude, im gonna have a girl to girl talk with you. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it. Its not that hard too, but your overthinking makes it harder, I know. What you need is practical examples, so you can land your overthinking coppter into a sturdy base. Check up RDSMAX and other channels like that and their infields, take what you want and store it in your brain. IMO: Coffee date, touch to emphasize points, tease her verbally, turn something she said sexually and give her the eyes, … | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Where did I mess up.Im stil learning too, take your time and dont beat yourself up. Enjoy the journey. I found TRP over a year ago, just a few months after finding TRP I managed to use its advices to score a girl, but when it was time for me to make a move I actually froze and the girl lost interest. TRP cant prepare you for the actual action. After this happened I was thinking man TRP is fake bla bla it sucks bla bla, I spent over half a year not aproaching and just living life, improving myself slowly socially, n… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | approaching and reputationWell as an example I was at a hall entrance waiting for a buddy and this girl was passing and I noticed she was staring at me, I stared back we held eye contact for like 5 seconds as she was walking eventually she passed me, this was obvious for me to aproach but since im a pussy I didnt even flinch. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:15 PM |
| 1 | approaching and reputationIsnt that what TRP preaches? Just approach like a normal person ask a few questions and get their number? Honestly, my mindset of aproaching in college is either she gives me IOIs or I strike up a conversation cause of the situation, like for example, a class we have for extra doubts/help, I showed up once there was only 1 girl there and the teacher was nowhere to be seen, I talked to her asking for the teacher and then we actually had a good convo but I was too retarded to pick up on the IOIs t… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Went a bit mad and fucked up without a serious reason, what to do next?idk honestly, TRP wise. If it was me I would just comfort her, tell her its ok and you'll never hurt her. You dropped your frame there dude | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Went a bit mad and fucked up without a serious reason, what to do next?cant really tell you much, I think you need to explain your situation better, from what you said there this is what I concluded: -You are in a ltr -You went away for 2 weeks -You came back, got a bj -You asked her how she is pro at sucking dick -She said what you talking about -You grabbed her by the throat and hair, threw her into the bed but not for sex but to argue with her and telling her to leave -She was leaving, you grabbed her and made out -She left and called you back? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 10:44 PM |
| 6 | How to be funny and masculine ?check youtube for alpha male strategies masculine frame, that guy has videos on that point that are perfect | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Lack of social life, friends, & girls. How do I progress and build an abundance mentality?Lifting gives you motivation points. To change your life radically or to make sharp turns in your life you need to spend motivation points as your brain loves to keep your life as it is. You can either lift and get those points and start changing slowly or just keep feeling dissatisfied until you reach a breaking point which you get so frustated you earn motivation points out of nowhere and you make those choices you wanted, to go out alone, to start talking to people, whatever Problem is, makin… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 09:18 PM |
| 5 | Where did I mess up.I need to start copy pasting replies... Girls be girl my dude, maybe her mom died, maybe she got cancer, maybe she is on her period, maybe her ex came back, maybe chad appeared, maybe she realized you are not as hot as the other guy that she can call, maybe she is just playing hard to get, maybe shes testing you, maybe she got hacked, maybe she lost her phone, man so many possibilities, instead of wondering just say if she reaches back great otherwise too bad on her, she just lost the guy of her… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 08:51 PM |
| 8 | 18 and never been kissed?Hey dude im a 21 year old kissless virgin, if you check my post history all I do is cry cause im a total pussy. I'll leave you some tips to start your journey: -Nothing really matters, dont beat yourself up. I lost a girl just a few weeks ago that wanted to suck my dick, I got hardcore depressed legit wanting to end my life cause I finally had the perfect chance with a hot girl to lose my virginity or even to just kiss and I was pussy, she wanted it I wanted it but I didnt make a move and now sh… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | approaching and reputationthats the mentality I have, thats why I am always crying here I had girls in my room but didnt make a move, I think im a big deal when im not and it affects my decisions, I have extremely over protective parents and they created this bubble for me where I believe I am special and then the real world hits me and I dont know what to do.. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | approaching and reputationwhat do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?maybe her period came on, maybe chad came into her life, maybe her mom died, maybe she died, maybe she became blind, maybe she is bipolar, maybe she got cancer in her brain and forgot who you were, maybe she lost her ig password, man who cares, what you gotta learn here is that they control the interaction, you gotta internalize that. Thats what TRP teaches, you need to dont give a fuck, yeah world isnt fair, it may seem like you are the one who is making the choices but she has the pussy she ca… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Friend losing oneitis LTR to Tyrone.girls wanna have fun, your friend became a routine. boring. she wondered for years what tyone would do to her holes, she eventually crumbled and went for it. she loved it and wants more, end of story. Shes not yours, its only your turn. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allThing is, since I actually never got really rejected I fear it. Its like since im a virgin I think of sex like a godly move, once it happens it becomes way easy | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allThanks dude, i'll work on both making my body look good and getting a pair of balls that come with a masculine frame | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allThanks, I see what you mean. I just gotta fucking do it, got a girl that seems interested in you? Ask for number, got a girl on a date not sure if shes down? Escalate. I see what you mean. I basically gotta break that wall that says "rejection is poison" and replace it with "rejection is progress", thanks dude | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allWhat do you mean? I just picked this haircut cause one day I went to one of the best barbers around my area and asked "hey, I want a new hairstyle that fits my face shape and bla bla" he recommended the one im having atm (https://www.menshairstylesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Slick-Back-Hair.jpg) and I liked it but it took some time for me to know how to style it properly. I didnt understand what you meant, like girls aint gonna fuck or not fuck me because of they way I have my hair (of co… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYeah dude, you made me remember the first months I rocked my slickback haircut, I didnt knew how to blow dry it or how to style it so when I check my selfies from then I cringe cause it was horrible, but on those days I was goddamn happy cause it was epic for me. Eventually I learned how to have a perfect slickback style haircut where I even get guys asking how to do it. You are basically saying, game is like the example above. I need to just keep pushing and trying harder, eventually I will sta… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allgoddamn dude, thanks. I see what you mean, you guys really opened my eyes. Basically I never took action, and with it I dont have experience and thus I failed. Thing is, I expect to not fail so when I fail I fell down. Basically, I gotta learn that rejection is normal and I need to embrace it, if I embrace rejection and just forget about it this is how I will learn because eventually rejections will turn into f-close, then I will start connecting the dots and then is when I will start getting mo… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allBut still dude, in my mind it gives me more kicks when I see a girl and be like "im gonna fuck her" and attract her and fuck her, this is what I did with this chick that I lost and I was having the time of my life because it was cause I chose to be with her that she was into me, but still I failed cause im a pussy | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allcya | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allwith girl friends I meant like girls I know that follow me on insta and when I pass them I say hi, not actual buddies that I spend hours with. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allHonestly I feel bad about paying for sex, I want the real thing, the real attraction, I feel like just paying for it would make me feel even worse and just bring a new addiction to my life. Will lift for sure tho, thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allThanks dude, but its like if I go that way I will feel "ok so you gotta be ripped first before approaching" and then I dont approach at all. What I gotta do is a balance of both improving my smv, and breaking my social wall with girls, correct? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allHonestly, probably both. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allI just dont feel right using escorts, honestly I prefer losing it to a real challenge so I can finally reap the reward of my hard work and learning process. I will give a shot to the US supplements when the current ones I have end for sure. Thanks. You gave me motivation to try and put my contacts again, i'll try them during this week and see where I can go. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allNever tought of it that way, if your brain is like "meh, you can skip it" you probably cant. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYep, you're right. Thats a good mentality, if things are going well and I got that gut feeling of being able to k-close, i'll think "dude, you are dead tomorow. gone. What do you have to lose?", will use this for sure. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allIf it was easy, everyone was doing it. Thanks dude, like for real. I need to keep doing it, keep pushing and start taking action. Thanks for the motivation, chief. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYeah dude, you're right. Thanks really. For real, thanks. I have set my course. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYou're right. I've improved myself quite a bit, I have more knowledge of how the world works than most of my peers, I know what I need to do to accomplish my goals, while many people dont know what to do. I've tested my comfort zone limits more than once with girls, I made progress. I havent reached the tippy top, but im getting there. Thanks for the motivation dude | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYeah, my work plan will be: Finish studying for my finals (in a week it ends) then start a regular at least 4 days per week gym routine, try to set some muay thai in that at least once a week, including some posture classes too. Besides all of this, sleep and eat well. Between all this read TRP basic books and try to be more social with girls, try to create random convos when in line or something, ask about the weather anything really just to lose my girl phobia, and who knows some interactions … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allThanks dude, but obviously something is wrong with me thats why im asking for tips and help, thanks for the motivation. I will focus way more on the gym, start learningm muay thai and will try to be more social, like strike random convos with stranges and such. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:44 AM |
