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Don't listen to her if you're above 5'10. That's my only advice. Actually, don't ever listen women's dating advice, unless you want to become "like their brother."
/r/seduction21/11/20 01:56 PM
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I stopped reading here. "Even said they kissed but it just made her think about me." Hmm, wonder why, bud. Maybe you should start doing that with her and then next time she's kissing you, she'll be thinking of the other guy who "doesn't open up to her."
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:53 AM
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Big emphasis on "good relationship" Don't ever settle. Finding one who's a good girlfriend will be nearly impossible to find. Many men think they're in good relationships, but don't realize how shitty most girls are at being potential partners and just how shitty their girlfriend treats them. (so are men at being partners, but we're more disposable)
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:50 AM
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How did you two break up? I'm assuming you weren't a little bitch about it, she got upset she didn't get closure, confirmed you're not a "beta/pussy/weak", wants to get closure from you. Once she gets that (you acting sad about it in front of her) she'll want nothing to do with you. I'm only speculating as I don't know how you acted after you broke up, but that's my two cents.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:09 PM
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This is a good thing. I'm assuming you reassure her? Stop that. That's a bad thing. Her being insecure about you liking her is a good thing and means she'll most likely try harder. She's insecure. Most women are. And that's why she's asking you that question. You have her overthinking if she's worth it or not. This is, also, a good thing. Reassuring her is not. (It can be, but it seems unlikely in your current situation.)
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:22 PM
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I jacked off to the story, too. Can't say I blame you for doing the same.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:04 PM
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I'd fuck Pete. We all would. Be honest.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:03 PM
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Dude, let's be honest. It's a pandemic where people are ordered to stay inside. But let's be even more honest, you think that's going to stop a girl who'll finally get "Chad's" dick due to her perceived lack of competition? Fuck no. If a girl is determined to fuck you, she will, including risking her health.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:47 PM
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This one I haven't seen in RP, yet. But the longer you date a girl/the more emotionally invested she is in you the less she's willing to do for you sexually. All my married friends and even though I have a great girlfriend, I can tell the longer we date the less sexually liberated she is. Sidenote: If any girl is willing to have a threesome with you, dating her is probably the worst outcome for that to change. Conclusion: Once women know they have you, they're different in bed. They aren't willi…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 08:15 PM
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The "popular hot girls" in highschool turned into "bigger stay at home moms" like 80% of them. It's wild to me. Girls I never thought I'd have a chance with in highschool I look at with disgust now. I think a lot of them didn't really realize how fleeting their looks would be and took it for granted without putting the work/effort into actually staying attractive.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 11:49 PM
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Well, the best option is to never text again, but my options were how to potentially increase your chances to sleep with her. He made a post about her, so even if he said he's "pretty unattached" I still assumed part of him still wants to sleep with her. Not that I agree it's the right decision.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:23 PM
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You tried too hard to be "alpha"(God damn, that word is so gay, but fitting here) but instead you were being a dick. To be an "alpha" you don't have to be a complete dick, dude. Also, please don't ever go full retard with a comment like that. It's just a little cringy.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:12 AM
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Simple shit, dude. You have a few options. Hell, you could even do all options. Agree to the date. When she does inevitably flake, text her before she does this. "Hey, sorry, I have an impromptu date tonight, so I can't make it anymore. Let's do it at specific time and date (preferably a week or two from the time you send the message.) If by some miracle she doesn't flake go hangout with her. Randomly sprinkle in tidbits about girls you're interested in and how it's going well so far. Hangout wi…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:07 AM
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An attractive girl with all those is worth her weight in gold, though. They hardly exist. Once you find her, don't fuck it up. But still implement redpill ideologies.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:03 PM
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Thank you. I realize the job isn't easy. I want to be an accountant and I know it'll suck, but my brother went from $17 an hour to an 80k a year a job by putting himself through school and I'd like to follow his path. I realize it'll be difficult, so I'm certainly not looking for an easy way out. Just a way to put myself through school with as little debt as possible. But you're right, I don't want it badly enough and that's a wake up call.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:30 AM
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No, I do it for twice the amount of minimum wage. I don't live in a high cost of living area, because there's no benefit to it. Most those places are overcrowded and superficial, anyways. Yes, there is room for growth, pay raise and if you're including etc. I don't know, maybe the fact I'm in a trade learning a skill and can become a contractor and start my own business making six figures eventually. (Which was cool when I started and what I originally wanted to do, but now realize it's not wort…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:53 PM
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That was really refreshing to hear, thank you. I appreciate that. Instead of focusing on the smaller goals, I've always looked at the bigger goals. I'm assuming that's where the majority of the gap is coming from?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:37 PM
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"Can you ever trust a woman like this" Lol at ever trusting a woman. Or man, honestly. But especially a woman who's cheating on her husband. Dumb fucking question.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:13 AM
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Science/research shows that women tend to be predisposed to be attracted to the same scent their dad wears. Not that weird. Well, the research is, but her actions aren't. Edit: (source) https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newscientist.com/article/dn1815-women-attracted-to-men-who-smell-like-dad/amp/
/r/askTRP26/01/20 08:58 PM
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I'm a little biased, but I definitely believe it's the go to move almost 99% of the time. Looking back on it, it's how I got my previous girlfriends. My current one cancelled our date, so I set up a date with another girl at the same place and posted it on Snapchat. From there on, it was in the bag. The one before her she saw all the girls in my Snapchat/texting messages and she was all fucking over me after seeing the amount of girls texting me. Maybe it isn't the go to move and I may be wrong,…
/r/seduction22/01/20 08:02 PM
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All the trade jobs I've had don't pay as much as 2k a month. Trades are super shitty for long term career advancement/growth potential/physical health. Don't do trades. I don't care how much Reddit advocates for them. Get you a career that doesn't start out at 12 an hour and basically caps out at 20 an hour unless you're family/your own contractor. Edit: Saw your HVAC, plumbing, electrician and that's not a bad idea and higher pay than most, but I wouldn't plan for it long-term.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:31 PM
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Act like you don't give a fuck about them, but still hint towards showing them you want them. Essentially, being interested but not needy.
/r/seduction22/01/20 12:39 AM
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"I pretty quickly brought up the fact that I was seeing someone else when she asked what was new with me, which I know is a risky move.' While I like the sentiment, this quote is literally exactly what got you in the door. Women can't stand someone who shows non-neediness/other options and especially someone who's completely cool with the fact they're fine she's not interested. Plus, women are jealous as fuck.
/r/seduction22/01/20 12:30 AM
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Ahhh, I see what you mean, my bad about being harsh.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 02:49 PM
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" my experience the more she trusts you when it comes to certain things the less wiggle room" Are you retarded? If she trusts you, you'll get more wiggle room. If she doesn't, she won't give you any.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:48 PM
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Yeah, she's literally broken goods which is probably exactly why she's acting like this. She has mental issues and that's what I mean by broken goods. Also, she's wildly insecure and that's why she loves the attention/validation she gets from all these men. Plus, it makes her feel like she's in control, which is good for the situation because she's obviously unhappy. She probably wasn't loved enough as a child and that's why she loves all this attention by random men so much. Tldr; It's not abou…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:50 PM
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" think the worst thing is that my GF 3/4 times play along with him (even tho she tells me how he's not a good friend to me)" Grow some fucking balls, dude. Next time after an incident like this happens text your friend "Hey, stop insulting me in front of my girlfriend or I don't want to hang out anymore." Now, talk to your girlfriend "You said he's a bad friend, but you're being a bad girlfriend by playing along with it. If you keep doing this, I don't want to date you anymore." (Now she'll be …
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:33 PM
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Didn't respond or deleted? Otherwise why would she be worried/affectionate? 🤔 Plus, any other relationship where she's not cheating she'd usually tell you in the form of "what the fuck, my weird ex hit me up" Instead of hiding it, ya know?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:28 PM
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All I read is why you're a loser and then a bunch of excuses about why you can't change it. Why not at least attempt to change it?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 08:22 PM
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Great job at talking about yourself the entire time, then the one question you do ask her you stop replying immediately after her answer. Regardless, who gives a fuck? Your recovery is literally waiting. It looks like it's already resolved. I don't see why you said "when you're available", though. That was the only fuck up.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:01 PM
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"She literally worships the ground I walk on" Doesn't sound like it, bud. Turns out women put on a front, in other words water is wet.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:50 PM
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Here's what you do to fix your problem. Based off your wording, I'm assuming you get told "let's wait to do anything, I don't wanna ruin it, I like you too much." If that's the case, "okay, that's cool" and then just stop trying. Wait for her to come back if she does and hit on other girls. To help your chances of her coming back social media is your friend. Post pictures of you hanging out with attractive women (doesn't matter if they're just your friends), going places and "fluff" up your life…
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:57 PM
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Yeah, if a girl falls for you she'll tend to break any/all of her rules. That usually includes sleeping with you, so op is doing something wrong.
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:49 PM
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"What did you do all day that was more important than me?". She told me its clear "that I don't love her and why I am even still with her". Your girlfriend sounds fucking annoying, dude.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:43 PM
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They're aware of it, but not how hard it hits in my opinion. You ever hear of older women reminiscing about how "remember when we used to look like that? What happened?" When a teenage girl walks by. (Real life example)
/r/askTRP21/12/19 11:05 AM
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It's okay man, we all make mistakes. Dread is definitely not the worst mistake you could have made. I totally get that by the insecurities making you do that. Like show off "I'm worth it" But this didn't seem like a time for that. Regardless I'm sure it'll blow over, because it's not that big of a mistake.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:41 PM
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For her birthday, you got a girl's number while your girl checks every box and has been amazing so far then proceed to brag/show it off to the girl you're dating near her birthday while shopping for her birthday gift? Son, what kinda dumbass are you?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:16 PM
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"I find that when I talk to girls about my career path they literally have no idea what I'm talking about and probably thinking I'm not gonna pull dough" How's that a problem? Sound like a blessing in disguise. Better than having some chick use you for your money. Especially since you said you already most likely will make good money.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:01 AM
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Yeah, but usually they're ugly. Society certainly overlooks that attractive women don't have to do shit to get a man in bed. Too bad they usually make terrible long term potential partners. (To be fair it's men who fuck that up, by validating the living fuck out of them.)
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:44 PM
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I disagree with almost everything about this post, but hygiene certainly does make you more attractive.
/r/seduction09/12/19 06:53 PM
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"By ignoring every other point, because women don't like it." (Excluding the hygeine one) Too bad they don't realize it. And the confidence one is bullshit, because of course women like a good cook. That's not confidence. That's just saying you're good at something they already find attractive.
/r/seduction09/12/19 06:52 PM
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80 percent alpha, but 20 percent beta. Being too alpha makes you somewhat of a dick and girls tend to lose interest. It's always nice to give her some comfort from time to time, which is what it sounds like you're doing and I believe that's why she's more into you as opposed to your other plates.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:47 PM
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80/20 rule.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:50 PM
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" When a woman really wants you, nothing they see will fuck it up unless you're some kind of weirdo" I don't have much of substance to reply with to this post, but that's the fucking truth. Some of the shit I've gotten away with has been mind-blowing.
/r/seduction05/12/19 06:48 PM
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Honestly, same. The best part about it is girls worthy of an LTR stick out like a sore thumb, because there's so few of them and they're so hard to find.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 02:26 AM
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So she doesn't feel rejected. Dude, the majority of women can not stand being rejected. Most guys can't either, but girls literally lose their shit so they have to play it around like they rejected him. I believe it's a form of ego protection.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:35 PM
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Got broken up with. She was really hot, so I was stupidly looking for "ways to get your ex back." Saw the repill. A lot of it made sense. I used to be really good at getting chicks before dating this girl. And that's why it made so much sense. I turned into a pussy and realized this shit works amazingly and where I've fucked up in previous relationships. Got a new girlfriend, implemented mostly redpill philosophies (not the stupid sexist shit here) and I've never had a girl more obsessed over me…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:40 PM
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Start ignoring them more often. After that five hour text, how long did you wait to respond? I'm assuming it was in the hour? Wait for her to double text you instead of always being readily available.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:14 PM
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You didn't vet well enough, clearly.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:01 PM
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Girls will call you a douchebag for two things. Being a complete douchebag or wanting to fuck you. Sounds like the latter to me. She literally watches you do them. Picked up on your schedule. Chatted with you. Did the sets. Tldr; You're being insecure over a girl who wants your dick. Stop overthinking it.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:49 PM
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What no one really tells you is if a woman agrees to a date with you it means two things. She's either down to kiss you or she's there for free food. If she's there to kiss you, you can easily escalate that unless she's one of the rare ones who actually takes things slow. In other words, don't be nervous, she already likes you. You got it dude.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:18 PM
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It is, but you're making it a desperate look while viewing it negatively as opposed to positively. In my opinion, anyways.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 06:58 PM
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I'm a mason and have done HVAC. It's not worth it unless you find a good company. And even then, your body will break down and age pretty badly. Most your coworkers will be alcoholic/drug using losers. It's a good and stable job when you're young, but I would never plan on doing a trade long term. They're good jobs, but hyped the fuck up and generally not worth it in my opinion. It's only worth it if you become a contractor, but that's just as much (if not more) work than getting a degree. Also,…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 06:53 PM
1

