I have poor self image, how do I fix this?

ardrich · 2017-03-22T11:19:07+00:00

First step is to put yourself on a pedestal, not girls. It's exactly the other way around. You'll get succes with women once you feel good about yourself. The only way you can do this is by actively bettering yourself. Go to the gym and gain some muscle, pick up a couple of books from the sidebar, apply what you learn. It's really easy to feel sorry for yourself because you don't have succes with girls, but it takes a man to accept your current self and invest in it.

BIGJIM2007 · 2017-03-22T10:54:00+00:00

so what is it you want to know, boss?

_Tactleneck_ · 2017-03-22T14:01:55+00:00

Consider if you were 100lbs overweight.

Did you get there overnight? No. It was likely years of choices and consequences.

Can you lose that weight overnight? No. It will likely take months and maybe a year+ to do so. But you still get there via choices and consequences - this time healthy ones.

Have patience, it's an incremental process. Success in life takes daily discipline to the process and you rarely make a giant leap to becoming a badass. Even so, it's after months of diligence.

There is no secret other than consistency over a long period of time. Have a realistic time frame to unlearn all of these bad habits and mindsets of yours, but work on them constantly.

Like one person said, you can move your body and mind in a way that presupposes you know there are girls that deserve you and want to fuck you, then your belief will follow. It snowballs: actions > belief > actions > belief > etc.

vorverk · 2017-03-22T14:05:29+00:00

It can take months, probably years and a lot of work. Just keep reading, improving and practicing. You can get very far from where you are, but remember its a marathon, not a sprint.

TehJimmyy · 2017-03-22T14:12:46+00:00

RemindMe! 1 day okay

thepitman · 2017-03-22T16:47:21+00:00

I don't know how to help you but I can tell you what's been helping with my self image.

I was depressed and very underweight. As time went on I became more narcissistic. I believe that I am better than a lot of people and that I'm on the road to greatness. Women are gonna line up cause I'm gonna be a beast. I know it will happen if I continue my work because I'm becoming better each day. This year is going to be my year.

I'm not a fan of the dark triad but I slowly see results.

Be like the guy that made that video. Narcissism is key.

Title	I have poor self image, how do I fix this?
Author	X234556
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Date	March 22, 2017 10:51 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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