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neverquitman/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:23 PM
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neverquitman/r/seduction26/02/19 08:20 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:58 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:59 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:01 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:48 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:22 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:21 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:52 PM
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neverquitman/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:32 PM
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Stop being a fuckwad and do something productive in your life other than posting such retarded questions. This is pointless. Are you even dating a girl?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:44 AM
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Dale carnegie, hill and other notable people that did something in their lives. Rational male did nothing to me. Its interesting but I take it with a grain of salt. Again redpill is a toolbox, take some, cut some, throw some. You won’t kill the beta by sitting infront of the screen. Read or do something productive in your life.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:58 PM
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Not everyone was a spartan. It was fucking elite.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:21 PM
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leadership on what ?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:20 PM
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Sure!
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:09 PM
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If you take a classic degree, arts or science degree/stem, it’s never pointless. Just understand that LE does not relate to the dressing nicely part, and it has its tolls. Research!! Search the degrees you are interested in. Go on college forums and ask around. I believe it would be helpful to search about LE and how hard the daily job and pay is. If you enjoy history, so be it. Just know the pros/cons of it, and do your research.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:05 PM
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Whats your strength/weaknesses (academically) ? No point in saying you have to major in drama if you stomp like an elephant and sing like a rooster. Same thing with stem.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:33 PM
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Teach you what? You spent money on pussy. You payed for an orgasm. You just lost financially. Poorer by 500 euros. You’re still without pussy (longterm) and you still need to work on your smv. Facts.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 07:19 PM
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The problem is paying money instead of saving it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 05:27 PM
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Good stuff. Good stuff man.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:21 PM
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Son, its harder in summer. Lets be honest here. What belt in BJJ r u currently? How many books have you read?
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:15 PM
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Treat every thing as practice, no expectations. Although I wish there was a quicker way.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:13 PM
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You won’t do anything of these things.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:11 PM
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Just delete her email man. You played games, so accept that you lost this one. Don’t go back, it didn’t end nicely, but if you go back it could go hairy.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:45 PM
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Thats one way to look at it. But you really have to shell out then.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:25 AM
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To each of his own, I think your experience was an unnecessary one, because you could have invested in your money into shares if you were really redpilled. But you paid, beta bux. Betas get pussy as long as they pay.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:19 AM
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But it’s still an act. A facade. Its just service. It’s not because you have been self developing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:17 AM
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Probably watched porn.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 05:39 PM
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Alright. Thanks for the praise. Now gfto.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:59 PM
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I meant the detailed story of your lyrical life. You bet I am a motherfucker, give me your moms number. Should be fun!
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:56 PM
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Thanks for the detailed story but this is all unnecessary. Op has a future, those people have no futures. That life is the bottom of the food chain. Everyone knows it. Self protection and knowing self defence is good to have and op should be aware and be smart and responsible but op needs to understand the fastest way to solve his question, is to move out. And he can only move out, if he studies.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:19 AM
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I just posted it as an addition to his advice, come on resnine. His advice is similar to mine, a bit more complex but similar. Awareness is always necessary.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:33 AM
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Its definitely changing economically, but this is a big boys club and they play their own rules there. To the common man, its changing in terms of prices and rent, from food to jobs etc. Thats what our world is. Most current and future families need to live healthy and have a good head on their shoulders.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:00 AM
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Its not even redpill, any smart man would do that. You don’t have to be redpill to want a better future for yourself. Its being smart vs not smart. Its not even betas. Those guys just don’t think. They don’t think because they don’t care. Why should they?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:41 PM
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Jesus, OP is a fucking kid. His life could be great, why give advice that could make his future bad? Lots of people live in california or new york and not all of them are mugged because they just don’t go to sketchy places/and they dont hang around dipshits. Look at this way, if you had a son, and he lives in a sketchy place, what would you say to him?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:59 PM
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Most people living in your city are peaceful. Just keep scanning your surroundings and be situationally aware. Gangs are a minority. They just have fight between themselves. Your job is to avoid their shit and live your own life, to build your life and to do better. https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/how-to-develop-the-situational-awareness-of-jason-bourne/ Read this as well.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:16 PM
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I say, keep being focused on your exams. Pass them and keep studying now. At 17, its an age to really grow and develop, and its a lottery ticket at this age. Its something that you can’t control, but you can still control it by avoiding places where this happened. Avoid night parties and night places. During daytime, Take the routes that have more people, and are more popular as compared to the shorter, darker alleys and roads. Avoid shortcuts around neighbourhoods especially if its sketchy. Als…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:09 PM
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Whats your skin color? Maybe you live in an area where its messed up.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:52 PM
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I agree with glo.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:51 PM
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You still havent answered his question.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:28 PM
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What did you do before being hit up with this statement ?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:07 AM
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Not really, doing an english major has its benefits. You just have to seek what you enjoy.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:45 PM
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You won’t talk to her because you are BP. You feel intimidated because you feel invested. Just go for it, better today than never!
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:59 AM
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Yeah but how do you work with this. Any tips?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:52 PM
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I saw the stickied threads but can't find it. Any help would be appreciated !
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:37 AM
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Theres being a chump beta and then theres being a naive kid. I think he’s a naive kid not a chump beta. How to make her fall in love with you is a question that we don’t know. Redpill is not putting girls on the pedestal.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:58 PM
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Theres no strategy with text game. Like look, you can text her your name in an hour, or several hours later because it doesnt matter. You can text her 6 hours after or even a day later. If a girl likes you, she’ll respond especially if shes not a celeb or anything. If you want to be chill, give a call. Doubt that introverted girls answer though. But yeah, you can do that, text her straight onto a date, like you ain’t missing anything, if she replies cool, if not cool.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:20 AM
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Once you got a number, wait a few days to cool your mind. Give it a day or two, then text. If you cold approached and talked more than 10minutes, shes going to remember you well. You dont have to appear super sex starved. Chat abit. Hey x, its me, hows life been treating you recently? Or comment on something that happened during that interaction. What she said earlier Then after 3-5 messages ask her out. If you write her, hey x, meet me at y place and x place. Shes going to think “what the fuck …
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:16 PM
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Rsd has been deleting videos. Not YT. Do you remember the name of the vid though or how long it was ?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:24 PM
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Yeah goodluck, btw if you want to be independent you have to drop gaming; because you sit at home all day playing something/building when you should build your life instead.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:23 PM
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Theres alot of red flags, seems like you don’t live in the west... Asia? Why did you take engineering? Are you enjoying it ? The problem is you live closely with your dad and thats an issue. So you need to not live closely with your dad. Communicate first of course, maybe he’ll understand. Say that you need to study during the weekends and it would be helpful if I can be disturbed less. That or go work, find college friends and share the apartment with other flatmates. Or just study hard and the…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:31 PM
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Do you have a pdf copy of natural?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:33 PM
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Have you tried gaming girls with boyfriends ?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 06:12 PM
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Yeah idk seems like uncharted territory. I seem to see that taken chicks give way more resistance than single so when I encounter them and game them, they dont let me go ahead and go for the close but never say ew go away. F off etc.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 04:36 PM
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Yeah idk, I can get a number but cant set a date.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:18 PM
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What if you approach or social circle, grab a number during daygame, no mentions about him but later shes unreceptive on text/profile pic/my friends say she has a bf. Any chances of closing or forget it?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:54 PM
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How long do you usually keep the window open by gauging her interest? Even if theres pictures, doesnt it seem she will be not interested ?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:39 PM
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Yeah its confusing. On one hand, several times girls had bfs but they never used the “i have a bf”, just using the busy/no contact if I texted. Gave out their numbers normally and never raised the issue yet its like the big elephant in the room because he’s there(profile pic,fb, insta or she mentioned once and after awhile she is still kind of open to game/doesnt ignore me) and Im unsure is she really going to hangout or whats the deal of this?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:36 PM
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Not really, people confess to "end things".
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 10:51 AM
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Whats a 10 in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:18 PM
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Nothing, they just noticed you looking at them. Thats it.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:09 PM
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Maybe he used porn as a sub in the meantime/ yeah its hard not finding opportunities to not fuck, i mean its sexual energy it just flows and body language shows it, the body will scream for sex, it will show its intentions and it will be unconscious, more than 6 months is way too much for a first time gf. Somethings not right, thats my point. Or she used him for cuddles only. Or they are below 18, or they are freshly 18 right now.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 04:52 PM
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But how?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 04:33 PM
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Put the guy in the same position, virgin and seeing a hot chick with big boobs and he’s going for it. No he won’t wait as well. If anything its AHALT.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 04:31 PM
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I’m not sure what you are about but its not about that, what I meant was, did he do the pursuing and pushed through her defences or not?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 02:46 PM
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Vasya, I mean what could he have done, he respected her because she was young and he didn't want to pressurize her as it would have seemed needy so he let it be. Ofcourse being sexless in a relationship is sad. But some girls do say not now, etc later, and they stall him. We know the strategy but the guy was like a sniper, waiting for his time. The girl of course didn't want to sleep with him, like she wasn't into him sexually, but was practicing on a dummy, doing all the BF/GF moves without sex…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:19 PM
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If you lived in the age of cowboys and colt revolvers, and you felt horny what did you do? Porn is porn, no matter how its coloured.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:43 AM
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The memes made me choke. Reeks of weakness. Guys Thou shall not engage in memes or any of beta activity.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:38 AM
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Parents have decided to live the lives of their kids, it seems. To control every step to avoid harms way but harm will always find a way. Its “sleeping beauty” story to many kids out there. Parents avoid the dangers but the dangers find its way to its kids.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 06:54 PM
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Nah thats just jerk behaviour. You could be alpha and not go that route. Its like saying if your friend is alpha, he’ll fuck your mom. No, wait actually your mom will spread her legs for him. And sounds by it, you’ll let him do it and excuse it on “well he’s an alpha” !
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 03:40 PM
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But it still can happen.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:01 PM
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Its the typical “girls go for jerks” story.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:29 PM
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I mean he thought the other guy would say to himself “no I wont flirt with his sister, it isn’t right”. “I’ll just ignore her”. That didn’t happen because the guy was just a jerk. Question is, should you stand up to a jerk(he will lose because he’s scrawny) or accept it. Today its a jerk, tomorrow its what, a bunch of gangsters extorting you and your gf/sister jumping into their car willingly whilst they wait for the money and you know whats gonna happen, they will have fun alright. If anything,…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:21 PM
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What could you have done? Fought him the same day he went after your sister? The only thing I see is naivety, thinking that other people won’t stab you in the back because he’s “x”. If anything the whole book about The Prince was about securing yourself so that you won’t be stabbed. In Grappling its the same concept. The “fucking” is a hard concept to follow and could you say that its not up-to you to decide if your sister wanted to have sex. Just like you can’t decide to control your girlfriend…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 01:04 PM
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Yeah because she doesn’t seem like its a big deal getting hit on. The bf fears that they’ll end up together, that guy and his gf. Which can happen.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:11 AM
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Understood, just went off tracks. Happens with everyone.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:22 PM
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So in essence to be better with women, you need to have good grammar and have good verbal skills to communicate well with ladies. Hence we have to read, read literature. Then you’ll be able to make a women wet by talking about Shakespeare. Is that the key? All whilst understanding the fundamentals of the game, the negs, the teases and developing the mood to flirt and to talk. And having a worthwhile life that you could engage in when you’re not actively engaging with women?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:19 PM
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Dude you’re missing my point, Im saying what you are doing is cool but its not game related. Its like talking about maths and you insert a question about how well your programming skills are, or how well you study.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:08 PM
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I agree with what you are saying. Btw I am astounded by one thing, its about boyfriends. On one hand, girls that gave me their numbers that had boyfriends(later found out) ghosted/gave shit tests. On another, if a girl says she has a bf from the get go, should I even try to game her?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:05 PM
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Theres self development and then theres game. Question was about game, I can say Im acing my MCAT but what does it contribute to the discussion? Absolutely zero.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:59 PM
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I don’t disagree but what if you treat it as a shit test? I mean I wouldn’t mind experimenting and trying something unconventional. If you don’t shoot, you dont score and Im glad you tried it with her. Your analogy reminds me of fitzgeralds old money vs new money, and how the women saw you, thats it. A quote from suits “ first impression is last”. I find it funny that girls do this because I mean we get hurt for sure, but this happened to me last summer at uni. I walk up to a girl, say a direct …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:20 AM
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If it was once or twice, I’d understand. Its been with 5 girls now. Wtf lol.
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:53 AM
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And who reached out first ? And was it differences that made it incompatible due to looks ? You preferred other types of men, even though he was attractive.
/r/seduction27/02/19 01:19 AM
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Red, what if you did become a chad in three weeks. Whats the step by step guide then? Let her initiate even then?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 12:18 AM
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If it worked, how did it work? If you don’t mind sharing ofc.
/r/seduction27/02/19 12:10 AM
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What do you mean by you liked him. Was he attractive or just charismatic?
/r/seduction27/02/19 12:10 AM
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Did it work?
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:46 PM
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Yeah so “no comment” to the question ?
/r/seduction26/02/19 09:43 PM
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Or say my place. Lets have some wine?? Would that work?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:19 PM
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I think you are wrong. Patrick is a work of fiction. If you want you need to consider real life people. You can say all the generals/officers have Machiavellian tendencies. But what is it? Define it. Machiavelli wasn’t a manipulator as more of a strategic planner. He planned how to deal with contingencies So what is it then being a machiavellian? Is it about taking charge? Being strategic? How can you be a machiavellian in relationships? Manipulation, where are we going to? What do you want to m…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:17 PM
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I agree what you are saying dude! I mean I think I should try to work as a barista just for the experience but damn even summers are important. Some things could be better spent. The thing is, with summers, its kinda complex because if I either travel to somewhere cool and learn skills, go for camps and seminars on BJJ. Or just classes even. Will I get poon? Who knows, who knows, its more of monk mode once again. Or go work but I won’t be able to travel and see amazing places, but I’ll have my r…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:31 PM
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I respect that but how is this relevant ?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:54 PM
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Say if he got rejected, and the girl starts looking at him, should he approach again or let it go ?
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:53 PM
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How many videos did you watch and which ones did you find the best ?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 12:49 PM
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You can still get a date out of it. Do you mean if she doesnt respond you can still get a date ? how ?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 12:44 PM
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You spent 3 years with her and you have lots of questions but no answers. You both invested in each other, but maybe for her loyalty isn’t as important as for you. Maybe she came from a family with problems. Maybe you want closure ? Who knows, only you know... I think its best to meditate, work with other women and other activities and just let it go.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:29 PM
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Stop being a beta and do it the hard way
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:56 PM
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How so? You’re always going upstream. Too much ghosting/flaking going on, and if you chase, well it wont do you any good too. Is there something that you do, that makes it easier ?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:16 AM
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Arent they harder to game though?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:23 AM
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Nooooooooo
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:11 AM
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Guys. We have a troll. Stay peeled. The guy keeps refusing for any answers we give.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:59 AM
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Who says?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:55 AM
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No I meant go outside and workout. Work on running, cycling. Hit the pullups. You don’t need friends at this moment. Be busy. But you won’t do this because of x reason.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:52 AM
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Mate, you keep asking some questions that are messed up. Seems like this place is toxic for you. The internet is toxic for you. Unplug yourself from the net. Go outside and enjoy life. If you are young, and less than 18, you are still going through puberty. Let nature do its work. Lifting is a word thrown here a lot. No one asks why do we lift ? Well we lift because its healthy. We stick to a healthy lifestyle. Everyone one of us lift not because of women, but because we care about health. Our h…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:41 AM
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Do it, I mean theres always pros and cons. Like it may be too amateurish, a waste of time, you might be cut from the selection, the modeling agency will definitely not be those of NY/LA level, then theres the masculinity factor, what type of photos do they want from you etc(clothed/unclothed) etc. In the meantime, self develop yourself the correct, orthodox and manly way. Do Mma, workout, read books, game, study, etc. The usual ya know.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 10:31 PM
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Do it for the experience but treat it with a grain of salt. Or don’t waste your time if its not your cup of tea!
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:07 PM
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I mean we all go through puberty so, at 130 your body was still developing. At 140, you feel strong and lean, your abs are showing, theres strength but you still lean like a swimmer and at 150 its better. How long did it take you to get to 150 ?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:05 PM
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Even with approaching you want that. You don’t want to be that guy who is romantic, drop those notions not because they are bad, but because you want to buy her attraction with romance, which is nice guy behaviour. Say you passed her minimum requirements of attraction, you can increase it by being confident and non pleasing, and just by being a good person that she can share her vibes with. Right?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:32 PM
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How to not give boyfriend behaviour when approaching... can I look up any examples/field reports where this is shown, apart from not buying her anything? Asking questions? Giving her information? Too many stories ?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:57 PM
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Of course I would, its proper manners and etiquette. Its not like the bus is mine for fucks sake. Relax man!
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:38 AM
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Yeah troll post. The guy has all the answers and he still acts as if theres some magic pill out there in the universe. He doesn’t lift. He doesn’t eat. He doesn’t listen. He doesn’t read.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:35 AM
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Ok. Idgaf. My point was that before, in tribes, there were consequences of approaching. Now there aren’t many. Stop being stupid and do something productive.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:20 AM
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-Immense respect for approaching. Remember that story where if a guy talks to a girl in a tribe, he’ll get beaten because shes already taken blah blah ? Yeah same thing. If someone gives you shit, just say “who cares”. Amused mastery. Aa. Ignore. Move on.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:40 PM
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Hi. The opener does not matter. Standard game 101. Read about game.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:37 PM
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But to be honest 190lbs for 5”6 you are overweight. Lose 50 lbs.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:23 PM
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Its not that being an asian is bad to white girls but its about confidence and how comfortable are you. Right now, you aren’t in a good mental state hence I said its hard for you to game them. You have to be relaxed!!!!!!!
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:08 PM
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With your current height, If you game asian chicks, you will be slaying. If you decide to go for whites/blacks it might be like entering a modelling casting.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:04 PM
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No, you missed my point and on a completely different tangent. My point is work towards your goal. You must. But don’t let the regret, or lack of success make you feel desperate. And when you gain your goal, stay humble.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:11 PM
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I would reframe it other way, its not about abundance but just self respect. Just like money, you have money, its cool. You don’t have money, its still cool, it shouldn’t make you less of a man or anything. Same thing with girls.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:21 PM
1

