Crosspost "I [24M] am a straight man. I feel like I have a crush on my best friend's [24M] boyfriend [24M]." from /r/relationships:

I'm having some really strange feelings right now. I'm straight, have never found a man attractive before, and have been dating my wonderful girlfriend (soon to be Fiance') for the last 4 years now. I've been best friends with Keith, who is gay, for the last decade. Around 6 months ago Keith started dating a guy named Adam. We all got along really well and my girlfriend and I became quite close with Adam. They live a couple hours away so we only see them every month or two but we're always talking in groupchats, etc.

The last few weeks I've started to feel like I have a bit of a crush on Adam, which is really freaking me out. I don't find him physically attractive (and I still haven't found another man physically attractive), but I just find him to be so funny / smart, clever, etc. Just basically the type of feeling you get when you have a silly crush on someone. I have no idea what this means or how to handle it.

TL;DR: I'm a straight man who feels like he has a crush on another man. What does this mean?

Posted by WeirdFeelingsThrow | 4 May 2018 | Link