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Fear is conquered by repeated exposure to risk. You got this king
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:13 AM
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You set the boundaries. She overstepped. Next
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:53 PM
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Already have a motorcycle. It's pretty awesome
/r/askTRP14/03/21 03:13 AM
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I am well aware that that's a terrible idea. I wanted solutions to get over someone you feel like you've had a connection with, not obvious ridicule.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:28 AM
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I'm not sure I follow
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:03 AM
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Sounds like the true solution. I gotta get better at plate management for this though, so guess I start there. Thanks
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:01 AM
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we are so focused on not being emotionally invested Precisely my problem with these arrangements. It's amazing that TRP has broken down male-female dynamics to a formula, but this has taken all the fun out of it. Dating in general is only fun when there is some emotional investment and not just trying to pipe her everytime she cries and/or makes a fuss.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:59 AM
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Now go play outside. After I've broken my favorite toy... talk about your perfect metaphor
/r/askTRP13/03/21 04:11 AM
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+1 for the book recommendation. "by virtue of the thoughts which they choose and encourage; that mind is the master weaver, both of the inner garment of character and the outer garment of circumstance, and that, as they may have hitherto woven in ignorance and pain they may now weave in enlightenment and happiness."
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 01:59 AM
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Watch what they do, not say. It's trial and error. You look for generally positive responses to things you do. And by that I mean be observant - signs of biting her lip, leaning closer, trying to establish more contact are telltale signs that she's interested. Do they flirt or reciprocate when you smile? Or do you fall into that bad boy category? Different things work for different people, so copying what other people do isn't the way to go about it. Create your own system of working it. I'll gi…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:15 PM
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Seems like you have to work on your game. Lifting and looking good is the foundation of TRP, but it's just that, a foundation. You can't expect to have a good house just because you have high quality material, you need an architect and experienced builders. Reflect and try to figure out what works for you. What part of you gets a woman off and what doesn't? It's different for everyone. This life is about constant, consistent improvement - the grind never ends.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:04 PM
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Instead of using those pictures on tinder, use them to boost your social media like Instagram. Better idea indeed. She probably found a different guy on tinder, who was in her eyes, more attractive than you were. This is why tinder sucks, the competition is just too much. You’re saving so much time and work by approaching someone in real life. They get validation all the time from their phone, not so much in real life. Add that to quarantine season where she probably has a 100 matches racked up …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:45 PM
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​ Quarantine has made this worse, because now every guy is gonna slide into the dms, and you’re competing with unknown rivals. 100%. I made the mistake last month of letting it slip to one of my friends that I was getting sexually frustrated thanks to being under quarantine for a month (thanks to a Covid case that came up somewhere near my neighborhood). It was a mistake because he then offered to pay for a Tinder Gold account, for an entire year. I'm not a great Tinder user because a. my photos…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:50 PM
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TRP is about being a man, and building a successful career has everything to do with this. Watering it down to "how to get laid 101" is one of the main reasons why intelligent young men are hesitant to accept it - it's a very small and very poor representation of what TRP actually stands for.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:35 PM
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This is a forum for people wanting to improve their lives.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:07 PM
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“Absorb what is useful. Discard what is not. Add what is uniquely your own.” ~ some smol asian dude
/r/askTRP28/04/20 03:57 PM
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Offer a ridiculous reason for her to come, playfully. Plausible deniability, definitely in the sidebar. If she still denies, next.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:01 PM
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"I don't want to talk about it" should suffice. One of the major precedents here is that you are beyond interrogation. No one has the right to question why you do or don't do things. Your reputation should be such that it commands respect and people know you act according to your beliefs and do what you think is best. Responding otherwise is fruitless as you're likely to respond emotionally, prompting her to respond back with something you don't want to hear or deal with. It'll end in an argumen…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:11 AM
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I am Indian, 5'6" and have eczema on my legs and hands. While I am a good-looking guy, I am conscious about these "deformities" when in public, since my hands are rough to the touch when you shake or hold my hand and wearing shorts when I play sports reveals my skin condition. I am also currently spinning 3 plates, all of them gorgeous, all from cold approaches and/or chance meetings at social events. One of them is wholeheartedly committed to me and submissive to my every need, whilst knowing t…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:52 PM
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Escalate.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:35 PM
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"So do you"
/r/askTRP14/12/19 11:23 AM
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Why do you care
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:07 PM