Beta/alpha is not that simple. Especially in manipulation, when driving, when with women. If beta and alpha existed in war, no one would fight. Because the alpha would want to win, but the beta would run away. Its dealing with ambiguity and winning by guile that matters.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 06:35 PM
2

https://youtu.be/m5WJJVSE_BE Legend has it, only the strong may apply.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 08:45 PM
1

Yeah but you’re forgetting the time. Short hair was pretty much cool at that time, and girls did it to be more trendy at that time. Btw extremely long hair also has some issues no?
/r/askTRP15/02/19 04:47 PM
8

Those countries are not EE for a start. It depends where you are from.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:25 PM
2

Well if you want her to be “virgin-less” just do the usual stuff. Are you afraid of clinginess ?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:26 PM
2

She has a bf who treats her bad and wants beta orbiters.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:55 PM
6

How many times have you met the virgin girl?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:03 PM
1

Yeah
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:50 PM
1

But what if she thinks its alcoholic drinks? Solid drinks sound alcoholic, no? Im thinking of a meet up area, should it be near a cafe that I wont go to, Would then this work: hey there x. Lets meet at cafe(not wanting to go in, just as a local meet up point). Theres a place I know with some solid drinks, think you can handle it ?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:46 PM
1

Then should I say, I want to show you this place where they have some solid hot drinks ? Or is that too date/formal-ish ?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:39 PM
1

Its not complicated but I just don’t want to feel superficial. Not that your text is bad, its good, its just I want to see the mistake/bad step I did when composing my text. would me saying, “its a cool place” a bad move?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:28 PM
2

why not hold hands ? isn't that kino ?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:28 PM
1

So quick update, I wanted to send a text but I bumped into that chick in real life. We talked a bit and she said shes free. Now question, I said I’ll send you a text with the details but I don’t know what to send now, like how should I approach this text now ? Should I say hey there x, so lets make it at local meeting point at x noon. I want to show you a nice coffee place ?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:31 PM
1

Gotcha, that seems more laidback.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:29 PM
1

Thats a good one.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:28 PM
1

So I got confused reading your post. I mean I have no idea where to meet her and not sure at what time, probably afternoon. I’ll guess my plan is, meet-up at some place and should I stay there or just say so lets go as i Promised, take a car and hit it off somewhere nice. Or too complex/high investment? I mean I can meet at a local coffee shop but dang its just full of students studying with laptops so its not ideal, worse its very lame.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:11 PM
2

Think of it in this way: Something to push them away, something to pull them closer. So like you can say Hug. Pull. Thats enough for now. Push.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 06:44 PM
1

Im kind of debating where to meet. I mean I can say the uni coffee shop but its kinda so so.. Its kinda shit in a way but shows lack of investment on my part that I don’t care where I invite people. Its also gets pretty crowded and noisy, . I thought of going for a park but a legit nice park with normal good grass, lack of bums and cafes in the park, not the ghetto low investment ones. And Im not sure if I can say lets go to town is the best choice? 20min drive ? Would she be up for it ? Any ide…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 06:04 PM
1

Probably not in that area but what do you mean by a hobbit? Huge clothes on frame ?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:00 AM
1

Encouraging. I'll work on it. Keep going, think long term. Give yourself chances. I am pissed though because I know I am underachieving. Thanks!
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:07 PM
1

“I mean you can still approach. But you’ll suck so theres no outcome that you should strive for. If it happens, it happens but very unlikely.” Another way to ngaf I guess ? Maybe its stress that is causing me to be this bad, like stress mutes your motivations and makes you their bitch... can you push and do well with approach even if you have a bad mood/stress?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:40 PM
1

Try 3 but have no expectations...
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:40 PM
2

Any library approaches ?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:38 PM
14

When she said "nice to meet you btw" What did you do from that point onwards ? Good FR.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 10:30 PM
2

It comes down to the person and how he was raised. The question is very broad and requires so much to talk about that it would fit for quora better than here but I think it comes down to; Pride. Reputation. Humility. Fidelity. Fortitude. Discipline. The thing is you can't change the world but you can change yourself. Be a leader. It's also about money. Think about it. Even to get drunk you have to pay, and the owner gets your hard earned money. Your money that you sweated day and night flipping …
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:35 PM
-3

How did you decide you were ready to kiss the girl especially if you didn't get to have chemistry because the dude kept making the social tension hard ?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/19 03:10 PM
1

Good, but its finding the WHY thats also hard.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:25 PM
3

Its not that, this idea that a girl is a whore is quite extreme. Because everyone that is healthy after the age of 18 has sex, all the chads and stacy's. It's pointless saying she's a whore, unless she acts like a whore. Even Julien from RSD said that x20 experiences with boyfriends is ok, 100 is quite a lot for the girl. So you start being judgmental and you start looking low confident the minute it gets into your head. The minute a girl is in an LTR, they stop thinking of all the dudes they ha…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:01 PM
1

Where did you meet her ?
/r/askTRP22/01/19 05:57 PM
1

When boys grow up with single moms/half orphan then they would be supplemented by lots of love, womanly love. Thats a thing that you can't control when you grew up, now womanly love isn't bad but you need to develop into yourself, and lead into a path that you want and not that is given to you. Remember respect is not given but earned, same principle to life. If you accept everything that you are given, then you start losing your identity, your purpose. Now, this is what you can do. Start small.…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 11:17 AM
3

You maintain higher Smv by not asking a woman out. Do you even read any books that are recommended here bruh?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:56 PM
1

Could you please link it ?
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:56 PM
1

Vandaalen has a point, read it.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:43 PM
29

Yeah I get that its dangerous being with one, but I mean my heart goes out to those who have BPD. Not everyone is strong enough to fight on in their internal battles. Its like they have a constant fog infront of their eyes. And people with BPD push through, do treatments and then suddenly commit suicide leaving everyone heartbroken. I don't want to justify erratic behavior just because they have BPD but it wrecks when a person who is trying to make it in life for the better, suddenly give up. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 12:48 AM
1

You sure it wasnt bot ?
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:41 PM
4

Women who recognise their mistakes can easily move forward and reach new beginnings. Actually humans who recognise their mistakes are better than humans who keep doing the same wrong things. Its just about moving forward even if it means writing an article for the whole world to see.. Jocko says “ Leaders must own everything in their worle. There is no one else to blame”.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:12 AM
2

Bio, too short no?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:07 PM
1

No mr nice guy ? Have a read !!
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:38 PM
3

Depends on genes and age. The older, the more it shows. Body fat too. Some have it more defined than others even among people.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:22 PM
1

The military especially the guys that are always hunting outside the base are alpha, alpha in the sense that they never quit, team players, not all again, but same mindset. But other than that, it sucks. Added to that, paperwork and admin work, it's definitely not for everyone. Thats why you need to be super motivated to join. Then again, nothing in life is super cool too. Plus like everywhere, the cool people get to get cool shit if they do the prep work during civilian life i.e No one wants to…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:06 PM
6

There are always people that are lazy. I disagree with serving just to lift, because since redpill is about upgrading yourself, you should always consider upgrading your career from a pawn to a queen or a bishop and not get stuck. Update your career qualifications like iOS, don't get stuck behind. I know surgeons who deadlift just as good as military members. BJJ'ers too.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:52 PM
1

"Think of the consequences, before doing something." "Measure seven times, cut once."
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 09:48 PM
2

Name checks out
/r/askTRP09/12/18 09:44 PM
1

Nah, you good. If he stood silently, everyone could mock him so now if someone mocks him(bf buddies), which I doubt it, he’ll just punch them, but they wont. Why? He takes matters fast, fight happens, and suspension again. The buddies dont want to be fucked with suspension so they’ll keep their mouths shut if they are smart. Bro got a rep as a fighter and here you have it, no more mr nice guy aka non beta. Look, who remembers these fights except the ones who fight ? I bet most people just carry …
/r/askTRP09/12/18 01:47 AM
2