Plates tend to break when you can't guarantee exclusivity. Most women/people want to be in relationships. Not some sidepiece forever. She's going out with her girlfriends to get over this "breakup" and to move on. Most women tend to be much better at men than moving on. And if they're not, they're great at not showing it until they truly do move on.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:15 PM
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If you had a different mindset about how you view this "problem" it wouldn't be a problem, but a blessing. You're checking every hot girl out. Think about it for a second. Do you realize how many there are? If one rejects you think about all the other ones that you've "checked out" that haven't rejected you. Then approach and shoot your shot. Abundance isn't "not giving a fuck about women", it's realizing you'll be okay if you she isn't into you.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:10 PM
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This is literally TRP 101. I'm surprised that you're surprised she came back to you after you ignored her. Of course she did. It's rare they don't. To answer your question, no, don't ever get back with an ex for any reason. She broke up with you. She made her decision. You could try, but I'd advise against it.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:07 PM
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I mean you shouldn't, but that doesn't disclaim the fact it's true.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:03 AM
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Let's be honest, the majority of people can't even tell the difference. A huge trait of sociopaths is being very successful in hiding that you are one.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:02 AM
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It's how you word it. Word it right and a lightbulb will go off in their head and they'll agree with you. Word it wrong and you're a sexist asshole.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:03 AM
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Because it works. Their words usually don't match their actions.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:04 PM
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To add on to what you said, you can have none of it (except excluding being outright ugly) and still slay if you internalize it.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:45 PM
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Yeah, but girls love "gay" clothing. You know why? Cause it looks dope as fuck. Gay dudes dress better than chicks.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:15 PM
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"I'm too lazy to think for myself, so I'll get strangers on the internet to do it for me. Even though, all the information I need is clearly laid out for me and as easily accessible as possible."
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:06 PM
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No answer to your question, but I don't think a lot of people realize how terrible women are at predicting your SMV.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:48 PM
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Good advice. But like most advice YouTube channels, it's the same recycled content with different wording so they can keep making money.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:35 PM
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Sometimes losers get a really attractive girl to date them (I was one, so I totally get it.) Overtime she realizes you're a loser. You become more clingy. She's all you have in your life. Naturally, she'll leave you. It's basic TRP principles. After that, what are you left with? Nothing. She's all you had. So that's where his depression comes from. As far as helping him, he'll have to realize what I just said on his own or get it beaten over his head.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:29 PM
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Imagine you're a hot girl. You get constant validation. You know how guys don't really ever get compliments? Now imagine the opposite of that x1,000. All god damn day. Now imagine an attractive guy comes along and he doesn't give you validation. He doesn't even give a shit about you. You constantly think "what's wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? Were those other guys lying? Etc." And every time you think those thoughts, you think about the guy that doesn't give you validation/attention and h…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:23 PM
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"I get pissed off and text her I am done with her disrespect, she proved me wrong about her, good luck she needs it with that attitude and block on whatsapp, remove social media etc." So, why are you upset she's flirting with some other dude? You literally told her you were done. But you didn't stick to your word and now you're upset. Also, rookie mistake sending that. Showing you care/have no abundance/no frame. Better luck next time, there's thousands of girls dude.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:18 PM
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Bitches be tripping, dawg.
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:21 PM
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A girl wants to be with someone who has options, but doesn't pursue them. You don't need to cheat on your girl to have abundance mentality. You just need her to know you have options/a life outside of her to keep her interested. And yes, love is a fairytale. It's almost impossible to find a women who's in love with you (unless she's super low smv). They're mostly in love with the idea/potential of you.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:49 PM
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You didn't have to call me out like that on my first relationships. Spot on analysis, though, god damn.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:23 AM
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Women seem like complex creatures, but they're actually pretty predictable. Good job dude, fucking killed it. Congrats.
/r/seduction16/09/19 04:06 AM
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You can be hot. Girls still don't do it. He may sound like a dick, but he's not lying. Unless you're supermodel hot.
/r/seduction13/09/19 10:24 PM
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You're the backup. She legitimately told you this by saying " she is like dont feel good enough for him" but still offering you sex. You're better than an orbiter, but you're still the backup. If you do end up dating just know she'll always be searching for someone better on the down low.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:26 AM
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Oh yeah, it's definitely not an absolute, more of a blanket statement and totally not completely true. I'm just hinting towards them having terrible dating advice.
/r/seduction09/09/19 02:18 AM
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Take all of women's girl advice and do the exact opposite of what they say and you'll be successful in picking up women.
/r/seduction08/09/19 04:00 PM
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"If you are completely isolated without any human contact for a few months you start losing any life purpose you might have had." You don't know it, but you already answered your question. The more you do it the easier it gets. The less you do it the harder it gets. But you're too stuck in self pity to realize that. And it's easier to complain than to do it. And you're taking the easy way out.
/r/seduction05/09/19 07:10 PM
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I drink a massive amount but here you go. Most less expensive than drinking. Ice cream 2.Bowling 3.Walking around the park 4.Netflix and chill 5.Boba tea 6.Cooking a meal together 7.Kayaking 8.Biking 9.Picnic 10.Window shopping 11.Hiking 12.Apple picking 13.Local sports team game (preferably baseball) 14.Movies (movie night with snacks even better) 15.Roadtrip 16.Board games/cards 17.Coffee 18.Concert (local bands are cheaper but not as enjoyable for her.) 19.Local festivals 20.Beach trip The ch…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:56 PM
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Let it happen, leave her. Find another girl who doesn't suck.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:12 PM
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You're the guy she bitches to about her bf. Just let that sink in. Not trying to be a dick, but you never want to be that guy.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:32 PM
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I've known my current girlfriend for a year. We've been dating for 6 months. She's sent me 150ish nudes. Take that however you want. No, it's not needy. If you're not getting nudes, she's not working hard enough. But yes, don't pressure her into it.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:15 PM
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With women, yes. Better than being a pussy. With men, not always. Then you're close to being a douche.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:55 PM
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As someone who's slept with a lot of women and is currently in a relationship. No and yes. Getting into a relationship with the wrong women is the worst thing you can do.(especially if you get married. Good fucking luck in that case.) Getting into a relationship with the right woman isn't the dumbest thing you can do. Only problem is the majority of them are the wrong women. But you don't really realize that until utilizing the red pill.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:47 PM
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With how honest she was, I wouldn't assume that. That's rare in women/men.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 09:54 PM
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Let's be real here, the majority of women wouldn't be nearly as honest as her in that situation. The fact that she told you this is honestly a good thing. Keep that in mind. Also, she didn't do anything wrong, besides how she felt. Which she also didn't act upon.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:05 PM
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Touche
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:21 AM
2

Can we stop to point out the fact your highest stock lost $189 this month? Your second lost 0.89.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:04 PM
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Every guy should get their heart broken. Really helps you become a man, unless you decide to not see it as a learning opportunity and become a pussy.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:52 PM
1

I read all of that post. A huge mistake you're making is sticking your hand down her pants. Kiss/makeout before this. If she still denies you, completely stop trying for at least a week. If she does try, tell her you're too tired. After that week is up, you'll most likely have the best sex ever or a dead bedroom, but I'm betting on the first outcome.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:05 PM
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“do you think you can find the motivation to come to the mall with me this weekend pretty please”. You have a lot to learn, buddy.
/r/seduction23/07/19 02:58 AM
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"Playfully" is a huge indicator. Women don't actually love assholes(well, a lot do. But they're low quality and insecure). Only guys who pretend to be assholes, but do the right thing in most situations. Also most are attracted to assholish behavior, but not actual assholes. Behavior such as ignoring her, standing up for yourself, telling her no, not being clingy, confidence, assertiveness, teasing her. But being an actual dick is pretty detrimental to keeping a woman. Especially one who doesn't…
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:26 AM
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I call bullshit, more men are becoming pussies compared to our grandfather's. Those are people who had the possibility of being drafted, had more of a backbone (because no sjw culture) and inherently grew up in a more sexist era compared to men nowadays are "nice guys"?
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:23 AM
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"These normal chicks are fine for now but I want to move up eventually." "I just mean they study a lot because they are in difficult academic programs" You may not realize it now, but short term you're moving up. Long term you're moving down. Where will these nerdy girls who focused on difficult academics be in 5-10 years as opposed to the girls who partied their way through life?
/r/askTRP06/07/19 01:26 AM
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They didn't have the influx of options before creating a paradox of choice making it harder for the average man to date, because they're pickier in today's time. Everyone, not just women, want the best and thanks to men being desperate/not self respecting to walk away we've made it harder to find a mate.
/r/seduction04/07/19 12:38 PM
1

Yeah, we're all at least a little inherently shallow. Also, why do you think hot women can be such shitty partners/bitchy people and always have multiple options? The same goes with successful men who are complete dicks. A lot of this information is basically telling you that just because she's hot she isn't shit (something the majority of men don't realize and agreeing with what you're saying.) despite the people on here "chasing clout." You're totally right it's dying out in society and honest…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:29 PM
1

I actually post a lot of a lot of redpill concepts on the askmen subreddit with threads related to dating. Usually it tends to get a surprising amount upvotes and even some (self proclaimed) women agreeing with my opinions. The majority of Reddit seems to dislike redpill as a whole, but tend to agree with the majority of their ideas. As long as it's not directly related to redpill. Edit: Plus, we have those countless amounts of threads about how some "perfect" woman totally fucked them over with…
/r/MGTOW02/07/19 11:07 PM
3

Part of being in (most sectors of) HVAC includes a lot of lifting. If you ruin your body you'll most likely be ruled out of the majority of trades. Keep that in mind when making your decision.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:20 PM
34

You're most likely subconsciously trying too hard now. Before I'm assuming you didn't care as much and came off more genuine/aloof/dgaf. Just a guess.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:13 PM
2

"oh shit I might lose him" Most guys turn into insecure whiny little "nice guy" bitches but this turns the tables around. Plus, girls always want what other girls want.
/r/seduction02/07/19 10:34 AM
11

Ice cream, walk in the park, bowling, kayaking, hiking, dog park, putt putt, ice skating, hole in the wall local food place, Netflix and chill(bonus points with wine/candy/bathtub.), inexpensive drinks at local place, picnic, cooking together, minor league baseball game. They're all cheap, but some are varying degrees if she's a new girl/fwb/girlfriend.
/r/seduction01/07/19 10:32 PM
4

Don't listen to what a women says, pay attention to what she does.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:51 PM
1

Doesn't matter. You can be popular in highschool, but no one will care about you once you enter the real world. First off, focus on building and mantaining relationships. With everyone. Their smv doesn't matter. Yours doesn't either. Secondly, get as good of grades as you possibly can. Focus on getting a scholarship to reduce your potential student debt. This will pay off much later on in life. Thirdly, start lifting/eating well/getting 7-8 hours of sleep. Fourthly, save as much money as possibl…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:26 PM
-1

24, southeast, 20. 0. In a relationship. If we count approach in a week on tinder when single about 25-30.(Majority don't reply back.)
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:05 AM
1

I get much more matches when I post myself in groups of attractive women who look like they're having fun. (And usually I'm the only guy.) Plus, whenever I post pictures of me with really hot girls. Also, outside/nature pictures of you doing cool shit is an easy way to stand out. As long as it's not posed.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:04 AM
10

You may not know it, but this means you're doing things right. She knows if she she fucks up, you won't be a pushover (what I'm assuming) which is a super good thing.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:00 AM
10

You really need to work on your self confidence man, you are interesting and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. After that, you need to work on your abundance mentality. And not just with girls. First, build a dope life without girls. It's a lot of work, but then you won't be needing them nearly as much. They'll just want to tag along. Don't be afraid of escalating, despite all the dating advice you've heard throughout your years (mostly from women) they WANT you to escalate. If you don't…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:09 PM
5

One of best things I've done for my dating life regarding "text game" is to never text your girlfriend at work. It's basically a free 8 hours of her missing you. Plus, she'll probably end up texting you first, anyways. Performing well at work is more important, anyways.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:48 AM
3

If you do get a trade, do your best effort to save as much of your money as possible. You'll most likely start at a low wage, anyways. It'll help you get adjusted to budgeting, plus it will help you later on in life having fallback cash.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:52 AM
1

For the majority of women, yeah.
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:49 PM
2

If she replies to your last text and you didn't send anything (after that last text) whatever she says send "Sweet, let's watch them together next time I'm free." Then pick a time and date when she replies if she implies she's down.
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:09 PM
2

You rang?
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:08 PM
3

"Netflix wine and chill" And then when she implies to you she's basically down you change the conversation. Why?? Next time send "Cool, I'm free at time on date."
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:19 PM
3

That thread is honestly "how to get put into the friend zone"
/r/seduction21/06/19 10:21 PM
1

Sounds pretty baller, honestly.
/r/seduction20/06/19 10:51 PM
2

It's just for show. Her entire life is basically for show. (Or at least that's what I presume.), Anyways, go through her Instagram and notice how she's not truly into him. He's just a prop. You know that body language girls give guys they're super super into, like fuck me eyes while the guy is aloof? Hugging/wrapping around him? She's just interested in how she looks, she doesn't display any of those behaviors towards him.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:50 PM
6

"Start to view more attractive women as lower value than yourself" By realizing that's their main and in most cases, their only selling point.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:43 PM
5

This is the ideal response. As someone who grew up not good looking and became good looking (thankfully, I didn't put any effort into it.) Being good looking is not a magical charm to get girls. Sure, it helps. But there's so many things (much) more important than looks to keep a girl. Honestly, frame/confidence/status/doing whatever you want is much more important than looks. And money. But those girls aren't worth it. Too bad there's so many of them.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:01 PM
7

"Okay, have fun!" Wait until she drunk texts you. You insecure fuck. You're not dating her. Don't be a needy, insecure pushover.
/r/seduction15/06/19 08:19 PM
1

As a guy who's 25/30 in giving girls an orgasm, this is literally spot on to a fucking tee.
/r/seduction15/06/19 08:15 PM
1

Yeah, I was wrong, should have read it more. Completely missed the part where you said you're new.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:29 AM
5

Stopped reading at a certain point, but for someone who claims to be redpilled you really seem to be talking a lot about some girl who shouldn't even matter to you anymore.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:40 AM
1

This will sound really strange, but if her Snapchat score is over 100,000 it's an immediate red flag almost every single time. If she's an Instagram model it's a red flag.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:08 PM
8

Choking, slapping, spitting on her, spanking, finger in her ass, degrading her, calling her slut/whore in bed, slapping her, handcuffs, toys while fucking her, tying her up, fucking outside. Thank me later. You'll have her at your fingertips. Most guys are too pussy to do this. There's a reason 50 shades of grey is a best selling novel. Don't go too far unless you're good at sex. Slowly ease into these activities. She has to be comfortable with you.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:15 AM
19

I use to not want a girlfriend and just fuck random tinder thots. One ended up being super attractive so I asked her to be my girlfriend. I turned into a pussy soon after. Basically had a mental break down when she left and later on realized how I acted around new girls/initially meeting her and how I acted around her once we started dating and that was more than enough proof. Now I have a new girlfriend and I can easily say it's one of the best decisions I've ever made in terms for my dating li…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:07 AM
1

This is actually a blessing in disguise. It instantly rules out all the girls who don't like you for you and only care about your accomplishments. I felt the same way when I worked at 7/11, so I get it man.
/r/seduction11/06/19 03:13 AM
3

I see my friend's girlfriends treat them like this all the time and it's truly astounding what they're willing to put up with. And hearing my co-workers complain about their wives and how they were treated is so fucked up. Wives honestly sound so much worse. If only they knew. Some of the things they do/say to them would make me leave my girlfriend instantly if she did the same shit.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 06:02 PM
2

This only works with guys with options, though.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:25 PM
5