| 5 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allSame dude, thats why im asking for help here. Everyone that commented here actually helped me out, TRP is a slap in the face, you see yourself and its a wake up call. I need to take massive action, start doing things I never did before. When im back in college I never approached a girl, guess what? Im going to start approaching them and making small talk. Gotta start somewhere. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allyou're right by a long shot... I need to take massive action | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYeah its like im seeing if I dont brake im going to drive off a cliff, but instead of just breaking im opening the window and saying "omg im going to go down a cliff" and instead of just fucking breaking and im safe im making a big deal out of it, thinking what will happen after I fall, and what if I got a better car that wouldnt put me in that situation and such basically, just fucking start taking action, go idgaf, if I see a girl I want to meet i'll go up to her and talk to her, shes not down… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allIts glad and sad to hear that, I know how you are feeling dude. From my side, what I gotta do is just keep improving my life but start taking action. Massive action. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYeah but I just keep waiting for the PERFECT moment, but goddamn dude I had fucking 30 dates with a girl, 30 fucking dates... See what I mean? I need to start taking more action, I never approached a girl before too so I just gotta start taking action. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allYeah the two perfect chances I had was with shy woman so they arent that agressive but I fucking wish they were it would have changed my life so much. But yeah I see what you mean, just burn through it, improve my life and start approaching girls, try escalating more, and if another moment comes by just tell yourself do it do it do it do it and go for it. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allDude but like you said, 17 you were in a relationship for 3 years, dude im 21 and not even kissed a girl. See where im going? At 17 I was more worried of losing a game at league of legends with my squad than anything else. But I see what you mean, instead of crying that I am late, just say yes you are and go from there. Its better if I am a virgin that lost his virginity at 21 than someone who never lost it. Its better to be late than to never get to the end. If I compare myself to 1 year ago I … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allExactly, I see 18 year olds guys fucking hot girls left and right and being happy while im here afraid to even kiss a girl thats why I feel even more depressed cause I feel like im outside of the normal range and should just end it, its like "hey its natures way of saying you dont have good genes so just dont mate with anyone and just wander around or kill yourself please" and I know its the truth so I just kinda feel like doing it honestly | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allI mean I dont have 0 results, in the first year I went from fatty (~90 KG or ~200 lbs to ~70kg or ~154 lbs) I went from 24 or something % bf to 14~15% bf, which just that helped me big time. Then I started actually gaining muscle, I spent 3 months gaining muscle and I did I was very happy but then college came and drinking and such and I stopped basically for a year (I went once every 2 weeks or so) and I started 2 months ago again seriously but stopped due to family issues and christmas and now… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allI see what you mean. Always do something with a goal. You woke up today, whats the goal(s)? You study with the goal of getting a good grade on the test, you dont study for the sake of studying. You get in the car with the goal of reaching a certain destination or do you just get in the car to drive for the sake of driving? You are basically saying, dont do pointless things. Always have a goal in mind. Dont be a zombie. Goddamn dude you opened my mind up, I see what you mean big time, so much stu… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allExactly dude, in high school I had some issues with me, my parents change me to another school and I just closed myself and got called a weirdo and ugly piece of shit every day so I started believing it... Im trying to break that habit but I just cant... Thats why im here for help I mean, I know what you said, I had 2 girls that came into my room for netflix and chill, so I had alreayd 2 perfect chances to fuck yet both of them I knew they were there to fuck, I was horny yet somehow just somehow… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allthanks for the motivation dude, but the thing is I know what I have to do I just dont know why I dont do it, its not laziness or anything I just dont know... | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allman, what do you mean with always be closing? Its like saying if you are having sex always cum, it should be common sense but I just dont know why I dont do it, thats why im asking for help | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allMan, RSD? In my country? Not by a long shot, where I live if I had even a decent gym with decent martial arts it would be a miracle. What is that book about really? I'll grab it and read it out, thanks | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allSo what do you recommend? Example in my college there are this traffic lights which are always with students since they are on the main road, I pass them at least 20 times a day but they take a long time to go green so it gathers people there, so like if I strike a conversation with a random girl there and then if she is into it just go for it if not just say have a good day? I think about stuff like this but never think if when people say approach if this is what they mean, what can you tell me… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allThanks dude, I did go beyong my comfort zone with this chick, I never brushed a womans face before and I did it with her in a sexy way, I never placed my arm around a girl and I did with her, but I just couldnt push myself for a kiss. I feel that after the first kiss im free but until then its just hard for me. Also in my country there are no escorts as its 100% illegal here, there are random hookers but its like a hiv roulette, only crack heads use hookers here since hookers are crack heads the… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:42 PM |
| -1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it alldude but I had a girl, hot too, fall into my lap. More than once, this is the not the only case. we went on fucking 30 dates, man she gave me SO MANY fucking chances. I call myself ugly and worthless but then this happens out of the blue, but during the dates I just am like "ok so if I wanna close just take her home, she wants to anyway" and then its like I wait this means I finally lose my virginity, nah wait wait nahhhhh lets do something else and then I just postpone it to the next date. Well… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allWhat do you mean always be escalating? Like, always touching and trying to go for it? I did that sort of I think thats why I managed to get 30 dates out of her before she got tired of my ass... But I never closed, I just got my arm around her, gave her hard eye contact which she liked but I never closed... Why am I retarded? Like why? I just dont know... I feel like my brain is against me, thats why I feel like this just isnt for me and just want to end it all | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:15 PM |
| -7 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allI did dude, I dont see any gainz at all, I dont see any improvments, im at 16% bf so im skinny af, I was at 14% at one point and didnt see my abs or anything, I got demotivated and so I went to the gym like 4 months in a row 3 times per week following a plan given by the gym, I see no results at all like shit all and I lose motivation and stop going and then come again after another 4 months and just repeat the cycle. In those 4 months I gain like 4kg of muscle, I dont know if its because I dont… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How to regain attractionYou are right, when im home reading TRP im like "ffs potatowatt you just wasted another perfect chance... you wont get another one" then I get another one and during it its like my sex drive goes null and im just a cloud in the sky, floating around until it ends. It ends, she gives me a cold shoulder and it just repeats... Solution is to just escalate, go for it. I'll promise you this, if I get another chance i'll go for it. Im making it my mission, if this specific girl gives me another chance … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How to regain attractionThing is it happened once and she came back, only because from what I checked im the highest smv she has access to, and this creates a exception I believe, but yeah i'll next. If she comes back i'll see where it goes | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | wtf is wrong heredude just monday she gave me IOIs what do you mean months? But yeah you're right just shrug it off and go lift | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:32 PM |
| -5 | wtf is wrong hereYeah dude, thing is im a outgoing dude who is chill and fun to be around, she is extremely closed off and shy. If she wasnt my project buddy I woudnt even know her. We met up for a project so we started talking more, she didnt talk to ANYONE else in the course. When she was with me alone its like a light burnt in her eyes, she enjoyed and was always laughing. She opened herself up to me hard, saying she has anxiety and panic attacks, she never had a boyfriend and doesnt know how to. She has the … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:30 PM |
| -2 | wtf is wrong hereI called her, she didnt pickup so I texted her on whatsapp, what do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | wtf is wrong hereYeah but when she comes back do I try to set up something right away, wait a few days after that or just give it a couple weeks? Like, which one do you think is better? 1- She replied, I say all good and then say look im going to X tomorow, want to join? 2- She replied, I say all good. I wait 4~6 days then I hit her up to set something up 3- She replied, I say all good then in a couple of weeks try to set something up 4- She replied, I say all good then 5~7 days I text her something like a quest… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | wtf is wrong herebut when she reaches back should I just try to set up another date or act aloof and then only set up another date in a couple of weeks? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | wtf is wrong hereYou're right, to make it as short as I can: We went on a crazy ammount of dates, it started on we having to do a project together so we grabbed lunch, eventually we started having lots of fun together, we had a real vibe and we have a lot of common interests. After this mini-dates we had a big date, I drove her home and had the perfect shot to kiss her, pussied out after that she didnt answer my call either so I went radio silent 4 days later I get a huge double text with blabla sorry random exc… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:04 PM |
| 0 | wtf is wrong hereI didnt double text her, I called her she didnt pick up so I left a text to her "Hey stop listeing to X and gimme a call" nothing more. I know she will reach out eventually, when she does do I just go dry reply like "haha no biggie" and then since the next semester will begin in half a month or so I can just go silent during that time and then i'll eventually run into her since we have the same classes and then i'll see how shes acting around me and go from there, what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | wtf is wrong hereYeah you're right, its just that being a virgin at 21 really brings pressure to me and on this kind of situations if I dont have nothing to do my hamster just spins. I'll just wait for her to say something and then just leave a dry reply like "no biggie" and leave it at that, semester will begin in half a month or so so I think i'll just go a few weeks without saying shit, so she begins wondering and then if she says something to me i'll set a date otherwise oh well, learn and move on, waht do y… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | wtf is wrong hereyeah I feel what you mean, i'll go radio silent until the next semester starts again in half a month or so and then we'll see. Basically, I gotta act like I didnt want anything so she goes like "wait, maybe he wasnt after me... wtf why ?" and the hamster starts spinning again right? In my case what I should do now then is: If she reaches out i'll just say "no biggie" and leave it at that and will not reach out to her again until eventually she reaches out to me, just to try and spark some attrac… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | How do I get back on track?Just want to tell you one thing: Live like a king. Walking down the street, see a random old lady? Ask her if she has watched the weather channel and hows the weather gonna be later on the week. Never tried surfing? Save a few bucks and go surfing. Never tried skydiving? Guess what. Never tried the line "(Emoji dog here) Hey max come back! Sorry my dog ran off on me, but since im here whats up?" on the DMs, live life to the fullest my dude, you got the time just dont be overanalizing shit that I… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Limp dick......Get t levels checked imo, my t leves are at 500 from 0->1000 which is not perfect but its also not low enough for doctors to do anything and I feel you, sometimes I just feel like pussy isnt that much and fuck it and just zombie around the world for a week or so then I randomly wake up one day feeling like a god and then I even punch walls and thats when I get most of my work done, I am still trying to fix this behaviour of zombie mode but im not sure how to yet But what they said below is corre… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl opened up completely to me.yeah just go true idgaf and move on, I got a girl that did the same to me but she wants me to k-close her, she gave me several chances but im pussying out of it but she is sticking around simply cause all of her replacements dont match my smv, simple as that. Shes basically like this "well this guy obvisouly isnt into me or is a pussy, but all the other guys suck compared to this one and I had a vibe with this guy so imma stick around and see where it goes" this is what is happening in a nutshel… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl opened up completely to me.exactly dude, thing is if you act aloof and you get lucky that she doesnt find anyone equal or better than you, then she'll be open to you again | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 09:49 PM |
| 6 | (Vent) "Women ARE children" It feels so surreal but now it feels like I finally can accept the pillThey are children dude, I am after this chick and sometimes im like "jesus christ this chicks annoying af" and sometimes she does real child like behaviours that I tell her "girl stop being childish jeez" its true, they children. All they want is to have fun | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Girl opened up completely to me.Yeah dude, look, im in a kinda situation like you, a girl opened herself up to me deeply, like way deep... She even told me she never opened herself up to someone like me, all I did was nod and smile, was thinking about a nba game I watched the other day tbh. Anyway, a few days later we had a big date, ez kiss close I didnt do it cause im having some kind of sucess fear and I am terrified of sex somehow, but anyhow after she started opening herself up to me we started talking a lot, guess what? … | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Girl opened up completely to me.It depends on what you want dude, if you want to fuck only and plate girls then yeah tell her "dont you have friends you can talk about that?" and set that kind of frame that when shes with you its sex sex sex and a bit of cuddling. Now, if you want a GF or something like that then dude this means she trusts you, if you are making out and everytime escalating a bit more then its called having a gf. If you dont fuck her at all, then you are nothing more than a friend and in this case yeah keep he… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 12:02 PM |