Have no outcome. If he wins, good. If not, good. Time to get training and get better. And yeah, sister was laughing. Like since when do males, especially future alpha males pay attention to how women react to him. If a girl laughs, let her laugh. No harm there. His armor is his frame. Let the whole school go mad, he be calm as an ice man. Size of the heart is more important. Don’t start a fight you cant win. Well first of all, we heard it alot, its the safe side. But when the stakes are high, wh…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:10 AM
1

You guys are living all under the same roof. Its like dorms again. Just chill. As long as your room is fine, who cares. Go out early morning and come late in the evening. Dont even talk to her about house stuff. Let it roll. You can, show that they’re pigs(in a calm way) and ask her boyfriend to clean up since he is a man(but he isnt responsible or a dreamer whatever) and all men in the house have to help support the house. But what’s there to gain from it ? They will flag your response but hey …
/r/askTRP08/12/18 07:55 PM
1

Lol because some stuff is about dominance and its like politics. You think the other guy would have had it easier if he hanged with a girl whos brother was a quarterback or a wrestler ? Not everyone should swallow it, especially since the brother is older. Especially that they are in the same social setting. If she was older than 18; than its different, if younger, Idk he did good. Being a man 102.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 07:32 PM
1

Yeah you would, ofcourse you would. Maybe OP isnt a seasoned fighter as you are, now he knows though.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:41 PM
5

No because you want to have a healthy conscience and peacefully sleep at night. Its sticking your dick in crazy. Its mindfuck, I mean you can go limp when in sex thinking about it. So no, go for healthy women.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:34 PM
1

Yeah, sure its none of my business. Let me put some headphones on as well to muffle the sound.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:28 PM
1

So if you invited me to a party, and i bang your sister you would high five me ?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:27 PM
1

Idk man, he did a good thing...
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:01 PM
1

Slap the shit out of him if he touches you again. Use legs and give him punches on his face. A few times so he needs to get his senses right.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:46 PM
2

Do bodyweights exercises. You are changing from now on. Eat.alot. Do you have a pullup bar? Reach for 10 pullups from now on. Work on bodyweight stuff. Just be unfazed and maintain frame.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:34 PM
1

Wait, So if we are not close friends and you invited me to your party, and I fuck your sister, would you high five me afterwards?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:21 PM
3

Its not about your sister anymore, its about disrespect, and he got a punch. Now go lift, train and don’t let anyone disrespect you again. Its about you standing for shit that you don’t swallow. Anyone who does bjj/boxing does not allow any shit to swallow. Fuck everyone but you stood up, fuck the suspension, treat it as a vacation to start lifting. Don’t stress it.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:11 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:19 PM
1

Beat the shit out of him. Or accept being beta. Let him run your family now.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:23 PM
1

Why game girls that you know are taken? Most of the time you will be rejected. But you seem invested too much. Talk to more chicks.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:02 PM
1

Yeah but some girls are literally better than average. Its just a mental thing " does she even consider my smv " ?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:33 AM
0

You gain little weight because you burn those calories into building muscles straight away. Like, say you eat some food. You go lift and in those two hours, the cals that you just ate are used up in those three hours, and because of the amount of energy you spend its also using up your stored protein. Like newb gains, you should be gaining 1kg per month. So if you trained that much, you should be 72 now. Which is alright. I read somewhere its ideal that you are height(cm) - 100 = proportional we…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:59 PM
3

Look, its not easy. Lifting isn't easy but heres what I understood. You take breaks because its tough for you, so maybe you lift too heavy for your strength levels or idk maybe you take long breaks. My advice would be is to train with someone or someone trains you, that way you won't rest more than you really need to. How many exercises and sets are you doing ? Should be 4-5 average exercises. Or just do crossfit. Good stuff if you need to do it under an hour.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:43 PM
1

If strangers in the street told me what i can do, and what not to do i'll tell them its none of their business. They aren't family and you shouldn't care about their opinion so take it with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:37 PM
1

lets hope you won't stop.
/r/seduction02/12/18 07:11 PM
1

Dumbbells : use plates to stretch shoulders, and shit like that. Concept: push/pull/legs/basically do bicep, tricep, shoulders ohp, rows, lunges, hammer curls, pullup with weighted dumbbells, farmer carries, squat with two DB max them out ( more endurance ) Resistance: stretches/good mornings/pulldowns/for power basically as well. Ab roller: well its an ab roller. -no benefits: deadlifts, no squats but fuck it. Its better than nothing at all. Dummbell with jump squat jumps will make your legs fr…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:12 PM
1

If its serious, you better be asking coaches whats gonna happen if you add weight and ask in rowing forums. But take swimmers as an example. They did both, lean, but with mass thats proportional. If you want to reach 170 as a minimum, then don't bulk, just add slowly pure muscle. Hit the weights, proper diet, avoid lots of cals like 3k to 5k. Just keep it at 2-2.5k and hustle.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:04 PM
1

Understood. I mean, withdrawing attention can appear as ghosting/butthurt to some/jealous but if you feel like it, who cares what the girl thinks. If you left her at that moment, and didnt reply to her calls a few days later, what would it mean? Its over? Or just dread ?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:46 AM
1

Fair enough. Nothing to prove. No, yeah fighting is stupid, especially for that chick. I mean, you could have just ruined it for her, like why should a girl be having fun in front of you. In her personal time, let her do whatever she wants, but when shes with you, you dominate every minute ? Or is this unhealthy and unrealistic ?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:18 PM
1

Roger. Got your point.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:40 PM
1

So im confused, in redpill we talk about dominance right ? So dominance in all structures ( family, career, colleagues, gf, so why not fuckbuddies ? ) She knew that you could have messed it up for her. She felt in the gut. Question, what would have happened if you messed it up for her ? Who would be the winner here ? You or her ? Isn't red pill about dominance, so if you messed it up for her, you would have been more dominant. What if it was a test to see if cared ( he's emotional and weak, terr…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:54 PM
1

So walk me through it, So you get asked a question. Its best not to pause right, but straight away flip it (you ask her the question and insert medium tease. Finish with Big tease.)
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:28 PM
1

Social Societies man. Just join a bunch, and check them out. Newspaper or art/humanities societies. Gym. Frat? Why didn't you join first year ? Clubs sports rowing and shit like that. Swimming too? Powerlifting club? Wrestling and martial arts. Yoga? Boxing? Major related societies are either dead or very into it. Or just be a free flow and do your thing. Both works. I know, its not that simple. If you do 1, its good enough. Thing is most people find friends by having same majors, and the bigger…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:22 PM
1

But this is night game right ? Not day game/small talk ?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:47 PM
1

Help him then. What have you got to lose ?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:10 PM
1

So is lifting. So is leading a healthy relationship dynamic. Why doesnt he search this stuff? Why doesn't he search this and that? Because he doesn't care. If you keep bugging him, he'll probably put you on silent and wont reply to your messages. Don't be needy.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:56 PM
1

Seems like he isn't a newbie as much as you think if he manages to get into a relationship. He knows what to do.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:52 PM
3

If hes not willing, maybe he doesnt want you to be his mentor/fitness buddy.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:41 PM
1

i meant this chick ( the one you met her at a party and met her a few days later) did she play hard ? Or was she chill from the start ?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:13 PM
1

But what about this chick, would you consider her an easy one or did she play hard even though she met you a few days after ?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:41 PM
1

Smooth. On a side note, do you have success with flaky girls ?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:49 AM
1

How though?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:34 PM
0

Why not tease her? "Hahaha look who got stuck in the house... " Sometimes we try to be alpha that we over do it.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:21 PM
1

How did you pick her up lol ?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:15 PM
1

Yeah if you have these thoughts its best not to enter a relation, do monk mode. I would work on meditation and seek help if you feel all methods are failing. Have self control and dont hit kids nor women. Not that you are hitting them, just dont entertain those thoughts. If a kid says you are a fucking donkey and you are a pile of dogshit, would you smash that kids face? Women are similar to kids. Respect the weak and women.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:27 AM
1

Meditate. Acknowledge but don't do anything with these thoughts. There are many women out there, that one day, you'll laugh at this one that you liked her so much. Like its just like liking your hometown and when you visit nyc, you're like fuck i definitely love nyc and not my town. Same thing here. And of course the usual self improvement stuff.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:52 PM
2

I say keep it simple. Sometimes we talk shit, that not only a stupid girl doesnt understand, even men don't understand. Keep it on her. Ask her hows shes doing, her plans, her life ambitions, how shes gonna rule wall street by the time she graduates or , all in a playful mode. Ask her if shes learning muay thai to kick the ass of her lil brother. Just tease, it doesnt have to be perfect. Its not easy to remember that, heck, even I have trouble with teasing but it works to ease up on the tension.…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:34 PM
1

Hungry looking basically in a way.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:06 PM
2

Depends on how you use it.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:22 AM
2

Exactly. Its a hard route, but theres a reason, as long as you calculate the macros, you can skip the supplements too. But many people order ready prep food. With 100-200 grams of macro depending on the goal. Anyways to sum it up, its just faster to lose/gain weight. Without adding crap.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:31 AM
2

Theres genetics, just because one guy can do it doesn't mean its right. Plus, its about efficiency, getting to your goal faster. I dont check my macros but there are benefits.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:44 PM
1

You quit because you want too. Stop being scared of the future genetration, you do you, Block sites and just block wifi when you dont need it. Apart from that, just keep your studying short and sweet. Pomodoro. Short but high intervals. Its not even redpill, its "self help" and "self development" and "time management" mate.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:42 PM
1

Lifting has many benefits, apart from clearing your head, and making you focus on the little things, "that last set, that rep". Lifting can also be applied to different areas of life, for example. You want to lift a girl, lift your grandmother, your mother, grip your little brother so he doesn't run away, gripping your monster dog, you name it. All of this pull-ups, deadlifts and other WL stuff help you successfully manage it. But theres literally more benefits of lifting than what I listed. But…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:37 PM
1

Turbulent but progressive.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:29 PM
1

Thats right, punching is necessary but you have to be smart with it. I say, punch him when he really didn't get the message. When you tried explaining it to him that you dont want him, etc then if he still persists then the fighting comes into play. But usually you can deescalate the situation, especially if he feels its not worth it.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:18 PM
2

Yeah should be fine. Don't fight him unless he touches you. Why? Because you can always say, I was acting in self defence when summoned. If you punch him, you'll be the bully in the eyes of school teachers etc. You'll get suspended not him. You get my point. Play it smart, play it safe. Not worth getting into serious trouble and letting it stick in the school records since good colleges hate that shit. Bad mouth him if you feel you're up for it.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:13 PM
1

On point.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:34 PM
-1

Sounds all good until he brings in a gang. Op dont do it. Either tell him I want to fight you, and he'll melt in 5 seconds from being challenged or he'll say yes, and then he will respect you because you stood up for yourself. If its a crazy school, or you know he fights with weapons idk, it depends. Question is, are you big too?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:32 PM
1

What about comfort? Wouldnt it be weird for her if a guy texts her straight away to meet up instead of building some comfort ? I guesss its dgaf.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:58 PM
0

Yeah, Im not going to text today. Might tmw or after a couple of days. Ideally should wait a reply from her.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:35 PM
1

Ok, you like tall girls. Thats fun. Whats the issue?
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:33 PM
1

Why would you fuck your ex? Thats against redpill.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:28 PM
5

Your mindset should be that all girls are short unless they are = to your height.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:24 PM
1

How did BJJ screw your ear ? What did your partner do to you?
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:18 PM
3

Looks matter in terms of hygiene and grooming. Looks matter in terms of being strong and confident.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:09 PM
1

But what iois did the brunette give ? And you mentioned that he was just doing what a normal dude would do, so that the problem ?
/r/seduction04/11/18 07:23 PM
2

Look, do you want to join competitions? -What are your goals ? In wrestling. -Do you want to get a wrestling scholarship for uni and play it in uni? -How good is your coach?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:32 PM
0

You seem disillusioned mate. Wrestling is deeper than that. Its a journey, and if you don't like it, no point in doing it. And if you force yourself to do it, just because of discipline, you'll learn slower, you'll engage less in the training and your training phase will be shorter than someone who actually loves it. Trp is about making your life better, and how are you making your life better if you are doing something that you hate? If i hate playing the piano should I learn the piano to build…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:23 PM
3

You don't get it. You know theres a thing when you want something, you love it but you aren't committed, then yes discipline is good. But if you don't want it, why spend the energy on it... Will he do it when he will be 30-60? Will he be able to share his experiences with the younger generation? No. All the famous greco wrestlers loved what they did, they forced themselves to work hard, but they loved it. Every minute of it. No one sticks around if they don't like it.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:52 PM
1

I want to ask, approaching in the library, how flexible are you?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:40 PM
1

