My problem is that when things don't work out I get angry (It's not just about women, but life in general). A lot of times in relation with other people I have a victim mentality and take things seriously and personally, instead of just trying something new or a different method and moving on. So my questions to you are these : 1. How to give up the victim mentality ? 2. How to stop taking things personally and seriously ? 3. How to stop being angry ?