If a girl has absolutely no attraction to you, there's pretty much no possibility of them changing their mind. If they have the slightest attraction, but are on the fence then it works like a charm. Idk man, it might just be ancedotal evidence, but my past three girlfriends have been basically from ignoring them. I show interest and then they show less and less until I ignore them/stop replying completely and then it's like fireworks or some shit.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 02:29 AM
8

Hot women tend to be friends with hot women. While I do somewhat agree with you, just hit on other girls with her around. Don't act like you like her. Pay more attention to everyone else when she's around.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 12:28 AM
13

No. Use her to game other chicks. Women use men for validation all the time. Why not use her hotness to your advantage to fuck hotter women? Either that or ignore her and there's a huge probability of her gaining attraction towards you.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:40 PM
3

Are you attractive? Yes. And only if they're not in a rush. Are you not? No.
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:13 PM
1

Usually I wouldn't agree with most women on dating advice, but hers is actually pretty solid. I mean shit, she even quoted Patrice O Neal, a well known womanizer.
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:45 AM
2

Trust me man, I've talked to a lot of girls. I used to be a huge socially awkward virgin and then got better at it. Mostly due to becoming more attractive and flirting with as many women as possible. But I completely agree with you that the reward is hardly worth the effort. Honestly, it's not at all. If you get insanely lucky and find a girl who is (which is hard as fuck) don't fuck it up. Lastly, don't settle. I see so many guys get treated like shit from their girlfriend's, because they can't…
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:43 AM
4

" he doesn't give a shit about her" There ya go, he's not needy at all
/r/askTRP07/06/19 11:25 AM
2

I work a manual labor job and it's somewhat comforting how many of them are redpill (without even realizing it) and not assholes. Usually the older ones are straight out assholes, but still redpill. Probably too much, honestly. It's weird, though, because some of them talk about their relationships and they act bluepill with their relationships (from what they say) and that's why their relationships sound shitty/always have problems. If only they knew. I got off topic, but this dude is right. Th…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:49 PM
2

Branch swinging/hypergamy.
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:10 PM
7

Dating a military dude is an investment. Women want winners. Not people on the path to (possibly) winning.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 01:30 AM
1

Think of how much better you'll be when you learn how to and are fit. Don't wait, start now.
/r/seduction02/06/19 11:59 PM
3

Home to family. She's currently working there full time with her family member in a decent job inbetween her internships. So I'm not too worried about that. Mostly the change in posting more pictures of me.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:33 PM
2

I'd hope not. She doesn't seem to be acting any different. She gave me the keys to her apartment since she's been gone this month. Has driven down to visit me. Constant sex. A lot of compliments. Cooked for me. Split our date. More pictures than usual, but I suspect that's because she's back home for the summer and I've asked almost every night. (It's not out of the ordinary as she usually does all these things for me.) So, I'm probably just over thinking it. The only thing out of the ordinary i…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:33 PM
5

The thing is....they want you to do it. They fucking love it. My girlfriend told me a story where she was talking with her friends and one girl said her tinder date "choked me without me even asking." (Women love to talk) And all the other girls were like "oh shit girl, you should wife him up." These were college sorority students with respectable careers, too. Not trailer park trash.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 04:22 PM
8

This chicks gonna end up murdering you, bro
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:56 PM
1

Depends how attractive you are. Tends to work out for me. Plus, her sending that is a clear sign of interest.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 04:48 PM
5

He doesn't give a fuck what they think of him and it drives women crazy. That's what I'm getting from your post. He's not a dancing monkey, because he seems to not care about their validation.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 03:49 AM
3

"Confident enough to know you'll say yes."
/r/askTRP30/05/19 03:45 AM
24

"I'm so sorry for thinking I could find anyone better than you. We both know I can't." Damn, dude. The moment she realizes she fucked up hardcore.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 03:02 AM
3

Ice cream. Walk around afterwards. 10 bucks maximum. Every girl ever has loved it. Surprisingly enough most guys only think of some dumb shit like dinner. She's supposed to impress you, as well. Plus, that's relationship dating. Not getting to know someone. Or just Netflix and chill.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:31 AM
2

"Hey, you're going to start doing more of these things, because it's disrespectful that you don't. I'm not going to let you keep leeching off me." She's going to get mad. You're going to act unaffected. You withdraw attention. She realizes her mistake. She starts chasing you/doing these things. There's millions of women out there. Ones who won't take you for advantage.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:27 AM
2

"Well yeah, I'm not a piece of shit about to fuck a girl who was just crying. I have standards." All you gotta do is stand up for yourself and then just don't talk about it, anymore. Also, don't tell girls your problems unless it's about how you overcame them.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:00 AM
1

Losing their abundance/idgaf mentality. Also, flirting is pretty much a skill and you stopped practicing it with multiple girls considering you got a girlfriend. So you pretty much slowly lost your ability to flirt with women.
/r/seduction28/05/19 11:37 PM
10

" world's most successful pick-up artists end up being sad, self-loathing, anxiety-ridden messes" That's why the majority seem to end up quitting and getting into relationships.
/r/seduction25/05/19 11:42 PM
3

Make her more invested in you. Every single time I've cared more about a relationship working out, I inherently fucked it up. Every time I've stopped giving shit about a girl, she would do almost anything to keep me around. Basically, make her do more work than you, but sprinkle in little things from time to time. Such as affection, gifts, dates. Don't do any of these if she has shitty behavior towards you. Only after she basically "proves" herself to you. Otherwise, she'll take it and you for g…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:11 PM
8

They went crazy because they're used to an inordinate amount of attention. And the fact someone doesn't want her is literally a mindfuck to her. Girls who are out of this world hot tend to be used to guys swooning over them and it's mind-blowing to them to have someone not attracted to them.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:17 PM
25

Imagine being that fucking stupid. Sending pictures. Hearts. Obvious flirting before. Then deleting the conversation. "But we have good sex" Like what dude. Sex isn't gonna save you from that shit show. And even if she's not cheating, she's obviously attention whoring towards other men. Specifically her ex. Grow a god damn backbone my dude. I even give the redpill shit for automatically assuming someone's cheating, but this is blatant disrespect dude.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:20 AM
16

You're a fucking idiot if you continue a relationship with her after seeing this. That's all I have to say.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:41 AM
6

Fucking thank you. Only fucker here that seems to understand that, honestly. If she's being a bitch, I just ignore her. If she sends me nudes I go "my bitch looking fine as fuck." And that way you're not still being a pussy. Are you guys really too in your head or alpha to fucking compliment a girl? Bitches love when you build them up, but aren't a bitch about it.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:24 PM
2

She's been dating you for two years without you doing that. That seems to be proof enough to me. Stay the same man she was attracted to. Not the one she wants you to become.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:48 PM
2

Or you can just do that and then see if she's uncomfortable with going further and not to be pushy. That's why I mentioned if she doesn't want to go further then you should respect her decision. I never said to push her into doing anything she doesn't want to.
/r/seduction23/05/19 06:34 PM
11

Lead the interaction. Don't ask her that. Be decisive, bold, confident and push things further. If she doesn't want to go further, respect her decision. Word of advice, after 5-10 minutes of making out, start kissing her neck (like hickey wise) and move up to her ear and nibble on it. While you're doing this carress her waist and slowly move your hands toward her pussy. (Over the clothes.) Once you start rubbing it and you can tell she's getting hotter, move under her jeans over her panties. Kee…
/r/seduction23/05/19 02:30 AM
12

Low value women. Dishonest women. But if you just want sex and to have no moral code, go ahead.
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:57 PM
1

Would you rather be known as "the one who got away" or the one who she laughs with her friends about you begging for her back?
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:47 PM
1

Honestly, I'm pretty sure most dates I've been on the girl has always cancelled. This is just ancedotal evidence, but the ones I didn't give a shit about and didn't pursue anymore always hit me back up. I guess it stands out to the other guys who keep pursuing. So yes, I see good results with this strategy, but that's just me. Especially with me posting me on a date on Snapchat the same time I asked her on a date. Actually how I got my current LTR. And yes, I realize it's manipulative, but it wo…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 08:08 PM
3

You have to have a little bit of those traits to maintain a successful relationship, in my opinion. Don't get me wrong, not 100%. Otherwise you'll just always be spinning plates.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 04:54 AM
10

Jesus Christ "What are you doing tomorrow" don't send that shit. Come on dude. "Hey, we're going on a date tomorrow when I'm free, I'll text you around 6-8pm." If she declines act like it's no big deal, because it isn't. Then try again in a few days or wait for her to text you while you text other girls. *Bonus points if she's a tinder/new girl and you can Snapchat you doing cool shit in that time frame she rejected you. (Going on a date, with friends, outdoor activity.)
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:24 PM
1

Yes, but only if you're good at it and don't give a fuck and not worried to lose the girl. A relationship is a little different with more texts about real life, but even then not so much so.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:26 PM
7

Honestly, how to be a creep
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:25 PM
1

I see the common denominator is you're not escalating things further than making out. Either you're a bad kisser, don't go further when you should (massage her genitals basically).
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:08 AM
3

My current girlfriend wasn't a fuck yes as she was talking to other dudes at the time. She actually rejected me after the first three dates/hookups. Now she'll do literally whatever I want whenever I want anytime I want. Sexual or non sexual. (To be fair I'm becoming more attractive/confident/better at life throughout the relationship.) So, pick your battles wisely.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:32 AM
2

You need her more than she needs you. You're fucking up by always being there and trying so hard. And women hate that in a man. There's nothing they love more than someone who wants them, but doesn't need them. And that's what he meant by you fucking up. You act like you need her. Keep your chin up buddy, there's millions of women and you were fine before you met her. It's all gonna be okay.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:01 PM
1

This is controversial, but treat her like a whore in bed. Still make love from time to time, but basically act like Christian Grey. Most guys are too afraid to since they believe it'll disrespect the girl. The thing is they don't realize the girl wants that. I've never met a single woman who hasn't liked it. But never go too far and still respect her boundaries. And it's better to ease into it. Definitely not your first hookup.
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:38 PM
3

The thing is most of this isn't for women. It's basically telling you to live your own life regardless of her, but to include her. This is for you and not women and they'll respect that since you aren't making them the center of your world. Edit: Almost everything I mentioned was things you should do for yourself looking back on it.
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:35 PM
2

Honestly, you should tell her boyfriend man. Especially if you're friends.
/r/seduction11/05/19 07:13 AM
7

Only if they have a victim mentality and blame others for their misfortunes. My friends are people that I care about and I'm not going to let girls ruin that for me. You can have redpill ideologies and not be an asshole.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:25 AM
2

Assholes get the girl short term. Men who aren't afraid to be themselves, but aren't assholes get the girl long term. Apparently it's science or some shit.
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:10 AM
1

Yes. It helps more than you'd think. But don't do it with an ulterior motive. Girls want what other girls want. (People do in general.) Plus, you have options which is attractive.
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:05 AM
1

Push/pull according to pickup artists. But honestly, who gives a fuck, do what you want. By being afraid to become needy you'll most likely end up becoming needy ironically.
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:51 PM
14

It's easier than it sounds. Have your own life without her. It'll make her miss you and respect you more. You'll be less needy. Do cool shit and go out of your comfort zone, so you have cool things to talk about. Don't be needy. Be willing to stand up for yourself. And hell, even disagree with her. Have attainable goals in life that you work towards. Good sex. It's controversial, but dominant sex is basically heroin to the majority of women. Confidence, don't be afraid of who you are and trying …
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:37 PM
1

With my girlfriend, no. Sometimes she does, but if you don't put up with shit tests or are unbothered she becomes more afraid to lose you than to challenge you.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:17 PM
1

Yes and no. You should care and be emotionally there. But you should also be emotionally okay/have enough cool shit in your life that it won't matter as much if she leaves. If she leaves, it will hurt no matter what. But if you're aware you can attract/sleep/date other women it'll hurt less and she'll notice that.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 06:02 PM
17

Option 1: You get jealous, she starts resenting you, she leaves you. Option 2: You joke about how other girls want to fuck you. She likes you more and tries harder to keep you. Your choice, my dude.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 06:34 PM
1

You don't understand women, do you? It's sexist as fuck, but that's literally what they do.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:49 PM
3

Tells her you don't want a relationship, gets upset she sleeps with other guys. You serious man?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:46 PM
1

Go ice cream/bowling/putt putt instead so you can talk to her more instead of awkwardly sitting there in silence in your head about making a move
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:53 PM
3

"Don’t want to “lose” and have her formally break up with me though" This exact type of thinking is ironically why you'll most likely end up losing her.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:02 AM
3

Some of the shit is emotionally abusive and I disagree with that. A lot of it is true. It's easier to say what I agree with. Abundance, idgaf mentality, having your shit together (finances, career, in shape.) One reason the having your shit together works so well is because you're confident with or without a woman and they eat that shit up, especially knowing you have options.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:26 AM
1

You said it's a lack of anything interesting to say. So it's gonna suck and be hard as fuck at first, but start living an interesting life. Then more people will be attracted to what you say, giving you even more interesting experiences to talk about.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:21 AM
2

Just tell your new girl those kinks and say "we're doing this tonight/later" while in the moment. Most girls literally just follow along in bed.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:47 PM
1

Only if you're in the top percent of dudes. Then the majority of them are.
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:41 PM
6

Them having Spidey senses for it. We've all been desperate at least once in our life in multiple areas, it's not that weird.
/r/seduction30/03/19 12:57 PM
28

Based off your post you care too much about getting laid. Girls have like a sixth sense for desperation, shit's weird.
/r/seduction30/03/19 11:23 AM
3

She was seeing if she could still get you. She was right. So, she lost attraction. There ya go, bud. Unmatch her. Don't reply to her. She'll either leave your life or basically beg to hang out. Either that, or she's a tease/attention whore which is insanely common.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 11:44 PM
1

I'll get down voted for this, but the only girlfriends I've ever gotten have been after I showed interest intitally and then ignored them once they stopped showing interest. (Not on purpose, I just literally moved on.)
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:21 PM
7

"Women are attracted to men that see them as someone they could be friends with, first " No offense, but that's horrible advice. That's how you end up not being honest with your intentions, getting friendzoned and then ghosted.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:16 PM
1

What's pathetic about improving yourself/appearance?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:31 AM
6

I completely agree with every single thing he said. I used to go down on women all the time to please them as much as possible. Once I started doing the super dominant shit (I especially relate to the being presented in front of a judge face), I've literally never had girls like me as much as they ever have before. It's fucking insane. And to answer your question, because it feels somewhat abusive, but you have to realize it's not and they fucking LOVE it. My girlfriend will literally let me do …
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:26 AM
1

