A potential LTR of 7 months hit me with this out of nowhere today. I knew the correct response is "Ok", but I called her instead. I kept calm and had my usual light tone, asked her what's up.
"I don't think we should be seeing each other anymore, blah blah blah"
There was my second chance to say "Ok", but I didn't. The whole situation didn't seem right and I knew she had some family related drama just the day before (last time she had similar drama she acted almost alike, only then she asked me to meet up and broke down crying telling me she doesn't know how I feel about her and that she's probably not enough and it is fucking with her head).
So I called her out, and told her that she's lying to me and to herself and that such explanation wont suffice. She ten shifted the conversation to her asking why would I want to be with someone like her and that she feels nothing for me. Which again, given the similarity and the background of the situation didn't seem right.
I ended the conversation with saying hit me up once you'll figure out what you're really afraid of, and once you do, know that I'm free this Saturday and we're going for drinks.
Now, I would like your opinion, am I correct in speculating that she's just trying to push me away because of the anxiety from the family drama is too much to cope with the dread of seeing me (I won't circlejerk about my SMV, but I'm doing great on the money and looks department, but my inner mindset is lacking, I won't lie.). Or am I just being a fucking retard and my hamster is in another level at this point?
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