I remember back when I was 20, I was fit and in great shape. I could spark up a conversation with most people, make some friends, and I feel like I had some sort of game at least. Unfortunately in the area I lived in, decent looking women were few in number. You had a lot of overweight/obese women who were trashy, usually nothing other than white or black women, and that was it in regards to diversity. Now you did have some attractive women for sure, especially attractive white girls, but it seemed like they all went for a certain kind of guy who in some way was socially connected in the cliques and had higher value to them.

Cold approach and that type of game just didn't work and things seemed so social circle oriented.

After the age of 21 I moved out west to a big city and I really feel like now, things such as game, how good you look, and how bold you are in approaching women play a big role. I've approached women, talked to them, gotten numbers, taken them out on dates, and taken them home. In my old location I tried that twice, quickly got a reputation both times and girls found it creepy that some stranger would approach them.

Only difference is that I have gained weight now so I should be doing worse and my game is more or less the game.

What are your thoughts? Could I be on to something?