I'm really good at flirting and being sociable when I'm at work. I'm bubbly and whatnot most of the time. I joke a lot, whatever. But when I go to other bars its different. If I'm drunk yeah sure, I'm fine, but I mean sober.

I don't neccessarily act different, it just feels different. Like I'm out of my comfort zone or something. Anyway, is there anyway I can mindfuck myself into thinking I'm still at work or something?

Sounds like a good solution, although delusional, might be extremely effective if its possible.

And also, how do I maintain "state" so to speak. I always find myself getting stupid or doing something beta or many things beta when I'm in a relationship, but fine when I'm not.

So can I also trick myself into not doing this too. I'm a lot better than I used to be, but I want to smash every night now that I know its possible. In order to do that I have to be cool with as many women as possible and not beta that shit up, which is easy to do when you have multiple sex parteners.