When I'm talking to an HB8+ I'm not good at building positive emotional tension. I just end up comforting her and being overly nice because I don't want her to stop talking to me. The problem as I see it is that my personal sense of humor is very very dark, and/or too obscure generally, so I'm not sure what the limits are when it comes to teasing and being playful. Can I get some tips or direction on how to tease girls and not just be cute with them?