| 2 | ltr behavioural changes across different environmentsimo you need to have a fun vibe around you, what rpsheepdog said is true. just a bit of idgaf and fun vibe, if she crosses the line say what W_O_M_B_A_T wrote. If shes just teasing you then if you have a idgaf and fun vibe you will automatically reply to it in a fun way, like she says "why didnt you call me yesterday" and instead of saying "what do you mean we talked yesterday dont you remember wtf, I was at home bla bla" say something fun "sorry I was with my boyfriend (smirk)" "I was crying ok… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up, how to recoveryeah you're right, if we bump into each other i'll say something about studying later, if not I got to study for my exams anyway until thursday so i'll get something up with her around the weekend and see where she stands, if she declines the next meetup i'll move on from my side and we stay friends unless she texts back after this time | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recoverlater is impossible she doesnt have a room at college so she takes the train everyday to her home, if I had to message her it would be tomorow morning before the exam so that she doesnt take the next train home and stays with me, thats why im asking is it too soon tomorow or go for it? EDIT: Cold? Nah, I guarantee after what we done we at least will be friends, not the best ones if I fuck up but I guarantee she'll never go cold | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recoverthing is, tomorow we got exams together should I message her or take a few more days? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recovershe texted me half a day ago, and tomorow we probably going to see each other, should I still text her that or just ignore for tomorow and say something tomorow? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recover"hey , I got this great movie I found, why dont we meet up tomorow grab some lunch and watch it?" something like this? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recoverso you are saying: Dont reply to her text and tomorow and so dont try to set up anything with her, just wait for her to reach out but thing is, imagine tomorow we finish the test and I see her, what do I do? Like I could just be with her discussing the test cause im pretty sure that she will start talking with me tomorow if she sees me, do I say like "hey, im feeling like eating an apple pie at macdonalds, you in?" | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recoveryou're right im already thinking about the future without the present being solved... Regarding the girl, what do you recommend? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recoveryeah thats why im asking what to do, I was going to break contact with her but then she reached out again and the 'date' went well and I had a good shot at k-closing again but didnt take it thats why I think its not yet time to hard next and I can still recover to at least fuck her since shes given me this much work, what do you recommend doin ? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, how to recoverAlready mentalized myself to, this week was one of those high motivation times you get to change your life, I hit my PR at the gym, got out of bed as soon as the alarm rang twice, cold showers, I got this But what do you recommend doin about textin? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Someone please give me a slap in the face to get me down to earth againHey dude, if you check my last post I am in the same situation as you, a girl spent a LOT of time with me I never escalated now shes moving away slightly, and I had some PERFECT chances (MULTIPLE) to kiss at least. When this happens from what I was told and can tell you is this: Her attraction to you went down. But but but, no buts, it went down. But this doesnt mean that you lost it, if you can get another date then just escalate, this is what im going to do at least. If the girl I didnt make a… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)hey dude, after thinking for a bit I think I know where you misread, when I say cheek kisses I mean in like saying hi and goodbye, a normal thing nothing else | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)this... I need to to just go for it... Thanks bro, if it happens it happens but i'll work for it obviously. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Yep... Big time. But yeah you say she digs me, so lets try something out and I just gotta make a move. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Thanks dude I get it, what you are saying with this is: At least at some point she 'liked' me, and to discover if she still does I need to make a move. Now I shouldnt make a move out of nowhere just plan something accordingly, look foward to it and make the fucking move. Either I win and I kiss, or I win and I get closure and I pass the barrier of going for the kiss | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)thing is, im overthinking and now when im with her im like "ok so you lost your chance gj, shes just with you cause she got nothing else to do just accept it and move on retard" and when that hits me I just feel down and dont escalate... | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Well yeah dude im a virgin of course im going to overthink at least the first time, in regards of the invite we got exames this week so we gonna get together to study anyway and the way you are describing is not for college students, I feel like that would be not weird or bad but for college just woulnt work, I got other stuff that would work much better like I replied below even a fifa game would do it, but the closure of "hey girl, look there is something I need to tell you that longs overdue"… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)I feel like those areas are after kissing, but like to emphasize points like "yeah exactly! thats what I was thinking" or "I feel you..." I could instead of placing my hand on her shoulder place it on her leg and escalate a bit, what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:31 PM |
| 3 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)yeah dude exactly, its like when I meet her we are at level 0 and normal but after just 1 hour or so we both laughing and having a good time doing anything cause we have the same tastes on everything and I guarantee she is always having a good time with me since I do random shit all the time like stop the car midway something and just visit random shops and stuff But yeah I feel what you mean, just feel the vibe and go for it | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)goddamn you think im that far in? But yeah I always do that shit with her, even sometimes I got this thing of she negging me about winning me on fifa (read the reply I made just below this one to rpsheepdog to your reply) and I tell her "girl, if you talk like that again im going to take you down and give you a beating" with a smile of course and she smiles about it, I also tease her a lot but she sometimes is like "well im ugly af bla bla" and I go and say "girl, we talked about this. If you do… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Well, we gotta a thing where we played fifa and she won out of pure fucking luck and she keeps negging me about it saying she plays better and stuff and I said its cause I dont got a good remote for the PC, she says shes gotta an extra good remote at home she could give me I could just tell her "hey girl, tomorow bring the remote you talked about" and when shes with me we study, then we go grab lunch and then I could say hey I bet that remotes fucked up, lets test it, I bring her to my dorm room… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)If I lose her I dont lose much anyway but I feel and know even if I fuck up immensely she will still talk to me cause we connected a lot honestly, if you read my reply to ExcellentStudio's reply you will see I am the one who is bringing her out of her shy shell and I know she is thankful for it, but at the same time I want something more with her. So I will just meet up with her and try to get a isolated spot and just fucking do it, its a win win, if she accepts it I win, if she doesnt I still w… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Thats the thing, im way overdue but at the same time she is still meeting up with me, and I feel all I need is another 'good' date to make things straight. But since I fucked up on the 'big' date I feel like I already lost it and just became her best friend. This really took my confidence even more down and I escalate even less now... | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 01:55 PM |
| 2 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Yeah but how? Like its weird for me cause I got no experience, should I just start 'touching' her early on the date like shoulders, hands, etc, and then as time goes on start touching her leg to emphasize points, get really close ? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 01:53 PM |
| 0 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Yeah, cheek kisses everytime, I always touch her to emphashize points, when I neg her I put my arm around her as a joke saying "Dont worry little girl its fine" or something like that and then remove it, but thats it, nothing else. She does even less, nothing from her pretty much. But shes extremely closed off and shy, just her getting out of the house is already a mind blown for me and since she has a lot of anxiety and problems with that, she doesnt want to try and let herself get rejected. Ho… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 01:52 PM |
| 3 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)Thing is, so far she keeps putting herself in this situation for now, but since the 'big' date fuck up (which is not really a fuck up but yeah) I mentalized myself its lost and now I even escalate less than I did before... What do you recommend me doing? Just fucking go for it ? If she declines at least this way I made my intentions clear and cleared my mind | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | i need help, please (rant, vent, long)i'll be dammned, I think that kind of mentality is perfect, it gives my brain a backdoor to lean into but without me acting needy, man I will use that for sure. Thanks for the reminder, its true, none of it matters but it doesnt stop messing with my brain, im indeed trying to learn how to play it, goddamn you clicked my head twice, thanks a lot, really. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | how to gauge interestMan... Now that I think about it... I got 'the look' at least 3 times already... Thing is im being a pussy about it and lost at least 2 golden shots at kissing her and I feel like im going to lose her... I need to try to isolate her again | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | how to gauge interestWhat is the look? I kinda spotted it but always overthink my way out of it | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Hard next LTR who slept within social circle?Thing with girls is that it could be a multitude of things, she found someone better told you to fuck off sucked his dick dry the guy told her to fuck off she took a hit and needed to go back at having backup options so she came to talk to you again. Dont let that shit happen to you, thats one of the reason trp advocates gaming multiple girls, if you game only one and wait until she decides you going to waste your time for shit, its like the hotter you are the more "line" you can skip, the first… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 11:38 PM |
| 11 | Hard next LTR who slept within social circle?this. Im trying to fuck this girl, I tell my friends I dont care. I act like I dont care. I do care, im always talking about her, checking if shes online, wondering what shes doing, etc etc, I ask my friends "hey look she texted me this" and then they like "you down for her dude" and I say "nah I dont care", trust me, you do care. Instead of being on denial, face the truth and act on it. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Have a date in an hour - was thinking drinks somewhere but she just text me saying she wants to eat. Shit test, or just play along ?Yeah but I feel like to do that kinda of stuff, I need to already have at least k-closed, and what im having trouble is going for the kiss honestly nothing else (to an extent) | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Have a date in an hour - was thinking drinks somewhere but she just text me saying she wants to eat. Shit test, or just play along ?fuck this hoes to sleep, AMS is the guy | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Have a date in an hour - was thinking drinks somewhere but she just text me saying she wants to eat. Shit test, or just play along ?you are right, I actually kinda did this naturally with some stuff now that I think about it, like telling her to sit next to me, and basic stuff | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Have a date in an hour - was thinking drinks somewhere but she just text me saying she wants to eat. Shit test, or just play along ?Yeah I know, I think I passed the message that I texted her or left a voicemail, I didnt. That was my mentality at the time, and you are right I dont have the balls thats why im working on it, i've learned faking game and thats why girls get into me, but then when the real time comes for all masks to come off im just a pussy ass who is afraid of handling a woman, and thats what im trying to fix, i've made a lot of progress but the problem is still lingering. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 07:13 PM |