If you don't like it don't do it. I think you are wrong too, it doesn't get the girls too. Do what you like and dont half ass it.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:38 PM
1

But as a guy, you cant really ask her that because she might lie.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:15 PM
0

Explain gaylubes point or just dont talk.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:44 AM
1

Lol. My conclusion is that either way shes buying time and wants to leave him. The question is, when.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:55 PM
4

Is that a yes or no? I dont get your point...
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:47 PM
4

Is there a problem?
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:45 PM
6

I really dont understand your point, are you saying photos are used as hints what is happening to the relationship. If she cares, she has them, if not, she deletes them? I would add its not just to show shes single, but that shes not invested in him. But what if someone forced her to delete them? Even then, she could have said fuck you dad , Im not going to delete them, hes my bf. Now back to the situation: Look, heres the thing. The gut says next. Her actions just scream for it. But... She can …
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:25 PM
0

Just say around 25 and above.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 08:37 PM
3

Textbook scenario; You: Is my girlfriend joseph stalin because she sure acting like it. I understood your message. Her: huh? You: Oh you indicated we are single. I wasnt holding you. Her: reason 1: Oh I just like privacy ...or reason 2: I was just stressed... 3; Or creeps look at our pictures You: Uhhmm....how would you deal the situation then?
/r/askTRP01/11/18 08:34 PM
1

Like which words ?
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:55 PM
1

You are right too. I just have to not jump things even though I do. Life isnt a movie, theres no script or algorithm so I just try and not get salty about rejection. Take it as a normal everyday thing. Demolish the concept of being afraid of rejection. I am worried though about calibrating (approaching chicks coldly and just asking them for a number) vs talking and then going for the number close. I also am worried that somehow I tend to meet those chicks that I find hot, at the least comfortabl…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:05 PM
1

To be as simple as possible, during my free time I recover from "classes" and the content that I study which is just reading books, surfing and listening to music, thinking, overthinking, stressing. I try to find time to study, but its in small time increments (15-25mins) in blocks. i.e Pomodoro. Basically not thinking about my major etc. But how can I approach a chick if I don't feel anything for her? Like I see she's hot but I'm uncertain if I am a man that she likes since there was a video th…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:33 PM
1

But how can you build confidence within yourself ? (its just my brain is giving me so much shit) sometimes I think I'll grow grey before 30 and now I am on nofap but I get even way more anxiety when on nofap these days. But its better obviously than when on porn. Different cravings and different problems rise up. Its just my personal problems are so concrete that it's not easy to be easy going and chill as fuck, because during class I get "beat down" of the content just like in a wrestling mat. …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:36 PM
1

Yes to the second part obviously. Like to be more specific, I was just standing in a local supermarket, I looked ahead who's infront of me, a girl turns around, we meet eyes, she was decent looking but I didn't feel like "I have to drop everything and talk to her right this instant just for the fun of it" if you know what I'm saying. I hope you do. But in retrospect, it would have helped my anxiety talking to strangers I guess.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:27 PM
1

Did you read his books? 1)The character shares similarities with the writer ( source: wiki) so for the writer, he wanted the character to be similar, just his personal interest. Just as a nigerian writer would prefer to pick a nigerian character than writing a book about a chinese dude.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:04 PM
1

Its not about Bond being white, its about Bond (movie actor) being true to the character Ian Fleming described in his novels.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:52 PM
1

Open as you used tinder whilst with her?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:50 PM
1

So Lets say in terms of headshot it should be from the chest and upwards, and then you crop it, till you get a square box) I also think the background has to be nice, right ? What about 35mm on 18-55 ? The photos turn nice too right ? Btw did you take any photography courses ?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:36 PM
0

Whats the aim of this post?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:30 PM
2

But he did manage to give her the tingles. Or she was just shit testing him with the ljbf part and he passed it?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:33 PM
1

Do you like headshots with the 50mm or up to the waist photos with the 50mm more ?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:30 PM
1

You know this is really well said. You just have to do it, approaching her whilst shes alone is more comforting but in reality, her friends wont even give a fuck. So it needs to be done either way.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:11 AM
1

So what do you say when you're grocery shopping ?
/r/seduction25/10/18 06:30 PM
1

Yes, its depressing that some had a nice life and reaped the benefits earlier on in life, whilst you have to still prove that you don't want to be a nobody.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 06:02 PM
2

The redpill depresses you because its just like having a business. Someone became a multimillionaire but you are still poor. Take that analogy to women, some get all the pussy, some have trouble with getting one. Obviously, the shortest answer is that the dudes that got it all, were more involved in proving themselves and just enjoy being in the discomfort zone but ... The dudes that are still having a hard time, is because there are issues that they can't deal in a night and yet they want the e…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 06:00 PM
1

Im not even going to talk about smv here. If you do BJJ, and enjoy it, you'll get lots of opportunities and a brotherhood. Wrestling, sambo and bjj all provide a good bonding time. But the club has to be legit. Also by the time you are 18, you'll either have a blue or purple belt and can participate in competitions and actually enjoy them. Smv has nothing to do with BJJ, but BJJ will make you humble and not cocky. But the coaches have to be good. You'll also try to avoid having a bad lifestyle a…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:31 PM
2

Go for A&M. They have a better department then dallas.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:27 AM
2

Thats so fucking lame. Lots of fucking words. Writing a fucking essay here. Just approach. Done.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 10:36 PM
1

Its called shifting. He is done with the army. Its just paperwork.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:16 PM
1

Doesnt matter tbh. Could be a variety of personal reasons.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:01 PM
2

Time to give redpill a break and just enjoy life, my friend.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 12:15 PM
2

Dude. Do what you like, you will never be rich, if business is your thing, cool, if not, fuck it. Do something that you want to really work hard at. Go swim. Bike. Skate. You know it. No social circle. Yeah I know, its tough. Smart small, do something you like, in the meantime, search for the circle. Cant find the social circle you want, fine go to other social circles. In your case, Social circles is defined as sport classes. You just want to work out in a class. Yoga/dancing/whatever. Don't ma…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:57 AM
1

You watch way too much porn, kid.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 04:18 PM
1

What type of business?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 01:02 AM
0

Not sure if serious Or troll Or just autistic Or doesnt know technology. Open the app. Go on asktrp. Hit the three circular buttons. Go to community info. Teen, you're welcome.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:13 PM
5

Dont, dont be fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:11 PM
1

Idk maybe you were the first dude that said it, I mean who gets shocked by worms ? Sure they're ugly but i mean worms are Harmless. (For my mind, personally, other stuff shock me, but not worms)So yeah in this case, I wouldn't say its high attractiveness. Maybe emotionally she was like "shit, shouldn't have shown this video". What happened by the way, did u get her number ?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:42 PM
1

Depends on the context. Come on dude.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:10 PM
1

What the fuck am i reading
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:28 PM
1

This guy fucks.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:26 PM
1

True...
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:24 PM
1

Good stuff, but what can you talk about ? About life ? Is there something more intimate ?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:15 PM
1

How so? Dont women understand men?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:47 PM
3

Exactly. Or in other words, the love of her life.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 01:24 PM
3

No because alpha widowed is just a fancy term. It literally means that a dude and a girl had chemistry, and after they broke up; she cant find another man that is a "man". Case closed.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:33 AM
1

Word.
/r/seduction09/10/18 11:09 PM
5

Same with girls that do martial arts or swimming or any competitive sport. Or bodybuilding.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 10:06 PM
5

This is one of the many moments that makes this sub great.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:18 PM
3

How do the guys that do this crap say it ? Or they dont ? They just come and fuck things up?
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:08 PM
1

Wdu mean by a set of 6-8 performed at almost RM ?
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:13 PM
1

Also, not as simple as you think, some things motivate or demotivate people. Leaving the comfort zone is relative from one person to another.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:09 PM
1

You cant say: Hey katie, you changed! (P.s for the worse but I still want to chat with you. ) Idk why raise the issue if she doesn't raise it up with you... Again the best answer is " it depends". Whats the motive? You'll probably wont make her run to the gym not now, not in a decade with any comment about weight. You can take a proactive approach and lead and say how sports is good etc but thats the limit. Right ?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 09:07 PM
2

Thats autistic.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:57 PM
2

Yeah I get what you mean, alcohol or depression and the person adds a few kgs... Idk I wouldnt jump the gun, give it time.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:41 PM
0

If you dont like it, dont do it. Bro, who are you kiddin?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:35 PM
2

If you could write how to do it step by step that would be helpful... Thanks
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:33 PM
1

Can you give an example ?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:21 PM
1

No. probably, you are over reacting, no one gives a fuck tbh, its not something special having muscles.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:05 PM
2

Idk, I meant that some dudes stay blue pilled fully for the whole time and will always be BP. Now obviously if you can make yourself BP and RP without all the bad qualities(not needy; free, etc etc), them you are golden.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:51 PM
2

Yeah I noticed, the thing is RP should be treated like a sacred place. It should be a community where dudes find hard answers. Most answers on game are already answered if guys know how to search. Sure, it helps for real life to ask here questions to show that we are on the right path and not behaving like beta males but tbh I see redpill is important as self defense because the bad guys ( the betas who are manipulators) will always spin webs. Yet there are good guys who need a push, a mental pu…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:23 PM
1

In other words, trp is made for the other dude that cheated on this OP gf and trp is not for OP. Its amoral, and it should be like that. No need to change that.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:02 PM
6

That is true.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:22 PM
13

How in the fuck are those movies redpill? Testosterone action packed. Yes. But not redpill.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:42 PM
1

Start by recollecting If you had any hobbies or dreams before redpill, something that makes you happy.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:14 PM
1

How to motivate yourself ? Easy, build yourself that you feel makes you more manly and happier. And keep remembering that these things are what makes you happy, the more you do it, the happier you'll be.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:28 PM
1

I would say sometimes trust yourself and stop chasing after it. Give some time to rebuild yourself ( not monk) but try living without any serious hamstering. Enjoy life when you are outdoors, do shit that makes you happy. Inner happiness is most important, without it, it's not easy to go into "women territory".
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:26 PM
1

Have you tried stopping to lift and just do some outdoor stuff ? I mean; maybe mentally you are in a plateau. 485 is alot. Whats ur weight man?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:07 PM
1

I like this quote at the end. Inspiring
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:03 PM
1

Gotcha so k close is nothing bad, its normal then? Kiss her by the end of the first date, if shes not ugly and you want to know her, thats a must right ?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:02 PM
1

What about the peck on the cheek? What does it mean ?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:48 PM
1

That got awkward for abit lol
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:07 AM
1

True words
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:47 PM
1

Word
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:56 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:59 PM
1

What about obsessions ? Even though they are harmful, the people justify that it is normal and its ok to have obsessions and act upon them ? thats hamstering too right ?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:51 PM
1

But I was reading dale carnegie book how to win friends... and the first thing he wrote was that we all do something and we rationalise it to ourselves. I.e all the gangsters did something, but they rationalised that they did something good. Are our actions dictated by our hamster ?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:46 PM
1

If I got kicked, I would give it another shot because long term its gonna not be easy. Just try to start from year 0 and try to fix your mistakes. Own your mistakes, and say you'll repeat the year with his or without his help. Thats just responsibility, man.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 12:35 PM
1

Smart. But thats for later meetups no? Can you go for a hug the same moment after meeting that chick?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 12:10 PM
1

What combat sport ?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:20 AM
1

How ? Like hey my name is kabuki and you go straight for the hug ?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:53 AM
2

What actions warrants that makes a girl think a guy is a cuck?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:31 PM
4

What have you been doing with her lately? Jk I think if she flirts, gives iois and you guys been talking about stuff, probably she likes you. So yes, at the moment it sounded weird but yeah if you put 1+1, sounds like you got the right message. The real question is, is she hot ?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 02:46 PM
7

Inviting a guy shows that he is a cuck ( OP) ?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:02 PM
1

Is she chubby ? Jeez its just italians are super sexual and her being a virgin till 25 sounds a red flag no?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:51 PM
1

You don't fight. Don't be stupid.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:16 PM
1

Very very serious stuff you had in your life. Do you think your ex loves you if she gave you the scar? Was she one of these crazy types ?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:45 PM
1

Still aint easy.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:39 PM
1

What does strawberry fields forever mean?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:37 PM
1

This post smells hypothetical and this question is all hypothetical bs but why would you be afraid of a beta? I would be cautious of alphas more.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:36 PM
1

Lol idk why women do that !
/r/askTRP29/06/18 01:56 PM
1

Fun as in no expectations, just let the water current take you ?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:10 AM
1

I would say its best to stop yourself, sure you like to create a story but its best to be adaptable. Easier when you know the chick too.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:08 AM
1

The thing is social stuff is like any other skill, it first takes time and requires time to master, but you gotta have fun on the way just as with another skill you have. The thing is though, how can you say stuff that are flirty but not cringeworthy? Or flirting as if its your 200th chick ? You read those two books and life changed ?
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:05 PM
1

Yeah, could I read how its used in detail ? Seems like its something new
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:01 PM
1

