I have about 3-4 girls i can bang easily. I am not an alpha, but i'd say doing 6 points out of 10, on a game scale. If such exists.

The problem i have, is that i became too picky. Meaning, i hesitate too much. For example, girl #1. She's cool. 5/10, but cute and fun. She is a bit of a hippie type, so loves old grandma socks sometimes. Also has a small weird scar on her chin. This details, turn me off. If i talked to myself 10 years ago(i'm 29 now) - and tell myself that i would not bang a chick due to a small scar on her face or grandma socks she wears - i'd laugh myself in the face. Also, maybe since she is 19, i am afraid that she will get too connected to me and it will be hard to dump her. So there are many other examples like that. As i said, 2-3 for sure.

Why is this happening? Does it happen to anyone else?