| -5 | Have a date in an hour - was thinking drinks somewhere but she just text me saying she wants to eat. Shit test, or just play along ?hey dude, it seems like you are frustated at the world, dont take it off online, go take fighting lessons and let it out on the bag, im giving off my opinion here, if you dont agree with it thats fine, and you are right I ain't getting laid, but like I said I can get girls wanting to suck my dick I just am lacking in the closing scene, which I am working on it, you cant be perfect at everything. But since I know some stuff about what this guy is asking I decided to reply to him with something he… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:35 PM |
| -5 | Have a date in an hour - was thinking drinks somewhere but she just text me saying she wants to eat. Shit test, or just play along ?dude, I didnt swore any anybody to start it off, I called her she didnt pick up I ghosted nothing more, you are right I am a noob at closing, but I can get chicks interested in me easy, I help my friends with this and it works for them, im only having trouble closing my deals not making the deals, now you can have your doubts all you want, its my issue and im the one on it, if it works great if it doesnt well next time I gotta dont be a pussy about it | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:31 PM |
| 7 | Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?^ This, this, this. She probably woke up some day and was like "meh, im bored" and created that shit ass story, girls be girls | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 02:31 PM |
| 31 | Have a date in an hour - was thinking drinks somewhere but she just text me saying she wants to eat. Shit test, or just play along ?Dude, you guys sometimes need to know that bitches be humans too. Not everything is a shit test, maybe shes just hungry "BUT TRP PREACHES THAT SHES CHANGING VENUES BLA BLA" yeah because if TRP didnt 'say' that, you guys would let bitches take you to 5 star restaurants and make you pay the fucking bill, if she say she wants to eat say you can take her to mcdonalds or some shit and eat a fucking apple pie, they are fucking delicious. If shes like "ok :)" you know she just wanted to fucking eat wit… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 02:27 PM |
| 0 | So this girl wanted to fuck a couple of days ago and now she’s blocked me?Dont worry about it, abundance mentality fixes this. why? Because this way you would have been like "fuck it" and then in a week you text her and see how she is standing. Just act like nothing happened. Act like she lost it, I know how you feel but this is the way you gotta go, the world isnt fair. You want to show the girl you love her and she say she love you back but it dont work that way dude, if it seems like it does there are some other motivations behind it trust me. Its like this dude: Y… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | opinion on what to do with this fuck upYeah, i'll probably let it be after the weekend then, going to have some bro days friday and saturday so I prefer to have some alone time to 'recover' | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | opinion on what to do with this fuck upNah dude, I told her I couldnt meet up with her once... To get it short: I cancelled one date and 2 days later I called her to which she did not answer or call back | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | opinion on what to do with this fuck upYeah that part I already deducted, when you fuck up as many times as I do and there are so many people litteraly wanting to beat me up cause of how much of a pussy I am being, and then you almost lose the girl you wake the fuck up, but thanks! But the question im asking here is, should I just message her friday or wait until next week or is next week too long? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Guys I think I fucked upDont sweat it, it happens, you need to fail to improve. You could have done much more, but you didnt and you know why you didnt. I just had a girl in my room a week ago 3 times, and then a whole day doing random shit with her and then 30 minutes outside of her house, I knew she wanted me to kiss her and fuck her, but I didnt and im still a virgin. Want to know why? Because im a dead ass afraid of failing, i've cried here multiple times about this issue and I got multiple shots with this girl, no… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itExactly, if it happens it happens otherwise too bad on her. But im convinced I got her emotions on my side, its just a matter of time, everything we did, she even said im her bad influence, is just too much to be lost from one date that I didnt close, i'll just give it time and when im with her again i'll make the frame something like "hey its ok, when you're with me you dont have to hide anything, I know you didnt return my call because of your problems, everytime you need someone to hold on to… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 01:04 PM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itas someone with no experience at all, I already did many stuff outside of my confort zone with this chick and learned a lot and I feel like if she agrees I can close it to kiss at least, but yeah if I lose this ez chick as a virgin it will be a pain but no point in crying Lets see, if she replies and meets up good otherwise a few weeks of no contact and try again if nothing then oh well, we friends and I pick another chick to focus my game on | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itGotcha, so the plan is: around the weekend when I got a free day hit her up with a text to finish the project, when im with her say the thing I talked above and finish the project and say we go for a spin and take her somewhere I can escalate to kiss, but during the project do a bit of kino aswell to gauge where she stands. All of this not being overly nice and 0% needy, if she doesnt reply to a meetup or says she wants to do it online, what do you recommend doing? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itThanks dude will do. Listen to this: she is extremely shy and has a rare skin condition that I do too and this together makes her have panic attacks and anxiety when in stress, she told me about this. She sometimes removes her whatsapp profile pic and such to nothing and then puts it back up again and I have kinda connected the dots to when she is in one of those moments (shes taking medication and everything for it) and when we are together I already told her a few times "Hey, you dont look lik… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itSo what you recommend? 1-Next week text her to meet up directly at my college dorm 2-Next week text her to meet up 3- Text her tomorow morning saying something like "Hey gurl, I got todays day off and a feeling of going for a ride, 4PM at your place?" and see if she replies to that, if not then 1~2 week radio silence 4-We are project buddies and we gotta make a project til the 20th, its a simple one that I already know how to do alone in 30 minutes or so but I can use it as an excuse to meet up … | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itso I called her and she didnt answer and didnt call back and I know she saw the call cause she liked some IG posts, what do you recommend I do? send text? dont send text? ignore for some time? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itThing is, we connected on high levels, like she even said she never opened herself up to someone like that, my friends say she is like me but instead of male she is the female version of me, thats why I think she is giving me so many chances cause we vibed so well, but im thinking I might have lost her... Also, I was on this situation many times before with this chick where I lost a chance to kiss her at least but she always agreed to meet up another time but this time I dont know.... I will cal… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with ityou just made me click, I connected frame with my experience now I understand it better, like I now know how to actually place it in the real world, thanks dude! also, whats ur opinion on this: After this date where I didnt escalate at all with the perfect shot at doing so, it ended kinda weird, we had a lunch kinda set up for yesterday but I couldnt go so I called her but she didnt pick up and then left her a text "hey girl, I cant go tomorow we'll meet up another time", got no reply but she do… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itThanks dude, if she didnt yet lost all her interest for me and agrees for another date in a day or so, i'll go all in and if all goes well i'll update here, if I dont update I was a pussy again or she didnt agree to give me another chance and I was a complete pussy... Also, Thanks really. Stuff like this opens up my mind a lot... | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itYeah best I did was hand around her waist/shoulder and the occasional skin touch, hands and such, I never touched her leg... I just feel like that would be weird because I have 0 experience... | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I just need to take that step, I need help with itYeah since I got no experience I really dont know what to do or where to go, last night I had the most perfect moment I ever had in my life to kiss a hot girl and still I didnt take it, I feel like I still didnt lose her yet so I believe I will get another shot at this but lets see. Anyway, the practical tip you gave really helps me because like I said above, if I got some kind of recipe I can follow it will burst my overthinking and I will just do it, about grabbing her back of neck, I didnt qu… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howI need wake up calls like this, im making the issue a big thing when in fact its not jeez | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howI feel like its a bit weird in a car to stretch over the gearbox and such, thats why I asked here do you guys have any tips? Like cinema? A park? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howprefer not to say dude, its europe tho | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howJust replied to a dude above, college dude = 50$ in my name and my country doesnt have anything like that, not even uber or ubereats | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howdepends honestly, thanks for the tip | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howwill try, thanks | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:08 PM |
| 2 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howYeah "do it in a car" but its not like I get into a car with her and turn a switch. How to actually do it? Im autistic, how do I do it? Look into her, if she has the doggie eyes kiss her then if makeout session goes well just ramp up escalation? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howThanks dude, but my parents house is out of question tomorow, next week like monday I can get her and me in my college dorm in a flash but since we set up something for tomorow, I want to at least leave with a kiss this time. Any tips? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:06 PM |
| 1 | got a date tomorow, lose virginity howcollege = I got like 50 bucks to my name, besides that doesnt exist in my country, but I want to at least get into a kiss, walk in a park? car? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | afraid to succeedthe thing is, I dont mind failing, when I send a text to set up a date im like "well if it goes wrong I can do X or Y or Z" but I never go "if it goes right I can do T or Q" because I never expect to succeed | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I really need help, please guysdude, you are 100% correct...... I always kinda feel like man this aint for me bla bla and thats why I never went for girls before I found TRP because I was mentalized that I was not good enough... I dont know why but your little text clicked in my head... Thanks, honestly. Do you know where I can get some tips to help me get over this barrier faster? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 07:02 PM |
| 3 | I really need help, please guyshey dude this little technical detail actually gave me a good boost, thanks | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 04:57 AM |
| 2 | I really need help, please guysthanks for the tip | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | I really need help, please guysI dont know honestly... I just dont know... Thats where im getting trouble, finding what im afraid of, what is wrong with this... | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 04:56 AM |
| 2 | I really need help, please guysthanks my dude | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I really need help, please guysI got it thanks, its not like I dont know what to do or dont do, I know exactly whats wrong with me and what im missing but its just too much pressure and I just stress out and dont do shit | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I really need help, please guysThanks, you opened my mind to that... Indeed thanks a lot, I have friends telling me dont worry just move on and try again later you'll be able to do it, others just tell me to fuck off and stfu Thanks dude, you opened me eyes to this, but in relation to the chicks I just dont know... You got any tips? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 11:44 PM |
