I know what I need to do in almost every situation. I know what goes in everybodys mind and I can understand why something has happened. But I don't act on it and by that I mean I can't act on it. I just don't have the balls. And I don't know what to do.I know this is not the right place for this question but you guys do try to help men who has not yet become an individual in the game. So as a man I want to know how do I make myself to respect me and try to make myself happy rather than trying to please people around me. As that's what people teached me and that's all I can do. If this isn't really the correct place than you can just erase this.