I like a girl who has so many red flags, its like a fuckin construction zone. Been abused badly, 3 kids with 2 dads, daddy issues, 27, one kid has special needs. One ex is a psychopath loser. Just had a baby with a dude she has no intention of being with, hes already paying to help her. Basically a welfare queen. Smokes weed and drinks, not many girlfriends. We used to be toxic to each other.

But we get along great now that I started using TRP wisdom in my life. We have fun together, same interests, we beat up a guy together after he attacked me at the bar over her. Weve been fucking on and off for 3 years and if anything its gotten better. She motivates me and I really love her kids. I dont want to be a dad but I like being a stepdad, a lot. The newborn is awesome. She isnt trying to get my money and I dont have to pay for pussy. I used to offer her money for shit, she wont take it unless its a bottle of gin for us to drink.

So tell me what to do. Im bonded to this girl, im kinda secure as a man, but deep down I know im playing with fire. Im supposed to be in monk mode because im still swallowing the pill but im addicted to this girl. My frame is strong with her, she shows respect, but if I want to maximize my life I need to just Next her?? How do i next someone that has been through Hell and back with me? I know shes not a unicorn but shes a badass bitch. I have no interest in marriage or monogamy. Give me advice. Is it ok for me to be friends with a girl that I fuck? Im pretty sure youre not supposed to plate an ex until youre strong with the force, and I dont think im there yet. At all! Help Red Pill