I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this.

Afrodezi · 2018-09-01T05:22:55+00:00

Well.... yeah. You’re acting SUPER salty when you say that 😂 Especially since its a given. Because you can... I don’t know... DO IT YOURSELF? 😂

What you’ve found is an A grade turn off. Stop doing it and just unmatch yourself 🤷🏾‍♀️

WannaSeeTrustIssues · 2018-09-01T10:17:32+00:00

You. You are your own biggest obstacle. Your issue isnt tinder. Your issue is with you. Work on you. Become someone you want to be, and others will see it too, until then remember rule 1&2 of tinder.

Be attractive.
DONT BE UNATTRACTIVE. PASSIVE-AGRESSIVE BITTERNES IS SERIOUSLY UNATTRACTIVE

manual_focus_life · 2018-09-01T04:27:48+00:00

"go ahead and unmatch if you are done with me"

I'm a dude and even I thought "you need to chill out", and that was before I read your next sentence. It sounds abrasive, and gives off a niceguy™ impression. I'd followup once. Maybe twice? But if it came to needing to followup a third time, I'm unmatching.

I still haven't turned off Tinder notifications, and got one today that said "What's the best way to deal with ghosters? Chatting with new fun people!" The fact is for most people most matches are gonna be a swing and a miss. Just keep swinging.

ethical_pa · 2018-09-01T04:09:39+00:00

Now that you got responses from a lot of them, and their reluctance to a unmatch you is a salient, you should use this leverage to establish yourself as the buyer.

BigDickEnergy123 · 2018-09-01T14:50:50+00:00

Girls don't need tinder as much as guys. They can easily go out and just meet someone who's interested in them right away. For guys, that's not nearly as much of the case. What I used to message girls when they wouldn't reply for a week or so is "nailed it"

Usually I'd get ghosted again, but I didn't come off as a salty douchebag who can't handle rejection. (Despite doing some massive cringe worthy things after a few rejections in the past.)

People have shit to do and you're just some random dude on an app that doesn't really have any significant value in their life. I don't mean any offense, but look at it that way and that's why they have a problem when you send them that.

Llleblanc1986 · 2018-09-01T06:56:13+00:00

What's wrong with meeting women in person?

Messisfoot · 2018-09-01T18:43:37+00:00

dude, it's an online dating app, no one (should) takes those seriously.

all you're doing is telling women you're insanely desperate.

EDIT: guys, as bad as OP's approach to women may be, we shouldn't be downvoting. If anything, this post should be made as visible as possible so that other guys like him may learn a lesson. by hiding this post, we are just going to end up promoting this behavior.

One_Insanity · 2018-09-01T20:59:40+00:00

After reading your OP and your replies.

Only one conclusion is appropriate.

Chill the fuck out

Seriously. This goes for you and everyone who's not popular with women.

Stop gauging your worth by the amount of pussy you get because you don't get any pussy. So why the fuck is that your point of reference.

When I see this much anger and rage it tells me one thing. And only one.

Give up. Fix yourself. Come back to the quest of getting your dick wet at a later date. You're way too underleveled.

Title	I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	73
Date	September 1, 2018 4:04 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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