I don't posle often here, but Im a lurker for a long time and something happened the other day which baffles my mind and I need someone to clarify what exactly happened since I can't make any sense of it myself.

Basically, I'm a decent looking guy, around 6'2" and around 230 lbs since I go to the gym pretty seriously. I've heard multiple times how I give off a player vibe to women, which Im trying to play off of in social interactions with them.

So I was at the club and approached an easily 9/10, beautiful girl all around and I felt instant IOI's, had a lot of questions from her and closeness which meant she was interested heavily in me and this was like 5 mins into the convo. I basically then started to get physical with touching and we ended up dancing and kissing each other.

The problem was that she was with a lot of her friends and used it as an excuse to not go to my hotel, and I just send her to her hotel, because they were going to travel home on the other day and there was not time to fuck her, since it was already in the morning. This happened in other country on a vacation, it wasnt just a random night club in my home town.

So I was fine with this since I already kissed her and there was heavy interest involved and we decided we're gonna just text each other and see each other when we get to our home country.

So I go to her facebook, and I found out she actually has a boyfriend, so she never really accepts my invitation there and it's just radio silence from then on. What the hell? What was the point of this hook up if there was nothing coming out of it?

Like there wasn't even some texting or anything after this whole hook up and making out, just straight up ignoring. Can I get an explanation what was probably the reason? Did I scare her off with a player vibe and she thought I will just use her for sex? Was it that she regretted our interaction when she woke up and realized she has an LTR? I feel like it's just emotions in the moment and then she just didnt wanna deal with me, but I dont know.