Makes you less likely to rely on someone else to be self sustainable. That's really about it. If you think having money=getting women, you're getting a pretty shit deal with the quality of women you're dating. And losing that money on her.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:02 AM
4

"Hey, Jessie told me what you said. What's your snap/# and let's make this happen." over Instagram. Then pick a date later this week and don't pussy out my dude.
/r/seduction10/03/19 07:17 PM
4

He's with her, but can easily replace her. And she knows that. When you have options, they want you more.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 06:39 PM
1

Okay, true. No Chad. I'm too skinny. But I'm attractive and pretty good at tinder. Funnily enough I usually get "I like how forward you are." But you're right, if you're ugly it's not forwardness, just creepy. But they already matched on tinder. So she's most likely already down. My bad for the shitty format, lil tipsy.
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:29 AM
3

Since you said it's after five messages on an app, that may come off as a little bit too much. Add "sometime" to the end of your message if you want it to work better. Trust me man, I got my brother his gf on tinder and I'm super fucking good on tinder. (But I am pretty attractive so it may be somewhat biased.)
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:28 AM
2

I always made it sexual/got the snap after less than five messages. Okay so change it to "by giving me your snap" once she responds to your "prove it" message. Then wait until she messages you on snap or 12ish hours later. I absolutely guarantee you it'll work.
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:27 AM
11

"Eh, you're alright I guess, gonna have to prove it tho (;" I'll willing to venmo you $250 if it doesn't work, I'm that confident about it. Edit: shell respond something like "hmm, how's that?" And then you get ask for nudes/or say something vaguely sexual and boom, you're in.
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:05 AM
13

No no no no. Don't ask a girl for dating advice, unless she's a lesbian. Ask your player friends for dating advice. I think one thing you might be doing is being too needy/in your head/not outcome independent. A lot of that shit is in your head. And when you're on a dry spell, it really shows in your behavior I think.
/r/seduction09/03/19 11:22 PM
2

I've gone on 50ish tinder dates. Ones I've kissed, I've always hooked up with on the first date. One I didn't kiss, I never hungout with them ever again. (Because they didn't want to anymore.)
/r/askTRP09/03/19 09:31 PM
1

Didn't read any of that shit. But body language, eye contact. But not in a creepy way (no offense, but you probably won't pull it off.) There's a certain way someone who radiates confidence portrays themselves.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 09:28 PM
5

Like you're insanely desperate, huge turn off
/r/askTRP09/03/19 09:28 PM
48

Yep. Being in a relationship is basically a magnent for girls. Outcome independence, social proof, abundance mentality, non-neediness. Confidence is a nice boost. Women love men who other women want. Absolutely fucking love them.
/r/seduction07/03/19 05:05 AM
1

Not really down to wingman, but I live super close, you should pm me your snap. Maybe once we get to know each other. Or if my girlfriend and I break up.
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:07 PM
2

I mean, we all do it. Those super hot girls? They're unattainable and that's why we want them. That's why they want unavailable/high value dudes/guys with other shit going on. Because they're so hard to obtain and other woman want them. Honestly, I think much of the red pill is basically just human psychology.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:57 PM
2

Yes. There's a reason there's all those memes about their crush leaving them on open and shit/their boyfriend not texting back. That's when you notice how true the majority of this shit is for women aged 18-28. Never making that mistake of being an emotional pussy, again. I've lost so many girls because of it and never fully realized until I came across this sub.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:19 AM
1

Yes and no, because most club girls are the exact opposite of relationship material. But easy lays.
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:11 AM
1

This will be super sexist (I'm probably pretty sexist anyways.) But girls want to win. There's a reason they get new boyfriend's within a week. The more you ignore them, the more they like you once you break-up. Showing you don't need them to be happy/can get other women, they love that shit. Edit: Most this applies to hot/cute/pretty girls. Other girls are just happy with whatever they get.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:56 PM
1

Tinder. Go to her house/she comes to your apartment. Do not go on dates. Do not try to win girls over. Make it sexual and if she's not into it, move on. But work more/longer hours/don't spend money. More important for your future than just some pussy. Pussy isn't your future.
/r/seduction28/02/19 11:06 PM
2

Talk to multiple girls. Have different good shit outside of girls going for you in life. Don't think of her as someone to attain. Get to know her instead and see if she impressed you. Make more platonic friends, guys and girls. Basically, just have an interesting life outside of girls.
/r/seduction28/02/19 10:53 PM
4

You're making excuses while he's out doing shit. Hard truth, be more like him. Also I'm skinny and all my girlfriend's and my current one have all been super hot. Up your confidence/social skills.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:45 AM
3

I think a lot of it has to do with the whole abundance mentality. It's kinda fucked up, but that's part of the reason I Snapchat when I'm with attractive girls who show interest in me. Then I hardly have to do any work. My girlfriend, before we started dating even said "I know I'm not your only option" and that's part of why she likes me. Girls love that shit. Her ex's still try to get her back and we literally make fun of the fact that they're still chasing her. Once you start sleeping with mor…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:39 PM
2

Yes. My brother is a pretty well off dude with an established job/amazing apartment with all his shit together. He's an alcoholic so he doesn't have any "frame" and ruins all his relationships through being blackout drunk/clinginess/neediness. I have none of those things (excluding a solid social circle of people with high smv) and I do much better than him with women, because I have more confidence/"frame" than him. I'm a skinny dude with a shit car and decent job, but my confidence/non-needine…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:29 PM
9

How I got my last two girlfriends. You show interest, they show disinterest over time, you stop talking to them. Now you're a valuable person who's hard to attain for her. Girls like the chase. Also you beat out 90% of dudes who keep chasing girls who aren't interested in them while they send their messages to their friends laughing about you. (If you have friends who are attractive girls they're really open about this shit. Trust me, their friends will see your messages if you're that clingy/ni…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 11:27 PM
4

Dude... you don't even have to take her on a date, she literally told you she's down to fuck. Just say "okay cool, movie at my place then"
/r/seduction21/02/19 11:19 PM
1

"Hi, I saw you from over there and I thought you looked pretty interesting, you should tell me about yourself." Then 5-10 minutes later "hey, let's go on a date this week/I want to take you on a date, what's your #?"
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:32 AM
2

How to be super weird at a bar Even if you make a good point
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:19 PM
1

I totally agree with you. I'm basically a piece of shit/horrible long-term partner. But this has always done wonders for me. You really don't need the money. It's just a bonus. Also don't put yourself down dude, I believe in you. But make the money/career for you, not her.
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:18 PM
1

It's funny, because I agree, don't take a woman's advice for dating. Unless you're dating her. But she seems self aware enough, so that's tight. (While being somewhat oblivious, honestly.)
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:17 PM
2

Girls let me get away with a lot more shit. It's much easier to be a dick to them and have them forgive me/still want me. ​ I can show interest and they won't be turned off by it. (I know girls like to chase, but if you're more attractive, it doesn't really matter as much.) ​ I get a lot more sex now. ​ People are just generally nicer to me/offer me more opportunities and don't avoid me nearly as much. ​ On the contrary, some guys are more likely to put you down more than others. (the ones who a…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:25 PM
6

It's funny, because literally everything you described in this post is basically the entire point of this sub. ​ Having your shit together, confidence, non-neediness, being with other attractive women, not being a niceguy. ​
/r/seduction17/02/19 09:09 PM
4

The more you do it, the easier it gets. The more opportunities you create, the better options you have. This isn't just regarding women, but anything in life.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:58 AM
2

Honestly, the main reason I think you should do this is for yourself. This sub always gets it wrong assuming you're doing it to make your ex want you more. But it makes it so much easier emotionally for you and that's why you should do it.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 06:35 PM
6

I think it all depends on how you handle things, but one of the loneliest I've felt after my breakup is laying in bed with some girl I had no emotional connection with. And eh, fuck it, if it works for you it works, good luck on your date man.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:25 PM
8

Don't quit your job without a new job lined up. They're right.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 04:55 PM
73

Delete all communication with her instantly Move all your pictures to a hidden file you can't view Reconnect as much as possible with friends Start working out/being active Invest your time/energy into working more hours (if you get paid hourly) Don't fall into the trap of abusing drugs/alcohol and becoming a miserable loser Start flirting with more girls. If it hurts too much, don't hookup. If it doesn't, start hooking up more. Eat healthier/start cooking. Start saving the money you spent on he…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 04:51 PM
2

That guy gets more women than the guy who doesn't as long as he's genuine, honestly. Edit: Forgot to add if he's successful at it, if not he's just a creep. Sadly, how the world works.
/r/seduction31/01/19 09:29 PM
15

I'm willing to bet you $1,000 she'll leave you once you become more jealous Don't ever become someone's bitch. Especially your girl's bitch.
/r/seduction31/01/19 09:25 PM
1

I think you basically just described the book "models" in your interactions with her
/r/askTRP29/01/19 02:48 AM
6

Looks matter for one night stands, personality/confidence matters more for a relationship. Success matters most for a long term relationship, but you still need a combination of all of the above. (If you find a girl where your success doesn't matter count your god damn lucky stars every single day.) ​ But if you're ugly, you're basically fucked. Or you can just hookup with girls who are much lower in standards.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:12 PM
5

My advice is to move on dude Women are people too, not prizes
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:53 PM
3

He's an introvert
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:17 PM
2

Respect, dawg. Just don't overdo it, totally made that mistake many times before. ​
/r/seduction24/01/19 10:09 PM
1

You sound like a dick, but you're completely right.
/r/seduction24/01/19 10:06 PM
1

Honestly, the most I've ever spent on a date (while single) was around $20. ​ I've hooked up with almost 30 out of 40 tinder chicks and I'm only somewhat above average (only didn't when I was too afraid to make a move). ​ Spending money to attract a girl is a horrible mindset to have. Just have a good time with them. Don't even try to win them over by buying them shit. ​ Honestly, just treat them like people, but make it known you're attracted to her. Not like someone you're trying to impress.
/r/seduction24/01/19 10:04 PM
3

Don't worry man, the tides will turn once they hit 30. ​ Focus as much as possible on self improvement in every aspect of your life right now.
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:38 PM
20

Girls do the same thing, what's the difference?
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:49 PM
4

Well I mean makes sense.. A girl doesn't want a relationship with you unless you're better off than her. Partly why I refuse to date. Idk, I like women, but I don't. I'm 100% sexist as fuck.
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:40 PM
7

Everytime I've tried to form an emotional connection with a girl I recently started talking to she's usually gone within a few weeks So there's that 🤷
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:36 PM
4

Money and cultivating meaningful relationships with more people. (Which ironically doesn't include any women in it, except for my family. Sexist as fuck, but at least I'll admit it.) Other than that, just being good to people and staying true to myself/personality even if it offends people. (My sense of humor is what most would consider offensive)
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:20 PM
1

Rejection used to make me feel super depressed/sad. Then I had a relevation. Anytime I've ever been depressed over a girl rejecting/leaving me I've always found another girl. Sure, it hurts, but I remind myself of that and try not to let me being depressed ruin my next chance. She's just another girl, bro. (That song always helped to for some reason.)
/r/seduction18/01/19 09:08 PM
1

That's typical "niceguys", not being an adult. Just send "Hey, I have feelings for you, but if you don't that's totally cool" Then if she doesn't, just leave her alone. None of that "clearly you don't" bullshit dude. You know better.
/r/seduction18/01/19 01:13 AM
1

"I use drugs to surpress my emotions" No shit you're depressed dude You use drugs to escape reality. I've been there before. It's not pretty. Get off them. Feel a flood of emotions and you'll slowly get better.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:34 PM
2

No one's wasting anyone's time, it's just a date with two random people online. She doesn't owe you anything? Idk man, I don't get your mindset, but oh well, I guess we just disagree.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:25 PM
2

Fair enough. I will say I've hooked up with 5-10 extra girls by just saying "oh yeah sure, no worries." and then half the time they reach out again.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:24 PM
0

If you really had as many options as you say you did you wouldn't have acted like that towards her. You wouldn't have gotten online and posted a fucking thread about it to make yourself feel better/validated...
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:58 PM
1

Yeah there's a bunch of women, but closing off an option completely because you're bitter is fucking straight up retarded no matter how many options there are. A 1% chance is always better than a 0%. You're just upset you got rejected, which you didn't even get rejected until your ego/pride fucked yourself over. Tldr; you rejected yourself dude and acting like you rejected her.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:57 PM
-4

Yeah...but sex... You just say "no problem" and leave her on open instead of getting all bitter about it. It's literally the same exact thing, but you still leave the door open. The one thing you should never do in life for absolutely anything is burn your birdges.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:42 AM
1

So rather than have a tiny chance you decided to completely ruin it? Most girls cancel on first dates usually. Just don't care. Usually when a girl does that I set up a different date with a different girl and Snapchat it. Then guess what...the first girl usually wants to hangout again. Super manipulative, but it works super well.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:36 AM
4

To be completely honest with you, I think this helped your chances. People always want people in a relationship/who are desirable. Then again I'm just generalizing.
/r/seduction13/01/19 07:45 PM
4

Once you find one and lose her you'll become a huge dick. You're right. It's nearly impossible to find. And once you lose it, you'll notice her flaws.
/r/seduction12/01/19 05:06 AM
2

The only time you can fail is if you didn't try. And if you tried and failed, at least you succeeded in one thing. Also social skills are definitely learned. It gets a lot easier the more you get out of your comfort zone. Good luck man!
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:46 AM
2

If you're naturally yourself you'll find people who like you and don't like you. The people who do like you will make you feel better about it, honestly. You'll realize they don't really care as much. Most people are too in their own head to give a shit about judging other people, especially as you get older People who don't like you are most likely just judgemental assholes. Even though this isn't always true. (Ironically most of this subreddit.)
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:09 AM
2

You're overthinking. You're afraid to show your true personality in fear people won't like you. (Which ironically has the opposite effect.)
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:17 PM
3

Save all your money while you do this and invest it later and put it into retirement funds. The oil field won't last forever if you're a young guy. Don't be one of the stupid fucks who blows all their money while they're young. If you save it, you're not anywhere close to wasting your life. You're investing in your future. If not, you're making a terrible terrible mistake and wasting your time only to work more later on in life. Edit: I saw you thing about pursuing higher education after replyin…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:11 PM
1

Hey it's better than never finishing it. It's better than never even trying. (As long as you don't get yourself into a mountain of debt.)
/r/seduction10/01/19 10:21 PM
2

I've never had a girl leave me for not texting enough. (Don't completely ignore her.) I've always had a girl leave me for texting too much. That's just my experience. Results may vary.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:38 AM
16