I'll have a read on those two books. I started to write small blogs everyday. Working on a bit of poetry and rhymes but I still have along way to go. Flirting is possible, but I feels like I make the person cringe when I tease a person, I dont make the person laugh genuinely.
/r/seduction28/06/18 10:35 PM
1

Yeah, it was a post about tinder and one dude commented how he sometimes used openers other than how are you etc...
/r/askTRP28/06/18 10:32 PM
1

Feels bad to say this but I suck at flirting... Any tips on how to start ?
/r/seduction28/06/18 10:00 PM
1

I am reading it, and theres some good stuff. Its hard to accept facts though. But I think being stoic was a thing that well respected people tried to develop, to not show emotions if its hell. Good for some situations but its easy to convert to a passive who accepts all situations and diminishes his aggression.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:50 PM
2

Question: Are you athletic now and do you have a girlfriend rn or are you single ? Furthermore, do you think if you were 150lbs from the get go, you had a chance? I mean you guys talked about some stuff so there was some emotional level going on, but what did you think you did wrong when you started to talk to her again after you lost weight ?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:59 AM
1

Pullups. Pushups. Run by the beach. Go by the beach or something. Real life strength. I mean you can be fancy and do bb, but let b honest, you dont have alot of choices.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:23 PM
2

I like to keep shit simple because its easier to comprehend. -have goals. Go finish them. -dont judge people. You do you.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:07 PM
2

Look, some parents dont tell you to go to the bathroom to shit. You just do it. Same thing here. They assume you want to do -----------because you need to do it.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:04 PM
1

No one is forcing him to put his dick into a pussy. Most virgins need some connection, I mean come on, you know what Im talkking about.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:36 PM
1

Effective. Look theres two subtopics of redpill ( masculine and sexual) or so I like to think of that way, to break it down easier.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:34 PM
1

So much to work on from your post. Reflect and work on the weak spots. And thats fucking good. Just break it down into 2 bits ( body, mind)
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:29 PM
2

Pullups. If you can do one exercise its pullups. WhAtz your goalz anyways ?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:02 PM
1

Jesus dude, If you want to break up with her, just break up. I mean you want to, so...
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:45 PM
1

That dude could've brought her a rolls royce and she would still sleep with you because she liked you. Moral of the story: if a girl likes you, she'll accept you as you are.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:54 PM
1

In what sense ?
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:38 PM
0

Idk, but if a girl hangs out with a weird dude(s) you can't predict that it won't happen.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:26 PM
2

Congrats man! :)
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:08 PM
1

Instead of spewing simple phrases, look at this way. Its the anger phase. No matter what, I'll be pissed. Stoicism is cool, I read it often but its about accepting the problem, if its hardship, its easier, if its emotional pain, its harder to let go. Yes, letting go is the right choice but its hard. Hard when your genes were made to fuck and hunt and not back down. Now, time only heals. Theres no easy answer and no magic pill. Your comment might have been made specifically to belittle me, but I …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:51 PM
1

Not getting into your frame buddy.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:08 PM
1

Dude, hes banging her brains out and she posts his pics on social media. I wanna block them because I find it disgusting. I knew this one dude; he had it all black and white, with some people he was friendly. Some he wouldn't even say hi... If thats not alpha, I don't know what is. Anyways, the concept of stoicism is about accepting defeat no?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:21 PM
2

Its not TRP. Its about how bad you want it out of your life. How important it is for you? You got to reflect why its harming you. And push through it. Get the help needed. If it was easy to get out of it, it wouldn't be a drug. Embrace the hard moments and push through it.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:55 PM
2

Dont be a pussy.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:01 PM
3

What do you lift ?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:20 PM
1

Just tell us, it seemed like it worked ?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 07:52 PM
2

Idk I still think its the inner frame that is everything. Not status.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:24 PM
2

But if they didnt have the strength; they wouldnt have been able to believe in themselves and be part of this tribe ? Surely if those dudes never joined, and were working in the factory, they still would have that inner strength and that vibe, no?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:29 PM
1

Status or inner confidence/mental strength ?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:05 PM
4

What's the difference between these two guys who fuck prostitutes? The latter guy isn't paying to enter Magical Christmas Land. He just wants some hot, easy sex. Its the same with porn. To some, its an easy way to destress, to others, its Magical christmas land.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:20 PM
4

Alot of learning has to take place. Not to brag, Im just as simple as you are dude. We all need to learn. I think the mistakes you did was this, you gamed those chicks. They friendzoned you so you should have known that things will get awkward if you decide to get all gamey. Game chicks that are not friendzoned. Second, focus on building a healthier you with a healthy mind. Not a healthy body with a negative mind, but a healthy mind. Positive thoughts and common sense. Maybe you were trying a bi…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:21 PM
1

Whats your motivations for writing this post ? The key to answer is finding what are you striving for from this post. Do you want them to respect you? Do you want to game more chicks ?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:06 PM
1

Its just with this liberalism and with dudes rocking earrings and with long hair, I feel masculinity is fading. Ironically, masculinity is about making yourself more simpler and not being hot. I have medium hair right now, and everyone says I'll be uglier when head shaved. Man buns are cool, but it gives a vibe. Medium hair gives vibes. Good for women, bad for grappling, bad for masculinity.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:25 PM
1

My only concern is people will either think, Im nuts for doing it, and because Im still lean/bit muscular for my lean size, people will think im in the military, or aspiring, and I hate to show like Im a wannabe. Its not that I dont like shaving my head, its the attraction attention that Im not looking forward, but I want to try it, so im like in the 50-50 zone.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:19 PM
1

I'll tell you what, just now I was super pissed. Like man, I had it in my eyes. Was lifting. Bunch of dudes that lifted more than me started to look me in the eye and laugh. But theres nothing there, I made the story up. They probably laughed on a joke, and then scanned the room because they were bored, because that whats everyone does. At that moment, I was bored too. But they won't stop laughing just because theres eye contact. Get my point ?You start to develop that sense as if someone is lau…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:55 PM
-1

What about the individual woman ? Everyone has one, lets be honest.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:41 PM
7

I disagree, both the "average" male and woman are boring. It depends on how they were raised/moulded/ values/ their parents/ school/what their interests are etc. Thats why most people are average because they do not view themselves as special/as unique/they do not respect themselves. The ones who do, go on and try to do hard shit. Thats either sports/mil/extreme sports. You get my point. When you go drink with guys, most of the topics are the same across the whole bar. But theres always some bre…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:35 PM
1

How old are you? Just detach.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:09 PM
1

Thanks bro, I'll keep remembering this. Mindset is everything. i would say being the "prize" is just another word for having and maintaining self respect at all costs, which I totally agree. Your point is spot on.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 11:27 PM
1

If shes kinda hot but not the woman you want to be with, then what to do ?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:15 PM
4

As if going to the gym isnt work. You cant be natural if you directly or indirectly workout. No one is a natural. Even cowboys indirectly "workout" (by fixing stuff and being in the fields) which helps them to be strong.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:05 PM
1

Yeah I decided to not send anything. Idk, I saw her for a quick minute and talked to her, we go to uni together but yeah, I thought I shouldn't mention it to her. I wasn't expecting for the apple to fall that fast. I would have expected some resistance tbh from her. Edit : maybe it was stupid to not build enough rapport but idk. I wasnt feeling to replying to her that much.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:32 PM
1

Depends where you are, but going into strongman territory is not helpful ( for daily life).
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:29 PM
1

Gotcha. All understood. But did you follow any strength workouts when wrestling or just did what the coach told you ? I bet sparring with those dudes wasnt an easy task for the body.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:28 PM
5

I think you need meditation ! Take a break from this all, fix your mindset. Cold approach is always hard because people are not really DTF as easy than in clubs/bars/tinder. Keep that in mind, don't take it personal.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:20 PM
1

Vandaalen do you do a PL program ( candito / texas ) to help your strength for BJJ?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:08 PM
8

Whats the purpose of asking this question ?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:07 PM
1

Yeah, she sent me a text in the morning. She suggested another place, I was like cool yeah. Anyways, she sent me a text message, asking if i do this approaching to girls, but I didn't respond. Should I have ?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 02:55 PM
1

Yeah I just texted some bullshit, coffee meet, we'll see, I don't want to invest in this before it even starts. Learning the ropes. Thanks bro for your insight and good tips !!
/r/askTRP13/05/18 12:32 AM
1

What if im a sober dude ? Apparently she drinks, I dont. Any way out ? Invite for coffee (she will be in my frame then, i guess) ?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 11:57 PM
0

I do not know much about handsomeness but I think it is a beta trait. Drop that notion. Stay with healthy thoughts.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:54 PM
1

I think you are jealous, buddy.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:51 PM
1

I kept silent for some time but we sent messages back and forth but now shes texting me on stuff I do not really like to answer. About politics and stuff similar to that, is this a shit test ? Should I respond or ignore ? Its a shame when girls start talking about stupid stuff.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:48 PM
1

Yeah got a positive reply about my text. Then Shes asking me if I watch this tv show ? What do you mean by comfort ? How much comfort are we talking here ? Would it be in my frame if I say no i don't watch this tv show or to establish comfort, you have to say yes ?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 07:19 PM
1

Anyways I texted her, something low effort, Just said : Hey (name), its neverquitman the guy, with the sexy eyes. Cringe worthy, but I never did this before and I just wanted something to send establish that this is my number. Felt it was stupid asking her out in text. I'll call her next time.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 07:07 PM
1

What about writing Hey X, its S. The guy with the sexy eyes etc. No setting date. Just letting her know its my number ?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:46 PM
1

Seems reasonable no? Dont overthink as in, its shit and change it or as in it could be better, but just do it ?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:27 PM
1

I guess Im gonna just ask her out straight away. Gonna say; hey x. Its Neverquitman. Wanted to ask if you're free this week for some coffee ? Looks good no?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:19 PM
2

But isnt that too short though. So just to make things absolutely clear, saying it was nice meeting you is validation? Because if yes, thats why I got ghosted two times. Oh well learning from my mistakes.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:10 PM
1

Fair point, and I get that that redpill isn't about providing full on help 101 but more about figuring it out yourself but I just have no idea what to text. I can mention some things in the first text: Whilst we were talking, a bum walked to everyone, including us. And it was raining. I could use these things as hooks to use for my first message or just not mention these as its pointless. But I think its better to be appear stupid/say any stupid bullshit than not saying it at all. Makes you stan…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:08 PM
1

It was really fast. Just said your cute, and I got a number. She was running somewhere. So not sure what to text?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:40 PM
3

I'd say the alpha way is to respect your parents and not bite the hand that feeds you.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:08 PM
1

Serious stuff
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:58 PM
1

Why not, you don't talk to girls when buying groceries. Ask them a question? Did you ever talk to anyone when waiting for a burger, ever talk about the weather ? Come on, excuses are excuses...
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:13 PM
1

Haha I have a feeling you'll text her. If I were in your shoes, I would go work on approaching people starting now. Just talking to them. And then build it up till monday. On monday, approach people before meeting her. Then you exude confidence. When you meet her, mention that you have an Instagram and continue exchanging stuff. And stop with the black/white shit. Are you black or a racist ? Why give it such notice ?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:40 PM
2

Dude just wait till monday. Thats not even redpill, thats called common sense.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:32 PM
2

Go fucking dm her and lets see the outcome then.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:24 PM
2

Listen, GO FUCKING APPROACH HER ON MONDAY AND BE BUSY IN The meantime. DO NOT UNDER ANY FUCKING CIRCUMSTANCES DM HER, SHE WOULD THINK WHY THE FUCK HE COULDN'T SAY HI WHEN WE WERE SO CLOSE. You'll show her you were a mega pussy.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:19 PM
2

No, you came here, as a redpiller, not as a bluepill. Go approach her in real life or don't do anything. Stalking is very beta, I know, I know, you might get a follow or you might be blocked because you were a chump for not having the guts for saying hi. Just say hi; im peter or jack. Talk about bullshit. Set a meet at the end. Or in the middle. Come on!! Go approach random chicks in those two days, could be 2 per day. Enough for a rookie.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:09 PM
2

Jesus dude. Shes so into you, you really just need to introduce yourself and thats it. I dont think game is needed at this point. Shes so literally yours you just need to grab her. She was literally hamstering.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:39 PM
1

Did you do it ?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:41 PM
2

Is redpill the timid sheep then ?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:14 PM
1

Roger that. Will keep thinking about this all.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:13 PM
5

What advice, you all good. Keep going man. Send a text, no, wait, better call and ask her out when shes free. Thats it.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:52 PM
3

Man unsubscribe from braincels then we can talk. With that group, all is in vain.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:09 PM
1

Feels beta to say hi and acknowledge them together. No?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:11 PM
0

But you'll never know if a guy is an alpha unless he talks and maintains frame ? And if the girl looks up to her boyfriend who is the motherfucking alpha, wouldn't she ignore and reject other guys/chads/etc etc etc ? I mean, even beta powerlifters have good body language ? So body language isn't a real indicator of alpha behavior.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:06 PM
1