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BJJ and Muay Thai are in my opinion the go to martial arts for practical purposes and self-defence. I've only done both for about a year and I think it's also a great way to stay in shape since you move around and you use your whole body for grabbing, throwing and kicking.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:00 PM
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and then sharply drop below normal. Source for this information? Or did u check this yourself?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:31 AM
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It's either that or you're plain fucking gorgeous You can still bang her if you make it clear that you're a high value man and do not engage in pointless drivel. And that includes texting. And of course, escalate.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:06 PM
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Wow. You get her pussy wet by doing something exciting and immediately ruin it with political BS and discussing past relationships with her. And you don't even escalate. You don't discuss your opinions with women. You don't show your hand. You don't give her validation. This is sidebar 101 stuff and you did them all anyway.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:11 PM
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The problem with you, and a multitude of other guys out here is you don't stop talking. You don't talk your way into sex. You escalate. Touch, stroke, kiss, get the sexual vibe going by setting the atmosphere. If you're in an ltr, having sex is, or at least should be easy mode.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:23 PM
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Find another girl is the action to take.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:26 AM
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You have no goal, no purpose. Unless you find one you won't be happy. And that is something you have to discover yourself. Be a man. Take charge of your life.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:55 PM
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"We met and we kissed" You say you're super smooth and you're not closing, which is a bit of an incongruity. Afterwards, you hit them up when they have tons of validation on social media - all the more if she is a 9 as you say. She sees you as any other loser dying for a whiff of her pussy. Another woman now. And for fuck's sake, escalate.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:52 PM
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You only lose frame if you get agitated or choose to say things to please her.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:46 AM
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Have sex with the tinder dates first. You can take them wherever you want after that. You sure you don't have an attractive friend or someone that'll go?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:13 AM
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These numbers are in your head. Change the narrative. You're being seen with another girl. Jealousy and hamstring ensues in the girls heads. You are the prize. When you see the other girls, give them a huge grin and turn back to the one you're with.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:11 AM
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Me: comment about an aspect of their profile or bio and my doubts about it and necessity for me to verify it being true <-- shorter the better Her: "haha" <-- not very interested "haha" followed by agreement to meetup <-- date sealed Me: set an exact time and place, preferably a place near my house so I have a reason to take her home That's it. I don't ask for numbers, snapchat or anything. Straight to dinner or drinks. Do not waste more than 5 minutes per interaction. Your time is your life.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:51 AM
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Who cares. Strap it on before the respective exercise and take it off afterwards. As long as you're not rubbing it anyone's face or getting in their way you're fine.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:54 AM
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You're making an effort to please her, consciously or unconsciously and that's why you have such cringy behavior. Just have fun and make the day about pleasing YOU. If you're depressed about this experience reach out to another girl.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:05 AM
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What part of AWALT do you not understand? Approach, isolate, escalate.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:00 AM
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Cancel the date and tell her to hit you up when she's free. When she does you immediately set a time and place. In the meantime focus on your own life and other girls.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:05 AM
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"I have a bad habit that adds zero value to my life, should I stop?" If you're so self-obsessed about your looks (assuming that you are good-looking) get an agent and start modeling part-time. At least that way it's not just a waste of time.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:17 AM
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Consistent flaker but keeps hitting you up? Invite her to your place at specified time no questions asked. If she's not down next.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 04:44 PM
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I can tell you're hamstering, and hamstering HARD, because you haven't bothered to organize your post. You have the right ideas, the only thing is to take a breather and stop obsessing over every little detail. definitely still have lots to learn and apply. So do we all. Practice leads to perfection the only thing i could see getting hung up on is what if she says something along the lines of “i thought i told you i was seeing someone”? "And yet, here you are" with a smirk See the thing is, it d…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 04:29 PM
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Women fuck. Big fucking deal.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:56 PM
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You're hamstering. Leave that to the ladies. And yes, do your thing and escalate. If she disengages, shrug it off and walk away. Be impervious to her wishy-washy bullshit of seeing another guy and trying to turn you into her emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:34 PM
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That's a choice you gotta make my dude, TRP unfortunately can't be your moral compass. Do what you want and feels right to you
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:10 PM
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Your response was perfect. Remember the golden rule: reward good behavior, punish bad behavior. The reward is good sex, punishment is dread. Read up on the different levels of dread on the sidebar. Her asking your permission is good behavior.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 10:42 AM