Walking releases dopamine. So it's actually a super good idea. As long as you're not a boring fuck and fun to be around.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:44 PM
1

Because they don't have better options/aren't educated/make significantly less. Strange ancedote, I have always worked at pretty low paying jobs. The one thing they don't have in common with anyone I know successful is the successful ones don't pay child support. (Because women don't leave them as easily.) But that could be a different in cause and correlation, because poorer people are more likely to have kids I believe. And are I'll prepared due to finances.
/r/seduction31/12/18 11:32 PM
3

You do know money issues is the biggest reason for a divorce? And who statistically makes more money than women? So it's somewhat naive to think that. It doesn't matter short term, but it certainly does long term.
/r/seduction31/12/18 09:11 PM
1

Well, by asking I mean saying "Hey, let's be fwb's and make this a regular thing."
/r/seduction31/12/18 12:29 AM
1

"I was willing to give up everything to keep her in my life" This is your biggest flaw. You gotta fix that shit. Gotta have the mentality "my life is so awesome, I don't give a fuck if she joins or not" despite the emotional pain.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:23 AM
26

I don't know, fucking ask maybe
/r/seduction30/12/18 03:31 PM
1

Personally, and I may be wrong, but I think it has to do somewhat with the pickup artist having options so he's not needy/clingy. The guy with the successful career, but can't get laid tries too hard to get laid and comes off as needy. (My brother is kind of living proof of this.) Plus, being a good person who's fun to be around is really a lot of it. Having a successful career doesn't make you that person.
/r/seduction30/12/18 12:48 PM
5

Happens all the time But here are the possible reasons She's busy She got shy/insecure so she flaked She's used to dude's blowing up at her for cancelling ("niceguys") She had second thoughts
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:43 PM
6

Cause it means you don't have a fucking life Be balanced in all aspects of your life. Career, social circle, hobby.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:35 PM
1

Number one reason for divorce
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:04 PM
3

Yeah, majority. And men too. I mean, who doesn't want the best?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:06 AM
1

No, but for a long-term relationship, yes.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:53 AM
1

These stupid fuckers are misogynistic and don't realize it's "the majority of people are like that."
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:53 AM
2

I don't have money or social status, really.
/r/seduction28/12/18 06:15 AM
1

Tinder for the most part. I'm decently attractive, but pretty forward. And potentially for some and I usually always have 1-2 girls as fwb's.
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:56 AM
1

Feel bad about myself, laugh about it, repeat the process. Don't get into a relationship (but that's on me, because my life isn't together yet.) ​ Then realize I have multiple girls who would/are willing to fuck me and it's amazing. (I get rejected all the fucking time, but I'd rather regret trying as opposed to never knowing. Plus, the more I get rejected the more I get laid...because it means I'm trying.)
/r/seduction27/12/18 09:38 PM
1

Value yourself enough as a person to be indifferent about caring what they think. Don't confuse this with being an asshole/ordering people around. There's a fine line between standing up for yourself/opinions and being abusive.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 05:20 AM
12

You sound much more confident than you think you are. Some people pretend , some actually have it. Everyone has doubts and is self conscious of their words/actions. But truly confident people don't care about other people's opinions on their words/actions. They don't need someone to validate their feelings. And the fact you listen/see their point is actually a huge advantage man. Just don't let it make you a doormat who agrees with someone just to agree.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 05:03 AM
1

Fair enough, just message me your snapchat username and I'll send them. (fair warning, I'll blow up your phone notifications for 5-10 minutes) ​ Basically they're all just a mix of being forward (but not creepy/too sexual), confident and humorous honestly.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:01 PM
2

I have maybe 60ish screenshots of examples. I don't really feel comfortable posting them and they're all from a year ago, but I can message you if you'd like. The majority of girls are 7+. A few are 5's, but they were mostly for practice.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 07:15 PM
1

I wouldn't throw a tantrum when someone else doesn't like me or gets upset/annoyed by me, because I'm not an emotional wreck. Sure, I would be upset, but I wouldn't over-react to the situation. ​ Man or woman. ​ Your analogy strangely seems like a strawman argument?? ​
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:14 AM
1

True. But to compare women to five year olds is a little fucked.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:00 AM
1

That's simply not true. Anyways, aren't technically the majority of humans slaves to their emotions? You always will be, but if you have emotional intelligence you're ahead of most people.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:57 AM
2

I don't really think they feel entitled to commitment. I think everyone does. I feel that way too, sometimes. That's kinda what I mean. Human nature is just shitty. ​ If you ever notice one thing people want to date people who don't want them and vice versa. And this seems to be especially true with younger girls. Why do you think they love "fuckboys" so much? Listen to someone's actions, not their words. ​ But then again, I do know my views on this are pretty toxic.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:43 AM
5

Honestly, I'm pretty good with women and I actually have pretty sexist views, not even gonna lie. (only towards younger woman, but that's because of my views human nature/psychology.) I don't really pay for them. If we're in a LTR then yeah I'll go on dates with them and pay sometimes. ​ Why wine and dine them when you can just fuck them? ​ Why be exclusive towards someone our age when they have so many options? You ever hear how most girls talk about their ex's? In my experience it's hardly eve…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:37 AM
22

Here's some real advice, not this psuedo bullshit. Girls tell you you're a nice guy, because you wait too long to make a move. You're too afraid of offending hri/rejection that you wait until it's a safe bet which your chance is already over. You let a girl's perception of you affect your self-worth too much, instead of just being happy with yourself. Don't be afraid to tease/flirt/be sexual with them. So do what makes you happy/be who you want/act however you want and if someone doesn't like it…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 07:42 AM
2

You didn't make a move
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:48 PM
13

She's not interested
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:46 PM
1

That's like the exact opposite attitude of what you're going for, but good luck I guess dude
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:30 PM
0

For me it was alcohol, but then that kinda ruined everything so um idk dude, you do you.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:27 AM
3

Tinder/bumble/cold approach/hobbies. Basically have a life outside your girlfriend if you do get into a long term relationship. If you don't you'll become a clingy fuck who turns into a stereotypical "nice guy" trying too hard to please her. A long term relationship isn't necessarily a bad thing, but you just have shit to do where you're completely cool with it if she decides to leave you for whatever reason. And trust me, after sleeping around as much as possible it's much much much easier to g…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:33 AM
3

If you look up the statistics only about 13-17% of people on tinder actually end up meeting. Secondly, there is always a better option for her. Unless you connect emotionally. But you can't do that over texting. So, it's a catch 22. Thirdly, tinder is becoming much less popular in the past year alone. Fourthly, college girls don't need Tinder to get laid nearly as much as guys do. They basically end up deleting it after getting a bunch of creepy messages. Lastly, tinder is basically completely p…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:46 AM
1

Be/stay healthy. Excercise, eat well, drink plenty of water, get sleep, stop watching porn.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:16 AM
1

I may be wrong about the never forgiving part, but that's my experience. It all varies depending on the person, though and it's all subjective. For those girls did you apologize or did they unblock you after a period of no contact? And did you fuck up as badly with them?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:48 PM
2

By dealing with them alone. Sadly, it's an unfortunate reality as being a man. ​ Therapist, cry alone, get a beer with a friend, go on a walk, meditate, exercise. Anything to get your mind off it. ​ Do not text her an apology. It will not go over well. If you're genuinely sorry then do it and move on. She's out of your life and most likely always will be. Best thing to do is respect it. When a girl blocks you, they fucking mean it and will most likely never forgive you. No matter how happy you m…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:18 PM
4

Doesn't matter. ​ No matter how badly I connect with someone I instantly start grieving for them and accept that someday I may never see them again. ​ It's super unhealthy, but I'll never make the mistake of being an absolute emotional mess for someone who doesn't give a fuck about me again. ​ There's thousands of people out there that you'll have a better connection with and you won't make the same mistakes you previously did with the other people.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:05 PM
3

Don't let your emotions control your actions. ​ Laugh about your mistake, learn to deal with rejection, don't let it affect your self-worth and get back out there (with other women) and most importantly learn from your mistakes. (don't dwell on them for too long or you'll self-loathe yourself) ​ Also learn to control your drinking.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:54 PM
5

If you're not lying, it's because they've never been in that position so they won't understand/believe you and will downplay your success in their heads. ​ Basically it doesn't seem normal to them so they discredit your success with their thoughts about it being bullshit. ​ That's what I, an internet stranger, thinks at least. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:48 PM
2

Eh, you'll get rejected a lot, but the people I know who have the most hookups/fwb's/relationships are the ones who have been rejected a lot. Or are really successful in all subsets of their life. (career, school, social circle, hobbies) ​ Usually when people are about to die they tend to not regret what they did, but what they didn't do. ​ Just remember if you do get rejected a lot or anything, be respectful about it and don't have a temper tantrum or let it affect your self worth.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:49 PM
1

Are you sure you're not projecting?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:15 PM
1

Oh, i gotcha. I was mainly focusing on the part where the hot girl said she needed to pry her ex. My bad
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:57 PM
5

She wants to fuck him, because he doesn't want to fuck her and shows no interest in her. ​ She literally told you that. She knows you'd easily fuck her and that's why she doesn't want to fuck you. ​ Not a shit test, you just didn't pick up the meaning behind their words. She's not testing you. She has literally no interest in you sexually, dude. ​ Lastly, you don't really want to fuck girls like this. They suck. They'll play mind games.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:13 PM
1

Yeah a lot of people take everything here so seriously and that's why I get self conscious posting here because apparently it makes me a misogynist to outsiders, but you right.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 04:52 PM
3

Military is either a great choice or a horrible choice for some of the people I know. Depends on your perspective and what you pursue in it. Don't let an internet forum make your decision man. Do a fuck ton of research and make your decision on your own.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:46 AM
7

Honestly, I post here a lot and agree with you. This sub is basically for people who are manipulative subconsciously, but don't realize it. They basically put on masks for who they are since they need that validation and once the girls realizes and it's gone she leaves him seeing him for who he is deep down. A depressive manipulative fuck who can't be happy on his own. So this sub is basically how to fuck girls, but never get emotionally vulnerable to someone. Because honestly if you're emotiona…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:05 AM
3

Are you....socially illiterate? Also just respect her choice. There's so many other girls out there.
/r/seduction17/11/18 08:09 PM
1

Not really, this is gonna sound strange, but I just have really pretty eyes/good posture. I'm pretty skinny. And I live in a college town. I'm like a 7/10, realistically.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:25 PM
1

It just means he's not blocked/didn't block her which doesn't mean contact So....you're the idiot. And insecure.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:05 AM
3

I just got out of a relationship and that's my biggest mistake. They'll respond super quickly and be really interested and I'll match it, but it hurts my chances every single time. Pretty much, I think you should leave her on open a few times, not respond as quickly, not show too much interest (like push/pull) but don't straight up ghost her. Always have her be the more clingy one and never match it. ​ The more I care about the outcome I always show it more subconsciously making her less interes…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:16 AM
9

Honestly, I think you started showing too much attention and got needy/clingy (in her standards) towards her. ​ Notice how she liked you more when you thought nothing of it and didn't really try? So, you tried too hard, in my opinion turning her off. ​ Women are fucking weird. Men are fucking weird. Dating is fucking weird.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:07 AM
2

Idk, but we have the same problem dude. ​ My standards are way too high and it's super detrimental to getting laid casually and when I do with someone who does fit those standards I fuck it up by trying too hard not to fuck it up.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:03 AM
6

This literally has no substance besides "you either understand attraction or don't and get her attracted to you or rejected. Hope this helps." ​ You spent an entire three paragraphs typing that shit out by rewording it over and over.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:41 AM
3

Him rejecting/not wanting them makes him more attractive in their eyes because he's seen as a challenge and isn't desperate
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:24 PM
1

Huh? He's on tinder currently, so I don't think he already has her # or Facebook
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:52 AM
1

You answered your question They think they're a weird hot guy.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:32 AM
-1

Nudes/streaks Also hardly anyone younger texts anymore Lastly a girl is much more willing to give you her Snapchat Seriously I swear you all are illiterate with girls
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:30 AM
-3

"what's your #/Snapchat and you'll find out" God, you guys really suck at flirting with women.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:52 AM
5

Yes with their actions, but not with their words. Why do you think people always complain all guys are the same/assholes? Not the manipulative shit though, that shit's fucked.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:40 PM
1

That's a good idea, but leave out the weird shit where you say "you seem like a potentially (lol) interesting person" Just say "hey, it was cool talking to you, wanna get coffee together sometime?"
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:02 AM
7

Yeah, honestly, you're a huge asshole who doesn't respect other people's feelings but your own. And something tells me that deep down you're insecure and that's why you disregard other people's feelings and try to sabatoge their relationships/your friendships. Then again you're young.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:59 AM
3

Her: "Yuengling is my favorite beer" You: "Where do you usually go to drink? I normally go to this place near my college" Her: she answers You: "cool, I'm gonna take you on a date there and let's get some beers together. What's your Snapchat/number" Then set up date over Snapchat/number. There ya go champ. Mentioning "date" and saying "let's do this together" always increases my success rate for some reason.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:53 AM
6

Kinda weird dude
/r/askTRP15/11/18 01:24 AM
-1

Usually in that case it's because they tend to get rejected. And honestly, based off the studies I just half assed read about, it usually is women. It relates to high SMV because it shows you have options.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:26 AM
3

So I ended up looking up more about it and everything and here's why girls come back when you "next" them It’s an ironic and not pleasant fact of human social life that not everyone is in a position to engage in social rejection, but when someone does, it’s immediately attractive. That person sees himself as having options
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:22 AM
-1

No but Google does https://www.google.com/search?q=why+people+get+obsessed+with+someone+psychology&oq=why+people+get+obsessed+with+someone+psychology&aqs=chrome..69i57.6295j0j7&client=ms-android-verizon&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8 It's basically drug addiction apparently. And it relates to your attachment style and shit.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:12 AM
5

Yeah, it happened after my last ex. Personally, I won't ever date anyone under 8/10 as shallow as it is. And personality turns me off so much more than it used to. She can be hot as hell, but if her personality isn't positive I'm out.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:05 PM
6

I literally just ask Never know until you try Do not do this with girls in your social circle or you'll be a creep Sometimes I'll get nudes, sometimes I'll get blocked, sometimes they'll say no and we keep talking. Who knows? But more importantly who cares what happens?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:09 PM
1

I always wait for them to text me
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:04 PM
1

