Background:

Always had a thing with this chick since secondary school.

We are now 26 years old..

I was in LTR with my ex for 5 years. Bought our place, life was set. We broke up (shit happens kept my mind in check With sport). Had a year break was just doing me and kind of chatting to this girl from secondary school times again.

We just started casually seeing each other ( 4 months of actually fcking) but nothing officially only just between us too and close friends who know. It’s not a secret but we just haven’t gone on dates. She normally comes over and we order take away or i cook and we fck.

Sex is good and I think she is content however..

I feel like she’s quite comfortable to the point where even if I’m horny she will say “ oh I’m not staying tonight” which is fine but I think I need to regain control a bit. I think she’s got comfortable.

Any tips I would appreciate to recheck myself