| 2 | I dont know whats wrong with thisthanks dude, i'll try tomorow and see how it goes | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I dont know whats wrong with thisThanks, next time I know i'll be with a chick that wants me i'll read this post | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | I dont know whats wrong with thisThis actually clicked in my head somehow, I always look for the perfect moment somehow, and since I never done it I make it a big thing.... I JUST NEED TO FFUCKING DO IT JEEZ | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | I dont know whats wrong with thisMan I get it but I just need some kind of fast boost at the last minute, I even told a girl to wait a few minutes while I called a friend of mine who knows the situation im in and he tried his best to boost me up but it didnt work at all I just dont know whats wrong........... | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I dont know whats wrong with thisI dont know man... Thats why I came here asking for help | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I dont know whats wrong with thisI do but not to that point jeez | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I dont know whats wrong with thisYah im lifting, my T levels are ~560, its not high nor low its on the level where doctors dont do shit and I cant really complain about it, but I notice it takes effect on my moods and moves as you can see from my post... | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | what do you guys take from this?I started lifting a few weeks ago, and yeah my frame is not perfect yet but the thing is my friends say she is into me but since she is shy I just need to escalate more slowly and take things a dab more slowly. What im gonna do is monday repeat what I did this week, ask her for a bite out but im going to try to raise her emotions more, grab her hand for crossing something, hand behind back to let her go through the door etc, and see where this goes If the first date I try to set up she declines … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | difference between no interest and 'playing hard to get' and being 'friendly'? (kinda long)Its true dude, you are correct. I got fucking oneitis fuck me... I'll just try to fuck this bitch if she keeps flaking or denying escalation i'll just next her, thanks for the wake up call | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | difference between no interest and 'playing hard to get' and being 'friendly'? (kinda long)what I meant is that if I didnt find TRP it would take me 10 years to know what TRP and practise can teach in 1 year, TRP isnt some hidden secret technique, thats why there are people out there without TRP doing fine, because they went for it years ago and are still going for it, they dont have have the explanation that TRP provides ofc but they know that doing X gives them pussy but Y does not, and TRP speeds up this learning process but you are correct im lacking practise I just need to stfu, … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | difference between no interest and 'playing hard to get' and being 'friendly'? (kinda long)thanks, the thing is I tried for a coffee and walk today and she declined with the orchestra excuse I talked about, I need to grow a pair and be more playful and touchy, like monday I can get her like 30~45 minutes for me, do you think that during that time I should do the hug and such? Also, meeting her monday I was feeling like making some plans for the next day or so so she spends the afternoon with me but is it overpursuing asking her out so many times or whats ur opinion? Thanks for the exp… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | difference between no interest and 'playing hard to get' and being 'friendly'? (kinda long)hey dude, thank you for your time but I wanted to explain my situation in detail so you guys get my point of view. you are correct, I need to grow a pair but with your help I can do it without a big trial and error time span, and I was looking for opinions on what I should do, its not that I dont know my options on what redpill recommends doing but I wanted to know your guys opinions to know what exactly to do. But yeah you are correct, this is a long ass post | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 01:55 AM |
| 0 | difference between no interest and 'playing hard to get' and being 'friendly'? (kinda long)but you are speaking in terms of myself, im asking in her terms, like what are signals of 1 2 and 3 but from her, like if she had 0 interest in me she souldnt spend time having lunch with me and such right? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Need some advise because i think she suddenly lost interest in me from one moment to anotherthis. this. this. A chick was messaging me 24/7, we got to my bed I didnt do shit after that I never heard from her again. If she go to your bed escalate please. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringyeah the thing is, I think I dont knock her socks off but she digs me, we laugh a lot she gives some touchy here and there but not much, I think she is just shy and doesnt want to risk getting rejected, I will ask her out and make my move (kino escalation) if she rejects all my escalation attempts during the whole encounter then I know then she doesnt want shit with me sex wise | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Need articles on how to approachthis might seem like talking shit but it actually is the best advice out there. reading TRP basics with life experience is the best thing TRP is like car nitro, if you are going 100 and pop the nitro you going to go fast, but if you are going at 0 and pop the nitro it aint gonna move the car for you | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Should I use Instagram?Depends my dude. It depends on the type of girls you want to meet. Since I my type is shy nerdy girls, I know they aint gonna socialize much besides classes. So I pop my ig posts with friends and all the awesome shit I do, and some ig stories when im with chicks and this way shy girls see what u doin and know you are epic, then when you make a move she will know you are epic and be much more upfront | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringwe havent been really talking for months, like 1 month or so at max, we met only twice to do the project and messaged a bit about the project, only a 2 weeks or so ago to now is when we started connecting more and only thursday was the first 'date'. I can still test the waters and see where she stands, the problem is since I dont have much experience I have the idea but not the execution plan, how can I test the waters in this case? Cause if she aint into fucking me, we can be friends since she … | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringThanks, will do. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringI will. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringThanks dude, for real. Its this small convos that really wake me the fuck up. Just one last question: Do you think I lost my chance cause thursdays was like our first 'date' and I didnt make much of a move to be honest, do you think I fucked it up completely or should I just go normaly and go all in next week ? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringI live in a college dorm, but its only 16 students and its almost always empty. It has a study room that no one uses, we went there once I can easily get her there again, like asap easy honestly. I can say "hey you never seen a dorm room right?! Lets see what u missing." and honestly I believe I can make that work easily, I have in the past but didnt close the deal again. The thing is, I feel like: Either I meet her and we grab lunch and then I say hey less study in my dorms study room you remem… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringWe met thursday, sunday I cant, monday im meeting her anyway cause of classes and she sits glued to me and saturdays a bit too close and I believe she is not home this weekend cause she has her granny sick if I remember correctly she said something about this so thats why I want to talk to her personally on monday and set something up rather than try my chances so soon and she not be at home, whats ur opinion on this? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringWill do it this week, thanks dude | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringI changed myself a lot, thanks to book of pook sidebar dont be nice guy etc, I now know how to socialize 'properly', I have lots of friends oposed to almost none when I first found TRP and im on the gainz path, good style and such The problem is sealing the deal, if you read my previous posts shes not my first chance. I had girls put themselves in a platter for me and I fucked it up, im still a kissless virgin cause of this, I dont know how to close. I want obviously to bang, and from what I kno… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringYep, will do. Thanks for pointing the obvious that I somehow dont manage to see, I swear to god I am retarded to some point | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringwill do. thanks | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringtrue by far my dude... I need to change my ways | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringwe at college, she doesnt drink, she gets here for school and goes home at the end of the afternoon in the train cause her parents can only get her at that time, so nights out is almost impossible but she does live 10 minutes away from my 'real' home, not on the actual campus, and since I go home every weekend like her we could set up something on the weekend. We met last thursday as the post explains, then monday im having classes with her but I know she gonna run after as she always does cause… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringTrue, so basically I just got meet up again something and escalate it up, if she fully declines = not interested, otherwise hey hey its happy hour somewhere | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | met this chick, is she into me? my own hamsteringWhat made you know she is into me? What info that I gave that made you think that? Also, I was just reading the Kino post thanks, since im a virgin and never got to that place yet I make a big deal out of everything and I get nervous and pussy out just thinking about it, thanks for the info | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't.my dude, if you check all my posts I was and still kinda am in the same situation as you. I knew what needed to be done but I took no action, I just pushed through it and used asktrp as my personal diary and got awesome opinions and tips I still havent reached where I want to reach by far, but I know I improved from a week ago to now, what helped me a lot was IDGAF, just yesterday I was called reckless and crazy (in a fun way) cause I did shit that average guys are scared to the bone of doing, y… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 10:45 PM |
| 0 | My overweight friend has more luck with women then i do. What am i doing wrong?Symmetry, perfect sized lips, nose, eyes, ears, jaw, just search hot guys on google and check their face to yours and voila. Im actually average face but because I use ugly ass glasses and have crazy crooked teeth (going to get braces in a month or so) I go to the below average face, the same can apply to you including bodyfat as some people at 16% bf have a slim face and others like me at 14% have a fat ass face still | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 11:22 PM |
| 0 | My overweight friend has more luck with women then i do. What am i doing wrong?Going to make it easy: good looking face wins over everything else super muscular rich celebrity but has ugly face loses to a 'average' dude who never went to the gym, is a full on dork and plays videos games all day but has a good face. I've seen this everywhere I go, a few years back when I was worst than I am now we were a group of 5 very close friends, 3 of us including me are average-ugly looking facewise, the other 2 of my friends have a perfect face. Guess what, they fuck who they want wh… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | lifting rounded shouldersyes, only now, without weight I only feel a lil disconfort nothing else. Will visit a doc if it keeps hurting. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | lifting rounded shouldersif it keeps hurting I will visit a doctor | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | lifting rounded shouldersthanks will do | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Lifting hasn't made me more confidentthis is gold, im in college and with my style and haircut and a half ass beard and not bad physique I already get girls giving me a shot easily, but I still am a virgin cause I am a complete pussy, if you lift and start looking for your balls early on, you will be on the golden path please approach woman, you aint going to lift for 1 year and then after exactly 365 days wake up on the day after and a chick magnet appears next to your muscles, you need to practise what is preached I like to think… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Whats wrong with me?yeah by far, I just dont know.... im missing super easy lays and I just dont know why.... Its like there is something dug deep in my brain that just stops me from advancing, I feel like once I move the first time the other times will be easy but im having trouble with the first one... | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Whats wrong with me?exactly, like if I get obvious signs she wants my dick I just stop doing what im doing and act like I dont want shit, I just dont know man something is wrong with me mentally... | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Whats wrong with me?yes trust me, as a virgin that shit gets into your head, the fantasies, I actually broke my own personal best on the gym by thinking like "when I get you in my hands, you have no idea what im gonna do to you" but things like this dont pop up in my head when I get the shot. Like, when I have 0 chances I go all in, when I finally see that oh if I play my cards right its free pussy right there, I just act like I was a mannequin of some sort till I go back to 0 chances again, I just dont know... | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | [Question] Girl writes me „I won’t have that face if you don’t scare me“imo your answer was not the best, this is (again, imo) the best way to show interest subtly. What I would have done is: Her:"I wont have that face if you don't scare me" You:"you have no idea (that sexual innuendo emoji here)" After this she would A: keep the sexual vibe going, like:"Oh I cant wait to see that (sexual innuendo emoji here" or B: she got the message and more vag tingles (@VasiliyZaitzev gonna copy this from now on ;) ) but replied with something like "Stop it (laughing emoji here)… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | is this an IOI? need opinionsgotcha, so like play as usual, text only to schedule for meeting up and when doing the project make sexual jokes and such, then say: "hey im going to X place, its just opened up and its bla bla, wanna join?" if shes in then escalate normally otherwise just keep it casual | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?EXACTLY! I LACK THE FUCKING MOTIVATION. I spent years, but I mean from 12 to like 18 playing video games all day non stop without any social contact or anything, I was fat but had friends actually, from my home town that where into the same stuff as me so we got along fine, but since I had a below average face and was fat chicks looked at me like I was out of this world so I kinda accepted that I was nothing and that is still inprinted in my mind and thats why my subsconcious does not allow me t… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?stop using LOL its cringy, but my stories are worse dont worry. you are indeed correct, I need to summon my balls, thats what im looking for, vandaalen already sent me some tips and I just need to have balls on the time to try them out, its like you have the recipe to bake the cake but you are crying that you dont want to bake it but you want to eat it, thats what wrong with me, I want the cake done and I have the recipe but I dont want to bake it | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?ok then smartass, according to your post history you just spam read the sidebar on posts, like try to specify, I have read it and I asked to which post you are refering to because I dont remember and after looking again I dont see any post refering to my question in particular and thats why I posted on asktrp | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 08:35 PM |