Idk, I care mostly about their face Nothing beats an attractive girl's face who's out of my league. Also high cheekbones are the bomb Her hair color doesn't determine her interest in you, people have preferences and shit apparently dude
/r/askTRP13/11/18 04:54 AM
1

Then just deal with it. You can't change his behavior if you set a boundary and he still crosses it.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 02:39 AM
1

"Hey, I don't appreciate you criticizing my clothing style and I'm not going to keep taking it." Set boundaries. Ignore. And if it continues file a complaint.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 02:30 AM
2

Well it's a good thing you feel bad about hurting someone showing you don't lack remorse. And that's why you gotta be happy with yourself man while dating or you'll unintentionally hurt someone else emotionally in the process. Either way just work on trying to be a better person and good luck! Don't let your past mistakes define you.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:04 PM
6

Strangely enough once I stopped caring so much about other people liking/approving of me and started liking myself, they started to like me more.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:56 PM
3

Nah man, sometimes relationships just don't work out. Also, I gotta say your mental health declining is a quick way to ruin a relationship. That's basically the whole "frame" thing everyone here talks about. It's the common denominator in all my ruined relationships/flings. Next time just be a better partner, but don't blame yourself dude. Everyone goes through some shit. And I mean....can you really blame her for "leaving for a better option"? Time to start your path towards becoming that bette…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:54 PM
1

I don't agree with you, but he definitely lost when he said no.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:39 AM
1

Her saying Friday was offering an alternative Ironically, the best people to date are people who actually have shit going on in their life besides some random dude.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:25 AM
1

The same thing kept happening to me. I'm not sure if it applies in your case, but since I just went through a breakup I started treating them like my girlfriend after the first meeting. Such as being too available, too clingy, too dependent on the outcome, replying too quickly, not leaving them on open. Basically instead of treating them like an option I treated them as it was my last chance and I think it was a turn off. So hopefully that helps you. ​ Also, another thing is it's much easier to …
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:02 AM
2

Yes. By saying no you kinda fucked up your chances dude. ​ She told you a date she was free so she was obviously interested, just busy. But I personally think it's too late now.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:37 AM
1

Have you even talked to her yet?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:31 AM
2

It's just a part of dating. That's why it's basically a numbers game. ​ Space out your responses more when you chat a lot. You don't want to go into "boyfriend" mode instantly by always responding and talking every day.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:30 AM
6

The best opportunities don't come to those who wait Whatcha got to lose? Good luck my dude
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:04 PM
3

Next time ask her on a date in person
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:24 PM
2

Maybe, I don't really give a shit either way now
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:59 AM
4

No, but you should be improving your social skills in highschool. A lot of people in college/highschool stay friends, so it is beneficial. But don't be friends with the popular shallow people as they won't stay good friends/get far in life after highschool.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:07 AM
8

Get girl friends They'll tell you/show you.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:06 AM
0

Well she did get a boyfriend two weeks after so I don't doubt you. (She was moving anyways, so fuck it. I was devastated at the time. But it was a blessing in disguise.)
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:03 AM
18

I stopped reading, but I'll continue after this. None of my (20ish?) tinder dates have I ever spent more than $10 and I've hooked up with 15ish of them. Don't let someone use you for a free meal. Okay, I read the rest. Yeah, she's just using guys for free food, dude.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:51 AM
7

My girlfriend did this to me and she later said (after we broke up...) "What I wanted was for you to give me space and come back to you" So do that. Just start doing exactly what she's doing. And realize if she leaves for good you don't wanna be with someone who disrespects you, anyways.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:44 AM
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If you ever want anyone to hate you (guy or girl) point out their insecurities. ​ This isn't a shit test dude, you legitimately hurt her feelings. ​ There's a difference between standing up for yourself and being an asshole. Standing up for yourself would have been "Hey, I don't appreciate you making fun of my hands" Being an asshole is what you did.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:26 PM
2

Well shit better luck next time. Maybe she was just using you for free weed Can't win em all
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:40 PM
1

When she said "let's go back downstairs" you say "I'd rather do something else." Then just kiss her. Good luck next time
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:31 PM
2

That's why people don't respect you. You don't self-respect yourself enough that you want people to like you so you let them treat you like shit. ​ Ironically you wanting them to like you so badly is why they don't like you.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:00 AM
13

My ex-girlfriend was really hot and she did, as well. First off don't let it get to your head and make you insecure. Secondly, you can always make jokes about it (as long as you do it in the right way that doesn't make you seem insecure). Thirdly, accept that it's a possibility she may leave you at any time for any reason for someone else so you don't lose your sanity. ​ If you get a really hot girlfriend this will always be something that you'll just have to deal with. Just brush it off and don…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:59 AM
2

Idk if this is a troll or not, but here's what you do. Stop letting people use you, you fucking idiot. You don't win her back by being a doormat. And you shouldn't want to win her back (I know it's much harder said than done. I've been in your position before.) Start respecting yourself more, man. Why do you even want some random girl(person) who's a waitress to use your house/money for absolutely no benefit? ​ Kick her out, cut off all contact, don't expect her to pay you back, mark it off a lo…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:55 AM
2

I'm gonna ask you something. Why do you want people who don't give a single shit about you and relentlessly tease you to like you? You don't and never should. So start acting like it.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:52 AM
5

Completely kick them out of your life. Start building a new social life. These people are toxic for your mental health. ​ They're not your friends, they're using you. Cut off all contact with them and be ruthless about never letting them back into your life, again. ​ Once someone loses respect for you, it's very difficult to get it back. You're better off cutting contact.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:50 AM
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I watch porn way too much, admittedly. (as well as use social media and reddit) and it makes me too complacent. Such as not trying to pursue women (porn) or not trying to improve my social life/skills (social media) ​ I think that's why it can be inherently bad, because it makes you complacent. ​ Also, e.d and shit fucking sucks when you're getting laid. There's some other psychology effects for why excessive porn is bad for you too.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:46 AM
1

You sound like the type of dude too afraid to make a move so you get friendzoned. (hence the "I don't want a relationship/don't want to hookup) which I think (and I may be wrong) translates to you're too afraid of rejection. ​ Lastly, she's just some random girl you haven't even gotten to know yet, so you're making an awful lot of assumptions about her. ​ tldr; you're acting too much like a "niceguy"
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:43 AM
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You're being too needy/contacting her more than she contacts you/replying too fast/too dependent on the outcome. ​ She can sense it and I can too. Make her want you, not vice versa my dude. Girl's like the chase too.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:40 AM
2

First off stop blaming people for your misfortunes and start taking control. I can already tell you're somewhat of a pussy (no-offense) by your negative thinking. Everyone goes through shitty times in life, but they can either define you or make you bitter towards everyone/depressed. ​ Secondly, somewhat contradictory to my first point is stop being so harsh on yourself, man. It's cool. Everyone has imperfections and makes mistakes. Don't let your past mistakes define you as being "a loser", tho…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:36 AM
3

If you didn't suck at flirting and weren't afraid to escalate it you most likely could have hooked up with her that night. You shoud have said some shit like "hmm, wanna find out?" Or "hmm, maybe we should find out" Just saying.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:40 PM
10

Use your Reddit username too, not your real name
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:51 PM
2

Become happy with yourself. Think about why you're insecure and the things you're insecure about that you can change. Then try to fix them. The ones you can't is mental and you'll probably always have those, but deflect those thoughts as much as possible. This issue has less to do with women not liking you and more to do with how you view yourself. So don't focus as much on women for now.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:14 AM
0

What you're experiencing is sunken cost fallacy. I don't have any advice for you, but I hope that helps you.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:03 AM
11

You're insecure and take it personally when they don't like you. At least, that's what I'm getting from this.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:48 AM
3

Say it confidently, laugh about it, don't make it demeaning, assume she's attracted to you. If she isn't, it'll come off as creepy. And that's about it. It's all how you say it/her perception of you.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:00 AM
47

Are you stupid? Do you know how many women you can potentially meet through the gay friends you make? And you'd be making good money? ​ Dear lord man.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:07 PM
3

Being friendly means you're friendly, but won't take someone's shit or bend over backwards to please someone. You can be friendly and still stick up for yourself/beliefs. It's basically being nice without being afraid of offending someone. Being a nice guy means that you're just pretending to be nice to get something out of someone. And it means you're willing to go against your values/beliefs to agree with whatever someone else says.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:20 PM
2

Sounds like something a dude would tell girls to try to get laid Wasn't he a womanizer anyways?
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:36 PM
2

Being seen with other girls instantly makes you more attractive to other girls. There's like some study about it or some shit. And it's on the internet, so it must be true. Also, girls check me out much more often when I'm on a date with someone.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:33 PM
-5

Be honest about it man. Be honest about you haven't, but that you're willing to make up stories and then make them sexy as fuck. Don't lie to someone for your benefit. It's a horrible trait. Ironically, lying to her may benefit you short term, but it certainly won't in the long run. It'll be detrimental to you.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:52 AM
3

Quit the alcohol. Right now. This was the easiest way for me to become social. I know it sounds strange, but being an addict is most likely making you ashamed (or at least subconsciously) ashamed of who you are and fully opening up to people. ​ As a previous alcoholic of two years, quitting alcohol was one of the best possible things I could have done to become more social. May be different for you, but at least try it. Lastly, start making an effort to talk to people. Anyone for any reason. The…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:29 AM
3

lol you were too afraid of offending her that you stopped flirting with her and were too available and willing to please her. Also, it's very telling by how much you give a shit that you fucked this up that you were too dependent on the outcome (co-dependent) that you ruined it. ​ What she meant by you being a niceguy is that you stopped respecting yourself to make her happy, which doesn't make anyone (people, not just women) happy.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:09 AM
2

Try to come off much less controlling my dude Being dominant is good, controlling is not. Also, why the fuck dude you make a joke when you were acting like a control freak with no emotion? Tldr; She saw through your shit
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:25 AM
1

Sounds like he's independent of the outcome. He truly doesn't care which makes him desirable. They want him more than he wants them. And that's attractive as fuck.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:50 AM
4

First off you were too bitter with your reply. Secondly, you're not offering what she wants. Thirdly, no, she can make her own decisions. Don't be that guy who can't take rejection. It will kill any remaining attraction she has for you if she does break up with her boyfriend. Lastly, get some more options dude.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:29 PM
1

It's 2018, tinder is used for validation now
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:01 PM
1

I think that's depression dude
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:44 PM
2

If someone is interested, they'll usually tend to make a backup plan. Just ignore her. She'll hate it. But still, don't expect to go on a date with her.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:05 PM
2

That I can't really put into words. I think it depends on the two partner's level of codependency, too. One sure sign is when the relationship becomes toxic, because you don't trust your partner anymore. Such as having to always know what they're doing/who they're with when they've given you no reason not to. That's how you know you're too co-dependent and don't have a life outside of them. (Honestly, how I fucked up my last relationship. She was so hot, everyone told me she'd cheat on me and I …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:50 AM
3

I don't think relationships are worth it either, but that's what a healthy one is in my opinion. And I agree with you about how it shouldn't be work, but I still do think it involves work to be in one.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:07 AM
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You both love, trust, are committed to each other. You both support each other's goals and make the other person want to be a better person. You're completely honest with your partner. You both have the similiar views of what kind of future you want. And a healthy independent lifestyle with friends outside of the relationship. As well, as a healthy sexual life with each other. This is why most relationships don't work. People aren't willing to put in the effort and it's easier to abandon for som…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:42 AM
6

They've really changed (fucked up) tinder in the past year.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:24 AM
11

You get an intitial boost. After that they essentially hide your profile. So you'll pay. Constantly restarting it now gets you banned. Tldr; tinder is shit now.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:23 AM
1

With that reply, I honestly don't see how you can't get laid. That was funny as shit dude. Just keep saying shit like that and you're good. (I'm being completely serious.)
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:36 AM
0

Hey man, you approached 30 girls. As long as you weren't creepy about it, that's nothing to be ashamed of. You put yourself out there and there's nothing wrong with that. It's all in your attitude about how you need pussy/girls and coincidentally that's why you're getting rejected so much. Also, being bitter is a really good way to turn off girls, so start thinking positively. Nah, you don't need to get laid. You need to learn to love yourself. Incidentally, that's how you'll get laid.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:09 AM
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Some of this shit kinda is super misogynistic, like you said the userbase. I like coming here because the self improvement points are valid and not being clingy, but a bunch of people here are bitter and seem to be super controlling/insecure/derogatory towards women.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:58 AM
11

Did she call you a fuck toy for sleeping around? Is she slut shaming you for doing exactly what she said she's doing? Is she saying guys are only obsessed with sex when she says that's all she's looking for? I have so many questions and no answers (don't try to explain it to me, I'm just kidding about how ass backwards she is)
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:20 AM
2

Honestly man, I'm pretty open about sleeping around a lot to girls. Girls don't really seem to give a shit. Just unapologetic about it and openly talk about it without bragging. Usually I laugh about it. (You think they'd catch on and realize that it's super shitty to laugh about. But if you talk about it confidently no one really gives a fuck.) I think you're problem is your shyness makes people trust you less.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:23 AM
2

https://www.mantelligence.com/proven-reasons-you-need-to-dress-well/ I used Google, not tryna promote any specific website. But yeah, it's important. Also, remember layers do wonders. Wear a watch.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:05 AM
1

You're way too critical of yourself. You have a job, an apartment, in college, you excercise, you're attractive. Don't give up with the job interview. Keep trying. Don't give up until you get one. Quit the games until you get your shit done. Being stupid for five years isn't bad, but becoming complacent/negative thinking is.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:37 PM
1

It's amazing how much you give a shit about one girl
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:32 PM
2

Hey man, you took a shot and asked out a girl. That's not a bad thing and who cares if she said no. It's all good, there's so many other women out there. The reason her friend and her acted that way is because they're insecure. They had to put you down to feel better about themselves. I don't know if it helps, but just consider that you're better than them for that alone. Honestly I'd be non-chalant about it and ignore them. It'll piss them off to no end, because they'll know they can't get to y…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:51 PM
9

I don't condone this, but wait until they're fighting. Look up almost any article online asking women why they cheat and there's your answer. "He wasn't satisfying my emotional needs."
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:13 PM
2

Okay, well I disagree with a bunch of shit in here, excluding the personal improvement aspect/not relying on people for happiness/neediness behaviors being off putting but here's my take on it. ​ You crave external validation, because you don't really have a goal/purpose in life you're working towards. Personally, I think you may be chasing after validation (such as compliments, sleeping with women, etc.) rather than working on something that adds value to your life and makes you genuinely happy…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:01 PM
3

