I've had a horrible experience with two of my exes, one cheated on me and the other just ghosted me and we never spoke again. I started reading TRP after both of these accidents, but I never deeped it in and never understood it properly. I never practiced it properly. I would just read theory and that would be it. That is why these things keep on happening to me.

But I've meet a new girl and I am definitely catching oneitis. What to do to stop this ASAP, because there are a bunch of green flags. But there were a bunch of green flags with other girls in the past as well and these relationships ended up very very badly.

I am lonely and that is definitely one of the reasons why I am catching it. How to fix this?