Lets assume you tried flirting and setting up a date with them, and it was kinda successful even after telling you that she has a boyfriend. And then you see them together...Bam. How should you react then ? Ignore or eye fuck her ?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:02 PM
1

Good, go game real chicks. Work on game, earn that pussy. hookers don't solve anything.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:57 PM
1

But if the BF has some certain capabilities to be an alpha, if she is flirting with other guys, does this mean the other guys are more alpha than that BF because she doesn't outright reject the other guys ?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:55 PM
1

Would you say, seeing a girl with her boyfriend together and them seeing you but you ignoring them whilst they start walking besides you as maintaining frame ?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:51 PM
1

True. Its just black boots feel super good but they feel heavy in summer. NB or gazelles are nice. But brogues feel like its hard to give a young idgaf vibe with them. What about monk straps ? Do you consider monk straps better than brogues ?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:56 PM
2

Why not NB's though? Brogues seem too formal no? Unless you're at work than yeah
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:47 PM
1

Stop reading incel. I never did but the guys that do read it; just WHY? Go against the tide. Read books. Give it time, the seeds ain't magical, nothing is going to grow in a day. So work on yourself, go hard but stay easy if your goals ain't being hit.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:35 PM
1

Are brogues during the day not cool?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:29 PM
1

Yes it does. Think about when meeting Mike Tyson, arent you afraid of saying something that will either make him walk out on you or punch you in the face even though he is dressed in a suit ? Even say if you look at him for one second longer and not say a single word, would you be afraid of the consequences. Would you be afraid of the consequences of saying his opinion is bullshit, or that he has the power to arrest you. Get what im saying. Ok scenario 2: lets say you are sitting at a public tab…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:12 AM
2

Isnt the point of an alpha is not being afraid of everyone in the room ? Isn't that how Mike Tyson or any fighter like khabib lose a fight? The minute you accept someone is better than you, you mentally fold ?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:09 PM
2

True
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:46 PM
7

Is he your friend or not your friend ?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:40 PM
2

Sports. Sports. Sports. Its orthodox and natural. Something with contact. Could be PL. could be cals. Who cares. Could be football. He needs to stay busy and find a purpose. Sport does this, and he gets all the benefits of a social stuff. Ya know the usual yada yada. No point in wrapping up him in cotton. Let him struggle. Its a man life to struggle. Don't hand anything to him without any work.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:51 PM
1

Your comment is golden.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:45 PM
2

Sure, thats right but how would you then captivate their interest if you're coming a second time and then the third etc ? So the best way would be to talk about non external stuff, and what are they, could you give a few examples ? Would it be about yourself, saying you did x and y in a very positive emotional way?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:08 PM
3

Any clues that I can start with? Compliments ?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:06 PM
2

Like lets say Im talking to this barista, friendly talk, lets say shes not my type but to improve my social skills, what could I mention ? Is it best to talk about the weather, say a short anecdote just for fun? Any other things I could mention that don't seem mundane(like easy day today or long day etc) ?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:14 PM
3

What should you open them with? Any good ideas ?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:02 PM
1

What if I told you no one actually cares and its all in your mind? Truth is, no one wants anything from you. Those kids care because you care. The moment you stop caring, they stop caring. And why demi god? You have a long way to go kid. You are not a fucking demi god nor should you strive one... Just be a fucking normal human being with a fucking healthy mind. You lost a solid reputation in school. Admit it to yourself. Move on. Keep hustling on these grades. Build your mental health. Do the st…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:06 PM
1

What if its cold approach and you know nothing of the person? How should you calibrate if its between building attraction and asking questions?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:54 PM
1

Redpill and alpha are two different planets.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:45 PM
1

Alpha is just leadership. Can you command respect and are you willing to not back down.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:28 PM
1

Look how you behaved when u were a child. Were you the kid that kids followed you and made social circles with you or did you enter their circles ?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:20 PM
2

This is a fucking beta question.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:45 PM
1

If you have any examples, that would be cool. Im struggling as well. Like I have shit to say, but its mainly questions...not a lot of free flow.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:26 PM
6

How do you talk to boys?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 05:08 PM
1

Just be boring with guys. Dumb it down. Theres no one to impress. Watch a few movies to get that feel (old school ones, heck you could even start with rocky. The more you don't act with men the better.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:53 PM
2

Hit me up, and I'll give you some good stuff you could listen to. I view an Alpha, who isn't evil and doesn't wish ill things to people but if threatened he isn't afraid of using violence if necessary. Just don't act on your fears. Even if you fear something, you can either act on it (ignoring the problem) or just fight it. Fear can be passivity or just anxiety. Or it can be more complex. Life and death situations. These are all fears. Run towards your fears. We will have fear always but we got …
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:37 PM
2

Worrying is normal. All people worry. Its human nature not to worry. You just got to change your mindset. You want to be alpha. I'll give you my mindset. Im no fucking through and through alpha but this is my steps to become closer. An alpha for me, is a Man. A fucking man. Not just with genitals but a real man. Be a man of action. Embrace your fears and boldly charge your own path. Be resilient and strong.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:21 PM
1

Surfing ? Outdoor exercise + hitting the range.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:53 AM
1

Whats your thought processes like ?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:48 AM
2

A 3.5 gpa in engineering/STEM is even better
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:07 PM
1

Well, I can only say this, you have GOT TO WANT IT ! You have got to NOT back down, you should not be afraid of the challenges nofap will throw at you. Just be more serious about it. Watch inspirational videos and listen to good stuff. Life from now on will be hard but it will be the hard that will make you sleep calmer at night. That sweat and fear will go, the usual stuff when the person is on porn and wakes up in the morning, all braindead and wrecked, mentally, physically, emotionally. Just …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:00 PM
0

Sure, you seem very smart.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:28 AM
1

People do that all the time. It happens when the girls get taken by another dude. Just remember that its a painful thing, for her, even for you, because you would be the 3rd person and would witness it all/ all the details that would make your head hurt but the female has to be willing for it. Its like everything in life. Just remember that life might return such a gesture when you least expect it. But yeah; I assume you like a thrill. Thats why you posted in the first place.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:21 PM
-1

No man, I don't why you are ranting. I left the 3 girls out at first because I thought it didn't matter, because for me, when I talk about that girl, I mean "that one girl" that Im talking at x moment not "THAT one girl that I adore". And I want to change my chances with "that one girl" that Im talking at x moment. P.S Don't be a lame prick. Chill the fuck out with your "ego mentality" text+mindset.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:40 PM
0

LMAO, I had this happen 3 times to 3 different girls. If you don't know the answer, stop acting smart. I don't mind honesty.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:29 PM
1

So met this chick yesterday, went fine, talked little. Gave me her number. Yesterday messaged her, she kept it on read. See her with a couple of friends today, seemed receptive, zero bitch vibes, she asks questions and isnt bitchy at all. What to do?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:49 PM
2

Lets assume its the latter. Whats the deal then ? You could say push pull but the minute she sees you she thinks you swim in abundance, so how would you minimise the chances of screwing up ?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:37 PM
4

Lets say its this one girl. But lets say the next 10 girls OP meets all flake because of his image. What then? How would he proceed to minimise the flakings ?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:34 PM
2

Its as if you can read peoples mind's !! On point.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:37 AM
5

Isn't that beta?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:12 AM
1

Any goos companies you would recommend ?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:57 PM
1

Why not just spend more time with her, making her unavailable to him? Not in the moronic sense, but actually going out and doing something with the girl. Biking, museums you name it...
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:34 PM
1

Whatever you do, do, but right now forget about her. If you keep thinking about her, it will be the same as watching porn before talking to girls.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:42 PM
1

It depends on how bad you want it. Keep reminding yourself, its like brushing teeth. Got to do it all day, every day. r/getdisciplined and r/getmotivated Envision the end goal.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:34 PM
1

Just say its 10 dollars each time to touch. They're just attracted and you could ruffle her hair too.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:31 PM
1

Chad could be any dude. The thing is, most guys are chads but say they are not chads. The jawline dudes most of them are either insecure or not interested in females. Its the mindset. Any dude can be a chad. For real, its just some need to work harder and longer. Remember chads weren't born. They just started earlier and embraced it !!
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:29 PM
1

Why are you mad though?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:22 PM
7

Word
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:50 PM
1

sounds valid. harsh but true. But tbh, he might be rejected by the 10 as well.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:49 PM
1

Could it be a shit test ?
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:21 PM
1

Yeah check what u/gaylubeoil said, use nicotine gum. Helpful and less expensive. Weed is expensive(long term), idk why a person has to spend so much money on it. Plus it doesnt make you a warrior. Have you seen warriors on weed?
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:56 PM
1

True, I agree. I am no way interested in smoking heavily. The side effects are very harsh.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:24 PM
1

Yeah but I cant smoke. I pretty much workout everyday and I want to have a good cardio base. I just noticed that it calms the nerves but I mean I cant be paying for it to make my anxiety less for 20 years. I just need to find a way to fix my anxiety within somehow. Try not to smoke. Its business and pointless. Benefits exist but its only one.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:18 PM
1

They say carnitine and creatine helps for fasting and losing fat. Calming effect that is similar to smoking is coffee, but it gives more strength and longer than smoking.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:04 PM
1

Haha I usually live without smoking. I didn't even smoke it fully, just like 1/4 of the cig. Was just super bored and stressed so why not. But no, it doesn't help long term. Smoking is such a big thing how people see it as, on one hand we have warfighters smoking after a hard battle yet when our parents or close ones do it, we see them as pussies. Yeah smoking kills and I hate it. It just managed to calm my nerves but I hate that such things exist that manage to calm your nerves the unnatural wa…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:00 PM
1

Best way to kill the mindset of external validation?
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:56 PM
1

True
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:39 PM
1

Hopefully! Its hard because its not like in the gym or some lab with perfect conditions. Plus theres no teachers who show everything step by step. Either way, got to wing it and work from this point. Just have to break it into lots of small steps.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:30 PM
1

Yeah I'm already watching short videos of hank moody. Lots of good stuff there. Sure, Im not sure if I'll be like a natural but I'm going to work on it. Damn, its hard when your self working on yourself. But its possible to be a bit better. Step by step.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:07 PM
2

Roger that. I'll check them out. Would you say its possible to be that guy who always can crack a joke out of anything or make the girl laugh when they talk? Like genuine laugh not fake ?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:50 PM
1

How do you break that resistance though?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:15 PM
1

Lemme guess you watch porn?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:33 PM
6

Yes. Both are cool, the second one is good if the girl is attracted to you, but being that direct can burn girls away because they don't want to give you a slutty vibe so they shut you down.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:30 PM
1

Easy there with those ideas. Lets just say to alpha widow you really need to have the skills.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 01:58 PM
1

You did good. Likewise, I wouldn't be surprised if black conservative religious christian dads act mad if they saw their daughter with a white dude. Anyways I agree, racial wise, its all fucked up. Plus, the family is fucked up. Why do you need that ? (For laughs, look at norbit with eddie murphy, she has 3 brothers and they're mad all the time). Point is, that relationship was doomed. It was fun. But the family comes between you. It causes rifts between non conservative non religious people, no…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:44 PM
1

I mean its the same thing as if a dad will come into the picture ( not for you, just generally, brothers and fathers can be protective and borderline stupid). Definitely the fact that her brother is not with them, is helping you. Anyways to keep it short, have fun with her until the brother comes... Some dudes its best not to rationalise and speak with. In the end what did you want with her, LTR or plate?
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:06 PM
1

In the subtle art of not giving a fuck, it says either way, you actually give fucks. But you decide which fucks are more worthy to give.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:22 PM
4

Lmfao, that was not a shit test. Crazy brothers do exist in every society and continent. Recently someone wrote that a man shot two guys because they whistled at his wife. Doesnt matter, crazy people do exist.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:18 PM
2

What would chad do then to get that bj ?
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:36 PM
1

I agree.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:23 PM
2

/u/mlgpc •societies/events/dance classes etc etc and cold approach (indirectly) best way.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:40 PM
1

Have you searched this question on this sub?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:04 PM
2

Because it takes balls to do these things. On the other hand, dont fuck up when doing these things or its natural selection.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:16 PM
1

When you study redpill, do you take notes, or tips from people who advice on asktrp ?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:14 PM
1

its been ages since this post but how do you actively "AVOID IT" if you really want to fuck her like in those pornhub movies ?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:45 PM
1

What about if it was a chick that didnt ghost? Do the same thing + convo ?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 12:24 AM
2

Despite the oneitis(actually you dont have oneitis, you just have crushes on girls you find attractive, which is normal), despite all of that. Own it. Bump into her, have the coolest swagger, and give an alpha vibe, and whatever you say doesnt matter. Just open and kino the shit out of her. Make her feel like you're the shit and you're an alpha cool guy. Just imagine shes your dude friend(not in a sexual way but in a chilled, no pussy on the pedastal way). Can you stop posting about the goodlook…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:04 PM
3

Move on. attention seeker. If it was brad pitt, she would ring and ring the phone.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:44 PM
5

