Background info:
I'm in college and this girl and I hooked up for about a month or so and we were kind of dating but not really. We broke up (in November) and recently started talking more often again. She kept sending what I thought were signals she was into me again. She texted me every once in a while, she replied to my snap stories saying they were hilarious, trying to get my attention to say hi to her in public, etc. She flirted with me at bars a few times, but I brushed most of it off.
Story:
I think: if she keeps initiating, maybe she wants me to ask her out or do something. So I ask her to lunch (in Spanish, which is how I used to talk dirty to her btw) and she agrees. [Note: I had read something about how compliance was a good indicator of attraction if nothing else was certain so I went by that.]
We get lunch and the first thing she asks me is: "Why did you ask me to lunch? Is there something you want to say". I tell her it's simply a lunch between two friends. She says oh... ok. Lunch goes well, she laughs a lot and compliments me on stuff. I mention I play guitar and she REALLY wants to know the songs I can play but I only tell her one.
After lunch, she sees me from her bus, takes a picture and sends it to me.
Me:"i heard that guy's rendition of _____ is crazy".
Her: "i wouldn't know".
Me: "wanna hear for yourself?"
Her: "yes"
Me: "how's tonight sound?"
Her: "wdym"
Me: "do you want to hear the song"
Her: "I do!"
Me: "do you want to hear it tonight"
Her: "I do"
Me: "if you can get a ride to my place, I'll play it for you"
Her: "Oh I can't do that"
Me: "ok no worries"
My conclusion is she didn't want to come over or else she would have asked me for a ride since she knows I have a car. What do you think? Where did I go wrong?
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