You're idealizing the fantasy of her, not actually her. ​ At least that's what I think.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:58 PM
3

"Avoid stepping into a great man's shoes" is probably the stupidest shit I've ever heard of. ​ Shouldn't you strive to be great? Also, who gives a fuck what type of car you buy? Buy whatever car you like. Not whatever car other people like or letting your brother's decision influence yours.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:08 PM
7

How long has it been? Sometimes I do too with this one girl, then I realize eh fuck it, she probably won't. I went off the fucking deep-end when we broke up. Shit was super embarrassing, honestly. Don't fucking get blackout drunk the week after a breakup if you still have a way to contact her.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:03 PM
3

"I don't really know, to be honest." ​ Because I don't and don't keep track of them. Just answer it honestly, dude.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:59 PM
1

It's a little silly to cater your social media to making a fake persona, but either way here's some tips. People with actual value, don't really give a shit what other people think. ​ Post pictures of you traveling, at exclusive events, at parties, with friends, being active, no selfies, nothing bragging, funny things, don't overshare( I do, but because I enjoy it so...fuck it), with attractive women/men. ​ Don't make it seem like you're trying too hard. It'll just be off-putting. ​
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:57 PM
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Well, circumstances may vary. But any time a girl has ever done this to me it's when her new guy/relationship failed and she is thinking back to what we had. As long as I didn't fuck it up and acted indifferent (not needy/desperate/mean spirited) towards the relationship ending. ​ One girl I used to talk with, never had a fight or disagreement or anything, texted me after she broke up with her emotionally abusive ex-boyfriend who she stopped talking to me for. And she isn't the only one. The gir…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:49 PM
2

Do what you like for yourself. Not for other people. Girls don't mind nerdy hobbies if you're passionate about it. They actually like it. You can have nerdy hobbies and be "cool"
/r/askTRP27/10/18 06:26 PM
3

Stop trying to find an LTR and start trying to find a girl you like. Then take it slow. Don't settle for just any girl so you can fill the void of being in an LTR. The only times I've ever gotten a girlfriend is when I haven't been actively looking.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 05:24 PM
2

Okay, while I don't fully agree with many ideals here and only nitpick what I like and nothing that's controlling towards woman. Here are some things I've learned since getting broken up with. ​ The person who cares the least get hurts the least. It sucks, but this is why you can't rely on anyone else for emotional happiness, as bitter as that sounds. I don't mean it in a negative way, but you have to be happy with/by yourself. Don't rely on someone else for your happiness. No matter how much yo…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 06:13 AM
7

Nah don't block her Just ignore her and make her wonder why you're not responding/miss you Bonus points: post dope snaps of you doing dope shit
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:59 AM
1

Don't really have a problem with that, but I just figured she'd be easier to sleep with again than some random girl
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:23 AM
1

Nah, but it's been a month or two since I got laid considering I stopped trying to focus on school but I just finished all my assignments
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:22 AM
43

Quit all the drugs right now. They're a temporary solution to your problems which only magnify them without you realizing. Your anxiety and depression won't be fixed, but they'll get much better once you stop using them. Start exercising and doing productive habits.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:00 AM
3

How'd that happen? Just curious. Crazy running into someone 20 years later.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:36 AM
5

Yes, but never works long term. I know how you're feeling, man. Stop thinking about her. Shit happens and we fuck up, learn from it. Don't try to recreate the past.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:35 AM
5

That makes it even worse dude imo Hint: you're not the only guy who got them
/r/askTRP18/10/18 07:07 AM
3

That's possibly the worst mindset to have. Be confident in yourself, dawg. I'm assuming your problem is you're not trying/hitting on/flirting with/making sexual advancements on girls.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 04:34 AM
33

You're making yourself too available. Don't ask her when she's free on the second message. It implies you have nothing to do. Talk to them for a bit. Then randomly hit them with the "hey I'm free tonight, let's do some activity" (preferably at night. Don't do day dates on tinder. Usually a waste of time.) Don't ask. Say "let's do (this)" Edit: Also, trust me. She remembers you. The more you try to make her remember you (respond fast, give too much attention, try to meetup too soon) the easier sh…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:56 AM
2

My advice is get laid (at least makeout) somehow and realize it's not as special as everyone makes it out to be
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:54 AM
3

Well...there's your problem. You're focusing too much on it, because you haven't done it yet.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:15 AM
1

While I think you have good intentions, you'll eventually lose your ability to flirt/social skills if you don't at least focus on making conversation with women.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:48 AM
18

Engineering, Accounting, Lawyer, Doctor, Management. College is basically a waste of money if you're not going for a high paying job. Job you have in college doesn't matter. As long as you can pad out your resume. Whatever you do make fucking connections. That smart kid in your class who gets all A's in a well respected major? Be his friend regardless of his status. Be friends with basically everybody who's excelling in their study. Join a fraternity. Join clubs. Get to know your professors on a…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:06 AM
7

So much of this.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:16 PM
1

Yeah dude, honestly not letting her/being controlling/insecure is the fastest way to lose a girlfriend despite what these people say. You're girlfriend obviously showed you she's trustworthy. (At this moment in time.) And well it depends, where are they doing it and what time? Either way she's going to go whether she wants to or not and her telling you she's going is a huge indicator she doesn't plan on cheating on you. The one thing you do have to worry about is her developing a crush overtime …
/r/askTRP17/10/18 06:18 AM
0

Honestly yeah, I wouldn't really mind it. It depends on the setting, though. (Such as like late at night at one of their dorms/houses/apartments. Then that's just fucking weird.) As long as she's happy in your relationship, you're not insecure and you trust her she's most likely not gonna cheat on you. And if she does, her loss. You know how many girls hangout with guys that they'd never even consider fucking? Don't take this shit too seriously, man. It'll make you super insecure. Focus on the n…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:57 AM
2

I think you're just depressed dude And having a "grass is greener" thing going on
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:54 AM
1

All me. It was becoming long distance. I stopped trusting her, became super clingy, started getting drunk a lot and just being an asshole, figured she'd party all the time. Basically did everything possible to lose your girl in the span of a week. (Thankfully it turned out to be a good thing. Started getting my life together/got sober/started working out and learned a few lessons about relationships and now I can hookup with random girls without feeling bad cause I don't cheat. Plus long distanc…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:58 PM
4

Do it in person and whatever you do be prepared for the awkwardness
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:38 PM
5

Don't shit where you eat dawg
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:22 PM
1

Eh, don't really mind, I like nudes and don't plan on meeting up with them anyways. I think it inadvertently gives me more validation. Plus making someone feel validated isn't much of a bad thing. Especially considering I'm getting free shit out of it.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:30 AM
1

Some girls truly don't like to text. One girl sent me one word responses and super fucking dry texter. She was really into me when we met up. Apparently, she just hungout with people a bunch and never really cared to use her phone. She was much more interested in talking to people in person and only used her phone to set up plans.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:02 AM
1

I use Snapchat solely for nudes for girls on tinder too far away to fuck Works pretty well. I hardly ever talk to them and get naked pictures every now and then. (I always screenshot it and they hate it, but they still send me more, not sure why.) Other than that, I mostly agree with you. But many young people hardly ever text anymore and use social media as their sole form of communication.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:53 AM
1

Honestly, I'm mostly doing it for myself. Trying to understand my faults and improve on them. You are right, though. I should be focusing on the present more in my daily life.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:27 AM
1

Well, because he doesn't appear to have those qualities that you listed.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:03 AM
1

I'm not really sure. We talked today for the first time in a few months for some reason (very short conversation) and while it didn't bring back feelings or was a bad conversation, I guess I was just curious. I tend to over think things more than I should. I don't even want to get back with her, just wanted to make sense of it. And thank you, I don't want to be average anymore. (To be fair I was much less than average while dating her, honestly. Thankfully our breakup actually made me want to ki…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:45 AM
3

Huh. Good point. Thank you. That actually makes a lot of sense. That's actually pretty eye opening, that sometimes relationships don't work out, because someone's need changes. Thanks, dawg. Also, I really need to stop forming relationships based off sex. Maybe that's why most of them don't work out.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:08 AM
1

"okay that's cool, lemme know if things ever change" Then just never text her again.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:43 PM
2

Hang out with them that asap, preferably at night, fresh in their mind dawg Same concept as if it takes longer than a week on tinder she's basically using you as her penpal bitch
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:22 AM
1

Man, I was a huge sex-less virgin from age 15-20 and once I started having sex with hot women it was great. I became addicted to it. For a while. Then, it just became lonely. Super fucking lonely. These people didn't truly care about me. I just made them happy/feel good at that time. It was a one-sided friendship. It wasn't genuine. I thought I was making emotional bonds but these people who were willing to instantly cut me out of their life for the smallest reason, sometimes no reason at all. D…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:23 AM
1

Sex made me feel more lonely, honestly when I'd sleep around. Apparently having guy friends is much better than sleeping around with random women, who would have thought? I think what truly makes a person happy is having a fulfilling life with purpose and meaningful relationships with others. Sex is just another drug with it's highs and lows. (Coming from a previous alcoholic pothead sex addict.)
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:19 AM
1

There's a psychology study somewhere about attractive people feeling more lonely due to this. People are intimidated to approach good looking males/females due to this. My ex was hot as shit, super fucking lonely, though. Plus she broke my heart(unrelated, but my first real heartbreak so included it). So idk dude.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:58 AM
3

Yeah, that's kinda the thing. I think it's mostly with younger girls. Not to be misogynistic or anything, but think about it, you have all these dudes texting you constantly/hitting on you constantly/it's much easier with technology/girls aren't being slut shamed anymore/drinking and partying is mainstream and even celebrated. You mix these all together and all the options they have and everything and then once you start a relationship with someone that young/sought after it's much easier for th…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:45 AM
1

I'm not blaming her, I'm blaming myself, that's why it was my mistake. Don't date girls in college. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:26 AM
4

Same thing happened to me, while I was sleeping around. Pushed away all my other options. The second we got into a relationship she slowly started losing interest. In the beginning the more I made it clear I didn't want a relationship, the more she liked me. Take that how you will. (She'll get bored of you when there's no chase.)
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:51 AM
0

Biggest mistake I made of my life was getting a girlfriend when I was sleeping around. So much wasted opportunity and lost my social skills/confidence/much more problems. I'll never make the mistake of dating someone again, unless she's absolutely perfect. (She won't be, everyone changes. Sometimes for the worse.)
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:46 AM
1

If you don't give a shit then why even make this post dude If you care so much about having the last laugh there's something deeply toxic within your thought process and it shows you genuinely do care If you truly "want to conquer the dragon"(lol) then just stop thinking about her and there ya go Lastly, I think you do have a problem replacing her if you're really putting this much god damn effort/overthinking into it. In a year or two re-read your post. Tldr; she's just some chick who cheated o…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:09 AM
9

You give way too much of a shit about this one girl who doesn't even seem worth it
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:44 AM
1

What's your workout routine tho
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:09 PM
12

She asks about you being okay, because she's concerned about your feelings and that you're not depressed. That's why she asks them if you're okay. Not because she still likes you. You gotta move on. And ironically enough, that's your best bet to get her back.
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:37 AM
2

I guess you're right, it's basically a catch 22. Within meeting someone for a few times, I can already tell if I'd date them or not. Then again, the thing is usually I end up coming off like I'm too desperate or whatever. The only times I've ever gotten a girlfriend is when I truly didn't want one, strangely enough. I think you just give off a certain vibe when you're happy with yourself whether you're in a relationship or not. This didn't really help you out much, but that's my thoughts on it.
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:25 AM
1

" I’m still lonely and want a girlfriend" If you're trying too hard to make girl's your girlfriend as opposed to getting to truly know her she's totally gonna pick up on that. You shouldn't want a girlfriend, because you're lonely. You should want a girlfriend, because you both enjoy spending time together.
/r/seduction08/10/18 11:51 PM
1

If they tell you this, you're probably not gonna meet up with them. Dates are for getting to know people better, in my experience they just want someone to talk to when they're bored.
/r/seduction08/10/18 11:47 PM
2

You answered your question. Doesn't matter how bland/boring you are. All you have to do is ask open ended questions and pay attention/be genuinely interested in what they're talking about to you. Don't be afraid to let a conversation naturally end. It's weird to keep going. Don't always be so serious, make a joke or two about what they're saying in a respectful manner.
/r/seduction08/10/18 06:47 PM
1

Don't do any of that shit. That's weird. This isn't a date. Even if it was that's still way too fucking over the top. It's Netflix and chill. Hug her when you great her. Make short small talk. Kiss her and then keep progressing/foreplay and then fuck her.
/r/seduction05/10/18 08:40 PM
1

That's the thing. If they're into it then it doesn't really matter. Start slow with jokes about making out and stuff. To be completely honest with you, either they were receptive towards my advances or thought I was an asshole and blocked me. Basically, I either got laid or blocked. (So don't do this with a girl in your friend group.) And yeah if she's not into it, laugh about it, realize she's "just another girl" and move onto the next. Take that L and bounce back.
/r/seduction05/10/18 08:37 PM
2

I got the most girls when I was an alcoholic who didn't really care what anyone thought so I'd always say/do stupid shit without being disrespectful. People just thought it was funny and being positive all the time helps. Learn to love yourself and laugh at your mistakes somehow Also not being afraid to joke about sexual stuff does absolute wonders
/r/seduction05/10/18 07:01 PM
15

Yeah pretty much, in my experience. I think it's more of the you come off as less desperate, needy and clingy. Plus you have your own shit going on and that's attractive to people. (Shit as in social life, hobbies, career, school.)
/r/seduction05/10/18 06:37 PM
1

No, he's saying he wants to get so used to the feeling of rejection that it doesn't phase him anymore.
/r/seduction05/10/18 04:10 AM
10

Everyone's bitter/upset about getting ghosted. I get ghosted all the time on tinder and I still feel this way, sometimes. You can't just turn off your feelings. But at least he has the right mindset.
/r/seduction05/10/18 01:32 AM
2

Sounds good my dude! And it's all good. Sometimes people check social media before their messages/bedtime and respond tomorrow. Absolutely nothing to worry about. Text her after all of this you're doing tomorrow! Not before!
/r/seduction04/10/18 10:29 PM
2

Yes. But stop worrying so much about it. Put your phone down for an hour or two and go do something. The best way to fix it is simply do nothing. Either say bye and wait for her to text you tomorrow or just don't respond and wait. Edit: Whatever you do, don't send texts trying to fix it. Or anymore texts at all. That will instantly fuck it up for you for good.
/r/seduction04/10/18 10:15 PM
2

