Hey boys,

Recently got involved in an LTR about a month ago - been seeing the girl for about five months.

Consistent sex and consistent affection. Buys me meals. Does my dishes. Very submissive and sweet.

But she's starting to the see the reality of me - you know, getting comfortable - and its been a little rockier as of recent:

  1. She's looks and oggles at other men in public - can't tell if a shit test or a subtextual sign attraction is waning. But she still gives me the eyes of someone smitten too.
  2. Subtextually, she has told me that she feels the power is now in her hands.
  3. She just moved two hours away but we're still seeing eachother once a week.
  4. More bitchiness - trying to get her way more, more of a battle when I'm trying to make a decision.
  5. She's been a bit more posessive of her phone and turns it face down when we're together. But she's insecure about my phone too - I have never given her my passcode which she tried to lure out of me recently.
  6. Tells me her libido is low when I make sexual advances. Still have a lot of sex though. I initiate 70% of the time.
  7. A bit more disrespect

I don't know if these are signs of someone cheating, someone losing attraction, or just typical LTR non-sense. I'm thinking pretty seriously about killing the puppy by ending our relationship because I feel overly invested and I think I've lost some ground (frame) I can't recover.

What's been your experience with LTRs and when do you end it?