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We're human - women like attractive men - therefore a more attractive man will naturally attract more women - work on being more attractive. What's the problem?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:29 AM
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No, this is passive agressive behavior and reflects insecurity. Glaring at her and making overt comments about how upset you are by her statement is not red pill behavior. You simply say "no, I'm not fine with it" and that's it. If she insists again you say no firmly. If she disobeys you anyway you pull away and walk away, forever. Red pill is not about flaunting aggression and waving your dick in her face. You have nothing to prove.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:27 AM
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You simply say you don't drink. Part of understanding how to handle uncomfortable social situations is to be in them in the first place. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:15 PM
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And what earth-shatteringly horrible thing did you say here? You attempted to make a joke, it rubbed her the wrong way which means she either doesn't find you attractive or she's a privileged bitch. If you move through life too afraid to say and do things you will never accomplish those things. Be a man. You deserve to get what you want. Take action and stop fretting about trivial things like whether you mildly upset people.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:10 PM
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If she's definitely attracted to you you escalate. As soon as you see any indication. If she shows resistance pull back and escalate again after a while. Tease, kino, laugh, sexualize. There's no going too far. If you're worried about offending her you haven't internalized the red pill as much as you think. And no, the other comment was on point. It's harsh to hear but you need solid work on yourself.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:06 PM
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This is too much of an essay over one girl. Long story short, she wasn't feeling it because she wasn't very attracted to you, she was put off by your seemingly harmless teasing/flirting because again: she wasn't very attracted to you. She would have gone nuts/giggly over the same thing if you were more attractive. And at the end she said you had a lot of red flags, which is clearly a way of her saying she isn't interested. So cut the girl off, work on being more attractive and game other girls. …
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:42 PM
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A couple weeks ago I had kino down pat and this girl was literally eating out of my hand. I moved in for the kiss and to my surprise she moved her face and I got her cheek. What did I do? I started kissing and sucking her cheek and worked my way to her lips and eventually into her pants. Escalation is always the same. Read the atmosphere and the tension, if she's down she's down. It's my opinion and experience that if you have a girl over willingly who's shown you even a minimum amount of intere…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:47 AM
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This girl likes to take things slow In her frame. You should be having dates when and if you want to, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:00 AM
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Was this a bad response? Yes what could I have done better here? Throw away your phone and gone over and fucked her already. My question is, why were you texting her for so long when the signals were there? She gives you open invitations and you kept playing games. There's only so much anticipation you can create.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:57 AM
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leave her guessing About what? Escalate early and get right to it.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:25 AM
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This is no different from any sort of frame-breaking behavior people pull daily. "He's such a player" "He's a misogynistic" "I think he's a serial killer" "Redy4Action is the type of guy who will leave his son to die to fuck a whore". It's just background noise. A&A and laugh it off.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:16 AM
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Find other girls who are more fun to hang around Girls who do nothing but complain add no value to your life, so drop her if she's taking too much of your time/energy
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:25 PM
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Since you want a philosophical perspective - I won't call you wrong or unreasonably bitter, but don't you just love that the world is against you? You are the hero that shoulders the pain and wordlessly toils. You suck it up and plod through because you can and the multitudes of women who scream "equality" when they're getting more than their fair share cannot. I just love feeling strong.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:20 PM
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Might as well fuck your way into her heart.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 01:15 PM
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10-15% body fat, good selection of clothes, neat, "well-put" appearance would be a few. No to plastic surgery.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:26 AM
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Meant to say covert, sorry. The hamster is already spinning as it is, he's fine. No need to push it further. Sure man, you do you. The idea is not to give direct replies or answers. The sex/kino part is perfect to deflect questions if you don't want to answer them. He was trying to dread her. "If you don't keep your a game up" is an indicator she can be replaced and way too direct which the situation doesn't call for.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 01:22 AM
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First, dread is covert. Don't be too direct. Second, this was more of a comfort test and a fear of losing you - something you needn't give a stance on. Let the hamster spin naturally if it already is, no need for any additional resonance on your side. What you do is say "why do you ask?" with a grin, pull her close, kiss and escalate to sex. Remember, reward good behavior, punish bad behavior. No need to instill dread if the situation doesn't call for it.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:05 PM
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"cool come to xxx at yyy tomorrow" That's it. No more texting after that
/r/askTRP13/07/19 11:49 AM
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Shouldn't have asked her snap Shouldn't be using snap Screams low value. Focus on smiling, talking to them, building rapport before blindly asking random strangers for their information.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 07:38 AM
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Assume she wants to fuck. Just go for it mah dude
