I have been with this girl for a month and we had alot of sexual attraction in the beginning when I first met her. I would get a hard on everytime I thought about her but now I do not feel anything. I do not have any desire to fuck her or to do anything with her anymore or with anybody else. I do not even feel the urge to masturbate.

Now I have been reading the way of the superior man and it talks about how "If a man denies his desire for the feminine, either by choice or due to familiarity, it is a sign of depolarization even towards the world." Im thinking this means that I have been spending way too much time with her and we are now too familiar with each other.

Now I am guessing the correct option here would be to leave her and talk to other girls but I also want to know, how I can polarize myself and our relationship again and what the book means when it tells you to "fuck both to smithereens, to ravish them with your love unsheathed." I would like some tips and answers on what to do next.