| 0 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?What link you talking about? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?yeah its very true, I dont have any urge to fuck women thats why I complicate stuff and I dont get laid cause my brains knows at my room alone I get the same dopamine rush every time, do you think just cutting nofap will cut this dopamine thing? I feel like nothing ever cheers me up and I think its due to getting 'dopamine sensitivity' very low | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?dunno, I just feel like im doing nothing and jack off | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?i tried to nofap once but just feel bored honestly nothing else, but hey I will honestly try it for 3 full weeks. But I have a doubt, is it ok to mentally masturbate or is no fap full celibacy? Or only not porn? Or not actually jacking off? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 12:12 AM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?well she just texted me saying she wont be comming today, guess its next time till I try that escalation out, thanks anyway will keep note of it | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?Thanks mah dude, if I dont pussy out and if the girl does show up today i'll update here what happened. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?yep | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?So you're saying, always try to take things further, if she says something or is clearly not into me, walking away, not touching back then stop and try again later? | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 10:39 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?Thanks I didnt know about the first post, the dicarlo I read about it but got way confused on how to go from 1 to 2 to 3 and so on, like the class 1 I can figure out on my own and I do it automatically, class 2 im like wtf is he talking about? "Hey so do you like star wars? *excuse myself while I get my abdomen next to yours" like I dont get it, legs touching while standing? Holy shit, that would just be way creepy unless im in a night club, the rest I kinda get it, but I just get confused on so… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | i got girls after me, how can I proceed?but how should I do it? Thats where im having trouble, do I slap my dick on the table and say suck it? Do I touchy touchy here, touchy touchy there? Since I have 0 experience and overcomplicate stuff I dont know what to do. Like, touch arm, touch legs, then if she goes back start again on arm then legs if she doesnt go back, then touch hair if you notice something wrong then start again? Or hold your ground? Like the most escalation I did wa arm around a girl when I was drunk and she said what a… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 10:07 PM |
| 3 | i need some tips on this situationi dont know why I overthink this stuff | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | i need some tips on this situationcollege and sorry for posting on the grammar sub reddit | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 12:09 AM |
| 3 | i need some tips on this situationthats why im here | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | venting, i need to take massive action quicklyI overthink on how I should approach because before I was like "just go say hi and go from there" and I did that but I dont escalate sexually and I just make new friends well guess what I want more than friends, im missing the part of sexually escalating, im missing a click or something in my head already read sex god, great book, reading book of pook then rational male | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | i dont know how to escalateon college here it would be a bit awkward to do that imo, how do I ask her out without sounding weird af? Like making small talk then say hey join me tomorow at X and we'll go do some stuff or tomorow im going to play some pool, meet me at X on Y it just sounds something boring but this is where I lack, I dont get any ideas to improve this messages | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:42 PM |
| 5 | My friend's ltr is so disrespectful, he won't listendont, let him have his own journey. everyone that comes to TRP had something horrible happen to him. the girl will cheat on him with a bunch of chads, he will find out or she will break up with him before that after that he will be frustated and hopefully find TRP by himself as we all did | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)on my list, I take way to long to finish a book | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)Thanks, will try to do this changes | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)Well its mostly wandering around the internet and not actually playing games straight, but once here or there. You are 100% correct, thats what I need to do. Instead of watching videos or playing until late and waking up sleeping 6~7 hours, just go early and wake early. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)you are right, in that year in the first months I was learning it out, I had the mindset "I went to gym, so now its a waiting game" but in the gym I skipped exercises, I skipped reps, I didnt push myself at all. I went 1 to 2 times a week and did very little. Only at the 9 month of the 12 is when I started going at it hard, but I was still losing my bodyfat aswell and didnt progress much but I did see some gains. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 01:05 PM |
| 3 | I turn 22 this monthexactly, just think bout your car keys. You want to find them and are in a rush? They gone. You have the whole day to leave the house? Poof there they are right infront of you. Same with girls, you chase them you get cucked. You chase success you get girls. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)its common sense. If you were dating a golem and fucking young cameron diaz wanted to date you, you would toss the golem to the side of the road in a flash. Girls just do the same, but in their own way. Its different from guys but my argument above is still true to an extent | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)Yep, I need to go into hibernation for some time to get my schedules back in place, then I can focus on the extras | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)When I was in the gym for almost 1 year, from what I remember bench press was 25 KG (~55 pounds), now its 15KG~20KG (33~44 pounds) at best when I decide to go to the gym. My arms are noodles. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)Thanks, you are 100% correct. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:40 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)1- I know what I want, finishing my 5 year course to get a good paying job, moving overseas to canada/usa to where my family is and live life. 2- Thats where I dont know. Whos comming with me? Family nd who else? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:40 PM |
| 2 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)Thats what I want to do, but during the day im just like "eh fuck it" then at night "wow tomorow im going to do X and Y" but it just repeats itself | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:39 PM |
| 2 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)I realized I dress better and have a great hairstyle but I dont show of my masculinity, I let people walk over me. I have been called gay, now im understanding this. Just act up, people walk over you? Stop them and ask what the fuck is wrong with them so they know who they are messing with. If you are in the gym, this is automatic as they know they are just asking to get their body used in a bench press when they mess with a buff guy. Thanks, it really opened my eyes just now. If I am a loser, g… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:39 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)I realized I dress better and have a great hairstyle but I dont show of my masculinity, I let people walk over me. I have been called gay, now im understanding this. Just act up, people walk over you? Stop them and ask what the fuck is wrong with them so they know who they are messing with. If you are in the gym, this is automatic as they know they are just asking to get their body used in a bench press when they mess with a buff guy. Thanks, it really opened my eyes just now. If I am a loser, g… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:38 PM |
| 4 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)I am in college and before TRP I was like "eh, i'll just marry someone in 10 years" but then I started being like: "wait I want to fuck some pussy right now" and then I found TRP. I believe this got some pressure into me because its like I found the golden pot but im not spending any money, like what the fuck why did you find the golden pot filled with money and not use it? You see what I mean? Its like since I found TRP a year ago, I should be fucking bitches right now left and right and I feel… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:33 PM |
| 3 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)its like I was in the high way going full speed, then saw a service stop. Decided to take a break and im still there, crying why am I not already at my destination, well get the fuck out of the service stop and get into the car and drive, its not going to get there on its own. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:31 PM |
| 1 | how to do it?I see what u mean, you sayin I should just go for it, if it fails move on and try again, until I see where im failing and learn from my mistakes | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | how to do it?What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | fucking it up but she digs me?actually, during the summer I didnt even think about her and was already in the "i fucked it up, no point in trying again, lets move on" but when she showed this perfect IOIs, I just want to try again | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | fucking it up but she digs me?you are 100% correct, I am focusing on myself but whats there to lose? Either I get pussy or its just another wake the fuck up call | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | how to do it?No I didnt say sorry for not being there, I just kinda teased her since I know that is not her thing at all I said"I cant believe you went to the dinner :o" she:"yeah" me:"how many shots did you take?" (knowing its 0) she:"0" me:sent her a :O pic [fits my funny persona] and then moved to another topic So you're recommending that I just dont text her at all unless something comes up, like instagram story she posts grabs my attention or she replies to something, otherwise i'll just dont talk to he… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | fucking it up but she digs me?thanks, thats where I feel like im failing, I dont have any experience so I dont know what to do, so im just feeling the ground | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | fucking it up but she digs me?i dont talk to her, i dont even see her outside of a few occasions and when we do meet she shows IOIs and I escalate at least a little bit and she is receptive always | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | fucking it up but she digs me?very true, I do have oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 10:37 PM |
| 2 | I have been working on stop being desperate for attention and affection and validation from everyone.Exactly, I was in a situation like you and just explained it in my latest post. in my case I just hit a 'fuck this shit im tired of being a fucking loser' and just decided to change everything and lets see how it goes. I think monk mode, only lifting and meditating would work perfectly here. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:56 PM |
| 2 | 1on1 with a girl in your room, how to proceed?search escalation dicarlo on google from the sedution subreddit | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Wearing braces at 31Yeah, I lost my high fatty layers when I started the gym and noticed my ribs sticking out and a random hole in the middle of my chest, I was like wtf is this normal, now I feel bad but it just motivates me to improve my abs n chest to hide that shit | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 11:11 PM |