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:52 AM
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Smart, don't involve yourself in needless dispute. Also don't bring it up in front of her again, it's in the past.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:21 PM
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TRP and being a good person isn't mutually exclusive. You can be a helpful and kind person even if you are red pilled. (In fact, I'd say the creators of this sub are the most helpful and kind people out there since they're practically giving this information out for free where most people in the seduction universe charge you bucketloads for a single class) However, you avoid being a doormat, avoid getting yourself involved in useless girl drama that is nothing but stressful and are fully focused…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:18 PM
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Why are you worried if she thinks you're a bad person? Unless it negatively impacts your career, go for it.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:55 PM
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Congratulations. You're well on your way to being a doer, that takes balls. Your first job is to approach for the sake of approaching. Your end goal is sex, yes - but don't punish yourself is someone rejects you: remember they're only rejecting your approach. Expect to not be good at it, which is only natural since you're not used to doing this. That's fine too. You're not the only guy who wants to get laid there, so don't feel embarrassed about your intentions. They know it, you know it, everyb…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:52 PM
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You know the problem and know the answer. The only way out is to act, my friend. I had a terrible case of wanting to spending the rest of my life watching movies in my room with one hand down my pants but guess what? Life goes nowhere that way. Get out, get yourself a job or hobby that puts you in the vicinity of other likeminded people and start interacting. Lift heavy ass weights and you'll surge with confidence. You'll hate it all at first, but you'll get used to it. You can do it. Good luck.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:37 PM
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Done worse. Posted this before, but had a girl invite me over to her place and I was brilliant enough to say "ok bye" after I gulped down my wine. Best part about these experiences is that you learn. Be happy about failure: the earlier it happens the more quickly you grow.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:31 PM
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Forget about what's beta and what's alpha and focus everything on gaining skills that you know you'll be proud of having in the future. You'll learn to love yourself for having the strength and discipline to go through with it and you'll be confident in your own abilities to take on the most challenging of things. Don't think of it as a chore and have fun while you do it. You do that and I guarantee you'll be the alphaest person around.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:26 PM
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You said it yourself, she's flaky. Let her go and game other girls. When and if she texts, immediately set a date with a time and place. Your job as a man is to set up an opportunity for sex to happen, so sometime at night close to your place is perfect. Forget about her till then. Girls love to create drama, don't get wrapped up in it.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:47 AM
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Your life obviously revolves around this one. Get a life.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:52 PM
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If you've done it before you can do it again. You're older and wiser.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:51 PM
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There's a scene in Bojack Horseman that perfectly defines discipline: https://youtu.be/R2_Mn-qRKjA
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:55 PM
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The best gift a man can give a woman is dick. Remember to say happy birthday everytime you thrust in her.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:22 PM
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She's easy as hell, especially if she's flashing you. And nipple rings? Signs of a typical slut. If u want to fuck her, do that. She is definitely not worth more than that
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:16 PM
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The chain of sequence is something like: build rapport, isolate, escalate. You'll find the sidebar to be much more informative. Good luck.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:57 AM
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Remember that you have a right to do whatever you want, but so do they. Cut the girl from your life and let your brother do whatever he wants to. You don't have to explain yourself to him and if he's not listening to your reasoning, forget about it. Just move on with your life.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 08:50 AM
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This is sidebar 101 stuff. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Start talking slower and deeper, ramp up the touching and kissing. Create sexual tension. You will know when it's there. Involve yourself in it, proceed at a steady pace and enjoy the whole process. I have initiated sex while taking about all sorts of stuff - making coffee, sports, different kinds of animals, etc. You don't need to talk about sex to have sex.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 08:47 AM
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This isn't in the realm of TRP, but personally I don't think it's necessary to sacrifice being a good person to swallow the pill. Being a good person involves actually helping people with their lives, exactly what TRP is doing. It may seem rough on the exterior, but does get the point across and forces you to think for yourself. In contrast, a "nice guy" is just a butterer. Makes you feel uncomfortable with unnecessary fawning and attention and never quite giving you what you need. There's a lac…
/r/askTRP06/07/19 04:23 PM
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Couple years ago, fresh out of my first four year LTR, matched with this girl on tinder and she invited me over to her place for drinks. I was a nervous wreck and never escalated - just sat there asking dumb questions about her life. Eventually interest waned and I left when it became too awkward to bear - she never texted again. Probably one of my worst experiences because she was super hot but it's when you lose the hot ones you realize you need to work on your life.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 02:34 AM
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Spinning too many plates? Surely you don't think you're going to fuck all 3.7 billion women in the world?
/r/askTRP06/07/19 01:06 AM
1