Doesn't matter. It means she's annoyed, but you worrying about it is displaying the same qualities. Relax. Breathe. Stop overthinking. Go with the flow.
/r/seduction04/10/18 10:12 PM
2

Based off the way you worded this it sounds like she knows that you looked at her social media, saw she was online and then sent her a text about it. That is super creepy, needy, clingy, weird. These are the least attractive qualities to women. And men. If a girl doesn't respond then fuck it. She doesn't even have to respond at all. She'll usually get back to you unless it's been a day or longer or if you send her the shit like you just did. Go do your own shit where you're not focused on if a g…
/r/seduction04/10/18 10:10 PM
1

You best come back here on Saturday and tell me how it goes! I wish you the best dude! I'm sure it'll go well!
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:15 PM
2

" I almost get mad sometimes if they don’t reciprocate." First off stop trying to pickup women and see a therapist to fix your emotional problems before you consider a sexual relationship with someone else
/r/seduction04/10/18 05:54 PM
1

It's kinda strange, but anytime I go do a physical activity with a girl I'll always wear black/ dark blue/red, because pit stains suck if you're nervous. Seems like a fun date tho dude!
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:03 PM
2

Whatever you do don't get too drunk. Don't even get too tipsy. I know you're nervous, but do not let this make you drink more than your limit. You lose your composure, you lose. Hug her when you greet her and smile. Don't think about what to talk about. Ask her open ended questions and relate to them. Don't be that guy who talks during the movie. Don't agree with everything she likes (unless you genuinely do) Don't try too hard to please her. Don't be too formal, relax, it's okay to make a joke …
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:41 PM
4

Doesn't matter, it's only awkward if you make it awkward. Plus, if you handle the rejection well that'll only help you out in my opinion. (Not as in getting laid, but making a friend, having her tell her friends you're not a creep and so on)
/r/seduction04/10/18 07:19 AM
4

I had horrible social skills, but starting meeting people on tinder and talking to more people (just anyone. The clerk, the person in class, my boss, the guy walking by) creating conversation and got much better at it. Then I got a girlfriend and focused on only talking to her and they heavily declined Tldr; stop making excuses
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:04 AM
3

There's something about yourself that you're not happy with Ya gotta make an effort to change that so you start respecting yourself
/r/seduction03/10/18 04:15 PM
1

Nope. Doesn't matter. You're just more likely to get rejected, but that doesn't really matter, either. Also, having a really hot girlfriend is super overrated. I'll tell you that right now. Everyone doubts your relationship, it's easy to become super insecure/needy/jealous/untrustworthy, dude's are literally always hitting her up, catcalling her even when she's with you and it's obvious you're dating, everyone's always checking her out, blowing up her phone, dude's won't respect that she's in a …
/r/seduction03/10/18 07:16 AM
0

You lose your morals/human decency if you do sleep with her, regardless if you have a commitment or not. And yeah she totally will, but idk, up to you. I'd prefer to be a better person than that, but that's just me. You do you.
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:51 PM
3

She has a boyfriend, don't be a dick dude. Let that be someone other shithead's problem
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:41 PM
2

You're heavily misconstruing what I'm saying. You aren't nearly as confident as you pretend to be, I believe.
/r/seduction30/09/18 11:06 PM
1

What? No. I don't thank her. I text "I had a good time or a joke." Why the fuck would I thank her? What? Dude? Sex isn't rare for me at all. Why do you think that? I'm very good in bed. I know this for a fact. (I can even prove it as I used to be insecure about it and have multiple screenshots of conversations women telling me this. With their permission of course.) I don't text them constantly. I think you're confusing with me not waiting a week with texting them instantly back every single tim…
/r/seduction30/09/18 10:46 PM
1

Personally, I just can't say I agree with that. I guess we have different views on it. If I have sex with her on a first date I make it a point to leave and go home because I prefer sleeping in my own bed, text her as I'm walking to my car and wait for her to reach out again. (I always go to their house first date due to circumstances) I don't think that's being insecure. I think distancing yourself from them will just make them steer towards their other options. Cause...let's be honest...they h…
/r/seduction30/09/18 10:30 PM
1

Here's what I disagree with your post, even though your first points are excellent. The whole waiting for her to text first. Usually I'll text a girl right after a date (if we kiss/hookup) and say I had a good time. And then distance out my responses. Don't wait too long and let her reach out to you or the memories won't be fresh in her head anymore. The showing her the pink elephant thing kinda sounds like it shows insecurity to me. Like just be nonchalant about it. Leave out the "amazingly exc…
/r/seduction30/09/18 09:58 PM
1

1) Once the spark is gone it's usually gone. This related to your #3 and why you can't mantain a long term relationship. Why would they be invested in some random dude who distances themselves from them? 2) You already answered your own question. You mantain too much distance. 3) Again, you already answered this yourself, you make yourself too distant so they don't think you care about them as a person. It's okay to show interest in a person, but you're showing too much disinterest. You're not k…
/r/seduction30/09/18 09:33 PM
2

He should only get a dog if he can afford it/provide love for it tho Sometimes people who don't have any business owning an animal get a pet
/r/seduction30/09/18 07:08 PM
4

This applies to all humans, though. Not just women. Why do you think people want to be in a relationship with another person?
/r/seduction30/09/18 07:50 AM
2

Thing is (in my opinion) they're not treating her like objects as much as they're teasing them. It's basically what flirting is. Sure they may be turned on at first, but you'll never get a long term girlfriend treating a women like an object. Well a mentally stable girlfriend. As for in bed, I believe it's somewhat of a different story as it's hot to be dominated in bed for the majority of women. Don't confuse this as treating her as an object. If you're giving someone what they want they're not…
/r/seduction30/09/18 07:49 AM
8

Don't shit where you eat. Literally. Idk, dude you can pursue it by telling her how you feel, but it may end up kinda awkward unless you're willing to change jobs.
/r/seduction30/09/18 07:33 AM
3

No, I understand. I'm talking about the stereotypical "nice guy." (Like the ones in the subreddit niceguy.) Because I was a huge one in my last relationship near the end. I wasn't genuinely nice. I was only nice to get self validation from her, because my self-esteem was so low. (Due to alcoholism.) And I resented her when she stopped liking me. Which isn't actually being a good person at all. That's what I meant. Some people are genuinely nice and don't expect anything from someone, but they're…
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:52 AM
5

Approach them and find out. If they're not and show it/tell you then respect their decision and walk away. They know better than we do so they can tell you much easier.
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:43 AM
4

Most times I go for a kiss I say "fuck it" and go in for a kiss. Tonight I said "I was waiting until (your pet) got off to do this" and went in for a kiss. (And I was, because I genuinely didn't want to hurt her pet.) One time I said "This is a weird point in the movie to kiss you, but I've been waiting to all night." (It was a strange scene and I was nervous and started counting down.) I basically tell them I'm going to kiss them before I do. Completely honestly, I just usually tell them how I'…
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:32 AM
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So pretty much you're post is about treating her like a person and not just complimenting her to get something in return. Because, let's be honest, most guys who say shit like that truly are just being nice hoping she'll like him back which in reality isn't nice at all. In other words, the "bad boy" you described is actually nicer than the other people, because deep down "nice guys" aren't actually nice. Plus, he knows how to have fun. I may be wrong, but I'm getting that vibe from your post. Am…
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:24 AM
1

Maybe you're right. Maybe I do have a jaded view. I think this concept mostly applies to younger women as I'm college aged. Thank you, though. That makes me feel much better. I don't hold any bitterness towards her or anything, but it's weird how every time I'm more emotionally invested they get turned off. And this is after multiple relationships/hookups with many girls my age.
/r/seduction29/09/18 07:47 PM
6

A lotta people will shit on me for this(outside of this subreddit), but save making your feelings known until you're actually dating them. I feel like it comes off as emotionally insecure to them. I feel your pain man, shit sucks.
/r/seduction29/09/18 07:27 AM
3

Ya gotta fuck as many different women as possible It's gonna suck and make you feel lonely as fuck and you'll compare everyone to her but that's what helped me in the long run (this is probably horrible advice, not gonna lie) Then I became attached again to someone, started dating them and fucked that up so back to square one Idk you probably should cut contact and see if she comes back
/r/seduction29/09/18 07:00 AM
3

"what's your #, we should hangout sometime." It's more of a statement and less of a question. (excluding the first part.) 2.Maybe, but personally I feel like that would be weird during your first interaction with a stranger in a public setting. Depends. You should have asked more open ended questions. That seems a little awkward to keep sitting there.
/r/seduction28/09/18 07:27 PM
1

I do well with women, but I can't fucking keep them interested for the life of me due to my previous alcoholism/getting too attached over time. Is that an option? If not, then 1.
/r/seduction28/09/18 07:10 AM
0

Multiple. I mean like half block me instantly, half are down to. That makes sense that they'd be considering it. Do you think me not responding/acting needy/reacting to them leaving me on open influences their decision?
/r/seduction28/09/18 02:00 AM
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That's not the question. It already works for me. I'm curious why they ignore it at first and leave me on open, but then an hour or two later say "that sounds like fun."
/r/seduction28/09/18 01:55 AM
1

I do and it works or they block me, so why'd I stop doing it? It literally weeds out wasting my time playing bullshit texting games. I'm upfront with my intentions. That's not the question, though.
/r/seduction28/09/18 01:51 AM
8

Don't grow a beard, that's stupid. Stubble is where it's at. Edit: Girls say they like beards. But they love stubble more. Five o clock shadow will always be your best bet.
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:34 AM
3

I'mma let you finish, but you're being a major dick. But dude, just be her friend. There's plenty of women out there. If you made your intentions known and she's not into it just let it go. You can meet her cute friends and shit.
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:14 AM
19

Don't. Treat her like a friend. She doesn't have any interest in you and you should respect her decision.
/r/seduction27/09/18 06:58 AM
3

You didn't tease her at all dawg. The convo is too formal. You didn't ask an open ended question. Your conversation is as dry as my current sex life.
/r/seduction27/09/18 06:50 AM
2

Nah, but I have absolutely no fucking clue how to connect to men and it makes me way too emotional towards women
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:33 AM
1

If you have the right personality/mindset you're already in the top 1%. It has nothing to do with how your life is going. Looks do matter. But as long as you're a happy/fun/positive/emotionally secure person pursuing your goals, you'll be alright. You just gotta meet the right girls that match your personality. Now if you're ugly as shit, idk what to tell you. Just go for girls that aren't as attractive.
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:23 AM
2

Well mantain a relationship with girls. Flirting was a poor choice of words. And yeah it basically is nonsense, I have ass wrote it up. But I still think there's some good points. Basically just having your own life outside of her. Like, if she left you'd be completely okay, but sad.
/r/seduction26/09/18 09:45 PM
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Why are things stacked against you? Why do you feel like the victim? When I had no job, didn't go to school, lived with my parents, was an alcoholic, smoked cigarettes at 20 I could still get attractive girls to fuck me. The odds were stacked against me heavily, but I didn't let the way I thought ruin my chances. And okay fair enough, I was being an asshole.
/r/seduction26/09/18 09:42 PM
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There's a difference between being realistic and being pessimistic. What you're being is a pessimistic little bitch.
/r/seduction26/09/18 09:18 PM
6

Space it out but not too long. Ask to Meetup after a week or two. If they always make excuses, stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction26/09/18 07:44 PM
1

Hmm, maybe my last girlfriend was just emotionally unavailable then
/r/seduction26/09/18 04:02 PM
1

That's kinda the point
/r/seduction26/09/18 06:04 AM
1

I restart my tinder a lot, because the intitial boost is a real thing.(and then no matches unless you pay) I usually keep it up for 3 days. My tinder standards are high, I only go for 7-10. I get around 5-10 matches a day. So, let's generously say that's 25 people in 3 days. Out of those, I'll get an initial response 10 times. Out of those about only 5 keep responding. Out of the ones who keep responding I'll usually get their Snapchat, so that's 5. Out of that most keep responding but usually o…
/r/seduction26/09/18 05:32 AM
1

It was until I got a girlfriend and became a huge cuck ass bitch. So you right dawg.
/r/seduction26/09/18 03:02 AM
13

I always thought this was bullshit since everywhere says "don't use pictures with women" I deleted my tinder after only getting unattractive matches. Redownloaded it right after your reply and my ex is insanely attractive so I used to the best picture of us/her looking really happy. And holy fucking shit dude. Edit: dude I fucking love you. Thanks for actually making my tinder matches so much hotter.
/r/seduction25/09/18 09:02 PM
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Society doesn't do any of that. Most people are too busy giving a shit about themselves they don't care if you don't have a girlfriend or anything. Don't let a fantasy mentatality make you go crazy. (40 yr old virgin is a comedy, not a realistic expectation of life.) You gotta try having a more positive outlook on life. Don't always expect the worst of everything. You'll always be miserable. You certainly can force attraction. Be confident, in control, a leader, not afraid, funny, charming, witt…
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:32 PM
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You seem really sensitive too, though. Otherwise you wouldn't care so much. Everyone is man, no big deal. Edit: For real man work on improving yourself/your outlook on life/your social value and I swear you'll get all the girls. Always remain calm. Be confident. If they reject you, fuck it, they're loss. Get some hobbies. Don't put women on a pedestal. Don't base your self worth on how other people view you. Don't be clingy/desperate/needy. Have your own life/goals/friends/hobbies. Make people l…
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:48 PM
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Make a move next time. If you're talking all night she's probably into you. Just fuck it and go in for the kiss when you're alone. And then ask her out on a date before you leave (ice cream/bubble tea always works well for me) Don't over think it. Just do it.
/r/seduction01/09/18 03:50 PM
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Just do it, fuck it. What's the worst that'll happen? She'll either think you're weird or not reply and that's not a big deal at all. Or she might think it's thoughtful you thought of her. Tldr; just do it (bout to get sued by Nike)
/r/seduction01/09/18 03:14 PM
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I kinda see your problem. The girls can tell you are insecure and don't really care about them as a person. You just want them there to fulfill your needs. I suggest therapy if it really bothers you that much. (I really don't mean to be a dick or offensive, we all have our faults.)
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:52 PM
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Girls don't need tinder as much as guys. They can easily go out and just meet someone who's interested in them right away. For guys, that's not nearly as much of the case. What I used to message girls when they wouldn't reply for a week or so is "nailed it" Usually I'd get ghosted again, but I didn't come off as a salty douchebag who can't handle rejection. (Despite doing some massive cringe worthy things after a few rejections in the past.) People have shit to do and you're just some random dud…
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:50 PM
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