I've gone on several 1st dates now (mostly from Tinder) that have gone varying ways, from no escalation at all to escalation up to several make out sessions throughout the night (couldn't get them to my house though). For the most part, the girls seem to be generally having a good time with me. Yet, they all end up the same way: ghosting me for the 2nd date. Maybe I'm asking for the 2nd date too soon? How long should I be waiting to contact them again? Really is starting to boggle my mind on what I'm doing wrong.