Why does it matter to you how other people live their lives? That's up to them. If it ticks you off, don't do it. I'm not in an LTR atm, but personally I think my biggest mission is to be happy by doing what I'm best at, and once that's the case, raising children that are strong, productive, responsible members of society. And the most advantageous way to do that is by having a stable household with both male and female parent figures. So of course people in general gravitate towards LTRs.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:50 PM
0

It's sexual assault because she's not legally old enough to give consent.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:27 PM
-5

You're literally asking for a case of sexual assault. Legality aside, don't be lazy.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:25 PM
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She's calling you out on your overprotective behavior. Indicates huge signs of possessiveness and mateguarding that is not typical of an alpha. She is docile now, yes because the short-term ultimatum scared her, but expect things to go south if you don't stand by your word. Learn to be okay with walking away. So, do not, under any circumstance, mate-guard.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:28 PM
1

If you're going to bed tired everyday tired, you're doing it right. Men are wired to work. You'll get used to it.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:23 PM
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That is a gross oversimplification of what TRP advocates. That's why you re-read material, things become clearer.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:21 PM
2

She said she's free for coffee. She's interested. "If I don't keep texting her she's gonna lose interest" So? Fuck her. It's her loss. And for the record, she's not going to lose interest. She will if you keep blowing up her phone with cringy haha texts, however.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:19 PM
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Disengage completely from the entire situation and do not speak to him again. I would go so far as to look for a new place to stay since your environment is toxic as hell. As for your social circle - get a new one. 7 billion people in the world and you want to stick yourself with guys who fuck you over and other guys who do nothing to help you out?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:37 PM
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I only skimmed through it, but you did the right thing in ending it with her. Not because she was disrespectful (which in my opinion she definitely was) but because you clearly were jealous of the other guy stealing her. You could have handled the situation better though - you lost frame when you told her "you should go fuck him" as it conveys bitterness and insecurity. Remember: you are the prize. Start lifting hard ASAP and game other girls. Get this situation out of your head before it become…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:18 PM
1