Hes just afraid. Probably put her on the pedastal already. Hes deflowering her virgin pussy, boyyyssss. Turns out, its just insecurity. Just got to do it, its like doing something scary. You either crash and burn and repeat, or survive and say wow that was some awesome shit. But if its not your thing, or you feel like its a messed up thing. Don't do it, just because its the norm, do whats comfortable and you do you. No point in our opinions. Go on more dates, go talk to other women. Shes not the…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:41 PM
2

Rofl
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:37 PM
1

Its the bj that you'll never know if she has std or not.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:13 PM
1

First, I said "that asshole" so I meant someone who isnt your friend. Come on, Man! Second, go for it. You think being big will save your ass being whopped? Go lift then. One fight shows your alpha, even if you lose. But w/e, keep doing what you feel is better.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:12 PM
1

Punch that asshole/get into a fight who says dobby. Others will understand. I did it and they stopped back at my school. If you stay silent, it means you like that.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:50 PM
1

About the girl: •girls will accept anxiety/nervousness, provided you are brave enough to approach and talk to her. Break the ice. •if you wont talk to her, some other dude will. So go do it. •rejection, oh poor me, im feeling sorry for my high clown ass being rejected. Are you a cupcake to worry about rejection? Wheres your masculinity ? Come on man, stop being sensitive to rejection. I bet your uncle could pull all these hot aussie chicks. So why can't you? •you literally should have no agenda …
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:42 PM
1

Do you ask the girl if shes clean or you go with the flow and do your own conclusions ?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:16 PM
2

You saw his videos about alpha behaviour ?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:07 PM
1

Do you watch porn? Do you have Adhd? What do you do in your free time? Do you understand vs memorise lectures ? You cope by failure, by learning where your mistakes and short comings are, if you answered no to my questions, dig deep to find why you are failing. Oh and read cal newport. How to become a straight a student. And r/getstudying
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:59 PM
1

Hes the shit! With a sense of humour!
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:57 PM
2

Do you watch porn?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:37 PM
2

Whats the way to go then?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:50 PM
10

Cringe It seems like this is in europe. People in america are way more chill.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:52 PM
1

If you want to be masculine, manly, go lift. Again its a stereotype, but one that works well. Not really the best advice but its ok. Anyways, try to work on game. Try being more social as in making friends. Join sports teams(serious ones, not the badminton at 10pm ones) and don't sit in your dorm all the time. Talk with anyone and that includes professors to janitors and everyone in between. Not all the time, just have the willingness to talk to them if needed. Hope that helps. Read 80/20 colleg…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:29 PM
2

I assume you're in STEM? I think yes, some jobs attract more heterosexual male types than others. But that doesn't mean all dudes there are "mature" and nor everyone there will mature as an individual. I got the impression the OP wanted to mature.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 07:43 PM
1

You bang chicks by being in places(parties) where they view you as special (because you are doing something cool at the moment) OR you define yourself ( by sports, by doing something actually cool) and then girls drool how much you worked and view you as higher value. Thats a short summary basically.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 07:28 PM
1

Its removed. Its frigging empty.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:10 PM
2

*** life expectancy: a few months. For the last several ones listed.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:32 PM
1

Hows that masculine ?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:21 PM
1

I never understood about deleting people, chads never delete people and they have about 7000 friends on facebook. Why not just calmly move on ?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:19 PM
2

Only way is to have a high social life. Have a more interesting life. But to be honest; it doesn't matter. She either didn't see the messages because she has a fuckton of orbiters. Reasons are unknown, maybe you sent a stupid message. Dont get angry and start deleting her from your life like a lil pussy. Just move on, build a better facebook. Or move on, and don't sit on facebook. Regardless, move on with a chilled attitude, like a chad. Maybe she'll hit you up, or you'll hit her up with a more …
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:17 PM
2

GOOD. Trp is self improvement!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 05:57 AM
2

But I don't understand if trying to reach a goal isn't going to happen because of reliance of dopamine, then how can we reach that goal? Detachment from the outcome ? And before you were 28, were you underweight or overweight, since you did mention that you ate less. Really interested how you managed to grow in your 20's as thats the age after the bones fuse!
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:49 PM
2

Interesting. Any recommendations how you forced yourself to eat ? Was it willpower or Was there some set of plan(like eating an x amount of plates) even though your stomach couldnt handle or did you visit a dietician/nutritionist ?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:31 PM
2

Did you change your diet in your 20's? Did you find the reason which hindered your height?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:21 PM
2

Corey wayne how to be 3% man
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:01 PM
5

Thing is, if the dude sees you're a pussy. You're fucked. If you're fucking 7 feet and you're a pussy. It will show. Your still fucked. The dude is picking a fight with you. If its not your girl, its your car, if its not your car, its your look. You give him " i could give two fucks about you". If he starts going for more and you allow it, hes gonna squeeze the life out of you. So you start working what you learned to keep breathing. Or maintain frame. Don't look like a douche. Avoid stupid and …
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:26 PM
4

What about masculine energy? Its not being a white knight if someone slaps your mom. Are you going to slap your mom too?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:12 PM
3

You give him a kick to the balls and headchoke. Theres no slapping.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:55 PM
1

He must have been angry already.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:53 PM
1

True, if we don't make mistakes, we wont learn. Sometimes the mistakes are super stupid though.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:13 PM
2

I didnt text "wish you were here". I texted " it was tasty coffee"...but I feel now all of this is stupid. Dignity is far more important. Not butthurt, just relearning to avoid future fuckups.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:28 PM
2

Yes. Good stuff here. Not putting pussy on the pedestal. Reminder even for me. Should be plastered and tattooed everywhere. This generates calmness.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:03 PM
1

Yeah that question fuck marry kill, you can adapt and change it though to "kiss, hit, steal" right ? I mean when talking about jokes is it best to start straight away ( to break the ice) or best to do it in the middle of the conversation, before the lulls. Ok I won't care what I say or ask, I'll just be a normal dude with a mindset of having fun and saying interesting stuff. Just a normal hangout with no big expectations type of mindset. I'll forget much about her and how much she's into me or a…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:57 PM
1

Yeah I had kino in mind, but you know how what is in the mind, never gets real because either the moment wasn't right or some other shit in your head. I am kind of thinking of murphy law to calm myself and be ready for everything, to go without any high expectations. I'm just worried about jumping between topics and especially if she gives short answers without much details. Afraid of lull's, but then I can use that as an opportunity to take or ask to hold her hand and to maintain eye contact. I…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:51 PM
2

I understand. Will try to have some big plan but won't plan everything to the t.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:44 PM
0

Wow thanks man. I hope I'll have a good time. Yeah I thought about kissing her once I meet her to show thats its on, but then again, maybe its best to wait, Idk I hope I'll go with the flow. If she's happy, why not? But what if you don't want to argue about anything, but more importantly you just want to share experiences and stuff you did. Is sharing experiences and stories of you being adventurous as a kid a "nice guy" thing ?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:34 PM
6

Gotcha just go with the flow but show intent. What if she declines a kiss though or gives a cheek or gives a look "what the fuck" (worst case scenario) ? Like what "drama" ? personal drama or external drama ? When do you think is the best time to go for the kiss though ?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:30 PM
1

Roger that, its just I keep being detached and then I let one thought, and then I'll get consumed with thoughts how it will all be.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:28 PM
0

Wow 15-40mins seem very short no? Shouldn't you usually stay an hour and a half at the minimum. I just am not sure how personal should I go, and I fear if I go too personal, she'll think I'm a nice guy. And how do you usually let the women talk, if you ask her a question and she gives one sentence. Should you dissect each word and then use it as a pivot to bring something new, hence allowing her to keep talking? Is it best to pay for coffee though, on one hand, you shouldn't but deep inside her …
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:20 PM
1

Doing squats is my weakness.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:11 PM
2

Not disagreering but im saying cant an alpha woman and man have kids and the kids grow to a high potential ?
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:29 PM
1

They are just thinking wow this dude likes to lift. Hes not like the other pussies sitting on soy and porn finding excuses to not lift. Good for him. No dont say hi. Keep lifting. Thats it.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:24 PM
1

Mild Oneitis vs fear of messing up ? Is there a difference ? Or are they the same ?
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:11 PM
3

If beta households are suitable for children, how come heroes are born ? I beg to disagree, alpha households raise the best children... Under beta households, the kids fucking die and then they read " no more nice guy" and self develop themselves and use the internet as their surrogate manly father.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:07 PM
2

You still have to recognise the kid. And the kid has to take someones name, moms or dad. Issues may arise when travelling, when enrolling in school, simple bureaucratic shit. The kid may not be recognised in wills especially if you have another recognized family. Right now, no one cares but the moment the kid wants to go into some serious high society shit. They might be judged for being a bastard. Depending on how poor you might be, you might have a hard time getting a loan for that "kid". If y…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:52 PM
1

Again it depends how smart that lady is. If shes smart, she'll accept it.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:54 PM
1

Bitte schon
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:49 PM
1

Now if you said, dads, That would be cool! That would have been some big shit you OHPressin. But Moms, moms are always on the lighter side tbh.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:46 PM
1

I think this goes back to the concept of logic and emotion. You don't need to discuss this stuff with chicks unless shes into that. Btw most normal healthy people are not into that. Sure, they can listen but its not going to give them an orgasm from hearing you say that.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:42 PM
1

Whats your OHP max ?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:37 PM
2

Go talk+date medics, they handle this often. Seriously dude, come on! All people can be scared, not only women.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:50 PM
1

What convo? Any tips? What can you usually talk about to avoid being the "nice guy" ?
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:10 AM
5

Whats your BP warmup ?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:14 PM
1

I don't think you can. You'll just role with it, when you're happy internally, it wont matter because character comes first. But for newbs, its gonna suck but you got to get through it. Girls love bravery.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:49 PM
1

What should you talk about if you see a girl at the gym, talk about a date/set a date but its in a week. In the meantime, you have to see them again during your normal workout? How to best game in this situation?
/r/seduction21/03/18 12:59 AM
1

Without food, you wont grow. Either suck it up or give up.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:39 PM
1

Nah man, I meant any suggestions on conversations, any good tips/links to work on charisma and being more sociable? With everyone; with all girls, in general.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:14 PM
1

But what to talk about ? Any suggestions where to look?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:09 PM
2

Did you lift before ? What are your goals man ? Strength, hypertrophy, BB ?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:12 PM
1

Thats fair, I mean its no point in being the good boy here. But if she's there, is it worth it ?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:03 PM
1

What if you lead and say after she says the first line, dont worry Im not the type of person that has sex after a first date or after a date ?
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:51 PM
1

He says stop being insecure with virginity. Its not special.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:13 AM
1

But theres other chads that are 50 and 60 yr olds out there at her work. I hope not. Im sure you're doing good man! But be on the lookout. You get my point.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 09:38 PM
1

Definition: A valediction which has come to mean "be cool," but which more properly understood is an admonishment to stay alert and on one's toes. I shouldn't care about all of this, because its too intimate but because you're on TRP, I'll give my cents. And because I deeply respect wrestlers and for me to sleep better at night. I would say, do the stuff that keeps her at her toes. I.e Jocko Willink had a friend who added his wife (jockos) on facebook. Jocko was like; why is he in your contacts,…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 09:26 PM
2

One more thing OP. Stay frosty!
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 09:07 PM
74

LOL. If he was too use the gym, good friends, always working on himself, he would've fucked your wife. Theres a quote that says this - "one is never safe from poverty or prison". I would add "one is never safe from their girls leaving". So instead of having fun talking of billy, you do you. But yeah, thanks for the sharing. But I hardly learnt anything. You could have written this : Don't reciprocate and don't send gifts to girls before fucking. Don't tell them how sweet and nice they are before…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 03:47 PM
1

Get him a prostitute. Or hook him up with your (ex)plate.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:12 PM
1

Give us an example how you emotionally invest. I need to see from a third person view, might have been doing that.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:41 PM
0

Where do you meet them?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 11:58 PM
1

I mean, from a pure alpha perspective, you chase something until it either gives in or it is made clear that she doesnt want you. But it goes against the notion of nexting. Nexting is when you accept defeat. But nexting saves lives and helps you to continue living and gaming others. But theres always a "what if ?" factor. I might be so wrong but I think Some girls love the chase. They fucking ignore you, but they might love it. They dont block you or anything, just keep you on read. They say hi,…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 05:43 PM
1

Give us examples how you are an asshole!
/r/askTRP17/03/18 05:32 PM
3

Good shit. Really good. Like from the heart. How did you learn this? Pursuing disinterested girls help learn yourself too, its all a learning experience.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 05:21 PM
1

Wow
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:19 PM
1

I also remembered that If i meet someone briefly, and time goes by. I see them again, I also pause because I dont remember their faces, so instead of iniaiting, I pause until I recollect where i saw them from, but by that time, they walk away. Happens with dudes too.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:14 PM
1

Jocko treats shit seriously. He goes all in. Similar to Arnold.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:27 AM
1

