How to sexualize the conversation?

vandaalen · 2019-07-07T11:07:56+00:00

"thats some nice pair of titties you got there"

- patrice o neal rip

TRPKiddo · 2019-07-07T09:03:53+00:00

What do you want? A magic one liner that will make girls take off their pants?

It’s about your game. It’s about your body language, your looks, your tone, and your behavior. Get all those in line and you won’t need to sexualize shit.

Redy4Action · 2019-07-07T08:47:37+00:00

This is sidebar 101 stuff.

It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Start talking slower and deeper, ramp up the touching and kissing. Create sexual tension. You will know when it's there. Involve yourself in it, proceed at a steady pace and enjoy the whole process.

I have initiated sex while taking about all sorts of stuff - making coffee, sports, different kinds of animals, etc. You don't need to talk about sex to have sex.

morescoobysnacks · 2019-07-07T18:51:57+00:00

they're bored because you don't have attraction yet. you need to learn to build attraction. this is 90% of the point of game. and sexualizing the conversation is never necessary. it's just 1 way to break rapport.

SauliusTRP · 2019-07-07T13:45:23+00:00

i personally make assumptions about her, for example if the topic is music.. i kind of assume, if she told what kind of music or artists she is listening, for example "i bet you are one of those persons, who sing naked in the shower while listening xyz song/genre";

or if topics goes to traveling and she says, that she likes chilling on the beach or something similar, i just say "i kind of imagine, that you are from those persons, who like the freedom and looking for more secret places to enjoy the freedom and nakedness"..

Or course its very situational, but from time to time you can drop these, but i wouldn't recommend for first approach. Also like others said, you should just ramp the body contact, so you don't need to say something sexual, it happens from body language :)

Title	How to sexualize the conversation?
Author	EducationalArm3
Upvotes	7
Comments	15
Date	July 7, 2019 8:37 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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