I don't know because I don't know her. But this post of yours screams oneitis and TRP does not encourage this. Forget about her for now. You doing something in order to prove your worth to someone else is never the way to go. Further, it's not even adding value to her life - you're just trying to win her over with material gain and she'll never be attracted to you the person but rather you the fake pilot. Buy a plane if you want to or if it makes you happy. I've made the same mistake - it's a wa…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:07 AM
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No man, don't do things to impress other people, let alone girls. Let them come to you naturally.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:20 AM
2

Will do man. Let's hope this happens
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:15 PM
1

So I can expect a buttload of shittests. What do I do if they're bitchy and aggressive? It's hard to sexualize women when they're not in the mood. I haven't really "trained" these girls and haven't vetted them (pretty sure they're both not LTR material). The only thing I can do is maintain frame or walk away, but then - no threesome there.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:15 PM
7

Call her over, have some really nice wine, and fuck the life out of her. She won't ever forget
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:11 AM
0

Hey, fellow 23 year old Indian here and I've had an astoundingly similar past what with the moving around (never stayed in a school for more than 2 years). Although I haven't been really abused by anyone, I can relate to your situation as being the odd one out and having complexes with fitting in. I'm not sure of my n-count but it's definitely lower than yours, so kudos to that, brother. First and foremost, I don't believe it's required to have all three DT traits to excel with women and people …
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:57 AM
1

Probably just grabbing your attention or just staring blankly into space. Don't try to read into it. If she's not interested when approached, go for the next girl. And yes, I'm not attracted to women who slut it up in public, no matter how hot.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:27 AM
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Guys have it difficult. We're meant to suffer, be ridiculed at and basically go through life with things thrown at us from time to time - and in response we're expected to laugh it off. We're physically and mentally stronger, that's how nature has wired us to be since we have to deal with what nature throws at us. Women are relatively soft natured - that's why they are excellent nurturers and made for the role of raising children. This is why a rape claim filed by a man is given less credence/at…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 03:16 AM
7

"Wine. My place. Tonight."
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:09 AM
1

