How’s my tinder game?

MacaroonSpecialist10 · 2021-01-11T03:47:36+00:00

You have to understand that even with a solid, direct approach, like this, your chances on Tinder, if youre REALLY good looking, are about 10%. and thats AFTER youve already matched.

Girls use the app to farm validation. The direct approach is advised because you get a yes or no right away without wasting time, it does not mean it has a good chance of success, it does not even mean it has a better chance of success than a longer-game. Its just about time-sex efficiency.

If I am really into the girl I will game her a little harder than that to lower her Anti-Slut-Defenses. What you said is a good message if you would bang but dont feel like pursuing/putting in effort. You get a yes or no right away.

For the best results, despite what TRP says, at least a couple of "get to know you" lines before asking to meet up do wonders to lower her guard. Western society has weakened girl's resistance to being sluts, but few of them will outright meet up with a guy who is basically saying "lets fuck" unless youre her absolute #1 option. Dont be stale, but a couple messages to show you are funny/witty/interesting before just saying "lets meet up" works well for me.

Majestic_Bed_5576 · 2021-01-11T03:00:19+00:00

its tinder so i like how you went straight to the point with your intentions. No need to waste your time on girls that dont wanna do what you wanna do.

kabir_543 · 2021-01-11T06:19:46+00:00

Umm the beginning was good but at the end you became a bit needy by sending your Snapchat. After the last line you should've stopped. Also as many guys have said, girls MOSTLY use these apps only for validation and attention.

Tousen71 · 2021-01-11T06:52:48+00:00

This is bad. To start your first line is cliche af. Every guy reading the “Tinder game” handbook says that. Try to be more original.

Next, you’re very “try hard” with the resist temptation line, not asking for a number, and sending HER your Snapchat.

Also, you saying “one night with me blah blah blah” puts you in her frame. You’re trying to impress HER and that’s the problem.

You need to frame it like you’re doing her a favor not the other way around.

Thekokkksucker84 · 2021-01-11T03:26:51+00:00

Don’t overthink tinder game. Take the direct approach. Get some good pics up and go for the # close and meetup irl asap.

Terdmuffin · 2021-01-11T07:15:39+00:00

If your tinder game gets the results you want it's good. If it doesn't then it's bad.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-01-11T14:57:43+00:00

I see what your trying to do but....maybe I'm more blackpilled. I'm more get the number, set up a bar or apartment date, bang. Sure it weeds out some maybes but it also weeds out the attention whores and window shoppers. How much time a week do you spend on these swipe apps?

benhurensohn · 2021-01-11T02:49:31+00:00

You should know better. How did it end?

Guinnessthemenace2 · 2021-01-11T04:06:43+00:00

If ya have to ask...

Title	How’s my tinder game?
Author	Savings-Ad-9393
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	January 11, 2021 2:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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