Daily, I mostly talk about work and plans for the future. I’m 21, and I’ve always been pretty anxious. Never had a girlfriend but I’m not a virgin.

I just want to meet girls and see where it goes. I don’t always focus on the convo (often looking at her or myself and my mind draws blank).

I’m always engaged in conversations about passions or other abstract things. I do the small talk, but it doesn’t usually lead anywhere constructive, am I doing it wrong?