While you are in your ripped phase, you're convincing yourself that you're tricking the women into sleeping with you when in reality they want to sleep with you because you're attractive. Since you think you're tricking them you think they're either stupid or shallow about it when in fact they're neither, they're just human beings who crave animalistic sex as well with an attractive human being. There's no need to feel contempt, be grateful for what life gives you and enjoy it. Life is simple. D…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:26 AM
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This answer is about perfect. Thanks.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:09 AM
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I've expanded more on my dread in a reply to another comment here. Granted, I was being a dick by pushing for the threesome, but that was because I was a perverted mofo and wanted one bad - rather than trying to dread her. Like I said, all this was preTRP, I'm just trying to make sense of this situation from TRP's perspective.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:08 AM
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Everything seemed to indicate the opposite... she wanted more time with me, wanted us to do more things together, had those dreamy eyes around me always - consistent, adoring behavior from her, and consistent improvement throughout those three years. Now I'm not denying the possibility of her cheating, but she really showed no changes in behavior if she was. Not to brag but I had her doing whatever I wanted. Not really an indication of a branch swing
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:01 AM
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Well, considering this was before I had any idea about what TRP was about, I thought it was the natural thing to do, to be casual about the whole thing. I also didn't talk about the threesome thing to make her jealous, I just really wanted to ... but I see what you're on about, will keep this in mind. Thank you
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:55 AM
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I see what you're getting at. I did commit - did not have sex with anyone else (except for the intervals where we broke up). She knew I was faithful but never failed to point out to me if someone was hitting on me and showed clear indicators of jealousy. Everytime in response, I gave her a kiss, and escalated to sex. I thought that level of comfort was enough to keep a girl... I made a mistake in assuming that dread could be thrown around with no consequences.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:24 PM
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Well I didn't think much of it. I did give her occasional comfort by giving her great sex, hours of foreplay and brought her along for long hikes and runs. We always had a fun time together and I was never sitting on my ass doing nothing around her. She may have sought someone who was looking for eternal commitment, but TRP says that women naturally seek out unruffled, non-committing men over providers. I can logically reason out why she'd leave eventually, but isn't this an indication of NAWALT…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 04:58 PM
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It's here somewhere, can't locate it atm for some reason. Here's a copypasta: Dread Game - Purposefully inciting jealousy in an LTR by openly getting attention from other women. Soft Dread is similar, but less open. With Soft Dread, the attention doesn't even need to be real. Creating the possibilty for female attention is enough to get the hamster going. (If you develop a great body, she knows that other women will find that attractive without having to actually see other women displaying inter…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 04:49 PM
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Re-read your post. You know you catch feelings quickly, and you're trying to reach out to her with less investment from her side. You're literally taking a shortcut to oneitis. Fall back and game other girls. Let her contact you
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:37 AM
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Who cares what she's trying to do. It could have been attention / she could have been trying to fuck you. Point is you didn't shoot your shot and she lost interest. Personally, the moment a girl says that she got her butthole bleached in front of me all attraction is gone.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:31 AM
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That's how it is. Men are more inclined to fall head over heels for a woman they find attractive, and it happens very quickly for us too. The way around this is to game other women so you can mellow out those feelings and extend it to a bunch of women rather than fall into oneitis.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:44 AM
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"My dear, I'm practically bulletproof" move in for the kiss. Game her, if it's not moving the way you want it to, move on to the next girl - such a simple process. Why is it so hard to digest? Do not let your mind spin around why she's saying so and so, there could be an endless array of reasons why. Your job is to remain impervious to her emotional tampering - see through the bullshit and do what you are supposed to do, and in this or any case, to fuck her. If you're not able to fuck her, you f…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 03:16 PM
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Well you specifically asked why men lie about how many women they've slept with, so I replied to that. First of all no one knows if he is lying, let alone why. In any case, why is this bothering you? Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:57 PM
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Peer validation, low self-esteem. People lie to feel better about themselves.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:47 PM
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You disengage until the point is proven. Ignore any emotional outbursts she has, respond to it with playful banter and a smile on your face. Remember - you are a fun guy to be around, the situation is always such. And no, don't abruptly say that you don't want to hear about her ex, have some tact. Plate - let her do whatever she wants; LTR - next
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:40 PM
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Yes. You're visibly angered by her comments, responding to her tests indicate you broke frame and entered hers. Getting into a shouting match with your s/o is by far the worst thing to do and definitely not what TRP advocates. Don't let her piss you off - realize that your life is more than silly fights and stay focused on your mission. Good luck!
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:36 PM
2