What did your dad do ? Go for a talk, man to man. Help him fix his issues (non relationship) ones first. Give him a membership for da gym. Go for bjj. The sky is the limit for helping your dad. You just got to want it. Spoon Feed him. Give him a ball busting hard time to get his shit together. Come on man, ironically, treat him as hes your lil bro. Just don't let time pass by.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:24 AM
1

Good shit. Music can be similar to cigarettes. Giving you a fake high.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:19 AM
1

Interesting
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:39 AM
1

Roger that Easier said than done but detachment is necessary.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:11 AM
1

Do you consider military men having large amount of frame ?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:11 AM
0

So called Shit heads prefer to maintain their own space and not allow others to bump into them, no?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:59 AM
1

I don't hold frame. I dont think of holding frame. I just don't mention anything. I just pause if we nearly bumped and I jusr grunt. Its hard to explain, it unconscious. You get what im sayin. With friends, its more chill but not with strangers. Especially after reading nice guy and having mood swings from nofap.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:24 AM
2

Yes so true also the thing is, when you think of attractive girls, and when you see them your mind thinks of sex, and sex is at the top of the pyramid. The goal. The pinnacle. So here you are looking at the top, thinking about how the hell are you going to climb 5000m ... Its a similar analogy with those hot chicks.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:48 PM
1

Yes, but also its not the girl itself but the idea itself. Some oneitis were not hot, they had big flaws but the idea of sex with them is crazy which makes oneitis. I think i can get oneitis in minutes. Im happy for nofap, it gave me confidence than I ever had but that thinking, that craving lol it hinders me well. I guess I have to silent it. Do it anyways. Be more trained for unexpected stuff. Gotta say to myself I have nothing to lose. Better to say any bullshit than no bullshit with them. Al…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:42 PM
1

I was thinking about some shit and I went to fast because i didnt see her, as I turned across a corner, she was walking fast. I just had time to realize she nearly bumped into me, i looked at her face for a few seconds, realised then who she was but by that time she said sorry and left. I was like wtf. I didnt know if I should have chased her... With dudes, if I bump, I maintain my frame. I stay silent. Its never awkward. With ugly chicks, I can even smile. Like why? Oh well. Its time to self de…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:21 PM
2

Yeah, wow. Clap clap. With dudes or ugly chicks, its easier. With girls that are hot, i freeze up.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:09 PM
3

Being happy. Being aware. Rememebering a few openers. Keeping back straight and maintaining positive thoughts. Walking slowly. Etc Not in the zone= "oh shit I have so much grocery, work and other shit to do" mindset
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:03 PM
9

Nice guys occur because they think that another chance will happen. If they realise it may be their one shot, they would act differently. Or fear, from underexposure+no one taught them anything, they just went with the flow, what they read or someone told them.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 08:13 PM
1

Good shit! should you send a text to a girl the same day you want to meet(coffee) or give a day extra?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:40 PM
1

You can go all nuts and just use the kettlebell. Or bars. As long as you feel strength, do it all.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:59 AM
2

Anywhere where there are good coaches.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:23 AM
2

That what I call is the road to forget bp. Nexting if she doesn't text back because at the end of the day, shes not the only one and there are far more girls out there. Nexting because you don't have the time to be an emotional tampon and unless she opens you or something, I think its pointless, plus on the brightside, it still wouldn't have worked. Bp life would have you imagining her living with you and doing everything together. Lol the mind can play some tricks on us. You are the fucking pri…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:16 AM
1

Idk man, of course it helps if you watch it in small doses. Practice is key, but videos help. Its just like youtube videos "how to learn maths". You don't get better at maths, but they might help you understand the topic better.
/r/seduction14/03/18 01:09 AM
1

How much sugar are you eating per day? In what amounts?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:11 AM
1

Real
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:52 PM
1

Word
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:18 PM
2

Judging by your nick slav, you know that slavs celebrate womens day. Same with europeans. So you should have seen this shit test coming.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:26 PM
2

GOOD
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:12 PM
2

Could you give an example ?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:07 PM
2

Gotcha. One thing I wanted to ask, if I see her during daytime hours, what should I do? Kino, hand shake/high five, hug straight away and eye fuck but whats there to talk about? Silly stuff and random uni stuff that I see/know. And they say the best time for dates is after 6 so wouldn't it be a bit unwise ordering coffee/(I guess cold drinks work fine) at night time, and what do you talk about usually? Edit1: is it wise to text in the morning to meet up in the evening the same day? Edit2: or sho…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 12:46 AM
1

But if you're busy on the weekdays because of uni morning timetable. I started to see her often those days but decided to approach today and go direct. She complied, which feels to good to be true. I expected some resistance tbh. Somethings fishy. So its best to send tmw a text ?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:02 PM
1

You are obviously looking to dive deep into philosophical matters, I get it. Psychology and philosophy is your best bet.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:53 PM
1

-Those questions are pointless. You don't need to dive deep into the why's, just focus on yourself. Your maths is wrong. You need to read books. -And if you have a massive loss of drive. Take a break. Go on a vacation. You did't understand the redpill concept. Its not about not having emotions. Its about having emotions but you open up when you love that person. Go read the search. There were some amazing posts about loving someone. Redpill is about not acting beta and not acting in a needy way.…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:36 PM
1

Fair enough. I thought u knew each other since kids.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:11 PM
-1

The OP should have said no thanks. He was gamed by the girl and by his cousin. Don't be naive.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:04 PM
1

You get Respect by tackling the hardest things in life.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:45 AM
5

That girl wanted to have sex. The moment you said shes cute she thought you might fall in love with her so she started acting cold.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 11:42 AM
1

If he wanted to hang out with him, he would have taken him to a more cooler place like fishing or dirtbiking, or even for a game of basketball. More manly and more time to catch up. Just him and his cousin. Personally my point is that cousin wanted to renew his social value and act cool again, similar to the girls that have ugly friends. Im not dissin but I just find it strange that an alpha dude that went cold for a few years with his cousin decided that the best way to catch up is by going to …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 11:38 AM
0

Good post but theres some peculiar things. If your bro is alpa as fuck, why did he reach out to you? Alphas want to hang out with alphas. Right? Even if he didnt see you for 10 years, a phone call would have been sufficient. Then the way you said cute might have had an impact. And lastly, don't set expectations because some women have an agenda and no matter how much you game them, they're in their own bubble.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 09:22 AM
1

Don't set expectations. This is gold.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:39 PM
8

What did you say as your opener ?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 09:14 PM
1

What are your sport hobbies man ?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:56 PM
1

What do you like stroganovsky?
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:23 PM
2

He can do bodyweight exercises too ( pushups pullups squats running) and still get that feel good feeling.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:14 PM
1

Monk mode makes you focus on yourself. Try working on character first and mindset. Crawl walk run
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:29 PM
3

How bad do you want it ?
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:10 PM
2

Go develop yourself buddy.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:19 PM
1

Thanks for the clear answers JMULV!I have learned quite useful information here. Any chance you would be logging on reddit as a regular user or will you just stick to your youtube channel ?
/r/seduction08/02/18 10:47 PM
1

Roger that, this makes sense. What do you mean binary threshold? Would it be bad to practice on normal next girl door types ? Would you do a kiss or a hug after you get a number cold approach ? Or is that too much? Do you prefer the indirect or cold approach ? Is it best to keep cold approaches short ? Can you go on longer to minimise the flake ? Do you think exercise raises your smv unconsciously to girls ? Or is it for yourself only ?
/r/seduction08/02/18 09:44 PM
1

JMULV apologies, I meant finding a chick in a library and trying to flirt with her if you sit at her table... Would you start to flirt with her, then ignoring her, then flirting again or is that stupid ? Thanks for the reply btw. I'll definitely check out the vids. I feel identity is such an important thing and does this mean its best to go for chicks you find attractive or can you game chicks that arent really attractive like in a magazine model sense but are generally cute next door types?
/r/seduction08/02/18 09:22 PM
1

Awesome stuff Should you pull girls in a situation that you would be stuck with in the same room like pulling a chick and then separately studying in the library in the same room, or is that awkward ? What will you do when you meet the unicorn chick, will you marry her ? What motivates you to sleep with women and not lose your sexual identity as a man because not all women are perfect and some can crush guys?
/r/seduction08/02/18 08:33 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 12:12 AM
1

Just say you are in the law/sports/journalism/history/business/ They find them attractive also because business is about being all social as fuck (networking ) and and making money. Whilst the stereotype of programming is sitting, hacking, and being socially awkward.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 09:38 PM
1

Triggering as fuck but yeah, especially the innocent ones. There are exceptions but most non conservative chicks did it.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 08:28 PM
1

Women face the same issue right ?
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:13 PM
20

Fuck. this is like when slim understood that the dude was stan in the end. In the end, how the girls were raised is what makes you want to marry her. Not her looks. Thats what matters..
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 01:17 PM
1

I'll keep it direct. Got nothing to lose. I guess, it hurts the ego but fuck it, it builds character.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:46 AM
2

Yes and volunteer. Travel the world. Learn languages and do sports. All these things make you better and easier to have fun when you're in university.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:22 AM
2

You're putting pussy on the pedestal. I get it, you have to put it. I mean even I put it, after all we are males but you got to think that this isn't everything. RP or not, you got to make yourself more mentally stable before dreaming about pussy. Go out and put yourself vulnerable (Manson), even I'll do it from now on. At 22, no ones controlling you, you just got to man up the responsibility. I'm not saying demote women, just accept pussy isn't the holy grail. Its the best thing but not everyth…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:15 AM
1

Gotcha .But what I don't understand is that some guys talk to the point. Hey I find you cute, whats your number etc and they sometimes fail but then some guys talk it in a more non direct way with lots of flirting and teasing and just being all cool. I guess she can flake both ways so Imma try both ways.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 11:39 PM
1

Is it safe to say i find you cute straight away or is it better for later when teasing?
/r/askTRP04/02/18 10:07 PM
1

Gotcha
/r/askTRP04/02/18 10:06 PM
1

But if its a silent zone, like eery silent, whats then to do?
/r/askTRP04/02/18 07:27 PM
1

Oh well then I guess you're right. The things insecurities can do to a man is horrible.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 01:34 AM
1

Where could I read up on the other laws?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:55 PM
0

Why delete the post OP? It sure sucks and he should have left her but could it have been that the child was his though? Any small chance ? Not that I read it in full detail, just skimmed parts through it before it got deleted.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 12:53 PM
10

High five man
/r/seduction03/02/18 12:52 AM
2

Yeah that helped me immensely. Makes me more social.
/r/seduction03/02/18 12:07 AM
1

What did you text before?
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:09 PM
1

Yes sounds like a 13 yr old. Lmfao.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 05:00 PM
1

Do what makes you happy. Don't expect to jump in a day and be a pro. I would focus on not dropping out too. I heard if you don't meet your req. gpa at the end of the year, the unis might take away their offer, so.... Join a sport (team) too that you like.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 10:13 AM
2

Nah some hotties study there. Thing is they could be anywhere :/
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:25 AM
5

Fuck this is good. Bro talk is best talk. Preach. this is dope!
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:24 AM
1

True words
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:06 PM
2

Good words.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 12:14 AM
1

YES BRO!
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:35 PM
1

Fair words, true! why would I consider her frame. Its all about being me and being alpha. I am concerned with sleeping with women and I see the key is just making yourself feel comfortable in your shoes.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:33 PM
1

Fair point, girls say a lot of stuff and the usual rant has to be ignored. Will practice talking to everyone.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:30 PM
1

Thanks for the link. I get your point. Normal attitude, nothing special. Even though it makes us super nervous, just act normal.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:27 PM
1

Ok cool its just I found out about this one youtuber and he was doing pranks where he said "Hey I like you" and the girls were giving IOI's and numbers and he was approaching them without them noticing him. When you say deep down in a convo, could you give an example ? Does it go like after talking wheres she's around, you say " I have been to this place and that place. Pretty cool ? Do you travel often yourself?"... Is it that type of convo?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:42 PM
-1

Will hit the sidebar. When you said "Put their pussy off the pedestal" Do you mean it in don't fuck or think about them or fuck them but don't value them?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:38 PM
0

Thats a good way of putting it out. Why should I talk with not cute types tho ? Is it to get over anxiety and to be better calibrated ? The more experience is better but lets say even Lana Del Rey has a type that she constantly mentions in her song? Are they just deeply insecure girls ? Why do they keep singing about that one dude ?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:34 PM
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Check. What about "Hey I Like you ?" or "I find you cute"... Would that be fine ? What if you decide to approach without an IOI ? I mean she's literally cute and you might never see her again so why not right ? What questions and comments do you usually talk about ? Is it like, a witty comment and then about her personal life or just making her laugh and negs ? Could you please provide an example ?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:28 PM
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I get that part of it is just not being a pussy but I can't simply think how should the conversation steer. Could you provide a textbook approach, say you see a girl in the silent part of the library. You like her and decide to approach her, Lets say version (a)she smiles at you (b)she doesn't notice you but you decided to approach her What would you do ?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 01:38 PM
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Good advice! But please use paragraphs next time.
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