| 11 | Why are women so depressed all of the time?attention whore, next | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | "Youre so full of youself"Who cares, keep escalating, if the bitch turns you down then next the fuck out of her ass | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Is Friday a bad day to ping a chick or am I overthinking?!Shouldnt be friday or saturday or sunday, it should be when you are free from your goals. Anyway, if the bitch is interested in you, you could even text her "Hey, in 2 hours X place you in?" and she would come. Bitches love moving mountains when they want the D | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | A let's just friends rejectionShitting where you eat is like walking a tight rope, if you reach the end without falling congratz, otherwise you're fucked. In todays society she could easily go to your boss say this and that and just like that you got no job and no pussy. You can also instead of crossing the line, go down the ladder, walk, go up the other ladder and you reached pussy, its a bigger walk maybe but at least there is no way for you to fall down and hurt yourself, you feel me? | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone recommend the best pheromone cologne/aftershave available in the uk?I found the pheromone market before I found TRP. I was thinking it was like a spray on your neck and bitches would come in like racoons on a filled dumpster at night. Boy was I wrong, I noticed no improvments whatsoever. IMO its all bullshit or it works only in a certain way which is hard for the average person to reach. I would also like to know if anyone has experience or knowledge on this | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | patchy beard, keep or dismiss?will post it when i get home | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | patchy beard, keep or dismiss?well my neckbeard is just a lil bit downwards from my chin actually, thats why its patchy, a got a 3 cm up and down im my left cheek with no beardwhatsoever | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:03 AM |
| 2 | patchy beard, keep or dismiss?touche. but thats the point of this post, should I let it grow out or just shave it off until it is no longer patchy or use 'drugs' ? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | I’m not top 20% but girls are still into me?Honestly I dont know about the 20%, im still undecided if the 20% is true or if there are girls for every type of guy, you just need to find them | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | I’m not top 20% but girls are still into me?You prob got some great face aesthetics and good genes and girls approach because of that and you can get some lays from that alone but if you got 0 game they gonna lose interest once they get to 'know you' and see the real you | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I shouldnt chase girls, but howexactly my confusion, i was taking showing no interest literally and thats my issue I take things literally and dont adapt them to situations | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | What to do when Girl red pills youact like you are legally blind | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 2 | “I don’t Smoke”Depends on the girl imo, if shes really into you she will offer another way for you guys to be together. By the way, I recommend you have some night outs with some drinking if you never did so just so you can have the experience while you are young, otherwise when you get older you will feel regret for not experiencing life at its fullest. I was also raised to never do bad shit, look where it go me: worshipping pussy and getting none. I never drank or smoked until I hit college, I had been follo… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 04:27 PM |
| -2 | I shouldnt chase girls, but howI tried to find the actualy sidebar link for this issue but I just cant find it | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | I really need help, please (long)That "follow it up with a hug and give her ass a squeeze" opened my eyes. I understood what you meant and in comparision to what im doing makes me look like a pussy the problem is, I just cant come up with stuff like that on the go only when you guys suggest it or I 'get to it' when reading TRP | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | I really need help, please (long)Stealing was a long time ago, it was bad and I got caught and got what I deserved (I was 11 I believe) A year ago was when I found TRP. I do it all half assed, like I see a post saying "do 10 and you will get 20" but then I compared to the other thing I read and then I think "do 3 and get 6" but then by doing 3 I actually fuck it up and then complain it doesnt work as it should and blame it on other. What I want is to NOT do this and start fixing this shit | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | College drinkingI drink to have fun, its awesome when its hardcore music yeah | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Lost fat didnt gain muscleMorning egg & oats, morning snack 1 fruit & 2 wheat light cookies, lunch protein&pasta or rice and vegetable soup, afternoon snack 1 light yogurt, bread & fruit, pre-train 1 wrap with cheese, during train BCAAs, after train whey shake & 2 wheat light cookies, dinner same as lunch but half the carbo hydrates & before going to sleep like half a hour or so 1 light gelatin & fruit | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Im failing at itYeah I think I used to do those then I took a 3 months break due to college and now my plan doesnt include those yet, but I did very little deadlifts | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Im failing at itYeah, will schedule with my doc next week and get it scheduled, because honestly all of the symptoms of low testosterone check out for years on end | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Im failing at itunfortunately I believe you are 100% correct, I feel like I have low drive, and all points to low testoterone... | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Im failing at it15kg~35lbs each side I believe, not sure actually havent done DL for a long time since my plan changed | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | So which is it? "to be an alfa you need X atributes" vs "don't change yourself in order to get women"I had this doubt a lot and still do. What is changing my mind? Seeing that TRP principles do work. I tried to bang this chick for 6 months and was nothing but her tampon the whole time. Then found TRP and within 2 weeks I had a girl drooling over me and all I did was ignore her random ass texts, acting aloof, applying some dread and that was it. I couldnt believe it was that easy. I still managed to fuck it up but that was on the sex scene, so I got there. Thats when my eyes were opened, what yo… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Girl wanted me to text her to make plans, I texted "hey" and she didn't respondShe replies: Great! Keep on going. She doesnt reply: Next. You, like me, are lacking abudance mentality, approach more and care less. Next time something like this happens, instead of coming to asktrp to post this, hit the gym. It will do wonders for you trust me. I just post shit on asktrp like it was my own diary and its gotten me nowhere. Dont make the same mistakes I did and move the fuck on, read a decent book, hit the gym, and approach bitches. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Ignore or keep trying?yep. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Ignore or keep trying?tried to*** | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | im a complete pussy, please helpExactly dude! I have the idea that I should have that mindsent but just today I got an easy iOi I could have approached or at least made small talk to test the interest level and I did shit. I just need to gain some balls... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | im a complete pussy, please helpCarnival How is the carnival a great place? I mean, I get the hand holding thing its awesome but how do I kino there? In the movies you already have it on your mind but on the carnival? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 11:58 PM |
| 14 | im a complete pussy, please helpSay fuck it and try, the worst that can happen is fail. Still better than being depressed over not doing it and venting on asktrp. Thanks dude | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 02:54 AM |
| 7 | im a complete pussy, please helpIn my head I think that if I aim high I will fail and do mediocre, while if I aim mediocre I will fair and do bad and thats what makes me depressed because I had it in my hands and I fucked up. Thanks for the reply! | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 02:53 AM |
| 3 | im a complete pussy, please helpI get what you mean, but im going extremely slowwww. I had my first shot like 6 months ago, I had her in my room and did shit. Then she ghosted me and we only spoke "hi" and so on when we passed each other. Then I increased my smv and then today she went to the movies with me and I went extremely slow again but with the slight verbal tease here and there but I left off with a bit friendzony type vibe thats why im worried, but hey, i'll try to escalate more next time. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Gym I.O.Isdont shit where you eat | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | fucked up but I think I still have a chance?thanks for the spoon feeding but I just overthink stuff like this, what if she says no and doesnt reschedule but keeps giving iOis? Im just overthinking now... Like, you talked about needing to make it sound accidental but in my head it was sounding like making a story with going somewhere and then ending up inside my dorm, but with what you said it just invites her over, its like the sweet spot is in the middle and im either on one end or the other, like I either make a book about it or make it… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | fucked up but I think I still have a chance?Thanks a lot for the reply. I get it now, I get what you mean. So in this case, I should be like "hey, im in need of some clothes and im going to the mall right next to campus to buy some, wanna join me and help me pick something out?" and then just be like "hey, since I live right here let me just leave this in my dorm" and then something like "hey, you still havent watched star wars? I dont believe you. I just downloaded it the other day, you need to see it asap" and then just kino my way into… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Contacts, Glasses or Eye Surgery?Exactly, my current glasses are wide and just huge overall, it makes me look so bad I never noticed honestly | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Contacts, Glasses or Eye Surgery?Yeah im thinking about it to, whats the recovery like? Also, I have contacts and I want to use them but I just cant put them in, my eyes closes so hard it sends the contact flying as soon as I barely touch it... | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Contacts, Glasses or Eye Surgery?If you have some ugly ass glasses it wont help your SMV would it? And since my SMV is already low enough, everything helps | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Contacts, Glasses or Eye Surgery?Yeah but likes its being said, im worried about what happens after, if you get such bad vision that can actually make it worse | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | not doing something rightby one side yeah, I so far did 0 approaches | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | not doing something rightwhat do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | not doing something rightexactly. Thats why I think im getting ignored, because since I have low smv, they dont care | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | im fucking everything up1st part: You are 100% correct. I looked at her as a simple friend nothing more and looking at old texts I actually did some TRP stuff without realizing, I always took a long time to reply because I didnt really care about her, and I flirted with her quite a bit and she flirted back but then I would stop (push and pull ?) 2nd part: What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | im fucking everything upThe problem here is that I know what I have to do, but when the time comes my brain blocks it out and I only know I did wrong hours after such thing happened... | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | im fucking everything upI feel like im going to every event, doing everything I can in college but I just cant get shit, I get the same done as if I stayed at home. Thats why im starting to get back to my old self, because it seems no matter what I do it just doesnt change at all. I try to be social, everyone rejects me, I try to get a girl I fuck shit up, a girl wanted to fuck me I somehow didnt do it even tough she was in my room. Its like I make ALL the wrong decisions on everything. So why bother? Just staying home… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | im fucking everything upThat is what I think every night exactly! But I feel like I am playing all the right cards but I just cant get to that point no matter what I do. Im the chill funny guy of my year in my course and still look where I am... Either there is a piece missing that connects perfectly or I just wasnt cut out for it | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | im fucking everything up7/10 is above average. It was said more than once, if you get hair, style, clothes, grooming, and skin on point you might increase your smv by 1 IF that much, the only thing that can change you 2 points or so is gym. If i've been in the gym for 1 year or so, and still im a 4/10 that says something doesnt it? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | im fucking everything upHow do I get over it? I mean, we guys exist to get pussy. If I cant get pussy because of my looks, why bother? Take my time, eat clean, get ripped, be social for what? So the girl can go suck a fat guys dick because his face is godly? Makes no sense | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | im fucking everything upHonestly, I can get over it since I dont mind because I actually loved my life playing video games with my homies because it brings back a lot of nostalgia, my issue is more on the genetics side honestly. But in a way I blame that aswell because I had a null social life and exeperience with chicks on college and since I found TRP half a year or so before college I was thinking I should had been the chad but since I got shit all im blaming my ugly face and getting depressed over it. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | am i clicking or being a pussy?Thanks, it really helped me out. By saying it is part of the journey you still feel like you did but its like you move to an outtake, like watching your food in the microwave, I now am watching "the eternity" part as you described and getting its consequences but feeling like its just part of the process and I should just keep pushing. In regards of the chick, yeah i'll try to polarize her and see where she stands, since she seems to still be giving out iOi's | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | am i clicking or being a pussy?You actually made me chuckle, and its true, I dont know how to interact with girls, I overthink. Thats why I found TRP. Yeah im lifiting, got into basket and thinking about going to Muai Thai lessons too. About that chick, I will try to polarize her to get the 'yes' or 'no', dont lose points on trying since she seems to still be giving out strong iOi's, whats your opinion? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | am i clicking or being a pussy?Thanks for the reply, i'll try to polarize her and get her reply in a 'yes' or 'no' form, thanks a lot | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | March 09 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadPositive: Managed to hit the gym 3 times this week, decent workouts not half-ass workouts Negative: Failed no-fap Developing oneitis, need to polarize her so I know what she wants. Im losing a lot of time thinking about her only because I had a shot and I missed it. Not studying enough, falling behind on college 0 Approaches still Still a virgin Spent the night watching youtube videos instead of going socializing with some classmates | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for flexibility and mobility exercises?Do you have any online yoga tips? Such as a good video? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for flexibility and mobility exercises?Yoga is good for flexibility, how about joints? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for flexibility and mobility exercises?Yoga is good for flexibility, how about joints? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Your opinion on Mens BraceletsYeah but how can I figure out of it fits my style? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Your opinion on Mens BraceletsExactly, I see a lot of people wearing event bracelets and random ass bracelets but not quite something like this: https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/1566/8689/products/ADJ-RGB-P1-WEB-New_f6cdb822-149e-4810-ac9d-5e5f4edd37d9.jpg?v=1510059901 Thats why im asking for opinions. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Knees keep popping and cracking at 19?Not at all | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 01:09 PM |
| -1 | Knees keep popping and cracking at 19?stop wasting your time, im looking for opinions | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Knees keep popping and cracking at 19?The funny thing is that when I squat in the gym with weights I dont hear anything but at home normal squatting without any forcing makes my knees sound like they had 3 lifes before this one (Not all the time tho) | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Knees keep popping and cracking at 19?refer to my above reply | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Knees keep popping and cracking at 19?I actually did, and I even did a catscan but the doctor claimed it was nothing and that I should start doing exercise since all I was doing was sitting at home playing videogames all day everyday. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersWhat? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 09:18 PM |
| 2 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersExactly, I can never pick sides, I always require second hand opinions and I hate that but its just how im used to work I want to change but its hard, and im trying but its taking a long time to get there | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersi'll update sure, but this is not fr worthy I believe, only if some unexpected shit happens but ill update you for sure | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersThis is what im getting a bit confused over trp, 50% say something but if you read the comments the other 50% are saying the opposite of you and saying go for it, while you are saying not to go for it, this is where im also struggling on trp, which opinion to choose | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersThe first thing that comes to my mind when I think about saying this is the famous roll-eye-back and no reply action from her, but even I know thats unlikely to happen and even if I feel reject I would get the weight of my shoulders but my beta side is pulling me down hard... | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersI'll be going back to college in a week or so and will go to a different gym there since its away from town so I should be good with that part, in terms of approach: Thats what im missing, I would never have come up with such an easy simple thing to do such as to ask her "can I do a set while you rest on the machine you are using", I overcomplicate things and was already thinking ahead and that makes my beta logics rise up and get the best of me... | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersReading it and being here internalizing it I get it, I really do but when the moment comes its like I just block it and only realize it when the moment is over... getting really tired of this bullshit overthinking | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | I need a fresh pair of balls and some pointersI was thinking to simply ask her out or something like that when shes leaving dunno, im overthinking and making things complicated and thats what fucking me up | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Body hair?Right now in my college town I only have available Muai Thai and Kickbox, but kickbox almost no one joined and the teachers are not well known so most people that want to learn martial arts go to muai thai | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Body hair?I've just started packing some gainz so not sure | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Body hair?hey, im going to begin muay thai lessons soon, what do you think about it? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Body hair?College freshman atm, whats ur opinion? Just starting out getting some muscle so not sure if I should kill the hair or not | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Going on first ever dateFirst of all, dont forget about logistics. Plan ahead of the date where the final goal is your place or something relatable, you ge the point. Kino, kino, kino. I cant tell you how many pussies I didnt fuck because I was too beta to escalate. I always didnt move a muscle and just acted like a friend all night, then I got rejected and felt regret about not acting up. Its better to get rejected for moving too quickly than for not moving at all. Remember, silence is good to build sexual tension, us… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Can I have some options on raising $27 each day?$27 a day is a lot imo In my country the minimum pay each month is $500 USD | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Fashion regarding CollegeThanks! | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Can I have some options on raising $27 each day?Bitcoin is not so good now, it burst the bubble and will likely drop. If you want to make some pocket money sure, but if you want to win big you've lost the train | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Can I have some options on raising $27 each day?The less work you have to put into it, the more risky it is. Thats why when you work your ass off you get money, and when you gamble you might lose it. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Can I have some options on raising $27 each day?College pays you? What? Where in the world does that happen? Also, if you are low on hours then maybe some stock market stuff, where all you have to do is wait. Then this applies: How intelligent are you? Looking into cryptocurrency www.4chan.org/biz | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Can I have some options on raising $27 each day?I dont know what kind of college does that but im pretty sure ur american. Anyhow, freelancing online always gave me some money in exchange for my time, and you have no deadlines for when to work and no boss. The only issue is that its hard to get started. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Get invited to her place to watch Netflix and things go wrong during kissI would like a veteran to give his opinion here but I believe it was lmr? IMO: She was still unsure about you. She was looking for a excuse to give her friends the next day. You should have used amused mastery or ignored her shit test. You used logic and thus dried her a bit or entered her frame. I believe that if had said something in the lines of "Better start saying my goodbyes then" or "I dont believe I have a choice" and then start kissing her neck and eventually move up to her mouth. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Fashion regarding CollegeProblem is, 99% of the brands you spoke there mean nothing to me, you are probably talking about america so I dont think that applies to me. Looks like a great guide tho. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Does perfect posture eventually feel normal?Start doing posture specific exercises. To me lifting improved my posture quite a bit. But still a long way to go. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 05:16 PM |
| 3 | How do you recover from something innately embarrassing?You have two options: -Find a time machine -Own what you did and learn from it. Experience is what makes us afterall. EDIT: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/79nmxj/failure/ | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 04:44 PM |
| 14 | Does perfect posture eventually feel normal?Exactly. Now imagine you are one of the rare people around the campus with great posture and shoulders pushed back. Go lift. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 04:43 PM |
| 3 | FailureExactly. No ammount of trp reading got me 100% ready(but it fucking did help me set a course for my life, always eternally grateful to trp) for my first time that a girl actually was into me. I totally missed my shot and I can assure you after 2 nights of falling asleep thinking what kind of dumb fuck I was for failing to see she wanted to suck my dick, that it will never happen again. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 04:35 PM |
| 16 | Best responses to," Do you flirt with every girl?"'Just on Mondays.' (Replace Mondays with current day of the week) or 'Horses and cats too.' The first one is the best imo, I found both of those here on TRP and they stuck to my mind. EDIT: All the replies here are epic, pick the one you enjoy the most and use it. Amused Mastery is the way to go and sidebar's got your back. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Do women resort to betas for neediness fucks?So I am correct? If they dont get alpha attention they go for the betas? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Do women resort to betas for neediness fucks?What if no one shows up? Thats my question. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Do women resort to betas for neediness fucks?I just wondered about it. My objective is to be the ultimate man. I despise the time I was an orbiter. This question just hit my head because there are girls who are below sixes and they dont get any attention at all, so if anything comes their way they would just take it. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I want to start againExactly, especially at 19. You feel like you didnt have normal teen years. Which I didnt. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 06:29 PM |
| 2 | I want to start againIts not easy, the last time it just happened... Ill try to escale when im with her and see her reactions | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 05:37 PM |
| 3 | I want to start againYou gotta start somewhere | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I want to start againI've had that thought cross my mind some times but I still feel shitty about it. I just gotta toughen up, shit happens. But I just cant seem to do it... | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I want to start againI've read it before here on trp but never understood it. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I lost my ballsToday and tomorow is impossible, im away. Monday college starts again, when classes are done she just goes home. What should I do? Movies already done, coffee I doubt she will come, eat? I doubt. Dont really know what else is there to do that seems casual because normal date ideas wouldnt apply here since I missed my shot | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I lost my ballsSo, I try again and: She doesn want to? I missed the shot. She wants to? Im still in. Did I get it right? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I lost my ballsGot it. Just read it now and it feels like shit to read it. Applying it from now on. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I lost my ballsYeah we are. So: She doesn want to? I missed the shot. She wants to? Im still in. Did I get it right? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I lost my ballsExactly, she doesn want to? I missed the shot. She wants to? Im still in. Did I get it right? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I lost my ballsExactly, she doesn want to? I missed the shot. She wants to? Im still in. Did I get it right? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I lost my ballsExactly, she doesn want to? I missed the shot. She wants to? Im still in. Did I get it right? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:18 PM |
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