Perfect opportunity for you to socialize and meet new people. You'll also learn about money management and will be responsible for yourself. And you say you think you can manage, so what's stopping you? Win-win.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 01:39 PM
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In my opinion, it's the days that you feel are really shitty and unproductive that are the best days to turn your life around. Being able to stand up strong when you feel weak is how you become a strong man. Later in life when you face some hardship you'll be able to look back at these times and know you have what it is in you to succeed. But in order to succeed, you must first do. Act on it immediately. Good luck!
/r/askTRP29/05/19 01:32 PM
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Recovery starts when you coldly start engaging in your life and making your life all about you. Do the usual stuff the sub says, lift until the only pain you feel is from working out, dedicate yourself into becoming a stronger, better person and become the man you've always wanted to be. And no. You do not contact her at all, even if she contacts you. Simply do not give her the opportunity to come crawling back to you after such behavior. It may seem harsh, but declare that chapter in your life …
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:09 PM
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The impression of maturity, stability, confidence - all masculine traits. Whether he actually is is a different matter but that's how it appears on the surface.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:44 AM
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Move closer and say "here, give me your number" and drop your phone into her hand. Be firm and strong in your actions. When she says "how about my Snapchat" I say I don't use snapchat. Unnecessary waste of space, time and validation.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:40 AM
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She is a model --> used to guys orbiting her --> can't understand why you aren't and is now prepared to use every tool in the book to get your attention You are a PhD student so focus on that for now wholeheartedly, and if you find yourself drifting into oneitis, find new hobbies with other people and approach other women. Do NOT engage her emotionally, you will waste a lot of time with that, affecting your studies in the future. I also would suggest moving out of there so that you needn't remai…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:58 PM
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I left my wellpaying, very stable job with a very caring and understanding boss because I felt like I could do more with my life - against the wishes of many of my friends, coworkers and my father, who's advice I can't ignore since he has been my major life support up until I finished my undergraduate degree. Now, I'm applying for a PhD and he's secretly thrilled at the prospect, although he'll never directly admit it. I've started dieting and doing calisthenics, which imo is a very good substit…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:02 PM
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Charisma on Command?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:16 AM
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I still stand by this one. It's about recognizing disrespect. If you can see that someone is trying his/her best to devalue or disrespect you, it's better to act than ignore/disengage. Your comment applies to social scenarios and/or plates. You treat it like it never happened. However, this is a relationship, where your partner is expected to follow certain rules and regulations (she chose to be exclusive and faithful to you) therefore you make sure no such thing as in the post is tolerated. You…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:38 AM
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What would you rather do?
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:01 AM
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It's about discipline, like the other guy said. Prior to her messaging me I didn't have a problem. Now that she has I can't stop myself. What I'm asking is how members of trp have enforced the discipline into not blowing their load (if they have) and showing some self-restraint.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:12 AM
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Exactly. The discipline is what I'm striving for rather than just a temporary self satisfaction. I'm glad you understand. It's the imagination of how she's gonna fuck me (it's been 4 months since I've dedicated myself to this program so it's been a while) when I meet up with her that's getting me, she used to text me in great detail about it but I've stopped her from going any further. But the memory still remains
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:08 AM
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At this point, ask her to come straight over to your place. She flaked on you twice even though you put effort in, now she has to redeem herself. Give her that chance but make her work for it.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 02:08 AM
1

Absolutely yes! I matched with this girl on tinder last year who was doing a mountaineering course and she took me on a wild ride, literally and figuratively speaking :D You make the most of your life by having fun hobbies to do, you meet fun people, you have fun sex. Alternatively if you complain about why the world is coming to an end and why people are no fun anymore you're going to miss out on those experiences. Good luck my bro
/r/askTRP21/04/19 05:11 PM
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Don't. Forget about the friends, and since she flaked, forget about her. If she is interested, she will reach out - that's when you set a definite time and place.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:40 PM
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I'm gonna do that, will post when I have those diesel ass arms. Thanks mate
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:09 PM
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Thanks man, really helpful. I'm gonna try that asap, can't wait, super excited
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:08 PM
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So amp up the cardio? Gotcha. I'm already doing cardio 3 times a week so maybe I'll push harder to see results Thanks Edit: about ethnicity, I'm Indian. My family has always been pretty fit - my grandfather is pushing 90 and he is still super healthy, even owns a huge fucking garden and tends to it daily
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:03 PM
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I'm saving money for graduate studies so I'd like to minimize expenditure on everything. To compensate, I make do with whatever I get, work out 1 hour a day six days a week. I follow athlean X and variations to make my workouts effective and as a result have a pretty toned body - visible abs, good biceps when I flex - but for some reason I'm not seeing that definition on my arms when standing normally. I bought a pull-up bar to focus solely on bodyweight exercises. Is there absolutely no way eve…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 10:52 AM
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I do have a pull-up bar so that's not an issue, and I can makeshift parallel bars with heavy chairs Any idea on number of reps, sets, etc. As a baseline, I can do 10 complete pull-ups after a warm-up. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/04/19 07:41 AM
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Yeah thing is I'm certain I'll be able to game her since even light flirting previously had her giggling. I was just wondering if it was possible to do the same on text when done right. Anyways not really interested in her, kinda using her as a test on what works and what doesn't.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:54 AM
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